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    Love Yourself: 30 Days to Learn to Love Yourself
    Love Yourself: 30 Days to Learn to Love Yourself
    Love Yourself: 30 Days to Learn to Love Yourself
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    Love Yourself: 30 Days to Learn to Love Yourself

    By Daniel J. Martin

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    Do you have difficulty accepting and loving yourself as you are?

     

    Do you find it hard to forgive yourself and let go of the past?

     

    Do you feel like you lack direction or purpose in life?


    It is scientifically proven that self-esteem or self-love is the most important element in enjoying a fulfilling, happy, and meaningful life. In "Love Yourself", you will find a practical and motivating guide that will take you by the hand and help you to cultivate a relationship of love and acceptance with yourself in just 30 days.

    Through 30 simple but effective exercises, you will learn to recognize your strengths, accept your weaknesses, and build a positive self-image that will allow you to face any challenge with confidence and determination for the rest of your life.

    This book is for you if:

     

      - You struggle to accept and love yourself.

      - You doubt your own abilities and capacities.

      - You feel worthless.

      - You constantly compare yourself to others.

      - You are afraid of rejection and failure.

      - You are trapped in negative thoughts.

      - You are overly affected by other people's opinions.

      - You feel unsatisfied with your life.

      - You have difficulty setting boundaries and saying "no".

      - You feel uncomfortable receiving compliments.

      - You feel insecure in your interpersonal relationships.

      - You have difficulty expressing your emotions and needs.

      - You struggle to forgive yourself.

      - You lack the motivation and confidence to pursue your dreams.


    Learning to love yourself will allow you to: leave behind the need for external validation, free yourself from the self-critic within you that limits you, forgive yourself and others, establish healthy boundaries in your relationships, reduce stress and anxiety, adopt a positive attitude towards yourself and life, and ultimately become your best version: the person you have always dreamed of being.

    Get your copy of "Love Yourself" TODAY and discover the 30-Day Method that has already changed the lives of millions of people.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDaniel J. Martin
    Release dateMay 15, 2023
    ISBN9798223458258
    Love Yourself: 30 Days to Learn to Love Yourself
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    Daniel J. Martin

    Daniel J. Martin, a writer by hobby and psychologist by vocation, first studied psychology and then business administration, trying to find the tools that would allow him to enjoy a full and happy life, far from the "rat race" that his parents were forced to endure. Over time, he realized that the skills he sought were not taught at university, precisely because the system is designed to trap us in this cruel race. It was then that he decided to combine his knowledge in both disciplines and develop a holistic approach to promote emotional well-being and personal success. Through his books and professional practice, Daniel helps people from all over the world discover what they really want in life and provides them with the tools and skills necessary to achieve it.

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      Love Yourself - Daniel J. Martin

      The Love Yourself More method

      We’ve all heard how important it is to love ourselves, and that healthy self-esteem can be the difference between being a happy, successful person and not being one.

      But when it comes to putting it into practice, most methods and techniques for boosting self-esteem are an utter failure. Many people who decide to work on their self-worth – with the mental and emotional effort that involves – end up carrying the same baggage year after year, seeing little to no improvement. The sad truth is that so many people will dedicate their entire lives to fighting to feel better about themselves without ever managing it.

      So, why does this happen?

      Simply put, it’s about the method. If the method is faulty, it doesn’t matter how well you execute it.

      Self-esteem as a concept is no mystery; on the contrary, it’s relatively easy to explain and to grasp. However, it’s rarely approached correctly. A good method should first convey the right knowledge in terms of how self-esteem works for an adult and then identify all the areas where someone, not knowing how – or even knowing how – stops trusting themselves, goes from believing they are valid to believing they are a fraud, or thinks they deserve contempt instead of love.

      Can you relate? Do you feel that you deserve more (more respect, more confidence, more recognition, more love) but don’t know where to get it from? Do you believe your current occupation is beneath you? Do you suffer from stress or anxiety? Do you think it’s unfair that someone with fewer virtues than you might achieve more or be happier? Do you find it hard to set boundaries? What about asking for help when you need it? Do you constantly put yourself down for no reason? Do you find it hard to accept and love yourself?

      Answering yes to the above questions is a clear sign of low self-esteem. The bad news is that self-love doesn’t emerge out of nowhere from one day to the next; the good news is that, if you work on it in the right way, self-love grows, feeds into itself and shines its light into every other aspect of your life.

      You can build good self-esteem at any age and in any situation, but it’s not easy to change the dynamics and beliefs that you’ve been holding onto for so long. That’s why a good method is so important.

      The Love Yourself More method

      What I teach in this book, my proven method for improving your self-esteem in 30 days, is not just my opinion: it’s science. This book is based on psychology studies and knowledge, on a science rooted in data, observation of reality, hypotheses and verified results. Because of this, and because it’s led to extraordinary results for hundreds of patients of mine, I know that the method I’m proposing to you works.

