The Impact of Internet Pornography On Marriage And..
The Impact of Internet Pornography On Marriage And..
The Impact of Internet Pornography On Marriage And..
The Impact of Internet Pornography on Marriage and the Family: A Review of the Research
JILL C. MANNING
Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah, USA
Since the advent of the Internet, the sex industry has proted from an unprecedented proximity to the home environment. Consequently, couples, families, and individuals of all ages are being impacted by pornography in new ways. Examining the systemic impact of Internet pornography, however, is relatively uncharted territory and the body of systemically-focused research is limited. A review of the research that does exist was undertaken and many negative trends were revealed. While much remains unknown about the impact of Internet pornography on marriages and families, the available data provide an informed starting point for policy makers, educators, clinicians, and researchers.
The Internet has been synergistically linked to human sexuality since its inception (Cooper, Grifn-Shelley, Delmonico, & Mathy, 2001). While the coupling of technology with sexuality has brought forth a unique range of benets for society, it also has fostered new risks. For example, there is now greater access to information regarding sexual education and sexual health (Barak & Fisher, 2001), as well as new options for connecting with romantic partners (Cooper, Boies, Maheu, & Greeneld, 1999). On the other hand, the Internet has become a highly effective and protable means of distributing sexually explicit material, as well as a sophisticated conduit for sexual addictions, sex trafcking, and sex crime (Galbreath & Berlin, 2002). In speaking to these risks, several experts in the eld of mental health contend
Jill C. Manning, Ph.D., is a recent graduate of the Marriage and Family Therapy doctoral program at Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah. At the time this article was written, the author was a visiting Social Science Fellow at The Heritage Foundation in Washington, D.C. Address correspondence to Jill C. Manning, Ph.D., P.O. Box 6351, Broomeld, CO 800210006. E-mail: jillcmanning@byu.edu 131
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on-line sexual pursuits are a hidden public health hazard exploding, in part because very few are recognizing it as such or taking it seriously (Cooper, Delmonico, & Burg, 2000, p. 25). Since the advent of the Internet, the sex industry has had an unprecedented proximity to the home, school, and work environments. As stated in The Third Way Culture Project report (2005),
The Internet is transforming the experience of growing up in America. It is also transforming the job of being a parent in America. The Internet brings the worldthe good, the bad, and the uglyto the American familys doorstep. It brings the ruins of ancient Athens to that doorstep, but it also brings the red light district of Bangkok (p. 2).
Consequently, couples, families, and individuals of all ages are being impacted by pornography in new ways. Examining the systemic impact of Internet pornography, however, is relatively uncharted territory. The void of systemically focused research regarding pornographys effects is understandable when one considers the pornography debate has traditionally been entrenched in: (a) linear, cause-and-effect assumptions; (b) a focus on the individual as the consumer or victim; (c) legal, feminist, or moral perspectives; and (d) dispute over the continuum between censorship and freedom of speech (Thompson, Chaffee, & Oshagan, 1990). While many of these assumptions and philosophical views were tting in the pre-Internet era, additional assumptions and information are needed to extend the pornography debate into more current and comprehensive directions. For the data that do touch upon systemic effects (e.g., impact on couple relationships), there is a lack of reliable, empirically sound interpretation of the ndings within a family systems framework, thereby limiting the conclusions that may be drawn regarding the impact on marriages and families at large. While much remains unknown about the impact of Internet pornography on marriages and families, the social science data that are available provide a starting point from which research agendas and social policies may be explored in an informed manner.
OBJECTIVE
The objective of the research review process was to compile current, empirical ndings that emphasize the systemic versus individual impact of Internet pornography, namely the impact on marital and familial relationships. An emphasis was placed on research that is empirical in nature, contained in peer-reviewed journals, and conducted since the early 1990s when the Internet became a widespread medium for sexually explicit materials and online sexual pursuits (Cooper, Galbreath, & Becker, 2004). An overview of the research dealing with individual effects and harm is provided to give context to the current and systemic research.
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TERMINOLOGY
A common challenge when attempting to compare and contrast research ndings related to pornography is that diverse denitions and types of pornography exist. Subsequently, different denitions and genres of pornography have been employed in research studies, thereby complicating a coherent synthesis of key ndings. In past reviews of the research, the operationalization of terms, or the lack thereof, has been a common critique and limitation of many studies (Ciclitira, 2002). Furthermore, many agree pornography is an elusive term with a range of meanings, dependent not only on cultural, social and historical contexts, but also on individuals own experiences and beliefs (Ciclitira, 2002, p. 191), and that trying to nd a common denition is not only futile but needs to be distinguished from the more positively viewed erotica (Russell, 1998). While the denitional challenges cannot be avoided entirely, it is hoped that by clarifying the genres of pornography used in each study (as outlined by the respective researchers), this issue may be reasonably diminished for those attempting to synthesize the research.
