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Mother-in-law from hell or daughter-in-law from hell? By NEWS ONLINE Reporter Everyone knows it can be difficult to get on with your in-laws, but for 29-year-old Heidi Withers, it may now be impossible. Heidi was invited to spend the weekend with her fiancé Freddie's family at their house in Devon, in south-west England. But soon after they returned to London, Heidi received a very nasty email from Carolyn Bourne, Freddie's stepmother, criticizing her manners. Here are a few examples of your lack of manners: ‘* When you are a guest in another's house, you should not declare what you will and will not eat— unless you are allergic to something. * You should not say that you do not have enough food. * You should not start before everyone else. * You should not take additional helpings without being invited to by your host. * You should not lie in bed until late morning. * You should have sent a handwritten card atter the visit You have never written to thank me when you have stayed. Heidi was shocked, and immediately sent the email on to some of her close friends. Surprised and amused, the friends forwarded it to other people, and soon the email had been posted on several websites, with thousands of people writing comments about ‘the mother-in-law from hell’.should have We use should have to talk about something that happened in the past that you think was wrong, e.g. You should have written me a thank-you letter. = you didn’t write to me. I think this was wrong. s Now read some of the comments that were posted on the internet. Write H next to the ones that support Heidi, and C next to the ones that support Carolyn. Mrs Bourne says Heidi should have sent a handwritten thank-you note... however, she sends this letter by email! We are in the 21st century. Nobody sends handwritten letters any more. 13/07/2011 18:52 Why do we hear nothing about Freddie's role in all this? Why didn’t he prepare Heidi? He must know what his stepmother is like. He could also have prepared his family by telling them about any eating problems his girlfriend has. 13/07/2011 16:25 The email was a private communication. | don't think Heidi should have sent it on to her friends. It makes me think that Mrs Bourne might be right about her bad manners. 13/07/2011 12:40 The stepmother seems to be extremely jealous of Heidi, perhaps she wants to keep Freddie all to herself. If | were | Heidi, | would leave him. 12/07/2011 10:15 | The mother-in-law may have a few good points but she should have spoken to Heidi face-to-face, not sent her an email. 11/07/2011 18:50 I think that the one with the extremely bad manners is Mrs Bourne. 11/07/2011 14:10 Mrs Bourne, | agree with every ward you say. Young people just don't have any manners nowadays. | hope Freddie sees sense and finds someone better. 1107/2011 09:48Mot oth What happened next... By Reporter sterday Heidi Withers married Freddie Bourne in a £25,000 ceremony at St Mary the Virgin Church in Berkeley, Gloucestershire. It was followed by a reception at 900-year-old Berkeley Castle. However, there was no sign of Carolyn, Freddie's stepmother, the woman who was ridiculed for the email she sent Heidi. She and her husband Edward, Freddie's father, were not invited. Heidi arrived almost 25 minutes late for the ceremony, which was due to begin at 2.45 p.m. Perhaps, as. Carolyn suggested was her habit, she had been in bed until the last possible minute. She arrived at the church with security guards holding umbrellas to prevent onlookers from catching sight of her, and with her head covered. This is a well-known tactic for celebrities, but for a 29-year-old secretary it seemed, in the words of one onlooker, ‘a bit ridiculous’. Edward and Carolyn admitted being disappointed at not receiving an invitation. They spent the weekend on a walking holiday with friends. They have had no contact with the couple since the saga began, and did not even know the date of the wedding,(WHEN GREETING PEOPLE... use more formal anguage wen speak Older person kigs a woman on both cheeks: when you meet her for the first ime MEN AND WOMEN — AMAN’S ROLE... pay for the meal ona first date watt for a woman to go through the door first accompany a woman home oureountey do in WHEN YOU ARE INVITED TO SOMEBODY'S HOUSE... = ciiticze the food (e.g iit is too cold, sally, etc-) take a present write an email to say thank you arrive more than ten minutes late {or lunch or dinner WHEN YOU ARE HAVING A. MEAL WITH FRIENDS IN A kiss your partner ON SOGIAL NETWORKING SITES... post a private message or conversation an an internet site post an embarrassing photo ‘or video clip ofa friend without asking their permission the details of your break- up with a partner

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