Getting Girls is a Skill

You may not yet think about it this way – you

probably haven’t been taught to think about it
this way – but having success with women,
dating, relationships, and socializing in general
is a skill, just as playing piano, shooting
basketballs, writing compelling essays, and
solving math problems are skills.

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ü There are various “skill levels” in the various
different aspects of “game”: approaching
women, connecting with women, generating
sexual attraction, taking new women as
lovers, dating, having relationships.

ü As you “level up” in skill, you’re able to unlock
more abilities, and more positive outcomes
with more desirable women.

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 How to Use This eBook
This eBook is broken down
into 30 different days of
learning, with two (2) to
three (3) articles to read
and one (1) assignment
each day.
The first thing we’ll focus on is mindsets,
because the way you’re thinking about women
and dating now and the way you want to be
thinking about these may yet be miles apart.
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Section One
Beginnings
 Can't&Stop&Thinking&About&Her?&Here's&
Read these articles: Why&You&Need&to&Meet&More&Girls&
Hyperlink$
(Click&Me!)&
Falling$for$one$amazing,$unique$girl,$who$
you$never$take$ac;on$with$or$get$anywhere$
with,$is$leaving$you$stuck$in$place.$

How&to&Get&Girls:&The&Last&Post&You'll&Ever&
Need&
An$introduc;on$to$how$da;ng$dynamics$
work$in$the$real$world$–$and$it$isn’t$“take$
things$slow$and$be$a$gentleman.”$
Do this:
Sit$down$and$write$down$the$name$of$a$girl$you’re$caught$up$on$now$or$were$
before.$Next,$write$down$everything$you’ve$done$to$move$things$forward$
with$her,$and$how$each$thing$has$gone.$Have$you$lost$her$through$ac;on…$or$
inac;on?$ 6$
Read these articles:
Just&Friends:&A&Man's&Worst&Nightmare&
Men$oZen$take$the$approach$of$trying$to$be$a$girl’s$friend$before$being$her$
lover$under$the$mistaken$belief$that$they$can$“prove”$themselves.$

How&VicMm&Mentality&Can&SMfle&Your&Life&–&and&Luck&with&Women&
When$things$don’t$go$your$way,$it’s$easy$to$point$out$reasons$why$this$isn’t$
your$fault.$Except$while$you$shiZ$the$blame,$you$don’t$get$anywhere.$

Do this:
Are$there$any$women$you’re$“just$friends”$with,$or$have$been$“working$on”$
for$more$than$a$couple$of$weeks?$Write$down$how$much$progress$you’ve$
made$with$them$–$and$whether$that’s$their$faults…$or$yours.$
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Read these articles:
Just&Be&Yourself:&The&Worst&DaMng&Advice&Known&to&Man&
A$lot$of$people$want$you$to$believe$the$key$to$success$is$to$“just$be$yourself”$
–$but$if$you$aren’t$already$ge^ng$all$you$want,$this$is$bad$advice.$

Do&You&Really&Need&to&Learn&Game&to&Get&Girls?&
This$seems$like$a$lot$to$learn$just$to$get$a$date$or$a$girlfriend$–$how$much$do$
you$really$have$to$do$to$get$success$with$women?$

Do this:
Make$a$list$of$things$off$the$top$of$your$head$that$you$can$probably$improve$
about$yourself$with$just$a$liGle$bit$of$effort.$Fashion,$hairstyle,$facial$hair,$
posture,$mannerisms,$movement$speed,$and$anything$else$that$comes$to$
mind$are$all$fair$game.$ 8$
Read these articles: How&to&Master&Anything&

The$path$to$mastery$lies$through$repeated,$
devoted$deliberate$prac;ce,$and$a$clear$
idea$about$where$you$want$to$get$to.$

Your&Mental&Model&is&Flawed&
Most$people$spend$far$too$much$;me$
telling$others$how$things$“should”$be,$and$
far$too$liGle$understanding$what$really$is.$
Do this:
What$are$the$things$in$your$life$you’d$really$like$to$learn$–$maybe$even$master$
–$and$what$daughter$skills$do$you$need$to$learn$well$to$achieve$a$high$degree$
of$excellence$in$any$of$those$things?$Write$each$of$these$that$you’d$like$to$
work$on$down.$ 9$
 DaMng&Without&Sex:&Why&It&Usually&
Read these articles: Doesn’t&Work&
Feel$free$to$skip$this$one$if$you$already$think$
sex$on$the$first$date$is$about$as$long$as$you$
want$to$wait.$For$everyone$else…$read$on.$

