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The High 5 Habit: Take Control of Your Life with One Simple Habit Hardcover – September 28, 2021
In her global phenomenon The 5 Second Rule, Mel Robbins taught millions of people around the world the five second secret to motivation. Now she's back with another simple, proven tool you can use to take control of your life: The High 5 Habit.
Don't let the title fool you. This isn't a book about high fiving everyone else in your life. You're already doing that. Cheering for your favorite teams. Celebrating your friends. Supporting the people you love as they go after what they want in life.
Imagine if you gave that same love and encouragement to yourself. Or even better, you made it a daily habit.
You'd be unstoppable.
In this book, Mel teaches you how to start high fiving the most important person in your life, the one who is staring back at you in the mirror: YOURSELF.
If you struggle with self-doubt (and who doesn't?) ...
If you're tired of that nagging critic in your head (could somebody evict them already?) ...
If you're wildly successful but all you focus on is what's going wrong (you're not alone) ...
If you're sick of watching everybody else get ahead while you sit on the couch with your dog (don't bring your dog into this) ...
...Mel dedicates this book to you.
Using her signature science-backed wisdom, deeply personal stories, and the real-life results that The High 5 Habit is creating in people's lives around the world (and you'll meet a lot of them throughout this book), Mel will teach you how to make believing in yourself a habit so that you operate with the confidence that your goals and dreams demand.
The High 5 Habit is a simple yet profound tool that changes your attitude, your mindset, and your behavior. So be prepared to laugh and learn as you take steps to immediately boost your confidence, happiness, and results.
It's time to give yourself the high fives, celebration, and support you deserve.
- Print length264 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHay House Inc.
- Publication dateSeptember 28, 2021
- Dimensions6.31 x 0.93 x 9.31 inches
- ISBN-101401962122
- ISBN-13978-1401962128
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About the Author
Her groundbreaking work on behavior change has been translated into 36 languages and is used by healthcare professionals, veterans' organizations, and the world's leading brands to inspire people to be more confident, effective, and fulfilled.
As one of the most widely booked and followed public speakers in the world, Mel coaches more than 60 million people online every month and videos featuring her work have more than a billion views online, including her TEDx talk, which is one of the most popular of all time.
There's nothing Mel loves more than making a real difference in people's lives by teaching them to believe in themselves and inspiring them to take the actions that will change their lives. Mel lives in New England with her husband of 25 years and their three kids, but she is and will always be a Midwesterner at heart.
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- Publisher : Hay House Inc.; Standard Edition (September 28, 2021)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 264 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1401962122
- ISBN-13 : 978-1401962128
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.31 x 0.93 x 9.31 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #29,696 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #254 in Motivational Management & Leadership
- #346 in Business Motivation & Self-Improvement (Books)
- #678 in Success Self-Help
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Mel Robbins is the creator and host of the award-winning The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the most successful podcasts in the world, and a #1 New York Times bestselling author. She has amassed 28 million followers online and is considered one of the most respected experts in mindset, life improvement, and behavior change. The Wall Street Journal calls her a “billion-view podcaster” and TIME Magazine says she gives millions of listeners around the globe “a reason to believe in themselves.”
Her books have been translated into 50 languages and include the #1 New York Times, #1 Amazon, #1 Audible, and #1 Sunday Times bestselling The Let Them Theory, which is one of the most successful non-fiction book launches in history, with almost 4 million copies sold within four months of its release date. She is also the author of the multimillion-copy-selling The 5 Second Rule, The High 5 Habit, and seven #1 audiobook releases on Audible.
USA Today calls Mel “a force to be reckoned with.” She is a global phenomenon in the publishing industry and podcasting. Her Boston-based media production company, 143 Studios, produces award-winning content, podcasts, events, audio series, online courses, journals, and books, along with professional development education for partners like Starbucks, Ulta Beauty, JP Morgan Chase, LinkedIn, Headspace, and Audible.
The Mel Robbins Podcast has won some of the most prestigious awards given to podcasts, including Webby, Signal Awards, and more. It was also recognized as one of Apple Podcasts' Top Shared and Followed Shows of 2024 and 2023 and Spotify Top Global Shows of 2024. Notable accolades for Robbins include being a Forbes 50 Over 50 Honoree, USA Today Top 5 Mindset & Performance Coaches in the World, and one of the fifty most influential influencers on The Hollywood Reporter’s Creator A-List in 2024.