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The Triple-A Engine effect, in particular, is widely accepted as the primary reason why many pre-existing problems with other forms of pornography have been exacerbated in the last decade, and why many individuals who would not have been involved with this material prior to the advent of the Internet, have been drawn into problematic pornography consumption (Cooper, Boies, Maheu, & Greeneld, 1999). As Leiblum and D oring (1998) state,
Personal inhibition levels, social controls, and the lack of willing partners and sexual scenes that may limit sexual activity in everyday contexts are obsolete in cyberspace. It is easy for latent desires to be realized in cyberspace. Internet sexuality may thus serve as a catalyst (p. 29).
Although research identies young males as the predominant consumers of pornography regardless of the technological forum (Buzzell, 2005), many in the eld of sexual addictions argue that online sexual activity has expanded the range of male and female consumers (Cooper, Putnam, Planchon, & Boies, 1999). The changing demographics of consumption, however, are not yet reected in the research literature. The other unprecedented characteristic of Internet pornography is the ease with which children and adolescents have access to itboth solicited and unsolicited access. In the past, the adult bookstore or restricted movie theater was a tangible gatekeeper or buffer to minors being exposed to this material, albeit not impenetrable. Currently, anyone can be a consumer and/or target of sexually explicit material. A startling indicator of this indiscriminating accessibility, not to mention strategic consumer targeting, is to consider that Nielsen//NetRatings (2005), a reputable and well-recognized source for online audience measurement, includes children beginning at two years of age in their demographic statistics for so-called adult trafc.
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confounding variables (e.g., genre of pornography used or degree of violence in the material); and insufcient statistical power due to small sample sizes (Allen, 1995). Although consensus is lacking within the scientic community regarding pornographys effect (Allen, DAlessio, & Brezgel, 1995), there exist substantial data showing pornography correlates with various negative outcomes. Criticism of such claims point to other associations and explanations for the correlates (Allen, 1995), or dismisses the existence of reliable effects all together (Brannigan, 1997). Much of the criticism of this literature is a result of researchers inferring that correlational relationships somehow translate into causal relationships. Prior to the advent of Internet pornography, two of the most frequently cited researchers in the area of pornographys effects were Dolf Zillman and Jennings Bryant. Zillman and Bryants (1984, 1988b) ndings sparked considerable debate and criticism for a number of reasons: (a) for being limited to experimental situations, (b) for lacking real punishment or social controls, (c) for using college students as the normative group, and (d) for the ethical inability to produce real violence (Davies, 1997). With that said, many consider their results to be reliable and valid, and their work has continued to be referenced for nearly two decades. Zillman and Bryants (1984, 1988b) work is useful to give an overview of the kinds of effects general pornography (not Internet pornography) has been associated with, as well as those that have fuelled debate. Zillman and Bryant found the effects of repeated exposure to standard, non-violent, and commonly available pornography included: (a) increased callousness toward women; (b) trivialization of rape as a criminal offense; (c) distorted perceptions about sexuality; (d) increased appetite for more deviant and bizarre types of pornography (escalation and addiction); (e) devaluation of the importance of monogamy; (f) decreased satisfaction with partners sexual performance, affection, and physical appearance; (g) doubts about the value of marriage; (h) decreased desire to have children; and (i) viewing non-monogamous relationships as normal and natural behavior (Drake, 1994). More recently, meta-analyses have provided compelling insight into the impact pornography consumption can have on individual functioning. Four meta-analyses, in particular, summarize the key research areas that have shaped pornography-related research, namely: (a) sexual deviance, (b) sexual perpetration, (c) intimate relationships, (d) rape myth acceptance, and (e) behavioral and sexual aggression. First, Oddone-Paolucci, Genuis, and Violatos (2000) meta-analysis examined 46 studies ( N = 12, 323) published in various academic journals to determine the effect of pornography on (a) sexual deviance (e.g., excessive or ritualistic masturbation), (b) sexual perpetration (e.g., rape), (c) attitudes regarding intimate relationships (i.e., viewing people as sexual objects), and
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(d) attitudes regarding the rape myth (i.e., believing women cause rape). Oddone-Paolucci, Genuis, and Violato found that exposure to pornographic material puts one at increased risk for developing sexually deviant tendencies, committing sexual offences, experiencing difculties in ones intimate relationships, and accepting the rape myth. Specically, there is a 31% increase in the risk of sexual deviancy; a 22% increase in the risk of sexual perpetration; a 20% increase in the risk of experiencing difculty in intimate relationships; and a 31% increase in the risk of accepting rape myths.1 Secondly, a meta-analysis conducted by Allen, DAlessio, and Brezgel (1995) looked at the relationship between pornography consumption and aggression ( N = 2, 040). This meta-analysis included lm, videotape, written texts, and still pictures as the mediums of pornography, and included both male and female participants. The ndings indicated: 1. There is a modest connection between exposure to pornography and subsequent behavioral aggression (r = 0.132, N = 2, 040, p < .05). 