Visitation Enforcement Kit

If you have a Texas court order that allows you to spend time with your children but the other parent won’t
follow the order, this kit can help you enforce that order. If you don’t have a court order that gives you
parenting time with your child, or if you’d like more general information about your visitation, read the
Visitation Handout to learn more.

This Kit includes the following documents:

1. Sample Demand Letter for Visitation (2 pages)

Reminds the other parent about the legal consequences of violating the court order
2. What Counts as a Denial of Visitation? (1 page)
Tells you what to do to document your denied visit
3. Visitation Journal (3 pages)
A place for you to record your visitation attempts, to prepare your case for court
4. Court at a Glance (1 page)
Describes the seven steps to enforcing your order
5. Step 1: Do Your Homework (1 page)
Outlines the first step involved in filing your case
6. Step 2: File Your Motion, Set Your Hearing (1 page)
Explains the second step in your case
7. Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order (7 pages)
The document that’s filed to start your legal action
8. Step 3: Ask the Judge to Sign the Order to Appear (1 page)
Explains the third step in your case
9. Order to Appear and Show Cause (1 page)
Order signed by a judge that orders the other party to come to court for your hearing
10. Step 4: Give Legal Notice (1 page)
Explains the fourth step in your case
11. Step 5: Prepare for Hearing (1 page)
Explains the fifth step in your case
12. Sample Testimony (8 pages)
Can be used as a sample to help you prepare your testimony
13. Step 6: Hearing (1 page)
Describes the sixth step in your case
14. Step 7: Decision (1 page)
Describes the seventh step in your case
15. Order for Capias and Setting Bond (3 pages)
Order, signed by a judge, requesting the arrest of Respondent, if Respondent was served with
legal notice of the hearing, but failed to appear
16. Capias (3 pages)
Issued by the District Clerk, if the judge signed the Order for Capias
17. Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order (8 pages)
Signed by the judge, after your hearing

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________________________
[Date]

___________________________________
[Custodial Parent]

___________________________________
[Custodial Parent Address]

___________________________________
[Custodial Parent Address]

Re: Notice to Exercise Court-Ordered Possession and Access (Visitation)

Dear _____________________________,
[Custodial Parent]

I plan to see our child(ren) according to the court-ordered possession and access
(visitation) schedule, as written in the most recent court order which was signed by the
judge in our case in Cause No. ___________________________ .
[Cause Number]

I will be at [choose one]

□ Your residence at ____________ ___.m.
[Time, including a.m. or p.m.]

□ The school where our child(ren) is/are enrolled, when school is

dismissed. [Choose this option only if it is already ordered by the Court]

□ Other: ________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
[Time and place where your visitation is ordered to take place]

I will be at this location on _______________________________________ to

[Date designated in the court order for you to take possession]
exercise my rights to see our child(ren).

You should have our child(ren) ready for my visitation as provided for in the court order.

I will return our child(ren) to you as required by the court order.

I intend to continue exercising my possession and access (visitation) rights according to
the court ordered schedule from now on.

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Interfering with my court-ordered access and visitation rights could result in a contempt
action being filed against you. Failure to pay child support is not a justification or
defense to a charge of contempt for interference with court-ordered visitation rights. If a
court finds you in contempt for denying my court-ordered access to our child(ren) the
court may sentence you to jail time, and order you to pay a fine, attorney’s fees and
court costs. It would be best for everyone, especially our child(ren), to avoid such
litigation.

Sincerely,

___________________________________
[Your name]

___________________________________
[Your Address]

___________________________________
[Your Address]

___________________________________
[Your phone number]

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 WHAT COUNTS AS A DENIAL OF VISITATION?
If you want to enforce your visitation order and ask the court to hold the other parent in
contempt, there are very specific rules you must follow when you try to exercise your visitation.

You are not technically denied visitation unless you actually appear in person at the pick-up
location listed in your court order, even if the other parent has already told you that he/she will
not be there or that he/she will not be giving you your child.

By not producing the child at the pick-up location at a certain date and time, the other parent is
violating the court order. However, that parent cannot be required to testify against
himself/herself in court, so you have to be able to testify that you were there and he/she
was not.

APRIL
11th Step 1: Look at your court order or a calendar prepared for you
6 pm – by your attorney. Find the next exact date and time that you are
pick up supposed to pick up your child.
son at
his
mother’s
house
Step 2: Arrive at the pick-up location at the exact date and
time you are supposed to be there. Give yourself plenty
of time to get there. If you are early, wait a few minutes.

Step 3: Knock on the door. Wait. Knock on the door again.

You must give some indication that you are there and are ready to
pick up your child.

Step 4: Try to obtain evidence that you were at the right location
at the right date and time. You can take a witness with you to
observe what happened. You can go to a nearby convenience
store or fast food restaurant and buy a drink or a pack of gum,
and keep the receipt showing you were in the area at a certain
date and time. Some police departments may be willing to file
a report for you.
Step 5: Immediately write down what happened in your
visitation journal. Write down the date, time, and place
where you tried to pick up your child. If you have a
witness, write down his/her name. If you have a receipt or
other evidence, keep it safe.

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 EXHIBIT B: VISITATION JOURNAL

My name is: _____________________________________________________.

I am the child’s [check one]

father.
mother.
other: _____________________________________________________
[please print your relationship to the child]

My child’s name is/ My children’s names are:

Child’s Name Child’s Birthday
[month, day, and year]

The child/ren live(s) with: [print name of person child/ren live with]

_____________________________________________________________________.

I have court orders allowing me to see my child/ren on specific days and at specific
times. My court order states a specific location for me to pick up my children . [If you do not
have a court order, or your order does not include specific days and times for your visitation, or if your order does not include a
specific location for you to exchange your child/ren with the other parent, you will need to go back to court to get an order that
includes these things, before a court can enforce your order.]

I have tried to see my children, according to my court order, but the child’s other parent
did not allow me to see the child/ren.

This journal records the times I tried to see my child/ren, according to the court ordered
schedule. I tried to see my child/ren on the following dates, but was not allowed to .
[Complete the charts with information about when you tried to see your child/ren, according to your court schedule, but were not
allowed to. You can copy and add additional charts, if you need to.]

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 Date
[month, day, year] ________
Day Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday
[check one] Friday Saturday Sunday
Time
____________ am pm
Place
[ex. Mother’s
residence, McDonald’s,
etc.]
Address
[street address, city,
state, zip code]

Witnesses
[List names of people
who were there when
you tried to see your
child/ren.]

