Am I Crazy?: The Most Often Asked Question in Therapy
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Amanda Brewer B. Beh Sc Phych
Amanda Brewer is a mother of three children who went though a difficult divorce and subsequently suffered Depression and Anxiety. Through this experience she got help from counselors at a domestic violence service. This awoke in Amanda a desire to help other people, so she did a Psychology degree and begin working with women who were experiencing Domestic violence, and then later developed a passion for helping anyone experiencing Depression, Anxiety and Anger issues. Amanda enjoys her work and seeing people improve their lives. She has since remarried and now has three step children and six grandchildren. She often uses herself as an example to clients of how a persons life can improve so much.
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Am I Crazy? - Amanda Brewer B. Beh Sc Phych
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ISBN: 978-1-5043-1670-5 (sc)
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Balboa Press rev. date: 05/21/2019
Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1 Anger
Chapter 2 Self-Esteem
Chapter 3 Overall Health and Well-Being
Chapter 4 Giving, Receiving, and Gratitude
Chapter 5 I Am Enough
Chapter 6 Breath of Life
Chapter 7 Medication
Chapter 8 Motivation
Chapter 9 Affirmations and Goals
Chapter 10 The Wonderful World of Quantum Physics
Chapter 11 Boundaries
Chapter 12 Meditation
Conclusion
Resources
To my wonderful husband, Robbie, who has always believed in me and supported everything I have wanted to do. My good friend Elizabeth, who has been my rock forever. Terry, my wonderful cousin, who proofread and edited this book and many of my uni assignments. And lastly, my children, children-in-law, and grandchildren. You are the reasons for everything I do. If I can do it, so can you.
Introduction
Am I crazy?
What’s wrong with me?
These are questions I’ve been asked many times. It takes enormous courage firstly to admit to yourself that you need help and then to make an appointment. Sometimes it is even harder to attend that appointment. I have had many clients who confessed at the end of their first appointment that they almost didn’t make it.
This book, therefore, is for all the brave, vulnerable, anxious people who would like to feel better about themselves and enjoy a better quality of life. The information is taken from what I have learned and shared with my clients along with techniques, helpful practices, and information I have gained from others. Wherever I share others’ research or findings, they are acknowledged.
Chapter 1
Anger
It has often been said to me by clients, I can’t control my anger, and it hurts the people I love.
Out-of-control anger is out-of-control fear or anxiety. Everyone has some anxiety. If it weren’t for anxiety, you would forget to look before you crossed the road. If you imagine your anxiety score as rating between 0 and 100, then 10 would likely be the lowest you would be—unless you’re dead or in a coma. In moderation, anxiety is good as it helps protect us from harm. If you’re crossing the road and a bus is coming towards you, you don’t have to stop and think, What should I do? Chemicals in your brain react in a split second, your flight/fight/freeze
instinct triggers, and you hopefully get out of the way. However, some people who have had a lot of trauma in their past freeze at additional times of perceived danger.
Anxiety is an instinct that humans and animals share, but humans are the only species that tries to ignore, push away, or disregard the feeling. If an animal thinks something in the bush is going to attack it, nothing will make it go near the bush. People will go and check, just in case they’re wrong. We don’t listen to—or believe—our instincts. I encourage clients to listen to their instincts and believe in themselves.
Our brains are powerful, and we always believe the brain works