Managing Organizational Conflict - Sam Blank
Managing Organizational Conflict - Sam Blank
Managing Organizational Conflict - Sam Blank
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Names: Blank, Sam, 1947– author.
Title: Managing organizational con ict / Sam Blank.
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For tremendous love and support of all kinds, I thank my wife Ellen Afromsky, my brother Ralph, and
my children Leah and Matthew
Acknowledgments
In writing this book, I have many people to thank. I would like to thank
my colleagues and good friends who encouraged me along the way and who
have shared with me their experiences and taught me meaningful lessons:
David Avdul, Alan Borer, Richard Bradley, Jennifer Brady-Cotter, Tzu-Wen
Cheng, David W. Fuchs, Eva Kolbusz-Kijne, Susana Powell, Ellen Raider,
Kerry Ru , Maria Volpe, and Norman Wechsler.
I appreciate and am grateful to the mentors that have shaped me to be the
person I am today: Constance Bernardi, DeWitt Clinton High School;
omas Bloch, Stuttgart, Germany; Joseph A. DeVito, Hunter College;
William E. Hug, Teachers College, Columbia University; Michael Pritchard,
Heartland Media; and Sandra Sollod Poster, Borough of Manhattan
Community College.
Special acknowledgments must go to my students who over the past years
have provided the inspiration essential to this kind of task. I am indebted to
my cadre of stellar communication studies students at the Borough of
Manhattan Community College of the City University of New York: Ryan
Bias, Jennifer Cachola, Andrea Cano, Nechama Gluck, Anne Goren,
Margarita Khodzka, Maria Camila Martinez, Daniel Murphy, Juliette Perez,
Iva Por rova, Elizabeth Shin, Anastasia Sidorenkova, and Natasha Sokorina.
anks are due as well to my colleagues at the American Management
Association whose valuable input was always welcomed and to my
colleagues at the New York City Department of Education, O ce of the
Manhattan Superintendent who collaborated with me in the administration
of the District Con ict Resolution Centers initiative and the District School
Leadership Team.
Table of Contents
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3. Transformational Organizations
Why Organizations Fail
Transformational Leadership and Organizations
Leadership and Manager Di erences
Exemplary Leadership
Di erences Among Workers, Managers and Leaders
Organizational Measurement
Workplace Communication
Workplace Channels and Networks
Power and In uence
Personal Attributes as Leverage
Types of Leverage
Sharing Power in Organizations
Power and Politics
Managing Change and Stress
Implementing Dynamic Change
Using the Johari Window at the Workplace
5. Workplace Collaborations
Advantages of Collaboration
Group Purpose
Types of Collaborative Groups
Successful Groups
Collaborating and Not Competing
Functional and Dysfunctional Team Collaborations
Poor Collaboration
Positive Collaborative E orts
Collaborating to Get More
Collaboration and Achievement
Virtual Teams
Six inking Hats
C S
Case Study 1—Noisy Neighbors
Case Study 2—Apple Bashing
Case Study 3—We Deliver
Case Study 4—Working in HR
Case Study 5— e Team Project
Case Study 6—New Boss, New Rules
Case Study 7—You’re Under Arrest
Case Study 8— e Melt—Hops and Wine Stop—Taki-Slow
Case Study 9—Hawaii Beachwear Project
Case Study 10—Oh, What a Feeling
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Preface
is is a book about positive con ict resolution strategies that stimulate
innovation and growth where companies can look to synergistic solutions to
common issues and needs. It examines the dysfunctional outcomes of
organizational con icts that result in job stress, reduced communication
between individuals and groups, and the fostering of a climate of distrust,
where working relationships are damaged and job performance is reduced.
e current matrix structure that has been adopted by many companies
has resulted in increased competition for resources, unclear reporting lines,
and general confusion and varying management styles. A strong need exists
to examine the basic tenets of con ict, organizational behavior and con ict
management that are vital to the overall success of the organization.
e book is apportioned to address ve objectives that are targeted to (1)
aid organizations and individuals to recognize and accept con ict, whether
internal or external; (2) examine and successfully manage the unavoidable
aspect of con ict in organizational life; (3) view the organizational process
within ethical, moral and human issues and act in a con ict prevention
mode, rather than an intervention mode; (4) foster a company culture that
uses con ict resolution approaches that incorporate proactive
confrontational innovation and design; and (5) reexamine and provide a
new model for the role of the company con ict management.
e concepts presented in this book were fashioned a er spending more
than 25 years as a mediation and negotiation trainer and teaching at the
Graduate School of Educational Leadership of Pace University and the City
University of New York. In my professional career, I have found that it is not
only necessary to provide learners with concrete knowledge, but it is also
essential to challenge them to use and adapt the materials to t into their
own lives and connections. I had a desire to author a book in organizational
con ict that would accompany and complement my consultative work with
business executives, administrators and management personnel. It is central
that readers view the contents of this book within the overall picture of the
many complexities of changing organizational structures and environments.
