Their behavior is a reflection of them

As always I find it fascinating how something we read can trigger something in the healing process. Today I read this quote: I am getting to a place where I more confidently believe in a certain degree of separation between me and what was done to me. Yes I continue to own everything that I might have done to contribute to or escalate the situation that is only logical because it does take two in any dispute. However, I no longer accept blame. That is a huge change in my personal healing…

Other people’s behaviour is a reflection where they are at with their growth.

Have you ever found yourself questioning your worth because of how someone else treated you? It's a natural reaction, but remember, the way others treat you is a reflection of them, not you. 🌟 Imagine carrying a mirror. Every interaction, every word, and every gesture from others reflects their own inner world, not yours. When someone is unkind or disrespectful, it unveils their own insecurities, unresolved issues, and personal struggles. It's not a commentary on your value or your…

I just smile and move on. I find it sad when they are on a different place on the path of life and hope they move forward. I stay focused on myself. I can't change their thinking but can share my perspective. I don't engage in BS

Peaceful Mind Peaceful Life on Instagram: "How people treat you is never a personal attack on you, it's a reflection of what's happening inside of them. When someone treats you badly, understand that this is their perception. You can never change another person. You can however understand that you deserve better, wish them well, and walk away. This does not mean be a door mat. Speak your truth without anger, but then know that the only change that will matter is their changed behavior, not…

“Rudeness says more about them.” Ever been caught off guard by someone’s rude comment or behavior? 🫠 It’s tempting to snap back or let it ruin your day, right? But here’s what I’ve learned: rudeness is a reflection of their state of mind, not yours. 💭 When someone’s rude, it’s often because they’re projecting their own stress, insecurities, or frustrations. Does that excuse it? Absolutely not. But does it mean you have to stoop to their level? Nope. Silence can be your superpower. Every…

| DON'T FOLLOW THE "RESPECT IS EARNED" PHILOSOPHY. I RESPECT EVERYONE AUTOMATICALLY AND THEN EACH PERSON HAS THE OPPORTUNITY TO LOSE MY RESPECT BASED ON THEIR BEHAVIOR.