What happened?
[no one home, wouldn’t
let me see child/ren,
etc]

Date
[month, day, year] ________
Day Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday
[check one] Friday Saturday Sunday
Time
____________ am pm
Place
[ex. Mother’s
residence, McDonald’s,
etc.]
Address
[street address, city,
state, zip code]

Witnesses
[List names of people
who were there when
you tried to see your
child/ren.]

What happened?
[no one home, wouldn’t
let me see child/ren,
etc]

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 Date
[month, day, year] ________
Day Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday
[check one] Friday Saturday Sunday
Time
____________ am pm
Place
[ex. Mother’s
residence, McDonald’s,
etc.]
Address
[street address, city,
state, zip code]

Witnesses
[List names of people
who were there when
you tried to see your
child/ren.]

What happened?
[no one home, wouldn’t
let me see child/ren,
etc]

Date
[month, day, year] ________
Day Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday
[check one] Friday Saturday Sunday
Time
____________ am pm
Place
[ex. Mother’s
residence, McDonald’s,
etc.]
Address
[street address, city,
state, zip code]

Witnesses
[List names of people
who were there when
you tried to see your
child/ren.]

What happened?
[no one home, wouldn’t
let me see child/ren,
etc]

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Court at a Glance
Enforcement of Visitation Kit
There are basically 7 steps in enforcement cases.

Step 1: Do Your Homework

Step 2: File Your Motion and Set Your Hearing

Step 3: Ask the Judge to Sign the Order to

Appear

Step 4: Give Legal Notice

Tell the other party what you want. (Process server

or Constable does this for you.)

Step 5: Prepare for Hearing

More homework.

Step 6: Hearing

Ask the judge for what

you want and explain why you should get it.

Step 6: Decision

The judge decides whether or not you should get what you asked for.
You give the judge an Order to sign. The order needs to say
exactly what the judge decided.
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Step 1: Do Your Homework
For Step One, you’ll need the following:
 Civil Case Information Sheet
 Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order

1. Civil Case Information Sheet

 Complete it.
 Make a copy for your records. (The District Clerk will keep the original.)

2. Motion for Enforcement of Possession or Access (with Exhibits)

 Read through the Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order and Order to
Appear very carefully. Fill in your case information in the blank spaces. Check
only those boxes that apply in your case. If you’re not sure what to put in the
blanks, talk to a lawyer.
 Sign the last page of the Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order in front of a
notary.
 Make a copy for yourself and for every party in your case (The District Clerk will
keep the original.)

3. Filing Fee
 Be prepared to pay a filing fee to the clerk when you file your papers.
 Call the District Clerk to find out how much you’ll have to pay.
 If you can’t afford to pay you can file a Statement of Inability to Afford Payment
of Court Costs or an Appeal Bond, which asks the court to waive the filing fees.
 You can get this form from this website’s (www.Texaslawhelp.org) alphabetical
list of forms.

4. Learn how to set the hearing, and have the judge sign your Order to Appear
 Call the judge’s court coordinator.
 Explain that you’re filing a Motion to Enforce and that you need to know:
a. What the procedure is to get the judge to sign the Order to Appear, and
b. What the procedure is to set the motion for a hearing.
 Write the instructions down here: ______________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

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 STEPS 2 - 4 will be completed the same
day and at the courthouse

Step 2: File Your Motion and Set Your

Hearing
For Step Two, you’ll need the following:
 Civil Case Information Sheet (get this from the District Clerk’s Office)
 Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order
 A check or money order for your filing fee (or the Statement of Inability to Afford
Payment of Court Costs or an Appeal Bond)

1. File your papers with the District Clerk’s Office in the county where you got
the order that you’re trying to enforce.
 Take your documents (and your copies) to the District Clerk’s Office.
 Tell the clerk you’re there to file a Motion to Enforce and hand the clerk all of your
documents. (Place the original on top, and the copies of each document behind
the original.)
 The clerk will “file stamp” your papers, noting the date when you filed your
Motion.
 The clerk will give you your copies but will keep the original for the court’s file.
 Make sure to keep a copy of everything for yourself.

2. Set the Hearing

 Follow the Court Coordinator’s instructions to set a hearing to have your motion
heard. (You should have written them in Step One: Do your Homework.)
 Be sure to set your case at least 20 days from the date you file your motion. This
will give you enough time to give the other parties legal notice. The parties must
have at least 10 days’ notice for a contempt hearing.

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Step 3: Ask the Judge to Sign
the Order to Appear
For Step Three, you’ll need the following:
 Order to Appear
 Motion for Enforcement with Exhibits

1. Order to Appear

 Follow the court coordinator’s instructions to ask the judge sign the Order to
Appear. Make sure and give the judge your Motion for Enforcement and Order
to Appear
 You should have written the instructions down in Step One: Do your
Homework.
 After the judge signs the Order to Appear, make enough copies for yourself and
all of the parties in your case. (The clerk will keep the original.)
 Proceed to Step Four: Give Legal Notice

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 Step 4: Give Legal Notice
Tell the other party what you want.
For Step Four, you will need the following:
 Copies of all of the documents you have filed
 Order to Appear, signed by the judge

You must give legal notice to all of the parties in your case. If you don’t know who the parties
are in your case, you should talk to a lawyer.

1. Go back to the District Clerk’s Office

 Now that the judge has signed your Order to Appear, you need to file it in the
District Clerk’s office.
 Tell the clerk you’re there to file the Order to Appear, and hand the clerk the
original and copies. (Place the original on top and the copies of the document
behind the original.)
 The clerk will “file stamp” your papers, noting the date when you filed the
Order to Appear.
 The clerk will give you your copies but will keep the original for the court’s file.
 Make sure to keep a copy of everything for yourself.
 Tell the clerk you want to have a constable serve the Order to Appear and
Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order on the parties in your case.
 Make sure the clerk will process the citation and give it to the constable to
serve the other party. If not, you’ll need to give the citation to the constable to
serve the other party. Ask the clerk how to do that.
 The constable will file a Return of Citation to show the court the party was
served. The Return of Citation has to be in the court file for at least 10
days before you have a hearing.

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Step 5: Prepare for Hearing
More homework.
For Step Five, you will need the following:
 Papers for Step 7: Decision

1. Prepare for the Hearing

 Talk to your witnesses. Prepare questions for them or have them prepare a
statement to tell the judge.
 Review the documentation that shows the judge your visitation has been
denied.
 Review the local rules for your county. Ask the clerk if your county has any
special local rules and where you can find them.
 Review your papers for Step 7: Decision. Make sure they are correct.