Most&Important&Thing&to&Becoming&a&Lover&
of&Women?&Don't&Be&BiYer.&
Realizing$that$what$you$were$doing$before$
doesn’t$work$so$well$and$that$you’ve$got$
some$work$to$do,$it’s$easy$to$become$biGer.$
Do this: Don’t$be$biGer.$

Do$you$have$any$bad$emo;ons$towards$women?$Write$them$all$down$on$a$piece$
of$paper,$then$s;ck$that$paper$in$a$drawer$somewhere$and$don’t$look$at$it$for$an$
hour$or$two.$Once$you’re$very$calm,$take$that$paper$out$again,$and$look$at$it.$
Underneath,$write$“Signs$I$don’t$fully$empathize$with$women$yet”$and$circle$it.$
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Read these articles:
Secrets&to&Ge[ng&Girls:&BeYer&Than&Jerk&
Jerks$get$a$lot$more$success$than$nice$guys$do,$that’s$for$sure.$But$there’s$a$
level$above$jerk…$be4er$than$him…$that$outperforms$both.$

Why&Girls&Like&Bad&Boys&
The$allure$of$the$bad$boy$is$not$that$he$“treats$women$wrong”,$like$many$nice$
guys$seem$to$think.$It$is$rather$his$wild,$untamed$nature$they$love.$

Do this:
Are$you$a$nice$guy…$or$a$bad$boy?$Make$some$notes$about$how$you$think$
women$see$you$right$now$when$they$look$at$you$–$good$things,$bad$things,$
sexually$appealing$things,$and$platonic$nongsexual$“like$a$brother”$things.$
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 Did You Know?
For$actually$ge^ng$together$and$commencing$a$
sexual$rela;onship,$perceived$(apparent)$
physical$dominance$plays$a$very$large$role.$
For$success$in$a$rela;onship,$however,$the$top$
predictor$of$rela;onship$longevity$is$how$
agreeable$you$are$and$how$agreeable$she$is.$
From$“How$Much$Do$Looks$MaGer$for$Roman;c$Success?”$

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At this point, your head may well be spinning –
possibly with excitement at your potential,
possibly with cognitive dissonance at the
collision of all these jarring new ideas with the
stodgy old ones you’ve long held; or, most likely,
with a bit of both emotions.
This head spinning isn’t going to go away so
long as all these things remain mere concepts
and ideas to you. There’s only one way to settle
your mind and get all sections of your brain on
the same page now: the field.
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Section Two
Fieldwork
Read these articles: Social&Circle&vs.&Cold&Approach&
Why$should$you$go$to$the$trouble$
Finding&Your&Niche& of$learning$to$approach$strangers?$

Grab$a$copy$of$the$free$Girls$Chase$
eBook$on$finding$places$you’re$ Where&to&Find&an&Amazing&Woman:&
comfortable$mee;ng$new$women$ 20&Surprising&Places&
at$to$speed$along$your$learning.$ Don’t$know$where$to$go$to$meet$
women?$No$problem$–$here$are$20$
great$sugges;ons$to$get$you$started.$
Do this:
Download$your$copy$of$Finding&Your&Niche,$and$complete$the$exercises$on$
what$type$of$women$you’re$looking$for$and$where$you$might$be$able$to$meet$
them.$Next,$go$visit$at$least$two$(2)$of$those$places$to$get$familiar$with$them.$
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Read these articles: Eye&Contact&FlirMng&
Women$are$experts$at$using$their$
Book&Excerpt:&Good&Posture&(for& eyes$–$and$soon,$so$will$you$be,$
AYracMng&Women)& too.$

How$important$is$posture?$It$can$
make$the$difference$between$ Smile&Warmly,&Smile&Sexy&
seeming$invincible…$or$appearing$
already$beaten.$ If$you$don’t$know$the$difference$
between$a$friendly$smile$and$a$sexy$
smile,$you’re$about$to$find$out.$
Do this:
Prac;ce$your$posture,$eye$contact,$and$smiles$in$front$of$the$mirror$un;l$
you’re$comfortable$with$them.$Do$you$no;ce$the$difference?$Now,$go$outside$
and$walk$somewhere$in$public$for$20$minutes,$trying$these$out.$Pay$aGen;on$
to$how$people$are$reac;ng$to$you$–$do$they$give$you$more$space?$Respect?$
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 Girls,&Girls,&Girls!&How&My&View&
Read these articles: of&You&Has&Changed&
An$insight$into$how$one$man’s$view$of$
women$changed$as$he$became$more$
sexually$and$roman;cally$experienced.$

