Viralnomics Final PDF

“The best methods are always
timeless, yet timely.” - @jon_ptdc

“To what extent are
our wants and desires
shaped contextually
by the lifestyles
of those around us,
rather than by any
absolute need?”
– Rory Sutherland
I love this quote, but it’s not quite right.
Allow me to make one very minor adjustment …

“To what extent are
our wants and desires
shaped contextually
by the perception
of the lifestyles
of those around us,
rather than by any
absolute need?”
Ahh, that’s better.
Onward.
Here’s to the forward-thinkers; the ones told that they
cannot think for themselves. Here’s to those destined for
greatness, frustrated by the status quo. The ones who want
to build a dream life. The ones who work to live; to love,
and to smile.
Here’s to those who don’t just want to get by, but want to
do something special with the short time that they have. The
ones unwilling to trade their best years for “freedom” at 55.
The only people for me are the ones who are in this for the
long run. They operate with integrity, passion, and with
pride. They know that life is too short to spellcheck and they
bring a book on the bus instead of shooting pigs with birds.
The only people for me are the ones who know that
emotion trumps all else because people will forget what you
did, but they will never forget how you made them feel.
Here’s to those who know that focus leads to observation

and observation leads to forward-thinking; that the next
best thing is likely no better than that last best thing, it’s
just different.
Buttons change, humans don’t.
Here’s to those not interested in learning about every new

gadget, widget, or whatsinit.
Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest might not be around in

five years, but humans will be. And that’s why without
a keen understanding of human needs, values, and
desires nothing else matters. Because the only way to
do something special in this crazy world is to first move
backward by studying human behavior. Only then can you
innovate.
Here’s to those they don’t see coming.
They wrote you off as being a crazy fool but you are
getting better every single day. You know that the longer it
takes for you to be noticed, the better you will be. And the
World needs more crazy fools like you.
This book is dedicated to my Mom and Dad, as always.
Notes to the Reader
1. All stories are real, especially the stuff about me
refusing to speak in Starbucks’ made up language just
to order a coffee.
2. Instead of cluttering up the text, I decided to omit

references, scientific papers, and further reading
sources from the published book. You can find
all references and sources at: www.viralnomics.com
viralnomics-references/
3. I use the term “the guy” a number of times throughout

this book - it’s gender neutral. I also use “he” and “she”
interchangeably throughout the text.
4. A few sections are similar to ones from a previous

book of mine called The Race to the Top. That book is
no longer in print because, well, it wasn’t very good.
Some sections deserved to live on and are included in
some form or another here.
5. Throughout this book there are jokes. Some are inside

jokes between friends and others are obscure media
references. If you find them, tweet me at @jon_ptdc
and I might send you a prize. If you don’t find them,
take solace that you probably watched a lot less bad
TV in the 1990’s than I did.
Viralnomics
“How to Get People to Want to Talk About You”
ISBN-13:
978-1518880971
ISBN-10:
1518880975
Jonathan Goodman
Our Story Begins in the 1870’s
In a time when the horse and buggy was the primary mode
of transportation, a British portrait photographer had a
silly idea.
Harry Pointer thought that it would be funny to dress up

cats as humans and take pictures of them with phrases
superimposed underneath. By 1884, Pointer had amassed
over 200 different cat photographs.
Still well before the advent of the Internet a scientist put

out a book that would go on to shape our view of the
World. In The Selfish Gene, originally published in 1976,
Richard Dawkins coined the term “meme”. At the time, he
was describing the passing on of genetic code and how
it affects our evolution. Little did he know that his term
would take on a whole different meaning – something that
everybody from friends to Internet jokesters to marketers
would try to develop.
Around 130 years after Pointer’s silly idea, on June 14th 2006,
the domain lolcats.com was registered. The cat – unforgiving,
sarcastic, selfish, playful, and angry – has become one of the
most popular Internet memes. The images are funny and they
make people smile, but so what? What can we learn from
a 130+ year old story that involved a British photographer
doing something funny, a scientist looking for the secrets to
evolution, and some dude who struck gold by figuring out
that people, for some reason, really, really, like to pass along
funny pictures of cats to pass the time?
The common usage of the word “meme” describes an idea

that spreads throughout the Internet. It can take on many
Viralnomics: How To Get People To Want To Talk About You

different forms: it can be a picture, hashtag, video, hyperlink,
or misspelled text. Memes spread virally and have been the
subject of research by marketers because of their potential
to create mass brand awareness.
But today I want to coin a new term – a term that builds

upon Dawkins’ original work – “the selfish meme.” Simply
put, it’s an Internet meme that propagates selfishly.
Every person that shares it is doing so for themselves,
whether they know it or not. As you’ll soon see, the
response to perceived support from sharing these memes
is physiological. When we do it we crave more, and the
process spirals up. Every action that we take online is done
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to make us feel that we are being viewed a certain way –
that we’re part of a group; that we’re loved.
A share doesn’t help business if nobody cares who the

original creator was. I’d take it one step further and argue
that a share doesn’t do any good for the business if the
meme isn’t related to the business.
Nobody cares who creates a lolcats photo. It’s cute and

gets passed around before finding its rightful place in the
deepest depths of the Internet.
What the Mesopotamians and Lolcats Have

in Common
The ancient Mesopotamians are credited as the first people
to build the arch, as far back as the 2nd millennium B.C. Since
then the arch is one of the predominant structures spanning
almost every culture.
The arch can span a wide-open space by applying a concept

called ‘arch configuration.’ The shape becomes stronger
with an increase in compression, and that has made it an
invaluable tool for architects.
Perhaps the most important aspect of arches is that their

concept can be applied to a wide variety of materials. The
specifics don’t matter; leave that to the engineers. The arch
works. The concept has stood the test of time. Human desires
bear a stunning resemblance: we have the same needs that
we’ve always had (to feel loved, and be part of a group). We
also want to laugh and smile – maybe that’s why, 130+ years
later, people are still passing along funny images of cats.

The World will change, but human behaviour won’t. The
biggest mistake that you can make is to attempt to keep up
with new innovations before taking the time to understand
why people use those innovations.
The only constant is that if you try, you’ll be playing catch-

up your entire career, and life. But, if you understand what
motivates people to talk and to share then you can get
them to talk and share with your goals in mind, regardless of
the buttons they use.
This book won’t tell you how much concrete to mix. This
book will tell you how the arch works in order to empower
you to use whatever tools, software, and buttons are at your
disposal at the time so that you’re always one step ahead.
These ideas aren’t new.
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“There are no magic tricks,
potions, or secrets that you can
buy for $27.”
- @jon_ptdc

Here’s What is New...
Unless you live in isolation you’re faced with an onslaught
of marketing messages every day. It takes a lot of energy
to put up a barrier to ignore them.
This exertion is exhausting, and we need a refuge. That

refuge is social media.
Much has been said about the marketing benefit of social

media related to finding, targeting, and communicating
with your audience. To me, this benefit is secondary.
We work hard every day to ignore marketing so that we
can go home and put our feet up to relax. And when we
do this, we go on social media. It’s a place where our
subconscious takes over. It’s a place where we let our
emotions dictate our actions. It’s a place where we’re more
open to persuasion than anywhere else.
The benefits of this when attempting to build a platform,

or influence to sell a product or service, are two-fold:
1. Persuasion techniques are more effective on social

media than anywhere else.
2. If you know what to look for you can easily identify

when a person is in a state of low emotional stability
so that you know when to escalate the relationship
and scale your efforts at adding value.
All that I ask is that you use the material in the following
pages for good.
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PART ONE:
THE CAST
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Who Are They?

As you navigate online social networks you’re going to
encounter some key characters. Understanding who the
different cast members are, and knowing how to best use
and serve them, is an important piece of the puzzle.
So let’s meet them…
Carpenter Ants
You don’t see carpenter ants. They prefer moist wood and
usually reside in decks and porches. They dig nests in the
wood and cut out galleries so they can move from nest
to nest. Aside from being pests and occasionally leaving
some sawdust around, carpenter ants don’t do much real
damage.
They just exist.
They use your home and never say thank you. Without you
(or people like you) they wouldn’t have a place to live.
I Was a Carpenter Ant
For two years, I secretly hollowed out blogs and didn’t

even think about giving anything back. I never “liked,”

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shared, or tweeted a thing. It never crossed my mind to

send a thank you note to the authors, and I never bought a
thing from their sites.
Groggily, I’d wake up and put oil in the frying pan. As

it heated I would turn on my computer and open my
favourite blogs and websites. I perfected the technique of
using one hand to eat my eggs so my other hand would
stay clean to use the mouse.
Like a sponge, I absorbed and adapted much of what

I read. Without these blogs my career would be years
behind where it is now.
Most readers of your information are carpenter ants and

they’re hollowing you out from the inside. Without you
they wouldn’t survive, yet they don’t give you anything in
return.
Whether you work for a multi-national company, a small

neighbourhood branch, or wish to improve your personal
brand, carpenter ants are there. That’s fine – you’re
helping them. The problem is that with only them you
won’t survive. Your success is solely dependant upon how
successful you can make others. If they don’t buy anything
from you, they might know someone who will.
You’ll always have carpenter ants but they aren’t the key
people that you need to help spread your message. What
you need to identify are your road builders.
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The Road Builder

Greg Ohnoez is one of my most important followers. He’s not
well known or particularly well-connected. For as long as I’ve
known him, his Facebook profile picture has been a Buddha.
When I spoke to him, he even told me that his real name
wasn’t Greg Ohnoez -- it’s Greg O’Hare. I don’t know what he
looks like and, until recently, didn’t know his real name. Yet I
have Greg O’Hare to thank for a lot of my success.
Greg is somebody who is avidly interested in fitness. Out

of nowhere, he entered the Internet fitness community
and made an impact. He uses his page as a diary – as a
way to organize his thoughts. He doesn’t care if anybody
else reads it, which is largely why people do. Through
Facebook, Greg plays a large part in how information
spreads throughout the fitness community. He gives power
to many of the top figures in a powerful industry and he
doesn’t even know he’s doing it.
Greg’s goal is not to become famous and it’s not to sell

a product or service. He’s a consumer and wants to talk
about what he cares about and who he loves.

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When Greg likes somebody or something, he shares it.

Interact with Greg and he’ll interact back. Show Greg
O’Hare that he’s important and he’ll go out of his way to
make sure his World knows who you are.
If your goal is to make an impact then find your own Greg

O’Hares – my guess is they’ve been right under your nose
the whole time.
The Sea Lion

My family was on a little fishing boat in the middle of
Alaska. The water was calm when, out of the blue, birds
started to congregate in one place. All of a sudden the
sonar under our boat started broadcasting whale calls.
Bubbles formed at the top of the water and 15 whales shot
out. The once calm and idyllic setting turned into a flurry
of activity with whales getting most of the krill fish.
What most wouldn’t have noticed were the sea lions. The
sea lions stayed on the outside of the chaos and caught
the fish that the whales left behind or flung too far away.
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They knew that by following the whales they’d have dinner.
Sea lions in Alaska are opportunistic.
Influencers have done the work for you. Their appeal and
widespread respect have congregated lots of like-minded
people in one place. When they post on Facebook or
Twitter it starts a flurry of activity similar to a bubble feed.
Why not follow the sea lions’ example?
Instead of trying to get the attention of the influencer

during a bubble feed, why not use it as research? Pay
attention to those commenting and liking the influencer’s
post. These are your targets – not the influencer.
I found Greg O’Hare by being a sea lion. He commented

on three straight posts from three different influencers on
the same day. It was obvious from the start that he was the
type to actively participate and spread information. I found
his network and built a relationship with him.
Success is achieved by finding those that are willing

and eager to share, comment, and “like” your work. Not
everybody will, despite your best efforts. The trick is to
find your Greg O’Hares.

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The Diamonds in the Rough

There are the influencers – but they actually don’t matter
that much.
Find the diamonds in the rough. These are the people

behind the people and the publications that drive your
network or neighborhood.
Want to gain influence? Become a sleuth. Who in the

media has written about influential people in your
industry? They are your targets. Find them, and identify
the areas of their professional lives where they have the
least amount of friction. There’s always a place. Email is
almost never it.
Bide your time watching these people, learning more

about them. Wait for an opportunity to escalate the
relationship.
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Here are a few examples:
 They will ask for help with a project they’re working

on. When they ask a question that you can answer,
respond right away with a recommendation,
introduction, or by directly answering their question.
 They are promoting a product, article or book.

Helping out with promotion out of the goodness
of your heart is your best opportunity to escalate
the relationship. If you listen well, you’ll know a
couple of weeks before your diamond is putting
something out for sale. Message them and ask
for an interview or if you can buy a preliminary
copy for review. When they say yes, write the best
review, article, or interview you can possibly write.
Once you’re in, you’re in. The hardest part is getting your
first major break. Once you have it, use it to get more.
This book will show you how to attract, appeal to, and
foster relationships with those who will share your info. It
will teach you how to establish your network and create
content to spread purposefully through it, finding more of
your ideal consumers.

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The Expert is “the Guy”

Everybody wants to know a guy. When somebody needs
help with something, doesn’t it feel good when you can say
that you know the perfect person for that? Social capital rises
from being able to help others by knowing an expert. Being
able to refer the go-to person becomes a point of pride.
You need to become “the guy.”
The go-to.
The resident expert.
This is scalable. There’s a need for the guy for plumbing,

the guy for furniture, the guy for fitness advice, and the
guy for insurance. Whatever you do, there’s a need for “a
guy” and I suggest you make yourself the guy.
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The guy doesn’t necessarily know more than anybody

else. Instead, the guy is able to be in the right place at the
right time and has a knack for articulating the spoken and
unspoken desires of others who share his or her expertise
clearly, eloquently, and consistently, and becomes the
voice of the network.
If you wish to become a trusted authority you need to

know enough and be successful, but even more so you’ve
got to have an ability to build a following: a following
whose voice you understand and speak for.
It starts and ends with being true to yourself.
What do you stand for?
What do you know?
Draw a line in the sand. There will be those with you, and
those against you.
The expert holds an unfathomable amount of power. The

expert owns the feed.
You must become the expert. “The Guy.”