ere are very few books on the market today that address the prevalent
occurrence of organizational con ict, and, in fact, this area only received
cursory mention in human relations textbooks and organizational behavior
and design texts. e eld of con ict and crisis management is certainly
supported by a very long history of research, yet there are only three titles I
found available that address con ict in organizations.
ey are Managing Con icts in Organizations by M. Afzalur Rahim,
published by Routledge in 2010; Crisis in Organization by Laurence Barton,
published by South-Western in 2001; and Hostage at the Table: How Leaders
Can Overcome Con ict, In uence Others, and Raise Performance by George
Kohlrieser, published by Jossey-Bass, 2006.
is book is written in an informative and conversational style which
includes many opportunities to examine and practice con ict resolution in
ten case studies and engage in stimulating role plays. is book has added
sections on areas of leadership and organization development, active
listening and communication, managing generational di erences, and
fostering collaborations. It o ers insights for company professionals who are
tasked with managerial decisions and problem-solving. All the material was
created and designed to assist organizations to meet con ict head-on and
bring issues to resolution.
In the United States, over a decade ago, employees spent close to three
hours per week dealing with con ict and 25 percent of employees avoided
con ict by calling in sick or being absent from work. Most of the U.S.
workforce have never received con ict management training. ere is a
special aptitude needed to successfully work disputes through to resolution,
and this book can help leaders improve their connection and interaction
skills by applying solid con ict management strategies and tactics.
e material is written for many di erent groups. e primary audiences
for this book are employees, executives, business owners, managers, team
leaders, and human resource personnel. Studying and pursuing a focus in
con ict resolution, organizational behavior, negotiation, crisis management,
and change management will improve communication and increase
productivity. A secondary market for this book is the undergraduate and
graduate college student studying business management, crisis intervention
and prevention, organizational and industrial psychology, and team and
leadership development.
Designing, implementing, communicating, using and modifying an
organizational con ict management system will require constant feedback
and reinvention. Organizational con ict management policies can be the
determining factor in the success or failure of the con ict management
system and the eventual success of a company. Businesses that see con ict
resolution as a vital program to managing organizational con ict
demonstrate that collaboration is the best approach to resolving disputes
and continuing to build trusting relationships.
Companies are driven to be pro table and employees engaged in arguing
and criticizing others do not help the company bottom line. Con ict
management goes a long way in strengthening the bond among the
employees where they can feel motivated at work. Con ict management and
con ict resolution also play an important role in our personal lives. At a
time when our world is undergoing changes and the economy is not stable,
organizations must embrace all the tools at their disposal to minimize and
resolve internal and external con icts to remain vibrant and pro table.
While advancement in negotiating, mediating and resolving con icts has
been considerable, there is still a compelling need to deal with disputes and
workforce di erences in improved and healthier ways.
Introduction
Con ict is omnipresent, and if one wanted to put money into a growth
industry, this would be an area to invest in! Organizations large and small
move forward and measure successes by examining the bottom line—pro t.
Most businesses focus on daily operations and develop short-term and long-
term strategies and benchmarks. ese objectives and missions and
contingency plans will take a back seat when con ict arises that impacts
workers, stakeholders, company morale and industry image.
In 1982, Johnson & Johnson’s Tylenol medication commanded 35 percent
of the U.S. over-the-counter analgesic market, representing something like
15 percent of the company’s pro ts. Unfortunately, at that point, one
individual succeeded in lacing the drug with cyanide. Seven people died as a
result, a widespread panic ensued about how widespread the contamination
might be, and by the end of the episode, everyone knew that Tylenol was
associated with the scare. e company’s market value fell dramatically.
While this problem was not a result of con ict within the organization,
Johnson & Johnson needed to bring resolution to the problem and re-bolster
its corporate image. ey decided the product would not be re-established
on the shelves until something had been done to provide better product
protection. As a result, Johnson & Johnson developed the tamperproof
packaging that would make it much more di cult for a similar incident to
occur in the future.
Within ve months of the disaster, the company had recovered 70 percent
of its market share for the drug, and the fact this went on to improve over
time showed that the company had succeeded in preserving the long-term
value of the brand and their con ict management e ort addressed their
public image.
