the situation

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Amen! It's devastating to go along thinking everything is alright, that you have a great marriage, even planning a vow renewal and then your life is torn apart in finding out your spouse has been cheating, living a double life for years. Never would have imagined he was capable of doing this!
And when you’re telling a married man you’re getting a boob job.. get help. He doesn’t care about you, nor does he care about your fake boobs and tummy tuck 😂. Nothing worse than a fake bitch who doesn’t respect another woman and her family.
Best bet- absolutely refuse to argue or “discuss” anything with them. It is utterly pointless. They don’t care about your point of view. Or- only enough to tell you why you’re wrong. Trust yourself. Don’t listen to them. Assume every interaction is manipulation of one type or another. Because it is. It took me awhile to believe this, because mine was so skilled at it. They have studied it enough for an advanced degree.