The Boundaries of
Our Faith
Daniel Seeger
DANIEL SEEGER
The Boundaries of our Faith
THE QUAKER UNIVERSALIST FELLOWSHIP
…is composed of seekers, mainly, but not exclusively
members of the Religious Society of Friends. QUF seeks to
promote open dialogue on its issues of interest. It writes in
its statement of purpose:
While being convinced of the validity of our
own religious paths, we not only accept but rejoice
that others find validity in their spiritual traditions,
whatever they may be. Each of us must find his
or her own path, and each of us can benefit for
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We at QUF feel privileged to be the publisher of this
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and reconciler. This is being offered to fellow Friends as
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THE BOUNDARIES OF OUR FAITH
A Reflection on the Practice
of Goddess Spirituality in New York Yearly Meeting
From the Perspective of a Universalist Friend.
It is one of the defining characteristics of our era that
the boundaries of our faith communities are under constant
test. With the ease of travel and the globalization of commerce
and communication, the interpenetration of political ideas,
cultures and spiritualities is intensifying in an unprecedented way.
This novel phenomenon is having varying effects on
faith communities. Some individuals and groups recoil when
encountering alternative spiritualities, feeling themselves
fundamentally threatened in their identities. So along with
“globalization” we are also seeing intensified feelings of
secularism and nationalism, with some people seeming to
work ever more arduously to erect barriers between
themselves and others. At the other extreme individual
people, and even whole communities, become so enchanted
with the alternatives which have come into view that they
can become completely detached from their roots as they
sample various fragments of different cultural styles and
spiritualities. Still other people will actually settle into and
take quite seriously a traditional spiritual path other than
their own. Thus, in the United States, there are thriving
communities of Sikhs, Hindus and Buddhists which are
comprised of otherwise ordinary Americans. Meanwhile,
Christianity continues to grow dramatically in such places
as Korea and in many African nations.
Another approach to this globalization of spiritual life
might be called “the sharing of gifts.” In this case, people
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remain rooted in the religion they have inherited but enrich
it with borrowings from other traditions. For example, this
writer has been in a Roman Catholic monastery where the
monks practice Zen meditation. And, as is well known,
liberation theologians have borrowed from Marxist thought
in their attempt to deepen Christianity’s relevance to the
people to whom they minister.
Simultaneously, with all this interpenetration of
cultures and the resulting intensification of sectarianism
and nationalism, of spiritual eclecticism, of religious
conversions, and of the sharing of gifts from one spirituality
to another, there is also developing a new global network of
technologically adept and financially privileged people from
all comers of the world whose essential identity is rooted in
commerce, in a certain style of international consumerism,
and in the practice of rationally exploiting the earth and its
people. This new international culture is completely
unrelated to any of the historic spiritualities in which human
traditions of ethics, compassion and meaning have been
rooted. This phenomenon is probably the most seriously
disturbing aspect of the present situation.
In this time of cultural tumult and exploration it is not
surprising that many have developed an interest in the
spiritualities of native peoples – spiritualities encountered
in relatively recent times by Christians when European
civilization engaged in colonial expansions in Africa, the New
World and Asia. Related to this has been an interest in the
spiritualities of the early civilizations which were
contemporary with that of the ancient Hebrews, including
peoples whom they encountered in their wanderings in
search of the Promised Land. All of these diverse spiritualities
are denigrated in Hebrew scripture and in Christian
tradition, so that terms such as shamanism, Goddess
worship, witchcraft, paganism, heathenism, and idolatry,
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even to this day, are apt to evoke strongly negative feelings
on the part of many Christian people.1 Nevertheless, interest
in these alternative spiritualities is definitely a vigorous
modern phenomenon. There is growing interest in telepathy,
psychic healing, past life regression, crystals and spirit
stories, Tarot cards, spells, spirit guides, magic, the use of
magical tools and ritual instruments, anointing oils,
powders, incense, sacred sites and energy vortexes, tantric
yoga, Rastafarianism, and other esoteric concerns.
Many of these alternative spiritualities incorporate
female deities in their pantheon if they are polytheistic,
discern a God who has female characteristics if they are
monotheistic, or else focus upon the womanly characteristics
of a polymorphous God-head.
Although the Hebrew and Christian scriptures can be
interpreted as a liberating resource for role-oppressed women
and men, as some contemporary Bible scholars attempt to
do, the fact is that over the long centuries of the existence
of the Christian Church, the Bible has traditionally been
used to justify a way of life in which women are expected to
be subordinate to men in the home, in the church, and in
society. It is not surprising, therefore, that spiritually
oriented people interested in the reconstitution of
relationships between the sexes might look with interest to
some of these alternative spiritualities, which seem more
enthusiastically to esteem womanly values and characteristics.
The New York Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society
of Friends has had constituted within its Witness Section a
Women’s Rights Committee. While the lodging of the
committee within the Witness Section suggests that its main
work would be to translate traditional Quaker testimonies
about the equality of the sexes into the sphere of politics
and social change, the committee’s activities have actually
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been broader. It began as a part of the Yearly Meeting’s
Nurture Section and has very recently been returned to the
care of that Section. Thus, an interest in pastoral concerns
and spirituality need not be considered unusual for this
committee.
In the early part of the 1980’s there began to be interest
among some Friends in alternative, or “New Age” religions,
particularly in witchcraft and in spiritualities focused on
Goddess imagery. This interest eventually found its way into
the portfolio of activities of the Women’s Rights Committee,
although it is a little difficult to trace exactly when and how
this occurred. In any event, the Women’s Rights Committee
continued its interest and activity in other fields and did
not become exclusively concerned with Goddess spirituality.
The Women’s Rights Committee organized a weekend
retreat on “Images of the Goddess” at the Yearly Meeting
conference center, Powell House. This took place in April of
1990. It has been difficult to reconstruct exactly whether
this April 1990 retreat was an innovation or whether such
retreats had been scheduled as a matter of course previously
and only got noticed in the spring of 1990. Some Friends
have the opinion that these activities have occurred over a
long period of time; others believe they are new and
innovative. It seems likely that at least one previous weekend
retreat devoted to this or a similar subject took place at
Powell House and that both the earlier weekend and the
one in April of 1990, while participated in by Friends, also
drew into participation people interested in alternative
spiritualities but with no particular connection to Friends.2
A member of New York Yearly Meeting, Carolyn
Mallison, who makes herself available as a resource for
people interested in magic and Wicca, wrote about her
explorations in these fields in an issue of the Yearly Meeting
newsletter, The Spark. This article caught the attention of
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some members of the Clintondale Friends Meeting, one of
the programmed meetings within New York Yearly Meeting,
and when, subsequently, the meeting received the routinely
circulated announcement of Powell House activities and
noted the inclusion in the schedule of the workshop entitled
“Images of the Goddess,” the members felt called to raise a
concern within Clintondale’s Committee on Ministry and
Counsel, and then in its monthly meeting for business.
There occurred a series of communications and
meetings, some informal and unofficial, among people
connected to Powell House, the Women’s Rights Committee,
and Clintondale Friends Meeting. Copies of some
communications were sent to the Yearly Meeting Committee
on Ministry and Counsel. One result of these consultations
was that two women members of Clintondale Friends Meeting
registered for the April 1990, weekend on Goddess-oriented
spirituality. Participants in the weekend undertook some
chanting exercises at the opening session on Friday evening
and, apparently, the two members of Clintondale Friends
Meeting, responding to their sense that an evil spirit was
being evoked, said the Lord’s Prayer aloud and left the
weekend, in distress.
Thereafter, Clintondale Friends Meeting, at its May
monthly meeting for business, adopted the following minute
to New York Yearly Meeting:
Clintondale Friends Meeting rejects the
teachings of Goddess Worship and their correlates
of paganism and witchcraft and calls upon New
York Yearly Meeting to do the same. Paganism and
witchcraft have no place in the life and teachings
of the Religious Society of Friends.
At the annual sessions of the Yearly Meeting at Silver
Bay, New York, during the week of July 22-28, 1990, the
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minute from Clintondale Friends was read at a plenary
business session. Little preparation had apparently been
done, perhaps because of shortness of time, by official Yearly
Meeting bodies by way of exploring with Clintondale Friends
the nature of their concerns, or exploring with Women’s
Rights Committee the nature of their practices, so as to
define for the Yearly Meeting the outstanding issues and
propose either a solution or a series of procedures which
might lead to a solution. Rather, the Clintondale Meeting
minute was presented directly to the gathered plenary
session. There followed a discussion which might fairly be
termed agitated and difficult3 at points, with little light
generated. There was even difficulty in reaching agreement
about procedural next steps.
