The Pen is Mightier

than the sword

Nurture Your Mind with Great Thoughts

for you will never rise higher than you think.

DISRAELI
 CHAPTER ONE

It was my good fortune to be born in an era when family life

meant something, when mothers found fulfillment in the home
and had no need of a second occupation to allow them to
function more fully as a complete being. A rare occasion
indeed to return home from school and find an empty house;
mother was always there, sewing perhaps, or busy crocheting
(an art which she taught me when I was quite young), and
always a nice tea awaited a hungry child.
As I was somewhat headstrong, there is no doubt a more
firm discipline would not have been amiss; but that was not
her way.
The moments which provided the greatest satisfaction were
the times spent in the evening, as the day was ending and night
approaching, before it was time to light the lamps.
Mother was fond of reciting this little verse:

‘Between the dark and the daylight,

When the night is beginning to lower,
Comes a pause in the day's occupation
That is known as the children's hour.’

She believed very strongly in devoting time to her offspring,

and in catering to their mental and spiritual needs as well as
their physical well-being.
The things one learns in one's childhood days seem to linger
in the memory for ever, even more permanent than the present-
day computer with its memory bank. School was fine, I never
minded studying; but that was an everyday reality, something

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one had to do. But what I really liked was to have my mother
tell true stories about her immediate family and close relatives.
It seems a far cry from where I am now, sitting in the apart-
ment of a high-rise building, to those days when home was a
house of your own and comfort was sitting by a blazing log fire
on a winter's evening.
While the experiences unfolded in mother's quiet voice, I
would picture a little girl around five years old being taken to
stay with her grandmother who lived a long way from the big
city where she had been born and which was her home. Al-
though I had never been away from MY family I tried to feel
what it must be like for the little girl trying to adapt herself to
life in a village with people who were strangers to her, even if
they were blood relations. There was very little said about her
Grandpa but Grandma apparently had forgotten anything she
might have known about the needs of small girls.
In the beginning the arrangement was meant to be just
temporary, while the child's mother was recovering from a
malady which had been causing concern. However, the days
passed, then weeks, dragging on into months and years, and
my mother never did return to the place of her birth; so, in
the end she came to look upon various cousins with whom she
associated as more her family than her real sisters and
brothers.
As I look back through the years I still remember some of
the interesting sleep-experiences she used to relate. In those
days I probably put it down to ‘unusual dreams’ but in the
light of future developments it seems mother was seeing into
the future. She told how, in a dream, she had seen what she
referred to as horseless carriages and this was as a young girl,
before the turn of the century. As well as experiencing pre-
cognition, she must also have looked into the past for she told
of seeing bowls of white light, of an unearthly whiteness; and
she believed her dream had taken her to a city of a former
civilization. Pictures of people, too, were in evidence; but the
subjects did not remain still, rather they moved about-
advancing towards one.
Needlework and reading provided the main part of our re-

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creation and I probably developed my love of quotations and
proverbs in those days, an interest which has never left me. I
loved being read to until I was old enough to read myself, and
stories such as Little Nell, Uncle Tom's Cabin and A Peep
Behind The Scenes provided plenty of scope for my vivid
imagination.
Later I passed through the usual ‘teen-age’ phase of ro-
mantic novels, identifying with all the joys and heartaches of
Hall Caine's characters and those of Ethel M. Dell. Once I
was returning a book to the school library and everyone howled
with laughter when I announced, ‘I have brought back The
Top of The World.’ ‘You must be very strong,’ someone
commented glibly.

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I looked for my soul
but my soul I could not see.
I looked for my God
but my God eluded me.
I looked for a friend
and then I found all three.

William Blake
 CHAPTER TWO

It was also my good fortune to have as a marriage partner a

person who was interested in more than the material things of
life. He, who I will be referring to as Carl, was a very sensitive
person and on the day of our first meeting we just knew our
paths had crossed before. There was hardly any need for mere
words since we came very near to reading each others
thoughts. ‘How dreadful,’ someone may think; but if there is
nothing to hide surely it is a simple method of communicating.
It has been said that two people can live together for a number
of years and gradually become like each other physically, while
understanding each other perfectly, in silence. So we took the
short cut and, instead of waiting until near life's ending, we
started at the other end and benefited thereby.
The very first afternoon we spent together was enjoyable for
both of us—definitely a milestone to be remembered.
As I sit here viewing the North American scene I relive one
glorious day in England: it was late Summer, around the
middle of September, where a turning point was reached in
the lives of two persons who were destined to meet.
There was a man in England who; upon having to put some-
thing unpleasant in a letter, would precede the unpleasant part
with the comment, ‘If you don't like the next bit please read it
with your eyes closed’; so perhaps I might offer a similar sug-
gestion. If you do not believe in Astrology, please shut your
eyes for the next part because I want to tell something to the
believers.
An eminent astrologer, known worldwide, who was inter-
ested in making a chart for us, said: ‘It was inevitable that

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you two should come together. Saturn is in the same House, to
the exact degree, in each of your charts; sign of a deep and
lasting tie.’ This astrologer was very careful about his pre-
dictions, knowing full well the foibles of human nature and the
responsibility of his profession, and he seemed somewhat
baffled at some of the things he saw in the two charts. Con-
sidering the unusual experiences we were to contend with in
the days and weeks ahead it was not surprising. It was appar-
ent that while we may not always see ‘eye-to-eye’ in the ordin-
ary everyday things, there was no doubt but that in the deeper
permanent concepts we were as one. This assurance has always
sustained me through the ups and downs, the peaks and lows,
of the see-saw of our time together. I knew there was a pur-
pose behind it all, even at the lowest ebb, and all the vicis-
situdes would be worth while in the long run.
It was not long (only a few days) after we first met that Carl
took me to meet his Mother, with whom he was then living. Of
a somewhat formidable appearance, with strong views on
many subjects, she was amiable enough, but I always had the
impression that she resented my appearing on the scene. Like
many mothers she wanted to keep her son to herself, although
she had never been noted for showing any special affection for
him. It was probably a case of wanting to hang on to something
she was in danger of losing. For me there was the knowledge
that I could put up with the situation because it was natural
for a young man to find happiness with a partner, and I felt we
were doing what was intended of us. I had been fending for
myself for a number of years so I had the experience of deal-
ing with different situations, and this was only one more. For
some reason I have had to contend with ‘dislike’ from certain
women at various times, and I sometimes wonder why . .
probably this nuisance will follow me to the end of my life.
The astrologer called it jealousy!!

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The better part of
one's life consists
of one's friendships.

Abraham Lincoln
 CHAPTER THREE

It was interesting the way in which I and my future husband

finally met, although it seemed there had been several attempts
by the ‘powers that be’ to bring this about. In the end we were
introduced by a man, a man known to both of us, who said he
had a strong conviction, a hunch, that he was meant to be the
means of bringing us together. It just goes to show we should
follow our hunches, or at least not discard them without due
thought; and no one should count himself too insignificant to
be a tool in the scheme of things. At one time I used to have a
most depreciating attitude regarding my own abilities, having
a tendency to listen to others—believing they knew the
answers much better than I, and I suffered thereby. These
days I realize I must stand or fall by my own beliefs and
actions; thus I have gained a large measure of self-confidence.
So the first time Carl and I came together was on a Satur-
day, in September, and there was a mutual feeling that we
had been together before. It was as though each of us had
returned from a journey and were about to continue life where
we had left off after having been away on our respective mis-
sions. On that first day and in the days which followed I would
find myself starting to say something . . . perhaps making a
comment, or asking a question . . . and then I would halt to
say, ‘But I have said that before,’ or ‘I have asked that ques-
tion before.’
Where and when had we known each other? Since those
days I believe I have become more enlightened on the subject
and I have often wished I had possessed a little more of the
knowledge and understanding which has been permitted me in

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the interim.
That was the first of many very pleasant interludes . . . when
we walked or sat by the river, taking tea at one of the many
open-air restaurants along the banks of the Thames near Lon-
don. It was there we used to enjoy taking a boat and idling
away an hour or so; and the time I fell overboard just appealed
to Carl's keen sense of humor, though to me the incident was
anything but amusing.

Although at the time it seemed there was little, if any,

choice the day we decided to go and live in Weybridge, we had
made an unfortunate decision. It was not a harmonious locality
for us and, in hindsight (a popular phrase since Watergate), we
realized we had made a mistake.
However, ‘needs must, when the devil drives!’, and one
cannot live in London without work . . . or you couldn't in the
days of which I write; but, judging from what one hears about
welfare, unemployment benefits and various grants which are
available . . . well, possibly it is possible to live there now
without working.
As with many people, the Second World War made a
difference to our lives. The place where Carl was employed as
Manager was unlucky enough to be bombed and so many
changes had to be made. He went off from Knightsbridge one
morning and when he reached Conduit Street he found the
area barricaded off, no one being allowed inside. After ex-
plaining his position to a police officer he was allowed to pass
and continued on to the surgical appliance company's offices,
which had received a direct hit from a bomb.
When one brushes away the mists of memory one realizes
what a terrible time we were living through. The apartment
building (or block of flats we called it) where we lived also had
a hit, and that gave me quite a fright. In my excitement I
called out to Carl to ‘come here’ before the place collapsed;
but he didn't come for what seemed minutes, in spite of my
shaking the handle of the door behind which he was engaged in
very private and personal business. That particular episode led
to all the tenants being turned out of the building until the

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following morning; so it was fortunate we knew someone who
had spare accommodation, and we made our way to Earl's
Court where we gratefully tumbled into bed. Many times have
I remarked that one of the best breakfasts I ever had was the
following morning, when we returned to our flat and had a
meal of bacon, eggs and sausages. Apparently there had been
danger of escaping gas and it was not considered safe to leave
anyone in the building overnight.
People have often asked how we ever managed to get any
sleep in the wake of those noisy and dangerous air raids, and
they found it hard to believe that I was able to sleep through it
all. I never worried whether I would see another day or not;
and I will always remember once, in the early days before we
had become used to it all, Carl woke me when there was a
particularly noisy attack to tell me I was too deeply asleep. He
said, ‘If you died suddenly due to the bombing, you would not
know what had happened to you for a long time, so it is better
to be awake and conscious of what is happening.’ I rubbed my
eyes and pondered upon it, and the more I thought about it the
more sense it seemed to make . . . so much so that it has stayed
in my mind ever since. If I am without discomfort, or actual
pain, wild horses will not awaken me; so obviously I must
reach a very deep ‘level’ of the sleep state, which benefits me
enormously. To me the sleep state sets the tune for my mood
and efficiency, or otherwise, on the following day.
Just last month there were two or three fire engines outside
my window at some unearthly hour, and I have to confess that
I didn't hear a thing; and I only knew about it when I was told
later. To sleep soundly does not mean that one sleeps the
whole night through . . . in my case it is simply for a short
time, at most three hours, which I understand is more bene-
ficial than say an eight-hour stretch.
The late Sir Winston Churchill apparently found this a
satisfactory method, together with his daytime ‘catnaps’, and
he seemed to function remarkably well.
I was interested to read in Dr. James Paupst's Sleep Book
(Macmillan of Canada, 1975) that ‘something seems to be
lacking in sleep research so far’. He writes:

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‘Perhaps if scientists would decide not to look-as out-
siders-into this other life we lead at night, but actually to
take part in it, like Alice in Wonderland slipping through
her magic door, they might come up with some real evi-
dence. For if there is another life, it may be more “real” than
what we live. Who knows what roles we each play in it?
Who can tabulate our activities and reactions?’

As I read the book I was reminded of an incident during our

stay in Surrey when Carl said to me one morning, ‘Whatever
were you doing in your sleep?’ ‘Why?’ I was anxious to know
as he did not tell me immediately. ‘Well,’ he smiled, ‘you said
you were going to have our little car painted blue.’ So this left
me wondering because I had no recollection of it. ‘You said it
quite clearly,’ he continued, ‘and you answered my question
when I asked you “why?” . . You said it was going to be blue
because that was the colour Warwick Deeping's car was being
painted.’
Later in the day we were leafing through a magazine and to
our surprise we saw an account of Warwick Deeping's BLUE
car.
Who was Warwick Deeping? A ‘fashionable’ writer of his
day, even though his work may have been written in a rather
ponderous style. Deeping was merely a pseudonym—and not
his real name.

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If I accept
the snnshine and warmth
I must also accept
the thunder and the lightning

Kahlil Gibran
 CHAPTER FOUR

The proprietor of the surgical appliance company decided it

was unwise to contemplate staying in London because one
couldn't guarantee freedom from further air attacks; so he cast
around for a more suitable place, eventually deciding to trans-
fer to a place in the ‘Midland’ area, a fair distance from
London.
We heard about another company who also had left the city,
due to wartime conditions, and had moved to Weybridge in
Surrey; and these people needed staff. It was necessary to have
a personal interview, so, after making an appointment, we
went along by bus, to find the Managing Director had not
arrived. Carl just had to wait, while I went down the road
where there was a restaurant . . . and there I stayed for what
seemed like hours until my husband joined me. The man, the
Managing Director (who was also the boss-the proprietor),
had forgotten about the interview, hence his late arrival. But
apparently he was impressed with Carl's experience and abili-
ties, so quickly decided he was the man for the job.
Not many people wanted to go out in the wilds of Wey-
bridge, especially if they had been used to life in London. And
we didn't think much of it either but there was nothing else in
view so we had to accept what seemed the inevitable.
This was an engineering correspondence set-up, a tech-
nological institute (an institute of technology), and there was
no shortage of students since people wanted to be well pre-
pared for the future from the standpoint of furthering their
education. In times of war, people worry about the future,
wondering what post-war conditions are going to be like, and

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they feel that if they increase their education they will stand a
better chance of competing for a job.
This business flourished for a few years, and though the
salaries for staff left much to be desired it was said that the
proprietor soon became a millionaire. He found it difficult to
understand why employees needed money.
Too late we learnt that, had we waited a little longer, other
opportunities would have presented themselves and a much
more satisfactory offer would have come our way. If people in
general only had the gift of pre-vision, how much more satis-
factory their lives might be. Or would they? It seems so easy
to take the wrong path.
Summer was a much pleasanter time to spend in the vicinity
because one could rent a dinghy and go rowing on the River
Wey. This we would be doing after a wait of six or seven
months because we had arrived in one of the worst periods, in
dull November.
We were going to miss the walks in the parks, in Green
Park and Kensington Gardens, where we loved to go during
the weekends. Carl found museums fascinating, especially the
science museum at South Kensington; and I enjoyed Madame
Tussaud's waxworks exhibition, also going out to a restaurant
occasionally in the evening for dinner. One of our favorite
places was the Empire Restaurant, in Victoria Street, which
we sometimes visited after Carl left the office . . . and I some-
times wondered whether this was arranged mainly for my
benefit. I knew he liked to spend some time in a News
Theatre, so I would suggest it after dinner, before we returned
home.
Our nearest neighbor in Weybridge was a gardener who
lived in a cottage with his wife, and who used to grow many
vegetables for himself and his ‘customers’. It must have been
quite legal and above-board, but he didn't seem happy to have
neighbors (us) around who were in a position to observe his
varied activities. Life moved along fairly smoothly except for
a mild complaint, about a cat scratching around the vegetable
and flower beds, and he was concerned as to whether it was our
feline.
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 We were awakened one morning in the early hours by a loud
knocking on the door, and an agitated voice accompanying the
knocking. On investigating we found the gardener's wife in a
very nervous state and wearing only her night attire. She be-
seeched me to go with her since she thought her husband was
dying, and would I go and see what I thought about his con-
dition. She was obviously in a very distressed state so I had to
do something, although she and her husband had shown noth-
ing but resentment towards us. I threw on a robe and accom-
panied her back to her cottage where I crossed the threshold
for the first time, when she ushered me to where her husband
lay. For a moment I stood looking at him; I saw it was too late
and there was nothing one could do to save him, for his spirit
had indeed departed. She looked up at me, at last realizing the
worst, and I consoled her as best I could while she gradually
recovered her self-control and made arrangements to contact
her doctor and her relatives.
It must be one of the saddest situations when one partner is
suddenly taken away, most people seem to know not where,
and the other is left to face life alone.
In this particular case, the clothes-line in the back garden
was left in position for a long time, when normally it would
have been removed immediately the washing was dry; left
because it was one of the last duties the gardener had per-
formed and his wife did not feel able to have it removed since
it helped her to maintain contact with him.
I have often wondered why we are not educated more about
the process of dying; why we are not told how it is a natural
process, and that it is not the end. The majority of today's
youth seem to have very little idea of what death is all about,
and how can they know if there is no one to teach them?

JUST A SKETCH

The pavement was cold and hard as his body thudded down
those twenty floors to finally rest on the sidewalk where
passers-by might gaze with curiosity as he lay quite still, in
the chill wind of winter.

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 One wonders whether he was born with the moon in the
Eighth House, a sign of death in a public place.
After the three police cars had departed and the body had
been taken to the funeral home, the pavement was cleaned and
the curiosity seekers gradually dispersed.
Nearby there lived an Avatar, and after a few hours had
passed the spirit of the young man approached the Great
Being.
‘Tell me where I am,’ demanded the youth who had lived
no more than eighteen years. ‘I came to you because I saw a
light of understanding,’ he continued, ‘but the first being I met
was a cat.’
With a puzzled expression, he said he thought he was mad
because he understood the cat when she spoke to him.
The Avatar looked upon the boy with compassion and en-
quired why he was so worried (the boy seemed to be ignorant
of everything connected with dying, and could not accept the
fact that he was indeed dead).
‘Haven't you heard about life after death?’ enquired the
Avatar. ‘Don't you believe in God?’
‘Oh, gee’ answered the boy, ‘that's an old guy in a book!’
To try to convince him that he was dead it was suggested
the boy go to the funeral home and see his body. Quickly he
returned, announcing, ‘Gee, that place is full of stiffs.’
The Avatar sighed, feeling great compassion for the young
man, and devoted much time trying to reach a point of under-
standing, eventually sending the youth on his way, reassured,
while he was left wondering at the lack of religious teachings.

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If you wish to see the valleys
climb to the mountain top;
if you desire to see the mountain top,
rise into the cloud;
but if you. seek to understand the cloud,
close your eyes and think.