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Part 1: The Cast

PART TWO:
WHAT’S
GOING ON?
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Why Are You Fighting What’s Going On?

Most people think of marketing as a way of “doing
something” to a consumer. The popular term today is
persuasion – which just seems to be a nice way of saying
“manipulation.”
I suggest something different. Instead of attempting to

convince or dupe an individual to do something out of the
ordinary for them, why not simply facilitate a process already
underway? Consumers have already aligned themselves in
social groups based around things they like, don’t like, and
believe. Give them something to enhance their social World
and perceived social standing in that World.
Mark Earls, author of Herd: How to Change Mass Behavior

by Harnessing Our True Nature coined the term “curating
diffusion” and recommends that we start talking about
customers in the plural – that is, groups of people with
similar interests, beliefs, and challenges.
Earls, in a 2010 paper for the Marketing Society, is quoted

as saying: “Your job, in other words, is less about getting
folk to do stuff and more about helping them to get each
other to do stuff and so on through the population.”
The previous passage holds the key. It’s not about getting
people to do something for themselves, it’s about getting
them to do something that they feel serves the population
as a whole. Before showing you how to get people to want
to do stuff that helps the community, propelling you to
expert status, I want to discuss what’s going on a bit more.
Part 2: What’s Going On?

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The Playing Field Has Become Levelled

Everybody in the same geographic location sees the same
television commercial, or billboard, or sign but no two
people see the same feed.
For the first time in history, an individual has the same

opportunity to gain market share in a select audience as an
industry giant. Every person selects who and what he or she
wants to listen to in their feed.
All you have to do is get the right type of person to select you.

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“There are those who know the

rules of what is possible and
what is impossible. You do not.
And you should not.” Loosely based off of a
quote from Neil Gaiman
- @jon_ptdc

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Filter Bubbles
Media theorist Marshall McLuhan once said, “We become
what we behold. We shape our tools, and therefore our
tools shape us.”
A “filter bubble” originally described by Internet activist

Eli Pariser in his book The Filter Bubble, which came out a
few years before he formed Upworthy, the fastest growing
website in history, describes the personalized search that
results on websites. This happens because of algorithms
that track everything from our age, gender and location to
our behaviours across the Internet.
Amongst others, here are two results of the filter bubbles

we, often unknowingly, create:
1. Confirmatory information becomes prevalent and

dissuading information never gets seen. The result,
in Pariser’s own words, is that, “first, the filter bubble
surrounds us with ideas with which we’re already
familiar (and already agree), making us overconfident
in our mental frameworks. Second, it removes from
our environment some of the key prompts that make
us want to learn.”
2. Loved ones dominate our feeds. If we interact with

somebody, there’s a good chance that we’ll see more
from him or her, and less from everybody else.
When a person that you trust links to a movie trailer, you

watch it when you’d otherwise skip the commercial. When
they tag a blog post as “something I found interesting” you

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read it more thoroughly than you would if you came across

the same article via an organic search.
The feed is the most important aspect of your business.

Gain access to it and build your networks within it using the
ideas that I’m about to share with you. That, and owning
a network is the most valuable asset you can have – it’s
probably worth more than any widget that you may sell.
Content used to be king, but it no longer matters. What

matters now is that your content is packaged and
positioned properly. Don’t try to change people’s minds
right away. Instead, appeal to those who already agree
with you or your position.

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“You’ve got to earn your soapbox.”

- @jon_ptdc

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The Feed
The feed is the most important marketing tool. Those at
the top will become the go-to sources for information in
their community, their industry, and the World.
Miss out on the feed and you’ll be pushed aside, not just
from people’s minds but also from their wallets. Feeds are
turning into reverse search engines showing you what you
want to see before you think to ask.
I believe:
 Referral traffic to websites will continue to grow
making conventional SEO (Search Engine
Optimization) less valuable.

 Those who understand what benefits individuals gain
from sharing via social media will develop into
industry experts earlier and with fewer credentials
than ever before.

 Professional accounts don’t dominate feeds. Large
organizations will be forced to establish
representative personalities.

 Perception of quality is more important than actual
quality when attempting to get material to share.
Information is shared for three main reasons:

1. It’s funny / nice to watch (usually useless to the
creator unless the product for sale is low price and
sold on fear/emotion or entertainment).

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2. The person sharing wants to become part of a group

or strengthen their position within one.

3. The person sharing is either consciously or sub
consciously using the information to selectively self
represent. This is driven by emotion.
The feed is an extension of personal relationships scaled

almost infinitely. And it’s where you should be focusing all
of your resources. Why? Users trust the people providing
information within their feeds.
We’re starting to get into the fun part now, so let’s keep going.
106,000,000
Search “SEO help” in Google and this is how many results
you get. I went back as far as the 40th page and still found
seemingly legitimate companies claiming to optimize your
SEO with the promise to get you on the first page.
Would you go to an SEO company found on the 40th page of

the search for help?
Promises of SEO help are everywhere. You can buy books on

it in stores or download E-books from thousands of different

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sites. It seems to be the game that companies have to win

in order to succeed in the modern day. Search engines are
being used less and less and the quality of viewers from
search engines is poor.
SEO is important for some. Depending on when you’re

reading this, local, niche businesses may still be able to
make a mark with a bit of determined effort. Unfortunately,
the fact is most web experts can make sure you have your
tags in the right place and direct your content creation.
And that’s all I would suggest you have done.
Quality customers aren’t the ones who’ll find you through

search. They’ll be referred to you through the feed and
offline word of mouth. People find what they’re looking for
by scanning their feeds or asking their friends.
They’ve pre-selected who and what they want to listen to.

Getting in the feed is how you will win the next generation
of business, not by gaming a search engine.
And if somebody finds you through a search engine you’ve

still got to prove to him or her that you’re “worth it.” But if
they get told from a friend that you’re “the guy” for that,
then the first question that they ask you quickly shifts from
“why should I choose you?” to “how do I start?”
Search engines don’t breed commitment - they breed

carpenter ants.
The majority of people who find information via search

engines are looking for specific information. They find an

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article, pick the specific information they need, and click

off. They don’t pay attention to the site or the author, and
they definitely don’t sign up for the newsletter. It’s a need-
to-know effort.

PART THREE:
Starting
to Put
the Pieces
in Place
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Your Personal Network

Before you reach a position of influence (and even after you
do) your personal social network on whatever platform you
use is your most valuable business asset. Whether you met
her once at a party or was introduced to him by a friend
while playing golf, that person has reason to trust you more
than anybody else in your industry.
Grow your network by adding every single person that you

meet to whatever social network that you use. Remember
that every person that you meet has their
own network, and every person there has
their own network. And if somebody knows
somebody who knows somebody who
needs a plumber, well... there’s a guy
for that. And you need to be that “guy.”
You Should Waste More Time

on Facebook
In the early 1900s there was an efficiency expert that
excitedly walked into his boss’ office exclaiming that he had
made a discovery.
He spoke of an employee down the hall who was sitting

with his feet on the desk and had been this way for some
time. The expert advised his boss to fire the employee.
Henry Ford calmly responded to the efficiency expert by

saying, “that man once had an idea that saved me a
million dollars. When he got it, his feet were right where
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The need to always appear “busy” is an issue that plagues

society. Wasting time is frowned upon, rightfully so, but are
we really wasting time on Facebook when we think we are?
I, for one, don’t think so.
In 1973 the American Journal of Sociology published a

paper called The Strength of Weak Ties. It argued that
success is more dependent on one’s peripheral contacts
and vague acquaintances than on one’s closest friends. The
paper went on to say that one’s close friends had almost
nothing to do with one’s success.
Malcolm Gladwell’s bestselling book, The Tipping Point, is

based off of the study, and it is the reason why the girl that
you met once at a party five years back that you haven’t
spoken to since but is a friend on Facebook is immensely
valuable to you.
Vice President of Ogilvy UK Rory Sutherland says,

“Facebook is about nothing if it is not about serendipity,
coincidence, the happy accident, the shared admission—
quite simply it’s all about increasing one’s chances of
becoming the lucky victim of a happy accident.”
Your chances of success start and finish with how lucky you
get. Do everything that you can to increase your chances.
Many social media experts seem to be obsessed with the

buttons: A/B testing Facebook ads, the “best” way to
design a page, the best apps and so on. The importance of
the buttons pales in comparison to the ability to get your
users to want to push them, and want to talk about you.
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Metcalfe’s Law (established in 1993) states that the power

of a network is directly correlated to the square of the
number of nodes on that network. Marketing, any kind of
marketing, is about staying at the top of someone’s mind
for long enough so that when they decide to buy, you’re
the first person they think of.
But mindless scrolling doesn’t cut it.
Two things to do:
1. Actively promote someone else every day. It doesn’t

matter if they are in your industry or not. Have a friend
in a band? Promote her show. Noticed that somebody
you went to grade school with just wrote a blog post?
Share word of it.
2. Be consistent and always be helpful. Post one

tip or piece of advice relating to your area of expertise
every day. The goal is simple … every single person in
your extended network needs to know what you do.
Your success depends on whether or not you can stay
at the top of the mind long enough so that when they,
or somebody that they know, needs your service,
product, or whatsinit, you’re the one who gets the call.
This Happens When You’ve Become “the Guy”

One day I was procrastinating getting to work on this book
and a Facebook notification popped up. Somebody
tagged me in a fitness video that I hadn’t heard anything
from in years.

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We went on one date in high school. I was probably 15.
For some reason I became Facebook friends with her some

time in University. We never spoke.
I have no mutual friends with her anymore. Other than

Facebook, there’s no reason why she would ever know that I
have anything to do with fitness. She has never commented,
liked, or interacted with me on Facebook in any way. Nor
have I interacted with her.
But I was the only person she tagged in a video she deemed
funny about exercise. She thought of me when watching
this video.
Unbeknownst to me she refers to me as “the fitness guy”

for no reason other than I’ve posted about fitness stuff on
Facebook.
What does this mean? Maybe nothing.
Or maybe, just maybe, she might, at some point, know

somebody who knows somebody who went to dinner with
somebody who wants to become a personal trainer and
now will get told about my site, books, and courses.
This is the power of social networks. You can’t measure this.

This is scalable. This is an example of what will happen when
you put yourself in the best possible position to catch a
lucky break.

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Professionalism and Privacy

You’ve likely been building up a profile, collecting friends,
and adding content for years. This is now your business
profile. Go through it and delete any party photos and any
content that you deem unprofessional, whatever that means
to you. From now on you will send a friend request using
this profile to everybody you meet.
If you like, and what I’ve done, is to create a separate profile

under a pseudonym. I sent a message to 40 or so of my
very close friends and family and asked that they join me
there. This is where I hang out. It’s personal and it’s maybe
not quite as professional as my other account.
If I’m at a party I’ll ask my friends or family to only tag

the pseudonym account in pictures and I monitor my
professional personal account (the one that uses my real
name) closely.
The Business Professional Page

This is where you create your movement. It’s a gathering
point for your community.
Most business pages have very little feedback. They’re a

long list of posts, articles, or news releases that are ignored
because nobody cares. They are impersonal and don’t
give anything to the reader. Having high numbers doesn’t
matter much. You need a critical mass so that if you do
something that justifies sharing it will spread. Depending on
your industry it will be 10,000-15,000. Once you have that,
higher numbers on social media without a resulting growth in

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interaction (active users) and sales is a vanity metric and not

something to strive for.
The biggest mistake that the owner of a business professional

page can make is to put the focus on the business or brand
and not on the message or idea that it represents.
Why does your company exist?
What does it stand for?
What are you passionate about?
Who are you against?
What are other things that fans of your page might be

interested in?
This is what the focus of your page must be. Your products
come second.
The Personal Trainer Development Center (the PTDC) is

a collaborative blog for personal trainers that I own and
operate. We sell information that helps personal trainers
make more money, help more people, and have more
freedom. Cool. None of that really matters when it comes to
social media.
Here’s what does:
The fitness industry is one of the most persuasive, dishonest,

and untrusted industries in the World. It shouldn’t be this

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way. Fitness is preventative health and personal trainers

are at the forefront of the “exercise is medicine” movement
that is our only hope for reversing obesity and dealing
with overwhelming health care costs. The PTDC stands for
integrity, honesty, and truth in an industry where deceit is
omnipresent.
Broadcasting this message is why we’ve been successful on

social media. You’re either with us, or you’re against us.
Successful businesses are not those that just produce great
products. They’re ones that have customers who care about
them and want to be a part of their movement.
Ideas share from business professional pages if the page

articulates the desires of an audience, and a major way of
doing this is by making them feel a part of your movement.
Here’s a sample of how I might share an article from the
PTDC’s business page:
“If you take personal training seriously you have to read this.”
… and follow with an article about the importance of

researching supplements properly before selling them.
The reason why I don’t just link the article about supplements
and include a line about the importance of research is that
it wouldn’t make me stand out. It wouldn’t give a viewer any
reason to pay more attention to me than the next guy.
There’s going to be a lot of people saying similar things

to you. Who are you for and who are you against? Always
communicate that message. Your content supports it.

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“Emotion drives action. Logic

justifies it.”
- @jon_ptdc

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250,000
Unknowingly, you’ve been building your customer list for
as long as you’ve had Facebook. Some are close friends,
some family, and some schoolmates you haven’t seen for 20
years. These are your primary leads and your access point to
thousands more. If I have 500 Facebook friends who all have
500 Facebook friends, that’s 250,000 potential leads.
Unless you’ve already tapped this massive resource, don’t

start looking elsewhere to do your marketing. After all,
these people already have at least one person in common
with you and that is reason enough to trust you more than
somebody else.
The trick is to avoid coming off spammy. Posting messages

on people’s walls or tagging people in notes so that it
appears on their public wall will get your feed blocked –
quick. Always add value.
Start with a simple “tip of the day” related to your industry.