Immediately following this initial discussion, the pastor
of another Friends meeting, Josh Brown of Adirondack
Friends Meeting, left the Yearly Meeting campus and sent a
letter resigning from all his Yearly Meeting offices and
appointments.4 This letter of resignation was read at the
plenary session the next time the matter of the Women’s
Rights Committee practices came up. There was more
difficult discussion, during which Dan Whitley, and perhaps
some other Friends, felt compelled to leave the room.
Nevertheless, the testimonies by some Friends about their
spiritual experiences and their experiences of oppression
began to enable the body as a whole to gain perspective on
the issues. Dan Whitley was later able to rejoin the group
and expressed regret for having left. The clerk of the Yearly
Meeting Committee on Ministry and Counsel outlined an
order of procedure its members might follow in exploring
the controversy further in the weeks ahead. Later that same
day, at the last business session of the Yearly Meeting, the
clerk of Yearly Meeting allowed time for further reflection
about the issue of Goddess-oriented spiritual practices,
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encouraging those who had not yet had the chance to speak
to offer ministry if they were genuinely led, and encouraging
Friends to cherish the spirit of worship and the silence out
of which spoken words should both arise and to which they
should be allowed to return. Additional centering messages
were able to find expression during this special session.5
Nevertheless, when all was said and done, the issues
remained unresolved at the close of sessions at Silver Bay,
with a serious exploration of them yet to be begun. It was
clear that many Christ-centered Friends, who had responded
enthusiastically to the opening worship with which Yearly
Meeting began, as well as to the keynote speaker who had
offered a message the next day, wound up at the end of
Yearly Meeting feeling quite disheartened and emotionally
drained, having faced in recent years considerable difficulties
over the issue of same-gender unions6 and also over an
appropriately Christian definition of the Religious Society
of Friends itself. Some at least were inclined to feel that the
issue of witchcraft, which to them smacked of a willful
violation of the very first of God’s commandments, reached
a degree of apostasy that could not, like the other difficult
issues, be attributed to simply moral weakness or theological
confusion. Liberal and universalist Friends, for their part,
were deeply troubled to find their Yearly Meeting apparently
so close to schism, with so little warning and with so little
opportunity to have sifted through the issues.
Universalism
While the Religious Society of Friends originated as a
branch of the Christian Church, it has been, in many ways,
“Christianity with a difference.” One of the unique aspects
of Quakerism has been its spirit of universalism. The purpose
of this written reflection is to explore how the tradition of
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Christian universalism can illuminate the present
controversy over Goddess-oriented spirituality as practiced
by some Friends functioning under Yearly Meeting auspices.
A person with a universalist spirit tries to remain openminded about alternative spiritualities. He or she hopes that
the spiritual traditions of humankind can be enriched if
their members develop an active sympathy with, and a
willingness to learn from other kinds of spiritual paths. The
universalist spirit seeks to sympathize with all people of
faith, comprehending the special idiom of spirituality each
represents, the better to interpret each to all the others. It
recognizes that to make exclusivist claims, to denigrate, even
by implication, another’s most precious possession, that
person’s religious faith, is not the best way to love our
neighbors as ourselves.
At the same time a sensible universalist resists the
temptation to fall into an indiscriminate relativism, into a
total unwillingness to judge some things bad or good, or
better or worse, than other things. While there is a need to
be broadminded, to free ourselves of fanaticism, and to avoid
rushing to judgments merely on the basis of our own
inherited religious or cultural biases, we must, after humble
and careful searching, be prepared to resist the shadow side,
or destructive side, of any particular religious practice or
tradition, including that of our own. It would not be an
expression of an authentic universalist spirit for us to accept
uncritically whatever practice some of our co-religionists
might seek to introduce into the life of our Religious Society.
Diversity Among Friends
The generous and open-minded spirit of universalism
has been manifested in the life of the Religious Society of
Friends in many ways. For example, the writings of such
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notable Friends as Douglas Steere, Rufus Jones, and Howard
Brinton are sprinkled with appreciative references to the
spiritual experiences and writings of members of the
Christian community outside of the Religious Society of
Friends. Moreover, this writer knows of several contemporary
Friends who readily undertake spiritual retreats in zendos,
in Catholic monasteries, or in ashrams. Some Friends have
reported meaningful experiences in Native American sweat
lodge ceremonies. Many contemporary Friends are devoted
readers of the works of Thomas Merton, Henri Nouwen and
Carl Jung. The very day during which our Yearly Meeting
was exercised about the practice of Goddess spirituality by
some of our members, we heard read a memorial minute for
a Friend who had distinguished himself both within our
Religious Society and in the broader community and who,
in addition to being a Friend, had also become a Buddhist
layperson. My own monthly meeting has admitted into
membership Friends who are not Christian in a traditional
sense. Some of this non-traditionalism among our
membership grows out of a profoundly universalist spirit,
some out of past experiences with Christian malpractice.
Some members of my meeting wish to be regarded as Jewish
Friends and to incorporate that heritage into their spiritual
life as Quakers in ways not precisely analogous to the way
Christian Friends integrate into their lives the Jewish roots
of their faith.
Perhaps one of the most remarkable aspects of Friends
practice is the respect our Quaker ancestors showed for the
spirituality of Native Americans. George Fox, as we know,
regarded the Light as abiding in everyone regardless of his
or her religion, nationality, culture or race. In an incident
reminiscent of Socrates drawing wisdom from an unlettered
person through his questioning, Fox, by questioning a Native
American during one of his trips to the New World,
demonstrated to a doctor in one of the colonies that the
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Indian possessed the “Light and Spirit of God.”
John Woolman journeyed far and visited Native
American communities at great personal risk during a time
of warfare between them and American settlers. Yet, in spite
of the polarized attitudes that warfare commonly generates,
Woolman testified that he felt only love for the Indians. He
found them measurably acquainted with “that divine power
which subjects the forward will of the human creature.” He
sought to feel and understand the spirit of the life in which
the Indians lived, “hoping to receive some instruction from
them,” and to discover as well if they might in any way be
helped by his own following of the leadings of Truth during
his visit. Woolman gave thanks that the Lord had
strengthened him to make the journey in spite of the dangers
of war, and that He had manifested a fatherly care over him
when, in his own eyes, he appeared to himself inferior to so
many among the Indians. Woolman further gives account
of how, when he took his leave of the Indians, one who could
not speak English and who had not understood any of
Woolman’s dialogue, said in his own language, “I love to feel
where your words come from.”
Some people mistakenly identify as universalism a
certain vagueness, formlessness, and lack of discipline,
which has tended to characterize some contemporary Quaker
faith and practice. Others try to identify a sort of fragmented
eclecticism as universalism. True universalism, while
recognizing the authenticity of different spiritual paths, does
not seek to advance a minimalist religion in which issues of
faith do not count for very much. While true universalism
proposes a deep pondering of the richness of spiritual
traditions and their vocabularies and metaphors, it does
not counsel the neglect of one’s own traditions and their
vocabularies and metaphors, it does not counsel the neglect
of one’s own tradition, which should be practiced with full
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conscientiousness.
Nor can we assume that such an authentic, modern
universalism was fully available to early Friends, who did
not have the experience and perspectives available to them
about other religions that twentieth century people have.
For all their generous-mindedness with respect to Native
American spirituality, early Friends would probably have
insisted that it was the Light of Christ which illumined the
experience of their Indian friends, and would probably have
maintained the hope that the Indians would eventually
acknowledge Christ as the power that guided their lives.
Such an approach would probably discomfort many of
today’s universalist Friends. For a fuller discussion, which
is still a summary treatment, of Quaker universalist thought
in the past and the present, see an earlier essay by the
present writer.7
In any event, it is important to remember that the
sympathetic attitudes of George Fox and John Woolman
described above took place at a time when Christians, almost
without exception, were condescending at the very least, or
militantly hostile at worst, toward the religious life of Native
Americans and others whom they regarded as “pagans” and
“heathens.” In this sphere, unfortunately, Christian piety
has been guilty of many sins against charity.