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 Step 6: Hearing
Ask the judge for what you want and
explain why you should get it.
For Step Six, you need the following:
 Paperwork for Step Seven: Decision

1. Go to the courthouse
 Arrive early.
 Ask the District Clerk if you need to pull your case file to take to the docket
or does the judge already have it for your hearing?

2. Go to the courtroom.
 Let the clerk (seated next to the judge’s bench) know you have arrived for
your hearing. Ask the clerk if he/she needs any of your papers, or if the
judge prefers for you to give your papers to the judge.

3. Sit down and wait for the judge to call your case.
 Sometimes the judge calls roll. When he/she calls your case (by your name
or your Cause Number), stand up, and tell the judge you are the Petitioner,
and how much time you think your case will take. Then, sit down, and wait
to be called again.
 If he/she isn’t calling roll, then stand before his/her bench when you are
called.
 The judge will swear you in and may ask you to “proceed” with your
testimony or may ask you questions.
 Answer the judge truthfully, courteously, and respectfully.
 The judge needs to know how the other party violated the court order. Be
sure to stick to the facts. Be respectful of the other party. Be businesslike.
 If you have witnesses to call or evidence to present, you will do so at this
time. (After you call each witness, the other party can ask questions of
them.)
 The other party may call his/her witnesses, and you can ask questions of
them.

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Step 7: Decision

The judge decides whether

or not you should get what you asked for. You give
the judge an Order to sign. The order needs to say
exactly what the judge decided.

For Step Seven, you need the following:

 Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order
 Capias

1. After the judge has finished hearing your testimony and reviewing your papers, the
judge will make a decision in your case.

2. When the judge makes the decision (ruling) make sure you write down everything the
judge says. You will need to fill in the Order on Motion for Enforcement of
Visitation Order based on what the judge says. The order needs to say exactly
what the judge decided. You give the judge the Order to sign.

3. If the other party was served with your motion and the Order to Appear but did not
appear at the hearing, you can ask the judge to sign a Capias. The Capias orders
law enforcement to arrest the other party for failing to come to court, as ordered.
Once the party is arrested, you can reset your hearing on the Motion for Enforcement,
Contempt, and law enforcement will bring the party in for the hearing.

4. If the other party appears at your hearing, you do NOT need the capias. Throw it
away and complete the Order on Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order.

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 NOTICE: THIS DOCUMENT CONTAINS
SENSITIVE DATA.

In the interest of (List names of child(ren)): §

§
§ Cause No:
1. ___________________________________
§
2. ____________________________________ § In the __________  District  County Court
3.____________________________________ §
4.____________________________________ § _____________________________County, Texas
§

MOTION FOR ENFORCEMENT OF VISITATION ORDER

1. DISCOVERY LEVEL
Discovery should be conducted under Level 2 of Rule 190 of the Texas Rules of Civil
Procedure. [Discovery is a procedure that can be used by parties in a lawsuit to find out information about the other party.]

2. PARTIES
Petitioner [You]
I am the Movant.

My name is ____________________________________________________________
[PRINT your full name]

I live at ________________________________________________________________ [address]

I am the child/ren’s [check one]

mother. father. _________________________________

I am the child/ren’s [check one]

Joint Managing Conservator. Possessory Conservator.

Respondent
The child lives with the Respondent. The Respondent in this case is the child’s:

mother. father. _________________________________

Respondent is the child/ren’s [check one.]

Joint Managing Conservator. Possessory Conservator.

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The Respondent’s name is:
______________________________________________________________________.
[PRINT Respondent’s full name]

Process should be served on respondent at the following address:

_____________________________________________________________________.
[PRINT the address where you want Respondent to be served.]

3. CHILDREN
My child’s name is/ My children’s names are:
Child’s Name Sex Child’s
[male Birthday [month,
(M) or
day, and year]
female
(F)]

4. JURISDICTION
This court has continuing, exclusive jurisdiction of this case as a result of prior
proceedings.

5. CONTEMPT
CONTEMPT BASED ON DENIAL OF POSSESSION
[Check this box and complete the following section, if the Respondent has denied your court ordered visitation.]
This Court signed an order, ______________________________________________________,
[Print the name of the order that you are trying to enforce.]

on _______________________________________________________________ date.
[Print the date the judge entered your court order. This is either the date you appeared in court, or the date the judge signed the order.
It is usually the earlier date.]

The Court ordered Respondent to make the children available to me as set forth in the
attached order, labeled Exhibit A. [attach a copy of the order to this motion. At the top of the order, write: Exhibit A.]

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The Respondent has refused to comply with this court’s order. The Respondent has
disobeyed the court order by failing to surrender the minor child(ren) to me on the dates
for court-ordered periods of possession and access listed in the attached Visitation
Journal, labeled Exhibit B. [attach a copy of your visitation journal to this motion, which has already been labeled “Exhibit
B.”]

I ask the Court to hold the Respondent in contempt, and to jail, and fine the Respondent
for each violation listed above.

I believe that, based on the Respondent’s behavior, the Respondent will continue to
disobey the court order. I ask the Court to hold Respondent in contempt, and to jail and
fine Respondent for each additional failure to comply with the court order from the date
of this filing to the date of the hearing on this motion.

In the event that the Court decides not to jail the Respondent, or the Court orders a partial
commitment for the Respondent, I ask the Court to place Respondent on community
supervision for five years on release from jail or suspension of commitment.

CONTEMPT BASED ON THE FAILURE TO DISCLOSE A RESIDENTIAL ADDRESS

[Check this box, and complete the following section, if the Respondent was court ordered to notify you of changes in his/her
address but has refused to do so.]

