Describe the PR

This PR fixes reactivity issues with the cached bvAttrs and bvListeners props that were introduced with #4825.

The problem was that when no $attrs or $listeners were defined initially, but added later on, the initially defined proxied prop itself was not updated which prevented components that used the the proxied props from properly being re-rendered.

Closes #5520.

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