As has been mentioned, words such as heathen, pagan,
witchcraft and idolatry bring with them out of the JudeoChristian sources of our culture a very heavy freight of
negative connotations, as do references to the devotion of
ancient peoples to figures such as Isis, Astarte, and Athena.
There are probably many different, yet defensible,
philosophies among Friends about how we orient ourselves
toward, and benefit from, the scriptural texts we have
inherited and the centuries-long tradition of which we are a
part. However, it is probably not reasonable to assume that
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our spiritual forebears’ accounts of rival spiritual
communities, as they have left them to us, are accurate or
balanced ones. In fact, this is true as well with regard to the
alternative Christian movements that were ultimately
obliterated by the official Church. This is not to say that
these alternative spiritualities were necessarily always
valuable or healthy; it is only to say that in most cases we
have to look further than the conventional wisdom really to
know.
Women in the Church
Regarding our own Judeo-Christian tradition, however,
we know much, and one aspect of this tradition, its
visualization of the relationship between the sexes, is
increasingly regarded as problematic by modern people.
As was pointed out by several Friends at the 1990
session of New York Yearly Meeting, throughout the long
centuries of Christian culture the Church has tended to
nourish social arrangements under which women were not
only relegated to inferior roles but also abused and exploited
in cruel ways. Whether this patriarchal pattern is innate to
a Christian world view, or whether it is simply a distortion
of Christianity has become a subject of intense debate.
“Hierarchical” and “liberationist” interpretations of the same
biblical texts can be given by different parties. Clearly, there
are many scriptural passages that do indeed claim divine
sanction for the subordination of women to men; there are
a few others that contradict these and that counsel equality;
and there are a great many scriptural passages that seem
to be able to serve as a kind of mirror reflecting the
interpreter’s ideology back to her or to him.
What cannot be denied is that in its long history, as
well as in much modern practice, the Christian Church has
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expected the subordination of women to men a deeply
entrenched pattern that much twentieth century struggle
has only just begun to erode.
Faiths and practices of Christianity have, throughout
its history, been extraordinarily diverse and have constantly
been subjected to processes of evolution. Eventually,
Christianity has always overcome the confinements of
culture-bound traditions and scriptural teachings, as larger
visions of justice and compassion have become persuasive.
To the extent that altered social roles for women and men
prove to be truly liberating, as in Quaker experience they
have been, we can expect the rest of the Christian Church
to “catch up,” regardless of tradition or scriptural difficulties.
But this is a long process with many uncertainties, and we
should not be surprised if many people seek spiritual
nourishment from non-Christian sources when they find
that these better meet current needs. Even Friends, with
their relatively advanced testimonies and practices regarding
the equality of the sexes, cannot completely escape the maledominated imagery and theological conceptualization of the
mainstream Christian Church, and that fact, combined with
Friends greater open-mindedness about theological
venturesomeness, makes interest in Goddess-oriented
spirituality among us seem unsurprising to this observer.
Monotheism, Polytheism, Anthropomorphism, Idolatry
It is reported that exercises in Goddess spirituality
conducted under the sponsorship of the New York Yearly
Meeting Women’s Rights Committee have involved the
affirmation of qualities and attributes of ancient deities not
associated with the Judeo-Christian tradition. It has also
been reported that such deities have been invoked for
blessing, health, inspiration or support through the
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employment of a chanting practice. This writer did not
participate in the exercises in question, and knowing the
tendency of word-of-mouth reports to distort truth, must
caution readers that these reports may indeed not be true.
However, since the reports, whether true or false, have
entered the discussion, it does mean that we, as Friends,
are challenged to think once again of the issues of
monotheism, polytheism, and anthropomorphism.
It is usually taken for granted by people in the
mainstream of Western religious thought that monotheism
represents a great advance in humankind’s spiritual
pilgrimage over polytheistic ways of looking at things, which
are usually regarded as being “primitive.” It is the conviction
of the present writer that this casually made supposition is,
in a general way, true, but it is also important to realize
that the matter is not quite so simple as our dogmatism
about it might imply, and it is useful, while acknowledging
our own predilections about this, to think through some of
the implications of alternative approaches.
Just as it is true that those whom the Hebrew people
and the Christian Church have been prone to regard as
“idol worshipers” did not see the same thing in their idols
that the Jews and the Christians thought they saw, so too
polytheistic religions are often not what Jews and Christians
take them to be. For example, Hindus believe that since no
human conception can completely describe the infinite, their
attribution of many forms and shapes to the godhead is
simply a way of understanding that the same Source appears
in many guises designed to meet the inner needs of those
who worship Him or Her. Thus Shiva, Krishna, Rama,
Ganesha, the Divine Mother, Brahman, Kama, and so forth,
are understood in Hindu philosophy as some of the thousand
names for the one Source. It is true that, just as is the case
with Western religion, what happens on the village level often
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is not true to the insights of the greatest sages of the religious
tradition. There may indeed occur a kind of forgetfulness
that all these deities are not separate entities, and people
may, in effect, wind up worshiping different and even rival
gods. But it is important to recognize that what we often
take to be polytheism, and what might often even actually
deteriorate into polytheism, is not necessarily polytheistic
in its original intent or essence. There is one form of every
religion that might be considered to be its most perfect aspect
as it comes to us directly from heaven, arrayed in its native
purity, but there is also another, more melancholy aspect
with which we must deal – the inevitable mixture of error
and corruption affecting all great religions long resident upon
earth among human beings, with their foibles and
weaknesses.
In the ancient pre-Christian world of the Mediterranean
and the Near East there apparently did flourish many
genuinely polytheistic philosophies. What is interesting here
is that often people from different sectarian groups afforded
honor and respect to each other’s deities, while being
especially devoted to the one or more they worshiped as
their own. To be respectful of each other’s deities was
considered to be a mark of an advanced degree of civilization.
Ancient people often had great difficulty understanding why
one group should separate itself out from this mutually
tolerant communion of humankind, and while claiming the
exclusive possession of divine knowledge, should come to
disdain every form of worship except its own as idolatrous.
Again, it is important not to over-romanticize
spiritualities alternative to those of the Hebrew people and
the early Christian Church. Some people are apt to assume
too readily that cultures based on Goddess worship would
automatically nurture societies of peace and love, a happy
state that was crushed out of existence by the jealous
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Yahweh and his monotheistic and marauding followers. It
is necessary to remember that patriarchy existed in many
other places besides Hebrew society, and there is
considerable evidence that people who worshiped female
deities were quite capable of aggression and cruelty.
Jews and Christians were apt to regard the deities of
Hellenistic civilization as nothing more than the personification of human list and foibles. Yet to modern readers
the Yahweh of many of our own scriptural passages seems
little better, with his jealousies, fickleness, rages and
vengefulness. While the Bible itself often likens the
apostasies of Israel to the actions of a harlot who forsakes a
true spouse, some modern readers, in contrast, have gone
so far as to liken the relationship between Yahweh and his
chosen people to that between a battering husband and his
spouse-victim, in terms of its quality and dynamics!8
Many religious traditions have been keenly aware of
the perils of physical depictions of deities, and even of human
leaders. The dangers perceived are somewhat analogous to
Friends reservations about creedal statements. We can begin
to worship our own creations, notions and conceptions. We
can become entrapped in deadening habit. We can forget
the ineffable, wondrous, stretching and challenging aspects
of spirituality as we become hooked on a settled image or
mode of thought. On the other hand I have been in a Roman
Catholic basilica in the Philippines where members of the
faithful stroked humanly made images of Jesus and of the
saints with handkerchiefs, which were than placed upon
parts of their own bodies needing healing. These practices
were conducted with such piety and fervor that it would be
difficult to argue that the images and rituals were deadening.
The Buddha, who did not consider himself to be a deity
and who was quite explicit in his antipathy to idols, clearly
commanded his followers never to make a graven image of
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himself. For several hundred years after his [the Buddha’s]
death no images of this great spiritual leader were produced.
During this period he was often symbolized by a wheel, one
of his most important teaching metaphors. Later he began
to be represented by a footprint, often with the symbols
associated with his teaching inscribed on the toes. Ultimately
his proscription of pictorial imagery broke down altogether,
until today gold plated statues of the Buddha are the first
things that come to mind when we think of Buddhism and
its culture.
