Their behavior is a reflection of them

As always I find it fascinating how something we read can trigger something in the healing process. Today I read this quote: I am getting to a place where I more confidently believe in a certain degree of separation between me and what was done to me. Yes I continue to own everything that I might have done to contribute to or escalate the situation that is only logical because it does take two in any dispute. However, I no longer accept blame. That is a huge change in my personal healing…

Show respect even to people who don't deserve it, not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours.

People will always notice the change in your attitude towards them but FAIL to notice it's their behavior that made you change.

Have you ever wondered why narcissists seem so happy? It’s a common misconception that their outward confidence and charm reflect true contentment. Their apparent joy often disguises deeper insecurities and emotional struggles. By recognizing the unknowable secrets behind their smiles, we can better understand narcissistic behavior and its impact on relationships

We Nurture/Parenting rooted in the Waldorf philosophy on Instagram: "Responding in as positive a way as possible is the best modeling you can offer your child when they are dysregulated - yelling, angry and being unkind. Pause and reflect on these thoughts- What if you stayed focused on keeping a connection with your child? What if unconditional love is something that your child always receives, no matter what? When you are calmly by your child’s side even at their worst behavior it…

Never respond to rudeness. It is best to be silent.