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Customers find the book easy to read and follow, with one noting its friendly narrative style. Moreover, they appreciate its motivational content, with one review highlighting how it sets up successful intentions each day. Additionally, the book receives positive feedback for its authenticity and relatable personal stories that bring up emotions. Customers find it effective, enjoyable, and supportive, making them feel great.
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Customers find the book easy to read and follow, with one customer noting its friendly narrative style.
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"...It was hard to put down as I just wanted to keep reading. I love the many tools and the many stories to keep me interested and motivated to live a..." Read more
"...Programming your brain and training yourself to think differently. This is what we all need. This book will help you tackle the world differently...." Read more
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Customers find the book empowering and insightful, describing it as a profound contribution to personal development that provides exceptional life advice and motivation.
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"...Programming your brain and training yourself to think differently. This is what we all need. This book will help you tackle the world differently...." Read more
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"...For me personally, this summer has been a journey. Mel perspective, honesty, research, and tools have helped me in so many ways...." Read more
Customers appreciate Mel Robbins' approach to life, finding her relatable and real, with one customer noting that she doesn't just give pep talks.
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Customers appreciate the book's relatable personal stories that bring up various emotions, with one customer noting how it provides an inside look at the author's real story.
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- Reviewed in the United States on April 5, 2025Book that does make a difference in life ! Finally after a life of low self worth I have the confidence and better mood all day long ❤️
- Reviewed in the United States on April 12, 2025Inspiring with real life examples!
It’s worth reading!
- Reviewed in the United States on March 7, 2025Truly a life changing read! It was hard to put down as I just wanted to keep reading. I love the many tools and the many stories to keep me interested and motivated to live a high five life. I appreciate Mel summing up the tools and giving us a routine to follow at the end of the books. I’d definitely read this again!
- Reviewed in the United States on January 2, 2025Mel keeps it truly real. She gives you an inside look of her real story and family. She gives examples of real people and how to apply new views to difficult things in life. It isn’t just about giving yourself a high five, it’s a concept to think differently. Programming your brain and training yourself to think differently. This is what we all need. This book will help you tackle the world differently. First book I’ve read cover to cover since college many years ago. So glad I did. Thank you Mel if you read these still. This is a life changer
- Reviewed in the United States on January 18, 2023This book tackles all of the mental garbage caused by self-doubt, guilt, regret, and shame and gives great advice on how to flip them into much more helpful components of a positive, self-confident mindset. Mel provides personal and relatable examples and gives specific instructions for how to get started with doing it for oneself. My only objection is the implication that self-confidence "Guarantees a Great Life", a gross over-simplification of reality in my opinion. Nevertheless, I found it very encouraging and uplifting and would recommend it to anyone feeling down on themselves or stuck.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 28, 2021The High 5 Habit is exactly the book I needed right now. It's been a long last almost 2 years and this book came to right at the time I needed it. I'm a fan of Mel and pre-ordered my copy so was able to read it right when it arrived! I had really high expectations because of The 5 Second Rule and I didn't know if this book would be as good, but it really topped it. The book is loosely divided into 3 sections. First, Mel talks all about the power of a high five, the science of high fiving, and how to do the high five habit. I like how the book got right to the point and from the beginning included the most important information first. Then, she moves more broadly into how the brain changes and why we hold ourselves back and how with that information we can make changes through the high five habit. And she gives my favorite habit of the book, "looking for hearts" (which has a really deep meaning). The high 5 habit isn't one habit, there's actually many of them in the book.
In the next section, she takes a turn and goes into the biggest things that hold us back from a high five life, and really dives into each thing, like jealousy, guilt, anxiety. And then gives habits to help with each. Mel also shares really honest and moving stories from her life and others, and doesn't hold back at all in describing her behavior in the past. Given how successful she is now, you know that the tools really really work. And then the final section, takes a turn and moves more into what I can only call the "deeper" realm. But with the flow of the book it really works. I don't want to give anything away but Mel shares 2 really powerful stories that illustrate what happens when you use these habits, and especially the one with the painting had me in tears. It was such a beautiful ending and somehow the book combines what you expect from this kind of book, motivational self help inspirational stuff, with memoir, really deep spiritual insights, a big pep talk, and it's still really easy and entertaining to read.