On April 17, 2018, the treatment of two black customers by a Starbucks
manager in Philadelphia and their resulting arrest brought this large
organization into con ict/crisis mode. Exactly what transpired between the
two men and the manager who asked them to leave and then called police is
unclear. However, the outcome is clear. Two black customers were treated in
a way markedly di erent from what most people experience with the-
Seattle-based co ee giant. Its stores are intentionally designed as public
gathering spaces, and most visitors take advantage of them, and the
restrooms, without incident. Starbucks has repeatedly demonstrated, by its
longstanding corporate focus on social responsibility and inclusion, that this
singular con ict in one brick and mortar facility could have a drastic e ect
on the entire company. Starbucks CEO Kevin Johnson promptly apologized,
took personal responsibility and met with the men. e company also took
the extraordinary step of scheduling the closure of 8,000 company-owned
stores in the U.S. on the a ernoon of May 29 for training to prevent
discrimination. at doesn’t make what happened right, but the company’s
response is a useful model for other businesses and individuals when
confronting a con ict situation that impacts its brand and public image.
e study of organizational behavior examines attitudes and performance
within the company setting, which draws on the theories and methods on
principles from psychology, sociology, cultural anthropology and individual
and group behavior (Ivancevich, 2002). Various organizations have di erent
goals, interests and priorities beyond pro t. However, when a con ict arises
within a company, the overriding and mitigating factors to a successful
resolution lie in guring out what di erences led to the con ict, what
personality and leverage issues exist, what communication pitfalls may have
exacerbated the con ict and what appropriate problem-solving techniques
can be applied.
e chapters in this book have been designed to help pro t-based
organizations, government organizations, non-pro t organizations, and
individuals recognize con ict, whether internal or external. e approach to
examining and managing con ict is to provide comprehensive information
about organization design and behavior, power and in uence, interpersonal,
intrapersonal and intragroup con ict. e management of and reorientation
to di erences, leadership and team structures as well as reactions to crisis
and catastrophes are also addressed. is book will help change an
organization’s way of thinking about con ict and will foster a company
culture that is based upon principles of agreement and resolution. In a time
when executives, managers, human resource and training personnel, and
employees must do more with fewer resources, this book will assist with
increased productivity and improve human communication among all
individuals. In his 2002 article in e International Journal of Con ict
Management author M. Afzalur Rahim indicated that (1) there is no clear set
of rules to suggest when con ict ought to be maintained at a certain level,
when reduced, when ignored, and when enhanced; (2) there is no clear set
of guidelines to suggest how con ict can be reduced, ignored, or enhanced
to increase organizational learning and e ectiveness; and (3) there is no
clear set of rules to indicate how con ict involving di erent situations can be
managed e ectively.
Many organizations use professional specialists to establish clear
guidelines and to work on con ict and dispute issues. ese individuals are
o en part of a human resources department and the con ict issues, major
and minor, and the resolutions do not fully address the “totality” of a
workplace con ict. It may be deemed successful if the con ict issues don’t
escalate. ese are organizational reactive responses and they may not
address underlying issues of the emotional and social issues of the
workforce. ere is a clear need for organizations to use con ict resolution
specialists, with superb competencies, to address, manage, and resolve
con ict issues.
Con ict refers to more than just overt behavior. Concentrating only upon
its behavioral manifestation is extremely limiting. e very focus of the
concept of con ict emphasizes the need to (1) consider the situation in
which parties (individuals, groups or organizations) come to possess
incompatible goals; (2) analyze their structure of interaction; and (3)
examine the nature of their goals. It is also important to consider emotional
and cognitive orientations that accompany a con ict situation.
As we attempt to understand con ict in organizations the world around
us is changing and years a er Rahim’s article, not much has changed or
improved. Indeed, some managers and organization leaders have taken
positive steps to identify, research and resolve con icts. Organization
leadership must meet con ict straight on regarding the company’s mission,
direction, and design, so that things can be accomplished while working
most e ectively with people (Fullan, 1991).
. Aspects and Causes of Con ict in an
Organization
Interests, Identities and Attitudes
Con ict can be viewed as many things. Schellenberg (1996) de ned social
con ict as “the opposition between individuals and groups on the basis of
competing interests, di erent identities and/or di ering attitudes.” e three
vital elements of this de nition highlight the sources of di erence—interests,
identities and attitudes. ese take varying shapes in di erent organizations.
e interests of the IT department can be very di erent than those of the
accounting department. e identities of the managerial vice-presidents will
di er from those of project managers, and the attitudes of the CEO, COO
and CFO will be di erent from those of the administrative assistants in the
organization.
Since con ict is inevitable and all organizations will have to deal with the
varying issues surrounding con ict, it is noted that many researchers and text
materials point out that con ict is not always bad. e reframing of con ict
as a problem or crisis can result in viewing con ict as an opportunity to think
creatively and to work collaboratively on resolutions and agreements. e
Chinese symbol for crisis clearly indicates the reframing modes: the peril and
danger and a way of thinking about a crisis as an opportunity to look at a
situation with new eyes, a chance for improvement and change, and lessons
to be learned.
