Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get
By Tosin Ojumu
()
About this ebook
A short ebook from my relationship series and blog: "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" that is all about building an outstanding foundation for an outstanding Christian marriage. This ebook addresses the concept of "playing hard to get":
"...This is why you need to know this about me – when the right guy comes along, I will eagerly agree and try to express my own interest. However, for me, most guys are emphatically not right – and never will be. When I say I am not interested, please believe me that that is exactly what I mean. I am not trying to encourage you to persist in some elaborate game of conquest. Nothing, but nothing annoys me more than when I have indicated or said no outright – and a guy persists..."
Tosin Ojumu
I am a born again Christian writer, blogger and webdesigner. I write under a few different pen names, some of which are variations of my own name. Under "Tosin Ojumu", (the shortened version of my first name) I write mostly Christian material. I am producing an open translation of the Bible (New Testament) called "The Open Bible". I also write articles about my opinions on various Church and Christian matters, and I maintain a blog about my expectations and hopes for Christian marriage called "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie". This is also the pen-name I use for other non-fiction, including opinion articles about issues unrelated to my faith.
Read more from Tosin Ojumu
What is Prayer? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Difference Between Love and Lust Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDitching the Toxic "Marriage Maths" Mentality Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings24-7 Prayer Is There A Better Way? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow Women Make Themselves Cheap Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSome Thoughts on Sexual Temptation Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsIs There Only One? Knowing the Will of God in Marriage Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMarrying My Best Friend Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Body, Soul and Spirit! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsOverview of Marriage Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Interaction Between Personality and Character Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhat is Friendship? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Husband Equals...A Glass Ceiling? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhy the Christian life is not the life that God created us to live Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFeelings of Inadequacy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsRefutation of Tithing as a Biblical Commandment Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLegitimate Self-Concern Versus Unconditional Love In Marriage Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsExcellent Wife Material? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMarriage as a Performance Art Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod Wants You to be Great for Him! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Yoruba Obas (kings), the gods...and Nigerian Pastors Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5Everybody Changes! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhy the Time Before Your Marriage Can Be the Most Powerful Part of Your Marriage Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhy This is Such a Big Deal for Me Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings3 Fat Lies That You Would Not Fall For, If You Knew Your Bible Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow to Ask Someone Out Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWelcome to the Friendzone! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSexual Purity: Homosexuality Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Story That Needs to Be Told Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Related to Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get
Related ebooks
The Friend Zone Playbook Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings10 Things I Learned After I Escaped an Abusive Relationship Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMarry Me? How to Make Him pop the Question Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsKick the Jerk out of Your Life: Don’T Let Anyone Fool You Again! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDump Him Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow to handle a player in your relationship Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Dark Charming Secret To Get Any Man To Commit To You Quickly Without Any Stress Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsRose Garden: Life with Hypoactive Sexual Desire Syndrome (HSDS) Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsEx Back!? The Secret of Getting Back Together Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFalling Back in Love: 7 Steps to Saving Your Relationship Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStudies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 5 Erotic Symbolism; The Mechanism of Detumescence; The Psychic State in Pregnancy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhy Men Cheat, What Men Really Think and Internet Dating Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsI WANT YOU: Seduction Emails from a Narcissist Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5How To Win Your Dream Man's Heart And Make Him Yours Forever... Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGirl, go get your man: A girls' guide to getting and keeping her man Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGetting Your Guy! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDeath To The Fling, Get The Ring Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow to Really Win or Lose a Guy in Ten Days Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChicks: A User's Guide to Dating, Love and Sex Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSome Thoughts on Sexual Temptation Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsYou Can Get Your Love Back Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsEffective Triggers (951 +) to Break Free from Destructive Relationships and Get the Love You Want Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHow to Win Him Back Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Secret Codes Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGet Your Ex Crawling Over Broken Glass Back to You In 2 Weeks Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Sabotage 2: Its All Smoke and Mirrors; How to Handle a Commit-A-Phobe Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings10 Steps How To Keep A Man: How Not To Run Him Off Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWalk Away - How to Recognize Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLust Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Christianity For You
Wise Thoughts for Every Day: On God, Love, the Human Spirit, and Living a Good Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How Jesus Became God: The Exaltation of a Jewish Preacher from Galilee Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Speak French for Kids | A Children's Learn French Books Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Spiral Staircase Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties: (And Let's Be Honest, Your Thirties Too) Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Book of All Books Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5What Do We Do With the Bible? Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5Till We Have Faces Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Beginning French for Kids: A Guide | A Children's Learn French Books Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsNothing Wasted Bible Study Guide: God Uses the Stuff You Wouldn’t Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGetting Started in French for Kids | A Children's Learn French Books Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLove in the Void: Where God Finds Us Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5My Bright Abyss: Meditation of a Modern Believer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Being Christian: Baptism, Bible, Eucharist, Prayer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Bruised and Wounded: Struggling to Understand Suicide Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFaith Confirmed: Preparing For Confirmation Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5God over Good: Saving Your Faith by Losing Your Expectations of God Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Living Resistance: An Indigenous Vision for Seeking Wholeness Every Day Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Learn French Now! For Every Kid | A Children's Learn French Books Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Confident Lady Guidebook: How to Develop and Maintain Unwavering Confidence Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAND: The Gathered and Scattered Church Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Partnership Theology in Creative Access Regions Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLiving His Story: Revealing the extraordinary love of God in ordinary ways Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5René Girard and the Nonviolent God Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Salvation Army Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWorship and Mission for the Global Church: An Ethnodoxolgy Handbook Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5French is Fun, Friendly and Fantastic! | A Children's Learn French Books Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsConflict... When the Story Gets Interesting: A Portion from Tell Me a Story Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsC. S. Lewis Essay Collection: Faith, Christianity and the Church Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Reviews for Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get - Tosin Ojumu
Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get
Copyright 2019 by Tosin Ojumu
Published at Smashwords.com
Thank you for downloading this ebook. This book remains the copyrighted property of the author, and may not be redistributed to others for commercial or non-commercial purposes. If you enjoyed this book, please encourage your friends to download their own copy from their favorite authorized retailer. Thank you for your support.
This ebook was previously posted on my blog "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" on 30 June 2013
To see this ebook in other formats please check out my website at: https://huggie-wuggie.com/excerpts/playing-proactive-versus-playing-hard-to-get/
Image by Viktor Peschel from Pixabay
**********
Finally, finally, I am able to address this issue which I find unspeakably frustrating!
It's like this. As a person, as a woman I have made up my mind that I am never going to play hard to get - never ever ever! All this actually means is in practice is that if someone asks me out, and I like him, I am going to be straightforward and just say it as it is, just as I am in my writings.
Would you like to go out with me Tosin?
I'd love to!
On the other hand, if I don't like him, or feel