Kahlil Gibran
 CHAPTER FIVE
Weybridge was a busy place during the war years, Vickers
Armstrong's Aircraft Company being in the vicinity, and pro-
viding employment for thousands of people. Each morning,
around breakfast time, the avenue beneath our window was
buzzing with motor cars, trucks and bicycles—all on their
way to Vickers; but after an hour or so, the road was almost
deserted again. Yes, we were continually reminded of the war.
Of course Brooklands' race track, also in the Weybridge
district, was known all over the world.
For us it was a fairly quiet period in our lives for we did not
lead much of a social life, having very few visitors. Carl was
not fond of mixing with people, so his employer held this
against him. If you want to succeed in business life, it seems
you must smoke, drink and BE SOCIAL, whatever that means!
A few of my acquaintances came to visit us ‘out in the
sticks’ and I remember one in particular, a nurse who had but
recently been married. She had flouted hospital regulations
and married one of her patients in the hospital. Although her
name escapes my memory, I have several reasons for remem-
bering this young lady—not the least being that she was an
excellent nurse, admired by staff and management alike. Her
husband, prior to the marriage, had suffered a motor-cycle
accident; thus he became a patient, having one leg amputated.
During his illness and convalescence, no doubt partly due to
the extreme care he enjoyed at her hands, he fell in love with
his nurse. After his discharge from hospital, there were many
escapades, after hours, and it was not long before wedding
bells were ringing for nurse and patient. Around that particu-

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lar time there was a film star who had suffered a leg amputa-
tion, and therefore he had enlisted the use of an artificial limb.
My nurse acquaintance and her husband spent many hours
sitting in the cinema studying this actor's leg movements so
they might learn whatever they could to make things easier for
themselves.
I was just going to comment that, were I endowed with an
eidetic memory, I would give the actor's name. In the mean-
time the electrical pulsations within my cranium slowly
‘creaked’, bringing to the surface the name of Herbert Mar-
shall-a well-known and popular British actor of his day.
Another person with whom we maintained contact was Dr.
Murray, a pathologist, and whenever we found ourselves in his
area we would go along to the hospital where he was employed
and have a chat. Dr. Murray was a very clever man, an author
of technical works, and a prospective candidate for Britain's
parliament; but, since we did not approve of the party he
represented, we were just as happy that he did not get suffici-
ent votes. It would have been sad for a brilliant medical man
to waste his time with politics, surely.
Dr. Murray is no longer on the earth plane—but he is
always remembered with affection.
One does not enjoy being reminded of wars; and that being
so, there is no pleasure in living close to an aircraft factory,
which for some people creates an artificial glamour. Wages are
high and the ordinary person, the so-called man-in-the-street,
is able to live on a scale which would be unimaginable in peace
time.
As well as the Vickers Viscount planes, the Wellington
Bomber (the Wimpey) was also produced by the Vickers
Brookland factory. This was the first geodetic airplane ever
made. Vickers also produced one of the first anti-sub radar
planes (a Wimpey) which had on top a thing which looked like
a flying saucer. The machine used to fly over the sea by night,
when U-boats were on the surface recharging their batteries.
They could spot the U-boats first and were then able to drop
their depth charges.
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its hate and misunderstanding, and the aftermath of suffering
which it causes. One needed only to walk past the Star and
Garter Home for the Disabled, near Richmond Park, to be
reminded how savage human beings can be to each other.
These disabled and otherwise crippled men had been victims
of the First World War.
When one lives away from the mainstream of things one
tends to fall back on one's own resources; so we had plenty of
time to think, read and, on weekends and evenings, explore the
countryside on our bicycles which we had brought with us
from London. Often we cycled along to Walton-on-Thames in
one direction, or to a small place named Addlestone the other
way (not far from Chertsey). Sometimes we would take a train
and go to Woking or Guildford, and one of the nicest doctors I
have ever known lived in Woking. He was Irish and, due to his
abilities as a physician and his natural humanitarian manner,
most of his patients considered themselves fortunate to be in-
cluded in his practice. This GENTLEMAN has gone on to a
higher state, with few regrets and the knowledge that his life
on earth was well worth while.
One day we were riding along towards Heath Road, on our
way home, when we passed a small restaurant and we noticed
a sign reading ‘Kittens available’; so we stopped and made
enquiries. The restaurant owner was a pleasant English
woman, and her cat family looked well and happy; so we de-
cided to have one of her beautiful Silver Tabbies, a gentleman
who was often known as Mr. T. Catt.
T. Catt was very tiny, with a very short tail and a beautiful
sensitive face, and we were quite enthralled at the prospect of
adopting him. In the two weeks we had to wait for him to be
old enough to leave his cat mother we purchased dishes (plates,
saucers and bowls), together with sanitary trays, and a sleep-
ing basket; for cats, and indeed all creatures, are happier with
their own utensils.
Everything was in order by the time we went to collect and
bring him home. He was so small that he would fit easily into
Carl's pocket. And that is how he was transported from one
home to the other.
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 It was a happy moment when T. Catt crossed the threshold
and took up residence, thus becoming part of our life. If a
pussycat starts investigating his new quarters, and shows
interest in the food you have provided, you can be fairly cer-
tain he is going to settle down happily. And this is what hap-
pened.
Life seemed to take on a new meaning, because we had been
so much ‘wrapped up with ourselves’ and we needed to
broaden our interests and affections. Carl and I had been
thrown together for such long periods that there were too few
‘spaces’ in our togetherness—that is how Kahlil Gibran puts
it. He says:
‘Let there be spaces in your togetherness, and let the winds
of the heavens dance between you. Love one another, but make
not a bond of love; let it rather be a moving sea between the
shores of your souls.’
So the advent of Mr. Catt added a new dimension to our
lives, and I was to learn much from the association. The most
exciting experience for me came one day when Mr. Catt had
reached maturity. I was holding him in my arms while stand-
ing before a looking glass. Without concentrating I casually
turned to let him see himself, because I knew cats COULD see
their image if they were interested. Sometimes they seem to be
sure there is another creature on the other side, and it can be
quite amusing to watch while they search around behind the
mirror to find the interloper. Whether T. Catt saw himself or
not seemed unimportant at that moment because I was so
interested in what I myself witnessed: In the mirror image I
saw, around my cat, a narrow band of a bluish-gray substance
extending a few centimeters, which later I came to identify as
the etheric body which surrounds all living things. That was a
very important discovery for me because in later years, having
read so much material on this and kindred subjects, I could
say to myself, ‘Yes, this is so because I have actually seen it.’
Sometimes it is possible to see something like this more clearly
through a mirror; and it gave me the assurance that the etheric
really existed, and gradually to have the ability to see it even
without any artificial aids.

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In the midst of
winter, I finally
learned that there
was in me an
invincible summer.

Albert Camus
 CHAPTER SIX
As I look back, I realize more than ever that the time spent in
Weybridge was a time of preparation for another phase. It
seemed we were not destined to have friends or acquaintances,
and it was not long before we were quite on our own—the few
people I had known were occupied with their own affairs, and
to some extent everybody's life was influenced by the war.
Carl and I became air-raid wardens; and we had to take our
turn on duty, patrolling our area, making sure no one was
showing a light and violating the blackout rules at night. One
ill-minded person reported us one night for showing a chink of
light—it was more a case of bad feeling than a serious viola-
tion of rules.
Carl was intense in his love of nature people, and we were
more and more pleased to have our Silver Tabby who showed
great interest in our activities—and seemed to know his mis-
sion in life was to care for us. Carl suggested we go along to a
store and find a harness for Mr. T. Catt before taking him out
walking. This we did and, although he never really liked the
restriction of being confined within the contraption, he did
eventually come to accept it as part of the process of becoming
civilized, even humanized. Your cat considers himself as part
of your family, so why should he not consider himself ‘human-
ized’. Sometimes I ponder whether my present creatures don't
tend to look upon me as another member of their species. At
home I am sometimes addressed as ‘Ma Cat’ and there are
times when I can almost sense things from their point of view.
After all, if you can see something in your mind's eye there
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have heard the remark, ‘I feel closer to my dog than I do to
many humans,’ or, ‘The more I see of people the more I love
my dog.’ It has been said that, what you can visualize—CAN
BE. He who can see the invisible can achieve the impossible.
I would like to quote an extract from Alice in Wonderland
because it is so applicable, and it helps one to believe in so-
called impossible things : ‘Alice laughed. “There's no use try-
ing” she said. “One can't believe in impossible things.” “I
daresay you haven't had much practice”, said the Queen.
“When I was younger I always did it for half-an-hour a day.
Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible
things before breakfast.” ’
Who would believe that at one time cats walked upright, on
two legs? Well I have an idea that, according to cat legends,
they did indeed; and they used to engage in numerous activi-
ties which would surprise the human of today.
Within a few short months, T. Catt grew to become a beau-
tiful specimen, and I used to say he reminded me of a Tiger
Lily—he had the markings of a tiger and the delicate appear-
ance of a lily. The expression on his sweet face was really .
quite angelic.
As the days passed we gradually realized that when you
adopt a creature of nature, giving it the trust and affection it
deserves, you will not be disappointed—for nature people are
capable of returning your devotion many times over. I will
never forget how much I owe my Silver Tabby, my Tiger
Lily.
Since we were so very isolated in our personal life, the day
we became the possessors of a little automobile was quite an
event. The Managing Director of the company expected Carl
to service his cars as well as attending the advisory work
relating to students (the position for which he had been en-
gaged), and I became quite proficient as a mechanic's assist-
ant. Once I helped to change over the engine of a car—I hope
I can remember the ‘make’; yes, it was a Standard, and by
today's standards, probably considered quite ancient.
The gentleman also owned a beautiful black Chrysler, and
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out of the way when he came speeding along the Avenue on his
way to the office. This vehicle, too, was serviced by Carl be-
cause his knowledge of motor mechanics was extensive; al-
though he disliked this type of work very much, eventually
putting his foot down and asking his boss to please find some-
one else to do it.
But to own a car ourselves was something else! And I was
very interested when Carl told me he had heard of a little
Morris Minor which was almost new, and which was to be sold
for a very reasonable figure.
We went down Baker Street to the garage, and we were
given a trial run which resulted in a purchase; and this cer-
tainly made life more interesting. We explored the whole
district and often went to London Airport (Heathrow), which
was just being completed, finding it most interesting to watch
the planes. I have been surprised to see the name ‘Heathrow’
continues to be used because in those early days it was said
there was a problem with its pronunciation: many non-
English speaking people could not manage the ‘th’—merely
sounding the ‘t’. However, since it has survived, the problem
must not have been insurmountable.
Sometimes we took a drive to other places of interest, to
Epsom Downs or to Boxhill, where we might enjoy the won-
derful view, or even to London itself where we drove around
marveling at the damage which could be wrought by warfare.
It was disappointing to find that T. Catt was less than in-
terested in the contraption. He preferred to get underneath the
thing and examine it after we returned from a trip. If ever we
tried to take him with us he would make the most strenuous
objections—as though there was something unpleasant and
eerie about the whole thing. Perhaps he knew more about it
than we did, as we were to find out later.
To our dismay this car was sometimes hard to control, as
though another entity was trying to take over the steering and
attempting to veer in the opposite direction. At other times we
seemed to be moving backward, something which, logically,
was impossible since the gear would be in the neutral position,
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 Many aspects of the whole affair were explained when
eventually we happened to hear something of the car's history.
Apparently it had been involved in an accident, resulting in a
person being killed; and, according to the man who supplied
the information, it was known to be a haunted car. So that was
why the price was so reasonable, and possibly why Mr. Catt
was such an unwilling passenger—always resisting our at-
tempts to take him with us.
What our Tiger did enjoy was to stroll around the grounds
with us, on weekends or in the evenings, usually wearing a
harness so we might keep a check on him; and he delighted in
doing a bit of tree climbing. These premises had originally
been privately owned, before being transformed into offices,
and the estate comprised about three and a half acres of land.
It was very pleasant to wander amongst the trees and flowers
in the cool of a summer evening, keeping an eye on Mr. Catt
and chatting of various things which were of interest to both of
us.
One day Carl said, ‘You know, Ra-ab, that cat reminds me
of a creature who lived with me previously : although HE was
of a different color he had many of the same mannerisms, and
I often have an impression of my black cat when I observe this
one.’ Since we believe that humans and ‘animals’ do return to
earth again and again, we accepted the fact that ‘black cat
John’ had come back again in the form of a Tabby—to look
after us as well as gaining further experience himself. We be-
lieved this creature, T. Catt, previously John, had been associ-
ated with us through many lives, and that we would continue
together through many more.
Carl was extremely gentle with ‘animals’ and he would lift
cats carefully, with both hands—not taking them by the scruff
of the neck thus allowing their bodies to just hang down and
become strained as some people do, which can cause such
misery. He used to say one should never laugh at a cat other-
wise it would be sorely offended, and he was speaking of the so-
called domestic feline. Siamese cats, it seems, are less con-
cerned about it; but their biggest problem is loneliness. They
MUST have the companionship of humans if they are to sur-

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vive and remain sane and content.
It was the cause of much worry the night Mr. Catt did not
come home by bedtime. We had gone down to the front door
and out into the yard on a very warm summer evening, when
suddenly he darted off into the dusk—all our entreaties to
return being in vain. He had never stayed away before, so in
our concern we could not settle down to sleep, only napping
fitfully. So it was with joy that I looked out of the window in
the morning and espied him sitting under a tree, waiting for
the door to open so he might come in and resume the duties he
had lately been neglecting.

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I do my thing
And you do your thing
I am not in this world
To live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world
To live up to mine.

You are you.

And I am I

And if by chance we find each other

It's beautiful

Fritz Peris
 CHAPTER SEVEN

It was an interesting sight when Mr. Catt began ‘showing off’

in front of anyone who happened to call upon us: he would
roll over on to his back and wait to be admired. Being a Leo
person he was proud . . . and beautiful; and everybody com-
mented upon his appearance. Even the short tail of babyhood
had grown to become a thing of beauty. We spent a lot of time,
he and I, in our yard where we read or dug up the little bit of
flower patch, planting seeds which we hoped would eventually
produce various-hued pansies.
Our Tiger would have a good feed of grass which is very
good for cats, having an emetic effect; fortunately getting it all
over before going inside. These days I have to grow grass
indoors, in flower pots, and it is quite amusing to see a
stranger come into our apartment and enquire what is in the
pots. When they are told, ‘Oh, it is just grass,’ they look at one
strangely until they realize it is the old-fashioned kind—being
grown for cats only.
‘Why an emetic effect,’ someone will say. ‘Surely it is not
good to deliberately make a cat vomit’ (or ‘throw up’ as they
say in Canada). ‘Sure it is a good thing,’ I reply, for this helps
get rid of all the loose fur which comes off when a cat washes,
and which is most often swallowed, forming a hard wad inside
the cat's stomach; and technically termed a ‘hair-ball’. If these
hard lumps, which are often too big and too hard to pass all
the way through the intestines, do not receive attention they
can lead to obstructions and other serious conditions if left in
the stomach. Some people give, by mouth, a little olive oil or
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mass, thus allowing it to complete its progress through the
digestive tract; but one should always be on the lookout for
symptoms of this annoying and sometimes serious problem. To
aid in the prevention of this condition, as well as to keep a
cat healthy and constipation free, a bowl of water should
always be available—and it should be changed mornings and
evenings. Most people are surprised when told many cats
prefer water instead of milk, and that water in most cases is
better for them. All cats should be groomed (brushed and
combed) every day to prevent the swallowing of loose hair.
Short-haired felines are in need of this grooming just as are
the long-haired variety.
It is surprising how many people have pets of one kind or
another and do not take the trouble to find out how to care for
them—the sort of conditions which are most suitable, the kind
of diet they need, etc. Just like humans, most if not all
creatures suffer from a feeling of loneliness if neglected for too
long; and this goes for the fish in an aquarium, a bird in a
cage, as well as the larger ‘animals’ who walk around on all
fours. It is widely acknowledged that house plants thrive much
better in an atmosphere of friendliness, when the so-called
owners talk to them and provide companionship.
There is one thing many of us are guilty of, and that is in
delaying getting professional help when we have a creature
who is sick or does not seem to be well. Especially in the case
of a cat, a day or even a few hours delay in treatment can make
a great deal of difference to their satisfactory recovery. Veter-
inarians are agreed upon this, and the other day, Dr. Randall
(our present veterinarian) was talking about this aspect: ‘But ‘
he was quick to comment, ‘there is no danger of your cats
being left too long without attention.’ He knows we consult
him just to make sure the little people are doing all right.

So the war progressed; and we were all tired of food and

clothes rationing, and the shortage of petrol too. Reconstituted
eggs do not make the best of meals for humans, and a little cat
can get tired of eternally being offered canned pilchards in
brine; and women, probably more than men, found it monoton-

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ous and soul-destroying having to wear the same old clothes
for too long. In those days I was very fond of nice clothes, and
one found various ways of supplementing one's wardrobe: I
happened to come into contact with a fashion editor of one of
the London Sunday newspapers who accumulated a certain
number of garments to be used in her job of reviewing. Since
my size was average, the same as hers, I managed to obtain
some of these articles which the lady was happy to dispose of
and which boosted my ego tremendously. Finally, Miss
Editor annoyed me somewhat by offering an attractive red
woolen coat which she ‘just needed to keep a few days for a
showing’, while in the meantime having second thoughts and
withdrawing her offer. Just a little thing perhaps, but for a
moment it angered me somewhat.

T. Catt was very fond of flowers and we used to tease him

about looking like Ferdinand the Bull, who just sat and
smelled them. One day he and I had a session of seed plant-
ing—we worked energetically and interestedly, and then we
left them to nature so she and her helpers might bring them to
fruition. At the appropriate time our efforts were rewarded,
and we found ourselves with a glorious array of various-hued
and over-sized pansies, in shades of blue, purple, orange and
yellow; and some were the color of a Tiger Lily.
Some people seem to be luckier than others in obtaining
good results from their efforts at growing flowers; but then one
wonders, ‘Is it perhaps not “luck” but something else alto-
gether?’ Those people who have given a little thought and
perhaps a little research on the subject may have something to
say about the ‘green thumbs’ theory. What are green thumbs,
and what is the reason for them?
Were we to go into the subject ourselves we would realize
that certain types of people have greener thumbs than the rest
of us; and they are usually of the earthy type, such as the solid
Taurus—born in May, a Virgoan whose birth date is in Sep-
tember, or the January Capricorn. These people are in greater
harmony with Mother Earth; and as they lovingly go about
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may be absorbed, thus providing the extra energy which re-
sults in a quicker and healthier growth. A certain person I
know possesses an abundance of the Taurus and Capricorn
qualities and, as you may imagine, his garden is his hobby and
his great love—he spends hours and hours nurturing his plot,
and the results are the envy of all his gardening friends.
Those possessed of this particular make-up can do much to
sustain a sick person by transmitting energy through touch,
because the etheric emanations are very powerful around the
hands.
Carl and I spent a good deal of time in our photo-
graphic darkroom and this entailed much work since it was
something of a make-shift affair. Being war-time the blackout
curtains were useful in making the room dark but there was no
‘running water’ so we were kept busy transporting solutions
back and forth from the bathroom, being particularly careful
to prevent as much as possible the collection of dust in the
dishes. I soon learned how careful one must be in maintaining
cleanliness when processing film and making prints, almost as
careful as preparing for an operation in a hospital. I also
learned that if one is interested, dedicated if you like, in what-
ever one undertakes, it is possible to obtain good results in
spite of difficult working conditions. One supposes it is only
the bad workman who blames his tools, the proficient photo-
grapher overcomes the obstacles.
By watching and listening to Carl's procedures and ex-
planations I was able to learn a great deal; with the big
Thorton Pickard reflex, and the small Agfa 35-mm size, the
range of photographic possibilities was fairly wide.
Why the small size film at all, one wonders. It seems that
when someone was making cine films they decided it would be
a good idea to make some of this size available to the public,
especially since there is more variety in cine film than any
other. The Belgian firm of Gaevert manufactured the film in
collaboration with the Agfa company whose 35-mm camera
was one of the earliest on the market, and it took twelve
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users of the 35 mm which in later days has become so
popular.
Around that time a British Company in Kingston-on-
Thames, Surrey, brought out the Compass, a wrist camera,
using 16-mm circular film, and in those early days the mid-
Europeans put out a ‘spy’ camera using this film which is just
about half the size of the 35 mm. A little later a man in Italy
invented another small instrument which has been called one
of the finest cameras ever produced, but for one reason or
another it did not receive the promotion necessary to get go-
ing, so it was never popularized. This camera was a Gami and
one of its features was that with each setting of the shutter
one might take three separate pictures. Whether that was a
good thing is debatable. I have seen some results of this in-
strument and I have to agree they came close to perfection in
quality.

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Friendship is the
inexpressible comfort
of feeling safe with
a person having neither
to weigh thoughts
nor measure words.

