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    Building Self-Confidence
    Building Self-Confidence
    Building Self-Confidence
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    Building Self-Confidence

    By Martin Ettington

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    Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem are important aspects of who we are and can be improved through many techniques.

    In this book the following topics are reviewed:

    What is Self-Confidence?
    How Self-Confidence Breeds Success
    Fear About Self Confidence
    How Experience Builds Self Confidence
    Specific Confidence Builders
    The Importance of Practice and Simulation
    Stories of Self Confidence and Self Esteem

    After reading this book you will understand different issues having to do with Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem and how to improve yours.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherMartin Ettington
    Release dateJan 5, 2022
    ISBN9780463870419
    Building Self-Confidence
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    Martin Ettington

    The owner Martin K. Ettington is an Engineer by training and has had multiple careers. These include technical sales for GE and HP. Martin also Owns his own software and consulting business.Martin’s interest in the Paranormal and Occult goes back to his childhood. He has had many paranormal experiences and has been a student of Eastern Philosophies and Meditation for 35 years.Seeking Enlightenment; he knows that we are already all Enlightened. We just have to realize this deeply.His books are expressions of his creativity to help others understand what he has internalized through study, experience, and membership in different societies.Not many technical persons or scientists spend a lot of time in parallel studying the Metaphysical and have had many spiritual or psychic experiences too.Therefore, Martin believes that he can provide a unique vantage point to integrate Western Scientific thinking with Eastern exploration of the mind and spirit.

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      Book preview

      Building Self-Confidence - Martin Ettington

      Building Self-Confidence

      Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem are important aspects of who we are and can be improved through many techniques.

      In this book the following topics are reviewed:

      What is Self-Confidence?

      How Self-Confidence Breeds Success

      Fear About Self Confidence

      How Experience Builds Self Confidence

      Specific Confidence Builders

      The Importance of Practice and Simulation

      Stories of Self Confidence and Self Esteem

      After reading this book you will understand different issues having to do with Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem and how to improve yours.

      Copyright Page

      This book is copyrighted for 2022

      Title: Building Self-Confidence

      Subtitle: And Some Techniques to Do It

      By Martin K. Ettington

      All Rights Reserved USA 2022

      ISBN:

      Printed in the United States of America

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      Table of Contents

      1.0 Introduction-What is self-confidence?

      2.0 Self-confidence Breeds Success

      3.0 Fears about Self-confidence

      4.0 How Experience Builds Self-Confidence

      5.0 Specific Confidence Builders

      6.0 The Importance of Practice and Simulation

      7.0 Stories of Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem

      8.0 Summary

      9.0 Bibliography

      1.0 Introduction-What is self-confidence?

      How to gain self-confidence

      Today is one of those days when your group has to make a presentation to a client. This is an important occasion because it is an opportunity to get your boss' attention. It could mean a raise or a promotion if you could just muster the courage to stand there in front of these people and present your proposal. The problem is, your shyness gets the better of you, and you are relegated to the background.

      You sat there mesmerized, as your colleague Elena made a winning presentation of your proposal. She stood there, dressed in a simple gray suit that spelled confidence! Why can't I gather enough courage to present my work to these people when I know this project like the back of my hand, you ask yourself.

      Self-confidence. This is what you lack, and this is what your colleague Elena has. But what is self-confidence? Is it the ability to speak in a loud voice so you can get people's attention? Is it about power dressing?

      Self-confidence is an attitude that is characterized by a positive belief that one can take control of one's life and of one's plans. People who are self-confident are those who acknowledge their capacity to do something and then proceed to do these things. They do not rely on the approval of other people in order to affirm their existence. It is enough that they know they have the capacity and the potential to do something, and the guts to do it no matter what others may say. People who are self-confident take advantage of the opportunities that comes their way.

      Factors in gaining self-confidence

      While the process of attaining self-confidence starts from childhood, an adult can still gain self-confidence through his determination and through the support of his family and friends.

      Parental support and acceptance

      People begin to develop confidence while growing up. The role of parents in instilling self-confidence in their children is very important. Parents who are always critical of their children without acknowledging the latter's strengths unknowingly dampen the development of their self-confidence.

      On the other hand, parents who are always willing to give support while encouraging their children to take a step forward will most likely rear self-confident children. Parents who make their children feel loved and accepted despite their imperfections will most likely encourage self-confidence. Lack of self-confidence is not proportional to a person's abilities. In fact, there are people who are extremely talented and able but they lack self-confidence to show these abilities.

      If you are wanting in self-confidence, then you must continuously do things that will help you gain confidence.

      Identify your strengths and weaknesses and capitalize on that. Make full use of your strength and gather positive points. This will help you gain self-confidence. Do not expect everything to be perfect because you are bound to do something wrong along the way. Nobody is perfect and everyone is culpable of making mistakes.

      Acknowledge your abilities and talent and take stock of them. Do not under estimate yourself. Try to recognize every little thing you have done which has become successful.

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