Freedom Through Forgiveness

Practical Change
Assignment
Freedom through Forgiveness
1. ADDRESS MY HEART BEFORE GOD FIRST - MT 18:35 (Vertical)
A. Mark 11:25 - All encompassing command: Forgive anyone anything!

(Vertical)
B. Ephesians 4:32 - Controlling model: As God forgives us, we forgive others.
C. Luke 9:23 - Basic requirement: Deny self – forgiveness costs the forgiver.
D. Ephesians 4:26-27 - Urgency: Before the sun sets lest the devil gets a foothold!
E. Romans 12:18-19 - Surrender right to demand vengeance; God will deal with the
offender justly. Repent of any sinful response to the offense, such
as bitterness.
F. Romans 12:20-21 - Reach out in love to an enemy’s need. Overcome evil with a
godly response rather than lowering to the level of the evil
against you.
(Horizontal)
2. CHOOSE TO ADDRESS THE OFFENDER IN HUMILITY – Lk 17:3-10 (Horizontal)
A. vs 3-4 - Rebuke him, but always be ready to forgive him, even for repeated offenses, in the
spirit of Mt 18:15ff (church discipline), dealing with each offence first privately with the
goal of restoration.
B. vs 9-10 - Forgive out of obedience, even though you may not feel like it. Forgiveness is a
one-time choice, and the feelings will change as you practice the 3 promises of forgiveness
listed below.
C. When forgiveness is asked and granted, the transaction is complete for both parties! Until
then, have a heart ready to forgive another. Afterwards, keep the promises and practice
forgiveness.
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3. PRACTICE REPEATEDLY: THREE PROMISES TO “REMEMBER NO MORE” - Jer 31:34
I will not raise this offense again in a judgmental, accusatory, or revengeful way to:
1. Others – in gossip - a desire to make others judge the offender just as you have judged him
2. Offender - repeatedly bringing up the offense in an accusatory way, using it as a weapon
3. Self - dwelling on the offense over and over in my mind>becoming bitter> desiring vengeance
Offense 1 Month 1 Year 2 Year 10 Year
Bitterness Grows and GROWS!
Choose forgiveness, and 10 years later, the offense will only be a speck on the horizon as you walk
away free! Choose not to forgive and the offense will destroy YOU, not the offender! Mk 11:26
4. REBUILDING TRUST IS PRIMARILY THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE OFFENDER.
Mt 6:21 - Incrementally investing into the life of the one offended to rebuild trust and restore
relationships
by investing time, talents, thoughts, prayers, energies. To rebuild trust requires the offender to be
accountable, dependable, consistent, faithful, and predictable over a period of time.
Trust can then be rebuilt and the relationship can be restored to God’s glory!
Practical Change
Assignment
God’s Forgiveness of Your Sin
Read Micah 7:18, 19. What makes our God so special and how is our God different from us?
What does God delight in?
How does God deal with our sins?
Read Ephesians 1:7 & 2:8,9. Is forgiveness something we can work for or earn?
Read 1 John 1:9. What is the proper way to deal with sin?
Read Isaiah 44:22. If we are sincere in our repentance, what is God’s promise?
Read Psalm 103:1-5. Knowing our relationship is restored, we are to experience the full joy of our
salvation. David experienced this restored joy after he committed sin and repented.
Your Forgiveness of Others’ Sins
Read Colossians 3:12. As God’s elect, what should our character and heart attitude portray?
Read Colossians 3:13. What are we admonished to do in regard to our anger toward others?
Read Mark 11:25, 26. How does our forgiveness of others affect prayer?
Read Matthew 6:14, 15. What is the greatest benefit in forgiving others?
Read and paraphrase Luke 6:36-37.
You will remember the offense forever; nevertheless your decision to forgive is final. God does
not forget that we sin, but when He forgives, He chooses to remember it no more! (Read Jer 31:34)
As we model after Him, we must choose to “remember no more” by…
1. Not raising the offense again to others (judging).
2. Not raising the offense again to the one already forgiven (accusing).
3. Not raising the offense again to yourself in your own mind, dwelling on it, rehashing the
details, replaying the scenario in your mind, thinking up ways to get even, thinking about
what you “should have” done or said to put that person “down” (getting vengeance).

Practical Change
Assignment
Forgive One Another
Dr. Jeffery S. Forrey, Trinity Seminary, Newburg IN
1. Our forgiveness of one another is patterned after God’s forgiveness of us (Colossians 3:13). Read Hebrews
10:15-18 for a description of God’s forgiveness of His people. What does God’s forgiveness entail?
2. Read Ephesians 4:31, 32. What problem(s) can forgiveness resolve?
3. Read Matthew 6:14,15. What motivation does God give you for being a forgiving person?
4. Read Luke 17:3-10. From this passage what do you learn about the granting of forgiveness? What “cop-
outs” to granting forgiveness does Jesus counter?

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Practical Change

1. ADDRESS MY HEART BEFORE GOD FIRST - MT 18:35 (Vertical)

A. Mark 11:25 - All encompassing command: Forgive anyone anything!

2. CHOOSE TO ADDRESS THE OFFENDER IN HUMILITY – Lk 17:3-10 (Horizontal)

© Biblical Counseling Center

Offense 1 Month 1 Year 2 Year 10 Year

Bitterness Grows and GROWS!

4. REBUILDING TRUST IS PRIMARILY THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE OFFENDER.

What does God delight in?

How does God deal with our sins?

Your Forgiveness of Others’ Sins

Read and paraphrase Luke 6:36-37.

© Biblical Counseling Center

2. Read Ephesians 4:31, 32. What problem(s) can forgiveness resolve?

© Biblical Counseling Center

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