Make it short and include a soft call to action at the bottom of
each. Simply post it on your wall. The best tips are personal
and no more than 3-4 lines. Highlight the tip as your “______
Tip of the Day” and end each tip with, “If you have any
questions always feel free to contact me.” Here’s an example:
Fitness Tip of the Day: Skin care is much better

accomplished from what you ingest then what you place on
top of your skin. Drinking water, taking fish oil and eating
healthy fats like avocado and raw nuts trumps moisturizers
any day. Feel free to message me if you or a friend ever has
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Even if you don’t get responses, your tips will start to

resonate with your loved ones. Within weeks I promise you’ll
be the one contacted with questions related to your tips.
When your friends are ready to buy a product you’re selling
they’ll buy it from you. As an added bonus, they’ll start
sending you referrals if they hear of somebody interested in
your business.
It’s all a matter of becoming present in the feed through

adding value, not spamming your product asking people to
BUY NOW!
Encyclopedia Britannica
On March 13, 2012 Encyclopedia Britannica announced that,
after 244 years, it would no longer be printing books.
I remember countless nights when I was young lying on the

floor with a random volume I’d picked up off of the shelf. I
distinctly remember leafing through Pa-Pj. One night, while
flipping through the golden-trimmed pages, I came across
a picture of a piranha. I spent the next hour learning every
detail about piranhas.
Information used to be so valuable its edges were golden.

Adults would buy books on instalments because they
couldn’t afford to pay for the collection up front. They’d
proudly line their shelves with an Encyclopedia as a sign of
an educated household.
The joy wasn’t in finding the answer. The joy was in the search.

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Times changed and information became cheap. The CD-

Rom compressed a collection of books into a disc that
was portable. All of a sudden information lost its lustre.
Clicking on a computer can never replace leafing through a
meticulously crafted book. Information gathering became
a need-to-know activity and learning ceased to be fun. A
project was assigned, a mouse was clicked, and a plagiarized
paper was handed in.
In a few short years CD burners came out, browsing speed

increased, and online storage space grew. Wikipedia gave
free access to more information than any one person would
ever need and bloggers all over the World started publishing
their thoughts for free. Information that was once cherished
quickly became ignored.
Information is no longer valuable.
What you have to say is being said for free by thousands of

other people on the Internet. The honest truth is that unless
you’re a leading researcher you have nothing profound to
offer in terms of content.

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The key to success is how you position and package your

information. How much do your readers connect with
you, the author, and what will they gain by passing on the
information? The battle for content is over; anybody can
rehash the facts.
Content’s Fall From Grace

Content used to be King. Once it became abundant,
context took over.
Now content with proper context isn’t enough. You’ve got

to become a master at packaging and positioning your
information.
Make it good.
Know who it’s for.
Know how “they” benefit from it.
“Hook” them with that benefit right away.
Dress it up so that it’s clear to read, simple to understand,

easy to benefit from, and the next steps are clearly laid out.

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“Content” is what’s used to

fill the space in-between
advertisements. Don’t produce
“content”. Craft value.”
- @jon_ptdc

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The Newest, Oldest, Drug on the Market

There’s a hip drug on the market and everybody, yes, even
you, is addicted.
This drug gives us a shot of dopamine, the feel good

hormone. When we get it, we crave more. We spend our days
seeking out our next hit.
I call this drug “IIIAF”.
This drug controls our minds. It manipulates our actions and

affects our interpretation of events. It is the newest, oldest,
drug on the market. Only this drug doesn’t come as a pill and
it’s not injected. It’s invisible to the eye.
Every action that’s taken online is driven by the powerful

desire to appear
Intelligent
Intellectual
Interesting
Attractive
Funny.
The most interesting aspect of this drug is that whether we

actually are these things is irrelevant. You will get your fix if
you believe others perceive you as IIIAF. If I think that you
think that I’m smart, I get a shot of dopamine and I feel good
even if you actually think that I’m stupid.
IIIAF is selective self-representation.

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IIIAF is why people share pictures of their food; it’s the

reason for selfie-photos; and is the reason that, in an
increasingly impersonal society, we’ll continue to give
up our privacy and let down our barriers to marketing
messages in order to get our fix.
IIIAF is also the most powerful marketing tool at your disposal.
Selective self-representation isn’t anything new. It’s been

spoken about in psychological research for years and
appeared in relation to computer-mediated communication
as early as 2007. If you know what to look for, the desire for
perceived social-support is omnipresent.
The easiest way to see what personal or professional

attribute a person lacks confidence in is to pay attention
to what they boast about. Boasting is a compensatory
behaviour. A confident person doesn’t need to boast.
In a qualitative study performed in 2011, 569 Facebook users

were asked why they shared a status update that they later
regretted. Some users admitted to being inebriated, but the
overwhelming conclusion was that regretful status updates
were published when the sharer was in a state of emotional
instability. The status update was created to provide them
with a hit of perceived social support.
Also important to note is that few have the confidence

to start the conversation themselves. In 2010 only 15% of
Facebook users reported updating their status daily. People
want to be heard, but they need a voice to articulate their
thoughts and desires for them. This is where you come in.

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While the desire to gain perceived support for things that

we’re unconfident about hasn’t changed, the advent of
the Internet (and social media in particular) has made two
notable changes:
1. It’s thrust into our faces all day, every day. Much has
been said about the addictive nature of social media.
It’s on our phones and increasingly everywhere and
everything seems to be trying to become social. My
GPS just asked me to rate Costco as I pulled out of the
parking lot. If I had accepted it would have asked me to
share my rating on Facebook. We can’t get away.
2. The age of asynchronicity. When I speak to

somebody in-person or on the phone it’s a synchronous
conversation. You speak, I respond. I don’t have much
time to weigh, both consciously and unconsciously, the
effect of my response or, and perhaps more importantly,
how I believe my response is going to have me viewed.
With text messaging, instant messaging, and comments

on social networks, many now live in a World where
asynchronous communication is primary. You talk and I take
as much time as I desire to respond. I have as much time
as I want to craft a message in an attempt to get whatever
perceived response serves me best. The importance of this
point for establishing influence and power over a desired
network cannot be overstated.
At a time when we have the entire combined knowledge of

all human innovation in a device kept in our pocket and an
overwhelming stream of new information being produced
every minute, you’ll soon learn that silence...

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…IS PART OF
THE MUSIC.

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Duck Lips and Selfies Aren’t All That

Interesting but…
…When you consider that people who crave social support
(those who rank lower on scales of emotional stability), often
in the way of “likes,” are more prone to negative health habits
such as over-eating, smoking, and drinking as compensatory
behaviours, the story begins to get more interesting.
The interplay between areas of study is where patterns begin

to emerge that bear mention.
Social psychology isn’t all that interesting, but when you

look at the carry-over to physiology it becomes a neat
field to study. Now add fuel to the fire by adding in an
element of behavioural economics and you start to see
how all of the seemingly benign behaviours that happen
online represent the bigger picture of what’s going on. The
shape of how to use these things to gain trust and build
relationships then spreads.
Almost all of us have a deep-rooted physiological desire to

feel accepted, both online and offline. Compensation occurs
when something isn’t being met. So while duck lips (that
weird pouty face people make that’s meant to look cute
or sexy, I think, I’m not really sure) and selfies aren’t all that
interesting, they represent a bigger, more important picture.
These behaviours are a sign that the person is reaching out
for support. They’re a sign that the person is missing an
element in their everyday life or relationships.
Not only does social media make sharing less threatening,

but the response to sharing online versus offline will almost

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always be much greater, leading to more perceived support.

Learning to identify the times when your friend group is
reaching out for help and being the one to provide it will put
you in a powerful position. That, and you might just stop the
person from smoking a cigarette later.
The Engineer
“A good engineer takes pride in being lazy for he then
creates systems that do not need constant meddling with.”
- Unknown
There will always be something new and exciting.
Pundits will try to convince you that the next best thing is the
better way. And it might be. Or it might be a worse way. Or
the same.
Here’s what is important:
You need to create systems that don’t need trifling with and
that cannot be affected by advances, innovations, widgets,
or shiny whathaveits that come out. Base these systems off
of building relationships, offering value, and establishing a
power position.
Jon Goodman is...

Perhaps I’m dating myself, but I remember when Facebook
status updates were really about what you were doing at that

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point in time. Facebook forced the word “is” after your name.
How about Facebook groups? Remember them? Lots of
companies do. Businesses spent piles of money building
up their group members before Facebook decided to
““Co
change to the professional page format in October 2010. adve
Group members weren’t transferred to the new pages and
companies around the world lost millions of customer leads.
Pages gave companies the opportunities to design Apps.

This started a new industry of Facebook App design and the
race to get the best landing page was on. Lo and behold,
Facebook decided to change its page format to a timeline
on March 30, 2012. Apps were pushed to the side and their
effectiveness went down.
Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, and Pinterest will change. They

may not even be relevant when you read this. Companies like
Snapchat will pop up and try to make their mark. There will
always be new social networks competing for your attention.
If you try to keep up with all of the current trends and
software you’ll go nuts. Lucky for you it doesn’t matter.
All you need to know is the answer to one simple question,

“Why do people share?” It doesn’t matter whether they
“like,” “tweet,” “email,” “check in,” or “pin”. The concept is the
same. People are projecting where they are, who they want
others to think they are, and what they want others to think
they like. The trick is to make them speak about you using
whatever means they have.
Buttons will change. The reasons people will push them won’t.

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Do you want to be a vet or an animal doctor?

Walking by a bus shelter a year ago, I saw an
advertisement for a children’s educational program that
was supposed to be cute. It featured a cartoon image of a
child saying to her mother:
“When I grow up I want to be a vet. That, or an animal

doctor.”
I expect that the goal of the ad was two-fold:
1. To get a smile from people passing by because a vet

and an “animal doctor” are the same thing.
2. To appeal to parents who want their children to be

successful.
But what this did for me is highlight one of the oldest and
worst questions asked by almost every adult to almost
every child. That question is:
“What do you want to be when you grow up?”
No child has the faculty to answer this question properly.

Their experiences are too small.
The problem isn’t just that children don’t know what they
want to be. It’s that, in asking them the question and
forcing an answer, they begin to identify with a certain
profession early on before they’ve had the time to see and
experience enough of the World to have any idea of what
it is that they really want.

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Information is abundant. We can learn anything within a

matter of seconds. This is incredible.
But it requires one skill.
Learn to ask good questions.
This book is about learning why people use various

networks and how you can use that information to appeal
to your ideal consumers and get them to gain from
promoting you.
That’s a good question.
What is the best type of image to use as a Facebook cover

photo, though, that’s a terrible question.

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“The question being asked is

rarely the real question.”
- @jon_ptdc

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What is True Power?

There are two things to consider when building true power:
1. True power doesn’t come from knowing. It comes from

knowing where to find.
Two of the biggest websites in the World today, Reddit

and Google, are built around a model of helping you find
what you’re looking for as fast as possible and leaving
the site. The result? The sites become trusted. People
come back. And people refer the sites to others. Become
an information hub by helping people find what they’re
looking for and you’ll become an integral, and influential,
part of your community.
When somebody asks you a question about an aspect

of your industry that you’re not an expert in, you should
know somebody who is, and “tag out”. Doing this both
strengthens your position as the go-to for information and
provides the expert who you tagged with social equity.
I’m reminded of a fable involving Henry Ford. In 1919 he

was involved in a slander lawsuit as a result of being called
an “ignorant anarchist” in the Chicago Tribune. And, while
Ford was originally most upset about the term “anarchist,”
the defense focused on the charge that Ford was an
“ignorant idealist.”
The lawsuit became bitter as Ford’s opposition attempted

to prove that he was ignorant. Court transcripts became
popular after it became obvious that Ford didn’t know
the basics of American history (he thought that the
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revolutionary war happened in 1812 when it actually

happened in 1775).
So was Ford stupid? If you judge him solely by what he

knew about history, maybe. But Ford knew that what he
knew didn’t matter much. What mattered was that he had
the resources to find the answers when he needed them.
Build a formidable network of experts in all different topics

around yourself. It doesn’t matter much that you know.
What matters is that you know where to find.
2. True power is maintaining a position of control where

everybody owes you one, and not vice-versa.
Go out of your way to do favours for people. Recall an

earlier section where I showed you how to identify when
somebody is in a low state of emotional stability. Be the
one to support them when they are reaching out for help.
Promote her book when she releases it. Share word of his
new company when he makes an announcement.
Spend time every day looking for ways to do as many

favours as possible. You’ll soon realize that these favours
take very little time, effort, and money, and have fantastic
rewards. All it takes is the ability to appeal to emotion
and, as you’ll soon see, stay at the top of mind as often as
possible by linking you or your company in with something
that is important to the other person.
This is not an overnight process; you won’t see immediate

rewards.

