Puberty Boy Changes Girl Changes
Puberty Boy Changes Girl Changes
Puberty Boy Changes Girl Changes
Girls' changes
Bodies become curvier and hip bones widen.
You may get some whitish jelly from your vagina before or
in between periods. (Don't worry it's just your body's way
of cleaning itself.)
Boys' changes
Boys gain weight.
You may notice that you are getting an 'Adam's apple'. This is
your larynx or voice box getting larger and sticking out at the
front of your throat. Your voice may seem to be all over the
place, squeaky then deep or even sound like it is cracking.
Don't worry - when your larynx has finished growing your
voice will sound 'normal' again and probably a bit deeper than
before.
Penis gets longer and wider.
People responding to you differently. If you are tall for your age, people may think you
should 'act older,' or if you are small for your age they may insist on treating you like a little
kid. Some people may talk to you in an embarrassing way (see our topic Sexual feelings)
or touch you when you don't want to be touched. Confusing isn't it?
Mixed up feelings and mood changes. This is a hormonal thing and is very difficult for kids
and their parents to deal with (see our topic Family relationships)
One minute you have lots of energy and the next you feel so absolutely dead tired that you
just want to be left alone to 'veg out'. This is particularly difficult for parents to understand -
especially when the tiredness only seems to happen when it's time to do your chores or
homework! (OK, OK, I'm just joking!)
Seriously though, this is a time that is exciting and a bit scary so:
Don't be afraid to ask questions.
Take some time to get to know yourself.
Look after yourself by eating healthily, exercising (it makes you feel good) and getting plenty
of rest so that your body has the energy to cope with all the growing it has to do.
Boys
Why am I so much bigger than, or smaller than, other kids in my class?
Not everyone grows at the same time or the same rate. Some people have their growth spurt
really early and others really late. Kids who are really tall in year 7 are mostly about the same
as everyone else in year 10.
If you are really concerned, ask mum and dad when they did their growth spurt. (It's those
genes again!)
What happens when your voice 'breaks'?
You can see how fast you are growing on the outside but you can't see that inside your body
is growing too. As a boy reaches puberty the larynx (voice box) grows, which causes the pitch
of the voice to change. The pitch gets lower and the voice sounds less like a child.
Sometimes the sound seems to 'break' part way through speaking so that you may sound a
bit like you're yodelling!
It will settle down.
Some men are able to sing in the high voice they had as a child as well as their deeper adult
voice. This is called singing 'falsetto'. The voice sort of 'changes gear' to get into the high
range.
Dr Kim says
"Do you know the story of the ugly duckling that turned into a swan?
There may be times during puberty when you feel that you have a lot in common with the
duckling! Gradually though, you will turn into a swan! Well perhaps not, but you will turn into
the wonderful, unique adult that is you."
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