A Moral Recovery Program: Building A People-Building A Nation by Patricia Licuanan
A Moral Recovery Program: Building A People-Building A Nation by Patricia Licuanan
A Moral Recovery Program: Building A People-Building A Nation by Patricia Licuanan
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Pakikipagkapwa-Tao
Filipinos are open to others and feel one with others. We regard others with dignity and
respect, and deal with them as fellow human beings. Pakikipagkapwa-tao is manifested in a
basic sense of justice and fairness, and in concern for others. It is demonstrated in the Filipino's
ability to empathize with others, in helpfulness and generosity in times of need (pakikiramay), in
the practice of bayanihan or mutual assistance, and in the famous Filipino hospitality.
Filipinos possess a sensitivity to people's feelings or pakikiramdam, pagtitiwala or trust, and a
sense of gratitude or utang-na-loob. Because of pakikipagkapwa-tao, Filipinos are very sensitive
to the quality of interpersonal relationships and are very dependent on them: if our relationships
are satisfactory, we are happy and secure. Pakikipagkapwa-tao results in camaraderie and a
feeling of closeness one to another. It helps promote unity as well a sense of social justice.
Family Orientation
Filipinos possess a genuine and deep love for the family, which includes not simply the
spouses and children, parents, and siblings, but also grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins,
godparents, and other ceremonial relatives. To the Filipino, one's family is the source of personal
identity, the source of emotional and material support, and the person's main commitment and
responsibility.
Concern for family is manifested in the honor and respect given to parents and elders, in the
care given to children, the generosity towards kin in need, and in the great sacrifices one
endures for the welfare of the family. This sense of family results in a feeling of belonging or
rootedness and in a basic sense of security.
Ability to Survive
Filipinos have an ability to survive which is manifested in our capacity for endurance despite
difficult times, and in our ability to get by on so little. Filipinos make do with what is available in
the environment, even, e.g., by eking out a living from a garbage dump. This survival instinct is
related to the Filipinos who bravely carry on through the harshest economic and social
circumstances. Regretfully, one wonders what we might be able to do under better
circumstances.
Lack of Discipline
The Filipino's lack of discipline encompasses several related characteristics. We have a casual
and relaxed attitude towards time and space which manifests itself in lack of precision and
compulsiveness, in poor time management and in procrastination. We have an aversion to
following strictly a set of procedures, which results in lack of standardization and quality control.
We are impatient and unable to delay gratification or reward, resulting in the use of short cuts,
skirting the rules (the palusot syndrome) and in foolhardiness. We are guilty of ningas cogon,
starting out projects with full vigor and interest which abruptly die down, leaving things
unfinished.
Our lack of discipline often results in inefficient and wasteful work systems, the violation of rules
leading to more serious transgressions, and a casual work ethic leading to carelessness and lack
of follow-through.
Colonial Mentality.
Filipinos have a colonial mentality which is made up of two dimensions: the first is a lack of
patriotism or an active awareness, appreciation, and love of the Philippines; the second is an
actual preference for things foreign.
Filipino culture is characterized by an openness to the outside--adapting and incorporating the
foreign elements into our image of ourselves. Yet this image is not built around a deep core of
Philippine history and language. The result is a cultural vagueness or weakness that makes
Filipinos extraordinarily susceptible to the wholesome acceptance of modern mass culture which
is often Western. Thus, there is preference for foreign fashion, entertainment, lifestyles,
technology, consumer items. The Filipino colonial mentality is manifested in the alienation of the
elite from their roots and from the masses, as well as in the basic feeling of national inferiority
that makes it difficult for Filipinos to relate as equals to Westerners.