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    Living as a Young Woman of God
    Living as a Young Woman of God
    Living as a Young Woman of God
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    Living as a Young Woman of God

    By Jen Rawson

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    Living as a teenage girl is hard enough for middle schoolers. Living a godly life is even more difficult! It helps to learn from someplace other than culture and media. You can help show young girls how to live as godly young women.Becoming...book 2 is an eight-week study that will show girls how to live as godly women in the midst of the everyday life issues they face. With games, activities, quizzes, projects and crafts, movie clips, music, and stories, you’ll have your girls engaged in a study that will help them figure out how to live life as the women of God they are. In this study, your small group of middle school girls will:• know who they are, and what they’re capable of• learn to deal with pain and disappointment• grow spiritually• discover how to deal with friends, guys, and parents• find out how to become a woman of GodWalk with your middle school girls as they discover what it looks like to live as godly young women.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherZondervan
    Release dateAug 30, 2009
    ISBN9780310862833
    Living as a Young Woman of God
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    Jen Rawson

    Jen Rawson is a junior high coach, and has a bachelor¹s degree in biblical literature and psychology. She¹s been working with junior high girls for over a decade, and is passionate about helping young girls walk the path to discovering God¹s plan for their lives. She currently lives in Valley Center, Kansas, with her husband, Ken, and their wonderful children.

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      Living as a Young Woman of God - Jen Rawson

      INTRODUCTION:

      WHY YOU NEED THIS BOOK

      It’s amazingly easy to convince a middle school girl that she’s worthless, that her parents don’t understand her, and that everything about her is inadequate. She may be transformed from a girl who a few years prior loved many things and was confident and mostly pleasant to be around into an emotional, dramatic young woman who’s obsessed with her appearance and no longer believes in herself. How does this happen? The answer is quite simple. Our culture—with its television, magazines, movies, music, billboards, and the Internet—combined with the pressures of school life and girls’ changing bodies, minds, and emotions is a mixture sure to confuse and upset even the most foundationally stable girls. They stop being themselves and start appearing and acting like all the other females around them. They take on the rigorous occupation of evolving into the ideal woman by being female impersonators. Then when they see they’re failing at the task of becoming ideal women (because they all will), their lives become a mess. What’s more, parents are often on their own in this struggle. And when parental advice goes up against the views of friends and the media, guess whose suggestions and concerns are left by the wayside?

      Living as a Young Woman of God is designed to help girls stop pretending and start living as the young women God created them to be. When they embrace and stay true to that identity, your girls not only will survive this tumultuous transition into womanhood, but they’ll also be happy, healthy, and whole. Living as a Young Woman of God creates an opportunity for you to come alongside parents to mentor girls in the face of our culture and the lies it tells them. It helps you train girls to use the minds God gave them to question and critique what they’re seeing, hearing, and reading. It upholds truth—because girls must find value in who they are, as they are; exude authenticity; and have the courage and know-how to analyze life instead of let life happen to them.

      WHAT IT IS

      Living as a Young Woman of God is an eight-week curriculum geared toward a small group of middle school girls being discipled by adult women. It addresses the nuts-and-bolts, practical aspects of thriving in life as a young woman of God, including caring for their relationships, finding true value and worth, dealing with their emotions, and appreciating their bodies inside and out. It continues the process (begun in Becoming a Young Woman of God) of transforming their thinking from a mentality that values what our culture says to the mind of Christ. From trying to be like all the women, they move to trying to become like Christ.

      The goal is for your girls to discover and appreciate how great it is that they’re not like every other girl out there and to stay on track in the journey toward living as the women God wants them to be, toward finding their value in Jesus. If your girls can internalize the truth that they’re valuable because God created and cares about them, as well as use their minds to process and question what they see and hear, they’ll be on track for healthy choices and fulfilling lives. They’ll see themselves as truly beautiful because they’re living like Christ.

      THE METHOD BEHIND THE MADNESS

      Ingredients

      At the beginning of each lesson you’ll find a list of items you’ll need to lead the session.

      Appetizer

      Each session begins with a crazy game or activity that ties into the topic for the week. Sometimes the point is made right away; other times the point of the game/activity is brought up later in the session. When it comes to games, most middle school girls are up for about anything. But occasionally a girl doesn’t want to participate. In these cases I always encourage the girl but never force her. If the same girl doesn’t want to participate every week, have one of your more mature students personally invite her to get involved. (An invitation from an adult isn’t the same as one from a peer.)

