How To Understand Women in Relationships

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How to Understand Women in Relationships

Instructions

1. Step 1

Do some research. Spend some time with your female friends, sisters, aunts,
grandmothers, female cousins and pick their brains. Don't be afraid to ask some pressing
questions. You'll be surprised at how much you can learn about female behavior, habits,
interests and desires just by spending time with your female friends and relatives. An
observant male will learn everything he's ever wanted to know about the female species.
This exercise will also help to eliminate some of the confusion that men feel when faced
with the sometimes unpredictable nature of women. As you go through all the following
steps, you will soon begin to realize that women only appear confusing and unpredictable
because they are actually insecure.

2. Step 2

Get out of your comfort zone. As a red-blooded male, you are most likely as emotionally
reserved as they come. You would never let someone see you cry, right? Well, if you
want to understand women in relationships, get ready to wear your heart on your sleeve.
Most women are very emotional and they expect their men to be more in touch with their
emotions as well. Thus, you have to learn to open up and not keep all your feelings
bottled up inside as usual. Express yourself emotionally by letting down your guard and
confiding in her about any life-changing events or experiences, such as the death of a
loved one. As you continue to share your innermost emotions with her, you will notice
the bond between you growing immensely. More importantly, you will realize that, for
women, sharing emotions and stories are an extremely important part of a relationship .

3. Step 3

Listen to what she has to say. This requires staying silent on your part. You have
probably conditioned yourself to look as though you're listening when, in fact, your mind
is somewhere else completely. It's time to stop such disrespectful behavior and get used
to giving the woman in your life your undivided attention. A key to understanding
women in relationships is realizing that they love to talk about and share their deepest
feelings, fears and desires with their significant others. All you have to do is listen. Most
of the time you don't even have to give any advice because all she wants is to know that
you care. Just listening intently is enough, and will be warmly appreciated.

4. Step 4

Talk to her. Next time the two of you have a disagreement or argument, do not give her
the silent treatment. No matter how difficult it may be for you, you must let go of your
pride and approach her for a genuine conversation. Ignoring her will only make you
appear infantile and immature. Moreover, when she asks you if something's wrong, don't
give a shrug and say "nothing." The most important factor in any relationship is
communication. So, make an effort to become an honest and sensitive communicator.
Women prioritize relationships, and they must feel confident that the relationship is a
priority in your life as well. If you refuse to open up, you will only make the woman in
your life feel more insecure and uncertain about the relationship, and this will only make
her behavior seem that much more confusing.

5. Step 5

Walk a mile in her shoes. It's not easy being a woman in a man's world. Women don't
have the same opportunities and privileges as a man. You will gain a much broader
understanding of women in relationships if you simply take the time and effort to
acknowledge the struggles and disappointments that women face. Basically, try to look at
the world from a female viewpoint, but be aware that the view may be quite
overwhelming. As you become familiar with some of the hardships that women face
(such as being a single mom, earning less than a man, being stereotyped and
underappreciated), you will gain a much deeper understanding of a woman's mind and
heart. Bottom line? Keep an open mind, be sensitive to a woman's experiences, make her
feel loved and special, confide in her to let her know you trust her and listen to her. You
will never be confused again.

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