Keeping&Your&Cool:&Don't&Chase&Women&
It’s$a$common$and$almost$unconscious$
occurrence$–$if$you$like$a$girl,$and$don’t$
have$her,$you$soon$begin$to$chase.$
Do this:
What$are$your$views$about$women?$Take$a$moment$to$really$spell$them$out.$
Do$you$have$any$anger$or$frustra;on$toward$women?$Do$you$seem$them$as$
saintly,$or$asexual?$Are$they$hard$to$get$a$read$on?$Compare$with$the$ar;cles.$
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 Break&Your&Porn&AddicMon&and&Sleep&with&
Read these articles: Real&Girls&Instead&
If$you$ever$watch$pornography,$you$may$
not$have$realized$it,$but$it$does$a$lot$more$
than$just$give$you$a$quick$buzz.$

9&Terrible&Excuses&Men&Use&to&Avoid&
MeeMng&Great&Women&
You’re$not$going$out$to$meet$women$right$
now…$and$you$probably$have$a$really$good$
reason$for$it.$Balderdash.$
Do this:
It’s$hard$to$get$started$approaching$new$women$when$you’re$not$in$the$habit$
of$it$yet.$Turn$a$spotlight$on$your$ra;onale$for$not$doing$so$–$are$you$
unmo;vated,$or$do$you$always$have$“very$good$reasons”$why$not$today?$
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Read these articles: Book&Excerpts:&The&Direct&Opener&
The$most$powerful$form$of$
Easy&Opening&with&Indirect& opening?$Walking$right$up$and$
Direct& telling$her$you’re$interested.$

An$easy$way$to$start$conversa;ons$
that’s$not$too$in;mida;ng$and$ When&to&Use&Direct&Openers&Versus&
combines$light$and$funny$with$ SituaMonal&Openers&
genuine$interest.$ Here’s$how$to$tell$whether$you$
ought$to$lean$direct$or$situa;onal$
with$any$given$girl$or$scenario.$
Do this:
Jot$down$a$couple$of$openers$that$appeal$to$you,$and$that$you$can$imagine$
yourself$using.$Prac;ce$them$in$front$of$the$mirror$if$you$like,$or$write$them$
down$on$paper$if$you$need$them.$The$next$;me$you$go$out,$try$each$one$out$
on$at$least$three$(3)$different$girls.$
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Read these articles: Book&Excerpts:&Women&Love&Sex&
When$you’re$inexperienced$with$women,$it$
can$seem$like$women$don’t$much$care$for$
sex$at$all.$But$nothing$could$be$less$true.$

What&Women&Want&
What$is$it$women$want,$exactly?$Much$of$
the$;me$it$seems$like$even$they$don’t$know$
themselves.$But$women$can$be$understood.$
Do this:
How$is$ge^ng$to$sex$right$now?$It$probably$seems$like$an$uphill$baGle,$and$feels$like$sex$
–$or$at$least,$sex$with$you$–$is$the$last$thing$women$want.$Really$go$through$these$
ar;cles$though,$and$try$to$imagine$what$it’s$like$to$be$a$woman$yourself$–$experience$the$
uncertainty,$the$excitement,$the$let$downs$when$guys$aren’t$as$you$hoped$they$were.$
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Read these articles: The&ConversaMonalist&
With$this$ar;cle,$you’ll$be$a$master$
Secrets&to&Ge[ng&Girls:& conversa;onalist$for$all$occasions.$
The&Art&of&the&Deep&Dive&

Deep$diving$is$conversa;on$on$easy$
mode$–$get$women$opening$up$to$ ConversaMon&Example&
you$about$all$the$topics$they$find$
most$personal$and$interes;ng.$ A$favorite$of$many$long;me$
readers$of$Girls$Chase,$see$how$a$
conversa;on$unfolds$and$grows.$
Do this:
It’s$;me$to$prac;ce$deep$diving.$Have$you$got$a$handle$on$how$it$works?$The$
great$thing$about$this$is$you$can$use$it$on$anyone$–$so$if$you’re$s;ll$a$liGle$
in;midated$by$preGy$girls,$that’s$okay$–$but$make$sure$you$deep$dive$
someone.$In$fact,$mul<ple$someones…$your$homework$today$is$to$try$it$on$3.$
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Read these articles: Teasing&a&Girl&the&Right&Way&
It’s$easy$to$go$overboard$teasing$women$
and$do$it$in$an$ungfun$or$even$insul;ng$way.$
Make$sure$you’re$doing$it$right.$