At New York Yearly Meeting’s 1990 session one Friend
testified to us about the help he felt he received by attending
a worship service in a mosque and hearing Islamic teaching
about the dangers of physical depictions of the deity. The
Jews, too, share this same perception and always have
forbade the representation of the person of God in graven
images. We are told repeatedly in Jewish and Christian
scriptures and in our tradition that God is a spirit, without
body, parts or passions, a pure being, that, when offering a
self description, said only, “I Am That I Am.”
The Jews have faithfully adhered to their avoidance of
pictorial metaphors. Images of Jesus were forbidden in the
very earliest days of the Church, but this idea soon broke
down as Christianity sank its roots into a Hellenized culture
where images and statues of deities were commonplace.
Moreover, both Jews and Christians seemed not to be able
to avoid representations of God in verbal images, if not in
physical ones. God walks in the Garden of Eden. He is said
to stretch out his arm. His voice shakes the cedars. Indeed
some have argued that if we were forbidden to talk or think
about God in visual metaphors it would be impossible to
think about God at all.
Within the Judeo-Christian tradition almost all of the
metaphors used in verbal visualizations of God are
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masculine. A few of these metaphors might be said to be
genderless, particularly those metaphors associated with
the Holy Spirit. The quality of holy wisdom, Hagia Sophia,
is often given a female characterization, particularly in
Eastern or Orthodox Christianity. I am also told that in
Western Christianity the third person of the Trinity, the
Holy Spirit, usually represented by a dove, has occasionally
been depicted as a female figure. I believe this is quite rare,
however. Jesus portrayed himself in feminine terms as he
wept over Jerusalem. Perhaps other Friends can remind us
of other attributions of womanly qualities to the deity in the
Judeo-Christian tradition.
At any rate, the overwhelming preponderance of male
imagery in the Jewish concept of Yahweh, as well as in the
Christian concept of the Trinity, which, with its patriarchal
Father who gave forth an incarnation in human form as a
male Son, combined with a genderless Holy Spirit, offers a
very stark contrast to many other religious traditions where
womanly qualities are more generously employed in
metaphors about the deity.
Even within the Christian tradition there is evidence
that women and men have hungered for a more genderbalanced characterization of holiness and sanctity. Male and
female saints have been venerated, probably in somewhat
equal numbers and with the same high esteem, regardless
of their sex. Of particular interest in this connection,
something quite beyond the devotion to a variety of saints,
is the cult of the Blessed Virgin Mary, which has flourished
within the Roman Catholic tradition and which seems to do
so much to roil relationships between the Roman Catholic
Church and many Protestant denominations, whose
members are apt to regard Roman Catholic Mariology as a
form of “idolatry.”
Although Mary the Mother of Jesus is quite a shadowy
figure in the Gospels, there developed in Medieval
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Christianity an enormous enthusiasm for her veneration,
an enthusiasm that seems to have continued quite unabated
even into the twentieth century, the century during which
Pope Pius XII, speaking ex cathedra (that is, speaking
infallibly) declared it a dogma of the Roman Catholic Church
that the Blessed Virgin Mary was assumed bodily into heaven
at the time of her death. Moreover, the Blessed Virgin Mary
herself continues to appear to human beings here on earth,
as at Guadeloupe in Mexico. At least two twentieth century
apparitions are officially recognized by the church – one at
Lourdes in France, and one at Fatima in Portugal. Right
now there is a world-wide flurry of excitement about another
apparition of the Blessed Virgin Mary in Medjugorje,
Yugoslavia. Although there is worldwide enthusiasm among
some Roman Catholics for the apparitions in Yugoslavia,
the Church has yet officially to pronounce them genuine.
What is interesting about all this in the light of our
present considerations of Goddess spirituality in New York
Yearly Meeting is that it might be said that the cult of the
Blessed Virgin Mary represents a centuries-long expression
of hunger within the Christian Church to overcome the
exclusively male character of metaphors for God. To be sure,
the Roman Catholic Church always insists that the Blessed
Virgin Mary should never be worshiped as God. Nevertheless,
even in official Church pronouncements about the mother
of Jesus an ambiguity about this can be detected, as she
seems to occupy a place quite different from other human
saints in relation to the Godhead. In terms of actual practice,
again, our more austere Protestant friends have been quite
certain that they detect idolatry in the way vast numbers of
the faithful give expression to a sense of devotion to the
Blessed Virgin.
Further consideration of the two official and the many
unofficial occasions when it is claimed that the Blessed Virgin
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Mary has appeared to earthly mortals (and perhaps usurped
the office of the Holy Spirit in so doing) can be instructive.
Although the Blessed Virgin Mary does not appear only to
women, perhaps 90 percent of those who have seen her are
indeed not only women but poor peasant women.
Apparitionists are, in short, drawn from the lowest and most
oppressed stratum of the social ladder in the societies where
these phenomena have occurred. The Blessed Virgin, by
appearing to these women, sets the patriarchal ecclesiastical
order of things on its head, as poor peasant women suddenly
have a direct avenue to celestial regions, an avenue which
is independent of the male dominated Church magisterium.
Not surprisingly the local monsignors and bishops are
usually as skeptical about and hostile towards these
apparitions as are the village atheists. Nevertheless, in spite
of the protestations of church leaders, hordes of the faithful,
men and women alike, desert the churches to kneel in the
muck and the rain of rural fields listening for signs and
messages from heaven over which the local bishop has no
control. Although the whole phenomenon of Mariology is
usually considered quite foreign to Quakerism, there might
be some similarity, at least, between the two, inasmuch as
in our Friends tradition, too, a lowly and peasant people
claimed to have found that they had openings to divine things
that did not require the mediation of learned clerics.
Another aspect of the mother of Jesus that bears
thought is the image of sanctity she represents, which is at
once fully human and thoroughly immersed in the world,
yet also capable of giving birth to divine things. Jesus
himself, in contrast, was a God-man. He walked on water
and raised people from the dead. In these respects he can
sometimes seem very distant from anything we could hope
to be or even to understand. He spoke of his Kingdom as
being not of this world. Through the ages the sanctity
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inspired by Jesus has often been characterized by withdrawal
from human affairs, by a certain remoteness from the
ordinary pain and struggle of life as it must be lived by most
members of the human race. Mary, in contrast, was a
householder and a mother, a not unengaging image of piety
for people like Quakers who try to give expression to the
divine Word through activism in the world of human affairs.
At the same time, there are aspects of the cult of the
mother of Jesus that are inevitably disquieting to a Friend’s
sensibilities. The first of these, of course, is the peculiar
emphasis on the idea that, contrary to the evidence that
scripture seems to offer, Mary remained perpetually celibate.
This leaves little explanation for the origins of the Lord’s
brothers, to whom the New Testament alludes. Concern for
the celibacy of Jesus’s mother expresses a world view called
spirit-body dualism, that is, the attitude that all fleshly
things are corrupt and all holy things are entirely
spiritualized, which many Friends regard as a very
destructive aspect of Christian tradition. Secondly, Mary’s
very minor and somewhat shadowy presence in the Gospels
seems to suggest an all-too-familiar womanly role of
subordination, of patient and self-effacing ministering unto
men.
Whether or not Jesus himself promoted a patriarchal
outlook or was rather a liberator of women is an enormously
complex subject that is beyond the scope of the present
consideration. Some point out that by insisting on monogamy
Jesus greatly enhanced the rights and status of women, as
he did also in the famous Mary and Martha story, where he
approved Mary’s “higher” contemplative pursuit over
Martha’s kitchen stereotype. On the other hand, Jesus
seemed extraordinarily fond of male images of the deity,
referring again and again to the Creator as a “Father.” Most
readers of the Gospels probably concur that the point of
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this for Jesus was to emphasize the feeling of closeness to
God, rather than to hammer home a masculine image of
the deity.