2. Pictorial nudity reduces subsequent aggressive behavior (9 studies) (r = .137, n = 403, p < .05) while material depicting non-violent sexual activity slightly increases aggressive behavior (24 studies) (r = .171, n = 1, 229, p < .05). 3. Material depicting violent sexual activity generates the strongest correlation between consumption and behavioral aggression (7 studies) (r = 0.216, n = 353, p > .05). 4. It is unclear under what conditions the observed effects would change. Thirdly, Malamuth, Addison, and Kosss (2000) research, looks specically at the relationship between pornography consumption and sexual aggression, whereas Allen, DAlessio and Brezgels (1995) work addressed only behavioral aggression. Malamuth, Addison, and Koss took the meta-analytic process one step further when they analyzed a compilation of meta-analyses that looked at pornography and sexual aggression and then conducted their own study involving 2,972 college-age males with a mean age of 21. After conducting a series of structural equation models and ANOVAs, they concluded that there are reliable associations between frequent2 pornography use and sexually aggressive behaviors, and that these associations are
These percentages are based on the average weighted Cohen d scores, which are a measure of effect size. Uncorrected average weighted d scores also were available for all of the outcomes. Correcting for demographics (e.g., age, gender, socioeconomic status, etc.), the effect sizes were higher for deviancy and intimate relations; corrected d scores were not available for the sex perpetration or rape myth outcomes. 2 Frequency of pornography use was gauged according to self-assessment on a 4-point scale: Never (1), Seldom (2), Somewhat frequently (3), or Very frequently (4). While the self-assessment aspect is an acknowledged limitation of the study, the scale was used consistently throughout the research.
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particularly strong3 when pornography depicting violence (e.g., rape or torture) is consumed and/or when men at high risk for sexual aggression are the consumers. Lastly, Allen, Emmers, Gebhardt, and Giery, (1995) conducted a metaanalysis of 24 rape myth acceptance studies conducted between 1980 and 1993 ( N = 4, 268). Burt coined the term rape myth in 1980 to describe beliefs a person holds regarding the act of rape, rapists, and the victims of rape (Allen, Emmers, Gebhardt, & Giery, 1995). It was theorized that males who subscribed to rape myths would be less tolerant of rape victims and less likely to convict if serving on a rape-trial jury. Similarly, women who accept rape myths were less likely to report rape as a crime or offer social support to victims (Allen, Emmers, Gebhardt, & Giery, 1995). Allen, Emmers, Gebhardt, and Gierys meta-analysis revealed an average positive correlation (ave r = .103) between exposure to pornography and the acceptance of rape myths. These researchers also found experimental investigations produced an average correlation that was positive (ave r = .146, N = 2, 248). When compared to the non-experimental studies, a signicant difference existed ( = 3.84, p < .05), thereby suggesting that the experimental research produces a larger effect than the non-experimental research. While violent pornography was shown to consistently increase the acceptance of rape myths (ave r = .112, N = 719), non-violent pornography also was shown to increase the acceptance of rape myths (ave r = .125, N = 1048) when compared to a control group who viewed a non-pornographic lm. The studies that specically compared non-violent to violent pornography consumption showed violent pornography increases the acceptance of rape myths more than non-violent consumption (ave r = .163, N = 762). Although the non-experimental studies in the meta-analysis showed almost no effect on rape myth acceptance, it is important to note that only self-report data were collected in the methodologies of these studies and the actual behavioral outcomes were not incorporated (Allen, DAlessio, & Brezgel, 1995). Furthermore, three other meta-analyses by Kim and Hunter (1993a), and Sheppard, Hartwick, and Warshaw (1988) supported the existence of an attitude/behavior linkage between pornography consumption and acceptance of rape myths. In summary, research reveals that pornography consumption is associated with many negative outcomes related to individual functioning. Research, including meta-analyses, show pornography consumption is associated with increased risk for (a) sexual deviancy, (b) sexual perpetration, (c) experiencing difculty in ones intimate relationships, (d) accepting rape myths, and (e) behavioral and sexual aggression.
Multiple statistical gures are provided regarding these associations. Refer to pages 23 to 29 of the study for specic associations.
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consumption because it is almost always consumed in a solitary, secret fashion and has a potential for compulsive or addictive elements to arise in the individual viewer because it is outside of a relational context where many social norms are inherently a part and antisocial behavior kept in check. To be clear, the research reviewed focuses on Internet consumption when addressing relational impact and considers mutual pornography consumption to be the exception rather than the rule among couples today. Based on the current data, the following areas of research are reviewed: (a) characteristics of healthy, stable marriages; (b) online sexual pursuits as a predictor of marital distress, separation, and divorce; (c) decreased sexual satisfaction; (d) decreased sexual intimacy; and (e) indelity.
