Kim doesn't just teach the girls how to walk in high heels and wear gowns. She teaches these girls self-confidence and personality. The girls learn how to be themselves and improve social skills. I feel like these young teenagers can learn a lot from her. And yeah, Kim isn't the most beautiful woman in the world, but she's definitely not some drag queen like most of these ignorant people think. And it's not 'fake' like other shows. Example: Dance Moms... Honestly, most of that crap is for the show. But on Kim Of Queens, there isn't all the fake fighting and stuff. It focuses on what's good. (except the occasional mom-mom argue, but not quite as bad as dance moms) Even just watching the show, i feel like i have a higher self esteem, listening to Kims 'lectures'. I really enjoy this show!