My Thoughts, observations, experiences
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When someone can forgive it doesn’t mean they want to get wounded again and go back. If someone doesn’t want to forgive the wound is still not healed, stop forcing forgiveness “to move on,” because you have to grieve first. This doesn’t mean they “didn’t forgive,” but they recognize forgiveness is for themselves once they’re healed enough, to help themselves move on.
“There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed”-Hemingway
If you need MORE guidance, look to a woman vs by a man to educate you, explaining why gender roles are not necessary. Also study countries like Iran, Saudi Arabia, and Afghanistan to understand why gender roles are not necessary and even if not as extreme as these countries, it’s still dangerous for women, in the long run especially as that gets passed down to the next generation. To go back into gender roles vs loving the role you choose mutually in fairness not based on gender, is to act as though women haven’t fought for your rights and men have. •
Resist the system… of constantly working. Resting is part of receiving, recovery, enjoying, self loving. Also you’ll be less rigid :) After you make the pudding, you let it sit in the fridge to form. If you constantly work it, it never has room to set. Your relationship with time changes as you stop fixating on time and be with what you’re doing, being, or resting in. Time then seems to be more on your side, interesting :) • If you’re creating an ecosystem, stagnation is actually necessary. The imbalance is staying stagnant. There’s a time and place for it all :)