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J. C. Manning TABLE 1 Characteristics of Stable, Healthy Marriages 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. A mutual belief in the institution of marriage A sense of spirituality Ability to be exible when confronted with transitions and change An assumption of permanence regarding the marital relationship Cooperation Mutual enjoyment of shared time and one anothers company Feeling appreciated Fidelity (emotional, physical and sexual) Good communication Sexual relations that strengthen the marital bond Mutual respect Mutual support Positive thoughts and interactions outweigh negative ones (5 to 1) Shared values Trust
1996; Klagsburn, 1995; Levenson, Carstenson, & Gottman, 1993; Wallerstein & Blakeslee, 1995; Wolcott, 1999; see Table 1). Maurers (1994) work also helps clarify what satisfying sexual relationships entail. Mauer found three common traits that distinguish sexually satised couples from unsatised couples: (a) acceptance of ones own sexuality, (b) listening to ones partner and being aware of a partners likes and dislikes, and (c) open and honest communication. Moreover, according to data from the General Social Survey in 2000 ( N = 531), people who report being happily married are 61% less likely to report using Internet pornography compared to s urvey respondents who did not report being happily married (Stack, Wasserman, & Kern, 2004).
After running one-way-between-group ANOVAs, post-hoc comparisons using the Turkey HSD test indicated the mean score for the dating group ( M = 2.39, SD = 1.26, N = 19) was signicantly different from the married group ( M = 3.72, SD = 1.73, N = 38).
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not as strongly inuenced by religious beliefs. Therefore, married women who perceived greater levels of Internet pornography consumption tended to have the greatest levels of distress than any other group of women. Bridges, Bergner, and Hesson-McInnis (2003) research is signicant because it supports the assertion that married women generally are distressed by their husbands use of sexually explicit material and that this may threaten the stability of the marital bond. Looking to more extreme situations, a 2000 study by Schneider found that cybersex addiction was a major contributing factor to separation and divorce for affected couples. This study analyzed survey responses from 94 individuals (91 women, 3 men) who (a) ranged in age from 24 to 57, (b) had been in a relationship for an average of 12.6 years (range of 0.5 to 39 years), and (c) were seeking therapy to cope with a partners Internet involvement. The sample was recruited through 20 therapists who were treating sex addicts and who were aware of individuals who would be interested in participating in this research. Although a range of online sexual activities were listed, viewing and/or downloading pornography accompanied by masturbation was present in 100% of the cases. Although not a formal study, important survey data was collected at the November 2002 meeting of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers in Chicago, Illinois regarding the impact of Internet usage on marriages. This professional organization comprises the nations top 1600 divorce and matrimonial law attorneys who specialize in matrimonial law, including divorce and legal separation. At this meeting, 62% of the 350 attendees said the Internet had played a role in divorces they had handled during the last year. Additionally, the following observations were made by the lawyers polled with regards to why the Internet had been a signicant factor in divorces that year: 1. 68% of the divorce cases involved one party meeting a new love interest over the Internet. 2. 56% of the divorce cases involved one party having an obsessive interest in pornographic websites. 3. 47% of the divorce cases involved one party spending excessive time on the computer. 4. 33% of the divorce cases cited excessive time communicating in chat rooms (a commonly sexualized forum). In response to this survey data, J. Lindsey Short, Jr., then president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, poignantly stated, While I dont think you can say the Internet is causing more divorces, it does make it easier to engage in the sorts of behaviors that traditionally lead to divorce (Dedmon, 2002).
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This kind of inference is supported by the axiom of the system theory, or concept of interconnectedness, which suggests that a change in any one part of a family system will affect all other parts of the family system (Nichols & Schwartz, 1998, pp. 127128). Secondly, it was common for pornography users to continue sexual relations with their female partner, but the sexual advances conveyed a message of objectication as opposed to meaningful interaction. For example, one woman stated:
I am no longer a sexual person or partner to him, but a sexual object. He is not really with me, not really making love to me . . . . He seems to be thinking about something or someone elselikely those porn women . . . . He is just using me as a warm body (Bergner & Bridges, 2002, p. 197).