The court orders, attached as Exhibit A, state that “EACH PERSON WHO IS A PARTY
TO THIS ORDER IS ORDERED TO NOTIFY EACH OTHER PARTY, THE COURT, AND
THE STATE CASE REGISTRY OF ANY CHANGE IN THE PARTY’S CURRENT
RESIDENCE ADDRESS, MAILING ADDRESS, HOME TELEPHONE NUMBER, NAME
OF EMPLOYER, ADDRESS OF EMPLOYMENT, DRIVER’S LICENSE NUMBER, AND
WORK TELEPHONE NUMBER. THE PARTY IS ORDERED TO GIVE NOTICE OF AN
INTENDED CHANGE IN ANY OF THE REQUIRED INFORMATION TO EACH OTHER
PARTY, THE COURT, AND THE STATE CASE REGISTRY ON OR BEFORE THE 60TH
DAY BEFORE THE INTENDED CHANGE. IF THE PARTY DOES NOT KNOW OR
COULD NOT HAVE KNOWN OF THE CHANGE IN SUFFICIENT TIME TO PROVIDE

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THE 60-DAY NOTICE, THE PARTY IS ORDERED TO GIVE NOTICE OF THE CHANGE
ON OR BEFORE THE FIFTH DAY AFTER THE DATE THAT THE PARTY KNOWS OF
THE CHANGE.

THE DUTY TO FURNISH THIS INFORMATION TO EACH OTHER, THE COURT, AND
THE STATE CASE REGISTRY CONTINUES AS LONG AS ANY PERSON, BY VIRTUE
OF THIS ORDER, IS UNDER AN OBLIGATION TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT OR
ENTITLED TO POSSESSION OF OR ACCESS TO A CHILD.

FAILURE BY A PARTY TO OBEY THE ORDER OF THIS COURT TO PROVIDE EACH

OTHER PARTY, THE COURT, AND THE STATE CASE REGISTRY WITH THE
CHANGE IN THE REQUIRED INFORMATION MAY RESULT IN FURTHER LITIGATION
TO ENFORCE THE ORDER, INCLUDING CONTEMPT OF COURT. A FINDING OF
CONTEMPT MAY BE PUNISHED BY CONFINEMENT IN JAIL FOR UP TO SIX
MONTHS, A FINE OR UP TO $500 FOR EACH VIOLATION, AND A MONEY
JUDGMENT FOR PAYMENT OF ATTORNEY’S FEES AND COURT COSTS.”

As of today, Respondent has failed and refused to comply with the order and has willfully
disobeyed the order of the Court by failing to notify the court and me of the changes in
residence address and phone number.

I ask the Court to hold Respondent in contempt, and to jail and fine Respondent for each
violation alleged above. Further, I believe, based on the Respondent’s behavior, that
Respondent will continue to disobey the order.

I ask that the Respondent be confined in the county jail until Respondent complies with
the Court order. If the Court decides not to jail the Respondent, I ask the Court to place

Respondent on community supervision for five years on release from jail or suspension
of commitment.

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6. SETTLEMENT ATTEMPTS [Check all that apply but Settlement Attempts are not required in order to file this
motion.]

I have tried to resolve this matter without court intervention.

I acquired Respondent’s present residence address, and sent a letter to
Respondent asking Respondent to contact me about this situation, but we were
unable to reach an agreement.
I attempted to settle this case in mediation.
___________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________

7. BOND FOR CONFORMANCE

I ask the Court to order a bond to secure Respondent’s compliance with the Court’s
order granting possession of or access to the child(ren).

8. MAKE UP VISITS
I ask the court to order additional time when I can have access or possession of the
child(ren) to compensate for those periods denied by Respondent.

9. CLARIFICATION
I ask that, if the court finds that any part of the order I am trying to enforce is not specific
enough to be enforced by contempt, the Court enter a clarifying order that clearly specifies
the duties imposed on Respondent, giving Respondent a reasonable time within which to
comply.

10. PRAYER
I ask that Respondent be held in contempt and punished; that if the court decides not to
jail Respondent, that the Court order Respondent to participate in a program of
community supervision, that the Court order Respondent to pay the costs of court to the
Clerk of the Court; that the Court order a bond or security for Respondent’s future
compliance with the Court’s orders; that the Court clarify any part of its prior order found
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not specific enough to be enforced by contempt; that the Court enter such further orders
as it deems just, equitable, and appropriate for the purpose of facilitating compliance with
the Court's visitation and possession orders, that the Court enter such further orders as it
finds are in the child(ren)’s best interests, that the Court enter such further orders as it
deems necessary to transition the parties back to the previously orders possession and
access schedule; and for attorney's fees, expenses, costs, and interest and further relief
as authorized by law.
Respectfully Submitted,

______________________________
[Print your full name.]

________________________________________
[Signature. Don’t sign until you are in front of a notary.]

______________________________
[Print your full address]

______________________________
[phone number]

______________________________
[email address]

SUBSCRIBED TO AND SWORN before me on this the ____ day of ___________, 20___

____________________________
Notary Public, State of Texas

CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE

I certify that a true and correct copy of the foregoing Motion for Enforcement of
Visitation Order; and Order to Appear and Show Cause were served on
Respondent, __________________________________________________,
[Print Respondent’s name]

in accordance with the Texas Rules of Civil Procedure on this the _____ day of
___________________________, 20________.

_______________________________
Petitioner
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 NOTICE: THIS DOCUMENT CONTAINS
SENSITIVE DATA.
In the interest of (List names of child(ren)): §
§
§ Cause No:
1. _________________________________
§
2. __________________________________ § In the __________  District  County Court
3.__________________________________ §
4.__________________________________ § County, Texas
§

ORDER TO APPEAR AND SHOW CAUSE

Today, the Court heard Movant’s application. IT IS ORDERED that the Clerk shall
issue notice to Respondent,
________________________________________________________________,
[Print Respondent’s name.]

to appear and Respondent is ORDERED to appear, by reporting to:

Courthouse Name:

Courthouse
Address:

Court room:
Date:
Time:

to show cause why Respondent should not be held in contempt of Court as alleged in the
application filed herein.
SIGNED this the _______ day of _______________, 20_____.

_________________________________
JUDGE
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 SAMPLE TESTIMONY, VISITATION ENFORCEMENT

GENERAL INFORMATION
(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

1. My name is ______________________________________________
(state your full name.)

2. I live at: __________________________________________________

(state your address: street, city and state.)

3. I am the father / mother of ____________________________________

(state your child(ren)’s names and ages)

4. That is the Respondent, ______________________,(name) my child/

(state the Respondent’s name)
children’s other parent (Point to the child’s other parent and describe what he/she is wearing).

5. A court order granted me visitation with my child(ren). It was signed on

__________________________ date.

6. In that order, the child(ren)’s mother /father was named the parent who has the right to
decide where the child(ren) live(s).