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If you do five to ten people favours every day (and a favour

could be as small as congratulating him when he releases a
book and sharing word of it on your Facebook) then you’ll
soon find yourself in a position of power. And this position
cannot be touched because, in the words of my friend and
creator of MastermindTalks, Jayson Gaignard, “deep down
inside I knew in the worst case, that the bank could take my
car, they could take whatever measly assets I had left, but
they couldn’t take my network.”
Why All Free Samples Should be Served With

a Metal Spoon
My girlfriend and I were famished after a workout and
decided to get some food.
In front of a green sign there stood two girls, somewhere

around 20 years old, dressed in black slacks and white
button up blouses with a tray. On the tray was a collection
of tiny paper cups, the kind they use to offer free samples of
food. As we approached, one girl said “tiramisu?”
We both grabbed a paper cup and looked at the dessert, it

wasn’t finger food and needed a utensil.
“Want a spoon?” The second one asked.
I picked up a metal spoon, gave the customary “thank you,”

and started to walk away but immediately stopped myself.
They got me. I was trapped.
The goal of giving away a free sample is to let a passerby

try your food and buy something. Most times, though, I
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don’t even know the name of the food or restaurant I’m

sampling. If she gave me a plastic spoon I would have
walked away without a second thought.
But convention says that I needed to return the metal

spoon. I was forced to stay. Staring at each other, I asked
about the restaurant. She told me that it was a vegan,
gluten free, Italian restaurant that just opened.
Vegan, gluten-free Italian food is NOT a thing. Gnocchi

doesn’t mean lentils wrapped in lettuce. Sorry.
But we were already committed and hungry, so my

girlfriend and I walked in and had lunch. Thirty-four dollars
later, we waved goodbye to the girls as we left.
Well-played blouses. Well-played.
When developing your message, it’s not a matter of how

many buttons you push or how many messages you put
out, what matters is that you push the exact right button
at the exact right time.
Think – what is it that your reader or prospect wants right

now? What word or phrase will stop him or her in her
tracks? What is the one thing that will appeal to them right
now based off of how they feel, what they already have,
and what they desire?
If you do it right you might just convince a carnivore to

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As Few Steps as Possible

Always consider your reader’s state of awareness. What is
it that he or she wants to know?
Reduce the number of steps as much as possible to help

them get precisely what they want.
An example? Instead of posting your website address in

your Twitter or Facebook profile link directly to the about
page on your site. If a user has taken the effort to check
out your profile you’ve gotten that buy-in, now they want
to know about you and what you can do for them.
Put yourself in their head. Take them by the hand. Guide

them to what they want to see.
The Secret to Selling at a Thai Market

In a hippie town called Pai in Thailand there is a large
market that opens every night. It has everything that you’d
expect from an Asian market – street food, cheap clothing,
and unique jewellery that isn’t unique at all.
In the middle of my effortless market walk where I’m not

quite bored but not quite not bored, I notice that one
booth has a crowd of people buying. We stayed in Pai for
three nights and every night was the same. This one booth
had a constant crowd while the others didn’t.
I investigated. Why did this one booth that sold the exact
same junk as the others seem to fare better?
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After fighting my way through the throng of tourists

earnestly buying up the “limited quantity” inventory (that
would, of course, be replaced with more limited quantity
goods soon after), I was surprised to find that not only was
this booth selling the same chintzy jewellery, but also it
was selling it at a higher price.
So what was going on?
The booth looked different than the others. It had a gold

embroidered wall around it. The owners were smart
enough to realize that if they invested a few dollars in
creating the illusion of higher quality (called “trappings”)
then they could sell the same goods for more money.
Seeing this reminded me of a quote from Nobel Prize

winner Daniel Kahnamen: “people consider a particular
value for an unknown quality before estimating that quality.”
In this particular instance, selling cheap – which is what

most of the other booth owners did – was having the
opposite of the effect. The tourists buying the goods
would reason that the more expensive price was cheap
compared to what they would pay at home.
What do your prospects really desire?
How can you dress up your product so that you stand out
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“Trusting what they’re buying

isn’t crap and that they aren’t
getting ripped off are most
people’s strongest motivators.”
- @jon_ptdc
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It’s an Information Onslaught

In 2003, Google CEO Eric Schmidt said that every two days
we create as much information as human beings did from the
dawn of civilization up until 2003. Since 2003 this process
has compounded. I suspect that now this is happening every
few hours.
More and more consumers are frustrated by the endless

and often incomprehensible amount of information on the
Internet. In Schmidt’s words, “the real issue is user-generated
content.” This means that anybody with a keyboard and
Internet connection can write about whatever they like. It’s
becoming increasingly difficult to “vet” sources and know
who is right, who is wrong, and who is downright nutty.
Your quality product is getting lost in

a sea of noise. Even if you’re good,
and I assume that you are, you risk
being bunched in with people who
aren’t-so-good.
The old school method was to create

more and more good content
and possibly break through.
That ship has sailed. Now
you’ve got to create trust.
You’ve got to master word-
of-mouth. And, this may
surprise you, but most of it still
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If somebody needs a plumber they’re increasingly going

to the feed because they trust the sources providing the
information. It’s easier putting a post on Facebook asking,
“Anybody know a good plumber?” than calling 15 of your
friends or leafing through the Yellow Pages. Better yet, the
post reaches a percentage of all 500+ of your Facebook
friends while your phone call only reaches a few.
A plumber’s job then becomes getting to the top of the

feed for that friend group and staying there until somebody
that they know needs work done.
My guess is that the plumber already has a strong friend

network in the neighbourhood where they work. Why not start
releasing a “Plumbing Tip of the Day” on Facebook? Make
them quick tips that any homeowner can use immediately
after reading. Have a call to action at the end asking the reader
to contact you with any questions. Twice a week, write a funny
anecdote about plumbing on your website.
Be useful. Stop trying to impress other plumbers and get

back to the basics. What you’ll quickly find is that other
plumbers will be more prone to share your simple plumbing
tips rather than the more complicated ones. Attempt to
make it time-sensitive as much as possible. For example,
information on how to prepare your pipes for winter is
perfect just before it gets cold.
In a study done by the Pew research center in 2011, 15%

of Facebook users reported updating their own status at
least once a day while 68% reported commenting or liking
an update shared by somebody else. Even if the other
plumbers are technically your competition, there’s a good
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chance that they will share your post simply because it’s
easier than creating their own.
Search for pages that already service your target market

and send your funny anecdote to them. Page owners
consistently need new content. They won’t all share it, but
some will and now you’ve got an audience of plumbers
who read and spread your content to reach more potential
buyers. And remember the key to staying in the feed longer
is not to appeal to potential customers; it’s to articulate the
desires of people that already think the same way as you.
Don’t market to people who need plumbing every day. Stay
in the feed by appealing to handy-men and plumbers.
The other piece of the puzzle is to become the centre

of information for your industry. Still with my plumbing
example, for absolutely no reason, find all of the plumbing
or handy-men blogs on the Internet and scan them (or
hire somebody to scan them) and post a weekly list of
the “best home maintenance articles.” Email/message
everybody featured.
This does two things:
1. People featured will share the weekly list because it

makes them look good to get mentioned. The list is on
your site. Remember?
2. You build a relationship with all other information

providers in your industry based around your doing
them favours. There’s no better way to establish a
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Soon, handy homeowners will share your tips. All of

a sudden your value and reach grows. This process
compounds until you’re the go-to for plumbing in your
neighbourhood (and beyond).
Anytime someone is looking for a plumber in your

expanded network they’ll ask the friend who’d posted a
tip about plumbing months earlier. Their friend will quickly
send over your name. All because you’ve been able to stay
in the feed until a potential customer needs your services.
Based off of what we’ve spoken about so far, I have two

conclusions of note:
1. Those who can figure out how to stay in the feed

longer, not by trying to appeal to potential customers
but by appealing to those who already agree with
them, will win.
2. We’ve entered the age of the coach. The most

valuable asset that any marketer can have is not to
provide information, but to become a trusted entity so
that they become “the guy” when someone is looking
for a solution to their specific problem.
Emotion is Faster than Thought

In How We Decide, Jonah Lehrer says, “emotional sharing
creates a bond between narrator and audience.”
Emotion drives action; logic justifies it. Target emotion

first. To target emotion, identify the benefits of your product
or service.
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The feed is fast. Attention spans are short. There’s a lot

going on. You’ve got to appeal to people right away or
miss out. This means that you might need to bend without
breaking. The point of your first sentence or first point is to
give you an opportunity to make a second.
Every piece of marketing material that you put out, and this
includes everything from independent status updates, to
marketing materials, to a follow-up email series, needs to
include the following three attributes in order:
1. Emotion/benefits
2. Value/steps to solving
3. Logic/features
How do you identify the benefits / emotional

triggers of your product or service?
In his 1993 book How to Make a Whole Lot More Than
1,000,000 Writing, Commissioning, Publishing and Selling
How to Information, Dr. Jeffrey Lant lists the 10 benefit
categories of any product:
 Financial stability
 Health
 Love
 Security
 Salvation
 Self-regard
 Community and peer recognition
 Independence
 Sexual Fulfillment
 Beauty/desirability/personal attractiveness
Tap into one or more of the above benefits with every “ask”
you make to increase your chances of gaining a lead or sale.
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What are the action steps / value?

Here you give valuable information that helps your prospect
solve their problem. It’s an odd phenomenon, but solve
somebody’s problem for free and they will pay you to solve
their problem.
How do you identify the logic / features of your

product or service?
The features are components of your service that set it
apart from the competition. Things like the specifications of
your product vs. the competition, for example. In his 1976
classic, Breakthrough Advertising, Eugene Schwartz lists all
of the possible pieces of logic or trust elements including:
 Proof
 Statistics
 Testimonials
 Quotes from authority figures
 Tests
 Trends (i.e. social proof)
 Seals of approval/authority
 Awards won
People Love Easy More

Than They Like Cheap
Don’t hide your price. Don’t
make your customers go in
circles in order to buy.
Make it easy, but don’t make

it cheap.
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The Formula
Every good status update follows the same basic formula:
1. Headline
2. Lede
3. Steps to solving
4. Call to action
The headline: This is what grabs the attention of your

prospect. Make it short, hit on the biggest emotional benefit,
and possibly use text decoration to stand out. Putting words
like [Brand New] in brackets grants you an extra split second,
which is usually enough for your reader to scan your headline
and see whether it appeals to him or her.
Make a list of your favourite popular websites and go through

their archive, creating a list of their most popular articles.
Keep all of those headlines in a spreadsheet. When it comes
time for you to write a new piece, see if any of the headline
templates work and slip in wording specific to your piece.
Lede: 1-2 sentences that act as an introduction for the status

that entices the reader to continue. Read any newspaper and
you’ll notice that a headline and lede are present in almost
every article. Many websites, mine included, separate the lede
in large font above the article body.
Steps to solving: Give a little bit of information. Ideally

here you’ll give something that the reader can immediately
implement to have a positive effect. Lists work well to
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Call to action: If you want the sale, or a comment, or for

them to join your newsletter, or something else, ask for it.
Ideally you’ll include the word “because,” which, by the way,
is the most powerful word in the English language. Adding
a “because” statement helps somebody justify taking action
to themselves. So instead of saying, “join my newsletter
by clicking here.” Say, “join my newsletter by clicking here
because if you don’t do anything today, how will tomorrow
be any different?”
There’s a huge variety of status updates. They vary in length

and detail. This overview is a good formula to follow and, like
any formula, you’ve got to know the rules before you can
decide where to break ‘em.
Respect Cognitive Ease

Consider the following two statements. Which is true?
1. The Hoover Dam was completed in 1938.
2. The Hoover Dam was completed in 1934.
Just writing words isn’t enough. You’ve got to write words

that people will believe. In his book Thinking, Fast and
Slow, Nobel prize winner Daniel Kahnamen showed that
we have a tendency to believe and trust information that’s
easier to process.
If a statement is easier to read, it’s more believable. Using

tools like bold, all capitals, and symbols [like this] that
highlight certain text to make it easier to read reduces
cognitive strain and makes your information easier to read
and, as a result, increase the perception of believability.
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Daniel Oppenheimer, in his brilliantly titled study

“Consequences of Erudite Vernacular Utilized Irrespective of
Necessity: Problems with Using Long Words Needlessly,” also
showed that the less jargon and needlessly complex wording
you use, the more believable you are considered to be.
Respect cognitive ease. Keep it short and simple, avoid

jargon and make yourself appear more trustworthy by
appropriately using symbols to highlight your point.
Oh, and both statements above are false, the dam was
completed in 1936.
But if You Want More Sharing…

There are two purposes to a status update: one is a call to
action and the previous formula is a good one to follow. The
other, well, I’m going to tell you a toilet story to illustrate it.
Close to my old condo in Toronto there’s a Starbucks Coffee

shop that is perfect to work in. The upstairs is outfitted with
big wooden tables, there’s lots of light, and it’s always quiet. I
used to go there to work when I got tired of my home office.
After a bottle of water, double espresso, and two hours or

so I’m ready to leave, but first, need to use the toilet. So
I pack up my stuff and head downstairs, walk down the
short narrow hallway and see the two doors. I push the first,
locked. Somebody sheepishly says “occupied.” I push the
second, it opens, WHAM, somebody pushes it back shut.
They forgot to lock it.

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So I lean up against the wall waiting for either of them to

finish and exit. When they do, we exchange an awkward
smile – the kind that only happens when neither person
wants to smile but both people feel bad not smiling.
My final experience before leaving that Starbucks is not

a positive one. I know that it seems like I’m battling in the
minutia, but the last impression that you leave on somebody
shapes their emotional opinion of you.
Now imagine if the person who designed Starbucks had the

littlest foresight and put those locks on the door that show
green when it’s open, and red if it isn’t. Airplanes have got
this figured out. It would remove the awkwardness of having
to check whether the stall is occupied and, for the person
inside doing his or her business, they wouldn’t get the door
pushed on them.
Emotional sharing is what pushes content online. The

last line of whatever message you create needs to stir
something in your reader. It could be food for thought, a
strong quote, a smile, or it could make him or her angry.
Why Do People Comment?

