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hello, i am making this bc i truly have had enough of the shit they have done lol. don’t go send hate asks to anyone though, it’s not right, whatever they have done.

my main issue here is regarding the c slur that they and their sister have said. i myself am chinese, and i have talk to a few of my chinese moots as well and all of them have all been extremely offended by what bree has said and how she handled the situation. for privacy purposes, i will not be naming them.

Tips That Can Save Your Kid’s Life.

THIS IS IMPORTANT 

When I was a child, from the time I was about four and could understand things, my mom told me and my brother that we should have a secret word. That way, if we were ever in trouble or felt unsafe and we didn’t want the people around us to know we needed her to come get us, we could let her know. So she let us pick the word and my brother and I chose the phrase “peanut butter cups.” (I’m happy to share the phrase now since both my brother and I are adults now). 

I used the phrase twice in my life. Once, I was at a friends house when I eight years old. Her dad got really drunk and was throwing things against the wall. I was really scared and I didn’t want to draw attention to myself on the phone when I called my mom to come get me because I didn’t know if he would get more violent if I asked her to come get me. So I called her and was calm and after a couple minutes I asked “Hey mommy, did you get me those peanut butter cups from the store?” And she said “I’ll be right there.” And she came and got me within minutes. 

Second, I was a teenager spending the night at a friends house. Her brother and dad were drinking and they started talking about things that made me uncomfortable - ie: what they liked to do to women. My friend didn’t seem perturbed and said that was normal for them and that I shouldn’t worry. But I was worried because they were really drunk and I was 15 and the only ‘woman’ around that wasn’t related to them. I went in my friends room, told her I needed to call my mom and say goodnight. Before I hung up with her I asked “Next time we go to the store, can we get some peanut butters cups? I’ve been craving them.” And she came and got me, just like that. 

Two incidents, one as a young child, one years later as a teen. Don’t discredit this stuff, it fucking works. My brother used it a few times too. Let your child pick the word and no never, ever, ever, ever get mad at them for using it no matter what it is. 

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Off topic, but very important! I was taught to yell “this is not my mom/dad.” A young kid freaking out in public is likely to be ignored out of embarrassment, but a kid telling you right out that they don’t know who is messing with them? That will turn heads.

SIGNAL BOOST

90% of all child molesters are members of the family, close family friends, or an adult in a trusted position of authority. All of this is important but one more thing:

Never instil an unwavering “respect for their elders” in your child, and never chastise them for “tattling” on or feeling uncomfortable around an older relative/family friend/teacher .etc.

My dad always warned me that kidnappers will sometimes try to ask for help in order to grab a child. Please don’t forget to remind your children that strangers who “need help finding my lost puppy” are still strangers. Your child should point them in the direction of an adult who could help them search more efficiently than a kid could.

The thing about having a safe word is SO important. Say someone approaches your kid, claiming something like, “Your parents are in the hospital and sent me to pick you up!” If they don’t know the safe word, your child knows not to go with them.

And this is kinda off topic, but PLEASE warn your kids about drugs! Children almost never seem to be able to resist the thought of free candy. Tell them that the candy offered to them by strangers could be the kind that kills!

This is so important omg. The way it could save so many child these days. I honestly wish i was taught these things when i was younger but then again, I’m just grateful for the awareness of this. It really helps, thank you for this. Bless.

This is legit the most important thing I’ve seen all day, and I just wish that it makes its way to someone who would get help from it. It’s never too late and never too early to learn these things, and I hope people would take something away from this.

Thank you so much for posting this.

I’m an addict, I’ll admit it. Smau just hits different

exactly

4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.

5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger

6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights

7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)

That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving

8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.

Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time

girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.

guys pls pls pls reblog and girls pls pls pls be safe out there. terrifying and so sad that we have to worry about this on a daily basis

(I’m an enby, but, frankly, this is helpful for anyone.)

- always tell someone where youre at and an approx time when youll be back

Add text replacement words in your phone if possible. Something short and memorable that you can send quickly to people in moments of emergencies.

E.g.

I f ing hate that we need to reblog this, people suck, but this will save lives.

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Being female fucking sucks but yes this shit is important for everyone

When I was in my college sci fi club, we had this tiny guy as treasurer. Cool guy, smart, but a bit - full of himself for being smart? Like, he’d reached the point where he assumed he could handle everything with his brains.

All is girls quietly were glad he never had to take big funds to an off campus bank or anything, because we all knew he’s be useless in any sort of theoretical mugging (compared to the above life training we girls get).

Mom told me that if I ever got car-jacked, I should crash the car.

There’s a chance of surviving a car wreck. You got no chance of escaping whatever shallow grave is waiting after they finish whatever they’re planning to do to you at that secondary location.

Another tip: If you’re close to an open store, go inside. Even if it’s just a tiny gas station convenience store with a single teenager manning the cash register. That teenager is a witness. Muggers, rapists, kidnappers, and murderers don’t want witnesses. Not to mention there’s a good chance any store you duck into will have security cameras, and it’s probably not a “risk” the person following you is willing to take.

If you’re driving home and you think someone might be following you, do not actually go home. Don’t let them know where you live. Find a store or a restaurant and pull into the parking lot. Go somewhere where there are people. Even if it’s really late, fast food chain restaurants, at least in the USA, are typically open 24/7, and in the USA, they’re everywhere.

In both of these scenarios, tell someone who works there you’re being followed, because there’s always a chance the person following you will come in after you and say that they know you, and the store/restaurant might have a protocol for this kind of situation.

If you have an iPhone press the on button five times fast and it will allow you to signal an emergency sos