Avoiding conflict

Avoiding conflict with your partner might seem like keeping the peace, but it actually hurts your relationship in the long run. Here’s why: 👉🏼When you don’t speak up, your needs go unheard. Your partner can’t address them if they don’t know what they are. This can lead to frustration and feeling like you’re not being heard. 👉🏼Unresolved issues don’t disappear. They build up over time, creating resentment. This resentment can damage the trust and affection in your relationship…

“Too many claims like, "Everything is awesome," or "I just never really feel angry or upset," or "If you're just positive, you can turn that frown upside down,"--often masks real pain and hurt. These behaviors are as much red flags as brooding and anger are....Being all light is as dangerous as being all dark, simply because denial of emotion is what feeds the dark.” ~ Brené Brown, Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution.

Let’s set the scene. You’re at work, and there’s one of those things happening, where Alice (or Bob) have come to a decision that is self-evidently dumb as far as you’re concerned. You know you’re right, and you know they’re wrong.

If you avoid conflict to keep the peace, you stay a war inside yourself.

True... In real world, this "avoiding conflict" philosophy just ends up creating conflict within yourself.

When your team starts underperforming, seems disengaged, and quite cynical, the first thing that pops into your mind is probably the lack of discipline. If you notice these signs from a team or an employee who usually performs quite well, it can be a sign of burnout. If an employee is subjected to excess stress, … Continued

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Your need to please can be getting out of hand at may be happening at your own expense, heavily. People-pleasers strive to keep the peace and avoid conflict at all costs, often at their own expense. This article by Kaizen Wellbeing strives to explain the Psychology behind why people want to please others and where it has its roots.