Romanian weddings involve many traditions intended to bring luck and success to the married couple. Traditions include the groom shaving as a symbol of becoming a man responsible for a family, the bride's dance and cake which celebrate her finding purpose through marriage, exchanging wedding rings in church, throwing wheat or rice after leaving to wish abundance, the bride and groom's first dance together, "stealing" the bride for the groom to pay a ransom to get her back, throwing the bride's bouquet for unmarried women, removing the bride's veil as a symbol of her new role, cutting a wedding cake together as their first task, and the groom carrying the bride across the threshold of their new home as their first obstacle overcome
Romanian weddings involve many traditions intended to bring luck and success to the married couple. Traditions include the groom shaving as a symbol of becoming a man responsible for a family, the bride's dance and cake which celebrate her finding purpose through marriage, exchanging wedding rings in church, throwing wheat or rice after leaving to wish abundance, the bride and groom's first dance together, "stealing" the bride for the groom to pay a ransom to get her back, throwing the bride's bouquet for unmarried women, removing the bride's veil as a symbol of her new role, cutting a wedding cake together as their first task, and the groom carrying the bride across the threshold of their new home as their first obstacle overcome
Romanian weddings involve many traditions intended to bring luck and success to the married couple. Traditions include the groom shaving as a symbol of becoming a man responsible for a family, the bride's dance and cake which celebrate her finding purpose through marriage, exchanging wedding rings in church, throwing wheat or rice after leaving to wish abundance, the bride and groom's first dance together, "stealing" the bride for the groom to pay a ransom to get her back, throwing the bride's bouquet for unmarried women, removing the bride's veil as a symbol of her new role, cutting a wedding cake together as their first task, and the groom carrying the bride across the threshold of their new home as their first obstacle overcome
Romanian weddings involve many traditions intended to bring luck and success to the married couple. Traditions include the groom shaving as a symbol of becoming a man responsible for a family, the bride's dance and cake which celebrate her finding purpose through marriage, exchanging wedding rings in church, throwing wheat or rice after leaving to wish abundance, the bride and groom's first dance together, "stealing" the bride for the groom to pay a ransom to get her back, throwing the bride's bouquet for unmarried women, removing the bride's veil as a symbol of her new role, cutting a wedding cake together as their first task, and the groom carrying the bride across the threshold of their new home as their first obstacle overcome
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Romanian wedding
Depending on the geographical area of the country, we meet a
multitude of wedding customs, traditions and superstitions that are held mainly for the luck and success of the road that young married people begin to travel together. In other words, these wedding customs, traditions and superstitions refer mainly to the smooth running of the life of young married people, abundance,
good cheer, understanding and luck.
The wedding or marriage is the second largest event in a person's
life, after birth. In the popular view, wedding is understood as a transition to another stage of life, a stage that marks the entry of young people into social life, among people.
Customs, traditions and superstitions before the wedding in
Romania
Each wedding is preceded by a marriage proposal. But until the
actual request of the bride, called the engagement, according to tradition the groom must first ask the permission of future mothers-in-law. This custom is called a petite . The future groom will thus go accompanied by his parents and relatives to the bride's house in order to obtain the approval of her parents, so that he can marry the chosen one of his heart. 10 Romanian wedding traditions explained
1.Shaving
Almost every man goes through this moment at his
wedding. The groom's shaving represents transformation. The boy turns into a man who has a responsibility now. He has a wife, a house, a family to take care of.
In some parts of the country this shaving is only simulated
and the knights of honor even use a bard or an axe when doing this custom. In other areas, however, unfortunately for men who care a lot about their beard, shaving is really done. Obviously, do not imagine that the man is left without a part of the beard, but the first layer is removed so easily that it is not noticeable. However, the excitement for men remains the same. 2. The bride's cake Often circulated at weddings, this tradition is no stranger to anyone. What I have to tell you is that the bride's cake goes hand in hand with the bride's dance. Legend has it that the dance was, in fact, an occasion for joy for parents. In the past, girls got married at an early age, so if the girl was required, the parents were very happy that there was no old girl left and she found her purpose, as they said at the time. After the dance is over, the godmother takes the cake and breaks it over the bride's head, after which she distributes it to the guests, not before making the cross three times. The bride's cake foretells the richness of the bride and groom, their happiness and the multitude of friends they will have after they get married. 3. The exchange of wedding rings The exchange of wedding rings is done at the church. The first thing to do is the engagement service, and the wedding rings are now positioned on the ring fingers of the right hand. Then the wedding rings change between them and reach the left rings of the two bride and groom. 4. Wheat and rice after leaving the church After the religious wedding is over, and the bride and groom leave the church, they throw wheat or rice over the heads of the bride and groom to wish them abundance, wealth and good luck for the children. 5. The bride's waltz The bride's waltz has evolved and in the meantime has come to be called the groom's waltz. It may not necessarily be seen as a tradition for some, but it has long been known that weddings cannot begin without the bride and groom's waltz. The guests know that once the bride and groom's waltz is over, they can go to the dance floor to start the fun. 6. Stealing the bride Stealing the bride is a more amusing tradition. When the fun is in full swing, a few friends of the groom steal the bride. The groom must offer rewards to receive his bride. In the Romanian tradition it is said that in order to receive the bride back, he must also answer a few questions about it. This way the bride and groom and the family can find out if the groom really knows his new wife. 7. Throwing the bouquet The bride gathers unmarried girls around her and throws the bouquet, and the one who catches it will get married first. In the Romanian tradition it is said that only that is destined for the bridegroom as soon as possible, and if she is not alone and has a fiancé, he must ask her soon because now everyone knows that a big wedding is coming. 8. The veil of the bride The bride's veil is taken from the bride's head towards the end of the wedding. The godmother takes off the veil, which represents the purity and the sign of an unmarried girl, and puts a headscarf on the bride's head to remind her that from now on she has a household to keep. The veil is placed on the head of an unmarried girl. It is usually placed on the head of a close friend or even the one who caught the bouquet. 9. Wedding cake The wedding cake marks the first task of married people of the bride and groom. They cut the cake, putting both hands on the knife. Romanian tradition says that the first task of the bride and groom must be sweet and cheerful, so that all their responsibilities in the marriage will be so. 10. Crossing the threshold Maybe not many people carry it to the end, but this Romanian wedding tradition has a special meaning. The groom must take the bride in his arms and cross the threshold of the house with her. This is the first obstacle of the bride and groom that they must cross together, united by love, supporting each other.