Con ict can be an important vehicle through which the work of an
organization gets done. In some cases, con ict enhances the adoption of new
policies and procedures and assists in maintaining the stability of the
organization. Reaching resolutions and agreements to organizational
con icts may fall to the disputing parties, employees and their supervisors,
human resource departments, peer review committees, or specialized con ict
resolvers or negotiators. In their landmark book Getting to Yes: Negotiating
Agreement Without Giving In, Ury, Fisher and Patton (2011) describe three
dilemmas facing con ict resolvers: (1) so negotiators o ering quick
concessions to reach amicable agreements; (2) hard negotiators viewing
con icts as a battle to be won; and (3) principled negotiators deciding issues
on their merits and looking for mutual gains.
e authors, describing the straightforward method of principled
negotiation, break it down into four basic points:
People—Separate the people from the problem.
Interests—Focus on interests, not positions.
Options—Invent multiple options looking for mutual gains before
deciding what to do.
Criteria—Insist that the results be based on some objective standard.
Organizational Learning
Organizational learning involves a continuous process that enhances its
collective ability to accept, make sense of, and respond to internal and
external change. Organizational learning is more than the sum of the
information held by employees. It requires systematic integration and
collective interpretation of new knowledge that leads to collective action and
involves risk taking as experimentation.
Peter Senge (2006) described learning organizations as places “where
people continually expand their capacity to create the results they truly
desire, where new and expansive patterns of thinking are nurtured, where
collective aspiration is set free, and where people are continually learning
how to learn together.”
Learning organizations (Gavin, 1993) are skilled at ve main activities:
systematic problem solving, experimentation with new approaches, learning
from their own experience and history, learning from the experiences and
best practices of others, and transferring knowledge quickly and e ciently
throughout the organization.
One of the most valuable lessons in learning is that there is always
something new to learn. Finding new solutions and high-quality alternatives
to solutions depends on an organization’s climate. When stakeholders are
involved in training, learning sessions, company fact- nding retreats and
periodic team building and brainstorming sessions, the organization bene ts
in many ways. ese type of “learning sessions” need not focus solely on
team skills or enhancing social relations. Learning is the way we create new
knowledge and improve ourselves. Although there is ample debate regarding
the mechanisms and scope of learning, in its simplest form this is no di erent
for organizations.
In November of 2010 the Starbucks Corporation and Kra Foods Inc.
began airing a messy divorce in public, ghting over the dissolution of their
partnership selling bags of Starbucks co ee at supermarkets.
News of the breakup rst surfaced when Starbucks Chief Executive
Howard Schultz said on a quarterly conference call that Starbucks wanted to
end its 12-year deal with Kra , which markets and distributes Starbucks and
Seattle’s Best co ees to supermarkets and stores like Target. Kra also sells
Starbucks discs for its Tassimo one-cup co ee brewer and Tazo teas. Kra
Foods initiated arbitration to challenge Starbucks’ attempt to end the
agreement.
It contended that if Starbucks wanted to back out, it must pay Kra the fair
market value of the business plus a premium of as much as 35 percent. Under
the deal with Kra , Starbucks bagged co ee sales grew to $500 million (U.S.)
a year from $50 million. Additionally, Starbucks shares were down 2.8
percent in morning trade, while Kra shares were down 1.4 percent.
Starbucks could end up paying more than $1 billion if it were forced to
compensate Kra for the business.
Starbucks was willing to risk the potential cost of a dissolution as it sought
signi cant growth beyond its cafe chain by looking to the market for
packaged consumer goods. e company was also pushing sales of its Via
instant co ee in what it hoped would become a billion-dollar business.
A er holding team information and learning sessions Starbucks informed
Reuters it planned to work with the sales and marketing division of privately
held Acosta Inc, which handled its Via business, to distribute Starbucks
co ee to stores a er ending its ties to Kra on March 1, 2011.
is business dispute illustrates how uid marketplace trends can be,
which can cause negotiated business agreements to become undesirable over
time. In their original agreement, Kra and Starbucks would have been wise
to agree upon set times for renegotiation. ey would have had leeway to
revisit existing deal terms in the face of changed economic and industry
conditions. ey could also have negotiated conditions for ending the
agreement early, such as cancellation penalties and other forms of
compensation. is could have been worked out as both companies
conducted updated learning sessions. Intelligent and continual learning can
help anticipate uncertainties which have the potential for a costly business
dispute. In the end, on November 12, 2013, an arbitrator ruled that Starbucks
should pay $2.23 billion in damages plus $527 million in pre-judgment
interest and attorneys’ fees to Kra Foods. is ruling put an end to the-
years-long battle between Kra Foods and Starbucks.