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3. During relational sex, the cybersex user appears distant, emotionally detached, and interested only in his or her own pleasure. 4. The spouse/partner ends up doing most or all of the initiating; either to get her or his own needs met or in an attempt to get the user to decrease the online activities. 5. The user blames the partner for their sexual problems. 6. The user wants the partner to participate in sexual activities that she or he nds objectionable. For those who may argue decreased sexual intimacy is an effect linked solely with cybersex addicts, Bergner and Bridges (2002) study supports the fact that for women in relationships (married, engaged, or girlfriends) with men perceived as heavy pornography consumers, decreased and altered sexual intimacy is a common symptom. An example of what the researchers categorized in this area included statements such as, I have been excluded, isolated, barred from intimacy with him. I have lost someone whom I thought was my best friend and most intimate companion in life. He now has a whole secret life from which I am completely excluded and about which he continually lies to me. From a male perspective, Cooper, Galbreath, and Beckers (2004) study of men with online sexual problems revealed two important subgroups with regards to the impact on sexual activity with a committed partner. The researchers found that sexual activity with a partner increased for men who used the Internet to (a) educate themselves, (b) to meet people with whom to date and/or to have ofine sexual relations with, and (c) to socialize as compared to men who do not go online for these reasons. In contrast, participants who turned to online sexual activity to deal with stress had increased problems in their real-time relationships and received complaints from others about this involvement. These ndings corroborate earlier research (Cooper, Grifn-Shelley, Delmonico, & Mathy, 2001) and supports Schneiders (2002) claim that the emotional distance online sexual problems foster can be just as damaging to the relationship as real-life sexual indelity. To put Cooper, Galbreath, and Beckers (2004) results in context it is important to keep in mind that being in a marital relationship was not a criterion for the study, so the results reect the general impact on various levels of commitment. Sixty percent of the 384 male participants were in some kind of a committed relationship, 51% indicated they were married, and 88% indicated being heterosexual. The results are further put into perspective when we consider that the majority of the participants fell into the second subgroupthe group that experienced problems in their real-time relationships. Results showed that: 1. 80.5% used online sexual activity (OSA) to distract themselves or take a break.
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2. 56.5% used OSA to deal with stress. 3. 43.0% used OSA to engage in sexual activities they would not do in real life. 4. 25.3% used OSA to educate themselves. 5. 16.1% used OSA to meet people with whom to have ofine sexual activities. 6. 11.7% used OSA to meet people to date. 7. And 9.1% used OSA to get support with sexual matters. The group who used online sexual activity to deal with stress also reported having increased masturbatory activity, thus engaging in what might be a long-term pattern of turning inward and away from others as a primary coping strategy of which decreased marital intimacy would be a part (Cooper, Galbreath, & Becker, 2004, p. 227).
A Form of Indelity
In virtually all marital contracts or agreements, delity is implied or specifically declared (Schneider, Corley, & Irons, 1998). Indelity, on the other hand, is commonly understood as a violation of the marital agreement, a betrayal of trust, and a threat to the marital bond. Stack, Wasserman, and Kern (2004) found that individuals who completed the 2000 General Social Survey who used the Internet and had had an extramarital affair were 3.18 times more likely to have used Internet pornography than individuals who used the Internet but did not engage in affairs according to the survey data ( N = 531). The same study also revealed that people who have engaged in paid sex (i.e., prostitution) were 3.7 times more apt to use Internet pornography than those who had not engaged in paid sex. What these statistics indicate is that Internet pornography is associated with activities that can undermine marital exclusivity and delity. What cannot be determined, however, is what comes rstdoes Internet pornography inuence unfaithful behavior or does unfaithful behavior coincide with preexisting traits that predispose someone to normalize Internet pornography viewing? At least three studies support the fact that women view cybersex and/or pornography consumption as a form of indelity that reduces the exclusivity of the relationship (Bergner & Bridges, 2002; Bridges, Bergner, & HessonMcInnis, 2003; Schneider, 2000). As well, Whitty (2003) found that both men and women perceive online sexual activity as an act of betrayal that is as authentic and real as ofine acts, and that Internet pornography use correlated signicantly with emotional indelity ( N = 1, 117, 468 males and 649 females; r = .41, p < 0.001). Women commonly report feelings of betrayal, loss, mistrust, devastation, and anger as responses to the discovery or disclosure of a partners
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pornography use and/or online sexual activity (Bridges, Bergner, & HessonMcInnis, 2003). Schneiders (2000) study concluded that women overwhelmingly felt cyberaffairs were as emotionally painful to them as live or ofine affairs, and many viewed the online sexual activity to be just as much adultery or cheating as live affairs. As Bergner and Bridges (2002) identify, there is a consistent theme that surfaces in these womens experiences and this is that their partner has taken the most intimate aspect of the relationship, sexuality, which is supposed to express the bond of love between the couple and be conned exclusively to the relationship, and shared it with countless fantasy women (p. 5).
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the United States, Sweden has the second highest Internet use and Australia has the third highest Internet use per capita (Stanley, 2001). Although more research is needed, the voids in the research need not delay responding to what we do know. The following two sections cover the available research: (a) the indirect impact on children and adolescents (e.g., youth who live in a home where pornography consumption is occurring) and (b) the direct impact on children and adolescents (e.g., youth who encounter/consume Internet pornography themselves).
