Your building us up, when you try to break us down

Just for Nikole. Every time you pull something I think you need to see what you’ve done. You are so far gone in your thoughts that you really believe you have done nothing to your own children to be angry with you. You can be angry with us or just me, I’m used to it. I just brush it off. I know what the truth is. I know the things that were told to us from your own children. When your youngest came to our home and told his brother that his mem said she would not answer the door for him if he showed up contradicts the words you portrayed to him. You state also that Aaron was grounded and could not contact his brother because he lost his phone etc and you gave him the home number finally because it was the right thing to do. The right thing to do was also to give the father of the children the phone number so the father could speak to his child. But you say you aren’t keeping him away from his family. However there are different kinds of ground action in your home. No phone but video games are ok. A failing senior in your care but when he is with his father he is a honor student. There were no issues here you were just upset that he was doing well , but you wanted to be the one to do it.and that’s ok. It’s what your suppose to do. But you haven’t. I or we get blamed when you feel badly about what’s going on or when your parenting skills are lacking. Well the more you try to bring us down with your words your really only building us up. There is no anger anymore. Mason is a grown adult, pays for his own phone, is no longer monitored by mommy and daddy because he needs to pay attention to school etc. his own mind, at 21 an adult. And still you blame us. If that’s what makes you feel better then ok. Some people have church or psychiatrists, you have self comforting lies. You’ll see someday that you were wrong all along. Mason shares his days and life stories with us cause he chooses to, not because he has too or feels that he is forced to do so. He came to me with what you sent him about getting ahold of his brother and all the other self comforting things you said. It’s ok. Our eyes are open to what’s real and are not blinded. We wish you well and everything you deserve in life... good or bad. Your choices in life make you who you are and lead you down a path you have chosen. So with that being said, I wish you well and happy thanksgiving to you and your family.