When&Women&Test&Men&
Ever$no;ce$how$much$women$like$those$
liGle$“gotcha”$ques;ons?$Why$do$they$do$
that?$We$take$a$peak$under$the$hood$here.$
Do this:
Today’s$assignment$is$to$tease$two$(2)$different$girls…$in$a$fun,$inclusive$way.$
They$don’t$have$to$be$strangers$–$although$you$get$bonus$points$if$they$are;$
any$woman$in$your$life$works$here$(yes,$even$your$mother$or$sister).$
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 Bring&the&Energy:&
Read these articles: Being&the&Life&of&the&Party&
What$do$the$men$people$love$and$throw$
aGen;on$at$all$have$in$common?$One$thing:$
they$all$bring&the&energy.$

Why&"Fun"&is&a&SeducMon&Killer&
It$may$seem$like$being$the$really$“fun”$guy$
is$a$great$way$to$get$women$–$but$more$
oZen$than$not,$you’re$shoo;ng$at$your$feet.$
Do this:
Go$out$and$get$involved$in$a$group$ac;vity$of$some$sort;$it$doesn’t$maGer$
what.$What’s$important$is$that$it’s$social,$and$what$you$must$do$is$work$on$
commanding$the$group’s$aGen;on$–$not$by$asking$for$it,$but$by$infusing$so$
much$good$energy$into$it$that$it$simply$starts$to$come$your$way$naturally.$
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 The&Real&Reason&Many&Men&
Read these articles: Can't&Get&a&Girl&
There’s$one$blaringly$obvious$(to$those$who$
know)$reason$most$guys$do$so$poorly$with$
women:$they&don’t&know&how&to&lead.$

The&Sad&Tale&of&"Shopping&Guy”&
Just$in$case$you$s;ll$thought$you$could$
“wear$her$down”$by$hanging$out$with$her$
or$going$on$enough$shopping$expedi;ons.$
Do this:
To$succeed$with$women$(or$with$much$of$life$in$general),$you$must$get$
comfortable$with$ge^ng$people$to$do$what$you$want$and$need$them$to$do.$
To$start,$find$two$(2)$people$you$can$ask$(or$tell)$to$do$something$–$and$do$so.$
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 How&to&Compliment&a&Girl&
Read these articles: Like&You've&Know&Her&for&Years&
A$good$compliment$is$worth$100$generic$
ones.$Start$paying$proper$compliments,$and$
sweep$women$off$their$feet.$

TacMcs&Tuesdays:&Locking&In&
Tired$of$feeling$like$you’re$perpetually$
“hovering”$or$on$the$outside$when$talking$
to$new$women?$Not$anymore.$
Do this:
Two$assignments$today:$for$the$first,$try$to$pick$out$interes;ng$items$about$
the$next$10$people$you$talk$to,$and$compliment$them$on$these.$For$the$
second,$aim$to$get$locked$in$in$your$next$4$conversa;ons$within$2$minutes.$
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 Get&to&Know&a&Girl:&
Read these articles: ConnecMoneBuilding&TacMcs&
See$how$to$combine$deep$diving$with$
screening$and$qualifying$to$really$give$your$
conversa;ons$some$pep.$

Spell&Broken:&Big&Mistakes&
That&Shred&ConversaMon&
It’s$preGy$common$to$have$conversa;ons$
going$great$that$out$of$the$blue$turn$sour.$
Here’s$how$to$remedy$that$for$good.$
Do this:
Head$outside$today$and$meet$three$(3)$people$you$can$have$conversa;ons$
and$try$out$this$material$with.$Do$you$end$up$“spell$broken”$at$any$point$–$
and$if$so,$are$you$able$to$iden;fy$the$cause,$and$fix$it$for$next$;me?$
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 Facial&Hair&Styles&to&Make&You&Look&Cool,&
Read these articles: Sharp,&and&Sexy&
Facial$hair$is$one$many$men$overlook$for$its$
poten;al$to$really$rev$up$their$masculinity$
and$sexuality.$But$it’s$big.$