Jesus’s relationships with women seem at once close
and respectful. Yet Gospel descriptions of his interaction
with them appear limited to the sphere of the domestic
responsibilities through which they ministered to him. He
never seems to suggest that women ought to teach men or
exercise spiritual authority over them.9 Some contemporary
Jewish commentators complain that feminist Christian
theologians try to claim Jesus as one of their own by setting
his rather ordinary relationships with women, as described
in the Gospels, into a Jewish social context whose patriarchal
qualities they exaggerate and distort so as to make Jesus
look good by comparison. According to this perspective, by
the time of Jesus, Jewish life had evolved in much more
pro-feminist directions than Christian theologians interested
in claiming Jesus as a liberator give it credit for.
We live in a time of great ferment in the Christian
Church. In many ways the versions of Christianity that we
inherit from our forebears have completed their tasks for
civilization and are now exhausted. The Christian movement
is struggling to redefine itself so as to be able to address the
new challenges that are laid before us. The rethinking of
the implications of Christian Scripture, Christian tradition
and contemporary Christian practice regarding the
relationship between the sexes and regarding the respective
roles of women and men in spiritual, family, and community
life has only just begun, and yet it has yielded much that is
riveting and illuminating. A similar field involves the theology
of religious pluralism. How does the contemporary Christian
Church, in spite of the burdens of its history, come to
account for, and adequately to respect, non-Christian
religions as authentic expressions of the Divine salvific plan?
Friends have made an extraordinary, if insufficiently
noticed, contribution through their development of a
Christianity which is universalist in nature, which honors
and respects the spiritual experiences of others, and which
has uncovered and exploited genderless metaphors for the
deity that have remained underutilized in the Christian
tradition – metaphors involving such concepts as the Light,
the Word, the Seed, and that of God in everyone. They have
done their best to practice gender equality in all aspects of
church life, in the family, and in commercial activity. If there
are some Friends who wish to add some female metaphors
to the preponderantly male imagery that has characterized
the Jewish and Christian faiths, in addition to Quakerism’s
traditionally genderless ones, it would not seem that this is
in itself a pernicious thing. What is crucial is that in every
case we remember that these are metaphors and that we
not mistake them for that to which they so inadequately
allude.
Prayer, Magic, Ritual, Sacraments
On each First Day my monthly meeting conducts two
unprogrammed gatherings for worship. The first occurs at
9:30A.M. and tends to attract early risers and members who
prefer smaller, more intimate and quieter periods of worship.
The 11:00A.M. meeting is generally regarded as the “main”
one.
Some years ago one of our members who regularly
attended the 9:30A.M. meeting for worship went traveling
among Friends in England and over a period of many weeks
had the opportunity to attend First Day meetings for worship
in a number of rural and urban Quaker meetings there.
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in England was in general more gathered and centered then
the worship she was used to experiencing at home. In
wondering why this was so, she remarked that the Friends
participating in these gatherings in England seemed not
very much different from ourselves. But she did notice,
without exception, that there was a nicely arranged bouquet
of flowers in the meeting-for-worship room, and also a copy
of the Bible left in a place that was a natural point of visual
focus.
Friends who attend our 9:30 A.M. meeting, being
experimental by nature, began placing a flower arrangement
and Bible in the center of the open square of our meeting
room. I think it fair to report that this practice does have a
beneficial effect on our worship. The making of the flower
arrangements is a responsibility that is passed around
among the members, who serve on a volunteer basis. The
fact that someone cares enough to come early and make
these arrangements so that the room is, in a sense, prepared
and “presented” to arriving worshipers, rather than being
merely unlocked at the last minute, builds a sense of sharing
and community in the group. The sight of a volume of
Scripture turns the mind toward those things seen as
important by people of faith through the ages. The beauty
of the flowers wakes us up to the present moment, helping
us to shake off the cloud of preoccupation with sundry
objects of busyness back at home or at the office. Inner
silence is the quality of being present. The sight of the
beautiful flowers, created objects which are complete in
themselves and quite beyond our calculations and schemes,
has the effect of settling the spirit.
At any rate, Friends in the 9:30A.M. meeting for worship
began leaving their flowers and Bible behind to be shared
by Friends at the 11:00A.M. meeting. But this produced
objections almost immediately. It was clear that some
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Friends who attended the 11:00A.M. meeting for worship
regarded the presence of the flowers and the Bible as the
first step in a long slide down toward the hireling ministry
and toward the serving of bread and wine. Now we dutifully
remove these objects at the end of the 9:30 A.M. meeting for
worship so as not to cause offense.
Friends Seminary, a Quaker school that shares our
monthly meeting’s premises, uses our meeting-for-worship
room as its auditorium. At Christmas time the Seminary
decorates its auditorium, i.e., our meeting-for-worship room,
with boughs of holly and garlands and branches of fir. This
is always pure, unadorned greenery, with no bright red
ribbons, brass bells, or tinsel. Nevertheless, it will usually
inspire the vocalization of misgivings on the part of a few
meeting members concerned about the loss of the testimony
that every day is equally holy, about the lapse from simplicity
which “decorating” represents, about the ritualistic character
of the annual adornment of the worship room, and about
the pagan (Druidic) origins of the practice and the
implications of its adoption by Quakers who number the
days and months rather than using names of pagan origin.
Shaking hands at the end of meeting is another kind
or ritual or symbol. Quaker weddings contain what is, for
us, much ritual: a the reading of the certificate, its solemn
circulation from committee member to committee member
for signing, the good natured stampede by all present to
affix their signatures at the rise of meeting. The certificate
itself becomes a kind of totem object. Like most totem objects,
it is usually on display at the entrance to the encampment
or abode – the foyer – and serves to remind members of the
tribe or household itself, as well as the visitors who curiously
scrutinize the fading signatures, of their origins, beliefs, and
place in the chain of being.
As has been mentioned earlier, different Friends have
testified that they have found participation in Native
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American sweat lodge ceremonies to be meaningful; others
value the various spiritual exercises and rituals to be found
in Eastern monasteries and ashrams. This writer has often
allowed his home to be used for the celebration of Roman
Catholic Masses. But in spite of all this he was not a little
startled, when among Friends from the evangelical branch
of our faith community, to find that a number of our coreligionists practice water baptism and, not completely
satisfied with the total spiritualization of the Lord’s Supper
common among unprogrammed Friends, actually conduct
communion services!10 It would seem that there is something
of a difference between honoring another tradition’s spiritual
practices, and even personally exploring them, on the one
hand, and actually introducing these practices into the
official life of the Religious Society of Friends, on the other.
This writer has met Friends who regard it as improper
to recognize special days like Thanksgiving, Easter or
Christmas, because every day should be approached as
equally holy, and because our spirits should respond to
reality as a whole, including the birth and continuing
presence of Jesus, at all times. One should, in a sense, have
Christmas thoughts all year long. However, most Friends,
while content to celebrate in some special way anniversaries
like Thanksgiving and Christmas, are extremely reluctant
to take bread and wine in a solemn way in commemoration
of the Lord’s Last Supper. Turkey and cranberry sauce are
acceptable, while bread and wine are not.
Undoubtedly, this disinclination occurs in acknowledgement of George Fox’s insight that, in Christian history,
outward symbols like bread, wine and water became barren
physical signs, which got in the way of a truly inward baptism
and communion. In high church practice, the Sacrament of
the Eucharist, especially, can take on the characteristics of
magic. A specially ordained company of people with esoteric
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knowledge are solely qualified to cast a spell that turns bread
and wine into something else. These special powers,
historically, have been employed by an ecclesial-political
complex so as to oppress and tyrannize common people.
Fox’s corrective was to insist that worship must be offered
in spirit and truth only, and not with outward symbols.
The entire subject of prayer, magic, spells, healings,
sacraments and rituals is too vast to enter within the scope
of the present consideration. Two points do seem relevant,
however. The first is that most practices ordinarily derided
as “pagan” or superstitious have very close analogies within
Christian tradition. Most often, however, these pagan/
Christian practices are ones to which Friends, out of their
experience, have explicitly taken exception, as they have to
outward sacraments.
For example, Native Americans and contemporary
people interested in New Age spirituality have an interest in
sacred sites and hallowed grounds – special locations on
the earth where it is claimed there exist concentrations of
spiritual energy, which provide benefits of various kinds to
those who visit them. Sedona, Arizona is one of these sites,
as are various other places either within Native American
reservations or on land under dispute. Similarly, pilgrimages
to sacred places have a long tradition within Christianity.
