Youth Group Lesson On Quiet Time: Opening Game
Youth Group Lesson On Quiet Time: Opening Game
Youth Group Lesson On Quiet Time: Opening Game
Bottom Line: Spending time with God can be the best part of your day - so be
creative!
OPENING GAME
SUPPLIES/SET-UP
Set up a table in the room with Post-it notes (broken into small stacks) and pens.
I want you to pick out the most stressful day over the past few weeks that you’ve had.
Now, here is what I want you to do: (Give each person a paper plate and a pencil/pen).
Then, once you’ve drawn the clock, I want you to fill in what you did for each minute of
that most stressful day that you thought of just a minute ago.
Now, get in groups of 2-3 people and choose one of your clocks to act out in less than
25 seconds - being sure to act out every single activity that was listed.
(Gather the groups together and tell the group to be sure to try to guess as many
activities in each groups’ day as possible.)
Let’s face it: The stress that you face each day is real, isn’t it?
(Tell a personal story from when you were a teenager - how the stress, pace and
technology (or lack thereof) made life very different.)
How many times this week have you felt stressed, overloaded, or overwhelmed?
How in the world could you add one more thing to your schedule?
Here’s the thing: God doesn’t want you to feel guilty if he wasn’t on your schedule.
And believe it or not, spending time with God, or as some people call it, a ‘quiet time’ is
probably the only thing in this life that can help with the stress and pressure that we all
feel.
Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners,
and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your
laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the
Lord, and he will exalt you.
God cares about those things that you felt were too small or even dumb to list on your
clock.
Weeping, grieving, joy, and laughter: God WANTS to be there with you in it.
And his request is simple: Draw near to Him, and he will draw near to you.
It really is as simple as that: Take a step to God, and he will take a step to you.
You may think: “I don’t know how to spend time with God”.
Write out all of the things that you brought with you today that are stressing you out.
I will guide you with some ‘stressors’ that you can also reflect on in your quiet time.
As you write these stresses down, just talk to God about how these things are weighing
on you.
Please write one thing per Post-it and feel free to get up and get more if needed.
Leader: Give students about 5 minutes in silence or play some quiet music.
(Suggestion: “Rest Easy” by Audio Adrenaline).
Worries
Friendships
Family
School struggles
My Future
Decisions to make
(Give students about 10-15 minutes to write their worries and offer more Post-its.)
And here is the amazing thing: God doesn’t want you to bear all of this without him.
And he certainly doesn’t want you to leave this room with a stack full of worries and
stress.
Now, go and put your Post-its around the room, wherever you want.
As you place your Post-it, let this be a physical act of drawing near to God and giving
him your worries.
No.
But, what it does mean is that God is with you and you are drawing near to him.
Sometimes the sheer act of voicing how we are feeling to God can make all of the
difference.
So, get your stack and take some more prayerful time of giving these worries to God.
Put the Post-it there and leave, knowing that God is with you in all of these things, but
also look around the room and know that you are not alone in your stress.
Resist the urge to try to guess who wrote what, because you will miss the joy of praying
for one another.
(Give students 5 minutes before they go to their small groups to read the Post-its on the
walls prayerfully.)
For some of you, this might be mind-blowing: YOU JUST SPENT TIME WITH GOD!!
And, He can give you His strength to face them and even grow closer to Him in the
process.
There are amazing things that happen when you spend time with God.
And there is no ‘one’ or ‘right’ way for you to spend time with God.
It will and should look different for every single one of us.
There are so many other ways that you can spend time with God doing things that you
enjoy.
(Share a personal way that you spend time with God that is creative or one that you
have heard from others such as listening to music, journaling, singing, or even taking
photos.)
Before you leave, walk around the room once more and choose 4 or 5 of the Post-its
from the wall and commit to pray for these worries this week.
Put this Post-it somewhere in your room or your locker: somewhere it can remind you to
pray.
This will give you a visual reminder to pray not only for your worries, but for others.
Were you surprised at how many worries and stresses there were in this group and how
did that make you feel?
Reflect on this statement: Spending time with God is not meant to be a burden.
How could you take the time this week to spend time with God?
What are the things that get in the way of spending time with God and how can we
encourage each other with these?
How might spending time with God affect your life in a positive way?
Create a list together of ways that you could creatively spend time with God.
How can we help one another to keep this time with God?
Commit to pray for one another and remind one another to spend time with God.
Give each student a stack of Post-it notes to take home and try this activity in their
room.