Fashion&for&Men:&The&Primer&on&
Looking&Amazing&
You$don’t$have$to$have$a$million$bucks$to$
look$like$a$million$bucks.$A$few$smart$
selec;ons$in$wardrobe$will$take$you$far.$
Do this:
What$kind$of$facial$hair$suits$your$style$best?$Try$growing$some$out,$or$
shaping$up$what$you’ve$got$now$if$it’s$wild$and$scraggly.$As$for$fashion,$make$
a$list$of$what$you’d$like$to$try$upgrading,$and$go$shopping$to$do$just$this.$
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Read these articles: Faux&Pas&of&the&Sociaux&Nouveaux&
A$quick$“ge^ng$started”$guide$to$some$of$
the$most$common$mistakes$those$new$to$
socializing$will$make.$

Ge[ng&Past&Small&Talk&
It$can$be$very$frustra;ng$mired$in$small$talk$
–$for$both$par;es$to$a$conversa;on.$With$
these$tools,$you’re$able$to$break$free.$
Do this:
Hope$you’re$not$;red$of$conversa;on$with$strangers$yet.$Today’s$assignment:$
new$conversa;ons$with$two$(2)$new$people$–$and$you’ve$got$to$blow$through$
small$talk$and$into$real$talk$as$fast$as$humanly$possible.$Can$you$do$it?$
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Read these articles: How&to&Get&a&Phone&Number&from&a&
Girl&Every&Time&You&Ask&
Ge^ng$phone$numbers$from$women$
might$feel$in;mida;ng…$but$it$won’t$
be$if$you$ask$for$dates,$instead.$

How&to&Text&a&Girl&
How&Long&to&Wait&Before&Calling&(or&
TexMng)&Her&
Tex;ng:$you’ve$been$doing$it$
wrong.$ The$age$old$ques;on:$how$long$to$
wait$before$you$start$contac;ng$
the$phone$numbers$you’ve$got?$
Do this:
You$guessed$it$–$I’m$going$to$ask$you$to$go$get$some$phone$numbers$now.$
Two,$precisely.$They$don’t$have$to$be$today$–$that’d$be$nice$if$you$can$do$it,$
though$–$but$you$DO$have$to$get$‘em…$two$new$numbers$from$two$new$girls.$
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Read these articles: Date&Templates:&&Minimize&
Confusion,&Maximize&Returns&
Date$planning$just$got$a$lot$easier,$
The&Early&Boyfriend:& now$that$you$have$a$set$of$date$
Why&It's&a&Bad&Idea& templates$to$pick$and$plan$from.$

It$might$seem$like$doing$a$lot$of$
boyfriendgy$stuff$prior$to$actually$ What&to&Do&When&Girls&Flake&
becoming$her$boyfriend$
guarantees$you$the$role$–$not$so.$ Before$you$hit$the$panic$buGon$
because$she$canceled$on$your$first$
date,$read$this.$
Do this:
Have$you$grabbed$some$phone$numbers$from$girls$yet?$See$if$you$can$plan$
out$a$few$dates$–$but$adhere$to$the$guidelines$here,$don’t$go$overboard$on$
the$early$boyfriend$stuff,$and$stay$cool$if$she$has$to$reschedule.$
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 Understanding&Women:&It's&Not&as&Hard&as&
Read these articles: You&Think&
Really$get$into$women’s$heads$and$see$the$
world$through$their$eyes.$Women’s$is$a$
world$of$reputa;ons…$and$yearning.$

Women's&ForgoYen&Past&
There’s$a$good$chance$you$don’t$know$her$
as$well$as$you$think.$See$why$women$hide$
their$pasts,$and$how$to$cut$through$this.$
Do this:
The$next$;me$you$have$a$conversa;on$with$a$woman,$see$if$you$can$get$her$
to$open$up$more$than$you$normally$would$using$the$techniques$in$these$
ar;cles.$Try$to$withhold$judgment$if$you$really$want$an$inside$look.$
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Read these articles: EscalaMon&Windows&
Where$do$most$men$lose$women’s$
AYracMon&Has&an& interest?$When$they$fail$to$hit$
ExpiraMon&Date& those$women’s$windows.$