Read through the comments in a thread on any public
network and you’ll notice a pattern: few care about adding
to the conversation or providing helpful advice – most use it
to show off what they know (or what they think they know).
Even on the rare occasion when you write something

that, gasp, people actually agree with on the Internet, the
responses are almost never “great work” but instead “so
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true” or a sentence or two about how the person already

knows and agrees with you.
Aside from pointing out the phenomenon, understanding

that comment threads are yet another place where people
want to show off what they want others to know about
them should help you figure out what types of material to
post and what responses to expect.
That, and the importance of respecting cognitive

dissonance should shape how you interact with your
audience. So let’s talk about that for a minute.
On Responding to Comments Online

If the comment is happening on your platform, then it’s a
power struggle and you start with the advantage. If you’re
not careful you risk giving up that advantage quickly.
Take time to consider your responses and, perhaps more
importantly, who you’re attempting to influence when
responding, and how it will make you appear.
First, never engage in debates on platforms where the

majority of the onlookers are of a differing opinion. Always
aim to take the conversation to a platform that either you
own or is neutral.
According to the seminal observational study of cognitive

dissonance, When Prophecy Fails, the “believer” having
“social support” is one of the most important contributors
to “increased fervour following the confirmation of belief.”
Even if you’re right, debating somebody on a platform

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where they will get the majority of support will actually

strengthen their confirmation, having the opposite effect
of your intention.
But comments can prove a powerful ally for strengthening

your platform and expert status. Here’s how:
Step 1: Always maintain composure and stay devoid of

emotion. He or she who acts emotionally loses.
Step 2: Comment not to convince your combatant that he

or she is wrong. Comment for the onlookers to convince
those on the fence to come over to your side, strengthen
your connection with those already with you, and further
push away those who are against you.
I’ll explain how this is done in practice in a minute. Before

that, allow me to say that the perception of expertise is
more important than actual expertness
online. It’s a sad reality and I hope that you
use the following for good. Only profess
to be an expert if you’re actually an expert
because you can easily lead people astray.
If you were to listen to an imbecile from

England speak with a rocket scientist from
Arkansas then, at first glance, without
weighing the evidence, the imbecile would
likely appear more intelligent. First
glances are often all that
you get online.
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Earlier in this section I hit on the importance of speaking

without emotion. Write full, grammatically correct
sentences. Respect the rules of logic. In a sense, “sound”
more intelligent than your combatant. He or she will
become increasingly agitated, emotional, illogical, and, as a
result, discredit him or herself.
Next, choose your time of attack. In your industry I’m sure

that controversial subjects exist. Your desired audience
will agree with one point. Your job with your comment
responses is to appeal to those who you want to appeal to
and repel all others.
So scan the comments in a thread on your platform and

look for one that opposes a viewpoint that you agree with.
Take as long as you need to compose a full, well-thought
out, and well-articulated response. Post it once, and leave.
Never engage in back and forth because if you do, you lose
power. If you’ve done a good job two things will happen:
1. Your comment will have many more “likes” than the

original comment.
2. Your combatant will get agitated and reply

nonsensically and people who support him or her will
do so in kind.

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“Those who have grown to attain

a stable position of power have
done so through trained control
of their emotions.”
- @jon_ptdc
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Critics, Trolls, and Haters

You could be the nicest, most caring, most kind, and most
giving person on the planet – but somebody on the Internet
is still going to call you a jerk (or, in my case, a “racist, sexist,
communist pig who hates America.” Yes, that’s a direct
quote.) There are three negative characters that will pop up
as you build your own platform. Here’s how you identify and
deal with each:
The Critic: Usually well-spoken. The critic is respectful of what

you say but offers a differing opinion. They don’t fall into the
emotional trap and seemingly want to offer some help.
The critic helps you grow. All of us make mistakes and we’re
never right 100% of the time. Listen to what the critic says
and figure out whether it’s warranted or not. Perhaps you
were actually wrong … it happens and there’s nothing wrong
with it, that is, unless you refuse to admit it and change ways.
The Troll: These are people who take enjoyment in

attempting to agitate others on the Internet. You can usually
identify them because they make up their own words and
often share a host of picture memes.

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The best thing to do with the troll is to simply ban them

from all of your networks. Don’t respond; it’s what they want.
Ban them on social media, put them on the blocked list so
they don’t receive your emails, and block their IP (Internet
Protocol) address from commenting on your website.
The Hater: No matter what you do, the hater will figure out
a way to hate. They hold a grudge and take everything that
you say as a personal affront to them. The main way to tell
the difference between a hater and a troll is that the hater
doesn’t appear to make any effort to seem funny.
Use the hater to strengthen the conviction of your existing

followers. He or she will be emotional and discredit him or
herself quickly. Follow my steps in the previous section and
don’t give any thought to what haters say.
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“I make stuff up. If it works, I

keep it and improve upon it. Once
it stops working, I figure out
something else. If proven wrong,
I change.”
- @jon_ptdc

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Diminishing Sensitivity
A dim light in a dark room gets noticed. A bright light in an
already lit room gets ignored.
To stand out you don’t need to yell louder, you just need to
find the dark room.
People Aren’t That Interested in You

First and foremost, online communities are a place to
hang out. Continually posting information about your
coffee shop is a sure-fire way to get your feed ignored and
possibly blocked.
Write about your fair-trade coffee once a day. Spend the

rest of the time gaining relevance. Or better yet, write about
a relatable funny or interesting story that happened in your
coffee shop.
People aren’t all that interested in your coffee but

aficionados love talking about interesting facts surrounding
coffee, stories about the growers, the health benefits of it,
and learning about the different variations. That, and if they
are interested in fair-trade they are probably interested in
other aspects of sustainable farming or healthy eating. Your
business simply goes along for the ride.
The “like” button (or whatever Facebook has changed it to

when you’re reading this) is everything. It dictates relevance.
Once you “like” a post, both the subject of the post and the
person who posted it becomes more relevant to you.
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When I was growing my fitness brand I recognized that

people didn’t care so much about my fitness business, but
the ones I was interested in loved showing off that they
were somehow involved in the fitness industry or had a
healthy lifestyle.
When I realized that I stopped posting about myself.

Instead I started sharing a healthy diet of jokes,
motivational quotes, thought-provoking stories, and/or
personal funny/relatable stories. All were related to my
primary goal – to become the guy for fitness even if they
don’t mention a thing about training.
Here are examples of similar messages, each written from

a different angle:
Fitness: “The best personal trainers are those that realize

the job is an art – not a science.”
Funny joke: “I was in the gym today and couldn’t figure

out what that buzzing sound was all around me. Then it hit
me – I was doing dumbbell flys.”
Motivational quote: “Well, it may be all right in practice,

but it will never work in theory.” – Warren Buffet
Thought-provoking or feel-good story: “Today my client

told me that she used a ladder to get a plate off the top shelf.
I didn’t realize why it was a big deal. Then she repeated, “I
got on a ladder.” She went on to tell me that she hadn’t been
able to walk up a ladder in 20 years. It’s not all about number
goals, people. Sometimes the ah-ha moments are more
meaningful than weight loss can ever be.”

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Personal/funny/relatable story: “I fell down the stairs at

the gym today. Maybe that extra set of squats was a bad
choice yesterday. Wow, my legs are sore. Anybody else
train legs this week?”
The result was that I had people, some of whom I hadn’t

spoken to in as much as 15 years, messaging me and asking
me for more information pertaining to my training services.
I was referred family members and I started to get called
in to provide quotes for newspapers and magazines simply
because somebody who I knew from somewhere knew
somebody who wrote for the newspaper. You can’t measure
this stuff but the better you put yourself in a position to
catch a lucky break the more often it will happen.
The goal is to appeal to as many people as possible but

not lose sight of your focus. Different people will “like,”
click on, and share different types of materials.
This is where many large companies that use metrics to

dictate success go wrong. Their research tells them that
one type of information shares best so they only create
information in one way. The result is the same people share
it. Numbers stay high, maybe even grow slightly, but the
business is reaching the same people over and over again
and relevance doesn’t spread. Interaction as an abstract
measure isn’t enough; you must consider the quality and
range of people interacting.
Honesty and Transparency

In 2009, Marcus Sheridan was running a fibreglass pool
company in Northern Virginia that was going out of
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business. It was the middle of the financial crisis in the United

States. Nobody was buying pools.
So Sheridan, now known as the Sales Lion, did something

crazy. He cut his $250,000 budget on conventional pay per
click and radio ads and put all of his effort into producing
free informational blog posts on his website. His goal? To
answer every question anybody would ever have when it
comes to fibreglass pools, even if it meant him telling a
potential customer that his competition was a better option
for her.
A perfect example is that his team wrote an article that

outlines the problems with fibreglass pools. Talk about
flipping the script? Why would anybody write an article
on their own website that discusses the problems with
the product that they sell? Another article that I found is
called “Trilogy Casini vs. Greco Rectangular Fiberglass Pool
Comparison.” I don’t know what those words mean, but for
somebody in the middle-to-late stages of installing a pool
this might be an important comparison to consider and is
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Take a day and write down every question that you’re asked
about your product or service. If you have a team, ask them
to do the same. Compile a master list of the questions and
simply write the answers to each. Compile every answer into
its own blog post or send it to a copywriter to formulate
them into blog posts if you have the means, and publish
them all.
Do this and not only will you become the most honest and
transparent company in your industry, but you’ll also become
the resident experts because, by sharing your knowledge,
knowledge that all companies who do what you do might
have, you’ll be seen as the expert.
Exclusion
Red Bull excludes most of the population in their marketing.
They’re extreme. Yet their energy drink flies off of the shelves
even though it costs more than the competition.
If Red Bull tried to appeal to everybody they’d appeal to

nobody. This is one of the secrets to their success. If you’re
into extreme sports you drink Red Bull.
Let’s go back to your blog, err... I mean your movement. Why

do you care about it? Is it because you’re fed up with other
real estate agents ripping off their clients?
Exclude the bad real estate agents from reading your posts.
Include lines like, “if you don’t care about your clients, click
off this site right now and never come back.” Commitment
level to your site will increase because now your content
stands for something.
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You can bet proud real estate agents who are fed up
with the dishonesty in their industry will jump at the
opportunity to share your material.
Once someone hits your site they need to know four things
within less than a second:
1. What it is.
2. Who the site is for.
3. How they will benefit.
4. Why they should care.
At the top of your site and all of your platforms you should
have a mission statement of sorts. The Personal Trainer
Development Center’s is:
“The world’s largest independent community of personal

trainers. We’re Dedicated to Improving the Perception of
the Industry, and Your Success.”
When somebody new hits your site and knows nothing

about you, you’ve got very little time to “hook” them into
wanting to learn more.
Consider the PTDC’s statement above. Immediately upon

reading the two sentences you know:
1. What it is: A community.
2. Who it’s for: Personal trainers.
3. How they will benefit: It’ll help them succeed.
4. Why they should care: Improve the perception of
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Traction
A carpenter ant can be converted into a buyer, but you’ve
usually got to generate traction out of them first.
Generating traction online is comprised of a series of “buy-

ins” and with each one the user learns more about who
you are and what you can do for them. A buy-in can be a
number of things. For example,
 Reading a second article.
 Opting in to a social media network (liking your
Facebook page, following you on Twitter/Linkedin
Pinterest/Instagram, etc.).
 Opting in to your email list.
 Emailing you.
 Reading your about page.
Your job in designing your site and crafting your

information is to provide your user with a logical next
step – the second buy-in (reading the article that initially
attracted them is the first) – that begins to generate
traction with those that you want to serve.
Know where your user is coming from. If somebody hasn’t

heard of you yet and you get any kind of search engine
traffic, then the second place that they’ll go to after reading
your article is your “about” page. The about page is not
about you, it’s about what you can do for your reader. It is
also usually the highest trafficked page on your site of new
users. That, and it should be your best lead generator.
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Write your about page like a mini-sales letter.

1. Benefit-rich headline and lede.
2. Value
3. Logic
4.
Multiple calls-to-action to additional sources of
“buy-ins” to generate traction throughout (Facebook
like, email opt-in, Twitter follow, etc.).
Have a headline that hooks a reader identifying the major

benefit that you solve.
Follow with a lede – a few more sentences on the problem,

or problems, and why they are important to your ideal
customer.
Follow with a few things to do immediately to solve it. Link to

some content if you like.
Follow with proof elements or logic: such as testimonials,

awards, etc.
And, throughout the entire thing, include multiple places for

the user to commit further to you by “liking” your Facebook
page, joining your email list, or wherever else you’ve provided
yourself an opportunity to continue following up.
Feel free to check out the PTDC’s about page for an example
at www.theptdc.com/about-us/
Viral Video
Videos share well. But is creating a viral video a sure-fire
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If you’re a performer, then a viral video can make or break

your career. What about other businesses? I was surprised
at the instant drop-off in views on various YouTube
channels that had been successful in hosting viral videos.
The pattern was always the same, 3,000-4,000 views on

all of the videos leading up to the viral one consisting of at
least 800,000 views. After the one success, however, views
dropped back down to about 500 each.
This pattern tells me two things:
1. A small percentage of people actually check out the

makers of the videos to see what they’re all about.
They watch 2-3 previous videos before clicking off.
2. Nobody cares about future projects if they’re

unrelated to the original video.
There are a few examples of videos that have launched

successful companies. I’m not saying don’t do it, but
don’t base your businesses success off of trying to go
“viral.” Instead, use video as a medium to appeal to your
ideal viewer.
My suggestion is to look at video the same way you look

at blog posts. Entertain first, but add in some education to
show what your company or brand is about. Speak not just
about your product, but about everything that your ideal
consumer is interested in. The goal is to connect with your
potential customer, not attract video carpenter ants.
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Jack of All Trades

