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    Living with Jezebel
    Living with Jezebel
    Living with Jezebel
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    Living with Jezebel

    By Miko Marsh

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    Many are familiar with the biblical character known as Jezebel. Her name has become something of a tag used to describe a woman deemed to be of a shameless or immoral background.

     

    In reality, the woman was a malignant narcissist. Her actions have become a blueprint for narcissism and include terms we recognize today, such as – smear campaigns, character assassination, gaslighting, and so on.

     

    In Living with Jezebel, you can now follow the life of this scandalous yet fascinating character from the time she's introduced to us as King Ahab's wife until the time she is killed about 30 years later - thrown from a window by her own retinue.

     

    With a direct connection to modern day life, you can see how the life of Jezebel can impact on our own lives when we allow people to enter and cause chaos. These are people who love no one and believe everyone is disposable. This is the person who uses everyone, expects 100% compliance, and would have no problem killing you if she thought she could get away with it.

     

    Suitable for readers who have little understanding of the Bible or for Bible students, Living with Jezebel also serves as an in-depth character study that shows ways she uses to operate within the church and why she can't be permitted to teach.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherMiko Marsh
    Release dateOct 1, 2017
    ISBN9781386155829
    Living with Jezebel
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    Miko Marsh

    Miko Marsh is a mother, author, caregiver, instructor, and motivator. She has a degree in social services, college certification in Early Childhood Care Education, has worked directly with individuals in behavioral facilities, and has owned her own daycare. Her author credits include books related to caregiving, an educational workbook for introduction to childcare, and personal transformation. Several hundred of her articles, blogs, blurbs, and notes are posted online through different ministries, organizations, and businesses for which she was a ghostwriter or contributor. Miko’s main writing areas include Bible-based topics, caregiving, personal growth, and interpersonal communications. However, she will sometimes write things to amuse herself because she loves to laugh. In addition to homeschooling her children for a few years, she has given instruction in piano, reading music, mathematics, and other areas in which she could assistant. She enjoys supporting others, helping them to find areas in which they can shine, and seeing people of all ages and abilities reach their individual goals.

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      Living with Jezebel - Miko Marsh

      Living with Jezebel

      An In-Depth Look at the Queen of Narcissism, Her Tactics, and Three Generations of Destruction

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      Miko Marsh

      Text Copyright © 2017 Miko Marsh.

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      All Rights Reserved.  No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or in any means – by electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise – without prior written permission.

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      Edited by Cynthia Tucker.

      Cover designed by DesignbyBetty89 on Fiverr.

      Scriptures quoted are from the Holy Bible King James Version.

      Disclaimer: This information should not be substituted for licensed medical, psychological, or spiritual guidance. Please seek the assistance of medical expertise or counseling services if you feel the need to further discuss your personal situation with a certified professional. Any advice you take from this book you agree to do at your own risk without fault or blame to the publisher or author.

      Table of Contents

      Introduction: Jezebel = Narcissist

      Why Did I Decide to Write about This?

      Background

      Jezebel’s Family Tree

      Names, Meanings, Kings, & Kingdoms

      Jezebel Enters Israel

      Enter Elijah, the Lord’s Prophet to the King

      Jezebel Is a Murderer at Heart

      Battle of the Gods

      Jezebel Demands Elijah’s Death/Elijah’s Great Depression

      Jezebel on the Prowl

      God Sentences Ahab and Jezebel to Death

      Ahab’s Final Warning from God

      Jezebel’s Second Son Begins to Reign/Elijah Goes to Heaven

      Elisha’s Miracles and the Mercy of God to His Enemies

      Introducing Athaliah: The Two-fold Child of Jezebel Hell

      Second-Generation Jezebel: The King Murders His Brothers

      A New King in Israel: Judgment Comes to the House of Ahab

      Jezebel Is Overthrown...Literally

      Jehu Utterly Destroys the House of Ahab and Baal Worship

      Terror: Athaliah’s Rise and Fall

      Conclusion: Take Your Life Back

      About the Author

      Other books by this author

      Introduction: Jezebel = Narcissist

      Jezebel!

      If you’ve ever heard a woman called this, she was likely thought to be a whore. Slut is a more familiar but less powerful word used almost in jest nowadays. Whore is the Biblical term and still carries a punch. Every now and then, the name refers to someone who is mean or has some other unfavorable characteristic.

      Narcissist.

      If you’ve heard this term, especially recently, some politicians or overly self-absorbed people may come to mind. This word is used often to describe people who think they’re greater than they are. Egotistical is a milder word often used to describe someone who is stuck on himself. Usually, we associate it with people who are obsessed with their physical appearance.

      Would you be surprised to find out that narcissist is the secular word for Jezebel or a person with a Jezebel spirit? It took me a while to connect the two. I knew the story of Narcissus and the account of Jezebel, but having a sterile and almost primary understanding of how narcissism is defined, I didn’t connect the dots for a long time, which is why I didn’t think much of it even when I saw strong traits in people. Although my degree is in psychology, we spent very little time discussing narcissism. Basically, I walked away with the idea that narcissists overexaggerate things and believe themselves to be much bigger than they are – much like a fun house mirror. They are extremely self-absorbed, and they long to have others agree with them on how important they are.