You$might$be$surprised$how$oZen$
you$may$have$lost$women$by$ 7&Ways&to&Touch&a&Girl&+&3&Ways&to&
moving$too$slow…$and$le^ng$their$ Have&HER&Touch&YOU&
interest$in$you$cool$off.$ Touch$is$crucial$to$moving$an$
interac;on$from$platonic$to$
sensual,$sexual,$and$roman;c.$
Do this:
Prac;ce$your$touch$today$with$three$(3)$different$women.$It$doesn’t$have$to$
be$anything$drama;c$–$your$hand$on$her$elbow$or$taking$her$hand$to$
examine$something$is$fine,$so$long$as$you’re$ge^ng$prac;ce$with$touch.$
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Read these articles: How&to&AYract&Women:&The&Guide&
What’s$aGrac;ve$to$women?$Can$you$talk$
women$into$liking$you?$Or$is$aGrac;on$
based$on$something$more…$elemental.$

How&to&Be&a&Sexy&Man&
“Sexy”$isn’t$just$for$celebri;es$and$male$
models.$Any$man$can$learn$to$wield$the$
power$of$sex$appeal…$if$he’s$willing.$
Do this:
Take$inventory$of$how$you’ve$been$trying$to$woo$women$to$date.$Have$you$
been$trying$to$win$them$over$with$words,$and$largely$ignoring$your$
fundamentals?$That’s$what$most$do.$Start$wri;ng$down$what$you’ll$change.$
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 Going&Stag:&Your&Guide&to&Going&Out&
Read these articles: By&Yourself&
Drop$all$your$misconcep;ons$about$going$
out$alone$–$the$results$you$get$with$women$
are$absolutely$worth$it.$

How&to&Act&When&a&Girl&Rejects&You&
It’s$embarrassing$to$be$rejected;$nobody$
enjoys$it.$But$you$can$absolutely$handle$it$
with$grace$and$wit,$and$save$face.$
Do this:
If$you$have$yet$to$venture$out$by$yourself,$now’s$the$;me$to$do$it.$So$suck$up$
some$courage,$put$your$mee;nggwomen$clothes$on,$and$let’s$get$out$there.$
Your$objec;ve$today$is$to$approach$three$(3)$women…$out$by$yourself.$
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Read these articles: Think&in&Numbers:&&Talking&to&
Lots&of&Girls&
It’s$hard$to$get$good$with$women$
when$you’re$only$mee;ng$girls$
How&to&Flirt&with&a&Girl& here$and$there.$

Flir;ng$with$girls$is$loads$of$fun…$
especially$when$you’re$using$the$ TroubleshooMng&Your&Opening&
techniques$we$have$covered$for$
you$in$this$post.$ Opening$not$going$quite$right?$It$
may$not$be$she$doesn’t$like$you…$
you$may$just$need$some$tweaks.$
Do this:
Flir;ng$is$fun$–$especially$when$you’re$doing$it$with$lots$of$different$women!$
For$today’s$exercise,$let’s$try$it$on$four$(4):$go$out,$meet$four$new$women,$
and$flirt$to$your$heart’s$content.$
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Read these articles: Girls:&Silly&and&Cute&
Don’t$take$girls$too$seriously…$they’re$just$
girls.$And$girls$are$silly$and$cute.$

How&Girls&Show&Interest&
Women$have$lots$of$signs$they$give$off$that$
they’re$interested$in$you$–$you$might$be$
surprised$what$some$of$them$are.$
Do this:
Today’s$assignment$is$simple$observa;on:$head$out$to$your$favorite$spot$to$
meet$new$women,$and$just$watch$the$women$you$see.$Try$not$to$see$them$as$
beau;ful,$or$in;mida;ng…$but$as$cute,$funny,$feminine,$and$silly.$
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 How&to&Approach&a&Girl&Wherever&
Read these articles: You&Are&(Easily)&
Process$is$a$key$aspect$of$being$ready$and$
able$to$approach$new$women$at$a$
moment’s$no;ce.$

How&to&Ask&a&Girl&Out&and&Always&
Get&a&"Yes”&
Asking$girls$out$is$easy$–$so$long$as$you$
don’t$make$it$into$a$bigger$deal$than$it$
needs$to$be.$
Do this:
Your$objec;ve$today:$two$(2)$girls$asked$out$on$dates.$It$doesn’t$maGer$what$
the$dates$are;$who$the$girls$are$doesn’t$maGer$either,$nor$does$how$you$
know$them;$it$doesn’t$even$maGer$if$they$say$“yes.”$You$must$simply$ask.$
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Read these articles: Social&Skills&101:&Socializing&and&
DaMng&for&Introverts&
If$you$prefer$doing$things$on$your$
Going&Out&to&Meet&Women& own$to$large$groups$of$people,$this$
Even&When&You&Don’t&Want&To& is$your$guide.$

