thanks for making menstrual products free and also fixing the female healthcare system babe ily
im genuinely so happy that ive learnt to love myself exactly the way i expect and yearn to receive love from others.
it’s taken me a LONG long time (and accepting mediocre shit that i deserved much better than) but im feeling like ive gotten there. i know exactly how to cheer myself up, whether it be reading my favourite passage of a florence given essay or drinking chamomile from a floral teapot. i know exactly what kinds of gifts i like to receive, and i buy these for myself as a treat and excite myself with them. i know when to push myself to my full potential and when to rest and let myself take a breath. i know what kind of affection and support i need from those who aren’t myself, when i need to lie on top of a friend for an hour or a shoulder to cry on or gentle backrubs while i sob into my pillow. i know these things because i pay attention to myself and my feelings and im so so so thankful that i can do this, that ive taught myself how to read these signs and truly know what i need and what i deserve.
im excited to find a love that treats me as well as i treat myself, but im also perfectly content with aloneness, which is something i never thought id say as an extravert. but the relationship that ive built with myself is something that ive treasured and worked on for so long, something that required a lot more solitude than i was comfortable with initially but grew to crave and love. i now don’t waste energy on those who bore, exhaust or use me. i don’t force myself to attend a social event when i know i need to rest. i let myself eat what i want, when i want, because i have now taught myself that food is not just fuel, but pleasure. and i deserve that.
these are reflections ive made after reading florence given’s ‘women living deliciously’ and i ABSOLUTELY recommend it to anyone and everyone. it and she truly change your life.
"busy woman" - an ot8 ateez smau by @liliesformingi | reactions to texting ateez 'she's busy rn'
"yeah, i'm a busy woman, i wouldn't let you come into my calendar any night. but if you want my kisses, i'll be your perfect mrs. 'til the day that one of us dies." - 'busy woman' by sabrina carpenter
author's note: hi besties, a non-strategy post today bc i was feeling ot8!! this was the option that one my poll and the other one will come later on <3 also i bought a pink vs wallet as a treat and felt cunty and girlboss then made my guy friend carry the pink striped vs bag they put it in and felt even cuntier and girlbossier love you x
warnings: sassy man apocolypse
taglist: @zelinkcrossing @hyunjiiza @zenlackszen @kur0kki @peskybirdysya @nujeskz @jessxxxfwd @xuchiya @bee-gremlin @radblizzardpizzas-blog @matchahintonagar @diekleinesuesse @xh01bri @lunaryoongie @jaehyunluvbot @k1xiara @cloudy-lilly @sunnysidesins @lveegsoi @arcvillie @flqwrlvr @huachengsbestie01 @subby-men-forever | send an ask, dm or comment to be added :)
#newsmaualert #silly
"strategy" - a mini smau series by @liliesformingi. view series masterlist, and outline here.
step 3: "when i arrive, make you look my way with your heart eyes" | soccer player!mingi x ballerina!reader
author's note: nah twin she got u blushin twin u gotta lock up twin #twin FML I JUST REALISED I INCLUDED THE SAME SC TWICE IGNORE THAT. also, for context, all dark mode texts are mingi, all light mode texts are the reader!
warnings: feet (guys its in a ballet context i promise don't be weird)
taglist: @zelinkcrossing @hyunjiiza @zenlackszen @kur0kki @peskybirdysya @nujeskz @jessxxxfwd @xuchiya @bee-gremlin @radblizzardpizzas-blog @matchahintonagar @diekleinesuesse @xh01bri @lunaryoongie @jaehyunluvbot @k1xiara @cloudy-lilly @sunnysidesins @lveegsoi | send an ask, dm or comment to be added :)
"strategy" - a mini smau series by @liliesformingi. view series masterlist, and outline here.
step 3: "when i arrive, make you look my way with your heart eyes" | soccer player!mingi x ballerina!reader
author's note: nah twin she got u blushin twin u gotta lock up twin #twin. also, for context, all dark mode texts are mingi, all light mode texts are the reader!
warnings: feet (guys its in a ballet context i promise don't be weird)
taglist: @zelinkcrossing @hyunjiiza @zenlackszen @kur0kki @peskybirdysya @nujeskz @jessxxxfwd @xuchiya @bee-gremlin @radblizzardpizzas-blog @matchahintonagar @diekleinesuesse @xh01bri @lunaryoongie @jaehyunluvbot @k1xiara @cloudy-lilly @sunnysidesins @lveegsoi | send an ask, dm or comment to be added :)
2 more chaps then it's finished wdym💔
they're so silly and freaky,they match each other's 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴
right they’re so silly and cute :(
"strategy" - a mini smau series by @liliesformingi. view series masterlist, and outline here.
step 3: "when i arrive, make you look my way with your heart eyes" | soccer player!mingi x ballerina!reader
author's note: nah twin she got u blushin twin u gotta lock up twin #twin. also, for context, all dark mode texts are mingi, all light mode texts are the reader!
warnings: feet (guys its in a ballet context i promise don't be weird)
taglist: @zelinkcrossing @hyunjiiza @zenlackszen @kur0kki @peskybirdysya @nujeskz @jessxxxfwd @xuchiya @bee-gremlin @radblizzardpizzas-blog @matchahintonagar @diekleinesuesse @xh01bri @lunaryoongie @jaehyunluvbot @k1xiara @cloudy-lilly @sunnysidesins @lveegsoi | send an ask, dm or comment to be added :)
when i saw the natty from kiof hate when she attended that show with wooyoung for the way she got off the bike bc apparently she arched her back slightly and got called a pick me and a slut for it i was actually DISGUSTED bc why are the double standards for women in the industry so bad ??? mind you wooyoung was legit SHIRTLESS under his jacket and nobody bats and eye but god forbid a grown woman gets off a fucking motorbike ???
CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE FUCKING SMUT TO FLUFF RATIO ON TUMBLR BC JESUS CHRIST WHY CAN I NEVER FIND ANYTHING NON SEXUAL THESE DAYS?????
I AGREEE
like damn is everyone on their ovulation week or something? (;;;・_・)
im a freak and i don't even ovulate (average birth control experience) but like NOT THAT MUCH?? idk it catches me off guard especially when there's no plot no click to read more its just in your face 😭 the audios are even worse help me
OH MY GOD THE AUDIOS.
there's this one post where they didn't even specify it's a smut audio,THE CAPTION WAS CUTE THEN WHEN I OPENED THE VID IT WAS A GUY MOANING SO LOUDDD
RIGHT THEY START PLAYING WITHOUT ME EVEN CLICKING THEM and now before i go onto tumblr i by muscle memory check my volume is down
CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE FUCKING SMUT TO FLUFF RATIO ON TUMBLR BC JESUS CHRIST WHY CAN I NEVER FIND ANYTHING NON SEXUAL THESE DAYS?????
HELP ME not the self promo but a reminder that @thevampywolf, @hyunjiiza and i (and my ateez sideblog @liliesformingi) are ALL sfw and will remain that way !! iza’s fics are so cute and hilarious bc she’s a mega silly gal so pls go check them out!! @heartsbyani is also a friend of mine and does super fluffy fics!