A film of astonishing emotional depth, accurately portraying real life and situations. Everything that happened to Sebastian on screen happened to me in exactly the same way in real life.
I don't understand what sex and bed scenes other reviewers are talking about-when you fall in love, if you're not a complete wreck, you dream of mutual attention and recognition, not just bedroom pleasures.
Sebastian's parents do indeed react very gently, but the shock of the parents, who in the best Norwegian traditions do not unleash their aggression on the child, is left off-screen. This is a genuine reaction, not theatrical. They simply believe in other methods of upbringing. Similarly, many people I know in Denmark, Norway, and Sweden practice such a gentle approach to children.
Yes, everything is exactly as shown in the film-you stand by the window and worry, think, talk to yourself, and still can't understand who you are. All the phrases, behavior, and thought patterns are taken from real people. Of course, not everyone feels and thinks this way, so not everyone understands that it is realistic-people may simply feel differently and therefore not understand this film or find common ground with it.
For me, Sebastian will forever remain a film of poignant longing, dreams, sadness, and sorrow about the fact that I never met such a Sebastian, but was him and experienced a similar story as he did with Ulf.