Some;mes$you$just$don’t$want$to$
go$out$and$socialize$or$meet$new$ How&to&Demolish&Approach&Anxiety&
women$–$but$if$you$want$progress,$ Forever&
it’s$vital$that$you$do.$ Nervous$about$talking$to$that$cute$
girl$over$there?$Here’s$how$to$get$
yourself$in$gear.$
Do this:
This$assignment$is$one$of$will:$pick$a$day$when$you$definitely$don’t$want$to$go$
out,$and$go$out$and$talk$to$some$new$women$anyway.$The$goal$is$to$
approach$just$two$(2);$just$to$show$yourself$that$you$can$do$it,$“state”$or$not.$
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 Did You Know?
Not$only$are$ovula;ng$women$more$interested$
in$masculine$men,$they$also$flirt$more,$compete$
harder,$and$dress$more$provoca;vely.$
Men$are$more$interested$in$ovula;ng$women,$
are$more$compe;;ve$around$them,$and$present$
mates$engage$in$more$mategguarding$behavior.$
From$“Which$Women$Want$Sex?$Here's$How$to$Tell”$

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That’s it! You made it through the full 30 days!
Pat yourself on the back if you’ve done all the
assignments – you should be proud, and you’ve
probably seen some major advances compared
to where you were when you started. And if
you’ve skipped some assignments – do them.
There was a lot more material that we wanted
to recommend a beginner to check out on the
site, but to not overwhelm you we left a bunch
out. However, if you haven’t read enough yet,
see the next section for more to read through.
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Section Three
Bonus Reading
 On&Being&Unflinching:&
•  Are$You$Sure?$
•  How$to$Be$Decisive$
•  The$100$Hour$Rule$
•  Women$on$Pedestals$
$
On&ConversaMon:& On&Kissing:&
•  20$Ways$to$Talk$to$Women$and$ •  Can'tgMiss$Tips$for$Ge^ng$the$First$
Make$It$AMAZING$ Kiss$with$a$Girl$
•  Emo;onal$Contagion$in$Seduc;on$ •  How$to$Kiss$a$Girl$Like$No$One's$
and$Socializing$ Ever$Kissed$Her$Before$
$ $
On&“Game”:& On&Phone&Calls&and&TexMng:&
•  "I'm$Picky”$ •  Text$Girls$to$Success:$Phone$Secrets$
•  How$to$Be$Unpredictable$with$ Part$I$
Women$(and$Up$AGrac;on)$ •  Call$Girls$to$Success:$Phone$Secrets$
•  “Do$You$Have$a$Girlfriend?”$Here’s$ Part$II$
How$to$Answer$This$ •  Making$the$First$Phone$Call$to$a$Girl$
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 On&AYachment:&
•  Don’t$Get$Too$AGached$to$a$Girl$
Before$the$Sale$
•  NongSupplica;on:$Why$Working$to$
Impress$Women$Doesn't$Work$
$
On&Nonverbals:& On&Understanding:&
•  How$to$Have$a$Powerful$Masculine$ •  Reac;ons$from$Women$or$Results$
Presence$ with$Women?$
•  How$to$Have$a$Sexy$Walk$That$ •  Why$It’s$Bad$to$Want$to$Be$Liked$
Drives$Women$Nuts$ Too$Much$
$ •  Social$Skills$101:$Reading$and$Using$
On&Social&Dilemmas:& Body$Language$
•  How$to$Not$be$the$Creepy$Guy$ •  Why$Chasing$Women$Doesn’t$Work$
•  Says$She$Has$a$Boyfriend?$Here's$ and$Why$Persistence$Does$
Why$It$Doesn't$MaGer$ •  Mixed$Signals$from$a$Girl:$What$
•  Dealing$with$Disrup;ve$Men$ These$Mean$
•  Secrets$to$Ge^ng$Girls:$Get$Out$of$ •  Why$You$Don't$Want$to$Be$Her$
"Polite$Conversa;on”$ Perfect$Man$
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 If you’re ready to learn even faster, it’s time to
upgrade to the One Date System. You’ll learn:

•  How to make a girl your girlfriend in one simple,
easy-to-get date (use Chase’s powerful SAC
system to figure out exactly the date she needs)

•  A straightforward way to build arousal with girls

by breaking rules or violating tiny expectations

•  The super simple process that gets women to
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