Earnest/Lum/Waddle/Eggie - he/him - 24 - posts every once in a blue moon - please don't reblog personal posts I make unless they have an "okay to reblog" tag on them but then again i hardly make personal posts anymore anyway lmao - mobile/dashboard header credit to swordknight - icon by miniiinebulaee
like we really hate to hear this - but power is in every human relationship. unless you are the exact same as your partner in age, class, race, ethnicity, religion, language, nationality, citizenship status, gender, sexual orientation, physical and mental ability, salary, education, etc, you have to negotiate the problems material power differentials pose to love, to treating others well. the response to this seems to have been to make certain points of difference - like age - load-bearing, in a way that erases others - class would be my example: far bigger a power disparity than, say, a ten year gap in age between adults is class and inheritable wealth, but you almost never see that acknowledged in the same way. and even if you were at parity in all those areas (gay twincest sweep??) there is still the emotional power that someone’s love and desire for you gives you over them. you can’t get rid of it. you cannot find the perfect relationship where it doesn’t exist by steadily winnowing down your “ethical” options via widening designations of “problematic relationships.” you have to confront the power you have over other people and think how you will wield it most lightly. sorry!
Everyone wants to talk about how Senshi is a tumblr sexyman but…Senshi is actually attractive. Like even aside from the fact that he’s pretty good-looking he’s a nice, sweet guy and he can cook and loves doing it. He’s a perfectly eligible candidate for marriage, which kind of goes against the spirit of a tumblr sexyman.
Chilchuck, however? Chilchuck is a tumblr sexyman. What the fuck do you people see in him
this is an elderly post with both members in it still activated. op posts regularly, newest post is an hour ago, and second account hasn’t posted since 2020
I am indeed, despite it all, still here.
The second account was one of the directors of Steven Universe
