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HOW DO YOU DEFINE PROBLEM BEHAVIOUR AND DISCIPLINE

In Timor-Leste generally teachers believe that misbehaviour has to be punished because many have the belief that such misbehaviour should never occur and that the student should be disciplined, usually through intimidation or physical violence.

Critical reflection: My “picture” in relation to problem behaviour and discipline HOW DO YOU DEFINE PROBLEM BEHAVIOUR AND DISCIPLINE? Crisogno Soares Freitas Pereira In Timor-Leste generally teachers believe that misbehaviour has to be punished because many have the belief that such misbehaviour should never occur and that the student should be disciplined, usually through intimidation or physical violence. I believe that this needs to change urgently because students are not objects that have to be controlled in this violent way. What a teacher sees as problem behaviour may not be seen in the same way by the student. Every person has the ability to react differently to external and internal stimuli, and when the teacher believes the response to be a disruptive one it is the teacher who is faced with what I would call ‘disruptive behaviour’ or “disengagement as a behavioural difficulty” (Porter, 2007, p. 16). There appears to be a gap between what the student believes to be appropriate behaviour and the teacher believes to be inappropriate behaviour. I believe that all children are basically good, and that they are busy exploring the wonders of their own world. This exuberance is central to their whole learning process, even though in their exuberance they may well miss the mark at times. When this occurs the process of discipline, eliciting from the student a more appropriate response, is the challenge facing the teacher. One of the difficulties in defining problem behaviour is that it is often in the eye of the beholder. When a teacher determines a certain behaviour to be a problem the teacher is actually making a decision on what she/he believes or values – “misbehaviour in the eye of the observer” (Porter 2007, p. 16). The misbehaviour can be a problem for the teacher whilst the student believes it to be appropriate behaviour. It is the teacher that has the problem because the teacher has determined that it was inappropriate (Porter 2007). To engage with children in their emerging struggle for independence and a strong self-identity it is important to decide where one stands with respect to the nature of children. Some authors state that “to overcome children’s inherent evil tendencies, adults must maintain strict control over pg. 1 Critical reflection: My “picture” in relation to problem behaviour and discipline them”, whilst other authors state that “children are innocents who need protection from the threats of the adult world” (Porter, 2007, p. 12). I see these authors as being on the extreme of a continuum, and that the reality lies somewhere in the middle. I believe that children are basically good and are fully occupied with coming to terms with the wonderful world within which they live and have their being. I believe that in most instances academic and behavioural errors are accidental, inevitable, an opportunity for personal growth and sometimes even a side-product of possible learning difficulties. This is not to deny that there can be instances when the behavioural error is quite deliberate. When faced with the former I, as a teacher, will be challenged to trust the student and to continue to walk gently yet firmly with the student in their learning. A focused, caring approach will provide a positive environment to enable the student to see a better way forward – “students’ progress in schools in more influenced by school quality” (Mortimore et al; Rutter & Maughan cited in Porter, 2007, p. 4.). Inappropriate responses of children have to be addressed as integral to their wholesome human development, and the process needs to be disciplined. It demands on the teacher the need to reflect on the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of this behaviour that has been judged as inappropriate, and then a decision about how best to open up for the child more appropriate alternatives. The teacher must take into account “their age and stage of development” (Grossman cited in Porter, p. 16). Discipline can therefore be a very positive, supporting and caring approach enabling the student to move towards a more appropriate response. In this sense discipline becomes integral to a learning process within which the student can be provided with information and social skills that will empower the student with the capacity for change (Porter, 2007), because I believe that students have a capacity to change especially when the teachers creates an environment of positive discipline. The benefits of such a positive discipline will be enhanced by engaging the parents of the students to make steps towards a more appropriate range of behavioural responses. When the teacher and parents are able to form a partnership, the students will able be assisted through a tighter framework of stability at home and school. I believe that a positive discipline, respectful of the student and her/his stage of development, will foster a sensitive, caring, calming environment within which a more appropriate response pg. 2 Critical reflection: My “picture” in relation to problem behaviour and discipline can emerge for the student. I believe that when teacher are able to create such an environment most children will respond positively. A safe, secure, respected, and trusted environment will empower most children to respond ever more appropriately to their experience of living and learning. All children are gifted in one way or another and all are capable of productively engaging in this wonderful, exciting process of learning – at home, at school and in the wider society. Reference Porter, L. (2007). Student behaviour: Theory and practice for teachers (3rd ed.). Crows Nest, NSW, Australia: Allen & Unwin. pg. 3