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Things they don’t tell you about being a first time wheelchair user in highschool

  • Literally everyone will ask if you broke your leg(s). Everyone. Even people you don’t know. Theyll ask a lot and think you’re extremely fragile.

    bruises show up within the first day of rolling around, and they can really suck

    people will try to grab your chair if they think you’re struggling and it can be hard not to snap at them for it

    static electricity is a huge issue. You will probably either continuously shock your leg when you’re rolling around or do what I did today and zap someone so hard as you pass that both of you nearly keel over

    people will call you out as a faker if you do anything even remotely fun ever on your wheelchair. Wheelies? Obviously your legs are fine lol not like you have to go down fucking curbs /s

    puddles are the worst and if there’s a curb with a puddle all around and you have some ability to walk its a better idea to just stand up and navigate the chair than to fall backwards into said puddle

    weird looks from people are inevitable, especially from people who don’t like you

    bus drivers will often push your chair and give you advise you don’t want to hear, even if you tell them nicely you can push yourself. Its really hard not to get mad at them for it

    no wheelies in school. Though if you do it in the elevator when no one else is with you you can’t really get caught.

    speaking of wheelies, always be ready to throw at least one arm behind you in case you fall. They say tuck your chin in but its easier and more reliable to throw your hands back and keep your neck up so you don’t hit the floor. Sore arms are way easier to put up with than head injuries

    don’t even bother to try and roll back up curbs. You will either be there for an hour or fall backwards. I managed to do both.

    90% of classrooms that aren’t special ed are not very wheelchair accessible.

    people will automatically assume you’re faking something if you’re not considered dumb enough in their standards to fit in with disabled students (aka high class ableism at its finest)

    people are going to give you weird looks if you don’t suddenly start sitting with the other disabled kids

    standard backpacks usually dangle way too much to keep on you easily, so try to pack light

    built in storage on wheelchairs cannot sufficiently carry books

    don’t try to hold an umbrella. Period. Especially not with your teeth. It doesn’t work.

    don’t try to give the bus driver your ticket while you’re stuck on the ramp. And speaking of, its easy to start falling down the bus ramp so be careful, and when in doubt throw on the breaks

    and finally if you’re like me pray to god you don’t go nonverbal when someone is trying to push you and you don’t want them to because it is hard to get them to stop if you can’t speak

    able-bodied people can and should 1000% reblog this, some of these things I’ve seen on tips about using a wheelchair but a lot of these weren’t things I’ve seen

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    Get it Right (feat. Asake)

  • and i would like you to love me — l.mk

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    excerpt. “i loved her hard and at a distance, which made it easier to do, experienced brief but powerful compulsions to hug her and almost never did.” - our wives under the sea, julia armfield.

    pairings. mark lee x gender-neutral reader, (slight) na jaemin x gender-neutral reader

    genre. angst, slight fluff, best friends!au, one-sided pining

    warnings. swearing. mark is so…whipped…it’s almost pathetic.

    word count. 4.6k

    soundtrack. drunk text - henry moodie

    notes. i haven’t written much this year and if i did get around to writing, it was either self-indulgent (read as written to appease my delusions) or nothing good. | taglist. @mosviqu@by-moonflower@lovesuhng@emvrd​ 

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    Your name was but a whisper in the wind; minute against the rustling of crisp dry leaves as the breeze picked up and blew down the sidewalk, but he spoke it loud enough to be heard over the distant bustling of the city night, half a world away from where they were. 

    “______,” he called out, the name spilling out of his mouth long before he could think of what to say afterwards. The impulse trigger had left him, just as suddenly as it came and by the time his mind had caught up, she’d already stopped and turned to him.

    “What?” Your eyes met his and all the words he’d bottled up inside him fizzled up right when he needed them most.

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    for tonight's performance, give it up for ariana griande and sabrina scarpenter

  • before the new year begins — tag game

    happy new year, everyone! i’ve been doing a lot of journaling lately and i came across the written version of this tag from @madamescarlette on the dash and thought i’d give it a try just because i’ve been practicing more reflection these past few days.

    tagging: @petrichor-han, @mosviqu, @straykats, and anyone who’d like to look back on 2024 🤍

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  • mentally im friends with a lot of u guys even if we dont talk or never have talked and probably will never talk directly. its ok. the warriors bond transcends words

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