George Eliot
 CHAPTER EIGHT

Life is made up of sunshine and shadow and it would not be of

much help to anyone if all was gloom or ‘cloud nine’ ex-
periences, cloud nine being about the ultimate experience of
joy we could possibly feel while on earth. Someone has said,
‘If the sun should shine night and day, how soon the trees
would wither.’ I mention this to illustrate the ways of ordin-
ary living; although misunderstandings and minor disagree-
ments are most unpleasant there comes a wonderful feeling of
satisfaction when two people resolve their differences and
harmony is once more restored. It's something like when you
have to part from a cared-for person for a time—having been
away from each other, the eventual coming together again
reveals an extra glow which radiates new meaning.
I want to try and explain how the story of ‘Tiger Lily’ is
made up of a mixture such as I have just described, how all
was not perpetual sunshine and gladness. If I were to attempt
to convey such an expression it would not be fair nor would it
be correct, for we had our problems, great and small, just as is
experienced by all serious thinking persons.
Many people have felt interest or curiosity regarding my
life; thinking it must have been so different because of the
unusual circumstances, in that one person left this life and his
place was taken over by another. You who have followed the
teachings in Lobsang Rampa's books (Lobsang Rampa to
whom I owe a greater debt than I shall ever be able to repay in
countless lifetimes), you will know the broad outline of the
need for the necessary steps which had to be taken. Since his
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from me.
Lobsang Rampa has a harder time than anyone living can
comprehend, he has seen his efforts sabotaged by smaller
minds than his, and when I look back, even to the days before
he came, I can see where my own actions (or lack of) could
have made conditions much easier for the one who was already
here, as well as for the one who would follow.
Carl and I, bogged down as we were by solid earth vibra-
tions, and not having acquired the necessary refinements, were
often in a quandary, thus we were misunderstood and I lacked
the understanding which would have helped us, each the other.
Many were the hours we chatted about our early life, com-
paring experiences, and deciding there were many things
we didn't understand about our situations, things we hoped
would be clear one day. Always we were intrigued with the
thought of that special FORCE which had brought us together,
and we wondered at the purpose behind it. There were so
many incidents, memories of what must have been past hap-
penings, but everything seemed misty, in a sort of fog. It was
not until Lobsang Rampa, who we all look upon affectionately
as the Guv, came upon the scene, that enlightenment came to
me upon many subjects, and for this I have been so very
thankful for the light which has cast its rays out from the dark
recesses of the subconscious mind.
As one gains more and more understanding of life's upward
path, one realizes it is neither sensible nor advisable to discuss,
to broadcast, all one's private experiences and thoughts. I am
reminded of the advice of Dr. Rampa regarding the giving of a
name to one's subconscious: give it a name but do not tell
anyone else the name, or its power will not be so great, the
power of the subconscious, that is.
It would be very nice to relate various experiences, various
bits of knowledge which have been given to help one along
one's path, but something which can be of help to one person
would not necessarily benefit another, so let us keep our
private information and guidance to ourselves, where it will at
least do good to one person, instead of spreading a lot of ‘idle
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would not be believed, merely being looked upon as idle chat-
ter.
One piece of information, though, may be passed on and
may benefit at least some person who feels their load is too
great. Many times the thought has been impressed upon my
consciousness that no person is given a load of problems which
is too heavy for them to bear. There is always some circum-
stance which intervenes when we feel we have almost reached
breaking point, and this happens to each one of us at one time
or another, unless we are one of those rare individuals who for
some reason or another have perhaps suffered in another life,
and are being given a respite, or who may not yet have reached
the stage where such an experience is deemed beneficial to
their progress.
From personal experience I can truthfully say that I have
received such a feeling of sustenance in my hour of need that I
could hardly have believed possible. This message is being
passed on to show that if one is able to believe, such help is
available to every one of us.
Many people have expressed the hope that Mrs. Rampa
would write a book one of these days, that she would make it
really sensational, full of all the exciting things most people
delight in hearing. Well, while one does not wish to mislead
anyone, it has never been my intention to write a sensational
story. There is nothing sensational about it (everything has
been carried out according to the law of nature) so it is my
greatest desire that those of you who read these pages will
accept them for what they are, a recording of events as they
happened in the lives of a fairly ordinary family, which in-
cluded a highly intelligent cat and one who I believe has
reached a fairly high level on the evolutionary scale.
It might interest someone to know that whenever I take up
my typewriter to continue telling of our experiences there
always appears a picture, an impression if you like, of a cat in
one form or another, before me. It is almost as though I am
impelled to make such a creature the main theme of my story,
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write, there is a highly intelligent feline sitting on her resting
place right opposite me, with eyes half-closed but otherwise
with an air of full alertness. This creature, who has been
termed one of the most intelligent creatures it has been my
honor to meet, seems to be saying to me that I should be
writing more about cats, and their world; whatever I may not
be sufficiently familiar with, then I should make it my business
to ask. The Guv is always willing to help with advice culled
from his extensive knowledge, and in matters relating to
ordinary day-to-day problems there is a fine veterinarian close
by who is always prepared to offer us the fruits of his experi-
ence. So my Lady Cleopatra sees no reason why there should
not be written a comprehensive book all about feline life, and
telling many things the average person would appreciate know-
ing. So perhaps now we might return to some more antics of
the felines, a subject which brings joy and happiness to the
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Love does not consist
in gazing at each other
but looking outward
in the same direction.

Antoine De Saint-Exupery
 CHAPTER NINE
Ships that Pass . . .

This phrase is used mainly with reference to humans but it

can be applied to other creatures too, and I am thinking now
particularly of Cat People. All of us, humans, and animals so-
called, are like ships which meet on the high seas, pausing in
greeting and then continuing, each on their own path, eventu-
ally to arrive at their separate destinations.
King George the Fifth of England used to quote that piece
about ‘lf there be any kindness I may do, let me do it now for I
may not pass this way again.’ I have always considered it a
thought worth remembering, for often it is too late before we
notice the friendly gesture we might have made, or the kind
word we could have uttered, which surely could have provided
a little cheer where it was directed.
The other day I was looking over the pages of my book,
Pussywillow and I was quite shocked to realize how many
changes had occurred since that book was started, just over two
years back. Some of the things mentioned, almost all of them
it seems, have disappeared from one's ken; and the thought
can be a bit disconcerting if you are one of those individuals
who abhor too much change.
To reminisce a little, while still dealing with the theme of
felines, our Cattery Person, Mrs. Potter, comes to mind: Mrs.
Potter, who had been considered more or less a fixture, having
a well-established Cattery, and a responsible position with a
local Veterinary Hospital.
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around her establishment to see the lovely cats and kittens who
took a lively interest in the visit. One would never have
thought the situation would change, and so soon; but when
romance comes along anything is liable to happen . . . and it
usually does. Having been left a widow for some years, and at
an early age, she decided to marry again, so she went off to the
United States with her new husband taking, I believe, some of
her cats in which she had a special interest.
Before leaving she was kind enough to make a tape record-
ing of her cat family, just before their mealtime one day. So
whenever we play the tape we are reminded of that happy
time; it never fails to attract the attention of our Miss Cleo
and Miss Taddy who do not wholly approve of all that
screeching, considering it somewhat raucous.
One cat who had earned the name Manxie, being a Manx
cat with, of course, no tail, was especially dear to Mrs. Potter,
so no doubt this little person accompanied the retinue to the
new home. I did not hear whether Mr. Ming the doggie whose
job it had been to guard the cat establishment made the
journey also, but one hopes he did for he was a most friendly
and devoted creature who took his duties seriously. One of the
saddest experiences must be to have to leave a loved one be-
hind, especially a so-called animal who cannot easily make its
needs known, and who finds it very hard to adjust to a differ-
ent life after living in a certain environment, and performing a
special duty for a few years. Mr. Ming had always been ex-
tremely polite to me each time I had visited his charges, so I
am sure that wherever he now finds himself he will be appreci-
ated and loved by those he serves.
Anyone who may have read my book Pussywillow will be
familiar with those two Siamese cats who were known as Tiki
and Shara, and who were sort of adopted by Mrs. Potter while
she tried to find a more suitable and permanent home for
them. They were not getting sufficient freedom in the ‘Cattery’
as Mrs. Potter often had temporary boarders and she could not
risk a fight if ‘stranger cats’ disagreed. Rather than keep
boarder cats in a cage all the time, they were allowed to roam a
little so this caused a problem for Tiki and Shara. It was a

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happy moment the day an elderly man and his elderly wife
called upon Mrs. Potter in their search for a companionable
cat. Apparently the man took an instant fancy to those two,
although Siamese had not been in his mind. Shara, especially,
who was the more temperamental of the two immediately
showed interest in the visitors and demonstrated great affec-
tion for the man, so the decision was greatly influenced by
Shara's attitude. So Mr. and Mrs. (ex-farmers from Sas-
katchewan) who were in Calgary for only a short stay were
able to provide a permanent happy home for two creatures
who, through no fault of their own, had been more or less
abandoned by their former owners, and would probably have
experienced an untimely end if they had been taken to the
S.P.C.A. or the ‘pound’ as the family were prepared to do, but
for a chance remark one evening by a taxi driver about finding
a home for them with a private family.
It would be nice if all cat stories were to end so happily, for
these two creatures found a good home where they were
appreciated, and the ex-farmer (with his wife) received their
reward in the way of affectionate gratitude. So there was a
feeling of adoration on both sides.
Thus the people come and go; and I have seen how circum-
stances can influence the actions of other creatures, as well as
humans. And now I am thinking of a certain cat family. I have
written about Siamese mother cat Nikki who, at the age of
twelve years, had to be sent ‘home’ since she was suffering
from a terminal illness—her condition rapidly deteriorating.
Grampa Cat had known Nikki all through Nikki's life and
since he himself had attained the great age of sixteen years,
when she was no longer there he must have been greatly
affected. It was only fully realized the extent of the shock he
had suffered when, within a few weeks of Nikki's passing, he
gradually refused food, and then suddenly collapsed, soon to
join his loved companion who he would have looked upon as a
cat-wife. This left only ten years old Ichabod, who had never
been without his Mother Nikki or Grampa Cat; and since his
age would be seventy by human standards, one can imagine his
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been what could be termed a ‘normal’ cat, due to an early
illness.
I have often thought of Ichabod, living out the remainder of
his lonely years, patiently awaiting the moment when he would
join his cat Mother and his Grampa. How few of us seem to
realize the misery, the torment, we can cause, unthinkingly or
deliberately, through what is often nothing more than sheer
selfishness, because we cannot bear to lose a creature, suffering
or not, when to have the little creature put to sleep painlessly,
by a qualified, compassionate veterinarian, can often be the
kindest course to take. It can be a difficult course to take but
when the ‘animal’ is suffering and there is no likelihood of
recovery, surely our own selfishness should not come first. If
one looks around there are some MOST understanding and
humane veterinarians who will take time to reassure your pet,
soothe him and administer an injection painlessly, thus making
it easier for him to cross the river to the other side of life,
where he will be met by others of the same species, and where
he will rest and receive the necessary care suitable for his
condition.
One understands that all beings are met on the other side by
discarnate entities, of similar compatibility, so we can always
be sure that our ‘pets’ are not alone when they are helped to
cross the river into the great unknown, to the place which is
the real HOME. Many people are concerned about the loss of a
loved one, which may be human or animal, wondering where
they are, whether they are being cared for and if they are
comfortable or lonely. If you read the books of Lobsang
Rampa you will have no doubt about the experiences of your
loved ones who have passed on. You will know that you can
meet them in your sleeping hours and that when the time
comes for you to make your final journey to the Golden Light
Land, there to meet you will be all those with whom you were
in harmony while on earth. Even some with whom you were
not in complete harmony may have seen their errors, realized
where they were wrong, just as you may feel different about
certain things, thus there may be an understanding between
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 We are told we should not worry so much, we should be
more placid and this is very true regarding emotion towards
loved ones. The more we worry the harder it is for them, they
on the other side are being pulled towards you on earth by
invisible strands (vibrations) with the result your loved one is
suffering even more than you because ‘out of the body’ senses
are more acute than those experienced by those who are still in
the body. It is easy to suggest but not so easy to carry out as
most of us know, but once it has been pointed out to us we can
at least make an effort to do something about it, for no right
thinking person wants to be the means of causing pain or
suffering to anyone, particularly when someone has a malady
which cannot be cured.
Too many very sick creatures are kept alive when it would
be more kind to allow them to pass on to their true home. And
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What lies behind us
and what lies before us
are tiny matters
compared to
what lies within us.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 CHAPTER TEN
Since this narrative seems to be moving from past events, to
the future, and back to the present, it is hoped none of the
clarity has been lost in the process. When an English friend of
mine read the typescript of Pussywillow she remarked that all
the place names in Canada caused her not a little confusion.
Never having visited this country and possibly not being a
great traveler herself she found it rather disconcerting to read
of all the moving around we had experienced and I am fairly
sure she was not wishing herself in our shoes—envy would be
the last trait one could attribute to her, in this respect at least.
Before going back to Weybridge and events there, let me
say that sometimes one does meet a ‘ship’ (a person) a second
time if only through correspondence. Here is such an instance.
Last year, right out of the blue I received a letter from a
person with whom I had had no contact for around seventeen
years; I never expected to hear from her again since we were
in different countries and, she being a much younger person,
merely a girl in her early teens, we did not enjoy any mutual
interests. However, Adrienne wrote to me because the Rampa
Family had been ‘on her mind’ for some time. She wrote how
she had left the flower shop where she had worked when we
knew her in Dublin, and we had lived in the apartment above.
During that period it was necessary for me to travel to London
occasionally and on one of those trips it was arranged for
Adrienne to accompany me. Since she had never been away
from home before it was quite an experience for her—and a
responsibility for me. She told me in the letter that she has
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thought of us, especially when she used to pass the hotel where
we had stayed—Whites Hotel on the Bayswater Road, the
only place available, it seemed on that particular weekend,
which was a national holiday. However, we enjoyed the trip
and since the airplane was comparatively small and flying
fairly low we were able to enjoy the beauty of the countryside
below us—especially as we flew over the mountains of Wales.
The Welsh mountains are noted for their rugged beauty.
Adrienne enjoyed herself immensely—visiting Madame Tus-
saud's waxworks where there could be seen figures of the fam-
ous, and infamous. The dungeon was a gruesome place where
the murderers, and the murdered, could be seen. This museum
is most interesting and no visitor to London should miss a
visit. We took a bus tour around the city, and the places of
greatest interest were pointed out to us by a guide, places like
the Houses of Parliament, 10 Downing Street, St Paul's Cath-
edral, where one might enjoy the work of Sir Christopher
Wren, and of course Big Ben the famous clock received great
admiration. Not to be forgotten were Westminstcr Abbey and
Buckingham Palace where one could view the changing of the
Guard—then Trafalgar Square to see the fountains, and the
pigeons, and Adrienne was impressed with the belts of green-
such as Hyde Park and Kensington Gardens where small boys
and large men enjoyed sailing their model boats.
We thought it would be nice to visit a cinema if we could
find one which was showing a worthwhile movie. Someone or
something must have been guiding us for in a very short period
of time we found something which could not have been better
in Adrienne's case. The theme depicted life as a nun and since
my companion was of the Roman Catholic faith it was an ideal
choice. The title of the film I will always remember—the film
actress Deborah Kerr portrayed a nun and the name of the
film was Heaven Knows, Mr. Allison. Adrienne was thrilled
with it. And now she is married with a small son and a small
daughter, and in the past year to a year and a half I have
received several letters from her—just for the sake of old
times, for the sake of those other days when we were all
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‘passed this way’ more than once and if perchance Adrienne
happened to think she could have been dreaming and that she
had never made such a trip, she would take out her wallet and,
looking at those photographic prints she carried around, she
could verify the fact that she had indeed been to London.
Of course it would be impossible to keep in touch with all
the souls we meet on life's highway for, after all, the main
thing we have to do is to go forward, and not live in the past,
so that we may progress further along the pathway, attaining
as often as possible a further step along the ladder of success.
One often comes across a person who is living quite happily
without any thought of progress, just living in a rut one might
say. While this may be allowed to a few people, the majority
must carve their way along their chosen path in an effort to
attain the goal they set for themselves. Unfortunately many of
us lack the extra effort and just sit down by the wayside, even
with our goal in sight, while if we are not careful we might
find time is running out and unless we realize it quickly we
could leave it too late, which would be a sad state of affairs
indeed if we had to return to earth to complete a task we had
been too careless, or too preoccupied, to finish the first time.
How many are the times I have been told to ‘not look back’
but go forward with a definite aim in mind. There is the
thought of Lot's wife in the Bible—she took a look behind her
while the city was burning, and didn't she turn into a pillar of
salt! A thought worth remembering—to go forward, meet
fresh people, and to never lose sight of our goal.
So, after that diversion we return to England and Wey-
bridge, where every day was lived in very much the same way,
which meant there was very little exciting happening.
It was not until Mr. T. Catt, the Tiger, was around four
years of age that he was allowed to wander around unchaper-
oned. Carl and I talked it over and decided he should be all
right in our neighborhood so long as he did not try to cross
the road, and we hoped he would not do so. At first we were
somewhat apprehensive, especially when someone from the
office would tell us they had seen a Silver Tabby cat crossing
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 Fortunately the automobiles did not travel as fast as they do
here in Canada where in Ontario it was heartbreaking to see
the number of casualties due to speeding cars, many of which
could surely have been avoided.
One of the attractions for him, the Tiger, was the fact that
the neighbor kept hens and chickens and apparently T. Catt
enjoyed visiting them which left us with another problem—
fleas! It was anything but a happy day when I had to take him
down into the yard and carefully (without affecting the eyes
and ears) rub flea powder into his fur, for each time he visited
that hen-house he seemed to collect some of those crawling,
hopping creatures.
Apart from contact with creatures such as hens, which are
sometimes infested with fleas, a cat should be comparatively
free of these crawling hoppers as they grow beyond the stage
of kittenhood, especially if they stay away from squirrels, and
certain large birds such as pigeons. When the cats are in the
babyhood stage, merely kittens, they are not able to care for
their fur and general condition as well as a more fully grown
cat.
Mr. T. Catt provided much amusement for us; he loved to
pick up articles and put them in various places, which greatly
hampered our activities if it was something we needed im-
mediately. I remember one time in particular when Carl was
looking for an instrument, a sort of scalpel-shaped knife and it
was not to be found any place. After a time the culprit, in the
form of Mr. Catt, came in from the shelf where he used to sit
for hours and hours; in his mouth was the knife which he
offered to us with great glee, placing it by Carl's feet. That
knife must have been outside for some time because it had
become rusty through being out in damp weather. It was an
episode with a happy ending, for until we found the instru-
ment Carl must have thought I had taken it.
Another time the Tiger must have been in a fight, and got
the worst of the fray, for he arrived home one morning looking
disreputable and with a torn ear. Whether he had been show-
ing off or what I might never know, but since he was a child of
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young he fell from the same outside shelf upon which he was
sitting, and landed on the ground, one floor down, and there he
was miauing at the front door apparently none the worse for
the experience. Surely that left him with less than the nine
lives we attribute to those of the cat tribe.
We had spent most of the war years in this particular
locality but still we had few acquaintances or friends, but we
did have a short friendship with a person who was in the
Royal Air Force, and his wife. One day we all decided to take
a boat and spend an afternoon on the River Wey. We thought
we may as well take the Tiger since it would be a nice change
for him. A nice change, did I say! I am sure he never spent
such a miserable time in the whole of his life; there was he
panting away and looking as though he was about to pass out,
and that was the first and last time Mr. Catt ever went
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The greatest man (or woman)
is not necessarily the one
who makes the most noise.
 CHAPTER ELEVEN

There was one important event occurred while we were living

in the Weybridge area and that was the wedding of Princess
Elizabeth and Prince Philip, the Princess who is now Queen
Elizabeth the Second. It was a particularly happy moment to
be standing on the bridge at the foot of St. George's Avenue to
watch the Royal train pass by, bearing the honeymoon couple,
who were off to spend part of their honeymoon with their
relatives, Lord and Lady Mountbatten. It was a dreary day in
November, with rain hampering those who were bent on wit-
nessing this delightful spectacle, this exciting moment. Where-
ever Royalty is to be found you can be sure of finding a host
of happy Britishers. The British care very much for their kings
and queens and they revel in all the pageantry the monarchy
entails.
One had to make the most of each event, there were so few
on which to feast the eyes.
At one period during the war Sir Winston Churchill's
daughter, Mary, spent some time in the area, together with
others who were in the Auxiliary Territorial Service. At one
time these A.T.S. seemed to be everywhere. One supposes
they were down there to receive certain training. Later Miss
Churchill (the youngest daughter of the Churchill’s) married
Christopher Soames, now Sir Christopher.
Much of our time was spent in reading and listening to the
radio and at that time Shaw Desmond's work was popular, as
were the books of Paul Brunton, a serious and interesting
writer. Carl enjoyed things bordering on the occult and meta-
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first I did not like to see him reading this material so much, for
some strange reason I thought he would become so knowledge-
able that he might progress beyond my reach. It was a stupid
thought but not so uncommon as one might think, judging by
the letters one receives. However, I am wiser now and I realize
it is possible for anyone, everyone, to progress spiritually
through metaphysical and occult studies—especially when
they are able to receive proper guidance from one who knows.
many spare moments talking about the sort of life we had led
before we first met.
Carl's youth seemed to have been an unhappy time for a
young boy. He was somewhat aloof and not easily understood,
and after his school years were over he was sent to take an
apprenticeship as a motor mechanic, a job he really disliked.
Because of traveling about in damp, wet weather he de-
veloped chest problems which necessitated giving up this
work. Later he studied advertising and he found this much
more interesting and something for which he seemed to have a
flair. The company he was with when we first met had given
him responsibility for all their advertising so his work must
have been satisfactory, since the aforesaid advertising brought
in a good response. The position at Weybridge also entailed a
fair amount of advertising, again bringing in good results, so
there is no doubt but that a person who is doing work he enjoys
has a much greater chance of success than one who is simply
pushed into something for which there is neither liking nor
interest.
He used to talk about his sister who I never had an oppor-
tunity of meeting and perhaps it was just as well since the two
of them did not get along well together. Apparently the sister
was the favorite, getting everything she wanted while Carl
had to manage as best he could. After thinking about Carl and
his environment I have sometimes thought that perhaps he
gave in to others too easily when he should have stood his
ground and demanded fair treatment from his parents, especi-
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always easy to see what other people should do but not so
simple to solve one's own problems, so we should not be too
harsh regarding others, especially when we do not possess all
the facts. Carl used to speak with affection when mentioning
his father with whom he had a very good relationship, so this
helped balance the situation which otherwise would have been
sterile, and resulted in a useless life. Carl spoke often about his
father, and it seemed that his mother had a dictatorial man-
ner, but father was kind and easy-going. Although I never had
the pleasure of knowing him, since he had passed away some
months before Carl and I first met, I always found it of great
interest to hear about him and his naturally pleasant person-
ality. The black cat, John, had been a close companion, especi-
ally in the later days, sitting on the lap of the invalid, Carl s
father, who suffered ill-health for some time before finally
departing to happier realms. Carl used to tell how it was such
a blessing they had this cat who seemed to have the gift of
comforting the older man, and how when the invalid passed
away John pined and suffered a great feeling of loneliness. I
learned also that the full title of the black cat was Johnny
Shanko. Later Mr. Johnny Shanko had to be put to sleep, he
had to be sent ‘home’ before his time, because the family life
had been disrupted and the others were moving a long dis-
tance, to another part of England, where it was not possible to
take him. Sometimes I have wondered, though, whether a way
could have been found if the mother had displayed more
patience regarding the situation. Even as Carl was telling me
all this I could sense the emotion he was feeling as he related
the incident which ended so sadly. Still, we now had the pleas-
ure of Mr.T. Catt's company, for if Johnny Shanko had lived
out his full time on earth he would not have come to us in the
form of the Tiger Lilly. So—it's an ill wind that profits no-
body!
Please allow me to explain something. If the preceding
remarks seem somewhat odd to any person who reads them, I
suggest they read all of the books of T. Lobsang Rampa, a
name which is known the world over. It may be there are those
who do not understand such things as reincarnation, the Law