7. I was awarded Possession in my court order.

(Explain your understanding of what your visitation should be)
(1st, 3rd, and 5th Friday of each month, beginning at _____ time, and ending at _________.....)
(Explain weekly visits, too) (Wed/ Thurs 6-8….?)

8. The Respondent and I have never modified (legally changed) the court ordered visitation
schedule with my children.

9. I have tried to exercise my scheduled visitation with my child(ren) on a regular basis

since the court order was signed. (make this statement only if it is true in your case.)

10. I have not been receiving my visitation according to the court order.

BACKGROUND
(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

1. Was there any time when you did not attempt to exercise your visitation? If yes, explain
why…. (During the period of ___ to ___, I was unable to attempt to exercise my court ordered visitation because
_____________________________)

2. If there were any prior restrictions, did you comply with them? (The court ordered that I _______
before I could visit with my child, and I complied with those requirements….)

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 3. If you had a step-up (tiered) schedule, what stage were you able to complete? (There were
___ number of steps to my visitation order, and I was on the ___ step when the other parent denied my visitation.)

4. Did the Custodial Parent ever voluntarily give you more access (contact) with your child
than the court order called for? (If yes, this may have accelerated the tiered (step-up)
visitation schedule. (The first step of the order required the other parent to supervise my visits, but the other
parent skipped this step and allowed me to spend time with my child unsupervised…)

HAS CUSTODIAL PARENT FAILED TO NOTIFY YOU OF ADDRESS CHANGES?

(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

1. At the time of the original order, the other parent was living at
___________________________________________________ address.

2. S/he is/is not living at that address at this time.

3. The other parent has not ever notified me of his/her address changes.

4. I believe the other parent has moved ___________ (#) times since the original court
order.

5. When the other parent fails to notify me of address changes, I find his/her address by
______________________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________.

6. I do/do not have the other parent’s current address at this time.

7. I am asking the court to hold the other parent in contempt for failing to notify me of
address changes on _______________, _______________, and
____________________ dates?

NOTICE/INTENT LETTER BEFORE ENFORCEMENT

(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

Did you notify the other parent, in writing, that you intended to exercise your visitation according
to your court order?

If you sent a letter, introduce the letter into evidence: (You should ask the court reporter to mark the
letter as Exhibit 1 before the judge calls your case.)

1. This a true and correct copy of the notice/letter of intent I sent to the other parent on
______________ date requesting my visitation. It has been marked as Movant’s
Exhibit 1.

2. I sent the letter by (standard mail, and by certified mail, return receipt requested.)

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 3. This is the USPO green card attached to the letter I sent to the other parent by
certified mail, return receipt requested.

4. ________________ signed the green card for the certified letter.

OR

5. The letter I sent by certified mail, return receipt requested, was returned to me
unclaimed. This is the actual certified letter I sent to Custodial Parent with the green
card still attached.

6. The copy of the letter I sent by regular mail did / did not come back to me.

ATTEMPTS TO EXERCISE VISITATION

Describe what you do when you arrive to exercise the visitation. (I arrive on time, knock at the
door….) What kind of conversation, if any, do you have with the other parent when you try to exercise your visitation? Do
you argue with the other parent at this time? What does s/he do? What do you do then?

______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

PROVE-UP FOR EACH DENIAL

I’d like to tell the court about some specific dates when the other parent did not allow me to
see the child(ren).

Day of week Date Weekly/Weekend, etc.

1. _____________________ date was a day of court ordered visitation for me.

2. I tried to pick up my child(ren) on _____________________ date.
3. I went to _________________ (place) to pick my child(ren) up.
4. That address was/was not the other parent’s current address at the time.
5. I arrived at _____________ time.
6. I was … alone? Accompanied by ________________ (person)?

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 7. The other parent did /did not surrender the child(ren) at __________ time on ________
date.
8. (Explain what happened. Did anyone answer the door? Did it appear to you that
anyone was home? Was there a car in the driveway? Could you hear a television or any
other noise inside?)
9. I waited ________ (minutes/hours) before leaving.
10. Explain what you did after that. (Did you update your visitation log?)
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

Day of week Date Weekly/Weekend, etc.

1. _____________________ date was a day of court ordered visitation for me.

2. I tried to pick up my child(ren) on _____________________ date.
3. I went to _________________ (place) to pick my child(ren) up.
4. That address was/was not the other parent’s current address at the time.
5. I arrived at _____________ time.
6. I was … alone? Accompanied by ________________ (person)?
7. The other parent did /did not surrender the child(ren) at __________ time on ________
date.
8. (Explain what happened. (Did anyone answer the door? Did it appear to you that
anyone was home? Was there a car in the driveway? Could you hear a television or any
other noise inside?)
9. I waited ________ (minutes/hours) before leaving.
10. Explain what you did after that. (Did you update your visitation log?)
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________

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 Day of week Date Weekly/Weekend, etc.

1. _____________________ date was a day of court ordered visitation for me.

2. I tried to pick up my child(ren) on _____________________ date.
3. I went to _________________ (place) to pick my child(ren) up.
4. That address was/was not the other parent’s current address at the time.
5. I arrived at _____________ time.
6. I was … alone? Accompanied by ________________ (person)?
7. The other parent did /did not surrender the child(ren) at __________ time on ________
date.
8. (Explain what happened. (Did anyone answer the door? Did it appear to you that
anyone was home? Was there a car in the driveway? Could you hear a television or any
other noise inside?)
9. I waited ________ (minutes/hours) before leaving.
10. Explain what you did after that. (Did you update your visitation log?)
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

Day of week Date Weekly/Weekend, etc.

1. _____________________ date was a day of court ordered visitation for me.

2. I tried to pick up my child(ren) on _____________________ date.
3. I went to _________________ (place) to pick my child(ren) up.
4. That address was/was not the other parent’s current address at the time.
5. I arrived at _____________ time.
6. I was … alone? Accompanied by ________________ (person)?
7. The other parent did /did not surrender the child(ren) at __________ time on ________
date.
8. (Explain what happened. (Did anyone answer the door? Did it appear to you that
anyone was home? Was there a car in the driveway? Could you hear a television or any
other noise inside?)
9. I waited ________ (minutes/hours) before leaving.
10. Explain what you did after that. (Did you update your visitation log?)
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

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 Day of week Date Weekly/Weekend, etc.

1. _____________________ date was a day of court ordered visitation for me.