Choose one medium and make it your focus.
If you want to write, create videos that support your

blog. If you decide to make videos, use the blog posts to
support the video. If you podcast, then use your writing
and video to support your podcast. Have one central
gathering place and use all other types of media to feed
into it.
Trying to do too many things at once early on causes too

much dissipation. Later, once you’ve built up a platform,
you can begin to work on multiple mediums at once. Focus
on what you do best and what energizes you for now.
Focus
We were riding our bikes through the Santa Teresa
National Park in Uruguay. Buzzing down a hill enjoying the
wind on my face, something smacked my cheek. I stopped,
and then I saw them.
Thousands of dragonflies; it was a beautiful sight. Cars

whizzed by not noticing a thing. I would have whizzed by
not noticing a thing. But when I stopped and focused it
appeared – a whole world that would have passed me by.
When you stop and focus you see things that others don’t.
That’s how you get ahead.
Not by reading books. Not by consuming more

information. And not by thinking that you need to do “one
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more thing” and everything will work out. It’s by stopping

to focus. To think.
Our need to focus hasn’t changed. What has is the amount

of distraction that we face.
The New Search

Feeds have become
really good at reverse-
engineering search.
Everything from your
age, gender, and
location to your
click signals (actions
you take online)
are tracked and a
profile is being built
about you. Advertisers
use this, but so does
everyone from Google to
Facebook and Amazon.
So while you might still type in

a keyword to search on any of the sites I
listed above, the results that you get in response will be
different to mine. They are specific to you. Not only that,
but the sites that have an existing feed have become really
good at showing you what you want to see before you
even ask for it.
Earlier I spoke about the filter bubble phenomenon – we see

what the system has predetermined that we want to see.
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The Intangible Element

You need one thing.
An intangible element – it sets you apart.
This one thing doesn’t have to be different or unique from

your competition, although it could be, it just needs to be
your thing.
The intangible element does two things:
1. It gives people a reason to talk about you rather than

somebody else.
“This widget’s great. It has an auto clean feature so I don’t

need to wash it by hand.”
2. It helps a person justify a buying decision both to

themselves and to others.
Buyer’s remorse doesn’t just happen after a purchase – the

anticipation of it might stop the transaction from taking
place. And buyer’s remorse depends more on whether
somebody feels like others will view him or her as stupid
for purchasing, not just what they themselves think. An
intangible element enables a buyer to feel like they can
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Find your intangible element. Here are a few examples of

categories:
 Specific specs (especially with electronics).
 Qualifications / awards won by you or your company.
 A specific feature (doesn’t have to be unique) of your
product. A famous example is the Blendtec Blender
being able to blend anything in their now-famous “Will
It Blend” videos. This isn’t unique to them, but they
made it theirs.
What’s your intangible element?
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“Always remember that trusting

what they’re buying isn’t crap
and that they aren’t getting
ripped off are most people’s
strongest motivators.”
- @jon_ptdc

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Perceived quality
The success, or failure, of a blog post, status update, or
any other type of material that you produce online is
dependent on a few factors, and one of them is perceived
quality. Notice that I said ‘perceived’ and this has created
some issues. Actual quality doesn’t have as much of an
impact as it should in terms of how much the message or
content gets passed around.
A common piece of bad advice is to keep your writing

short because short writing gets read more. This may be
true, but it also gets shared less. I hate to say it, but the
goal of your free front-facing material (blog post, social
media status update, podcast, YouTube video, etc.) is that
it works for you.
In other words, your front-facing content has a job to

do. Its primary job is to find people, or appeal to existing
people, by piquing their interest and acquiring their buy-in
(for example: signing up to a mailing list to learn more or
joining your Facebook community.)
It’s when they opt-in to learn more that you hit them
with your high-value materials. These materials are
generally more thorough and don’t need to follow many
of the “rules” I outline in this book. In a sense, the point
of any front-facing materials is to create the perception
of expertise to enable you an opportunity to prove your
expertise later. Flip the script and you’ll have a hard time
gaining traction. Not to say that it cannot be done but you
will have a harder time.
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There are three main ways to create a perception of quality

on the front end. (Note: if you’re already an influential expert
then these things matter less because people generally
already trust you and are willing to share your work):
1. Length: 1,800-3,500 words for a blog post seems to

be the sweet spot. Still, don’t be verbose for the sake
of being verbose. Keep it as short as possible and as
long as necessary. Just don’t think that blog posts
need to be short because peoples’ attentions spans
are short. Accept that most won’t carefully read your
blog post no matter how short you make it. Its job is to
appeal, so that people become more interested and
decide to invest the time to read your more premium
materials or dedicate more time to investigating your
company.
2. Sources: Back up your statements with research if

possible and link to sources or others as much as
possible. If you’re making a claim and nobody knows
who you are, the hope is that they will trust at least
one of your sources enough to feel confident in
passing along your material.
3. Borrowing Legitimacy: The most common way to

do this is to quote other experts. You can also create
legitimacy by giving your work titles. For example, I
had a referral system that I described, and suggested
that personal trainers follow. I called it the “referral
ensure” system. The minute something has a name
it seems like a thing. Even a name as terrible as
“referral ensure” seemed to work.

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I’m not saying that you shouldn’t always strive to put out
the best material possible. Far from it. Understanding the
purpose for each type of content will help you make your
work more effective.
The only real exceptions to this rule are sites that already
have a large/dedicated audience. With an established
critical mass of followers actual quality should definitely be
the first and only priority.
Speaking of that, every piece of content that you publish

fits into one of three categories …
The Three Things Every Good Page / Blog Has

Successful content marketing, be it video, audio, or written,
requires three distinct types of content. They are:
Viral: Anything that elicits an emotional response will share

well. Jonah Berger, a professor at the Wharton School of
Business and author of Contagious: Why Things Catch
On, has shown that activating emotion and physiological
arousal leads to a significant bump in virality. Both
happiness and anger are good. Also consider IIIAF. If you
can make somebody happy and give her a tool to project
to her audience that she appears intelligent, intellectual,
interesting, attractive, and/or funny then the chances that
you’ll get an increase in your vanity metrics such as “likes”
and page views will improve. This isn’t to say that you’ll go
viral every time but there are certainly guidelines to follow.
Often times the right answer is one that takes the middle
ground. If you already have a strong audience then you
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can go viral right up until the final node on your existing

network by viewing a topic from all angles. Just don’t
expect it to share well beyond people who haven’t yet
heard about you. With all of this having been said, you
don’t necessarily want to go viral most of the time anyway.
Value-Add Posts: These are posts that are meant to give

value to your existing followers but will not spread virally.
Don’t expect them to increase your numbers, but they add
sensational value to your existing audience and help to
establish you as the go-to for your subject.
Calls To Action: This is where you try and get a follower to

join an email list or buy a product. For front-facing content
this is usually an “ask” to get somebody to join an email
list or enter in his information so that you can follow up. A
specific call to purchase something may also work if it’s a
low-priced offer.
There is no one best ratio of these three types of content.

That, and it will change as your audience grows. At
the beginning, for example, value-add posts aren’t as
important for no other reason than you have nobody to
add value to. As such, your ratio should be closer to 80 : 10
: 10 viral : value : action.
But then take someone in my position with the Personal

Trainer Development Center. The site already has a large
audience with a strong community. Additionally, I’ve put
pieces in place to gain new readers that work for me every
day (my books, guest appearances all over the net, paid
ads, and a huge archive of content that shows in various
searches or gets passed along). As such, my priority with

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the front-facing blog has shifted. I no longer work to get

new viewers for two reasons:
1. It happens organically and,

2. I already have more readers and potential customers
than I’ll ever need in many lifetimes.
My priority is not to get more people, it’s to convert my

existing readers into higher-levels of readiness to buy a
product of mine if it solves one of their problems. As such,
the ratio of content that I produce is closer to 10 : 70 : 20
viral : value : action.
The New York Times

One of the most fascinating developments in recent times
has been the emergence of the blog. What started as
an obscure information source used primarily by early
adopters has now become the most widespread and
powerful source of information.
Some argue that blogs have killed the newspaper. I don’t

agree. Blogs have forced the newspapers to evolve, and
the New York Times is a perfect example.
The newspaper has been continuously published since

1851 under its current name and has won an astounding 114
Pulitzer Prizes. Throughout modern history it’s been one of
the most trusted sources of information in the world.
It’s interesting that the most popular content on the

website is almost entirely the blogs. In fact, at the time of
writing this book, a tab on the front page on nytimes.com
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includes the three headings: Most E-Mailed, Most Viewed,

and Recommended for You and a link to the opinion
pages. If it’s clear to the newspapers what type of material
readers prefer, why are most companies still printing
boring, factual articles?
Heck, the New York

Times even subscribes
to Google Ads. Now I
can get a ripped six-
pack while reading
an editorial on the
Republicans’ position
for the upcoming
election.
As Ryan Holiday points out in his book, Trust Me, I’m Lying:
Confessions of a Media Manipulator, ads are what pay the
bills and page views are what drive ad revenue.
It’s an archaic and inherently broken model that self-

selects for sensationalistic writing, polarizing “link-baiting
articles”, and breaking, poorly-researched, news. It’s no
longer about producing the best content, or substantive
writing, something that the NY Times has become known
for; it’s about producing the type of content that will get a
lot of views.
Blogs started as a place where outsiders could ramble

on about obscure points (funny enough, Jorn Barger,
largely credited with creating the term weblog hated the
sound of “blog.” He capitalized the word in two places,
WebLog, because, in his words, “the syllable ‘blog’ seemed

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so hideous.”) Nowadays, blogs are the primary source of

information passage in the world. Most modern companies
have accepted their need for a blog but don’t know where
to start.
Blogs are personal. Readers must relate and connect to the

content. They must care. And blogs can’t survive based off
of page views – because when they do, quality goes down
and everybody loses.
The model for making money from a blog and/or news

source must evolve. Front-facing material on a website is a
place to gather people who believe in what you believe in
and entice them to invest in a premium offering. As pay-
per-click money continues to go down, you need to build
out a source of information that people care about, and
this all comes down to what they feel it says about them.
Your Morning Oatmeal

There comes a time in every man’s life when he stops
measuring his oatmeal.
A time when he realizes that a little more water or a few

less oats won’t make much of a difference.
What matters is that the oatmeal is made every morning,

rain or shine.
Stop worrying whether or not what you’re doing is the

best way. There might be a best, and there might not.
What really matters is that you keep on showing up.
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Is this Über-Rational Secret Society Killing

Creativity?
Mass rationality is an onslaught that is being brought forth
by an evil group gaining power called the Arithmocracy
(named by Anthony Tasgal in his award winning paper
called “The Science of the Brands: Alchemy, Advertising
and Accountancy”).
According to Rory Sutherland, the arithomocracy is “a

powerful left-brained administrative caste which attaches
importance only to things which can be expressed in
numerical terms or on a chart.”
The accessibility of information and analytics allows

companies to predict, measure, and strategize better than
ever before but it’s doing more harm than good. Vanity
metrics are omnipresent and they take up valuable mental
capacity, time, and money to spend, track, and attempt
to improve. Some examples are Facebook ‘likes,” website
views, and total free downloads.
According to New York Times Bestselling author Eric Ries,

“the only metrics that entrepreneurs should invest energy
in collecting are those that help them make decisions.”
Keep it simple. Choose one or two actionable metrics and

base your success off of them. Two examples might be:
active users and, of course, sales. If your company has the
resources to measure more and you feel like sales funnel
metrics and A/B split-testing of certain pages or features of
pages are important, then they could prove useful but you’ve
got to have a lot of traffic to guarantee reliable results.

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If you’re just starting out though, then your job is to

produce great work, not get caught up in measuring.
Don’t let the arithmocracy get to you. We’ve lost too many
already to the cult of rationality.
The Age of Infotainment

Websites that contain high quality information are
dying. For a site to succeed, it needs to master the art
of infotainment and establish what the right balance is.
Always strive to provide the best content that you can, but
know what the goal of your different types of content is. I
spoke earlier about the three types of content that every
site has: value, viral, and call to action.
High quality information usually stays dormant unless

strong influencers share the material. Even then, unless
it truly is something special, it’s not read thoroughly on
the Internet. When trying to get material to spread the
perception of quality is unfortunately more important than
actual quality. This explains to a large extent why long-
form posts with lots of references do in fact share better.
Maybe your split should be 80% entertainment and 20%

information, or 60/40. Whatever it is, show your personality.
Pressing the share button has become a way to show

off to the world what you want others to think of you.
This means that profound information doesn’t share well.
Nobody wants to show off that they’re ignorant towards a
subject unless that subject is truly spectacular.
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SEO Content
What’s a more engaging title? “Tax help: a blog about how
to get help with tax” or “How Jeff saved himself from a tax
crisis and how you can too in 3 easy steps”?
I’d read the second article. Problem is SEO (search engine

optimization) pundits will tell you to write the first because
it ranks better in Google.
I know one thing about Google’s algorithm. They currently

have a room filled with the most brilliant
people on the planet figuring out
how to enable good information
to flourish. Their goal is to punish
spammers and marketers
with poor information. And
you know what?
They’re going to succeed.
Remember when you

used to see Answers.com
or Yahoo answers show up first
in every Google search you did?
When was the last time you saw
either of these sites?
Google is optimizing for high quality content and lots of

interaction. This is perfect if you’re passionate about your
subject. The best part is that they’re making it harder and
harder to cheat. If you want your message to get out it
must be commented on, shared, and read by real people –

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not bots and not outsourcing companies in India that will

“like” your post 40 times for $20/month (yes, this stuff
exists and it’s more prevalent than you think).
Moving forward SEO tricks will be less important. What will

matter is that you get your meta-tags and titles on your
sites (any SEO expert will be able to help you with this).
Add to this the obvious fact that you’re writing content for
your readers. The goal is to get them to share it with their
trusted network. They’re not going to share your spam,
and the only people who will find it are the carpenter ants
in the information gathering stage. To win, you’ve got to
stay in the feed long enough so that when people are
ready to buy you’re the first person that they think of.
Post Less and Promote More