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Premature sexual dialogue between parent and child is another effect of problematic sexual behavior in the home that researchers Black, Dillon, and Carnes (2003) brought forth. They found that dialogue about sexuality may surface before the parent and especially the child is ready. For example, if there is a chance a child will learn about a parents online or ofine sexual activity from another source (e.g., T.V., church, friends, or family), it may be necessary to discuss sexual problems prior to the recommended age of mid-adolescence (Black, Dillon, & Carnes, 2003). Black, Dillon, and Carnes (2003) also examined adolescents experiences and reactions to being told of a parents struggle with online sexual activity ( N = 89, 13 years of age or older). Prior to a formal disclosure by a parent, 60 out of 89 respondents reported already knowing of their parents behavior. As one respondent stated, I was surprised that my mother was not aware that I knew. I carried this secret with me my entire adolescence and no one knew! Many youths in Black, Dillon, and Carnes (2003) study experienced: (a) anger for the pain caused to the family, (b) embarrassment, (c) fear of the nancial ramications, (d) guilt, (e) confusion over the implications for their parents marriage and the family as a whole, or they may have (f) reached out emotionally to take care of the other parent. Other children found relief and validation at having the problem formally disclosed to them because it validated the confusion, anger, and mixed messages they had lived with for so long. Additionally, Corley and Schneiders (2003) research found that disclosing problematic sexual behavior to children is a process rather than a onetime event, making this problem an integrated and enduring part of the family narrative. Moreover, parents struggling with a problematic sexual behavior are more likely to disclose the problem once the child is ten years of age or older, thereby making preteens and adolescents the most common recipients of this information and adding a unique dimension to their sexual development, identity, and socialization around issues of sexuality. If one or both parents have not carefully planned a unied, child-focused disclosure (e.g., using age-appropriate language, avoiding unnecessary detail, focusing on accountability, and emphasizing that the child is loved), the disclosure can be very upsetting to children.
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The number of children exposed to such risks unfortunately is increasing as Internet usage starts earlier and becomes more popular. Between 1998 and 2001, for example, Internet usage among 3- to 4-year-olds jumped from 4.1% to 14.3%; 5- to 9-year-olds experienced a 16.8% to 38.9% increase; and 14- to 17-year-olds experienced a 51.2% to 75.6% hike in Internet usage (Mitchell, Finkelhor, & Wolak, 2003b). Results from the 10th World Wide Web User Survey, conducted by the Georgia Institute of Technologys Graphic, Visualization and Usability (GVU) Center between October and December 1998 ( N = 5, 022) also show that young people between the ages of 11 and 20 represent the majority of new Internet users within the last 1 to 3 years (Kehoe, Pitkow, Sutton, Aggarwal, & Roders, 1999). Research also shows that families with children are more likely to use computers and access the Internet than homes without children (U.S. Department of Commerce, Economic and Statistics Administration, and National Telecommunications and Information Administration, 2002). For example, in 2001, 70.1% of households with children used computers and 62.2% accessed the Internet (U.S. Department of Commerce, Economic and Statistics Administration, and National Telecommunications and Information Administration, 2002). On the other hand, in households without children, 58.8% used computers and 53.2% accessed the Internet (U.S. Department of Commerce, Economic and Statistics Administration, and National Telecommunications and Information Administration, 2002). Despite the illegalities of exposing or marketing sexually explicit material to minors, the pornography industry does not discriminate against young consumers. In a study funded by the U.S. Congress through the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, Mitchell, Finkelhor, and Wolak (2003a) concluded that sexually explicit material on the Internet is very intrusive and can be inadvertently stumbled upon while searching for other material or opening email. Additionally, a Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation Report (2002) found that 70% of youth aged 15 to 17 reported accidentally coming across pornography online, and 23% of those youth said this happens very or somewhat often. Viewers of all ages are commonly greeted with Click here if you are 18 years of age or older prior to entering a sexually explicit website (FreemanLongo, 2000). However, this farcical honor system fails at protecting youth from inappropriate material because: (a) approximately 75% of pornographic websites display visual teasers on their homepages before asking if viewers are of legal age (Thornburg & Lin, 2002), (b) only 3% of pornographic websites require proof of age before granting access to sexually explicit material (Thornburg & Lin, 2002), and (c) two-thirds of pornographic websites do not include adult content warnings (Thornburg & Lin, 2002). Although age verication measures are readily available through the use of credit cards, adult access codes, and/or personal identication numbers, the pornography industry has neglected to implement these measures even half-heartedly.
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To make matters worse, unsuspecting youth are commonly tricked into opening pornographic websites by attaching commonly misspelled words to pornographic pages (Mitchell, Finkelhor & Wolak, 2003a), or by making it difcult to shut down or get out of a site once opened, a strategy referred to as mouse trapping. In fact, Mitchell, Finkelhor, and Wolak (2003a) found that in 26% of surng incidents, youth reported being exposed to another sex site when they were trying to exit a site they were in. According to gures from Nielsen//NetRatings (2005), in the United States during the month of April 2005, 4,803 children and adolescents between the ages of 2 and 17 were exposed to or sought out pornography online. This age group also represented 13.97% of all online pornography consumption.
