we moved 11 months ago. it was the right decision, no doubt. but, it has been a really difficult 11 months in so many different ways and i feel like i've earned my share in the what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger belief, 10 times over. but, last week, i started a new phase in my life and, i really think i'm starting to see the proverbial light. yes, i'm still in the midst of...stuff. i'm still dealing, all the time. but, i took a step toward a life more rewarding with a new job, so…