Learning from this costly experience, Starbucks has grown to rely heavily
on organizational learning and development opportunities which is
evidenced by:
company growth by an average of two stores per day for the last 27
years;
an ambitious plan to add 1,000 stores in China;
a corporate plan to spend more on employee healthcare than co ee
beans;
the fact that its stock is worth over 23 times what it sold for in 1992;
and
classroom learning opportunities and training, which include self-
guided booklets and “learning coaches.”
Problem-Based Learning
Problem-based learning (PBL) anticipates and enables qualitative change
to occur in organizations by facilitating the emergence of skills, knowledge
and understanding. Organizations need to always generate new ideas and
activities through learning to continually improve and develop new practices,
and this will bene t the entire organization as it prevents the repetition of
errors and failures (Blewitt, 1999). PBL can be thought of as a combination of
cognitive and social constructivist theories, as developed by Jean Piaget and
Lev Vygotsky.
Jean Piaget’s theory of cognitive development described and explained the
changes in logical thinking in children and adolescents. Piaget’s theory is
guided by assumptions of how learners interact with their environment and
how they integrate new knowledge and information into existing knowledge.
Lev Vygotsky’s theory of cognitive development focused on the role of
culture and social interactions. Vygotsky maintained that tasks that are
challenging promote cognitive development growth.
PBL was rst introduced to the eld of education in the 1960s by medical
education specialist Howard Barrows (1980), who argued that the teaching of
medicine at McMaster University in Ontario, Canada, should be organized in
a way that emulated the reasoning of a skilled practitioner.
PBL opportunities which involve cognitive and social constructivist
theories can be used to assist the workforce in organizations to take
responsibility for their own learning. is learning and the acquisition of new
knowledge will help to cultivate better communication and interpersonal
skills that support con ict resolution and negotiation issues.
Researchers on the facilitation of PBL have identi ed general issues
connected with infusing this seamlessly in the structure of an organization (-
Savin-Baden, 2003). ree components are (1) support that is constructive
and empowering; (2) direction that involves encouragement and respects
individual autonomy; and (3) structure that is stable and relatively
predictable.
ree modes of PBL facilitation are (1) hierarchical, in which facilitators
take a controlling and directive role by setting objectives; (2) cooperative,
involving a sharing of power with the team in order to enable them to be self-
directed learners; and (3) autonomous, fully respected with a facilitator
simply setting the conditions in which the learning will take place (Heron,
1993).
In an organizational context, PBL
is learner-centered;
is composed of small groups, usually 10–15 participants;
uses facilitators to guide learners rather than instruct;
identi es a speci c problem to serve as the focus of the group and
stimulates learning;
uses a problem as a vehicle for the development of problem-solving
skills, thereby stimulating the cognitive processes;
has learners work on a development problem; and
is a method to organize the learning of both the organization’s
matrix and models to incorporate the newest trends impacting the
company’s business practices, products and/or services.
Team Learning
Organizations are much more likely to perform well when employees work
e ectively as a team. Good teamwork creates synergy, where the combined
e ect of the team is greater than the sum of individual e orts. Synergy is the
interaction or cooperation of two or more organizations, substances, or other
agents to produce a combined e ect greater than the sum of their separate
e ects.
Whether learning teams are small or large, it is crucial to structure team
learning into an organization’s larger training program. Providing
collaborative activities over a long period of time will allow employees to
assume responsibility for their own learning, create strong and positive bonds
among employees, and decrease the likelihood of con icts that could develop
and, perhaps, grow into crisis situations for both a work team as well as the
entire organization.
One of the ways to initially structure and involve employees in team
learning is to form study groups or teams to analyze work or learning
materials and then explain it to one another. Another way is to form group
inquiry teams to receive work-related materials and share and discuss items
they do not fully comprehend. is sharing can create team cohesion. A third
way is to utilize ip op learning, where members of a team are given
di erent materials and are requested to study them and teach them to one
another.
As work and the working context become increasingly complex and
ambiguous, teams and individual team members must be able to learn and
adapt. is includes learning how to work together as a team. To promote
team learning (Silberman, 2006) and make optimum use of time, some
questions to consider would include the following:
Organizational Development
e long-range e ort to improve an organization’s problem-solving
capabilities and its ability to cope with changes in its external environment is
what organizational development is about. A classic de nition of
organization development comes from Richard Beckhard’s (1969)
Organization Development: Strategies and Models. “Organization
development is an e ort that is planned, organization-wide, managed from
the top, increases organization e ectiveness and health, and incorporates
planned interventions in the organization’s processes, using behavioral-
science knowledge.”
It is not a surprise that the unit of analysis for OD practitioners in
organizations focuses on developing organization capability through
alignment of strategy, structure, management processes, people, and rewards
and metrics. Some people get confused about the di erences between
organizational development departments and human resources departments.
Human resources professionals are primarily concerned with the e cient
management of the employment process (from recruitment to termination).