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ethical difculties in conducting such research make studies of young adult populations only more important to consider.
Developmental Effects
Patricia M. Greeneld (2004b), a researcher with the Childrens Digital Media Center and the Department of Psychology at the University of California, Los Angeles, reviewed ndings related to developmental effects and media. Greeneld (2004a) paid close attention to chatrooms due to the popularity of this forum among youth. She concluded from her analysis of online communications in chatrooms, that the following effects would likely occur for youth involved in this mode of social interaction.
1. Disinihibtion in sexuality, aggression, and race relations (For example, making inappropriate comments about sexual activity or race that would be considered anti-social in other contexts, or acting out sexually in risky, maladaptive, or illegal ways, for example, with children. 2. Early sexual priming 3. Modeling of racism, negative attitudes toward women, and homophobia. 4. Breeding of personal and social irresponsibility due to anonymity.
Greeneld concludes, we often consider the Internet to be a repository of information; my experience in the chat room led to the conclusion that we had better also think of the Internet in terms of the values that we wish to socialize (p. 757).
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According to research with rst-year college students, the following effects and/or risks are associated with frequent exposure to erotica. These effects and/or risks are listed here because of the potential they have for shaping sexual development as well as future marital and familial relationships (Zillman, 2000): 1. Normalization of adverse reactions to offensive material; 2. Developing tolerance toward sexually explicit material, thereby requiring more novel or bizarre material to achieve the same level of arousal or interest; 3. Misperceptions of exaggerated sexual activity in the general populace; 4. Overestimating the prevalence of less common sexual practices (e.g., group sex, bestiality, sadomasochistic activity); 5. Diminished trust in intimate partners; 6. Abandoning the goal of sexual exclusivity with a partner; 7. Perceiving promiscuity as a normal state of interaction; 8. Perceiving sexual inactivity as constituting a health risk; 9. Developing cynical attitudes about love; 10. Believing superior sexual satisfaction is attainable without having affection for ones partner; 11. Believing marriage is sexually conning; 12. Believing that raising children and having a family is as an unattractive prospect; 13. Developing a negative body image, especially for women (Siegel, 1997). Robert E. Freeman-Longo (2000), an expert in sexual abuse assessment, prevention and treatment, adds to the list above: 14. Increased risk for developing sexual compulsions; 15. Increased risk for developing a sexual addiction; 16. Increased risk of exposure to incorrect information about human sexual behavior (e.g., bestiality, sex with children); 17. Exposure to age-inappropriate sexual material.
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school students from 47 different high school classes (H aggstr om-Nordin, Hanson, & Tyd en, 2005). They found that: 1. Internet and cable TV were the most common sources of pornography used 2. 83% of the youth watched pornography at home 3. 71% believed pornography inuenced others sexual behavior 4. 29% reported pornography had inuenced their own sexual behavior. In a previous Swedish study, however, 53% of young men reported that pornography had impacted their sexual behavior by inspiring them (Tyd en & Rogala, 2004). 5. Males considered high pornography consumers and men with an early age of rst sexual intercourse (15 years) were more likely than low male consumers and women to engage in sexual activities such as oral sex, group sex, and anal intercourse. 6. Engaging in anal intercourse was signicantly associated with high consumption of pornography 7. Engaging in sexual intercourse with a friend (i.e., someone with whom they were not having a loving relationship) was signicantly associated with high consumption of pornography.
Sexual Aggression
In recent years, an Australian Child at Risk Assessment Unit in Canberra, New South Wales, noticed a disturbing increase in the number of sexually abusive or aggressive children under the age of ten who were being referred to their services. In the early 1990s approximately 3 children a year would be referred for sexually aggressive behavior, by 2003, however, approximately 70 children a year were being referred, many of whom had preyed on other children by forcing them to take part in sexual acts. To determine why this increase was occurring, the National Child Protection Clearinghouse and the Canberra Hospital conducted a retroactive study on case les. The review revealed, among other commonalities, a pattern between such sexually abusive children and their access to sexually explicit material on the Internet (Limb, 2003). Social worker, Cassandra Tinning, stated,
We noticed a number of really interesting issues. Of course, this primary issue is around the use of the Internet. Almost all of the children who accessed our services in the last three years in relation to sexually harmful behaviors, almost all those children had accessed the Internet and specically had accessed the Internet for pornographic material (Limb, 2003).
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Victor B. Cline (2001), a Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Utah, has made clinical observations that also support the Australian ndings. For example, he stated:
I have also interviewed some children, where as a result of hearing DialA-Porn messages, they engaged in sexual assaults on other children. One 12 year-old boy in Hayward, California listened to Dial-A-Porn for nearly two hours on the phone. . . . A few days later he sexually assaulted a fouryear-old girl in his mothers day care center. He had never been exposed to pornography before. He had never acted out sexually before and was not a behavior problem in the home. He had never heard or knew of oral sex before listening to Dial-A-Porn. And this was how he assaulted the girl, forcing oral sex on her in direct imitation of what he had heard on the phone (p. 10).