Sometimes these places are understood to be of essentially
historical interest. In other cases, however, spiritual power
is deemed to be present at these sites. I have spoken to
people who are quite certain that they have experienced such
power at Lourdes, for example. In other traditions, the
Ganges River is sacred to Hindus, and Mecca and Medina
are sacred to Moslems. Special properties are attributed to
holy water in Roman Catholic and Hindu practice. Relics of
saints are honored by Catholics and are thought to have
healing properties. Buddhists have established stupas
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containing relics of the Buddha all over the world. So, the
first principle to be kept in mind is that often people will
regard the magic-like practices of another culture as strange
without realizing how close those practices are to ones with
which they are so familiar that they scarcely think about
them as anything extraordinary.
The second point that deserves attention is that just
as there are high and low forms of prayer, there are also
high and low forms of magic. Clearly, there are good
Christian people who think that by praying certain sequences
of words they can ward off danger or compel success. Others
pray hoping to change God’s mind so that the deity will do
what the pray-er wants, as if God were a sort of cosmic
bellhop. Higher forms of prayer emphasize surrender, and
are akin to inner silence. Such prayer or silence seeks a
state without personal desire, which is satisfied with
whatever God provides and allows to happen. It is devoid of
stubborn grasping or mental agitation. In higher prayer we
seek to change ourselves so that we want what God wants,
so that we “Let go and let God.” This is not passivity, in that
we expect to be called into activism, but our activity will be
designed by God rather than fashioned as an expression of
our human egos.
This is not to deny that there is a spiritual dimension
to physical healing, and that we can help ourselves and
others by prayer, by attention to the quality of our
reconciliation to the natural order of things, and by
stimulating morale.
Magic, too, at its lower levels is simply a kind of false
engineering, a vain attempt to control nature. Higher magic,
in contrast, seeks to generate in the practitioners emotions
that are necessary and useful for the work of living. Peasants
whose crops fail frequently blame the weather. If a rain dance
arouses emotions and cures idleness, there might be nothing
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to blame the weather for. To an outsider, magic that looks
as if it is intended to stop earthquakes and floods, that looks
like a kind of mistaken science, when examined more closely
might be seen as a way of producing in people the capacity
to bear these phenomena with fortitude and hope. Many
religious activities – hymns, ceremonies and ritual acts –
are intended to evoke and re-evoke feelings that are useful
if discharged in everyday life. Religion is usually much more
than magic, but most religions incorporate magical activities,
and much of what is commonly called “practicing” a religion
is practicing its magic.
Carolyn W. Mallison has written “Something had been
missing for me in Quakerism as I experienced it. I discovered
the missing dimension to be that of sacred ritual, and its
correlate, observance of natural rhythms and events, a
central part of ancient religions. Early in our history Quakers
rejected what was seen to be empty, meaningless ritualism.
We were right to abandon dead and deadening ritual, but
what I discovered through the Goddess Within was that ritual
is like an empty vessel which may be filled with meaning, a
source of aliveness.”11
All of these practices capable of producing salutary
effects also have a dark, or shadow, side. People can use
rituals to arouse unhealthy and counterproductive emotions
as well as useful ones, or they can evoke spiritual states
that are evil. Oddly, magic is reappearing in our own highly
technological society, and when it does so it seems very
often to take demonic forms, perhaps reflecting the character
of our civilization. We read of the suicides of teenage people
provoked, at least in theory, by cults and magic. Friends
who have served in mission fields abroad have testified about
the harmful effects of magic practices when they are
employed with an intent to do harm. On the block where I
live one occasionally stumbles upon evidence that one of
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my neighbors from Caribbean cultures seeks to harm
another (with whom there presumably has been a quarrel)
through the use of magic. Many parents are concerned about
the bad effects of a popular game called “Dungeons and
Dragons,” which apparently draws on the culture of magic
and satanism for its “thrills.” This may be an instance where
modem people employ spirit-laden symbols for their own
economic, entertainment or political purposes. The widely
respected Soviet film-maker Sergei Eisenstein often employed
Christian symbols to summon up and to depict satanic
spiritual states. Today, Hollywood often employs and abuses
the symbols of non-Christian spiritualities in seeking to
project violent and sensational qualities of being.
To the extent that interest in Goddess spirituality within
New York Yearly Meeting’s Women’s Rights Committee has
involved magical practice, this writer, although not having
participated in the programs, feels it is entirely reasonable
to assume that these practices are of a positive, uplifting
kind. I have not spoken with the two Friends from
Clintondale who participated in the opening of the Powell
House weekend, but other reports I have heard certainly
have tended to bear this out.
But as revealed at Silver Bay in 1990, and by the above
examples, there is a range of attitudes among Friends
regarding practices that can be termed ritualistic or magical.
Some Friends are inclined to regard such practices merely
as an innocent form of auto-suggestion, akin to any number
of helpful, or at least reasonably harmless, modern
therapies.12 At least some Friends interested in participation
in the Women’s Rights Committee’s magic-like activities
seemed to approach them with this attitude. On the other
hand, paradoxically, some of the more theologically orthodox
and Christ-centered of the Friends with whom I spoke
testified to their very profound belief in a supernatural realm
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inhabited by a variety of spirits, and they seemed to credit
the Women’s Rights practices with an ability to elicit
responses from esoteric powers which many in the group
itself would probably scarcely have assumed themselves to
have. Along with this deeper sense of the reality of cultic
powers among these Christ-centered Friends was the related
belief that absolutely any magic-like practice not undertaken
in the name of Jesus was, ipso facto, satanic in import.
This returns us to the fundamental question of what
all this means in the life of New York Yearly Meeting.
Goddess Spirituality and New York Yearly Meeting
Given the nature of the times in which we live, when
human activity in all fields is becoming globalized, and when
there is an unprecedented degree of interpenetration of
religious cultures and philosophies, it seems unsurprising
to this writer that eventually some Friends would discover
and develop an interest in that body of spiritual lore which
Carolyn Mallison describes as “Old Religion, Nature Worship,
Witchcraft, Wicca, or Magic.” This natural rising of interest
is underscored by our developing consciousness of the agesold sexist practices of the Christian Church, its history of
intolerance of alternative spiritualities and its persecution
and slander of them, and the fact that the alternative
spiritualities alluded to in this somewhat catch-all body of
lore were often practiced by women and focused on womanly
qualities of spirit.
Equally unsurprising, it would seem, is the fact that
this field of exploration would inspire severe disquiet among
many Friends. There are many reasons for such disquiet.
One is the obvious one that there is a tradition of skepticism
about this field that is very strong in Christian tradition,
and some Friends might reasonably be expected to
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sympathize with this ages-old misgiving. Nor is it possible
simply to assume that such Christian skepticism is merely
an expression of unjustifiable intolerance. Every spirituality,
every religious phenomenon in human experience, has had
its shadow side, and it cannot be assumed that goddess
spirituality and Wicca represent any exception to this. There
is certainly a need, when we venture into this relatively
unexplored territory, to be sure that what we undertake is
truly an enlargement of spiritual horizons and not a
regression.
Moreover, regardless of its theological content, this
alternative spirituality involves ritual practices of the type
from which the Religious Society of Friends has historically
sought to purify itself. This aloofness may be breaking down
among Evangelical Friends, but a large body of sentiment
in New York Yearly Meeting is inclined to value and to
preserve it. The reaction of this writer to reports about the
practices of Goddess-oriented spirituality and magic among
New York Yearly Meeting Friends is not that we are being
plagued with something outrageous or bizarre, but that, as
is the case with some of our Evangelical Friends, we might
be in danger of sliding into something which too much
resembles everyday religion-as-usual.
Mention has previously been made to the historic
openness of Friends to the authenticity of other religious
paths. Friends have always been willing to learn from others.
As of the date of this writing, the most recently published
Pendle Hill pamphlet, Number 291, is entitled Prayer in the
Contemporary World. It is a reprint of a series of meditations
by Douglas Steere first published in 1966. In the course of
his valuable reflections Douglas Steere cites Martin Luther,
Alfred North Whitehead, the Hasidic Master Rabbi Susya,
Carl Jung, Martin Buber, the Baal-Shem Tov, Sir Thomas
More, and others. Most prominent among Douglas Steere’s
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citations are Roman Catholic masters of the life of prayer:
Ignatius of Loyola, Francois de Sales, Teresa of Avila, and
Pope John XXIII. As a person who has received much
nourishment from the writings of Thomas Merton and Henri
Nouwen, I can well appreciate why other Friends might draw
from the spiritual insights of Roman Catholics.