      I wish we’d had more detailed information about it.

      The problem was that, although it had a clinical name and was one of the personality disorders we learned, I was under the impression that it was mild. I thought delusions of grandeur were just confined to their thoughts and dismissed by people who would hear the narcissist speak. It came across as easy to detect and almost benign. We were more worried about the aggressive disorders or the ones that made it almost impossible for people to function normally in society. When I worked with individuals with behavioral challenges, narcissism was never a concern. I might work with someone suffering from schizophrenia, oppositional defiant disorder, or bipolar disorder, but I was never concerned that someone might think too highly of himself. In fact, we were trying to rebuild self-confidence and self-esteem. It was a welcome relief to see people toot their own horns after completing a hard school assignment or after scoring a point. I never had any reason to suspect that narcissistic behavior would be anything more than mildly annoying.

      If I had known then what I know now, my whole life might have been changed.

      We have a lot of information and stories coming forward now about what narcissism is. We also have people that are teaching on the evil spirit of Jezebel and how it looks in our lives today. What I haven’t seen yet is someone explaining the details of Jezebel’s life and how her actions compare to the narcissists we often encounter. I will attempt to walk through the account to show what behaviors we can expect from narcissists, examples of tactics they might use, the impact they can have on others, damage done to generations, and what the Bible says we should do regarding them. To reduce confusion on what level of narcissism I mean, I will discuss them as if they are full-blown, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, cancerous to the core, malignant narcissists.

      Let’s first review the account of Narcissus

      Depending on which account you take, Narcissus was the extraordinarily beautiful child of a god and a nymph. As a young man, he broke the heart of someone who fell in love with him and was punished by the gods. He looked upon his reflection in the water and fell so in love with himself he eventually died of a broken heart for not being able to be with himself. Eventually, he was changed into a beautiful flower or a beautiful flower took his place – the narcissus flower.

      As you can see, it’s easy to walk away from this myth believing the worst that a narcissist could be is vain (ex. Vanity Smurf). They love only themselves and are practically oblivious to the rest of the world. If only vanity was the only problem.

      Now, let’s review the Biblical account of Jezebel

      We first hear of Jezebel in I Kings 16. She is a Zidonian princess, daughter of King Ethbaal, and is married to King Ahab, ruler of the Northern Kingdom of Israel. Ahab and Jezebel are the most notorious ruling couple of all the kings and queens of Israel – both kingdoms considered (the kingdom split after Solomon’s rule ended). Ahab set up high places to worship the idols Jezebel wanted and allowed her pagan priests to serve in those temples. She began killing off the prophets of the Lord in Israel to wipe out worship to the Lord.

      Sometime during their reign, the prophet Elijah declares there will be a drought until he gives word again, which would be three and a half years later. When Elijah returns, he challenges Ahab to a standoff of Divine proportions. The nation gathered for a showdown at Mt. Carmel, which resulted in the Lord raining down fire from Heaven and the death of Jezebel’s prophets. Jezebel vowed revenge, Elijah went into hiding, and God told Elijah his plan and gave him the names of the men who would carry it out.

      Ahab saw a vineyard he desired near his property and tried to buy it from the owner, Naboth. When Naboth refused, Ahab went home and sulked. Jezebel took matters into her own hands, had Naboth and his sons killed, and told Ahab the vineyard was his. Elijah prophesied to Ahab that since he had allowed Jezebel to commit murder to steal, he, his sons, and Jezebel would be killed. Moreover, his lineage would end.

      All of this takes place over approximately a 20-year period. Ahab dies from battle wounds and his son reigns in his place. When we last see Jezebel, we see a captain of the Israelite army, Jehu, furiously riding toward her. He kills the son and heads to kill Jezebel. She paints her face and yells out the window to him. He asks those inside with her which of them is on his side, and three eunuchs hurl Jezebel out of the window to her death.

      This seems to be a totally different personality from someone who is just fascinated with his own image. In fact, a summary of Jezebel’s life makes you wonder why people associate whoring with her. She just seems like a mean opportunist.

      The differences between the superficial description of the narcissist and the outline we get from Jezebel’s story are vast. It’s no wonder we have difficulty seeing they’re the same person. As Christians, we are to look at the whole Bible to learn. We can miss important lessons by not doing a character study. Lessons from the account are important, but understanding the motivation, behavior, or heart (where Scripture gives us insight) of the people doing the actions can help us see what is displayed by others or even ourselves. It allows us the opportunity to check our own actions to see what fruit we’re producing, also.

      Why Did I Decide to Write about This?

      I have a few reasons.

      I know people who are still being damaged directly and either aren’t ready to do something to stop it or don’t know how to begin. Once you’ve been beaten down often enough, you stop fighting and just hope to ride out the attack.

      We aren’t helping others by not

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