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of Kharma etc., so by reading the above author's works they
will understand these things and they will realize how black
cat Johnny Shanko could return to the earth as Mr. T. Catt, to
finish the life span which had been denied him previously
when, unhappily, he was sent to his heavenly home a few years
too soon. It can be very comforting to acquaint oneself with
these truths, which eliminate the sadness one normally experi-
ences on losing a pet, just to know we will meet again on this
earth plane or the next, where we can be together, knowing no
parting. If you read the aforementioned books you can lead a
fuller, richer life, provided you take them seriously, for they
are all true books, the whole eighteen of them, and there may
yet be another, making nineteen altogether.
A great dea1 of fiction has been written about Carl and
about Lobsang Rampa who followed, because the Press, as
ever, prefer to make everything sensational, treating people in
a derogatory manner. Carl's father was the Chief Water En-
gineer of the district in which he lived in the town of Plymp-
ton, Devonshire, but the Press preferred to describe him as
being in the capacity of a plumber. Now what difference it
makes whether Carl was the son of a baker, a tailor or a
candlestick-maker I could never fathom, except it seemed to
provide a certain amount of satisfaction to the media and a few
zealous individuals who were egging them on, and by des-
cribing someone as being a plumber's son they hoped to
denigrate him and tried to influence certain publishers to
refuse to publish Lobsang Rampa's books. So it can be seen
what jealousy and spite can do when a man is rather different
and possessed of a superior mentality, something those people
who were trying to pull him down, failed to understand. But it
has always been something of a puzzle to me what is wrong
with being a plumber—and wasn't Christ the son of a carpen-
ter, a worker with wood. Water or wood—what's the differ-
ence?—We need both, and why should a stigma be attached to
either a plumber or a carpenter? According to what we read
about the life of Christ he was mocked, derided, and finally
stoned and crucified, and to me this is an indication that all
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earth ahead of their time, are resented and persecuted just
because they are not understood, and because they are in pos-
session of greater knowledge, and are more advanced, than
are most earth people. They become suspect and people of the
earth do not understand. It is said that what people do not
understand they fear and try to destroy, so that could well be
one reason these higher beings have such a hard time trying to
do their tasks and getting their message over. We of the earth
believe ourselves to be very clever, but this does not prevent us
from trying to destroy what we do not understand! It is very
fortunate for those creatures such as the Yeti (the so-called
abominable snowman), the Loch Ness monster and the hum-
anoid types who are reported occasionally to emerge from Un-
identified Flying Objects, it is fortunate indeed that as far as
we know none of these creatures have been captured by
humans. Bah! Sometimes I feel ashamed to belong to the
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No book is so bad
that it has no good
in it.
Pliny
 CHAPTER TWELVE
We must remember that a few years ago conditions were quite
different from what they are at the present time, and I used to
enjoy listening to Carl while he told of how his family had
lived in the last county but one in the southern part of Eng-
land, his home being in Devonshire, just one county before
Cornwall, where we find Land's End.
The ancestral home was not far from Plymouth and the
name of the actual place—Plympton, and at that time there
was a vast distinction between certain classes of people. Carl's
family lived in what was known as Mayoralty House, because
it used to be the home of the Mayor; it was a very big house,
set on the side of a sloping driveway, and it sported five separ-
ate floors which necessitated a fair amount of domestic help
to keep it in good condition. The lower floor at the front was
underground, owing to the sloping driveway, but at its distal
end there were wide French windows which opened out on to a
garden of around three acres; which also needed one gardener
at least. In the garden, and to the left, was a stone house with
windows of colored glass, where frequently some of the
neighborhood cats wandered; they would emerge after a time,
looking bemused and almost cross-eyed due to different light-
ing effects.
The first part of the garden was a miniature lawn which had
the model of a fort and cannons around it. Beyond that one
could walk down a few steps and there was a large fish pond,
containing goldfish, goldfish who were trained to pull on a
string when they felt it was feeding time. I would sit there
spellbound as Carl unfolded the experiences of his early life.
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two wheels, and when a tap was turned on water would come
spouting from the nozzles, and music would come forth as the
water rotated the wheels. To the left of the pond was a large
aviary built against a south wall; it was very spacious and
people would go inside and walk around leisurely.
It is hoped that those who read Tiger Lily will not feel
uninterested and bored with these descriptions, but I believe
most readers will be fascinated just as I was when I mentally
pictured the whole scene as it unfolded before me. As Carl
related all that which was new to my ears he had the ability to
make everything come alive. I felt I was really there, literally,
LIVING amongst all this handiwork which had been achieved,
greatly by nature, with the help of man.
There is a little more to add about that interesting garden
but we will have a slight diversion because those who, like me,
may be a little restless, needing a change of subject (so that we
may prevent that awful feeling of boredom) will possibly utter
a silent prayer of gratitude.
The name of the master of Mayoralty House was William
so it may be well to use this name to avoid confusion in refer-
ring to various people. He had two given names but William
will be sufficient for us to identify him. Well, this gentleman
who was the Chief Water Engineer for the district had his
dwelling, Mayoralty House, right opposite the Town Hall
which, in turn, was adjoining the Police Station Headquarters.
It may seem strange to us, half a century later, to accept the
fact that William, as well as being the Chief Water Engineer,
owned the only Fire Engine of the area, so he was often re-
ferred to as the Fire-Chief-cum-Water-Engineer. So the Town
Hall had the Police Station Headquarters on one side, while
on the other side there was a small lane leading uphill, the
small lane being directly in front of Mayoralty House. This
lane stretched its way along and up to Plympton Castle, which
had a very fine, round Keep, and at one side of the Keep, a
very large mound on which the original Castle stood.
The Castle walls were in an extremely dilapidated state, but
enough remained to enable one to decipher the original plan.
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walls, that is, there was a tunnel going all around the walls
and leading to a hidden chamber down below in the mound
itself. This chamber had, in recent years, become blocked with
fallen rocks. On the outside of the walls was a big red stone.
Legend—inaccurate as usual—had a story that the Black
Prince visited the castle and, being a large, hefty man with an
uncontrollable temper, he had once seized a surly guard and
dashed his brains out against that stone which thereafter
turned red.
The Fire Chief, William, used to ride around the country-
side in a pony trap, carrying his long stethoscope. In those
days it was a wooden thing like a long walking-stick: at one
end there was a scooped out receptacle for the ear and at the
other end was a knob.
Every now and then Father William would jump out of the
pony trap, stick the knob end of the stick to the ground, listen-
ing intently to find out if the water was flowing from the
reservoir. He would then jump back into the pony trap and
continue on his rounds while he resumed smoking his short
Irish pipe.
Beyond the end of the garden was a greenhouse spread
lengthwise across the garden, and if one went along the path to
the right it led into an orchard. The garden was quite large
and there was another section of about two acres which was
given over entirely to the growing of vegetables; between the
two gardens was a fire house. William had acquired fire
pumps, there being no Fire Department, except for the one in
Plympton. Father William owned the fire engine and the
pumps, and the whole thing was horse-drawn. Every time
there was a fire it was followed by a meeting of the Council,
who voted how much they should pay the Fire Department.
All the firemen were in dark blue uniforms and they all
wore brass helmets something after the style of the German
Coalscuttle helmets. The Fire Brigade was very popular at
parades especially when funds were needed and money was to
be collected for ‘hot cross bun day’ and needs of such a nature.
Father William was a collector of antiques, mainly furniture
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member of the Royal Academy and who had the honor of
having paintings hung there. But William was at times some-
what rash which resulted in his being sold various ‘antiques’
which were not authentic, and this left him with money tied up
in what were substantially fakes, which later came as some-
thing of a shock to his family. At his death it was realized that
William was not as wealthy as had been expected because,
although on paper his estate was worth a great deal (partly
owing to the antiques), it made quite a difference when many
of them were exposed and found to be clever forgeries.
I would reiterate that Father William never was a plumber
but rather he was the Chief Water Engineer of the whole
district. I feel very strongly about this because many people,
especially the Press, have implied and said outright, ‘How can
a plumber's son know anything except about plumbing?’ For-
tunately the insinuations no longer affect me, for I have
learned more important things than to be affected by the
media who seem never to mind causing unhappiness if it
makes good copy.
I have learned about happiness, about giving and sharing,
and how it is possible to be cheerful in the midst of desperate
illness, terminal illness. I have learned how to be satisfied on
this sometimes disappointing planet. I have seen how a person
has helped others who have tried to cause only harm to the
benefactor, and if I do not always practice such methods
myself, the fact that I have been immersed in this goodness,
means that some of it will sink into my subconscious mind to
make me a better person now and later.
No, William was not a plumber, and what would it matter if
he had been? William's wife Eve was a member of a very
wealthy family of farmers at Brentnor, having large holdings
there, but the family of Father William and Mother Eve had
considerable battles over the right-of-way between two fields.
Both families (who were wealthy at the time) went to Law,
and if one family lost they lodged an appeal, and so it went on
until everybody was completely impoverished, and nothing
was gained in the end, but financially all were left the poorer.
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number of men in his service, these men are forced into duty
as part-timers, and so it happened with the Fire Chief. He had
sent one of his men out on his normal rounds, listening to the
sounds of the water from the reservoir, and checking that the
water was flowing through the pipes as it should. But then this
man, not one of the brightest individuals, came back and
reined in the pony, but just as he was starting to get down the
pony moved, resulting in the man catching the seat of his
trousers on the lamp bracket of the trap. Unfortunately he was
just in the process of jumping so, as he jumped first, his hopes
of future pleasures were almost ruined and the fabric of his
trousers gave out. He immediately rushed into the washroom,
and took off his trousers with the intention of stitching them
up so that he might appear in public again. At that moment,
just as he had removed his trousers, the fire alarm sounded,
and the man remembered he was on the roster for duty; in his
anxiety not to be late all thoughts of his trousers went out of
his mind and he rushed out to the fire engine. He jumped on as
the engine was moving out, and then the driver suddenly
stopped as he heard a roar of laughter at this man with his
fireman's helmet of shining brass, but without trousers, and his
shirt tail waving in the wind . . . One of the fellow firemen
tossed over a coat with which to cover the embarrassed man
and the poor fellow disappeared, no doubt to repair the off-
ending garment, his torn trousers.
Before we leave this interesting subject of water and its uses
I have to relate a little incident I read in The Albertan this
morning, December lst 1976 . . . A doctor was having trouble
and he found it necessary to call in a plumber, who was
quickly on the scene . . . The plumber set to and soon every-
thing was working well. ‘How much will that cost?’ enquired
the doctor. ‘Seventy-five dollars,’ said the plumber. ‘What!’
answered the doctor. ‘My fee would be less than a quarter of
what you are asking.’ ‘So was mine when I was a doctor,’
laughed the plumber.
Perhaps, like me, you have heard that one before, but it
gives one cause for a little thought as to how things are
changing. Rich plumber. Poor doctor.

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MOUNTAIN GLORY

High up on the mountain

That's where I long to be.
Gazing far to the horizon.
That's where I long to be.

I long to commune with you, tree,

Just you and me together.
For companionship is beauty
Just you and me together.

A little blade of green, green grass

And a colorful mountain flower.
A ladybird who brings good luck
And a colorful mountain flower.

Selfish to wish such for myself?

My thoughts should be for others?
But I go to the things of Nature
To learn of those my brothers
 INTERLUDE
Have you ever noticed how time seems to fly on faster wings
and the fleeting years seem to be in a desperate hurry to reach
some place, having not a moment to wait for anyone?
Today it is Easter, Easter Sunday, in the year 1977 and, as
I remove the earlier pages of Tiger Lily from their resting
place I see that the last (or should it be the ‘first’) part had
been completed early in December of 1976. What happened to
the intervening days?—plenty of ill health in the family,
terminal illness in one case, business matters and ordinary
domestic affairs to be dealt with, as well as letters to answer.
It makes one feel as if one has been parted from someone or
something, so much has changed, even in the course of only
four months. But at last I can say, ‘Renewed greetings, Tiger
Lily, we will continue our story!’ This might be a suitable
moment to extend other greetings before going further, and
these sentiments are extended to friendly persons in many
countries, countries reaching right around our planet. I wish to
say to each of those who have written to me after reading my
first book, Pussywillow, that I appreciate your expressions of
satisfaction, and to tell you that your words of encouragement
have prompted me to continue writing. Especially am I grati-
fied to know that so many people have, through these pages,
experienced a greater understanding of their pets, thus form-
ing a more secure bond of companionship with them. One
person in particular wrote to say that she had always been
associated with dogs in her youth and knew little of cats. Her
present neighbor’s cat just ignored her if they should happen
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in a pleasant manner after she had read the Pussywillow
stories. Who says cats are dumb creatures!!! Most intelligent
persons have heard something of the history of the Cat People,
how they have been tortured, looked upon as the consorts of
witches—even in certain ages worshipped—but generally had
a hard time. Well if, as may be possible, they have had debts
to pay for past, real or imagined mistakes, ‘humanity’ has seen
to it that they have paid dearly and now they have redeemed
themselves; it is perhaps not generally known that now the
shoe is on the other foot—cats do so much to help humans
that it will take a long time to make up for the harm we have
caused them, and for the work they are presently doing for
humanity. At least I hope I can do my little bit of showing
those who are interested how simple and, yes, rewarding, it
can be if we devote a little more time to a greater understand-
ing of the needs of our ‘little sisters and brothers’ of the cat
world.
Like many others I always enjoy a break from the ordinary
work-a-day life, and this long Easter weekend provides just
that. It helps us to use other parts of our brain, to do different
things, to get out of the rut of the almost robot-like feeling as
one performs the day-to-day essentials but which need no
great intellect, if any at all.
In our case it gives us time to chat and relax for a few
moments, in contrast to rushing out to the post office, collect-
ing the mail and then spending an amazing amount of time
dealing with the letters, by which time half the day is over.
Don't get me wrong, for we of this household receive delight-
ful letters from charming people—I am not making a protest,
merely stating it is nice to have a change in order to get one's
mechanism recharged’.
There is one lady of my acquaintance who is unable to
function at all unless she sits down on a chair, closes her eyes
and completely relaxes herself at intervals. At other times she
will walk out into her garden, which is very private, and potter
around amongst the flower beds, thus achieving the same re-
sult. At the present time she is coping with life under great
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old, members of her family, neither of whom is likely to re-
cover. Fortunately she is now retired from her full-time busi-
ness life after many, many years of traveling to and from the
place where she was employed in an important position as a
statistician.
A few days ago we had the occasion to speak to each
other and she was telling me of some of the truths she had
come to realize in the past years. Many were things we had
discussed a long time ago, but it had taken more time to put
into practice what had previously only been theories in her
mind. With more time on her hands after her retirement, and
before becoming involved in the family sickness, which had
enveloped her in recent days, she felt that the more she in-
dulged in handwork, a hobby, manual work such as garden-
ing, anything to actually do, as opposed to reading or watch-
ing television, etc., she found herself becoming more ‘aware’
and ‘sensitive’ to things of the mind. I was very interested in
hearing all this especially having had the same experience my-
self. Sometimes I feel I am slow to learn and that there must
have been many gaps in my education regarding concepts
which should have been familiar to me earlier.
As far as sensitivity goes, I heard something interesting on
the radio the other day pertaining to earthquakes, a phe-
nomena which is very common in this present period. The
guest person was telling the interviewer that scientists can
predict the occurrence of an earthquake only within a period of
around six years; that is, they know there is going to be an
earthquake, but at what period within the six years they cannot
forecast. The guest went on to relate that it has been found the
best creature to observe, when you are involved with these
planetary upheavals, is the lowly cockroach, because by its
erratic behavior one can tell when such an event is in the
offing. This gentleman also made the observation that it would
be a wise move to take note of what psychics and other sen-
sitives have to say because they also are good indicators of
these things. My acquaintance who is involved with her sick
relatives tells me that sometimes she suffers from a most
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dollar that within three or four days the world will know that
another earthquake has occurred’. She mentioned that a few
weeks ago she was beset with problems concerning the sickness
surrounding her, together with the fact that she was going
down with an attack of influenza and, to top off everything,
she had suffered these horrible attacks which precede an earth
tremor and which actually did occur. There is no doubt that
she is sensitive to a degree.
To work with the hands—yes-that is something which can
help us progress and indeed, in some cases, save a person's
sanity. But there is a light side to it as with most things if you
have the make-up to see it. During the weekend, this Easter-
tide, we were viewing films from the National Film Board and
one of these films was depicting hippies and near-hippies.
Apparently this is causing quite a problem in a certain area of
Toronto, and there was arranged a meeting with the Mayor in
his office. The Mayor was trying to tell these ‘would be
changers of the world and its system’ that it was essential for
everybody to do something, to work, do a job, pay their way in
life. ‘There is happiness in working,’ said the Mayor, and of
course this sparked off quite a discussion. ‘Why, then, is
everyone trying to work for shorter hours,’ one youth wanted
to know. ‘Surely if work is happiness you are going to make a
lot of people unhappy.’ So, I thought, ‘Mr. Mayor, Your
Honor, you cannot win, and neither can the Establishment!’
Each segment of society believes themselves to be right and
there seems to be no point of contact, no communication be-
tween them, and so everybody feels lost. It is a satisfying
thought to know that before too long humanity will have
reached rock bottom, and then we shall approach another
Golden Age, with nowhere to go but up; even though some of
us will not live to see this it is a comforting thought to know
that future generations will benefit and (unless we destroy the
planet in the meantime) one will be proud, and not ashamed,
to belong to the human race.
Personally, this Eastertide has brought many memories and
I have much to be thankful for. Seven years ago, living in New
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seemed imminent. If my complete faith was to be in the
opinion of the medical profession I could expect my family life
to be broken up within three to six months, and the knowledge
made me very sad. What would I do with my two Siamese cats
who were little more than babies and in such a short time had
developed a deep affection and love for Lobsang Rampa (the
Guv) who had a like feeling for them?
Now seven years later, we are again engrossed in film view-
ing for recreation, just as we were in what now seems those
very far off days. The other day we viewed again that lovely
silhouette ‘short’ of Mr. Grasshopper and Miss Ant, produced
by that clever and imaginative German lady, Lotte Reiniger,
as mentioned in Pussywillow, and who had such a delightful
feature written about her in The Albertan of April 2lst,
accompanied by a charming photograph. It was particularly
interesting to see that this celebrated German animator lives
in New Barnet, North London, and that she was associated
with John Grierson of the British Broadcasting Corporation,
who later founded the National Film Board. Lotte Reiniger
apparently pioneered the invention of the silhouette picture
and made the first full-length animated film in the history of
the cinema. Now aged seventy-seven years this lady is obvi-
ously a great traveler and full of vivacity and verve. It is a
great experience to have made her acquaintance, if only
through the medium of a newspaper—so it seems our local
newspaper does at times print something interesting and edu-
cational. The Albertan please make a bow!
If it were not for the constant pain which is forever present
in our orbit I might well feel like the little cat who was so full,
and overflowing, with joy at being included in the painting of
the Buddha, that the planet was not big enough to sustain her,
and she went right off to the next world. So, if we did not have
a few sorrows and stresses we might all become too complacent
and never achieve our goal which we had set for ourselves.
Over this holiday period we have been discussing many
things and this I enjoyed because at other times, on the work-a-
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through letters, that I could not bring myself to add to the
‘chore’.
So the holiday progressed, but not without slight mishap.
After I had typed the first page of this ‘Interlude’ the great
outdoors beckoned, so I put away the machine and took my
Cat People for a drive lasting for around one hour. We have a
delightful driver who adores Cleo and Taddy, and I can
always feel safe if I have to leave them with him while I am
out of the car to make a call or pick up a few supplies. If he
sees anyone approaching, especially if the adults are accom-
panied by children (who are often rather meddlesome) you will
find he has locked all the doors and guards my people with a
fatherly care. Cleo and Taddy really do hold Keith in very
high regard and, since they are so used to him they can forget
he is there and devote all their mental and psychic energies to
serving the terrain, and the people who are sitting in parked
cars, or who are passing us (and commenting upon ‘those
lovely cats’), or doing what Cleo and Taddy like best, speed-
ing and passing other vehicles.
We had traveled only a very short distance when Mama
San felt a looseness in her eye-glasses and no sooner had she
commented upon the fact than the right lens fell out. Keith
was out of the car in a flash, opening the passenger door and
being full of concern. However, the missing piece was quickly
located inside the car and soon we were on our way once more,
Mama San feeling like a half-blind creature. It was too bad
because part of my mission was to call at the house of a lady of
my acquaintance who wanted to show me some art work upon
which she was engaged. She does all kinds of things, including
Macrame, and her two sons are professional artists, one free-
lance and the other an art teacher in Montreal. The lady's
husband finds interest in cartooning, so I was not able to fully
appreciate the things I was shown. Another of her hobbies is
the making of turbans and she had one half completed for me
and wanted to give me a fitting; in the end she had to decide
herself what was best for I did not trust too well my one-eyed
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 So after a pleasant interlude along the Elbow Drive we
wended our way home just as one of those English poets
wrote, ‘the lowing herd winds slowly o'er the lea’.
The afternoon of Easter Sunday was less pleasant, as the
third member of our family ended up in the emergency
department of the local hospital, spending over two hours of a
beautiful Sunday sitting there awaiting to have seven stitches
put in a finger. A little accident, perhaps, a dispute with a can
of food being opened, and the can won, so this was an Easter
to be remembered for many reasons. After waiting at home for
over two hours I telephoned the hospital to see what was hap-
pening, only to be told, ‘Oh, the stitching is being done now!’
It reminded me of the time in Montreal when I had a similar
experience and Taddy had enquired of the Guv, ‘Do you think
we will ever see Ma again?’