But this is a different thing from actually suggesting
that Roman Catholic masses be celebrated at Powell House
under the care of a Yearly Meeting committee. Whether we
are borrowing from Catholicism, Buddhism, or Wicca, we
are presumably being selective, identifying insights from
these other sources to reinforce an essentially Quaker
charism. We are not simply blurring all distinctions between
Quakerism and other spiritual practices. While I would not
want to propose that it is inconceivable that Yearly Meeting
might some day want to sponsor Roman Catholic masses, it
would be something I would expect to receive very careful
reflection and to be thoroughly grounded in a sense of the
meeting, rooted in the body as a whole, before being
undertaken. Without prejudging any of the Women’s Rights
Committee’s practices related to Goddess spirituality and
witchcraft, it would seem that at the very least they have
approached a boundary of our faith in a way which, as an
activity of an official Yearly Meeting committee, merits more
threshing in the body as a whole than the matter has thus
far received.
It might be useful to reflect briefly on the governance
structure of the Religious Society of Friends and on the
respective roles of the monthly and yearly meetings. Why
does it occur, for example, that a monthly meeting can
celebrate same-sex unions before there is unity in the yearly
meeting about this, while the suggestion here is that the
practice of Goddess-oriented spirituality ought to occur
within a context of yearly meeting unity?
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The writer is assuming that the Religious Society of
Friends understands itself to be a decentralized
“congregational” form of church policy. In Quaker history,
George Fox settled the monthly meetings as the Society’s
executive institutions immediately upon his release from
three years imprisonment at Lancaster and Scarborough
jails in 1666. While there were annual meetings of some
Friends equally early, the yearly meeting as we know it today
did not fully evolve until 1760. Howard Brinton implies, in
his study Friends for Three Hundred Years, that with the
gradual development of the yearly meeting there did not
develop the implication that the larger group exerts authority
over the smaller groups within it. Rather, the larger group
is intended to undertake common tasks regarding which
the constituent members feel it useful to unite because by
so doing they can accomplish such common tasks more
successfully than they could acting individually.
On the other hand, Michael J. Sheeran, a Roman
Catholic whose study of Quaker decision-making practice,
Beyond Majority Rule, is widely respected by Friends, while
acknowledging that in the beginning care was taken to define
the pronouncements of superior meetings as only advisory
to monthly meetings, implies that eventually in practice the
assumption grew that the yearly meetings (of elders) had
more authority than that. He cites an example in 1735 when
the Meeting for Sufferings admonished York Quarterly
Meeting for its “independent and irresponsible action” – an
action affecting, in the view of the Meeting for Sufferings,
the relationship of Friends to Parliament, a very vexing
matter at the time. Sheeran’s view, in contrast to Brinton’s,
seems to be that the yearly meetings gradually achieved
hegemony over monthly meetings, although he reports this
change with an air of regret at the loss of the free movement
of the Spirit which to him, it implies.13
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It would seem that in contemporary Friends practice
the Brinton view is operative, at least in New York Yearly
Meeting. And just as monthly meetings, therefore, celebrate
same-sex unions in advance of the ability of Yearly Meeting
to approve their doing so, it might be assumed that some
would sponsor or otherwise support explorations into
Goddess-oriented spirituality before all Friends throughout
the Yearly Meeting felt comfortable with such a mode of
spiritual expression.14 The difficulty in the present instance
seems to arise, procedurally, because the activity is taking
place in the name of the Yearly Meeting as a whole, since it
is being conducted by a body of the Yearly Meeting, i.e., the
Women’s Rights Committee.
The Religious Society of Friends somewhat miraculous
balance between order and spiritual resilience has been
enhanced in recent times, it seems to this observer, by the
development of special interest groups which, if they are
conducted in the proper spirit, need not be the divisive threat
that some Friends seem to fear. Friends for Economic
Democracy, Friends for Lesbian and Gay Concerns, the New
Foundation Fellowship, the Quaker Universalist Fellowship,
the Friendly Vegetarians, and other groups make a positive
contribution to the life of Quakerism by providing an avenue
through which concerned people can explore the relationship
between their Friends faith and some other deep interest
without roiling the life of the Society of Friends as a whole.
Such groups can be a source of inspiration to the larger
Society as their explorations result in clear leadings that
can be shared with monthly and yearly meetings for further
thought and study. Is it not possible that there could be
founded a group to study and practice Goddess-oriented
spirituality, Wicca, Old Religion and witchcraft, which is
Quaker in character yet need not be burdened with the
oversight of a yearly meeting, or at least not until the
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appropriate threshing has been done?
In any event, it would seem clear that any activity being
conducted by a committee officially established by the Yearly
Meeting ought to be regarded as accountable to the Yearly
Meeting, which operated through the sections it has
established to oversee its work. No matter what the activity,
whether it be in the field of social action, spiritual
development, or youth work, it should be expressive of the
leadings of the body as a whole. To lapse in this discipline
would be to call into question another belief very basic to
Quaker spirituality, that is, our view that the will of God is
knowable through the disciplined practice of a search for
unity under the guidance of the Holy Spirit in a meeting for
worship with a concern for business. This does not mean
that every activity need be approved at plenary sessions.
Most committee work is of the sort that is clearly within
established guidelines and expectations. But the role of the
sections is to take note of those occasions when the activity
of one of their constituent committees has become
venturesome, is testing boundaries, and therefore requires
broader consultation, and perhaps, eventually, carefully
prepared review on the floor of a plenary session.
What was surprising about the situation in the 1990
sessions of New York Yearly Meeting, at least for this Friend,
was that such a seemingly foreseeable set of difficulties had
advanced and deepened so far without, apparently, the
mediating influence of the Yearly Meeting’s governance
structure. The concern thus arrived in a relatively
provocative and undigested state on the floor of a plenary
session, only in response to a complaint, having been lodged
after a controversial event had occurred.
Perhaps much had taken place behind the scenes that
simply was not apparent to Friends sitting in plenary session.
But there was no report from the Witness Section about
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how it had reviewed the activities in question with a view
towards their import for Friends testimonies, perhaps
seeking the consultation of the Ministry and Counsel
Coordinating Committee, or the Nurture Section, if the
matter raised issues of faith and practice that seemed beyond
the scope of the witness Section’s ordinary agenda. I
recognize that Friends aversion to “hierarchy” may have
resulted in some breakdown of accountability practices,
particularly where an issue of women’s spirituality is
concerned. But it seems to me that the experience we had
at the 1990 session serves to warn us that oversight is an
active responsibility that must be conscientiously carried
out if the health and unity of the Yearly Meeting is to be
preserved. The goal of oversight is not at all automatically
to weed out the venturesome, but to seek the guidance of
the Spirit in discerning constructive from destructive
evolution, and to assure that change is of such a sort that
all in the Yearly Meeting can keep pace with it.
In this process a creative tension is to be expected.
Small groups can legitimately be in the vanguard of a larger
body, which might tend to be less insightful about the field
of endeavor in which a small body is specializing. Thus, the
seeking and the giving of oversight is a service to the Yearly
Meeting as a whole at least, it is to the extent that all involved
are creative in seeking to close any gap in understandings
and perceptions that may have opened up.15
It would seem inevitable that the specialized committees
of the Yearly Meeting – Women’s Rights, Prisons, Human
Relationships and Sexuality, and others – would tend over
time to gather into their membership, despite the efforts of
the Yearly Meeting’s Nominating Committee, like-minded
people who reinforce each other in traveling in a direction
which may be shared among themselves, but which strays
from the center of gravity of sentiment in the Yearly Meeting
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as a whole. There is nothing strange or sinister about this.
But if, in spite of the Nominating Committee’s best efforts,
each of our specialized committees fails to incorporate into
its membership Friends who represent the broad spectrum
of perspectives that exist in the Yearly Meeting, and if the
oversight of the more representative section coordinating
committee is weak, we, in effect, are left with a Quakerism
without definition. Small groups of people could then venture
down strange paths, and launch novel activities which, once
started, would require unity to stop. We would thus be left
with a Quakerism without any boundaries. We would become
a kind of supermarket religion, which stands for nothing in
particular and offers a little of everything to everybody.