2. I tried to pick up my child(ren) on _____________________ date.
3. I went to _________________ (place) to pick my child(ren) up.
4. That address was/was not the other parent’s current address at the time.
5. I arrived at _____________ time.
6. I was … alone? Accompanied by ________________ (person)?
7. The other parent did /did not surrender the child(ren) at __________ time on ________
date.
8. (Explain what happened. (Did anyone answer the door? Did it appear to you that
anyone was home? Was there a car in the driveway? Could you hear a television or any
other noise inside?)
9. I waited ________ (minutes/hours) before leaving.
10. Explain what you did after that. (Did you update your visitation log?)
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR
(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

1. Since the order was entered, granting you visitation with the child/ren, I have noticed a
pattern of behavior by the other parent, with regard to your visitation.

2. Describe the pattern: (These denials of my court ordered visitation began on or around ____ date and continued
until ____... OR …my Christmas visitation is denied every year….) ___________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

3. The other parent has shown a pattern of being unreasonable with regard to my visitation:
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

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STEPS YOU HAVE TAKEN TO RESOLVE DISPUTE BEFORE FILING ENFORCEMENT
(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

1. I tried to resolve these visitation problems with the other parent before I filed this motion
to enforce my visitation.

2. I tried to discuss these issues with the other parent. I sent letters to the other parent. I
asked the other parent to attend mediation.

3. (Explain what happened when you tried to resolve the problems before coming to court.)

4. Have you taken any parent education classes to help you resolve these issues with the
other parent?
Do you feel like you benefitted from taking these classes?
Do you believe the other parent would benefit from taking these classes?

REQUEST FOR MAKE-UP PERIODS

1. I am asking the court to order additional periods of make-up visitation to compensate me
for the times when the other parent denied my child to me.

2. I am asking for ___________ days of make-up visitation.

3. (Describe the make-up periods you are requesting the court to order.)
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________

4. I believe these requests are fair and reasonable and in my child(ren)’s best interest.

REMEDIES REQUESTED TODAY

(These issues may or may not apply in your case. Make only those statements that apply to your case.)

1. I am asking the Court to enforce the ________ order (dated ____) so I can see my
child(ren) according to my court order.

2. I am asking the Court to hold ___________________ (the other parent) in contempt for
each denial.

3. I am asking the court to hold the other parent in contempt for each failure to notify me of
her/his change in address.

4. I am asking the court to assess appropriate jail sentences for each criminal contempt
violation. I ask that the jail sentences run concurrently, with a maximum sentence not to
exceed 18 months in jail.

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 5. But I am asking the court to suspend the other parent’s sentence and order the other
parent to:
 Strictly and fully comply with the visitation order
 Surrender the child(ren) for court-ordered make-up visits
 Post a reasonable bond
 Attend the Cooperative Parenting Program and counseling
 Be placed on community supervision and monitor her/his compliance with the terms of
the court order

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 NOTICE: THIS DOCUMENT CONTAINS
SENSITIVE DATA.

In the interest of (List names of child(ren)): §

1. _____________________________________ _ § Cause No:

§
2. _______________________________________
§
3._______________________________________ In the ______  District  County Court
§
4. ______________________________________ ______________________County, Texas
§

ORDER FOR CAPIAS

On this day the Court held a hearing on Movant’s Motion for Enforcement. Movant

appeared and requested that a capias be issued for arrest of Respondent for failure to

appear.

The Court, after reviewing the pleadings and hearing the argument from Movant, finds

that this matter was duly and properly set for hearing on ________________________
[Date]

at __________ at ______________________________________________________
[Time] [Location]
and Respondent failed to appear.

The Court further finds that Respondent was personally served with timely notice to

appear at the above time, place, and date.

The Court further finds that a cash bond of $250 would be reasonable, conditioned on

Respondent’s promise to appear in court for a hearing as required by the Court without

further service of notice.

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The Court further finds that the request for writ of capias should be issued for the arrest

of Respondent.

IT IS ORDERED that the clerk of this Court issue a writ of capias, directed to the sheriff

or any peace officer of any county within the state of Texas, commanding that sheriff or

peace officer to take the body of ______________________________________________,

[Respondent]

Respondent, and bring him/her before this Court to answer allegations of the Motion for

Enforcement of the Visitation Order previously served on Respondent.

IT IS ORDERED that the detaining authority shall notify the Court of Respondent’s arrest

immediately following Respondent’s arrest.

IT IS ORDERED that Respondent shall be permitted to post a cash bond of Two-Hundred-

Fifty Dollars ($250.00), such sum to be deposited in the registry of this Court and subject

to forfeiture in accordance with law if Respondent fails to appear for hearing on the court

date following release from custody.

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If Respondent attempts to post bond, IT IS ORDERED that the detaining authority contact

the Court before Respondent’s release to determine the date and time of the hearing and

include such information in the bond conditions.

SIGNED on ____________________________________________

_____________________________
JUDGE PRESIDING

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 NOTICE: THIS DOCUMENT CONTAINS
SENSITIVE DATA.

In the interest of (List names of child(ren)): §

1. _____________________________________ _ § Cause No:

§
2. _______________________________________
§
3. ______________________________________ In the ______  District  County Court
§
4._ ______________________________________ ______________________County, Texas
§

CAPIAS

STATE OF TEXAS

TO ANY PEACE OFFICER OF THE STATE OF TEXAS:

You are COMMANDED to arrest: __________________________________________

[Print the Respondent’s name.]
who is the Respondent in a Motion for Enforcement of Visitation Order and immediately

bring the above named person before the _______________Court of

[Court Number]

_____________________________________ County, Texas, at the courthouse of that

[County]
county, in ______________________________________, Texas, to answer a pending
[City]
charge of failure to appear to answer a charge of contempt of court.

Respondent’s Identifying information:

Driver’s License: ___________________________________

Date of Birth: ______________________________________

Race: ____________________________________________

Sex: _____________________________________________

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 You shall notify the issuing court of Respondent’s arrest immediately
following the arrest.

Bail has been set for the release of Respondent as a cash bond
only in the reasonable minimum amount of two-hundred-fifty dollars
($250).

If the Respondent attempts to post bond, you shall contact the issuing
court before his or her release to determine the date and time of the hearing
and include that information in the bond conditions.

Return this writ immediately, showing how you have executed it.

ISSUED on ______________________________.