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If you continually imagine you
have an illness it is possible
to contract it through auto-
suggestion, and the reverse is
true. If you do have an illness
it is possible to get free of it
if you have sufficient confidence
in yourself!
 CHAPTER THIRTEEN
Our interlude over, it might be a good idea to return to the
main story of Tiger Lily before we completely lose the trend
because I rather enjoy living in, and writing about, the present.
This is understandable as I am so much more contented these
days, having the benefit of past experiences behind me and
which I can utilize to make, I hope, life a little pleasanter for
those other members of my family. You see, I used to suffer
from moodiness, and it caused Carl much distress to see me
apparently so dissatisfied. We were not without our misunder-
standings and often failed to see a situation in the same light;
of course this led to most difficult moments, resulting in much
unhappiness for Carl, who was an extremely sensitive person.
There was one nice aspect of it though, and that was that he
never harbored any sort of resentment—after a little while all
would be over and he would be as usual. Not so with the Ra'ab
who would ‘dwell’ on a subject, magnifying out of all pro-
portion the remarks which had been passed and acting like the
elephant ‘who never forgets’. Now that Ra'ab knows more
about such things she realizes the difference in the make-up of
each person, and understands that trying to control the ‘lion’
and the ‘bull’, especially when combined in the same person is
perhaps a big undertaking, both creatures being strong-willed
and given to remembering grievance, real or imagined.
Something which used to aggravate me was to be the object
of a practical joke, but now I see I was merely being childish.
I was too ‘stuffy’ . . . How would anyone like to be pushed out
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was something more to life than just enjoying yourself and
getting what you could out of it. I knew that if I tried to evade
the situation, avoid my responsibilities, something, even some-
one, somewhere, would be affected, and that my action, were I
to defect from the path I had taken, could become a major
problem and at least result in great personal loss. It gave me
great satisfaction, in our more placid moments when Carl
would say that his present life was the happiest he had ever
known, and that he found my companionship very satisfying.
In the early days of our acquaintance he used to tell me that
from the spiritual and mental angle alone he would have found
my outlook just as interesting whether I had been a man or a
woman! I interpreted that as being a delightful tribute to
another human being, and it was his custom to utter such
remarks at unexpected moments.
In the early days I used plenty of ‘make-up’ in the way of
beauty aids and this did not appeal to him at all. He used to
say, ‘Ra'ab, you know exactly the amount of make-up you
need to make you look attractive to the right degree!’ This
went on until finally I gave up altogether because that was
what he liked best. No doubt but that he had used a bit of
psychology there. Still, if you don't want to please your
husband, who else matters? It is said that women often dress
for each other, and often not to the other's advantage—they
try to vie with each other and one can only come to the con-
clusion that they are so lacking in self-confidence that each one
tries to out-do the other to make up for this feeling of inferior-
ity!!!
Before I knew Carl I had my picture taken, and I gave it to
him after we met; to my surprise I saw it hanging on the wall
of his apartment one day and he had altered it. ‘What hap-
pened to my earrings,’ I wanted to know. ‘Oh, I painted them
out,’ quoth he, I didn't like them!’ Carl could not bear arti-
ficiality in any form and I used to be reminded of the Pharaoh
Akhenaten, ‘the heretic’ as I have always had an overpowering
interest in Egyptology. This Pharaoh, who is described as
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way than in his natural state. While on the subject of Egypt I
am trying to think how I came to be known by the Egyptian
name of ‘Ra'ab’. It just seemed to happen and if anyone were
to use any other I would hardly realize they were addressing
me. Sometimes I think the word is diminutive of a longer
name but I am not bothered about that, having been called
many things in my lifetime, but Ra'ab is one of the nicest!
Still, names do mean something—one has heard of an actor
or actress who had no luck at all, made no headway until they
changed their name, and then the floodgates opened and sud-
denly they were acclaimed wherever they went. Some names
seem to bring ill-luck, misfortune and lack of progress while
others are harmonious and protective. I know a person who
changed just one letter in his name (he actually added a letter)
with the intention of bringing him better business results.
Well, while we lived in Weybridge the time came when we
changed our name and as this has all been described in As It
Was, one of Lobsang Rampa's most recent books, there is no
need for me to go into deep detail regarding the reasons and
decision for the change. This I do know, though, we had to put
up with a lot of unkindness and even sarcasm from the highest
position—a certain ‘gentleman’ in high authority finding it
amusing to compose a piece of doggerel in as cutting a manner
as he could muster and keep repeating it! Yes, we had a
share—and perhaps more than a share-of harshness directed
towards us, not least when Carl had the impression (or was he
instructed, but what's the difference!) to wear an Eastern type
of clothing and to grow a beard. I have very good reason to
believe that some of those persons who thought we were crazy,
are not feeling so well these days; some of them are this side of
the veil of life, the remainder on the other, where it is too late
to make amends, and all they can do is to wail at Lobsang
Rampa for their blindness. Some of those who were intended
to pave the way for him—‘in the future’, the future which has
been, is, and will be. Sometimes one feels a little sympathy
towards those who were told, even warned, about their purpose
in life but chose to ignore the message and are now bound to
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missed their opportunity they must wait for varied periods
until they can see their mistakes, and again tune in to the ‘life
cycle’ at some future date; meanwhile, they wallow in their
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I think that I will never see
A Billboard lovely as a Tree
And unless the billboard fall,
I'll never see a tree at all.
 CHAPTER FOURTEEN
It is very easy to become bitter, to feel disenchanted, and to
blame everything and everybody for one's woes instead of
taking a hard look at oneself and realizing that is where most,
if not all, of the trouble lies. Some people are inclined to
declare the whole system to be wrong, blaming the establish-
ment for their lack of success, or their parents for not guiding
them into the right paths, or the fact that there is no work to
be had (perhaps only work which is not sufficiently superior for
their imagined talents), thus so many hippie types decide to do
nothing at all.
The above is not an idle statement for, on looking back to
my youth I can still hear myself saying, anytime I might be in
trouble (trouble being as prevalent in family life as in any
other segment of humanity) ‘Well, I didn't ask to be born!’
It was some years later before I realized the foolishness of that
remark—for now I know that we all plan to be born, even
though the plan may have become somewhat altered from
what we had intended. The truth of this was brought to my
mind more vividly a few days ago as I re-read Lobsang
Rampa's book I Believe which devotes almost two-thirds of its
pages to that very subject. So the blush of ignorance should by
this time have faded, as gradually I have come to realize the
truth.
Perhaps now it is time to return to Weybridge and Tiger
Cat, he who brought happiness into our lives, and who is still
around in another form, and who will greet me happily when
the time comes for me to enter the land where he now dwells.
Mr. T. Catt was obviously quite excited and full of antici-

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pation when he was first allowed to wander around the three
and a half acres all on his own but his human ‘Mama’ was
quite apprehensive at first. I believe I touched on this in the
earlier pages of this book but some people do not seem to mind
a little repetition. Perhaps I am following the method of some-
one else, or one might use the excuse that as one becomes older
repetition is not an unusual occurrence.
So the Tiger spent the greater part of his life in the Wey-
bridge area, and when the time came that we were to leave, it
was a big wrench for him, which I did not realize fully at that
time. The first night after we left (and it was not even to a far
distant place) he just sat, neither ate any food nor visited the
bathroom until the next day. His ‘Ma’ was something of an
ignorant Ra'ab in those days and it was Carl who had the
understanding, but perhaps Ra'ab is gradually realizing that
these little people need more attention and consideration than
many of us are prepared to give. As I may have said before,
cats are extremely sensitive, and the so-called domestic feline
cannot bear to be laughed at—he will laugh with you (who-
ever heard of a cat laughing, someone will say) but please
refrain from laughing at him.
Siamese Cat People are probably even more sensitive, but
for some reason, I believe, they do not mind their Human
People teasing them a bit—it seems that what matters to them
is that their family (human and feline) should be happy. But
Siamese cannot bear to be left alone. The other day Mama
San was practicing a bit of time and motion study and our
present Cleo was sitting by the front door of the apartment
while Mama prepared breakfast, sitting dreaming, probably,
and tuned in to my thoughts. I decided I would prepare break-
fast in no more than seven minutes, partly because I wanted to
sit down at the table on the hour to listen to the seven o'clock
news, undisturbed. All went well, with about a minute and a
half to spare, so off I trotted along the corridor, to the far end,
feeling extremely pleased with myself, and gazing proudly at
the tray of food which I had prepared. Just as I reached the
doorway of the tiny suite leading to the bedroom where the
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went down, leaving me with empty hands. Soon a figure ap-
peared and another concerned voice called out: ‘Whatever
happened?’ and I said, ‘Sure, an' I don't know!’ while I
sensed cats literally flying to hide in their bedroom and for a
few seconds the world seemed to be collapsing around me.
Since that time I have learned that it is not possible to
maneuver a tray through a small doorway, while keeping
one’s elbows bent outwards—so that was my first and only
attempt at studying ‘time and motion’. As far as Cleo and her
sister Taddy were concerned, it just ‘made their day’ in retro-
spect, even if at the moment of happening it was a calamity,
nothing short of an earthquake.
On reflection I have come to realize that a cat can easily
become a very lonely person—although they can understand
humans by following the thoughts of humans, many, perhaps
most, humans are totally unaware of what message the cat is
trying to convey to the human. A few months ago, I read of a
so-called domestic cat, ‘the family pet’ as they are sometimes
referred to, who, in the wake of a fire in the house aroused the
occupants and saved them from a fiery death. Now if the cat
had been able to yell ‘Hey, the house is on fire,’ the alarm
would have been quicker and there would have been less panic.
The other day a young man wrote remarking, ‘I have always
looked upon cats as being dumb!’ ‘Poor young man,’ I
thought, ‘you are the one who is dumb!’
So we are still in Weybridge and we spent one of the coldest
winters ever in that environment, in the latish 1940s, when
everything was frozen up. An apartment situated over a
garage was not the warmest place at any time and I had a soda-
water siphon in a cupboard in the hallway which not only
froze but actually exploded. What a mess!
We were quite concerned about Mr. T. Catt, sitting on his
chair and looking quite miserable. He was sitting on a blanket
and I placed another over him hoping for the best; in those
days I was afraid that if I put a rubber hot water bottle near
him he might claw it and suffer harm from the hot water.
Things have changed now and I have no qualms about using
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such a luxury even when the temperature is around eighty de-
grees Fahrenheit and whatever it is in our ‘Celsius’. Siamese
cats seem to feel chilled more than other species, and I wonder
if it is partly because their fur is shorter than most. I would
warn those who contemplate heating their cat with a hot water
bottle to make sure the cork, the stopper, is screwed tight, so
do not prepare it absentmindedly as I have done once or twice
and soaked the soft fabric upholstered love seat of my present
people. Being of a striped material it is now a mottled mixture
of blues, greens, red and yellows, etc.
No doubt many readers may remember the great freeze-up
about 1947, for it was discussed at length in England!
Our stay in this particular district would soon be drawing to
a close but we were not yet aware of the change. Carl, as time
went on, often used to appear withdrawn, as though he had
things on his mind, which indeed he had. Sometimes I felt a
little lost and affected with a feeling of loneliness, although I
knew change was in the offing. Loneliness has always been one
of my big problems and I know that it was all within myself.
It has been only in the past few years that this attitude has
changed and these days I mostly feel exactly the opposite.
Perhaps the passing years have brought me to my senses—
though I would not like to put the question to my family since
you never know what they might come up with in the way of
an answer!
Carl was working very hard, his health had always been
poor (he was classed grade four as far as army ‘call up’ was
concerned), and that was one of the main reasons we took
accommodation near his place of employment. Like many
others of his day he received insults for not joining the ‘forces’
and remained shocked and silent when one day he received
anonymously, by mail, the white feather which we all know is
intended to indicate cowardice!!!
There was much work accumulating at the office and Carl
was writing articles and things of that nature, at the instigation
of his boss, all of which proved to be quite harassing, especi-
ally since he received neither praise nor recognition for his
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was able to do more than the others, and it was a really un-
happy time, the credit always going to the person for whom the
writing was done, and never to Carl.
Eventually we decided it was time for a change, and in a
way this was forced upon us, but I must make it clear that it
was OUR decision to terminate the association because we were
not unaware of the rumors which stated Carl had been
‘sacked’, ‘fired’ or whatever word one uses in each country.
The boss finally wanted me to do some work also, unpaid of
course, such as taking telephone calls and any odd jobs but the
Lion part of the Ra'ab had enough to do and was not willing
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Write without pay until somebody
offers pay; if nobody offers
within three years, sawing wood
is what you were intended for.

Mark Twain
 CHAPTER FIFTEEN
The place we were bound for was on the way to London, past
Walton-on-Thames and Esher, not very far from Kingston-on-
Thames, and Sorption which was slightly closer and smaller.
The nearest big place for shopping was Kingston-on-Thames
where the big department store of Bentall's was a great attrac-
tion. These days we are so used to the mammoth shopping
centers that a place such as Bentall's might almost go un-
noticed.
It was something of an upheaval for us as we had spent such
a long time at Weybridge but we were not sorry to be leaving.
Apart from Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth, then Princess,
passing through the edge of our town, and all the activities of
the war, very little remains in my mind. Our car had been sold
so we had to resort to a rental service, but we had very few
items to take with us, other than clothing but even that was
quite sparse. The greatest wrench was for the Tiger who was
now leaving the only home he had ever known, and he had
never left the place even for a night. He was obviously quite
upset and on the day of leaving I had to call on a neighbor
with a message and I was delayed because she wanted to chat.
On my return I found Tiger Cat had almost, if not quite,
suffered a seizure, and was most upset. Fortunately Carl was
with him and I am sure he managed the matter better than I
would have been able. It was going to be a real hardship to be
without a big garden, nice and clean surroundings, and have to
be shut up within two rooms, not even ‘communicating’ but
due to various circumstances there was no alternative.
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have us as tenants, even going to the extent of having a dis-
agreement with a previous tenant, thus making it possible for
us to have two rooms, since we had made it clear that we
would not contemplate only one. The time must have been
around August or perhaps September, it is one of the dates I
cannot exactly recall, which is unusual for me who has never
had much trouble in that direction. What I do remember is
how we used to sit in the small garden at the back of the house,
in the late summer evenings, and how we suffered from huge
mosquito bites, caused, no doubt, by huge mosquitoes.
It was not a happy time, by any stretch of the imagination,
everything was inconvenient and one felt out of place in that
area, which seemed to be off the beaten track. We had a com-
munal bathroom and fixed up a cooking stove in one of the
rooms, a quite illegal procedure now, I suppose, and the land-
lady was quite temperamental, one who thought she could rule
the’|boarders’. She spent a lot of her time in her room, and she
gave us to understand she was a sort of ‘Ann Landers’ who
dealt with queries from correspondents, for a fee, and judging
from her conversation she acted in the capacity of a kind of
fortune teller! At any rate she was a good source of income for
the mail office.
This lady was of a strong character, and to those who be-
lieve in reincarnation one might rightly come to the conclusion
that she (or he) had been of some importance in other lives—in
her present life she had been in close contact with a high-
personage in Asia, while acting as though she was still in that
environment. Her out-of-date clothes showed she had defin-
itely belonged to the upper class and, though quite elderly, she
had a young man companion! How I wish I could convey a
picture telepathically, clairvoyantly, or whatever, because I
doubt if I can conjure up the words to describe one episode.
We were still with Madame at Christmas time, and as is the
custom, most people enjoy the feeling of friendship for that
day at least. Something like going to church on Sundays and
being more or less enemies until next Sunday.
Well, our bedroom was right opposite that of Madame, and
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were retiring on Christmas Eve. The next thing we heard was
a terrible clattering noise as ‘something’ rolled down the stairs,
immediately followed out of the door by Madame, minus her
wig, who had emerged to see what on earth was happening. It
seemed she had wrapped up a can of cat food, or similar, as a
gift for Mr. T. Catt, then came out and left it at the head of
the stairway, where it had stayed a few seconds until she was
back in her room, and then began half rolling and half boun-
cing down the stairs. No, I do not think that is half so good a
description as if one could have actually viewed the whole
situation. However, it all ended happily, with all of us, and
Madame herself, highly amused!
It would be hard to decide whether the situation was worse
for Carl or for the Tiger, for many people know what it is like
to be without employment, and in England you were con-
sidered just about finished if you were not established by the
time you had reached the age of thirty. If you left your job on
your own, without being fired, you had no hope of obtaining
unemployment assistance. What a difference in that country
these days, when you can get all kinds of help without ever
having done a day's work, there is a welfare assistance and
student help. Is it a good thing though? Is it contributing to
developing a nation of softies? Carl spent many hours cycling
to East Molesley, to the unemployment office, hoping work of
some kind, any kind, would be available, but not receiving a
pleasant reception, although one man was an exception and he
behaved quite civilly and came to see us once or twice. You see
the jobs, if any were available at all, were given to men who
had been ‘fired’ from their previous employment, and not to
those who had left of their own accord, however the termina-
tion may have come about.
I knew Mr. Catt was terribly concerned because always (if
they are treated with even a fraction of consideration) cats
identify with their human family and he must have worried as
to how we were going to manage. It was fortunate that we had
some insurance policies which we were able to redeem, and
this we did, otherwise the situation would have been quite
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opportunity to save at all, but one little thing helped us some-
what. A few years previously I had a very strong impression to
‘take out’ insurance for myself, which I did. The premiums
were rather high so it was impossible to continue the payments
in our, then, situation, but the refund was most acceptable,
and in our frugal way we just kept going.
Small advertising commitments were occasionally available,
but this was merely a standby, and just kept us in the situation
that we had a few extra pounds for cases of emergency. There
was a little balcony outside our living room, but that was after
we left Madame, which was less than one week after the
Christmas good-will. Madame liked change, and we were
offered the upper ‘flat’ in a small house, which we were pleased
to accept. It was a furnished suite and was quite adequate for
us, with its one bedroom, plus living room and kitchen. T. Catt
sat for many hours, facing the south, on the balcony where he
could enjoy the afternoon sun and watch the birds and other
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A classic is something that
everybody wants to have read
and nobody wants to read.