Quakerism offers us an austere spiritual practice, at
once simple and awesome. In its laying aside of the creeds,
trappings, icons, rituals, and magic that characterize most
religious culture, it seeks to focus directly on the inner
essence of the holy relationship of human persons to God
and to each other. We know from our experience that our
simple silence, the shared inner silence of our hearts and
minds, can open us up to Divine Truth, a Truth that is in
us and around us and always seeking to make Itself known
to us. When we hear this Truth, each act, each moment, is
an occasion of magic and wonder. Such hearing and obeying
allowed our spiritual forebears to act prophetically in the
arena of human affairs with an impact scarcely imaginable
for a group of their small numbers.
The Society of Friends has not been a tightly knit
spiritual community since the time we know as the Quietist
period. But the years since the 1960’s seem to have generated
a certain additional loss of cohesion within our spiritual
fellowship. We are in a state which probably many of us
recognize as incomplete; we are subsisting at a level
somewhat less than we could or should be doing.
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Seeking an enlivening of spirit in novel places at such
times is not unnatural. In fact, the infusion of insights from
other traditions can often be renewing at such moments,
but only if judiciously employed so as to refocus us on the
core of our life in faith together. There is so much that
remains to be explored, so much yet to be realized in terms
of the practice of our specifically Quaker worship and social
witness, that undue wandering in other directions can
become simply a postponement or distraction. It is to be
hoped that Friends will increasingly be drawn to perfecting
the gifts of our own heritage. Without abandoning all our
universalist-minded respect for the wondrous and diverse
family of spiritual traditions, it is still possible to affirm that
the world urgently needs what a perfected Quakerism could
offer it in a time when civilization itself is in deep crisis.
Regardless of how appropriate our Yearly Meeting as a
whole comes to deem specific activities that have taken place
at Powell House, I am confident that we have much to learn
from Goddess spirituality. Certainly, our awareness of the
damage done by religious imagery that has been one-sidedly
male can alert us to the limitations of all metaphor in
spiritual communication; we can find a new creativity in
our daily lives from the equal interplay of the feminine and
masculine; we can value anew our Quaker heritage of the
equality of the sexes and of our rich, gender-neutral
vocabulary for allusion to divine things; we can learn to
savor the many faces of the one God. We can understand
that no created thing is a dead thing, that nothing is without
spiritual significance.
The earth, the fire, the air and the water constantly
speak to us, out of the silence, of the One who made them.
We can acknowledge the rhythms, forms and patterns of
the universe and renew ourselves through this acknowledgement. We can know that whenever we eat or drink or
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breathe we are in communion with this great cosmos which
is our home and of which we are an integral part. Immanuel
Kant saw two awesome realities: the “starred heavens above”
and the “moral law within.” But these are not separate
realities. Whether expressed through silence or through
ritual and sacrament, it is the abiding intuition of Spirit-led
people everywhere that there is that of God in everyone and
everything, and that therefore the inner order of the self in
alignment with the Holy, and the outer order of the universe
as an expression of the Holy, are, in the end, one and the
same ultimate reality.
FOOTNOTES
1. Two Friends who are especially sensitive to the Christian
roots of Quakerism and who read an earlier draft of this
paper felt the description given above of the import for
Christian people of matters such as witchcraft is greatly
understated by the use of the terms like “denigrated”
and “negative feelings.” One Friend proposed substituting
the word “condemned” for “denigrated.”
2. Part of the difficulty in reconstructing the history of this
concern within New York Yearly Meeting is that there
have been a variety of activities in different Quaker
contexts which may blur together in people’s recollection.
For example, there have apparently been activities
focused upon witchcraft and Goddess spirituality at
Friends General Conference Gatherings for many years.
Within New York Yearly Meeting itself, it seems that,
short of actual weekends at Powell House, there have
been interest groups at Silver Bay devoted to some aspect
of Goddess spirituality or witchcraft for most of the
sessions during the decade of the 1980’s.
3. Some Friends who read an earlier draft of this essay felt
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that the characterization above of the Yearly Meeting
session in question is an understatement. Each had one
or more recollections of comments that were made or
incidents that occurred during the discussion that
seemed to them so extraordinary as to require a stronger
description than is rendered here.
4. To some Friends at Yearly Meeting this action by Josh
Brown may have seemed precipitous. Josh Brown has
explained to the writer that it was a prepared, deliberate
and painful decision. He has been concerned about
enthusiasm for Wicca within Yearly Meeting for several
Years. He has been reading about it and listening to
Friends and discussing the matter with them. He has
also followed closely the concerns raised within
Clintondale Friends Meeting, and by Clintondale Friends
Meeting among other Yearly Meeting Friends and
committees.
5. This discussion may make it appear that concern about
the matter of the “Images of the Goddess” weekend was
confined to Clintondale and Adirondack Friends
Meetings. After sharing an earlier draft of the present
material with a few Friends I was informed that the
circulation of the Powell House invitational flyers aroused
concern in other meetings as well. I do not know the
extent or depth of this reaction, however.
6. At least one Friend asked me to indicate that although,
from his Christian perspective, he is concerned about
the practices of Goddess spirituality, of magic and of
Wicca in New York Yearly Meeting, he does not feel
disheartened by trends regarding same-gender unions.
There may be more Friends who do not fit the
generalization in the text, or perhaps this correspondent
may be a minority of one! Still another Friend points
out to me that from his Christian perspective our concern
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ought not to be only about same-gender unions, but
should be about the broad matter of a Spirit-led
testimony on issues of sexuality and on family life for all
of us.
7. Daniel A. Seeger, Universalist Quakerism: A Ministry
Among Friends and in the World. Offered at the 1988
Annual Meeting of the Quaker Theological Discussion
Group. Available by writing to Dan Seeger, Pendle Hill,
338 Plush Mill Road, Wallingford. PA, 19806.
8. See especially Gracia Ellwood’s Batter My Heart, Pendle
Hill Pamphlet No. 282.
9. This is true as far as surviving Gospel accounts are
concerned. Many scholars now claim that in the early
church women took prominent leadership roles, and that
if this is the case it could only have been because of the
influence of Jesus. This theory posits a kind of expunging
of the record by later generations of churchmen.
10. It should be noted that this is not the general practice
among Evangelical Friends. While the discipline of most
yearly meetings in the Evangelical Friends International
allows the practice of water baptism and the Lord’s
supper, they also make it clear that in Quaker tradition
outward sacraments are not regarded as necessary.
11. Carolyn W. Mallison, “On the Goddess Within.” Friendly
Women, Winter 1986. Volume 7. Number 5.
12. There seems to be a variety of attitudes regarding the
invocations and rituals practiced in connection with
Goddess oriented spirituality among those who
participate in them, as one would naturally expect. I
know one participant for whom the activities seemed
like a camp song or an exercise in fun, akin to other
lighthearted community building exercises. Others take
a more serious view, and would regard any denigration
of the solemn spiritual import of the activities as a form
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of condescension or disrespect. The analogy with the
Roman Catholic mass which appear later in the text,
while inexact, seems on balance to provide a useful
opportunity for clarifying thought about procedures.
13. It could be that over the years Friends have used a variety
of ways of achieving unity on major issues. In some
instances movement may have bubbled up from the grass
roots, in others it may have occurred through threshing
in larger bodies. Also, there are certainly examples in
Quaker history when quarterly or yearly meeting officials
“labored” with constituent monthly meetings when they
appeared to be going astray, or “ranting.”
14. Whether it is truly wise for a local meeting to proceed in
new directions on any issue which many other Friends
cannot understand is a matter that should always be
considered very carefully. To what extent ought unity
with Friends beyond the monthly meeting be regarded
as a value? And to what extent is a monthly meeting
making a witness for the Society of Friends at large,
whether it intends to or not, when it publicly engages in
novel action?
15. As an example of this kind of creative tension, one Friend
has drawn to my attention the fact that the worship
meetings for healing at Silver Bay and the healing
weekends at Powell House were initially regarded
skeptically by many Friends, since much that occurred
in these healing meetings seemed unfamiliar to those of
orthodox views. The activity gradually gained acceptance,
however. There are probably many other examples of
committees that were able to broaden the view of Yearly
Meeting as a whole.
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