Masculine vs. Feminine Energy

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If a feeling that spurs you to action comes from your gut, that means it's probably right on target
For once, you follow the desires of your spirit. Even if it’s something little. And then, an hour or so later, the guilt sets in. Your mind starts fixating on that action you took. You start asking yourself, “Why did I do that? That was so dumb. I shouldn’t have done that.” When in reality, that action you took was inspired! It came from a place of alignment and authenticity. It’s your brain that goes into masculine overdrive and over analyzes something that was simple and good for you.
If you're not getting the result you want, the answer is in alignment
Here’s an example of how one situation can come from alignment vs. from your masculine energy. 👉🏽 You head to the gym because you really want to go down a dress size before your niece’s wedding. You put on a little makeup and try to look your best because you’re lonely, and you need a man in your life. 👉🏽 You head to the gym because you’re excited to move your body and get your juices flowing. You love the way you look, and you put on your favorite leggings because they make you happy.
Your mind's logic: You can't do it. This is impossible. Your higher self: This has to happen.
Your mind might be what you’re listening to all day long, but it’s often telling you all the wrong stuff. 🙅🏽‍♀️ Sometimes, you have to sit back and remember that your true vision and inspiration come from somewhere deeper, where there is less noise, but the message is always true. To access the wealth and success you crave, you have to listen to that vision and support it. You have to let the universe know what you really want. 🪐 How do you do that? With inspired action.
When do you feel most aligned with yourself? Is it when you are meditating, exercising, eating?
Being around others can be rejuvenating and expose you to new ideas. But being around others can also make you feel pissed off, distracted, and confused. All of these things pull you away from your emotional alignment. ⁑ That’s when you take a moment to yourself to realign. You come back to your emotions. You come back to the reality you desire. 🙏🏽 Alignment is your tool for success and wealth. It is always there for you to come back to. It’s your true self and your desires.
If you keep operating with the same frequency and energy you've been in, you'll get that same result
The emotion HAS to shift. 👇🏽 If you’re ready for a real change, if you’re ready to feel fulfilled, you’ve got to center the work on your emotional state. If you’re anything like I was 10 years ago, that’s going to be hard to hear. You’re probably already shrinking away, thinking, “I’m okay where I am. I don’t need to reflect or look inward. I can change my life on my terms.”
If you do these things in your masculine energy, you're just going through the motions
👉🏽 When you do something just to do it, you’re operating in a certain energy that gives you a certain result (nothing changes). 👉🏽 When you do something that’s inspired and aligned with your desires, you’re in a completely different energy, and you get a completely different result. I know so many powerful alpha women who truly cannot sit still. I ask them to try taking a bath so they can lean back and relax into their feminine energy — and they’ll be checking emails in the tub. 🤳🛀🏽
It's always the woman who holds it together
Think about your family. Who was it in your household who got sh*t done? Who organized everything? Who was productive every single day of the week? So often, it’s the mother or grandmother. It’s so often the women. This ability to get sh*t done is super powerful for us women. But the fact is it’s a masculine energy that we usually feel compelled to take on out of FEAR that no one else will do what needs to get done, or no one will actually do it right. Sound familiar? 😩
Want to understand more about masculine and feminine energies? Keep reading
The world is full of dichotomies. Light and dark, sun and moon, yin and yang, masculine and feminine. You can't have one without the other. The world needs a balance of both to be in harmony. And so do you. 👨🏽 A healed masculine energy is present, supportive, disciplined, and humbled. It is a doing energy. 👩🏽 A healed feminine energy is intuitive, knowing, magnetic, compassionate, vulnerable, and open. It is a receiving energy.
The things you fear will make you weak are the things that will make you powerful
I used to be f*cking scared, you guys. 😓 Scared of being vulnerable. Scared of owning my emotions. Scared of messing up. Scared of EVERYTHING! I couldn’t stand the idea of being perceived as weak, or anything less than perfection. I couldn’t handle what that would mean. My emotions were hermetically sealed in some deep chamber in my heart. 🫀 No one was allowed to see them, not even me. Until one day, it was like my body couldn’t take it anymore.
How to tell if you're an alpha woman: You feel like nothing would get done correctly without you
Most of the alpha women who start working with me … have NO IDEA that they are swimming in toxic behaviors. 😵 They think they’re bad bitches. They think they get sh*t done. They think they take no prisoners. They THINK they’re making bank. But if I push on them even just a little bit, I can see that their alpha front is just that. A thin shield that they’re terrified to let down.
Wounded masculine + wounded feminine = self doubt. Healed masculine + feminine = wealth, success
Oh, you can’t execute that project? You can’t get the guy? You can’t get the six-figure month? Says who?! 🙅🏽‍♀️ Just because that self-doubt comes from you, doesn’t mean it’s authentic. That voice in your head telling you that you can’t do something? That’s not coming from a healthy place. That’s coming from your wounded feminine. Your wounded feminine remembers all the criticism you received growing up. You have to un-condition yourself from listening to that.
You don't need anybody to lead you but you.
You can be the divine masculine energy in your own life. 🙌🏽 Yes, it’s amazing to have a healed man who can support you too. But when you do this work, you don’t NEED him. You can be the leader of your own life. 💥 It’s such a beautiful thing to see. The women who enter my program in a wounded feminine state seek validation and are desperate for love and success.
Feminine energy: receiving, feeling, trusting, attracting; Masculine energy: doing, giving, brave
I want you to save this post. The next time you have a strong gut feeling, and especially when you pair it with action, I want you to identify which of your energies it grew from. Sometimes this will be obvious. Like when money or a gift or a vacation comes to you unexpectedly. That is of course your feminine. And when you have a healthily productive day, getting things done and still having quality time with your children. That’s your masculine! You need both to thrive!