If you’re new, there’s no point in publishing a ton of value-
laden material because no one will see it. Revisit your ratio
of value : viral : action I’ve discussed a few times in this book.
When you’re starting out, post less and promote more.
Spend your time writing 1-3 really good posts each month
and promote the heck out of them. Find groups related to
your niche and network, attend events, reach out to other
bloggers and add value, do anything you can to get an
audience back to your site. Once you have a good readership,
you can choose whether or not to post more often.
Another great strategy is to create content for a specific

niche. Instead of writing an article on fat loss, write an
article on fat loss for lawyers. Then promote it by seeking
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out all of the groups already developed that serve lawyers

and send them the article to share with their audience. It
takes some legwork, and lots of people will ignore you and
say no when you ask them to share your material. But some
will say yes, and that makes it all worth it.
Inherent Value
Packaging largely determines value. We have pre-existing
notions of what is worth money and how much. And it has
much less to do with logic than you may think.
If you want a newspaper and you walk into a store, you
wouldn’t think twice about paying a few dollars for the
current issue. Yet when a news outlet asks for a few dollars a
month for a subscription that not only provides digital access
to each current issue, but also to the entire archive, the
response is to click away and sometimes even cry foul.
Blog posts don’t have much value. Attempting to get people

to register for a monthly membership and hiding your best
material behind a paywall will limit your growth. The value of
your site and network has much more to do with how big and
dedicated you can grow it versus how much money you can
make from it today. Instead of hiding your best stuff behind
a paywall and then creating even more material to appeal to
people who will hopefully pay you to see it, publish your best
stuff. Let it work for you to bring in readers.
The key to content marketing is to become a master at

repurposing content. Here’s a number of different options to
package the material from your best blog posts into products
for sale that people are willing to pay for (vs. blog posts that
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1. Hire an editor to take your best blog posts and

assemble them into a book (you will probably have to
fill in some blanks). Create a Kindle and audio version
of the book as well.
2. Choose 1-3 different topics that you write about a lot

and create an audio course with more detail than what
is in your blog posts.
3. Choose the one topic that you know best and create a
full video course going into a lot of detail on it.
4. Host digital webinar events where people pay a fee to

log on for you to teach them.
5. Record these webinars and sell the recording either as

a one-off or as a box set.
6. Schedule live events.
7. Develop a high-level coaching program walking people

through the action steps in your blog posts.
Action!
Nick Tumminello is a top strength coach who has built a
killer reputation on the Internet. So much so that he sold
his business in Baltimore and moved to Florida to focus on
developing his Internet presence. He still trains select clients
but has released a few successful books, travels the globe
speaking, and creates DVDs and digital books sold via the
Internet. He does this all from his beachside apartment.
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Nick’s got one rule and I’m proud to say that, after speaking
with him, I’ve adopted his rule:
Every post must have at least one actionable step that

the reader can immediately take to solve the problem
from the post.
Here’s a simple example:
“Water does so much more than simply hydrate you. It

boosts energy, revs the metabolism, and nourishes the
skin. For most 8 glasses of water a day is enough, which
comes to about 1.9 litres.
Here’s an easy way to keep track of your water intake:

Carry a 500ml bottle with you with 4 elastic bands
wrapped around. After you finish a bottle, take off a band
and refill the bottle. At the end of the day you should have
removed all 4 bands.”
Novel idea isn’t it? Problem + solution = post. Makes sense

to me.
Who Are You Writing For?

Are you writing what you want to write or
what you think you should write?
The Dreaded Blank Piece of

Paper
There’s nothing more intimidating than
a blank page. Writing high quality blog

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posts is hard. Here’s a great template for writing a quality

article (or even a great status update):

1. Tell a story (make it personal).

2. Highlight the problem from the story.

3. Restate the problem in more general terms.

4. Outline the steps to a solution.

5. Conclusion.
A couple notes here:
First off, the conclusion is not a simple wrap-up of the

article. That’s a copout. Leave the reader with some food
for thought. A motivational phrase works well, as does
wrapping up the story from step 1.
Next, try to pick out obscure references in your story for

your reader to connect with. If you’re speaking about a fat
loss workout, joke about an infomercial from years back,
like Jane Fonda. It’ll give the reader something to laugh
about and also open up the opportunity to end the post
by relating back to the Jane Fonda workout. With every
status update and blog post try to have one ‘sticky’ point
or reference that jumps out of the page, or screen.
Instead of staring at a blank piece of paper write down my

five steps on a pad of paper. Use point form to fill them in.
Then, as you write, simply fill in the blanks. Bingo, bango,
bongo – blog post!
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But what if you hate writing? I made the point earlier to

choose one medium and make it your focus. Don’t think
that you have to have a blog. You could have a podcast, or
YouTube show, or something else. Or maybe you’d do best
as a curator of work where your website simply becomes
an archive of cool and interesting things you come across.
Maria Popova with brainpickings.org is a great example of a
curator that’s now one of the most influential figures online.

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“Art makes the snooze button

obsolete.”
- @jon_ptdc
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As Short as Possible, and as Long as Necessary

I know I said earlier that lengthy posts convey value and
get passed around more. This is true, but it’s not a good
enough reason to become purposefully verbose.
This book is just over 23,000 words long because that’s

how long it needed to be.
Less is not more when it comes to blogs and status

updates. Just enough is more. Get in, get dirty, make your
point, and get out.
You have one rule:
As short as possible, and as long as necessary.
Bullets and Lists

Italian philosopher Umberto Eco once said “the list doesn’t
destroy culture; it creates it. Wherever you look in cultural
history, you will find lists.” In The Infinity of Lists: An
Illustrated Essay he goes on to say, “the list is the origin of
culture. It’s part of the history of art and literature. What
does culture want? To make infinity comprehensible. It also
wants to create order.”
There simply is no better way to organize information.

Yet so many are quick to call lists a lower type of
communication. This could not be further from the truth.
I’ll be the first to say that the type of people who read lists
called “50 things that all successful people do” are clearly
missing the point because successful people don’t read
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lists about what successful people do. But when it comes

to organizing the onslaught of amazing, diverse, and
brilliant knowledge that you have in your brain, bullet point
lists, either on their own or contained in a status update
or blog post are effective. It allows people to quickly find
what they are looking for.
You’ll notice that I use a lot of lists in this book. Short lists.
Romania
Years ago I had the Personal Trainer Development
Center website audited by an outside party. I was about
to undergo a major redesign and needed an un-biased
analysis of the site. There was one major surprise.
Romania was the site’s third best source of traffic.
I expected the United States and Canada to be 1 and 2,

but Romania beat out all the European countries, and the
fitness-crazed Australia. When I looked into it the reason
became clear.
The reason was Livia Vaduva.
One day I noticed her “like” a post and thought nothing

of it. The next day there was another, and another, and
another. Soon she started commenting on posts. This
went on for weeks. The minute I posted anything I knew to
expect a comment from her and I also responded. One day
Livia sent me a long email.
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I was inundated with emails and didn’t want to read her life
story. I’m happy I did. I was moved by what this amazing
woman had gone through to become fit, and I stayed awake
until 2 a.m. composing a response. Since then we’ve built up
a great relationship.
When I told her about the stunning results of my site audit

she wasn’t surprised. It turned out she’d been posting every
single article I publish onto the biggest Romanian workout
group on the net. Talk about scaling!
The same people will comment and “like” your material.

Your first inclination is to get frustrated. Don’t. These are
your most important followers whether you know them
personally or not.
The push right now is to hire personal assistants to handle

mundane tasks like answering emails and responding to
basic inquires. This is fine, but have personal communication
forwarded. When you have a successful article or product
launch you’ll be overwhelmed with emails. Stay awake for
three days straight if you need to. Answer them all with the
best damn answers you can muster up.
This is what you’ve been working for. People are interested in

you. They’ve come to you for help. For advice. For guidance.
Stay home from work that day. Cancel your plans. Go to
Starbucks and annoy the barista by ordering a medium and
look confused when she asks you if you really wanted a
grandé and insist upon a medium, but answer every single
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Automate and outsource other aspects of your life. Hire

a personal chef and pay somebody to clean your house
if you have to. Never automate your personal interaction.
Your response may just get you posted on the largest
workout forum in Romania.
Who Shares?
Ben Bruno used to be the centre of information in the
fitness world. He published two lists weekly. One was of
the top blog posts and the other consisted of the top
videos from the fitness industry.
Ben held a lot of power. He dictated what got read and

what didn’t. Most bloggers tried to get on his list. They
were going about it all wrong.
They should have cared about the people already on the list.
Every week I would go through the list and email bloggers

I didn’t know. I’d send them all a personal message saying
that I enjoyed their material on “X” topic. My aim is always
to build a relationship with them, but they aren’t my targets.
I wanted to gain access to their feed. In building a

relationship with them I’d gain access to their feeds,
whatever network(s) they were on. When I did I watched it
like a hawk.
You should be looking to identify the people interacting

with these bloggers. These are your targets. These are the
Greg O’Hare’s who will spread your word.
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The pattern will look something like this: There will be 2-3
key people commenting and “liking” that seem to share
every piece of content by the blogger. The same names will
keep popping up on a number of different bloggers’ walls.
After recognizing this pattern, it became obvious to me

that these people were building the paths to connect the
fitness world with information. I needed to make them
all fans of my work so they would share every piece of
content I publish.
Slowly but surely I made connections with all of the road

builders through comment threads, personal messages,
or by reaching out to them on their own networks. Once
they interacted with me on one of my posts I sent a private
message thanking them for their support. This was all it took.
My wall became a flurry of activity. The status updates that

I published shot to the top of the feed for a huge variety
of people from fitness professionals to workout fanatics.
The trick was not finding the influencers; it was finding the
people who share the influencer’s work.
Oh, and One More Thing…

…You should be the one publishing the list.
People Buy People, Not Products, Not Com-

panies, and Not “Brands”
Anybody who reads your blog cares about you, not your
product. The purpose of a blog is to show your human side
even if you’re a multinational corporation.

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Write in the first person. Use I and me instead of you or

your. People connect with humans, not robots who write
generic information. They want to share information that
resonates with them. Show your smiling face.
Would you read and share something that’s written by a large

impersonal corporation that’s given you no reason to trust it
or would you prefer to hear from Sarah at General Electric?
Nobody knows who Sarah is or even if she is a real person,

but you’re immediately drawn into listening to her. Sarah
makes the experience more real. You can connect to Sarah.
You look forward to hearing from Sarah.
The Time to be Humble has Passed

You’re the product. People will be willing to pay a premium
for people, and the products and services that they
represent. A buying decision is more often based upon the
security that what the person is buying a) won’t suck and
b) won’t make them feel like they look stupid for buying
it. In following a person and building up trust with them
online, a prospect feels more at ease deciding to buy.
Your front line is everything and your social media

accounts and blogs are your front line.
People have chosen to engage with your material - you

didn’t force them. You’re the expert. Your company is the
best option - there is no second-guessing.
Don’t ever write “in my opinion.” We know it’s your opinion.
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You’re the one writing it. Be confident.
A blog post with three tax tips isn’t special. Any accountant
can write that. A blog post about how you saved a client
thousands of dollars is effective. Better yet, add a picture of
the postcard they sent you from the vacation they can now
afford. I’d hire you.
Show off. Speak about your past and why it’s helped you
develop your ideas. Show that you’re human by talking
about your struggles and how you overcame them. Build
rapport with your audience by asking for help in areas
outside of your expertise. Talk specifically about the people
you’ve helped.
Be specific and paint a picture.
Why would anybody hire you if you don’t believe in yourself?

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“The Babe Ruth Rule: Nobody

remembers how many times you
strike out. They only remember
the dingers.”
- @jon_ptdc
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I Want In
If you’re in a position of power people will share your post
in an attempt to climb the Internet social ladder. It’s a way
of becoming part of a club and can be a powerful source
of traffic for popular bloggers. If you already have a big
following, go out of your way to profile active members of
your community.
If you don’t yet have a big following but want to take

advantage of this you have to project success.
Here are some tricks to make you appear bigger and more
important than you are so that others will build you up. It’s
not deceitful and you don’t need to lie. These are simply ways
to make note of particular things happening.
1. Answer questions sent in by readers. Whenever you

get a question, answer it publicly on your blog or
social media outlet (or both) and be sure to mention
that a reader sent in the question.
2. Reach out to well-known bloggers. Ask permission

to repost their old material giving them sole credit
as the author and a link back to their site. Most
industry experts have years’ worth of old material that
collects dust. They’re ecstatic when somebody wants
to republish it. When the post is live, send them a
message with the link saying thank you. They might
just share it, passing on some of their credibility to
you. This is largely how I built up my platform in the
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Being the expert is a position of power. Once you’re there

people will rush to join you. Be creative if you’re having
trouble moving up the ranks. Just make sure your content
matches your status or you won’t stay at the top for very long.
Call to Action
Do you want your reader to buy your product after reading
your blog post? Maybe you want them to enter your sales
funnel by “liking” your Facebook page or signing up for your
mailing list.
Always include a call to action. Ask your reader to like your

page or enter their email for more information.
How else are they supposed to know?
Giving it Away for Free

When the PTDC released its free e-book entitled 101 Personal
Trainer Mistakes, it resulted in the biggest spike we’d ever
seen. The site received 12,000 visits the first day and we were
able to capture 1,600 email addresses in the first week.
When was the last time your company got 1,600 leads from
dedicated consumers in a week?
The book cost $5 to produce and took much less time to put
together than you may think. I opened a Google spreadsheet
and asked my network of top fitness professionals to send in
any mistakes they’ve made on the job. Two weeks later I had
a list of 120 mistakes. I sent the list out and asked people to
write in solutions.
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All I did was compile it into a word document and convert

the whole thing to .pdf. Instead of trying to come up with
everything myself I put aside my ego and asked for help
allowing others to contribute. The result was a better
product than anything I could have hoped to produce.
I could have sold the book. It’s got tremendous value for
any personal trainer looking to improve.
Instead I gave it away for free. The result was that it went
purposefully viral. The PTDC had passed 1,000 views a day
twice before the book was released. It’s never been below
1,000 views since and now reaches many millions a year. That
book is largely responsible for the site’s success. The massive
shareability of the Ebook created the base my site needed.
Most companies don’t show appreciation to their

customers. You’re different. Show your customers they
matter. Give them gifts.
Deeper Down the Rabbit Hole

Want to really get down to details?
Try to predict the state of awareness
of a reader consuming your status
update (this doesn’t apply as
much to blog posts as your goal
is to make those more
evergreen or always
relevant).

