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    Am I Even Good Enough?
    Am I Even Good Enough?
    Am I Even Good Enough?
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    Am I Even Good Enough?

    By Priti Kaur

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    This book is written to inspire those who feel confused, and unhappy and struggle to talk about their mental health issues. I have been that person; I have been confused about my career and personal life. It has been a challenge, but it is one that helped me to identify the help I needed to seek. Through doing a lot of harmful things to myself,

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherMaple Publishers
    Release dateFeb 9, 2024
    ISBN9781835380796
    Am I Even Good Enough?

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      Am I Even Good Enough? - Priti Kaur

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      Am I Even Good Enough?

      Author: Priti Kaur

      Copyright © 2023 Priti Kaur

      The right of Priti Kaur to be identified as author of this work has been asserted by the author in accordance with section 77 and 78 of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988.

      First Published in 2023

      ISBN 978-1-83538-078-9 (Paperback)

      978-1-83538-079-6 (E-Book)

      Book layout and cover designed by:

      White Magic Studios

      www.whitemagicstudios.co.uk

      Published by:

      Maple Publishers

      Fairbourne Drive, Atterbury,

      Milton Keynes,

      MK10 9RG, UK

      www.maplepublishers.com

      A CIP catalogue record for this title is available from the British Library.

      All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or translated in any

      form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying,

      recording or by any information storage and retrieval system without

      written permission from the author.

      The views expressed in this work are solely those of the author and

      do not necessarily reflect the publisher’s opinions, and the publisher,

      as a result of this, disclaims any responsibility for them.

      This book is a memoir. It reflects the author’s recollections of experiences over time.

      Contents

      Am I Even Good Enough? 2

      Dedication 4

      Realising 5

      Delusional 20

      Mental Health 33

      Comparing and Opinion 46

      Fear 54

      Needing Help 61

      Acceptance 70

      Dedication

      This book is dedicated to my mother who is one of the strongest women I know on this planet. She has been through and sacrificed a lot to shape a better future for me.

      Thank you, Mum, for always understanding and supporting me when my career choices have not gone as planned. Although at times you have passed judgment, I now understand through maturing it was because you only cared and worried for me. I love you and will always look up to you as my role model in life.

      I hope my nieces and nephews grow up and learn that life is about making selective decisions. Whether or not they work out is a challenge and hurdle that will only make them stronger and work harder towards their chosen career path.

      I do not want life to be simple because then how will we grow, learn, and teach life lessons to the next generation? My purpose in life is to educate others and to support them with my guidance and own life lessons.

      Realising

      Realisation has many definitions in the English dictionary but differs per individual due to their needs, wants, and situations. Realisation for me, means knowing something inside of me was always missing and after a few hurdles, I realised that I needed something that serves a purpose in life. I always knew it would never be easy and still, to this day, I continue to face these hurdles. But ask yourself, do you want to live your life for someone else or live it for yourself?

      By profession, I am an ACCA Chartered Accountant which means I self-studied through my professional qualification by sitting fourteen exams followed by a few exemptions, an ethics module, and completing objectives. Why? - might you ask. This is because when I did apply for graduate schemes or roles that had study support packages, there were always too many requirements or as I will call it, box-ticking criteria that needed to be met.

      After achieving a degree in Accounting and Finance (BA Hons.) from the University of Hertfordshire and achieving a 2.1 I thought I had done considerably well and made myself, but most importantly my parents, proud. I have always honoured my mum’s approval. However, the route to success is never in a straight line and if you have achieved your success by being in the right place at the right time then one would say you are lucky. However, I had to face many rejections, opinions of others and mental health issues to finally secure a role.

      The build-up to getting my first step in the world of Accountancy, involved me having to do an internship that did not help with finances that I would have used to invest in, myself, and it did not teach me any Finance-related tasks that I would need to secure a future paid role. The issue in today’s society is that everything revolves around how qualified you are, what grades you achieved, and how confident you come across to an interviewer, but not everyone is the same. Sometimes the quiet ones are the hardest workers and the loud ones are the more sociable ones, but in essence, they both portray amazing qualities which are always transferrable and they will learn new skills during their life journey. It’s important to always invest in yourself and do these courses to learn basic skills and then evolve them.

      I will always be in favour of education. However, sometimes these qualifications we acquire never actually benefit what we need to do in reality in our day-to-day jobs; we have to acquire them to get a salary increase or a promotion. As I mentioned, I fully support education and I have gone through the process although I have learned some skills and knowledge which I have put into practice within my roles, but, essentially it is just a piece of paper that highlights that I have completed something. What it doesn’t show is how many times I failed some exams, how I changed my exam techniques, how many hours I spent to achieve that certification and how much sleep I lost. Education is important but only if you then go on to learn from it and apply it in some way to your life; it is an investment in yourself and along the way even if you do not apply it to your day-to-day life, you will have learned other skills such as reading faster, organisation skills and other employable skills.

      Nevertheless, I am glad I went through those emotions, stress, and studying because not only did I just begin my career but I also learned about the type of companies which appealed to me and what I wanted in return. For my part, I have always valued culture and flexibility in the roles I have undertaken. Have they all worked out? No. Am I okay with that being the case? Absolutely yes, because it only taught me what more I was seeking from a company.

      When I landed my first paid Accounting Job, I was over the moon but also felt very scared, nervous and anxious because I had only just graduated from University and was looking for a paid study support package to help me to further my career. However, I did tell myself that it would not always be a straight-line journey. I worked in the transactional team as an accounting clerk which was not the most interesting role but I continued to build on my network in the company, talking with other Finance Teams and Managers to see where I could branch off to. I am not the most confident person when it comes to putting myself out there but a trial and error technique worked out.

      I was then moved to another area in the transactional Team. The main reason for me wanting to move was simple. My previous manager was rude, unapproachable and always micro-managing me with ridiculous requests and workloads whereas my new manager, was very down to earth, willing to train me, and always helped me correct my mistakes so that I improved. She had taken a chance on me and it paid off because I remained in the company for a few years only because my manager made me feel valued and always supported me. I cannot stress enough how important it is to have the right manager, and one factor that everyone needs to consider before diving into a role just because it pays well or looks good on your resume. Yes, we need money to survive but your happiness and mental health come before your job and people, because when things go wrong, trust me when I say this, not everyone will support you. Some will worry about their issues over yours or just pretend like they never knew you were going through a hard time.

      Those are the people we do not want in our life and if we do, they should be at an arm’s length. Surround yourself with those who motivate you, inspire you, and remind you that it’s okay to be yourself

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