Mom Power

This board is for every mom who feels like she does more than her share of housekeeping and childcare. Share the load with your spouse and kids. Even more importantly, raise kids who don't expect moms to do all this work for everyone else.
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4 Steps To Doing Less Cleaning
Step 3 is a doozy, but the others are straightforward. If you make it to the end of all 4 steps, you’ll have less cleaning to do!
8 Ways Dads Can Volunteer at School This Year
Figuring out how to fit in volunteer time at school can be hard on working parents. Here are some ideas for volunteer jobs needed at every school that are good for dads and moms who work outside the home. The new school year offers a great opportunity to sign up to volunteer!
Teachers! Encourage Dads to Volunteer This Year
Research shows that kids do better when dads are more involved in education, and teachers are in a terrific position to help get more dads into classrooms - here are 6 simple ideas!
7 Benefits to Dads Volunteering at School
Volunteering at school is hidden labor that moms absorb, but there are many reasons why dads volunteering is hugely beneficial to dads AND kids. The new school year offers a great opportunity for dads to sign up to volunteer!
Back to School Goals: Dads Volunteering!
Dads can help lighten the load of volunteer work that's currently done mostly by women while also engaging in their child’s education in an incredibly meaningful way that benefits dads and kids! Click through to learn more about those benefits and get ideas for volunteer jobs that are well-suited to dads.
Back to School Medical Appointments
As kids head back to school, talk to your spouse about sharing the work of handling medical appointments now and during the school year. Consider dividing up these appointments by provider and having the parent in charge handle the full mental load including tracking when appointments are needed, scheduling and attending them, filing insurance claims, managing prescriptions, and doing any follow-up appointments.
Share the School-Related Parenting Tasks
There's a surprising amount of hidden labor in supporting your kids' education. I made a worksheet that helps you talk through how to share this work and best support your kids. You can print this worksheet for free or edit it to meet your needs.
Share the Load: Back to School Tip for Parents
Find your school’s calendar for the upcoming school year and get all the start of school dates, meet the teacher events, holidays, half days, teacher conference days, etc. onto your calendar. I highly recommend using a shared online calendar for the whole family!
Share the Load: Back To School Tip for Parents
Set up a joint email address that forwards every kid-related email to both parents, then use this joint email address on every single kid-related form – at school, at doctor’s offices, when signing up for activities – everywhere, always. Click through to learn how!
Share the Load: Everyone Cooks!
In 80% of families, mom does the cooking. Get your kids and your spouse involved by rotating jobs. Everyone 12 and up can take turns being the head chef! Your kids will learn important life skills to help them live independently and eat heathier meals. This is also excellent family bonding time. Click through for free printables!
Menu Planning with the Whole Family
Some people are good at coming up with meals on the fly, or they like to shop multiple times a week. I’m a planner by nature, but the thing that REALLY makes me plan meals ahead of time is because it’s the only way I know of to ensure that the cooking and grocery shopping don’t all fall on my shoulders. A plan that is created along with others in the family with an agreed-on division of labor has worked wonders for sharing the load with my husband and even occasionally with my kids.
How to Share the Load of Kids' Extracurricular Activities
If your kids' lives are filled with extracurricular activities, you may feel overwhelmed and not know why. It turns out each of those activities adds a bunch of work to parents' plates. Try splitting up the activities with your spouse to better share the load. You can also work on sharing this work with your kids - it's great mental load practice for them too!
How Parents Can Support Education Equally
The interactions with your kids' schools adds up to a bunch of hidden labor that falls very heavily on moms. Education is critically important, and you can show your kids how much it matters by having both parents be involved. Start by setting up a joint email address for all school-related communication. Click through for more tips.
Parents: Divide Up the Kid Appointments
The work of handling kid appointments is time-consuming and goes way beyond attending the appointment. Try having each parent take on half the providers and do everything end-to-end: find the provider, make the appointments, attend them, pay for them, do insurance claims, take care of prescriptions and handle follow-up appointments.
How to Share Year-Round Tasks: A Worksheet
Assign an owner for each task by putting their initials in the checkbox. Have that person completely own the task. You may want to trade off monthly or yearly, or split up payees for bills. Use the blank line to clarify.