From The Wisdom of Mark Twain

 CHAPTER SIX TEEN
Thames Ditton must have been a very important place in days
gone by, especially in the time of Queen Elizabeth the First.
One could just imagine the Queen sailing along in her barge,
right along the Thames to Hampton Court where, one under-
stands, she spent a great deal of time. At the present time, just
as at the time we were in the area, no doubt it is possible to
visit the actual suite she used, and gaze upon the bed wherein
she slept, or stayed awake. In England there is a famous
phrase which is used to attract tourists-‘Queen Elizabeth
slept here’—and it is used in information describing various
places. All of us seem to find satisfaction in viewing such
places of interest.
This brings to mind the story of the tourists (dare I com-
ment they might have been Americans, who seem to delight in
‘doing’ European places in a few hours). They had left Britain
and gone on to the continent, and were discussing various
historical places they had visited. ‘Did you see the Magna
Carta,’ someone asked. ‘No, we were too late, he had just left
before we arrived.’
My knowledge of history, is not so complete as I would like,
but if you can travel and visit places you can learn a lot more
than by just poring over a history book, and it was a satis-
factory feeling to visit the palace which was built for Cardinal
Wolsey by the great Henry the Eighth. I have been told that
my purpose in writing these pages is not to write a discourse
on Hampton Court or, indeed, to delve into historical matters,
but to write about my family, which of course in great part
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item of interest, and that is that a row of houses right opposite
‘The Court’ were designed by Sir Christopher Wren, a per-
sonality who has also interested me greatly.
So, being fairly obedient, sometimes, I will revert to my
particular story which perhaps I should emphasize is a true
one because it is my desire to put down words describing, to
the nearest point of accuracy, exactly what happened during
this period of our life. So many people have tried to brain-
wash the public into thinking Lobsang Rampa's works are no
more than fiction (although most people KNOW him to write
the truth) that I want to reiterate that, like his writings Tiger
Lily describes the events in which I actually took part.
Our little half-a-house was in many ways convenient be-
cause we could walk down to the river, enjoying the calmness
and thinking of what a tale the old Thames could tell if only
we could understand the words of the water.
The railway station was very near to us so it was a simple
procedure to go to Surbiton, our nearest small shopping center,
or to Wimbledon, or Kingston-on-Thames, and even London
itself was no great distance. Of course we did not travel around
much but Carl did most of it since he was trying very hard to
find some employment and he had to attend interviews and to
various small matters.
Mr.T. Catt stayed at home with me and we did things
together—I am sure Cat People are a good influence, and if
you treat them in the correct manner they will help you. As I
sat at the table engaged in studying handwriting I always had
the feeling that the Tiger was tuned in, just as two others are,
here with me now.
There was no real security between the two accommoda-
tions, a number of steps led to the upper part which was our
abode, but there was no means of privacy and we had to walk
out of the main door (the only door) which was shared by the
elderly tenants who lived on the ground floor. Of course no one
liked the arrangement but neither of us had an alternative so
we made the best of it. All through the years I have remem-
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been slightly deaf because he used to shout quite loudly, and I
believe his wife was always ‘bugging’ him about one thing or
another. She used to work, elderly as she was, and I think the
man must have been retired. Anyway, one morning as she was
leaving, after the usual quarrel no doubt, his voice must have
been heard up to high heaven as he called after her, ‘Seventy
years of age and still going to work.’ Personally, I thought he
should have been gratified for two reasons; a little more
financial help was forthcoming (unless she hid it), and in her
absence he might enjoy a measure of peace!!!!
Life certainly does have its brighter moments, and I am
sure Mr. Catt often must have thought, ‘Oh dear, those
humans, why do they not agree, if only to differ?’ As I may
have mentioned before, cats cannot stand friction, and that is
one reason why they suffer from nervous and physical ailments.
If there is too much friction and lack of care a cat will give
up, just lie down and die, or he may disappear altogether.
As I look back I see that a good part of my own life has
been spent seemingly in waiting—but waiting for what—and
even if at times it has appeared I am seeing ‘through a glass
darkly’ (Bible quotation), always at the back of my mind I
FELT there was something behind it all. Now I actually KNOW
that all the periods of seclusion, especially after meeting Carl,
and during the times following his departure from this planet,
were for a special reason.
Since I have mentioned a Bible quotation, and one has
always interested me greatly, I am going to digress for a
moment to tell of an experience of two days ago, when two
middle-aged to elderly men knocked on our apartment door. I
opened the door to these men and they asked me if I had a few
minutes to spare. ‘What for?’ I asked, being slightly suspicious
of strangers accosting one in our city these days, as the
affluence seems to be attracting too much crime. ‘Well,’ one of
them announced, ‘we are from the Bible Society and we would
like to have a chat with you.’ Politely I replied that, ‘No, I
don't think I wish to chat’ (I had rather a lot of things to do,
especially as it was early in the morning) ‘for you see we here
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recovered to exclaim, ‘How interesting!’ I took the time to
inform them of an experience which came my way within the
past few weeks; that of a young lady who had expressed a
desire to read my book, Pussywillow, and as I had a spare
copy I passed it on to her. A week or two later I received by
mail a mild ‘thank you’ note together with a Bible Society
book which she informed me was a TRUE story, but the letter
was written in a manner which suggested my story might only
be a fable. Like my husband I have a very strong feeling about
this missionary attitude, because we believe we can be saved
without belonging exclusively to the Christian church. When I
was quite young, I thought like so many others, that we should
get out into the world and bring everyone into the Christian
faith, either by choice or attempted force. Now I know better
and I am often reminded that the true Buddhist does not have
missionaries and they do not believe in attempting to change a
person s beliefs. People do not seem to realize that Buddhism
rather than being a religion, is merely a way of life, an effort to
treat others in the way that we wish to be treated ourselves.
And did not Christ live according to that law—so why do we
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If you don't know what you
are looking for how do you
know when you've found it?
 CHAPTER SEVENTEEN
It had been one of ‘those’ days when everything seemed to go
wrong. The weather—well, you know what Calgary weather is
like—cold, windy, with a great band of yellowish-greenish
haze on the skyline, all the smog from the cars, because here in
Calgary we seem to have more cars per capita than anywhere
else in North America, and cars roar by all day and all night.
By night the car drivers seem to go crazy.
Strange really, no foot patrols by the police around here. By
night the cars go on and on. They most times completely ignore
traffic lights, and there was one evening when I was looking
out, two cars raced along and the first car did stop at a traffic
light, the driver of the second car didn't stop—in time! There
was a tinny clank; there wasn't any real damage done, but the
second car driver leaped out of his car and the first car driver
leaped out of his car, and there they were in the middle of the
night punching at each other and screaming like maniacs. Both
appeared to be drunk. The lights went green, the lights went
red, the lights went green again, and still they fought. Then
the lights went red, the drivers, as if on some unseen signal,
dashed back and jumped into their cars, roared across the red
lights, stopped at the other side of the crossing, jumped out
again and started punching each other again. Well, that's how
things are.
But, it was one of those difficult days. People had been
coming to the door, the telephone man came, a delivery man
came, and then the manager of the apartment came, to say I
must not let any water down through the kitchen sink, because
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the pipes, and if we let through any water it would rush out
and probably bathe someone's face in dishwater.
Yes, one of those threatened days when it seemed as if all
energy had departed. I looked out of the window, and early
evening shades were coming down and the lights were going on
in the tall, tall buildings thirty or forty stories high. The great
new building outside and rather to the left which housed a big
oil company—that was ablaze with light. Further off to the
left the new airport which was a-building was being floodlit
while the lights were being tested. It made a very pretty glow
on the skyline and it blended well in an artistic sort of way
with some of the amber street lights or the greenish-blue street
lights. As I looked, I could see the winking traffic lights, and
then, coming in over the tall buildings, a great 747 jet with its
hundreds of people aboard. From our viewpoint, we always see
the port (left-hand) light on the wing; that is the red one, and
it is only when the wind changes and the plane is taking off
that we see the starboard green, but this plane was lit up like a
young city on wings and I could imagine the people putting
out their cigarettes, tightening up their seat-belts and wonder-
ing if Aunt Fanny or Uncle Whosit would be at the airport to
meet them.
But I was feeling tired. Miss Cleo was bumbling about,
walking in and out around my feet and generally making a
nuisance of herself, because she wanted to run down our cor-
ridor before settling down for the night. So, with a sigh of
resignation, I opened the door and let her out. We had to be
very, very careful because Miss Cleo is a very, very social
individual and she likes to sit by the three elevator doors so
that she can greet people coming out. There are other apart-
ments up here, of course, and Miss Cleo likes to act as an
official greeter—it is amusing really to see how many people
ignore her, do not even see her, but we have to keep a very
close watch because Miss Cleo has many times tried to enter
an elevator—she doesn't think of herself as a cat, she thinks of
herself as a human, because she and Tadalinka have been
treated as humans since birth, but at last she was tired of being
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held high and uttering little cries of pleasure that she was
coming home again after she had done her duty.
The Guv was away at the end of the apartment in his small,
small, bedroom, where all he can see of the world is through a
mirror, so everything he sees is backwards. He has a telescopic
stand and a mirror on it and the world goes by behind him,
and with a mirror of course left and right are transposed.
I was getting tired; I like to go to bed early, it gives one a
chance to think, gives one a chance to meditate and to ponder
on the problems of the day and to wonder about the next day.
The Guv had had his medication and was ready to settle
down. I put out the cats' supper. They are very insistent) that
they have a good supper put out every night. Then they come
and sniff to see what there is and then they go away until later.
They don't want to eat it then. They like to wait until it is
night, and all the lights are out.
My room also is small and on one wall I have one of those
picture panoramas. This time it is of a Hawaiian scene—a
beautiful white beach and blue, blue seas, and of course the
inevitable palm trees so absolutely real that one can, with just a
little imagination, see them as waving in the breeze, and I
have a Brazilian painting which matches the mural absolutely.
There is always so much to do before going to bed. Check
that the door is locked and that I have that prop in place
because there have been so many break-ins in Calgary that I
have a special steel prop—one end fits on the floor, and the
other, a forked end, fits under the doorknob so no one can
possibly get in. I put that in place, went around picking up
papers and things and stacking them away, and after that I
walked into my bedroom. It is a little room, as I said, and I
have a nice brass bed—brass rails at top and foot. Soon I was
tucked up in bed and then there came the sound of loud pur-
ring. Miss Tadalinka had settled down beside me purring
away, showing her joy that at last the day had ended and she
could ‘get her head down’ and go in for some entrancing catty
dreams.
Miss Cleo hadn't finished her work yet. She had to go along
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him, she came trotting up the corridor in our apartment and
rushed in beside me, but then—she saw fat Taddy just where
she wanted to be, so she gave a snort of disgust and went to
what is really their bed beside mine. Soon, she was curled up
and emitting a very pleasant light snore.
For a few moments I lay there listening to the radio and
reading a letter or two which had been answered during the
day, because the letters come in in great numbers. The Guv
answers them and then I go through them and check them for
what he call ‘literals’, that is, any spelling mistakes, any fault
in grammar or any mis-typing, but I was feeling sleepy—I
couldn't put up with any more work, so I stretched out my
right hand and turned off the light and snuggled down beside
Tadalinka. She gave a little grunt of pleasure as my hand
came down on her. Soon I felt myself getting heavier and
heavier and then—sleep.
I don't know how long I slept, but I awoke with a start. I
couldn't think what was wrong for the moment, but felt ‘some-
thing’ was wrong. It seemed as if someone was in the room
with me, someone besides Cleo and Taddy. Then I looked up
in the quite considerable light reflected from the streets and I
saw Miss Kuei sitting on the top of the bedrail at the foot of
my bed. Miss Kuei left us some time ago to go and live in the
astral, but she still gives us the benefit of her advice and very,
very frequently the benefit of her physical contact. There is no
such thing as death, you know. Some people call it ‘transition’
but it doesn't matter what one calls it. So-called ‘death’ is just
a matter of shedding one's earthly body just as one sheds one's
clothing before going to the land of sleep.
Miss Kuei was there sitting, smiling at me, then she said,
‘Ma, you know you are writing wrong things in this book, you
should be writing more about cats.’
I looked at her and thought a bit, and then I came to the
conclusion that without a doubt she was right because so many
people write in, asking the most amazing questions about cats.
How should one feed them? How should one lift them?
Should one brush them or comb them? And then, oh dear, oh
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be done with a cat who has constipation? People seem to be
unaware of the wants and basic requirements of cats.
Taddy snored deeply, Cleo sat up and looked on rather
approvingly, I thought, but then Miss Kuei spoke again, ‘You
can answer all these questions, you know Ma! You can make it
so much easier for us cats. People think we are strange
creatures who never want anything. Well, you know differ-
ently, don't you? I want you to write about cats—about how
cats can be made happier, because we have a special job, you
know. We are the Eyes of the Gardeners and what we report
determines what should be done for humans and for animals,
but then—‘ she smiled brightly, ‘aren't we all animals?
Humans are only another form of animal after all, aren't
they?’
I was in a bit of a quandary then, because after all I have
had many cats, many, many cats—different sorts of cats, cats
with all different temperaments, but all with different needs.
Miss Kuei broke in, ‘Oh no, Ma, oh no, you're wrong, you
know. They are not all different needs, all cats need the same
thing. They need certain basic treatment, certain basic medi-
cine, so why don't you write something about it?’
I turned around a bit in the bed and said, ‘Well, what do
you think about it, Cleo, how can we answer questions like
this, eh?’ Miss Kuei interrupted, ‘Oh yes you can, you know
you have had enough cats now to know what makes them tick,
to know what makes them sick!’ I shuddered at the thought of
writing things like that, because after all that was for a special-
ist, wasn't it, but then I replied, ‘Well, Miss Kuei, the best
thing I can do is to write out what I think and have a vet
correct it or add to it.’
Miss Kuei frowned deeply and said, ‘Ma, you mustn't say
you will call in a vet. A vet is an American soldier who has left
the army, what you really mean is that you will consult a
veterinary surgeon.’
Well, of course, she was right, so I decided that the very
next day I would telephone Dr. Peter Randall, an extremely
good veterinary surgeon who had looked after Cleo and Taddy
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Taddy growls and hisses and puts on ‘all the act’ of course, but
she never wants to jump at him. So I said to Miss Kuei, ‘All
right, Miss Kuei, in the morning I will get in touch with the
doctor of cats and ask him if he will read some pages for me
and tell me if I am a hundred per cent right in what I am
recommending people to do.’
Miss Kuei nodded wisely and said, ‘Well, you should write
about curing cats of constipation, write about curing cats of
diarrhea, write about the best way to feed them—so many
people think that cats drink milk only, but cats need water as
well, you know. So you write about all these things. Write
about how cats should have a varied diet, some vegetables as
well as meat. Cats aren't entirely carnivorous, you know—they
like vegetables as well, in fact it is necessary; and write how
to get grass-seed and grow grass in pots so there is always a
fresh pot of grass ready, because grass really does scour out a
cat's interior and dislodge hairballs, etc. You do that, Ma, and
you'll be doing a good, good job.’
Miss Kuei gave a friendly wink and stood up to her full
length and—disappeared, disappeared back into the astral
world where she had taken up residence since leaving the
earth.
I sighed deeply at the thought of getting my plans for the
second book offset and then, well I suppose I must have
dropped off to sleep, because when I awakened the early morn-
ing sunlight was streaming readily through the Calgary haze
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I care about
your happiness
just as you
care about mine.
I could not
be at peace
if you were not.