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Here’s a sample overview:

 Monday is the start of the week. Get it started right.
Motivation and quick tips work well. People don’t have
much time Monday but a quick pick-me-up is good.
 Friday culminates a week of hard work. So wrap up.
Lists work well.
 Wednesday is work. People are generally busy on
Wednesdays so it’s not a great day to publish. If you
do, content based on overcoming boundaries, sticking
with it, or overcoming adversity work well.
 Tuesdays and Thursdays are great days for more
informative posts.
 Publish and market articles early in the morning.
Breakfast time is a big window. Morning is a great time
for information-rich posts or shares of quality
information as people are getting a start on their
productive day.
 Night-time is for entertainment. Infotainment posts
work well when published at night. Wait until after
dinnertime. I’ve found 7:30-9pm to be the best time
for posting but it does change and is specific to your
audience.
 Sunday morning is the best time to get people to read.
This is when you publish your weekly recaps of the
best articles and videos in your industry.
For every audience it’s different. There are two

considerations when deciding the best time to post a
status update:
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1. When your audience has nothing to do. For most

this is first thing in the morning, lunchtime, and at
night. For office workers, later on in the work day on
Thursdays and Fridays is also good because that’s
when people procrastinate.
2. When your audience is physiologically aroused. In a

study performed by Jonah Berger, physiological
arousal increased sharing from 33%-75%. If you can
figure out when your audience goes to the gym or
even a walk, share your viral materials right afterwards.
Based on these guidelines, create a posting schedule. I’ve

produced a free one at www.viralnomics.com/status-update/
that you can grab and fill out. My suggestion is to fill out
your status updates in bulk in advance. My team generally
schedules them in twice a week, on Sunday and Wednesday.
Intrigue
Want to get somebody to click on your link? Ask a question.
Intrigue will help you stand out from the noise.
Feeds move quickly. You need to do something that grabs

somebody’s attention and makes him or her want to click.
You could have the best material in the World, but if nobody
clicks on your link (usually dependent on your title and
picture) then it won’t get read and people will go back to
sharing pictures of cats.
There are a couple techniques that seem to work well to get

a person’s attention. Many of them stem from intrigue.

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1. Ask a question. Usually it’s a question that your reader

already knows the answer to. The intrigue stems from
wanting to make sure that they aren’t missing anything
and the later share stems from showing off that they
know the answer.
Consider the differences between these two titles:
The Most Stable Shape in the World is a Triangle
Or
Is the Triangle the Most Stable Shape in the World?
2. Include a “bit that you can’t miss.” In the headline

include an element that makes people feel like they
need to figure it out or can’t miss one part.
Consider the differences between these two titles:
8 Things You Need to Know About Using Fluffy Cushions
Or
8 Things (#3 surprised even me) You Need to Know About

Using Fluffy Cushions
You’d be pretty hard pressed to find someone who wouldn’t

want to know what #3 is.
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Make Your Content Easy to Share

If you work in a tight-knit neighbourhood there’s no excuse
for your material not to share.
The goal isn’t to appeal to everybody with every post.

The goal is to write a post that hits home for a small
percentage of your customers.
A plumbing blog should speak about one specific issue

having to do with toilet maintenance one week and the
difference between clay and PVC pipes the next. You’ll
attract the one or two people who are dealing with the
specific issue and they’ll call you for a job.
Also, people talk. Imagine how powerful it is if I write

a post about low back pain and how to treat it. I speak
specifically about a client I helped. I’m willing to bet that
somebody reading my post knows someone who suffers
from low back pain. They send my material on, and I have a
quality lead.
Appealing to the masses is fine if you have lofty goals.

For a neighbourhood company, though, blogs need to
be personal and specific. Their aim is to appeal to a small
minority of the neighbourhood.
How many customers do you really need for a

neighbourhood business? There are 3 ways to make more
money:
1. Get more customers
2. Charge more per transaction
3. Generate more transactions per customer

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Businesses put a lot of focus on getting more customers,

but #2 and #3 above increase revenues just as much.
Wouldn’t you love to have a dedicated recurring clientele?
Why Most Companies Will Fail

Much of this information is not proven and never will be.
The social media landscape changes too fast. The feed
will change before anybody can figure out what the
ROI (Return On Investment) of a retweet or Facebook
“like” is. It’s impossible to print materials to train people
appropriately to use the specifics of a social media
platform. What doesn’t change is the psychology behind
it and that’s why this book is focused mostly on theory
backed by research. You must take the initiative to adapt
the theory to your situation.
In big business it’s easiest to follow the status quo. If you

screw up trying something new, it’s your butt on the line. If
you work the way your company has always worked and it
gets your company adequate results you keep your job.
One TV ad costs tens of thousands of dollars. Its intent is

to appeal to a potential consumer’s subconscious. I’m not
even convinced that this was a good use of money years
ago, but it’s definitely not now in the generation of PVRs.
Why not reach out to people who have already become

engaged in a community surrounding your product or
service and gain their trust and support? They’re out there
– you just need to find them.
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If you can’t find a community, then you’re in luck. You get to

be first. Build it yourself. I promise there are a lot of people
who care deeply about what you do and want a voice.
Stop doing the same thing as everybody else because

they’ve all been doing it for years. Times have changed.
Most won’t adapt. If you do you’ll blow past the competition
and never look back. I challenge you to take the risk.
Stop Trying to Appeal to Customers

Future customers don’t care about you now. They aren’t
looking for your information, and if they do happen to see it,
they won’t stop to take a look.
Appeal to people passionate about the same ideas and

ideals as you by articulating their thoughts and desires. That
way, they help you stay in the feed long enough for others
to find you when they – or somebody that they know – need
your product or service.
What’s the idea or message that your company represents?

Why do you get out of bed in the morning? What drives
you?
The majority of people don’t create – they share. And the

primary reason why people share your information and your
name is to show off what they already do or know.
You’re giving them a tool to project their own thoughts

when they’re not comfortable, don’t have the ability, or lack
the time to do it themselves.

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People gain perceived social equity (get a hit of IIIAF) when

they can prove that somebody else justifies their thinking.
Allow others to publicly justify their own thoughts and
passions through your material.
Social media accounts have become an extension of oneself.

Be the creator — this is your goal.
What’s Your Legacy?

Are you in this for the long term?
Cheap products are sold on fear and emotion with

pressure sales and closing techniques. Companies
providing poor service and low quality goods must focus
on shoving a product in as many people’s faces as possible
with the hope that a small percentage buy.
These companies don’t last. No one tells friends about

them and word about their product won’t spread. The
products collect dust before showing up on Craigslist or
on the buyer’s lawn years later. If you write a book for the
money and it doesn’t sell, you’re left with nothing. Or, in
the words of author Neil Gaiman, “if you didn’t get the
money then you didn’t have anything. If I did the work I
was proud of and I didn’t get the money, at least I’d have
the work.”
Your product is good. Your service is the best. You deserve

a legacy.
Foster relationships and give your customers a reason to

share. Help them succeed and you’ll rise up to the top with
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them. Give your followers a reason to boast. Make them

care about you and they’ll spread the word.
They’ll create your legacy for you.
It All Comes Down to You

To become the expert you must become the voice of those
who don’t have the confidence, time, or drive to develop their
own. You need to change your focus and begin to appeal to
the converted. It’s time to become comfortable articulating
the quiescent needs, urges, desires, and beliefs of your target
audience.
I’ve introduced you to the cast, showed you that what’s new
is really old, and put the pieces in place for you to rise to
power within your own network. Now it’s up to you to decide
the next steps. So what do you say, will you be “the guy”?

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“On your journey there will be

resistance. You may outgrow
friends. Your family may think
that you’re cuckoo—this is fine.
This is good.”
- @jon_ptdc
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Index
Introduction.......................................................................... 10
Our Story Begins in the 1870’s........................................................10
What the Mesopotamians and Lolcats Have
in Common.............................................................................................. 12
Here’s What is New... .......................................................................... 15
Part One: The Cast............................................................... 16

Who Are They?...................................................................................... 18
Carpenter Ants...................................................................................... 18
The Road Builder.................................................................................20
The Sea Lion........................................................................................... 21
The Diamonds in the Rough............................................................ 23
The Expert is “the Guy”..................................................................... 25
Part Two: What’s Going On?...............................................28

Why Are You Fighting What’s Going On?................................. 29
The Playing Field Has Become Levelled.....................................30
Filter Bubbles........................................................................................ 32
The Feed................................................................................................. 35
106,000,000.......................................................................................... 36
Part Three: Starting To Put The Pieces In Place..............39

Your Personal Network......................................................................40
You Should Waste More Time on Facebook.............................40
This Happens When You’ve Become “the Guy”...................... 42
Professionalism and Privacy............................................................44
The Business Professional Page.....................................................44
250,000...................................................................................................48

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Encyclopedia Britannica................................................................... 49
Content’s Fall From Grace.................................................................51
The Newest, Oldest, Drug on the Market................................... 53
Duck Lips and Selfies Aren’t All
That Interesting but… ........................................................................ 57
The Engineer......................................................................................... 58
Jon Goodman is... ............................................................................... 58
Do you want to be a vet or an animal doctor? .......................60
Part Four: Influence..............................................................64

What is True Power?.......................................................................... 65
Why All Free Samples Should be
Served With a Metal Spoon............................................................. 67
As Few Steps as Possible................................................................. 69
The Secret to Selling at a Thai Market ...................................... 69
It’s an Information Onslaught ........................................................72
Emotion is Faster than Thought.....................................................75
How do you identify the benefits / emotional
triggers of your product or service?............................................ 76
What are the action steps / value?................................................77
How do you identify the logic / features
of your product or service?............................................................. 77
The Formula............................................................................................78
Respect Cognitive Ease.................................................................... 79
But if You Want More Sharing…..................................................... 80
Why Do People Comment?.............................................................. 81
On Responding to Comments Online.......................................... 82
Critics, Trolls, and Haters.................................................................. 86
People Love Easy More Than They Like Cheap........................77
Index
144
Part Five: Tactics................................................................. 90

Diminishing Sensitivity....................................................................... 91
People Aren’t That Interested in You............................................ 91
Honesty and Transparency.............................................................. 93
Exclusion................................................................................................. 95
Traction.................................................................................................... 97
Viral Video..............................................................................................98
Jack of All Trades..............................................................................100
Focus......................................................................................................100
The New Search.................................................................................. 101
The Intangible Element................................................................... 102
Perceived quality............................................................................... 105
The Three Things Every Good Page / Blog Has.................... 107
The New York Times......................................................................... 109
Your Morning Oatmeal.......................................................................111
Is this Über-Rational Secret Society Killing Creativity? ......112
The Age of Infotainment ................................................................113
SEO Content......................................................................................... 114
Post Less and Promote More..........................................................115
Inherent Value.......................................................................................116
Action!......................................................................................................117
Who Are You Writing For? .............................................................118
The Dreaded Blank Piece of Paper...............................................118
As Short as Possible,
and as Long as Necessary...............................................................122
Bullets and Lists..................................................................................122
Romania.................................................................................................123
Who Shares?.........................................................................................125
Oh, and One More Thing… .............................................................126

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People Buy People, Not Products,

Not Companies, and Not “Brands”..............................................126
The Time to be Humble has Passed............................................ 127
I Want In.................................................................................................130
Call to Action........................................................................................ 131
Deeper Down the Rabbit Hole...................................................... 132
Intrigue...................................................................................................134
Make Your Content Easy to Share................................................136
Why Most Companies Will Fail...................................................... 137
Stop Trying to Appeal to Customers..........................................138
What’s Your Legacy?........................................................................139
It All Comes Down to You.............................................................. 140
Index
146
‘Till next time! - Jon

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“The best methods are always

timeless, yet timely.” - @jon_ptdc

I love this quote, but it’s not quite right.

Allow me to make one very minor adjustment …

Here’s to those who know that focus leads to observation

Buttons change, humans don’t.

Here’s to those not interested in learning about every new

Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest might not be around in

Here’s to those they don’t see coming.

2. Instead of cluttering up the text, I decided to omit

3. I use the term “the guy” a number of times throughout

4. A few sections are similar to ones from a previous

5. Throughout this book there are jokes. Some are inside

Harry Pointer thought that it would be funny to dress up

Still well before the advent of the Internet a scientist put

The common usage of the word “meme” describes an idea

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But today I want to coin a new term – a term that builds

A share doesn’t help business if nobody cares who the

Nobody cares who creates a lolcats photo. It’s cute and

What the Mesopotamians and Lolcats Have

The arch can span a wide-open space by applying a concept

Perhaps the most important aspect of arches is that their

Viralnomics: How To Get People To Want To Talk About You

The only constant is that if you try, you’ll be playing catch-

These ideas aren’t new.

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This exertion is exhausting, and we need a refuge. That

Much has been said about the marketing benefit of social

The benefits of this when attempting to build a platform,

1. Persuasion techniques are more effective on social

2. If you know what to look for you can easily identify

Who Are They?

They just exist.

I Was a Carpenter Ant

For two years, I secretly hollowed out blogs and didn’t

Viralnomics: How To Get People To Want To Talk About You

shared, or tweeted a thing. It never crossed my mind to

Groggily, I’d wake up and put oil in the frying pan. As

Like a sponge, I absorbed and adapted much of what

Most readers of your information are carpenter ants and

Whether you work for a multi-national company, a small

Part 1: The Cast

The Road Builder

Greg is somebody who is avidly interested in fitness. Out

Greg’s goal is not to become famous and it’s not to sell

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When Greg likes somebody or something, he shares it.

If your goal is to make an impact then find your own Greg

The Sea Lion

They knew that by following the whales they’d have dinner.

Sea lions in Alaska are opportunistic.

Why not follow the sea lions’ example?

Instead of trying to get the attention of the influencer

I found Greg O’Hare by being a sea lion. He commented