GIVING THANKS AT SCHOOL TO PROMOTE
EQUITY AND EXCELLENCE
Giacomo Bono, Ph.D & Michael Fauteux, B.A.
Correspondence concerning this manuscript should be addressed to Giacomo Bono, Ph.D., California
State University Dominguez Hills, 1000 East Victoria Street, Carson, CA 90747 or via email:
gbono@csudh.edu
Giacomo Bono is an Associate Professor of Psychology at
California State University, Dominguez Hills. He has a Ph.D. in
Applied Social Psychology from Claremont Graduate University.
His research focuses on forgiveness, gratitude, well-being, health
promotion, and youth development. Dr. Bono is co-author of
Making Grateful Kids: The Science of Building Character (2015)
and director of the Youth Gratitude Project – a research program
that develops assessment tools, examines youths’ social
emotional skills and wellbeing, and provides curriculum resources
and research support to promote student success and wellness in
primary and secondary schools.
Michael Fauteux is the Innovator in Residence at Leadership
Public Schools and co-founder of the nonprofit GiveThx, a
research-based curriculum and digital tool that builds school
culture and belonging using gratitude. His past innovation
work includes co-creating ExitTicket, a real-time student
response system, and Gooru’s Learning Navigator, a
personalized learning companion. He previously served as
LPS’s Director of Innovation and was a Master Mathematics
Teacher. He holds a B.A. in History from Brown University
and a Master’s in Education from Harvard’s Graduate School
of Education.
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Abstract
Schools can use gratitude practices to help students build social and self-awareness skills to connect
with and succeed in school. Recent efforts focus on improving equity to achieve wider, sustainable
effects. Here we present a way for students and staff to practice gratitude that promotes equity and
highlight ways school counselors can work with teachers and students to better support a positive
school culture.
Keywords: gratitude, well-being, intervention, diversity, education
Introduction
Promoting Equity at School
Schools increasingly help students see their
identities as assets, navigate differences, build
character and wellness. Unfortunately, many
schools in the U.S. are under-resourced and
underprepared to address students’ basic
mental health needs (Whitaker et al., 2019).
Gratitude may be particularly valuable for
schools because it is a powerful socio-emotional
practice that affects wellbeing (Dickens, 2017).
Among adolescents, gratitude is also associated
with greater motivation, academic performance,
and engagement in extracurricular activities (Ma
et al., 2013), basic need satisfaction and school
wellbeing (Tian et al., 2016), and prosociality
(Bono et al., 2019).
Differences in race, class, gender, sexual
orientation, age, and language can be obstacles
to students’ connection to school and success.
Thus, it is important for schools to create
“identity safe” spaces where different social
identities are welcomed as assets instead of
impediments (Steele & Cohn-Vargas, 2013).
Being responsive to the different identities and
needs of students and staff by enabling them to
develop adaptive meanings through their social
interactions puts everyone on a path to
flourishing, increasing equity in institutions and
society (Walton & Wilson, 2018). Interventions
that do this are considered “wise”.
Unfortunately, the “wise” approach to
interventions has not been applied to gratitude
practices in schools. Interpersonal practices like
shout outs, appreciations in circle work, and
gratitude walls have public expression
components that can activate threats to social
identity and prevent safe access. For example,
males may be discouraged from expressing
gratitude or other feelings publicly to others
(Kashdan et al., 2009). Or a language learner
However, while gratitude practices help
students, their design and implementation do
not always create equitable access for all
students. There is a greater need for equitable
interventions broadly, including gratitude
interventions, that better address social identity
differences (Carey et al., 2019). Here we share
an intervention addressing this limitation.
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may be reluctant to speak out loud. Despite
good intentions, such practices may exacerbate
social anxiety and exclude.
quasi-experimental study spanning six weeks in
two urban high schools with 327 students (57%
female; M = 14.72 years, ages 13-18; 85%
Hispanic, 10% Asian, 3% Black, 1% White, 1%
Other) (Bono et al., 2020). The intervention used
a research-based curriculum that Bono created
and a thanking/reflection app (GiveThx) that
Fauteux created. See Table 1 for details. The
curriculum included various intervention
strategies – journaling, thanking, letter writing
and reflection – for teachers to facilitate with
their students. The app provided a safe and easy
way to establish a personal practice routine.
Before and after the intervention students
completed measures, such as the Gratitude
Questionnaire - 6, the Center for Epidemiologic
Studies Depression Scale for Children, the
Spence Children's Anxiety Scale, the Positive and
Negative Affect Schedule for Children, and the
Perceived Stress Scale (for more information on
measures, find the study here).