________________________________

Clerk of the _________________ Court of

_______________________County, Texas

By _____________________________
Deputy

Officer’s Return

I received this writ on __________________ at ____________ __. M.

and executed it on __________________ at ____________ __. M. by

________________________.

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FEES:

Making arrest: $
____________

Mileage: $
____________

Taking bond: $
____________

Commitment: $
____________

Total: $
____________

________________________________

_________________________ County, Texas

By _____________________________
Deputy

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 NOTICE: THIS DOCUMENT CONTAINS
SENSITIVE DATA.

In the interest of (List names of child(ren)): §

§
§ Cause No:
1. ______ _
§
2. _ § In the __________  District  County Court
3. ___________________________________ §
4. _ § _____________________________County, Texas
§

ORDER ON MOTION FOR ENFORCEMENT OF VISITATION ORDER

1. DATE OF HEARING
The Court held a hearing on Movant’s Motion for Enforcement of Visitation on

this date: _________________________________.

2. APPEARANCES
The following people were present:

The Movant’s name is ___________________________________________.

[Print your name.]

The Movant was present and represented him/herself.

The Respondent’s name is _______________________________________.

The Respondent:

□ was present and represented him/herself

□ was present and was represented by an attorney

□ was not present but appeared through his/her attorney.

□ did not appear though respondent was duly and properly served,
and wholly made default.

3. RECORD
A court reporter recorded today’s hearing.
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4. JURISDICTION

The Court, after examining the record and evidence and finds that it has jurisdiction over

this case, the children, and the parties, that all notice requirements have been satisfied,

and all legal requirements have been met to hear this case.

5. JURY

A jury was waived, and all questions of law and fact were presented to the Court.

□ 6. C LARIFICATION OF PRIOR ORDER

The Court finds that the prior order was not specific enough to be enforced by contempt.

The prior order should be clarified. Respondent should be ordered to comply with the

terms of this clarifying order no later than __________________ (date) which this court

finds is a reasonable time for compliance.

IT IS ORDERED that the prior order of the Court is clarified as follows:

______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
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IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that all terms of the prior order that are not clarified in this

order shall remain in full force and effect. IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that Respondent

shall comply with the terms of the prior order that are clarified in this order no later than

______________________ (date), after which these clarifying orders may be enforced

by contempt.

7. FINDINGS
After considering the record, evidence, testimony, and arguments, the Court

makes the following FINDINGS:

□Respondent, ___________________________________________________________,
[Print respondent’s name.]

was able to comply with the _________________________________________________,

[Print the title of the visitation order]

dated ______________________________________________________________,
[Print the date the visitation order was signed.]

but knowingly, willfully and without justification failed and refused to obey the order

by:

□ failing to surrender possession of the child(ren) on the following dates: [List the dates the
Respondent denied visitation.]

____________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________

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 AND/OR

□ failing to disclose to Movant: [Check all that apply.]

□ Respondent’s residential address

□ Respondent’s home telephone number
□ Respondent’s mailing address
□ the name of Respondent’s employer
□ Respondent’s work address
□ Respondent’s work telephone
□ Respondent’s driver’s license number
The Court specifically finds that Respondent is in contempt for each separate violation

listed above. The Court further finds that on the day of this hearing, the Respondent has

the ability to comply with the prior order of the Court.

8. RELIEF GRANTED

IT IS THEREFORE, ORDERED, ADJUDGED AND DECREED that Respondent,

______________________________________________________________________
[Print Respondent’s name.]

is in contempt of court for each separate violation listed above.

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(The Court will complete this section.)

□ Sentence:
Respondent, ___________________________________________________________
[Print Respondent’s name.]

shall be confined in the county jail of ___________________________ County, Texas,

for a period not to exceed eighteen months or until Respondent has complied with the
following orders, whichever comes first. IT IS ORDERED that Respondent:
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________

IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that Respondent not be given good conduct credit for time
spent in the county jail.

□Suspended Sentence/Probation: IT IS ORDERED that this sentence shall be

suspended and Respondent is placed on community supervision for a period of
_______________, on the following terms and conditions:
a. ____________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________

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______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________

b. IT IS ORDERED that Respondent pay $ __________ dollars, taxed as costs, by

cash, cashier’s check, or money order to _____________________________, the
District Clerk of ________________________________________ County, Texas at
____________________________________________________________ (address)
by ____________________________ time on ______________________ date.

c. IT IS ORDERED that Respondent report to the community supervision officer as

follows: _______________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________

d. IT IS ORDERED that Respondent obtain counseling on cooperative parenting skills

from ________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________

by ____________________________________________________________________ (date)

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e. IT IS ORDERED that Respondent pay a community supervision fee of $__________
dollars by cash, cashier’s check, or money order to the Court through ______________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________ during the
period of community supervision beginning on the first day of the month following this
order, and on the first day of each month thereafter, so long as community supervision
is ordered.

□Deferred Sentencing: The court defers sentencing of Respondent until the date of the
next review hearing.

9. ADDITIONAL PERIODS OF POSSESSION (VISITATION)

IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that Movant shall have additional periods of possession to

compensate for the periods of possession denied as follows:
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________

10. REVIEW HEARING

IT IS ORDERED Respondent shall appear on ______________________________

[Print month, day and year.]

at __________ o’clock ______.m., in Room ________ of the __________________________

County Courthouse, located at __________________________________________________

[Print street, city, state and zip code address of courthouse.]

for further review of this order. Respondent has been given notice to appear and

no further notice need issue.

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11. RELIEF NOT GRANTED

All relief requested and not expressly granted is denied.

Signed this _________ day of _____________________________, 20____.

_____________________________________
DISTRICT JUDGE PRESIDING

APPROVED AS TO FORM AND SUBSTANCE:

____________________________________
Movant

____________________________________
Respondent

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BECOMING A PARENT Parents usually GETTING VISITATION If you are a
have some very specific legal rights and child’s legal parent because:
legal duties. These are automatic when
a child is born to two parents who are • you are the child’s mother,
married to each other. But if a child’s • you were legally married to the
parents are not married when the child child’s mother when the child was
is born, the child’s father needs to sign born,
an Acknowledgement of Paternity(AOP) • you signed an Acknowledgement
or get a court order to declare that he is of Paternity, or
the child’s legal father. Signing the • you were declared the child’s
Acknowledgement of Paternity or getting parent in a court order,
the court order makes a man the child’s
legal father when he is not married to you don’t have any greater rights to
the child’s mother. custody or visitation than the child’s
other parent, until a court makes specific
orders about custody and visitation.
SIGNING AN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF
PATERNITY If unmarried parents want In Texas, the legal term for custody is
the biological father to have the rights conservatorship. The legal term for
and duties of a legal father, they will visitation is possession and access.
both need to sign the Acknowledgement To get legal custody and visitation,
of Paternity. It can be signed before the parents have to get court orders that
baby is born, when the baby is born, or name a parent who has the right to
any time after the baby is born. custody and a parent who has the right
to have possession and access
When this has been signed, the (visitation). This can be done in a
biological father’s name can be put on court’s order granting a divorce, if the
the child’s birth certificate. An parents are married to each other. It
Acknowledgement of Paternity can only can also be done in a court’s order that
be obtained from a child support office, establishes paternity, called a Paternity
public and private birthing hospitals and Decree. And it can be done in a Suit
birthing centers, and all local Vital Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship
Statistics Offices (county clerk, city (SAPCR). In Texas, custody and
secretary, or local health district). To visitation are almost always included
find the closest Child Support office or when the court makes a child support
Vital Statistics Office that can help you order.
with an Acknowledgment of Paternity,
call 1-866-255-2006.
OBTAINING A COURT ORDER If you
don’t have an order that establishes
custody, child support and visitation,
and you are separated or not living with
the child’s other parent, you can seek a
child support order by contacting the
Attorney General’s Office to get help
creating that order.

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If you are married to the child’s other you see your children, or the children
parent, but you or the other parent have aren’t there.
filed for divorce, your final divorce
orders should include provisions for your It doesn’t count if the other parent tells
child’s custody, support and visitation. you over the telephone that you can’t
have the children before the scheduled
date and time, and you don’t try to pick
VISITATION JOURNAL If you have a up the children on your scheduled date
court order that gives you the right to and time.
see your children, but the other parent
makes that difficult, try keeping a You must go to the place where you
Visitation Journal. Good records may are supposed to meet and pick up your
help when you try to talk to the other children at the exact time stated in the
parent about the visitation problems. court order and record that event in
The records can be invaluable if you try your Visitation Journal, if you want to
to settle the issues in mediation or at seek legal enforcement of your visitation
court. rights.

The Visitation Journal should include: Witnesses can be helpful, if you’re

forced to take your case to court. Bring
• WHO was there when you tried to someone with you who will be available
see your children (witnesses) to testify in court if necessary. Keep that
• WHAT happened (no one was person’s name, address, and phone
home, cars in driveway, music number. The witness may have more
playing inside…) credibility, and you may have less
• WHERE -- the location where you conflict at your attempt, if it is not
tried to pick up your children your boyfriend or girlfriend.
• WHEN -- the dates and times you
tried to see your children If your order says to pick up your
• WHY --the reason the other parent children at a commercial business, like a
gave for not letting you see the fast food restaurant, you might buy
children something and keep the receipt to show
the time and date you were present.
You should update the journal each time Keep this receipt and attach it to your
you try to see your children (during Visitation Journal.
your court ordered times) and aren’t
allowed to see them. Write your journal A record of at least three denials within
entry as soon as possible, so the event a brief time span is helpful if you try to
is recorded while it’s still fresh. For your enforce your rights in court.
visitation attempts to count in an
enforcement case, you must
physically go to the place where you
are supposed to meet or pick up your
children at the exact time ordered by
the court, and the other parent won’t let

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VISITATION EXCHANGES Living in two If you and the other parent aren’t able to
homes can be very difficult for children, resolve the conflict yourselves, you
even under the very best of might try to get the other parent to
circumstances. It’s even more attend mediation with you. In mediation,
complicated when parents aren’t getting a neutral person helps you and the other
along. Visitation exchanges between parent discuss the conflict calmly and
the two homes are especially hard for rationally and helps you brainstorm
kids. It’s really important to children that possible solutions to resolve the conflict.
their parents take steps to reduce
conflict when they exchange the
children. Enforcement If you try mediation,
and still aren’t able to work through the
Keep these rules in mind when issues and get your court-ordered time
exchanging your kids: with your children, you may have to go
to court to ask the court to enforce its
Don’t order. In this case, one usually files a
Motion to Enforce a Prior Possession
• discuss conflict and Access (Visitation) Order with the
• send someone else to pick up the clerk in the county where the court
children if you haven’t told the other issued your order. You will need to
parent ahead of time serve this motion on the other parent
• bring your girlfriend or boyfriend (this and any other parties in your case.
will likely upset the other parent) You’ll have to set your case for a
• use the kids as messengers to pass hearing; give Notice of the Hearing to
information to the other parent the other parent and all of the other
• yell, scream, or get angry parties; and attend the hearing. At the
• pump the kids for information about hearing, you would present evidence
what happened when they were with that the other parent has violated the
the other parent court order. The evidence would
include things like your Visitation
Journal and witnesses who were
Mediation If things start to get present when you tried to see your kids.
difficult, and the other parent isn’t going
to let you see the kids, leave. Then,
record the denial in your Visitation Neutral Exchanges If the court
Journal. Don’t show your anger or finds that you and the other parent have
frustration. Remain calm. If your kids been verbally or physically abusive to
are present, tell them that they haven’t each other when you exchange your
done anything wrong. Let them know children, it may order you to exchange
you and the other parent have some the children at a neutral exchange site.
grown up things to work out, and you’ll A neutral exchange site is a place where
get to see them later. Ask if you can children are supervised for a few
pick up the children at a convenient minutes after one parent drops them off
place that is away from the other before the other parent picks them up
parent’s home. for a court-ordered visit.

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Unfortunately, these services can be
expensive. The court usually orders
one or both parties to pay for them.

FIND YOUR COURT ORDER The Court

can only enforce visitation (possession
and access) times that were given to
you in a court order. If you need a copy
of your court order, contact the clerk of
the District Court that heard your case.
(Phone numbers for the district court
can usually be found in the directory of
the county where the judge made your
order. You can find this information on
the internet, in the phonebook, or at the
courthouse where the judge signed your
order.)

If you need help understanding your

court order, an attorney can explain it to
you. Some attorneys may charge a
minimal fee for this service. If there is a
Domestic Relations Office in your
community, contact it for assistance in
interpreting the order (if it was issued in
that county) and possibly with enforcing
visitation. Check your local listings for
contact information. The Domestic
Relations Office will not have a copy of
your court order. The Texas Access
and Visitation Hotline might also be able
to help you understand your court order.
Its services are anonymous and free.

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