Kahlil Gibran
 CHAPTER EIGHTEEN
Soon breakfast was over; the Guv is a very, very small
eater indeed and his breakfast is usually supervised by Miss
Cleo who likes to sit on the end of the bed and watch, and then
when he has finished his breakfast Miss Cleo walks up and sits
on his chest! For some reason that we are quite unable to
determine, Cleo will not sit on his lap, but always on his chest,
sometimes so close that he can't turn his head. She sat there
and purred and purred and purred until in the end I had to go
out to collect the mail from the post office because we don't
want people coming to visit us. We have had too much trouble,
so we do not use our private address.
Just a short time ago we had a man and his wife come by air
from Peru. They thought that they were going to spend the
weekend with us. We had never heard of them, never had a
letter from them or anything, but on the same day that they left
Calgary we did have a letter asking the Guv to get in touch
with them saying that they had come all the way from Peru to
spend the weekend with us and take the benefit of the Guv's
advice. They also said that they had been in touch with the
police, been in touch with the post office, been in touch with
everyone they could think of, tried different hotels, different
motels, but they couldn't find the address, for which, as the
Guv said—‘May heaven be praised.’
It is a thoroughly annoying matter when people come to
Calgary and try to find us. They think they are going to be
welcomed like the prodigal son or daughter, or something, and
to achieve that end they make as much trouble as they can. We
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about a very, very urgent need—someone is dying, etc., etc.,
and then we'd get a policeman come trundling up, and stand
down in the lobby and announce ‘City Police!’ into the inter-
com. Well, of course, it soon gets one talked about. ‘Oh, why is
it that the Rampa’s are always having the police call on them. I
wonder what they've done now?’ It makes things really, really
bad.
It reminds me of the time when we lived at Habitat, Mon-
trial. The Guv had a wheel-chair which he was going to give
to an injured policeman. This policeman had been shot
through the spine by some robber, and we had a detective
come and look at the wheel-chair and pronounce it satis-
factory. Then we had a great big Sergeant of Police come to
arrange for its removal, and the next thing was that they had
a paddy-wagon come to pick up the wheel-chair. Well, the Guv
drove the wheel-chair down into the elevator and all along the
main street of Habitat and out to the police paddy-wagon. It
was really highly amusing—if one has THAT sense of humor
—to see heads appearing behind curtains and to see the
workers in the gardens hiding down behind bushes to see the
Guv taken off in a paddy-wagon, but it was an anti-climax
when the heavy wheel-chair was just lifted up into the paddy-
wagon, the doors closed and it drove off, and the Guv went
back to his apartment in another wheel-chair. So, we do not
welcome callers. We use a post box to discourage callers and it
should be clear to all that if we wanted callers we would
publish our address. Again, with telephone calls, we have had
some remarkable experiences.
One night, around midnight, we had two police call on us in
New Brunswick and there was a long palavar because the
police insisted that we call someone the other side of Montreal
and they wouldn't go away until we did. A woman there, who
refused to accept a collect call, wanted the Guv to phone her
husband and say he shouldn't have any sex with her—she
didn't like it!
But the days went by, as days will, just the ordinary sort of
thing—breakfast in the morning, piles and piles of letters, then
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entertainment time when they race about and jump on their
tree house, and soon the time came to go to bed again. The Guv
spends ninety-nine per cent of his time in bed looking at the
world backwards through a mirror. I went to my nice little
brass-balled bed and fell asleep, and it seems I was no sooner
asleep than I was being tapped on the shoulder. Drowsily,
and in none too good a mood, I opened one eye and there was
the lady Ku’ei again. ‘Come on, Ma,’ she said, ‘we haven't
finished our discussion—the one we started last night.’ So I
opened the other eye and waited for her to speak.
‘What are you going to do about all these cat ailments? I
have a cat friend here. She came to us quite a short time ago.
The people with whom she lived neglected her, hadn't got
time for her. She was just a cat, they thought, and—well they
went away for a vacation and they left this cat called Pansy
alone in a locked-up house. She starved to death because the
people stayed longer than they expected. What would you tell
people about that?’
Well, that is rather a sore point with us, because so many
people think that a cat is just an ornament to be shoved about
or to be left without any attention at all. You can leave fish for
a number of days without having food added, because if they
have a good aquarium they can live on the plants for quite a
time and they can live on minute organisms in the water, and
then again most people can get someone to come in and dish
out some food for fishes, but they never seem to bother about
cats. So I thought about it for a time, lying there on my back
with the moonlight streaming in and periodically an aeroplane
rushing by on its way to or from Calgary airport.
But people who have pets have a definite duty to their pets.
If they are not prepared to look after them, then they should
do without pets. Pets have rights just as children have rights.
They are living creatures. They are intelligent entities. So if
people are going away, they should board their pets with a
good veterinary surgeon or a trusted ‘cattery’. After all, these
places have runs, wired in, and cats and dogs can be boarded.
The owner has to pay, of course, but what does it matter—they
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pay to go to a theatre or a cinema. They'd pay to get them-
selves drunk. They'll pay for any entertainment, but when it
comes to paying something for a poor, harmless, defenseless
little animal who can't look after itself, well they take on the
mantle of the miser. They begrudge anything, they begrudge
food. Such people should be put in a cage themselves; they
should be put in prison for cruelty to animals.
If you are going away, then why not go and ask your
veterinary surgeon if he could take your pet for such and such
a time. If he cannot, then he can always recommend someone
who will. During that time your pet will be well looked after.
He or she will have plenty of company and will welcome you
with gratitude and joy when you return.
Why do you have a pet anyway? For an ornament? Well, if
it's an ornament, then surely you give that ornament some
elementary care. You look after it. You make sure it is clean.
You make sure it is put in a safe place and an ornament, no
matter how ornamental, is only an inanimate lump of material
which someone has pummeled or carved into shape. Animals
are one of the wonders of the world with senses far beyond
those possessed by humans. Could you, for instance, sniff
along a carpet and tell who'd walked that way three or four
days before? Cleo can, Taddy can—all our cats have been
able to. If you do not communicate with your cat, that is your
ignorance, your loss. Your cat knows what you are thinking—
if you think love, that cat will respond. If you think hate, you
will find the cat disappears.
And then there is the question of constipation. Not only
humans suffer from constipation, cats do also, but only
through the neglect of humans. They are given wrong food,
they are given scraps, anything that is not good enough for
humans is usually tossed out for the cat or the dog. Well, why?
If your pet is a loved member of the family, surely he or she is
entitled to the perfect rudimentary courtesy of being properly
fed.
There are many cat foods or dog foods on the market. Cat
food is suitable for cats, not for dogs. Dog food is suitable for
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cat food or the dog food, that alone is not sufficient—I wish I
could put that in print the size the newspapers use when they
have something super-sensational, but remember it again; cat
food or dog food alone is not sufficient. You need other things.
You need vegetables. You need a bit of meat, and you need
water. Many people have the peculiar idea that cats will drink
only milk. They have the idea that milk is the only drink for
cats—definitely, definitely it is not so, they must have water as
well .
Do you know what causes constipation? Inside the intes-
tines there are a lot of hairs called villi. These villi are tubes,
something like—let us say—hypodermic needles. They pro-
trude into the mass that is being propelled through the in-
testines. Now, in the small intestines the contents are liquid,
becoming semi-liquid as they approach the beginning of the
large intestines.
As this material reaches up into the ascending colon, it is
turning from a semi-liquid into what one might term as semi-
solid, because the villi are extracting all the nourishment from
the material and with the nourishment—water.
As the material—now becoming waste material—goes up
the ascending colon, it becomes harder, more of a paste and
then when it goes down into the descending colon towards the
rectum it is getting harder and harder, but still within the
range of the muscular effort necessary for its expulsion.
If an animal—or a human either for that matter—does not
have enough water in his make-up, then the waste material
becomes harder and harder, so that in the end impaction takes
place, and then the poor wretched animal or human has to
have an enema to provide water to soften the hardened mass
and make it so that the bowels can expel that mass.
An animal, or human, who is correctly fed and correctly
‘watered’ won't suffer from complaints such as this, because at
all times the waste material is sufficiently plastic that it can be
expelled. Sometimes, with a debilitated creature (human or
animal) the muscles of the intestines are too weak to initiate
peristalsis and so chronic constipation occurs. In that case, one
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and makes it wriggle, and as it wriggles with much vigor it
does cause a more or less expulsion of waste material. If one
has to have a laxative (which is an irritant), one should also
drink plenty of water to soften the impacted mass, and with
cats we have found that if we use some canned milk such as
Carnation, well, the cat will lap that up with gusto, and then
will go in leaps and bounds to get rid of a lot of waste. It really
does work, but here again you have to be careful because if you
give too much you get the opposite to constipation which is
diarrhea, and a cat rushing around exuding you-know-what
behind is not a pretty sight and it means a lot of work, so the
best thing is to treat your animals and yourself properly then
you won't get constipation.
Too much dried food causes constipation. Some raw meat
helps overcome constipation, but not too much raw meat, be-
cause if there is too much then the cat gets worms, so you have
to steer a course between not enough and not too much, and a
little practice will show you how.
But! Why am I telling all this? If you will consult your
veterinary surgeon, he will tell you the best way to treat your
cat. It will not cost much, you know, for an interview with
him, because we have found that the veterinary people are far,
far kinder than many doctors dealing with the human body.
The Guv says he wishes he could have a veterinary surgeon
deal with him—there would be a lot more sympathy, because
there is not much sympathy for people with terminal illnesses.
They are denied beds in hospitals and the doctors haven't time
to visit, and so it is just a long, long wait throughout long, long
days, and longer nights, waiting for the Great Lord to write
‘the end’ to life.
Cats are peculiar creatures, you know, they have a trait
which is not known to many people. They are something like
ducks just emerging from a shell. I know that if a duck
emerges from a shell, it treats the first person it sees as its
mother! Oh yes, it is perfectly true. Some highly amusing
experiments have been carried out in connection with that.
Well, there is something the same with cats; a cat gets a great
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some fish, it will have a craving for fish all its life. If you feed
it meat, it will have a craving for meat all its life, and cats
seem to be one-track individuals—they like to stick to one
thing. I suppose their taste buds get mixed up, or something,
but anyway most cats like to stick to one type of food and that
is wrong—they should have a balanced diet—a well-mixed
diet. Some of the cat foods are truly excellent for cats—some
are just the opposite, so the best thing is to try some different
types of cat food so that you can see which your pet likes best
and then use that as possibly a staple food and add other
things to it. Perhaps a bit of potato or a bit of cabbage or a bit
of lettuce and, of course, some meat or liver or fish, but above
all make sure that there is always a dish of water placed avail-
able for your cat.
Another thing—make sure that you have a plant pot or a
wooden box full of growing grass. It is such a simple, simple
little thing to do. You just get some potting soil and some
coarse grass-seed and plant the grass and that's all there is to
it. In about a week you've a nice plot of grass which your cat
can chew and chew and chew and be thoroughly sick after-
wards, but that is the purpose of the grass—to scour out the
stomach and remove accumulated hairball. Hairball in the in-
testine can cause bowel stoppage and death, so you may be
saving your cat's life if you make sure that there is always
fresh grass. It is so easy to plant one box of grass and when
that shows signs of growing, start another, so that when one
has been eaten up or faded, another is available.
Many people complain that cats tear up the furniture. They
don't, you know. Never, never, never, will a cat tear up furni-
ture if it has something of its own on which to exercise the
claw muscles. Our Cat People have what is known as a tree-
house. It is a long thing stretching from the floor to the ceiling
and it is held in position by a Johnny pole, which is one rod
sliding inside the other, the inner part being kept pushed out
by a strong spring. This carpet-covered tree-house has a num-
ber of platforms with a hole in each one. The cats swarm up,
dive through the holes and eventually reach the top where they
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 We also have a small scratch-pad which is just a good lump
of wood about twice the length of the cat, and is covered with
coarse carpet. The cat will throw herself on that and tear and
tear and tear, and I say to you very seriously indeed, our cats
do not tear up furniture nor furnishings, because they recog-
nize these things as their own property put there for their
convenience and they never abuse one's trust in them.
Another thing which is very, very important—if you are go-
ing to be away for a number of hours you should tell your cat
so. You should take that cat gently and look into the face and
say slowly and firmly that you are going to be away for a cer-
tain number of hours and then you will return. This was
brought to my attention quite forcibly some time ago; I had to
go out shopping and I said, ‘Well, cats, I am going out, shan't
be long, goodbye,’ and I went out. Unfortunately, I was de-
layed a matter of hours. You know what it is, I saw some
things. I went wistfully window-shopping and I saw a lot of
things which I couldn't afford and which I wished that I could
afford, so time went faster than I expected, and when I re-
turned home it was to hear that the two cats had gone almost
demented with worry. They had been like raging things for a
time, and then they had both gone to bed and turned their
faces to the wall, which is a step preparatory to dying.
Oh yes, a cat can die as easily as that. If a cat is parted from
a loved one and sees no hope of being reunited, the cat
may—and I am absolutely serious in this—turn its face to the
wall, and die. We have seen it happen, unfortunately.
A pet, whether cat or dog, is a thing of joy. A companion
who never lets one down. A companion one can always rely
upon, a good friend who knows how to express sympathy, who
can cheer one up and show that even though the whole world
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God grant me
SERENITY
to accept the things
I cannot change
COURAGE
to change the things
I can, and
WISDOM
to know the difference.
 CHAPTER NINETEEN
Cats, like people and automobiles, come in many different
shapes, sizes, colors and types. Cats have a leg at each corner,
just the same as the automobile has a wheel at each corner, and
most cats have a tail, although the Manx cat does not and it
definitely handicaps the poor creature when turning a corner
at a dead run.
First, there is the ordinary, good old phlegmatic house-
cat—most people call it the ordinary cat. Now, they have a
peculiarity in that they are attached to their home, to the house
in which they live, and when the family moves away, then very
frequently the ordinary house-cat says some four-letter words
and sets out on a travel back to his original home.
The ordinary house-cat has legs of approximately the same
length, but when you come to a Siamese cat that is a different
thing altogether. The Siamese cat has longer legs at the back
so when you see one for the first time you think the poor
creature is walking downhill, but the Siamese cat is highly in-
telligent, highly sensitive, and unlike the ordinary house-cat
the Siamese cat is attached to the family and not to the home,
and when the home is broken up so that the people move
away, the Siamese cat says the feline equivalent of ‘Phooey—
glad to get shot of that dump’ and off he goes happily with his
so-called owner to a new domain.
Burmese cats are much the same as Siamese cats and you
can say that they are the Rolls-Royce and the Cadillac of the
cat world, but they have to be treated gently. They are ex-
tremely sensitive and they demand love in large quantities. If
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to have only one Siamese cat—two cost no more to keep and
they are company for each other. If you have a Siamese cat
and you do not definitely love it, then you will find the cat
won't love you either, and most times he won't even stay with
you. One day, he will just walk out, and that's that. You won't
see him again. He will go somewhere where he is appreciated.
So, if you want a pet just to keep around the house, get the
ordinary home domesticated cat—they are accustomed to it.
They are stolid enough to live with it, but if you want a
definite living companion and you spend a lot of time at home,
get a Siamese cat or a Burmese, but then if you find you have
to go out a lot, then have two cats.
Some people have a difficulty in getting a second cat be-
cause of all the spats and hissing and groanings that go on, but
there is no problem really. You shut the resident Siamese in
(let us say) a bedroom and the newcomer cat in a room adjac-
ent to the bedroom and you wedge the door so that it is open
about an inch, then they can look at each other and unburden
their minds about each other and use all the swear words that
they know, but after a short time they will tolerate each other
and no harm will be done. But, of course, if you just bring in a
fresh cat and toss him down with your first cat, then you are
asking for trouble—they will never be friends. So; you have to
use feline psychology. You have to make a very great fuss of
the first cat and then you have to make a fuss of the second cat,
and when they have settled their differences and decided
which of them is going to be top cat, you will have a house of
peace. They will live together, they will look after each other
and there won't be any loneliness when you go out.
Many people ask about neutering cats. Well, it is a good
thing. With a female cat, for instance, if she is neutered she
becomes very, very much more affectionate, and it is not at all
the same as giving hysterectomy to a human, you know.
Hysterectomy in a human all too frequently causes a gross per-
sonality change. Not so with cats. Cats have a different meta-
bolic process, and all that happens is you take away the
yowling and the screeching and you make a very lovable, lov-
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called, she will make a horrible, incredible, unbelievable up-
roar every so often, and you just can't live with it, and if you
let her have kittens, well, soon you have got the whole neigh-
borhood swarming with Siamese cat kittens.
Tom cats should be neutered when they are young, because
Tom cats have a special gland which enables them to eject a
fluid on the furniture and around the walls, and the fluid says
in effect, ‘Hey, Queen, come quick—I can't wait any longer.’
So, again, if the Tom cat is neutered he becomes more placid
and then there is no odor.
While on the subject of odors, all cats should have their
sanitary tins with an inch or two of some special preparation
which absorbs liquid waste, and no matter what the advertise-
ments say, you should tip out the contents (down the toilet
bowl) every time the cat has used it, because otherwise if the
odor gets too strong, the cat cannot be blamed in any way at
all for using a dark comer or going under the bed or some-
where like that. Wouldn't you do the same? Do you like to use
a toilet which is plugged up and which has evidence of having
been used by others before you? Of course you don't—well,
why not show your cat the same sanitary courtesy that you
would show to others or to yourself.
The Guv sometimes gets accused of repetition but then
inevitably, after he's had a letter accusing him of repetition, he
gets another letter from a person praising the repetition and
saying that the second, or third, repeat performance has made
the matter absolutely clear, so if there is repetition in this,
well, it is for the good of the education on the treatment of Cat
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When someone cares
It is easier to speak
it is easier to listen
it is easier to play
it is easier to work.

When someone cares

it is easier to laugh.

Susan Polis Schutz

 CHAPTER TWENTY
I received a letter with some questions which may be of
universal interest. One question is about cats and karma. Well,
cats have a different sort of karma from humans, because they
are exempt from many of the karmic influences through being
‘the eyes of the Gods’. That is, a cat is an entirely strange
creature placed down on this earth to report on things, to act
as—let us say—remote television cameras, so that the Gar-
deners of the Earth know what's going on, and sometimes they
have to do a thing which normally would incur karma, but in
this particular instance the karma is annulled because they are
working for the Gods.
Another matter which seems to puzzle people immensely is
reincarnation. Now, humans never become animals—but of
course humans are animals, aren't they, but let's call them
humans instead—and animals never become humans. People
have the idea that humans are the Gods on earth, whereas
animals are just creatures there to be kicked around as the
humans feel like doing. That is completely wrong—humans
and animals can be of equal value in the higher community
beyond the earth, and in some conditions an animal may be
much more valuable to the Gardeners of the Earth than a
human; it depends on the circumstances, but never think that
an animal is going to be ‘elevated’ to human status. The
animal might think that would be a down-grading instead.
. Humans commit a grave, grave crime against the whole of
nature when they use animals for vivisection or experiments.
After all, how absolutely absurd it is for a pharmaceutical
representative to say that his product is worth so many mouse-
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ment, then let it be on themselves.
The Guv has a comment about this. He says, ‘Why not have
hippies and women's libbers as test animals—after all, they
just sit about on their backsides and don't do anything except
tell other people what is wrong with the world. They don't do
anything to put the world right. Let them be vivisection sub-
jects, as well—I wish I could be there to do it to some of
them.’
We see many animals run over, and we had a case here in
Calgary very, very recently. It happened one evening. A
dog—a guide-dog for a blind person—was sitting near a fence
on a broad sidewalk. He was waiting for his master, but then a
young hoodlum came along in a beat-up old car, and with a
look of fiendish delight he drove straight at the dog, mounted
the curb and ran over the dog, crushing its ribs and everything
else, and sped on. The police tried to catch the car, but it was
a stolen one and so the fellow got away. There have been many
instances here—hoodlums have gone to the zoo and have shot
defenseless animals with bow and arrow. Well, that wasn't the
animals' karma but believe me it has added to the humans'
karma!
Now, this letter which I have been looking at, asks about
Lobsang Rampa and animals, so I state, ‘Yes, very, very
definitely the Guv can communicate with animals on this earth
and off this earth.’ For instance, he has three particular cat
friends who live in the astral and who stay in the astral so they
may help the Guv when he needs it. One is called Sindhi,
another is called Jasmine, and the third is called Phyllis, and
the Guv learns a great number of things from those three.
In addition, he does converse at great, and sometimes tedi-
ous, length with Miss Cleo Rampa and Miss Tadalinka
Rampa. In fact, I often see Cleo scuttling away into his bed-
room to jump on his chest, and there she will sit and talk to
him. Another question which I have been asked is about when
animals are killed by other animals. For instance, a cat catches
a mouse or a bird. Well, doesn't the bird or the mouse suffer
agonies of terror, etc., first? The answer is—no, because there
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and non-animal, in that when the time of death approaches the
animal is unaware of it. The animal is not paralyzed with fear
but is tranquil at being released from the hardships, the suffer-
ing and the bitterness of this life.
Of course this does not apply in cases of humans who are
just murdering animals, because so often a human will shoot
an animal not immediately fatally, and so the poor wretched
animal, with perhaps a broken leg or a bleeding artery, will
wander off to seek shelter, left to starve and suffer until finally
death takes over; the animal can then receive the tenderness
and mercy which seemed not to exist amongst humans of such
a low vibration that they seem to lack feeling for any creature
apart from themselves.
The pain, which is caused by the callousness of the human,
well, that debt is rightly added to the human's karma, and at
some time, in this life, or when he returns to earth again, he
will have to endure a like agony which he caused the suffering
animal.
We do not get this problem when an animal is killed
humanely in a slaughter-house, because death is almost in-
stantaneous. It takes two minutes for the animal to actually
die. I mention this angle because someone is sure to say, ‘Oh,
that female has an obsession about hunting,’ and I would say
there is all the difference in the world between humanely send-
ing an animal off this world because food is needed, the animal
being treated in a humane manner, and the wholesale slaughter
of birds and animals just to pander to man's sporting in-
stinct—. Those fox hunts which through the ages have been
prevalent in England, especially indulged in by the so-called
‘upper class’, who one would expect through their education
and opportunities to know better, are to me the work of the
devil. How would any one of us feel if we were suddenly
turned loose, and a pack of dogs set after us???? If I had a
grouch at all against any member of the British Royal Family
it would be in this direction—their responsibility is so great
and their example so important that they have to consider
these things before indulging in their own preference for what-
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 Many people are not at all sure when actual death has
occurred, as opposed to apparent death, when one could be
merely in a state of shock or suffering from catalepsy, or in a
deep coma. Only a true clairvoyant such as the Guv would be
able to answer that and he says, ‘Death occurs when the silver
cord is severed.’ He goes on to say, ‘When the silver cord is
severed the parting of the body and the soul is inevitable and
irreversible.’
The majority of us ordinary humans are unable to see this
phenomenon, we are blind to the vision of this parting of body
and soul, therefore we have to rely on other means before we
are able to make a judgment as to whether life has indeed
become extinct. We try to evaluate whether there is a pulse to be
felt, and whether there is any eye reaction on lifting the eye-
lids. Personally I have known a mirror to be placed before the
mouth, to test whether the patient still lives—if the mirror
becomes moist then there is always a chance the person will
recover. The cataleptic state can be difficult to diagnose, as I
know from experience. But, while we are alive, all of us
animals, human and those others, by which I mean creatures of
nature, let us really live and do all we can to make each other
happy and contented. With regard to pets, cats specifically,
and no doubt doggies too, the Guv always insists they should
always have their toys on hand. It might be only a woolly
mouse stuffed with catnip, or catmint as some call it, but when
you move to a different location you should take your pet's
familiar things along too, take them WITH you as personal
belongings because you may have to wait some time before
your main goods arrive. Take a scratching post or a complete
tree-house, the blanket which your pet has been using, and any
other toy you can think of so that your pet will not feel
strange. Cats are very sensitive, and to suddenly get dumped
into fresh surroundings, with all the strange odors, can be
most discomforting to say the least and can even result in sheer
agony, and I can testify to this from experience.
Use the same water bowl which your cats have always used
in your past home so that your ‘pet’ will have no real sense of
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When you are cured of a disease
does it matter what the disease
was?
 CHAPTER TWENTY-ONE