I highly recommend this book to just about anyone of any age. And if you're skeptical too Mel lays it all out, there's so much science here. I feel like I have the tools to create a better relationship with myself and as Mel says, that sets the tone for everything in life. I also like how everything in this book is really easy and can be taught to people of any age. I'm definitely going to buy a copy for my daughter. Overall thank you so much Mel for writing such an amazing book and I'm excited to take the high 5 challenge (practicing the high 5 habit for five days in a row.)
The High 5 Habit is exactly the book I needed right now. It's been a long last almost 2 years and this book came to right at the time I needed it. I'm a fan of Mel and pre-ordered my copy so was able to read it right when it arrived! I had really high expectations because of The 5 Second Rule and I didn't know if this book would be as good, but it really topped it. The book is loosely divided into 3 sections. First, Mel talks all about the power of a high five, the science of high fiving, and how to do the high five habit. I like how the book got right to the point and from the beginning included the most important information first. Then, she moves more broadly into how the brain changes and why we hold ourselves back and how with that information we can make changes through the high five habit. And she gives my favorite habit of the book, "looking for hearts" (which has a really deep meaning). The high 5 habit isn't one habit, there's actually many of them in the book.
In the next section, she takes a turn and goes into the biggest things that hold us back from a high five life, and really dives into each thing, like jealousy, guilt, anxiety. And then gives habits to help with each. Mel also shares really honest and moving stories from her life and others, and doesn't hold back at all in describing her behavior in the past. Given how successful she is now, you know that the tools really really work. And then the final section, takes a turn and moves more into what I can only call the "deeper" realm. But with the flow of the book it really works. I don't want to give anything away but Mel shares 2 really powerful stories that illustrate what happens when you use these habits, and especially the one with the painting had me in tears. It was such a beautiful ending and somehow the book combines what you expect from this kind of book, motivational self help inspirational stuff, with memoir, really deep spiritual insights, a big pep talk, and it's still really easy and entertaining to read.
I highly recommend this book to just about anyone of any age. And if you're skeptical too Mel lays it all out, there's so much science here. I feel like I have the tools to create a better relationship with myself and as Mel says, that sets the tone for everything in life. I also like how everything in this book is really easy and can be taught to people of any age. I'm definitely going to buy a copy for my daughter. Overall thank you so much Mel for writing such an amazing book and I'm excited to take the high 5 challenge (practicing the high 5 habit for five days in a row.)
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- Reviewed in the United States on April 12, 2025Loved this book
- Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2023I really enjoyed this book because of how genuine the author is in share her personal stories of success and setbacks. This book is written in a friendly narrative with a clear informative voice when needed. I have always been a fan of these types of books, motivational focus books. This is one that I will probably now purchase the physical form of after reading the ebook.
What I like about these book is that there is usually a new perspective or insight that I gain from the book. Or the book will remind me of something that I knew or a technique that I had forgotten about it. In this case I gained a new insight. My two favorite take aways from this book is the "hand on the heart" and journal pages. The first time I tried the "hand on the heart" technique I could feel my whole body relax deeply. Then I did it again but this time I recited some of my own personal mantras after doing the initital technique. I had the most amazing day afterwards! It felt right too. As for the journal pages, I journal every day upon waking up but I felt like I was missing something in my journaling. The two-page journal pages seem to give me the structure support that I was missing in my own journaling.
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- Shiza khuldReviewed in India on October 21, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Nice book
Enjoyed the way explained in the book
- Gillian E TurnerReviewed in the United Kingdom on March 17, 2025
5.0 out of 5 stars Transforming
Easy to read. Very engaging. Life transforming. The high 5 habit really works. I read this book because I was learning how to empower my self and others through a coaching model. Was not expecting the impact it would have. Thank you Mel.
- Cliente de AmazonReviewed in Mexico on April 20, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Thank you, Mel.
I would recommend this book to everyone! I can't believe my days have changed so much since I started reading this book! I suffered from dysthymia, I had to go over a psychiatric medical treatment and, now that I'm better this was the cherry on the pie I needed. So thank you so much, Mel.
- BelParReviewed in Australia on January 8, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Look out world! Here I come!
A good, motivating read.
- J.ZReviewed in Spain on November 6, 2021
5.0 out of 5 stars Life Changing Content
The message that contains this book is SO powerful, SO real, SO true. When I bought it I thought it was going to be a quick read because it was just about high-fiving yourself, right? But theres so much more valuable information than just that. And then going into it, I feel like this habit has changed my life and I've been doing it for just a week. I want to gift this book to everyone in my life so they can read it as well.