the truth is. he is a broken man. and honestly, you're not meant to fix him. you're not meant to save him. change him or even force him to get his shit together. no, if he doesn't want those things for himself to begin with, then why should you exhaust yourself trying to help him. you can't make someone care. you're not his mother,and your love is not meant to be drained by redirecting careless grown men towards their glory. you're better than that. you have your own problems to deal with.