HR also focuses on helping the organization comply with governmental
regulations and on mitigating employment-related risks.
Human resources are concerned with
Organizational Behavior
Organizational behavior (OB) is a eld of study that investigates the
impact that individuals, groups and structures have on behavior within an
organization to enable applying this knowledge toward improving
organizational e ectiveness. Organizational behavior is an important concept
for any organization, since it deals with the three determinants of behavior in
organizations: individuals, groups and structure.
Organizational behavior then applies the knowledge gained about
individuals, groups and the e ect of structure on behavior to make
organization’s work more e ectively. OB is concerned with the study of what
people do in an organization and how their behavior a ects the organization’s
performance. Because OB is concerned with employee related situations, it
tends to emphasize behavior related to work, absenteeism, employment
turnover, human performance and management. e organization’s base rests
on management’s philosophy, values, vision and goals.
e purpose of organizational behavior is to gain a greater understanding
of those factors that in uence individual and group dynamics in an
organizational setting so that individuals and the groups and organizations to
which they belong may become more e cient and e ective. e eld also
includes the analysis of organizational factors that may have an in uence
upon individual and group behavior. is speaks directly to con ict, con ict
management and con ict resolution.
As a relatively new, interdisciplinary eld of study which draws most
heavily from the psychological and sociological sciences, it also looks to
other scienti c elds of study for insights. One of the main reasons for this
interdisciplinary approach is because the eld of organizational behavior
involves multiple levels of analysis, which are necessary to understand
behavior within organizations because people do not act in isolation—that is,
workers in uence their environment and are also in uenced by their
environment. is in turn drives the organizational culture which is
composed of the formal organization, informal organization, and the social
environment.
OB is an applied science, and as Terri Scandure writes, the four goals of
science are (1) description (examining what the process looks like); (2)
prediction (as to whether the process will occur again); (3) explanation (as to
why the phenomenon is happening); and (4) control (of whether the change
will happen) (Scandura, 2019).
Scandura provides the following example:
e forecasting of extra workers needed for a toy store during the holiday season is an important
process for ensuring the best customer service. HR understands how many customers will visit the
store based upon prior holiday seasons. e store managers have an understanding why customers
visit the store and when volume increases.
Prediction is important since managers need to project with accuracy how many additional
workers they will need to hire to meet customer demand. However, hiring forecasts aren’t always
accurate. In this example, the science is moderate for prediction. For control, one could say the
science is low because there are many reasons why customers may not visit the store that are outside
of the organization’s control. e better the initial understanding of how many workers will be
needed, the better the store manager should be able to predict how many seasonal workers to hire
and for how long.
One of the principled applications of OB is targeted toward the improvement of stakeholders’
skills. Developing these skills, especially for supervisors and managers, helps an organization to
attract and keep high-performing employees. Incorporating OB principles can help transform a
workplace from good to great with a positive impact on the bottom line. Because OB is concerned
with employment-related situations, it examines behavior in the context of job satisfaction,
absenteeism, employment turnover, productivity, human performance, and management [Robbins
and Judge, 2018].
Trust in almost all con icts is crucial. All parties involved in a con ict
resolution situation need to trust that the established process will help them
achieve agreements. A large study of group dynamics discusses the types of
social support that underlie trust in the workplace (Forsyth, 1999).
Gender In uences
Assertive, con dent, and dominant are just some of the characteristics
associated with leadership, yet when we think of employees that have those
traits, we generally tend to think of males. e reasoning is years of
hardwiring from a biological history of women playing the role of nurturing
caregiver. How does gender bias really a ect women in the workplace?
Gender a ects con ict dynamics at the societal and individual level.
Understanding the role of gender in con ict is best accomplished through an
analysis of three di erent levels: individual, interactional and societal.
Gender also a ects dispute handling mechanisms. In Gendered Lives:
Communication, Gender and Culture, Julia T. Wood (2010) postulates that the
processes used to resolve disputes for women were less e ective than for
men. For example, women were more o en transferred laterally instead of
resolving the dispute. According to work by gender expert Dr. Deborah Kolb
(2015) of the Simmons School of Management, men are more apt to
withdraw from a con ict situation than women.
In the same book, Negotiating at Work: Turn Small Wins into Big Gains,
Kolb and coauthor Jessica L. Porter write that women o en are the
“peacemakers” in their organizations. e women they studied acted as
informal peacemakers within their organizations. e women got involved in
people’s con icts because coworkers sought them out. ey provided a
sympathetic ear to their coworkers. ey also became involved because they
were loyal to the organization but also cared how the organization treated
people. ey provided support for people to tell their story, they reframed
people’s understandings of the situation, they translated people’s perceptions
of each other, and they orchestrated occasions for private con icts to be
made public. Women in the study were ambivalent about their role and skills
as peacemakers within the organization. ey felt that the important roles
they lled in the organization were not understood or appreciated.