Additionally, Malamuth, Addison, and Koss (2000) found that very frequent pornography use was associated with much higher rates of sexual aggression among older adolescent boys and young men already at high risk for aggressive behavior. High risk factors that were taken into consideration for this study included impulsivity, hostility toward women, and promiscuity. Youth who had the same risk levels of aggressive behavior, but who consumed pornography somewhat, seldom, or never did not show the same levels of sexual aggression.
Sexual Compulsivity
Although there are no long-term studies examining the relationship between childhood behavioral patterns and adult sexual addiction, we do know that children and teens can and do develop compulsive sexual behavior, a common precursor to sexual addiction (Ryan & Lane, 1997). Freeman-Longo (2000) points out in his journal article entitled, Children, Teens and Sex on the Internet that an increasing number of clinicians are having youth referred for problems associated with online sexual activity. Freeman-Longos (2000) research, within the eld of sexual abuse assessment, prevention, and treatment, revealed several risks associated with online sexual activity for youth that, if left untreated, could lead to increased compulsivity and possible sexual addiction in the future. He identied the following as being particularly problematic: 1. Many online relationships are not based in reality; what users read and see about people, relationships, and sex is distorted. 2. Many users begin to seek higher levels of excitement, as current experiences result in a lack of gratication (their tolerance levels change and/or they become satiated to particular activities).
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3. With some youth there may be the potential to increase sexual drive and urges resulting in possible compulsive and/or addictive behavior. When this occurs healthy sexual drive may no longer be exciting. This is especially problematic for youth who engage in sexually abusive and aggressive behaviors. 4. For underaged persons such activities may increase the youths sexual desire for in-person sex and thus result in earlier real-life sexual experiences.
SUMMARY
Examining the systemic impact of Internet pornography is relatively unchartered territory and the body of systemically focused research is limited. After reviewing the social science data that does exist, however, the following key ndings can be extracted:
Impact on Individuals
Pornographys effect on individuals is the most researched area related to impact. The following effects are viewed as having the most bearing on marital and family relationships: 1. 2. 3. 4. Distorted perceptions and beliefs about relationships and sexuality. Devaluation of marriage, monogamy, and child rearing. Increased aggression and the trivialization of criminal behavior (e.g., rape). Increased risk for sexual deviancy, sexual perpetration, experiencing negative intimate relationships, and accepting rape myths (e.g., believing rape isnt a serious crime or assigning responsibility to the victim).
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3. Men and women perceive online sexual activity as an act of betrayal that is as authentic and real as ofine indelity. 4. In light of the social science data regarding healthy, stable marriages, Internet pornography consumption in a growing number of relationships may be considered incompatible with the characteristics of stable, healthy marriages; a relationship that benets the social good.
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FUTURE RESEARCH
Looking at the impact of Internet pornography from a family-oriented perspective represents a relatively new shift. Because of this, there are many research questions that need answering, which would be worthy of nancial support. Given the previous review, the following research questions need to be answered:
Top Priorities
1. How are family dynamics (parent-child, sibling-sibling, husband-wife, nuclear-extended family) specically affected when one or more family members are consuming pornography on a regular basis? 2. How does pornography consumption correlate, if at all, with rates of incest, child abuse, and physical violence in families? 3. How does female pornography consumption and its related effects differ, if at all, to male consumption? 4. What is the exact demographic prevalence of Internet pornography consumption and sexual addictions in the U.S., and what is the prevalence for males vs. females, and those of various marital statuses? 5. How does pornography affect the brain? 6. How does parental pornography consumption affect rates of consumption in children? 7. How does childhood consumption of pornography affect long-term relational outcomes? This question could be incorporated into one of the longitudinal surveys presently underway, for example, Add Health Survey, or the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth 1979 and 1997. 8. Is sexually aggressive behavior in juveniles represented across diverse populations consuming pornography, or is it limited to high-risk, vulnerable youth?
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CONCLUSION
Internet pornography is altering the social and sexual landscape. Although there is much more to learn about this process in greater specicity regarding marriages and families, the research currently available indicates many negative trends. Unfortunately, these trends are expected to continue for sometime unless drastic changes in social norms, public education, parenting approaches, Internet restructuring, and law enforcement occur. As the rst Internet generations reach adulthood, it is anticipated that the full magnitude of online pornographys effect will become even clearer, and alter the pornography debate accordingly. Related research in neuroscience, marriage and family therapy, and developmental psychology will augment what is now only a nascent area of social psychology and clinical research. What is certain is that this issue promises to be around for some time.
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