Strangers and Villages

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1. Brainstorm connotative synonyms for and words related to ​village​.

2. What does it mean to be part of the group encountering the unfamiliar--to be part of the
village​?

3. Brainstorm connotative synonyms for and words related to ​stranger​.


4. What does it mean to be the unfamiliar one, the ​stranger?

5. As you read the following excerpt, mark the text for ways in which the two characters are
either strangers or part of a village. Be prepared to discuss your markings.

Lindo Jong: Double Face from ​The Joy Luck Club

by​ Amy Tan

My daughter wanted to go to China for her second honeymoon, but now she is afraid.

“What if I blend in so well they think I’m one of them?” Waverly asked me. “What if they

don’t let me come back to the United States?”

“When you go to China,” I told her, “you don’t even need to open your mouth. They already

know you are an outsider.”

“What are you talking about?” she asked. My daughter likes to speak back. She likes to

question what I say.

“Aii-ya,” I said. “Even if you put on their clothes, even if you take off your makeup and hide

your fancy jewelry, they know. They know just watching the way you walk, the way you carry your

face. They know you do not belong.”


My daughter did not look pleased when I told her this, that she didn’t look Chinese. She had

a sour American look on her face. Oh, maybe ten years ago, she would have clapped her

hands—hurray!—as if this were good news. But now she wants to be Chinese, it is so fashionable.

And I know it is too late. All those years I tried to teach her! She followed my Chinese ways only until

she learned how to walk out the door by herself and go to school. So now the only Chinese words she

can say are ​shsh, houche, chr fan,​ and ​gwan deng shweijyau​. How can she talk to people in China

with these words? Pee-pee, choo-choo train, eat, close light sleep.

How can she think she can blend in? ​Only her skin and her hair are Chinese. Inside—she is

all American-made.

It’s my fault she is this way. I wanted my children to have the best combination: American

circumstances and Chinese character. How could I know these two things do not mix?

I taught her how American circumstances work. If you are born poor here, it’s no lasting

shame. You are first in line for a scholarship. If the roof crashes on your head, no need to cry over

this bad luck. You can sue anybody, make the landlord fix it. You do not have to sit like a Buddha

under a tree letting pigeons drop their dirty business on your head. You can buy an umbrella. Or go

inside a Catholic church. In America, nobody says you have to keep the circumstances somebody else

gives you.

She learned these things, but I couldn’t teach her about Chinese character. How to obey

parents and listen to your mother’s mind. How not to show your own thoughts, to put your feelings

behind your face so you can take advantage of hidden opportunities. Why easy things are not worth

pursuing. How to know your own worth and polish it, never flashing it around like a cheap ring. Why

Chinese thinking is best.

No, this kind of thinking didn’t stick to her: She was too busy chewing gum, blowing bubbles

bigger than her cheeks. Only that kind of thinking stuck.

“Finish your coffee,” I told her yesterday. “Don’t throw your blessings away.”

“Don’t be so old-fashioned, Ma,” she told me, finishing her coffee down the sink. “I’m my

own person.”
And I think, How can she be her own person? When did I give her up?

6. In each of the following clips, how does the main character differ from the village around
him/her? How does the filmmaker set the “stranger” apart from the “village” in each clip
(consider clothing, dialogue/language, cinematic technique, music, etc.)?

Lawrence of Arabia

Mean Girls

Bend It Like Beckham

7. Brainstorm a list of other films, TV shows, or novels that explore a related conflict (stranger in
the village). In each, who is the “stranger” and who or what is the “village”?

8. Why is this archetype (a story pattern that appears across cultures) so common in literature
and film?

8. Quickwrite:​ Think about a time when you were excluded or treated like a stranger. What
were your feelings at the time? How did you respond? In what ways did that event shape or
change you as an individual? Write about that time: examine the experience of being
treated like a stranger, explain how you responded or felt at that time, and reflect on the
ways in which that event has shaped your life.

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