Deborah Kolb’s earlier work focused on how women’s ways of
understanding the world based upon essential di erences a ected their
conduct in negotiations. Kolb focused on four themes that de ne women’s
place in negotiations: (1) a relational view of others; (2) a contextual and
related de nition of self and situation; (3) an understanding of control
through empowerment; and (4) problem solving through dialogue. Women’s
voices are di erent because of early social development and women’s places
in negotiation are di erent because of structural systems of discrimination.
Carol Watson (1996) examined whether gender or power was a better
predictor of managers’ negotiation behavior. She hypothesized that perceived
gender di erences in negotiation behavior are an artifact of status and power
di erences between men and women. is study provides a more realistic
review of the legitimacy of such gender stereotypes by comparing the e ects
of power and gender on negotiator behavior.
Cross-Cultural Leadership
Cross-cultural leadership is needed in diverse markets with a multicultural
workforce. is leadership can attract and retain top talent that can increase
pro tability and cost saving. e goal of leading with cultural intelligence
(Livermore, 2015) is to build relationships, determine goals, and build
agreement. Organization leaders must be cognizant that di erent cultures
view help in the building of agreement in innumerable ways. Some look at
these as “bottom up” strategies, while others incorporate “top down”
thinking.
Our places of employment are o en the most diverse settings in our lives.
Relationships with coworkers tend to cut across race, gender, religion, sexual
orientation, and political persuasion. Because of this, workplace
environments have the potential to make us better at working across
di erences. Yet, as businesses o en represent a microcosm of society, many
companies nd it di cult to avoid the animosity that society’s divisiveness
creates. Some studies show that workplace tension causes both generalized
stress and an increased reticence in regard to talking about controversial
issues, even when they impact the work.
When le unaddressed, the increasing tribalism that’s segregating our
society can spill into and undermine work environments. Forward thinking
companies need to take up the important work of addressing issues of
diversity, culture, and nding common ground to avoid con icts and the
escalation of workplace tension.
. Con ict: Unavoidable Aspect of
Organizational Life
Major Trends
We can all conclude that con ict is an unavoidable aspect of
organizational life and that it is a natural phenomenon. Wherever individuals
of di erent backgrounds congregate, whether in the workplace, groups or
associations, con ict is bound to occur. e growth of con ict may depend
upon many factors that include constant change, greater employee diversity,
more work teams (virtual and self-managed), less face-to-face
communication (more electronic interactions), and a global economy with
increased cross-cultural dealings.
Organizations have entered a new era characterized by rapid, dramatic and
turbulent changes. e accelerated pace of change has transformed how work
is performed by employees in diverse organizations. Change has truly
become an inherent and integral part of organizational life and con ict will
always be an unavoidable aspect.
A comprehensive review of con ict literature yielded this consensus
de nition: “con ict is a process in which one party perceives that its interests
are being opposed or negatively a ected by another party.” In another sense,
con ict may be viewed as a state of open, o en prolonged ghting: a battle or
war. Another de nition describes it as a state of disharmony between
incompatible or antithetical persons, ideas, or interests who are
interdependent. A simplistic description de nes con ict as a disagreement
through which the parties involved perceive a threat to their needs, interests
or concerns.
With a disagreement, there is usually some level of di erence in the
positions of the two (or more) parties involved in the con ict. But the true
disagreement versus the perceived disagreement may be quite di erent. In
fact, con ict tends to be accompanied by signi cant levels of
misunderstanding that exaggerate the perceived disagreement considerably.
If we can understand the true areas of disagreement, this will assist us in
solving the correct problems and managing the true needs of the parties. is
perceived disagreement re ects the ways we regard con ict. We can choose
to deal with it, avoid it, or resolve it.
e parties of the company that are involved o en see disparities in the
sense of who is involved in the con ict. Sometimes, employees are surprised
to learn they are a party to a con ict, while other times they are surprised to
learn they are not included in the disagreement.
People respond to a perceived threat at work, rather than the true threat,
facing them. us, while perception doesn’t become reality, o en people’s
behaviors, feelings and ongoing responses become modi ed by that evolving
sense of the threat they confront. If we can work to understand the true
threat (issues) and develop strategies (solutions) that manage it (agreement),
we are acting constructively to manage the con ict.
ere may be a tendency to narrowly de ne “the problem” as one of
substance or task. However, workplace con icts tend to be far more complex
than that, for they involve ongoing relationships with complex, emotional
components. ere are always procedural needs and psychological needs to
be addressed within the con ict in addition to the substantive needs.