      If you’ve read this far, don’t stop now: all you need is 30 days and a desire to fulfil your dreams and goals.

      So, why 30 days?

      I decided to make this book a thirty-day read because I see it as a kind of bootcamp: intensive training over 30 consecutive days

      ¹. Each day, I tackle one aspect related to self-esteem, or the lack of it, and suggest a final exercise to put into practice to help you internalize everything you’ve learned. The thirty-day period is enough to immerse yourself fully, assimilate the concepts and achieve the necessary learning.

      Note: Self-esteem is a muscle, and like other muscles, you don’t make it bigger by reading books and theory, but by putting it to work. You will need to exercise it.

      I’m not your cheerleader or your motivational coffee cup. I’m your personal growth expert and my job is to teach you how to improve your quality of life, and you don’t achieve that through a simple you can do it or you’re worth more. If you’re prepared to take this step with me, I’ll be by your side, guiding you throughout – but you have to meet me halfway and do your homework. You should be ready to question your beliefs, change dynamics and make decisions that not everyone will like. It’s not easy, but I promise you, it’s worth it.

      Imagine yourself reaching the goals you’ve always dreamed of. Imagine yourself feeling at peace with who you are, no matter what. Imagine yourself waking up every morning feeling confident and full of energy, experiencing happiness and joy in every moment of your life…

      Now, stop imagining it!

      Take that first step and dive into this exciting read. Because in 30 days, your life can change forever.

      Daniel

      DAY 1

      What we mean by self-love

      You are the protagonist of the greatest love story you’ll ever experience. And do you know who stars opposite you? That’s right! You do.

      This might sound overly sentimental, but it’s true that you are going to live through a love story with yourself, whether you like it or not. It’s up to you whether that love story is genuine or fake, intense or superficial. Because, as with all love stories, it’s going to knock you down at times, bringing moments of fear, powerlessness, sadness, loneliness. Don’t let any of those knocks put out the flame of your love. On the contrary: love your life and your story right to the end, more than anything, and more than ever when you feel unworthy of your own love.

      To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

      ― Oscar Wilde

      Nowadays, everyone knows that self-esteem is essential for a full and successful life. However, this knowledge alone doesn’t help many people: on the contrary, being aware that they should improve their self-esteem and seeing the years go by without it materializing frustrates and disheartens people even further.

      As I said in the introduction, it’s usually a problem with the method. All too often, self-esteem issues are approached superficially and patched up using techniques that temporarily relieve discomfort without getting to the heart of the matter.

      Through my work, I talk to many people who seem to be going through specific troubles (classics like I don’t like my job, my partner always seems disappointed in me, I have anxiety) but who, when we go into more depth, uncover a deeper and more serious issue: a lack of self-love.

      So, what is exactly is self-love?

      Self-love is the fundamental principle that we deserve to be loved by ourselves, now and forever. It’s the conviction that we are valid people who are worthy despite our errors and regardless of our abilities.

      Self-love is like a gift from life to us. Even if we refuse to open the door to receive it, the gift is out here, whether we accept it or not.

      Why wouldn’t you accept a gift that will make your life better? What’s wrong with receiving love? What’s wrong with you?

      There is nothing wrong with you. You’re not inadequate, nor are you the rehearsal for your definitive self, nor do you have too many problems to worry about loving yourself. You are a perfectly valid person. In fact, you’re an amazing person!

      Think about the people who love you, the people who want you to be in the world. About all the times that someone was impressed by something you did. About the people who have kissed or hugged you with sincere affection. About the people who include you in their plans and their lives. Are they all mistaken?

      You’re an incredible person to lots of people – so why not to yourself?

      Find the hero inside you

      You know that within you is a hero or heroine waiting to be freed. Loving yourself is the same as freeing that hero inside you.

      You are worthy of your love, here and now. Try it. You have nothing to lose by saying: Alright, challenge accepted: I’m going to try love, let’s see if this works!

      Your love story may not be perfect. But, without a doubt, it will be unique. And I promise you: it will be worth it.

      Summary:

      Self-love is the fundamental principle that we deserve to be loved by ourselves, now and always.

      Often, the discomfort we feel when faced with work, social or relationship problems is actually low self-esteem.

      Self-esteem is the belief that we are valid people who are worthy regardless of our mistakes or abilities.

      Love yourself in every situation, and love yourself more than ever when you feel unworthy: that’s when you need it most.

      Daily exercise:

      YOU ARE YOUR OWN HERO / HEROINE

      Choose five things you like about yourself. Don’t be embarrassed or modest: in the same way that you harshly criticize yourself, you need to learn to talk up your positive aspects.

      Write down those good points in a notebook or on your phone as if they were superpowers. For example: "I

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