Now, you cat people, we have given you a hearing so we must

return to the Tiger Lily and my then family activities.
It was rather fortunate that we did not have a television in
those days because I am sure that we were happier with radio
which, after all these years, is still my own main form of enter-
tainment, contributing to relaxation, especially at the end of a
strenuous day, and even during the odd moments of a daytime
siesta period.
Two weekly programs of those Thames Ditton days have
remained in my mind, and both of them were interesting,
while one especially was of great interest to Carl. Fred Hoyle,
the scientist, now Sir Fred Hoyle, used to broadcast on the
subject of astronomy and, although I knew very little about it,
I was anxious to learn; I found it extremely fascinating but of
course Carl was more intellectually progressive than I, con-
sequently he was able to follow the radio discussion with a
greater comprehension. Even though some of the material was
somewhat beyond me I liked to stay while Carl had the radio
turned on, even if only for the companionship I provided for
him, since that was the one thing he had, to a great extent,
lacked in his earlier life.
One thing which did ‘get on my nerves’ was when Carl
would take an old radio to pieces to study its mechanism and
to repair the instrument if possible, if it was not beyond repair.
You see, when someone is messing about with a radio they
have to twiddle those knobs, trying one station and then an-
other, and to another person it can be rather nerve-wracking,
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gram, and then suddenly it is tuned to another station. No
doubt I was hypersensitive, as I understand I still am but to a
lesser degree, but I vividly remember one day when I could
have screeched my head off while Carl was busy with one of
these sessions; I was so wanting, and needing, a moment of
peace that I took off to the village store on the pretence of
needing some supplies, and the walk calmed my nerves, so
afterwards everything was fine.
This might be an opportune moment to confess that I
understand I have not been an easy person to live with and I
would like to put this on record myself. No doubt, in the days
to come, when much will be written about Carl and about T.
Lobsang Rampa, probably some of it true, and some perhaps
the figment of the same writer's too vivid imagination, it is
possible ‘the woman in the story’, that woman being myself
may warrant a word or two. It is partly for this reason that I
thought it might be a good idea to write down an assessment of
Mama San Ra'ab, by Mama San herself.
It is true that I am as contented as it is possible to be on this
earth, but that does not mean to say that I am an easy person
to live with. Within myself I am utterly contented but ex-
traneous influences tend to ‘put me off’. When life passes by
on an even keel then I function best, and the set-up of our
present household is such that we are not able to have visitors
at all, chiefly due to sickness, but this arrangement is ex-
tremely satisfactory to me, even though it makes for resent-
ment on the part of some people, who appear to be lacking in
understanding. I would like to pay tribute to one person in
particular who is an exception in this respect, and this is Mrs.
Gertrud Heals, one of my friends. Mrs. Heals is involved in
the ‘book business’ including an art gallery, and picture-
framing responsibilities, as well as book-keeping for the busi-
ness. She performs many little acts which are beyond her line
of duty and, at times, it is necessary to come to our apartment
on one mission or another, but she never attempts to take
advantage of the situation, and never stays too long. Although
she is a great admirer of Dr. Rampa she never requests a
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 Unlike some people who, if on one occasion the Guv may
have signed a letter in a slightly more friendly way, and
another time it slips through the pile receiving his normal
signature, are likely to administer a reprimand, ‘All right, if
that is the way you want it, it's okay by me, I'll revert to the
former, more formal way of addressing YOU’ On occasion
people can appear quite insensitive and unforgiving. Another
understanding person in the book world is Mrs. Carmen
Moore whom we hold in very high regard. I salute you,
Carmen Moore.
How often has Lobsang Rampa, in his eighteen books,
attempted to explain that if you want to progress spiritually,
become more aware, etc., you cannot make much headway by
flitting about too much, collecting friends and associates just
as you might collect moths and butterflies. Even the Bible of
the society to which most people of the western world belong,
admonishes us to ‘BE STILL’ and know that I am God, which
means, ‘Be still and get to know yourself.’ So I do not feel it to
be too wrong to lead a quiet life, and I feel I am fortunate not
to be so sensitive as is the Guv, who is greatly affected by
inharmonious vibrations. Of course harmony affects him too,
and would that harmony was available in greater abund-
ance
To return once more to Thames Ditton, to my husband and
my Tiger. Carl had an even more difficult time than I, for a
great change was in store for him, even more than for me, but
I was restless at the thought of what was in store for us. As I
view the past scene now, having the extra insight which I did
not then have, I can see how interesting it must have been for
Mr. T. Catt who, like all cats, lives on two planes all the time.
Later on I was told by the Guv that the Tiger would have said
to himself, ‘There's Ma, living 'midst all these interesting
happenings and she cannot see any further than the physical.’
‘Well, if I were a cat, perhaps I would see a little further than
the physical and etheric,’ I thought. So Carl would go wander-
ing off by himself, amongst the trees which were there in
abundance at Thames Ditton, and I supposed he would receive
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In retrospect, I see that even though he had agreed to re-
linquish his body for a greater cause, he must at times have
experienced a feeling of bewilderment about the whole pro-
cess.
Then we would have a nice quiet time on Sundays, and that
was the day we heard the other radio broadcast which inter-
ested and amused us, the talks by Professor Joad, from the
British Broadcasting Company, as was the program by
Fred Hoyle who, incidentally, has a helper, a colleague, these
days, in the form of his son.
Since we all enjoy something entertaining I have always
remembered the statement uttered by the Professor, whose
outlook and family were of the Victorian era. Professor Joad
told us he had never seen his mother's legs; if he had ever
glimpsed her ankles it was accidental, and that when he was
young even the table and chairs, and the piano, were covered
over with cloth so they could not be seen naked. ‘Could that be
true,’ I wondered, and if the Professor could take a look down
here now surely he would be shocked beyond words. He never
would have been able to survive if he had glimpsed the mini-
skirted era—
I do not propose to describe the actual take-over by Lob-
sang Rampa because he has written of it in his book, As It
Was, and I am sure most of the readers of this Tiger Lily of
mine will, if they have not read it, have heard of As It Was, so
if you wish to know more about this event the book is very
much in print all the time, therefore I would recommend that
you purchase it, and then you will know first-hand the whole
story, or most of it.

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What made us friends in the long ago
When first we met?
Well, I think I know;
The best in me and the best in you
Hailed each other because they knew
That always and always since life began
Our being friends was part of God's plan.

George Webster Douglas

 CHAPTER TWENTY-TWO

After the change-over it was a strange feeling for each of us,

for some time—and it must have been much worse for the
Guv; we took occasional outings which I enjoyed and some-
times we went into a restaurant to have a meal, after exploring
some of the local countryside. He seemed to adapt very
quickly to the new and strange life, and for this I was grateful.
One memorable day we went to Mortlake, a place which is
known all over the world, even if by name only, since it is
where the Oxford-Cambridge boat race takes place each year.
It was just after the ‘take-over’ by Lobsang Rampa and as far
as I was concerned there was an unusual, apparently inexplic-
able atmosphere surrounding us, as we dawdled on the bridge
at Mortlake. We had left Mr. Catt to guard the apartment and
I believe he spent most of the time in his basket on the ver-
andah, because by the time we returned he was sleeping con-
tentedly. Yes, at Mortlake we walked across Chiswick bridge
and we were rather quiet, the Guv obviously deep in thought.
He must have been viewing many scenes of the past and he
commented upon some of his observations. One of the things
he discussed with me was that of the period of about three or
four hundred years earlier, the time of Queen Elizabeth the
First. He mentioned Dr. John Dee, the alchemist, who acted
in the capacity of Astrologer to the Queen, and whose home
had been at Mortlake where he had a family. Dr. Dee had led
a varied life, sometimes in favor, at other times out of favor
with the Court, never a rich man, and often in very poor
circumstances and, towards the end of his life, the Queen
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some kind. Dr. Dee was a very outspoken person and some-
what erratic at times. All this the Guv talked about, and he
mentioned Sir Christopher Wren, Cardinal Wolsey, William
Shakespeare and others of that period. The name of Shakes-
peare brings to mind the process of transmigration, and I have
sometimes wondered, amidst all the controversy about who
wrote the works attributed to Shakespeare, whether this was
such a case, which is more common than most of us realize.
Personally I would believe this explanation before I would
accept the suggestion that someone such as Sir Francis Bacon
had a hand in the writings!! My supposition seems feasible.
Most of the afternoon's conversation was continued, and
enlarged upon, after we returned home, for I was fascinated
while listening to things I was told by the Guv. I will always
be grateful to him for the patience he has shown, and the time
he has devoted, in the interest of increasing my education.
Something which is sure to interest those who read these
pages is how the Guv managed in his new environment, and I
soon began to notice that he acted more normally than had his
predecessor. Even the voice was quite different, the Guv
speaking in a deeper tone—a sort of baritone, while Carl had
the voice of a tenor. Neither of them professed to have a super
singing voice, a regret which I share, since I am no singer
either. The Guv has always been more adaptable as far as
mixing with people was concerned, having a very easy manner
and not so averse to meeting people as was Carl, who was very
reserved. Until the Guv became so very sick he helped many
people through personal contact, but now he has reached the
stage where visitors, for any reason at all, are never con-
templated or allowed. I have on occasion wondered whether it
would have been better if Carl had adopted a rather more firm
attitude towards me, because I was headstrong and needed a
partner who could be quite firm, and able to deal with a strong
willed person such as I was. Fortunately that situation seems
to have been remedied now and Mama San finds satisfaction
in having guidance from one who is the stronger—so that her
life is more disciplined than of yore. Yes! Discipline is good
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 I KNOW there are many, many, instances of transmigration,
but it is looked upon by some religions, not the least by our
Christian faith, as something quite strange, even unacceptable;
this attitude has only come about because the original bible
teaching of Christ has been so altered at the Convention of
Constantinople (in the year A.D. 60) which gave the priests
more power if the knowledge of transmigration could be sup-
pressed. Being one of the victims of this watered down teach-
ing resulted in more difficulties for me at first, but I have since
realized that it is anything but a rare occurrence. I have known
of a person who was involved in an accident and who suffered
head injuries, resulting in a state of concussion, with tempor-
ary loss of memory, while following recovery from the acci-
dent the person seemed to act differently, to have different
views, different likes and dislikes, which was noticed by those
who had known him previously. Not impossible that another
entity, another spirit, had ‘taken over’ while the person was
disorientated through shock, but this does not mean that the
whole procedure had not been prearranged, since the time may
have arrived when the first individual had reached the end of
his life span. Who is to know, except those ‘in the know’
whether a being from another planet could use this procedure
known as ‘transmigration’ to gain experience, and to study
humanity and life on our planet earth? This concept is worth a
thought, for anything one can imagine is possible, and we
earthlings are far behind in these matters, partly because our
governments will not release vital information; they seem
afraid to create panic amongst the public who are probably
not half so scared as the governments seem to think. Perhaps
the governments are scared of losing their own power, scared
of being taken over or having to compete with more advanced
beings.
The subject is one upon which I do not feel qualified to
enlarge, besides, this is not the purpose of the Tiger Lily
book. Someone sent me a cartoon the other day, and I believe
he was applying it to his own situation, jokingly of course. I
will pass it on as it is a feeling, an attitude, with which many
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Caption Says, ‘I WOULD VERY MUCH LIKE TO KNOW
AT LEAST A LITTLE ABOUT THE UNKNOWABLE,’
but my correspondent added his own comments underneath,
where he had written: ‘Me—looking in the wrong direction.’
He often sends amusing quotes but, in the main, let me hasten
to state that we get inundated with newspaper clippings. But John's
are short and to the point as are those of our mutual friend in England,
Eric Tetley, who has the great aptitude of causing real amusement
with his letters. This does much to lighten the cares of the day,
so Mr. Tetley, thank you, you are appreciated!!
After a time the Guv and I had a talk about things in
general, and about our own situation and the future. The Guv
decided we could not contemplate just staying on in our
present location which to us, in many ways, was something of
a backwater, but it had been a useful refuge while underlying
changes were going on in preparation for the future which
Lobsang Rampa had in mind. The offices of The Milk
Marketing Board, an important part of Thames Ditton, was of
no interest to us, and most of the residents apparently having
settled into a comfortable rut, this was obviously not the right
kind of situation at all. Many people were retired, others
commuted to the city and other places each day, so it was more
or less a haven for weekend living and, being situated right on
the River Thames, it was ideal for a life of ease and recreation.
I met one very charming Jewish family, the father and
mother and a new baby, and it came about that I was in-
strumental in giving the wife some little assistance with her
many duties, for which she showed her appreciation in the way
these people do, they are most generous if you ‘hit it off’ with
them!! I felt rather honored when, many years ago, I had
some dealings (not wheeling and dealing which is a favorite
expression of one of our friends of the present) with a Jewish
person and, in the course of the conversation the question was
put to me, ‘Are you one of us?’ My rather dark complexion
and then almost black hair and hazel eyes, caused many people
to speculate upon my ancestry. I have done some speculating
myself!
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 After some months we were getting to know each other
better, the Guv and I, and I found he was of a much more firm
and definite type than had been his predecessor, a description
which we use in discussing Carl of the P.R. (pre Rampa) days.
The Guv has a more definite purpose in life, and he had no
time to lose. He was able to deal more adequately with my
occasional fits of moodiness, and through these experiences I
have found his method to be successful. Even though he may
be feeling great compassion for someone in ‘mind distress’ he
may not always show it, rather he may seem somewhat harsh,
in the opinion of the victim at any rate. Now I know that what
he says, and how he deals with problems, is the right way,
especially when he expresses the opinion that what should be
done with many of today's youth is to put them to work, any
work, so they will not have time or energy left to continually
grouse about their situation and the Establishment. I will be
forever grateful that through this association I have learned
how to cope with many of life's problems, and to be equable in
temperament, thus passing on a little in the way of a helping
hand to someone who may not have been so fortunate. Oh, yes,
I still feel annoyance, but I do not allow the small annoyances
to ‘get me down’—it is better to laugh it off because that way
you do not get so many lines on your face, thus saving on
cosmetics, which really do not hide a thing, especially if you
have a naturally unhappy and miserable outlook. The other
day I commented to the Guv, ‘I wonder why I feel so con-
tented. Each part of the day is pleasurable, going to bed is
wonderful when I can visit all those cats and humans who
mean something special to me, on the earth and off the earth,
and arising at six in the morning is no effort, while all the
various events which each day brings are interesting and spell
for me “learning”, which is my keynote. How come,’ I said,
‘that it is like this?’
The Guv barely hesitated before answering me, ‘Well,
Ra'ab, I will tell you, the reason is that you know where you
are going, and that is all there is to it—!’ Well, there is a
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with a further comment, ‘You know Ra'ab, you ARE a tough
nut to live with.’
So, in due course we moved to a larger, busier locality, still
in the South West, in a suburb of London, where we had
found a small furnished ‘flat’ which had a small garden, with
an old apple tree by the back door, where the Tiger used to sit
for hours on a sturdy branch which was at a wonderful angle,
straight out from the main trunk of the apple tree, which
would be at about ninety degrees. Mr. Catt took some time to
adjust to another change since he was past middle age, and we
had to keep him indoors for some days until he had become
re-orientated, which really was absolutely hell for him, especi-
ally as it was necessary for me to go out occasionally, and leave
him alone, while I was shopping or engaged in other business
matters, while the Guv had to be out very often, so Tiger was
sometimes quite on his own and being older he suffered far
more than I realized at that time. It has been one of my great
regrets that through my thoughtlessness he suffered loneliness,
a loneliness which often might have been avoided-and after
he left us permanently my remorse was very real and for a
time I was overcome by it; being sustained only by the Guv's
almost unbelievably understanding attitude.
The Tiger was with us for about a year in his latest home
and sometimes the Guv placed him on the front of his bicycle,
taking him for a ride around the streets. This they both
enjoyed, especially if it were in the evenings, and dark—a
time when a cat can see more clearly.
Towards the end of his life he rested a good deal—and often
wandered into the garden to talk with Mr. Tree. It was New
Year's Eve when he contracted pneumonia and I lay on the
floor all night with him (in the living room) as his condition
deteriorated. When he finally departed the room was flooded
with a bright light due no doubt to the presence of discarnate
entities who had come to escort him home. I know I will be
seeing him again when my time approaches to take my leave.
Soon after he left us I had a ‘dream’—a dream so-called.
There seemed to be a sort of flame burning—something I did
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Guv told me it was exactly that—the pure spirit of my Tiger
which I had seen because my vibrations had been temporarily
heightened. Often have I thought about it and I would have
had other experiences had I not been so overcome with my
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Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams

For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.

Langston Hughes
 CHAPTER TWENTY-THREE

As this little book is now quickly approaching the permitted

number of pages, it seems a good idea to make a few com-
ments with regard to a subject which seems to occupy the
thoughts of a great many readers. A large number of people
have written requesting more comments because the ‘subject is
not generally discussed these days’. Just this morning a letter
was put into my hands, and when I read it I decided it was not
accidental—it was just a reminder of what so many others had
written to me in the past weeks and months. Since the writer
of the letter is quite well known to me it might not be amiss to
quote the relevant paragraph—‘it would be an excellent idea
to write more about death because it is something which
effects each one of us, and it will help to break down the bar-
riers of fear which most of us have’. The writer continues, ‘In
the last century, or Victorian age, sex was taboo, but now this
subject has gone to the extreme. In this period of time, the
subject of death of the physical body is taboo. Let us hope that
subject will be discussed more openly in the not too dis-
tant future, without fear, and I am sure you can help by touch-
ing upon it.’
My thought is that Lobsang Rampa is the person who can
best write about death, and he can go much further by writing
about what happens AFTER death. In his latest book Three
Lives, that is exactly what he has done, and many people have
expressed the opinion that it is the best book of the eighteen he
has written. We all hope he will be able to maintain sufficient
physical strength to carry out his intention of making it to
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Lives will almost outweigh the interest of the eighteenth, but
they will complement one another.
The thought of dying does not worry me personally, because
I am more concerned about my performance while living. If I
do my best while on the earth there is always the hope (actu-
ally the knowledge) that there is nothing to worry about when
time runs out for me. I read of someone the other day who
quoted himself as being ‘a man in a hurry’, meaning that the
years were passing and he had a lot to do. I feel in rather the
same position because I do not feel that I have made the most
of my own life, so I must try and make up for lost time.
I am somewhat in the position of a man I know who came to
Canada as an immigrant and who, although now in a promin-
ent position as a book publisher, known internationally, a tele-
vision personality of note, as well as a producer, was in his
early days employed by stores as a window washer. He was
interviewed recently and said to the interviewer, ‘In my job I
had eight windows to care for, and each window took one day
to do, so having only six days in a week it meant that I was
always two windows behind.’ That is, I am afraid, the position
in which I often find myself.
I suppose it is not important how long, but how, we live,
whether we be human animal or ‘animal’ animal because all
creatures are here to learn certain lessons and to do certain
jobs. Eric Tetley sent me a snipping the other day—oh! it was
some weeks ago but I kept it because I wanted to tell about it
in Tiger Lily. Mr. Tetley sends many pieces about cats, and
you should see my accumulation of pussy pictures from all
over the world, soon I will need an album. Anyway, I was
most interested to read of the oldest cat, according to the
Guinness Book of Records, whose name was Butch, and who
had lived with a gentleman by the name of Mr. Arthur Baxter,
of Claxby, Lincolnshire. Butch was rescued, covered in oil, at
Immingham Dock in 1942, when only a few weeks old, and
lived to the age of thirty-four years. Multiply by seven and
what is that in cat years?—surely two hundred and thirty-
eight, and he must have been a contented and well-looked-
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 I often think of the Cat world in the so-called Hereafter,
and I understand it is a glorious place. The Guv, as many of
you know, has wonderful powers of description, and I like to
think I visit in my ‘dreams’, my astral travels, those I have
known before, and with whom one day in the not so distant
future I will be reunited.
Death—Life. Is not this earthly experience more like death
and the hereafter the Real Life? That is how I see it and that
must be the way it was viewed by Longfellow in ‘The Psalm
of Life’, words which I had to repeat many times during my
schooldays.

Tell me not in mournful numbers

Life is but an empty dream
For the soul is dead that slumbers
And things are not what they seem.
Life is Real, Life is Earnest
And the grave is not its goal
Dust to Earth to dust returneth
Was not spoken of the soul!

And I like the words of Mark Twain which were presumably

expressed while on his deathbed.

Death, the only immortal who treats

us all alike, whose pity and whose
peace and whose refuge are for all—
the soiled and the pure, the rich and
the poor, the loved and the unloved.

From The Wisdom of Mark Twain

Memorandum written on his deathbed

So this brings to a close the Tiger Lily true story, concluded

the day of the Silver Jubilee of Queen Elizabeth the
Second, a time of nostalgia for those of us who became landed
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now Canadian citizens—Her Gracious Majesty is still our
Queen.
How long we in Canada remain in this situation is still to be
seen, because it is a very controversial subject, together with
separatism and bilingualism.
The Queen and her husband Prince Philip, are, of course,
very much aware of what is happening, and I chuckled at the
Queen's Jubilee speech when she said, ‘We all know what the
Commonwealth is NOT,' adding, ‘It is a popular pastime these
days!’ No doubt the world would be a better place if some of
us were as conscientious as our present Queen and her illustri-
ous father, the late King George the Sixth.

THE END