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@witchyvyx / witchyvyx.tumblr.com

Vyx (they/them) | 30's | Enby | Queer | Poly | Feminist | Goth | Gamer | ttrpg nerd | @shinytarountula’s paramour

Is that trans woman really a subtop or are you just sticking her into comptop because YOU want her to be a top and she doesn’t want to disappoint you?

Fr tho transfemmes, you don’t have to top if you don’t want to. It doesn’t matter who your partner is, it doesn’t matter what “equipment” you have, if you don’t want to top, you are under no obligation to do so - whether it’s “this time” or “ever”.

If that is a problem with any given partner, either you need to communicate and come to an agreement of what works for both of y’all (that doesn’t include making yourself extremely uncomfortable for their benefit) or you need to find different partners.

"Anything is fine as long as it's legal" is not the sex positive position you think it is. Anything can be criminalised. Anything can be decriminalised.

In some places it's illegal to consensually choke your boyfriend. In other places marital rape is not a crime. Develop a moral compass instead of expecting your government to tell you what is right and wrong.

god I could be so wealthy if I had no ethics. that's so fucking frustrating. I'm living paycheck to paycheck because I'm not grifting vulnerable idiots on TikTok. I feel like I have the ability to very easily scam people. I could make a killing with AI. but god. I have morals and ethics and so I get to be poor as shit. I hate this fucking world

I could have made a killing as a psychic, but noooo I have to feel bad about lying to people ugh

I think abt this all the time because the thing is, evil rich people truly believe that they’re geniuses who have discovered a way to make money that the rest of us dummies haven’t…but the truth is that they are just willing to do evil shit that everyone else would prefer to not to because we have standards

A psychic or a cult leader are my top two "If only I had no ethics" dream jobs. Or to combine the two and become a high-priced life coach to the type of wealthy people who are really into The Secret and companies like Goop.

Pesky pesky ethics.

i have never met an unpsychotic person who knows what it actually means to “not encourage the delusion” …not a single one

what “don’t encourage the delusion” means:

  • don’t argue with or challenge the delusion—attempting to disprove someone’s delusions is not helpful at all and will result in that person not trusting you
  • assure the delusional person that they are safe; be open and honest at all times
  • encourage them to verbalize their feelings and offer protection to prevent injury to themselves or, possibly, others
  • start building a trusting relationship with them rather than acting on a desire to control their symptoms
  • do not confirm or feed into the delusion by asking questions about it when the person is not experiencing a psychotic episode

what it does not mean:

  • insisting to a psychotic person experiencing psychosis that what they’re experiencing isn’t real

I don’t mean to trivialize psychosis by making a weird comparison, but this guide also serves as a handy checklist for helping someone through a bad drug trip. In both cases your number one priority is to get the person through whatever they’re dealing with unharmed.

i don’t think it’s trivializing at all, nor a weird comparison—as a psychotic person who has had psychotic episodes inadvertently triggered by drug use and/or worsened while trying to self-medicate with drugs, i think this is an important addition.

Aging is hot. Gray hairs are hot. Smile lines are hot. Get with it.

Baldness is also hot. Literally get with it.

Everyone reblogging this post to add that people don't exist to be hot and bodies can be neutral: you're right. Make your own post about it. This post is about signs of age being hot. I am an adult attracted to other adults. People don't exist to be hot but if you have these traits you are hot, perhaps against your will. Sorry. Happy milf monday.

i wish there was an easier way to tell the difference between an "if it sucks hit da bricks" situation and a "sometimes being an adult means doing things that you dont wanna" situation

yeah libraries are cool but have you ever found a library with a secret doorway disguised as a bookshelf that leads to a smaller, hidden library filled with ancient books full of mysteries and forgotten knowledge? me neither and i'm sad about it

it really is crazy how quickly people were willing to just let chatgpt do everything for them. i have never even tried it. brother i don't even know if it's just a website you go to or what. i do not know where chatgpt actually lives, because i can decide my own grocery list.

every time a trans girl infodumps me abt something they're passionate about i cant help but i fall in love a little bit

like yeah i wanna hear about that speed run record yeah absolutely tell me about that obscure proto-punk group that broke up in the mid 70s fuck i really wannq kiss you now

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reblog to let a transgirl infodump to you about something they're passionate about

god literally one of the most attractive things a person could do tbh

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