      Specialty

      Each session incorporates activities such as fun quizzes and group projects, age-appropriate crafts, situation scenarios, movie clips, music, and stories. To keep interest high, most sessions include the option of using at least one video clip.

      Time limit disclaimer: You may not have the necessary minutes or hours to get through all of the activities in each session from week to week. That’s okay! If there’s more than one movie clip, and you don’t have time for both, just choose the one you like better. The same is true for the other activities. Pick and choose whatever best gets through to your group. If a craft doesn’t go well one week, try something else the next. On a low budget? Check out books and movies from the library. Do what works for you.

      Take Out

      At the end of most sessions, there’s a suggested way for the girls to take home what they’ve learned that day. This is an object of some kind that they can place in their rooms, in their pockets, or in their lockers at school; it will remind them of the truth you all discussed. (What your girls are learning goes against what our culture is teaching them; changing our minds isn’t easy. So they need all the reminders they can get!)

      Notes to Parents

      I believe our role as leaders is to assist parents. They know their children better than anyone else, and you get the opportunity to assist the experts in molding these girls. So in a few lessons we ask parents to get involved, sometimes by helping their daughters with the brainteasers and Soul Work questions and sometimes through letters you’ll send to the parents. You’ll need to check ahead of time which weeks include notes to parents, as these must be mailed to give parents enough time to respond during those weeks.

      Reality Check (student outlines)

      To help your girls stay focused there are reproducible student outlines to pass out to them before each session. The outlines can help your girls remain actively involved in the session as they follow along, fill in the blanks, and answer multiple choice questions, as well as group questions. Plus, when they put pens to paper, they’re taking one more step toward cementing truth in their hearts and minds. The student outlines will also be very helpful for the girls during the week while they’re doing their Soul Work.

      (Note: As you’re leading the session and come to a Reality Check heading, just prompt your girls by saying Reality Check and ask the question or questions or read the statement or verse—your girls have the same wording on their handouts.)

      Also, make sure your girls save their Reality Check outlines from week to week—they’ll all help with the Final Project, should you choose to have them do it.

      Soul Work

      This is a fancy word for homework—but because it’s homework for the soul, it’s much more meaningful than studying for a math quiz. Soul Work is done during the week, between meetings. It includes assignments such as interviews, journaling, and many other activities that help your girls think for themselves.

      Each Soul Work handout starts out with some fun brainteasers that seem to have nothing to do with anything. But you can be assured they do have a purpose. First, they help the girls look forward to something; second, they encourage them to talk to their parents and siblings about the answers. (Pretty tricky, eh?)

      Plus, every week each girl is asked to be in contact with an other to reinforce her relationships with parents, grandparents, and mentors. The other typically is Mom—a middle school girl’s hardest relationship is with her mom. Yet it’s by far one of the most important, so we want to help as much as we can to foster that relationship. If we’re lucky enough to catch moms and daughters when they aren’t struggling with communication, then it will make the relational foundation all the more firm—and will further aid your girls to deal with what’s to come.

      You’ll have some girls who are faithful in doing their Soul Work every week; others may never do a single assignment. When girls come with their Soul Work incomplete, rather than laying on the guilt, help them through the discussion. And keep encouraging them to do the work since it will allow them to see how what they’ve learned meets real life, covers material you didn’t have time to deal with at the meeting, and helps them get personal and application-oriented with regard to the study sessions. You can review the answers and thoughts the girls came up with—just keep in mind how much time you want to spend reviewing a previous week’s Soul Work versus leading the current session.

      Also, make sure your girls save their Soul Work sheets from week to week—they’ll all help with the Final Project, should you choose to have them do it.

      ONE LAST THOUGHT

      You’re about to embark on a trip that few women take part in. Middle school students are often forgotten. They’re not children but far from adults. They’re moody, mouthy...and yet moldable. Their minds are switching from concrete to abstract. They’re just starting to question what’s real and what isn’t. Do they really believe in this God their parents believe in? They’re trying to decide which friends they’re going to hang around. Most important, they’re trying to discover who

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