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    101 Things You Didn't Know About Sex
    101 Things You Didn't Know About Sex
    101 Things You Didn't Know About Sex
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    101 Things You Didn't Know About Sex

    By Eve Marx

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    • Sexual Pleasure

    • Sexual Health

    • Masturbation

    • Intimate Relationships

    • Relationships

    • Forbidden Love

    • Sexual Exploration

    • Sexual Awakening

    • Sex Sells

    • Love at First Sight

    • Power Dynamics in Relationships

    • Sexual Liberation

    • Sexual Empowerment

    • Sexual Diversity

    • Mrs. Robinson

    • Sexual Orientation

    • Sexual Satisfaction

    • Fetishism

    • Orgasms

    • Power Dynamics

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    If you think you know it all when it comes to sex, youÆll find something surprising in this new book. From tantalizing tantric trivia to the kinkiest of sexual practices, this down and dirty tell-all romp reveals the most salacious aspects of human sexuality and behavior. Whether you are simply intellectually curious about sex or actively interested in sexual exploration and experimentation, youÆll find the satisfaction you crave in this wickedly entertaining sex guide!
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSimon & Schuster
    Release dateSep 18, 2009
    ISBN9781440504280
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      101 Things You Didn't Know About Sex - Eve Marx

      Introduction

      For as long as I can remember, I've been curious about sex. Not just the act, or acts, or even personally having sex (although I have to say, I've had quite a lot), but simply about all things sexual. It could be that I was just a preternaturally sexually curious child, but from a young age, I was captivated by images and impressions relating to sex.

      That I was able to turn my deep and abiding interest into a bonafide career still sometimes surprises me! My interest in sex is partly academic, partly anthropological, partly voyeuristic. It is both a blessing and a curse that people — even near strangers! — want to tell me about their sex lives!

      There's a great deal of hue and cry right now about how sex is the only thing that sells and how there is too much emphasis on sex in modern culture. And it's true, we sit through a lot of lousy movies just because we heard it's got a steamy sex scene, and we're far more likely to pick up a book to read if we know it's got a sexy passage. Sex appeal is a principal reason why we buy cars, clothes, jewelry, undergo pricey cosmetic procedures, take exotic vacations, and travel around the world, motivated, many times, simply by the possibility of sex. Sex, like food and drink, is one of the great driving forces. No wonder we're all obsessed by it!

      101 Things You Didn't Know about Sex is meant to be an informative, hip, modern, and unabashedly nonclinical look at sex, offering the kind of juicy bits not usually taught in health class — unless you just happened to be in attendance at an extremely progressive and open-minded classroom. All the material covered in this crash course on human sexuality and behavior is true, but far from what you'd learn from your mom — unless your mom is Dr. Ruth. In these pages you will find useful and pertinent information on everything from birth control to sexual preferences to how to arrange a threesome. While not exactly encyclopedic in scope, I've tried to provide a sizeable span of sexual topics to inform and entertain.

      no. 1

      You have almost no control over what or whom you find sexy.

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      Instant attraction, love at first sight, the power of scent, slow-burn love, how opposites attract, are all part and parcel of what we call sex appeal. Instantaneous sex appeal and how we connect with another person mostly has to do with physical and psychological factors we may have little or no control over.

      Instant attraction, it turns out, is almost always based on early presexual and sensual experiences. For example, remember the first person you had a big crush on? His or her type will always be a trigger for you, ingrained forever into your most basic sensory system.

      Your culture also plays a big part in who you find sexy. For example, because American culture is so fascinated with large breasts, many males born and raised here are programmed from an early age to respond to women with large breasts. Movies, television, style and trend magazines, in fact the entire cult of celebrity, informs our thinking as to who we think is sexy, and most of us happily accept their decree.

      Sex appeal stemming from the rules of opposites attract, grows out of an unconscious desire to be with someone who has something that we lack. That's one of the reasons why an introvert can be attracted to an extrovert!

      Then there's mirroring, which means we like people who look or smell a lot like ourselves. That's the reason why so many redheads adore other redheads, and blonds go for other blonds!

      Slow-burn sex appeal develops when you discover that feelings you have for the person you've been hanging out with all the time as a friend suddenly turn erotic. The attraction and the sex appeal develop when you realize how much you have in common. Attraction to another person is also triggered by dopamine in the brain that tells you that you're liking what you're seeing and now you want more of it.

      PILLOW talk

      Love is a matter of chemistry, but sex is a matter of physics.

      — Unknown

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      Pheromones, that is, the natural scent exuding from your body, play a big part in sex appeal, but don't expect to have any control over them. Pricey perfumes and colognes may initially boost your sex appeal to the object of your desire, but at the end of the day, if he or she can't deal with your sweat, the relationship isn't going anywhere!

      no. 2

      Whether oral sex is actually sex depends on whom you ask.

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      The jury's out on this one. And there may be an age-related bias. A lot of young men and women don't think of oral sex as real sex or at least not serious sex. Certainly former president Bill Clinton said it was not. Besides men of stature, many people disagree on whether oral sex counts as sex or not. A large number of people in America at least think that sex acts that include penile/vaginal penetration or penile/anal penetration are bonafide sex, while anything else, and that would include finger action, frottage (a French lesbian move involving lots of pelvic rubbing and grinding), and oral sex is just playin'. Foolin' around. Puppy love? On the other hand, ask any woman whose husband has dallied outside the marriage on the receiving end of a blow job if she thinks he cheated on her and the answer is yes. Ask a guy the same question and he'll probably say no. Maybe it's a gender bias?

      PILLOW talk

      I happen to like uncomplicated sex.

      — Sigourney Weaver

      no. 3

      It's been said that an orgasm is similar to a sneeze.

      The build-up, the anticipation, the release … those are three reasons why orgasms are frequently compared to a sneeze. Kind of a diminishing way to view orgasms, though, isn't it? There is a legend that having eight sneezes in a row will produce an orgasm and another that ten sneezes in a row is the equivalent of an orgasm. Like an orgasm, a sneeze is an unrestrained physical response. In the case of a sneeze, it's triggered by the body's perception that something has to be expelled from the nose. But sneezing, unlike orgasm, can also be set off in some people by exposure to a lot of bright light (this is known as photogenic sneezing), or even by combing one's hair too hard! Sneezing also causes temporary incontinence, which is why some women pee a little when they sneeze. The liquid produced from an orgasm, whether it's semen or female ejaculate, is definitely not pee, however!

      PILLOW talk

      Winning is like sex, the more you do it, the more you like it.

      — Felix Sabates

      no. 4

      Same-sex dalliances are fairly common among teen and twenty-something girls; less so among adult women.

      If you're fooling around in bed with your same sex best friend and wondering if you might be a lesbian, there are some things to consider first. When you're a young female adolescent your hormones are raging and you're in a continually aroused state, a lot of things seem possible, including having sex with a buddy or a wild same-sex hookup with a total stranger. Does it mean that you're a lesbian? Nah. This goes for guys too, but only really young ones. Most guys are sexually mature by the age of eighteen. They know by then whether they go for guys or for girls. Unless they're bi, and then they enjoy both, although even among bisexuals, there's usually a preference.

      You can swap spit, fool around, get naked, share a hot tub, have sex with a person the same sex as you — and not be gay. You can even be in a long-term, same-sex sexual relationship and still not be a homo. How come? Because sexual orientation is something that must be declared. You have to say you're gay to be gay or you're not gay or you're ambivalent. Consider the woman who told another woman at a party that she had just come off a twelve-year relationship with another woman. So you're gay? her new friend said. No, I'm not gay, the woman said. "I was in a gay

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