Improving Intervention
Meta-analyzing 20 studies of gratitude among
youth, 5 of which were intervention studies in
school settings, Renshaw and Steeves (2016)
found small overall intervention effects on
positive affect and happiness against passive
controls. Due to the paucity of interventions and
variety of methods used, they concluded that
there was weak support for benefits to students
and schools and that more research was
needed. What are some limitations of
interventions though?
People have egocentric biases that prevent
them from expressing thanks to others. For
instance, expressers overestimate the
awkwardness and underestimate the surprise
and positive feelings recipients feel upon
receiving a gratitude letter, which reduces
intentions to express gratitude (Kumar & Epley,
2018). Also, positive psychology interventions
are better when individuals can focus on
practices they enjoy and are intrinsically
motivated (Lyubomirsky et al., 2011). Thus, in
school, public gratitude practices may feel less
safe and a variety of engaging practices may
help.
We found that, compared to the control
group, the intervention increased trait gratitude
(d = .55), positive affect (d = .31), life satisfaction
(d = .46), and friendship satisfaction (d = .33);
and that it improved mental health outcomes,
including decreased anxiety (d = .42), negative
affect (d = .49), depression for boys (d = .45),
and perceived stress for girls (d = .40) (Bono et
al., 2020; see Figure 1). Our prior analyses
evaluating the intervention components
separately found each to be less effective alone.
Thus, the combination increased impact. But
how did we increase equity too?
To address such challenges, we prioritized
designing a gratitude intervention that included
marginalized voices and identities and realized
that technology could help. To test this
intervention, we conducted a pretest-posttest
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Table 1
Basic Description of the Bono et al. (2020) School Gratitude Intervention
Figure 1
Change Scores in Psychological and Social Wellbeing and in Mental Health Symptoms
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Engaging Gratitude Practices for
Students and Staff
have access to their frequency data, and
teachers could encourage them to take
ownership by choosing to thank people they
have not thanked as often or at all.
Students and staff use GiveThx similarly: they
pick a person, send them a digital thx note, and
select a hashtag reason from among schooldetermined competencies (e.g., listening, help,
kindness). Figure 2 displays examples of thx
notes. Unlike social media, exchanges are
private, and users can maintain a gratitude
journal to reflect on and make meaning of their
notes and data. Recipients see all their notes in
one place online and discover previouslyinvisible patterns of how their actions impact
others. Schools can integrate the practice
everywhere: classes, advisories, and faculty
meetings. Staff can review gratitude exchanges
to better understand, coach, and connect with
students.
GiveThx app is purposely a web-based app.
The ubiquity of devices with browsers made it
easy to share devices and login to participate in
ways that personal native apps make harder.
Codesigning with students suggested this choice
maximized equitable access. Students also
suggested that limiting use to 1-to-1
interpersonal notes with teacher monitoring
made it feel safe, increasing equity for those
with different social identities.
Applications for Mental Health
Counseling at School
Counselors can deepen rapport and enhance
their work with students by reviewing and
building off student’s personal strengths
inventory of received thx notes. Sending and
receiving notes provides a way for counselors
and other non-teaching staff to establish and
maintain healthy connections with students.
Diagnostically, counselors can use the app’s heat
map to identify socially isolated students and
proactively reach out to support them.
Social media is ubiquitous among teens and
may be impacting their mental health (Twenge,
2017). Therefore, we built a way to create
opportunities for healthier digital and face-toface autonomous gratitude practice in high
school to better support personal development
and positive connection. For students who
receive fewer thx notes or none, the teacher can
help too. First, anchoring thx giving
opportunities naturally in existing partner/group
routines or assignments should help everyone
receive some thanks. But teachers can also
implement other thanking rituals in class, like
“gratitude waves”, where students are allegedly
chosen at random to receive thx notes from the
whole class, to target students who have
received fewer or no thx notes. Finally, students
Evidence shows that high-quality social
emotional learning (SEL) programs help K-12
students academically, psychologically and
socially, but that involving teachers improves
outcomes (Durlak et al., 2011). Teachers use the
practices in class to nurture wellbeing and
relationships with their students. But staff can
also use it to improve their relationships.
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Figure 2
Examples of Students’ Give Thx Notes to Others (Teacher and Peers) During the Intervention
Counselors can improve staffs’ SEL capacity by
supporting implementation of the intervention.
Counselor-facilitated staff practice in faculty
meetings and school routines builds adult
experience and aptitude.
others helps. When schools harness gratitude
not as an intervention but as a core, integrated
practice, they increase their likelihood of
creating more inclusive, equitable, and healthy
learning communities for all students and staff.
Conclusion
How schools practice gratitude matters. Putting
equity upfront to increase identity safe access
for students and staff is key. Ensuring that
gratitude practices nimbly fulfill the needs and
enjoyment of youth by being responsive to their
digital lives matters. Providing practices and
technology that show the impact of thanking
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