Con ict is a problematic situation where (1) the con icting parties are
interdependent; (2) they have the perception that they seek incompatible
goals or outcomes or they favor incompatible means to the same ends; (3) the
perceived incompatibility has the potential to adversely a ect the relationship
if not addressed; and (4) there is a sense of urgency about the need to resolve
the di erence.
People Issues
William Schneider (2017) has identi ed several issues individuals have at
the workplace that could lead to potential con icts.
Working Behaviors
Accurate communications, high levels of trust and rational thinking build
working relationships that are, hopefully, con ict free. Di cult workplace
behaviors can inhibit performance in others and will only deteriorate if le
alone, contaminating more people and incurring hidden costs for the
organization. It takes many forms like rudeness, yelling, shunning, mobbing,
gossiping, refusing to talk to or acknowledge others, harassing, incessant
complaining to supervisors, ignoring directives, and slow working (Belak,
1998).
Most con icts within and involving people revolve around unful lled
needs, primarily the psychological need for control, recognition, a ection,
and respect. At its simplest level, the behavior manifested in the rejection of a
workmate creates obstacles to problem-solving. Our behaviors at work must
include a willingness to deal with our work partners as real persons (Fisher
and Brown, 1988). Possessing unful lled needs is common but when it is
displayed as problematic, it must be addressed. ere is no quick and easy
answer, but there is a signal and direction to change the behavior in others. It
takes time and patience to cure such negative characteristics, and it doesn’t
help to ignore the problem behavior. Professional conduct is to be expected at
the workplace and organizations can nd strength in diversity. Di erent
people have di erent perspectives on issues, and that can be valuable for
solving problems or generating new ideas. Being unable to understand why
someone holds a viewpoint doesn’t mean that they’re wrong.
e largest cost organizations may face in con ict situations is the expense
of litigation and related claims. Well-managed con ict, on the other hand,
leads to results that justify the importance and need for e ective con ict
management systems and processes.
Hidden Costs
Organizations that approach con ict with a strategic plan and concrete
corporate structures utilize these to create strategic initiatives, more e ective
systems of communication, and greater commitment to the organization. e
unresolved or escalating con icts may lead to the abovementioned costs.
ere are also hidden costs that can be more signi cant to the bottom line
and the overall vigor of the organization: (1) time and salary loss—many
studies suggest that close to 30 percent of a manager’s time is spent dealing
with employee con ict and helping employees reach agreement; (2) skill
shortfalls—building relational skills, such as those associated with e ective
negotiation, interpersonal communication, and collaborative problem-
solving, increases employees’ ability to deal with con ict before it becomes
destructive; (3) lack of data—company newsletters and department and
company meetings may not be used e ectively, and con ict arises from lack
of information; and (4) ine ective con ict management or ADR approaches
—many organizational cultures have little or no con ict management
approaches in place. E ective processes should emphasize collaboration and
consensus-building early in a dispute.
To ascertain evidence of these hidden costs, several commonly tracked
employee metrics can provide the HR and con ict managers with a wealth of
data to analyze and determine the true costs of con ict. Absenteeism,
turnover and grievance ling are some indicators of workplace con ict and
quantifying the costs of each of these factors can be used by managers to
prove the added value of human resources interventions and trainings.
Leading Change
Harry Truman once said, “A leader has the ability to get other people to do
what they don’t want to do and like it.” We must work hard to change an
organization successfully to deal with internal and external con icts. When
we plan carefully and build the proper foundation, dealing with con ict can
be much easier, and we can improve the chances of success. At Harvard
University, Professor John Kotter (1996) established a change model that
visualized how organizations could manage and implement change
powerfully and successfully.
Resistance to Change
Managing change and stress is discussed later; however, with the rate of
technological growth and the global economy, change is now the normal
state of business. Although change management decisions are normally made
at an executive level, it’s still very important to have the rest of the employees
bought into the change. Having employees who are opposed to what is going
to be changing from the start is a major setback and one that needs to be
dealt with carefully to be successful with the change management.
Many organizational change e orts fail to reach their objectives. e
major reasons people resist change are they fear a loss of status or job
security. ey see a poorly aligned reward system that is paired with the fear
of the unknown which can breed a climate of mistrust among the
stakeholders. Workers, work teams, departments and project managers
believe that the changes rely on faulty implementation methodology.
Employees resist change when it is introduced poorly to them, when it
a ects how they do their work, and when they don’t see and understand the
need for the changes. ey also experience resistance to change when they
are not involved in the decision to change or, at least, in making up the
speci c steps in the changes as they will a ect them.
Organizations of all types constantly experience change, because as
industries grow, businesses must evolve. Change needs to be dealt with in an
e ective and responsible manner, and if done correctly, it will seriously
bene t the company and make it a smooth transition. Pragmatic change
agents in organizations need to understand the reasons organizations resist
change.
Every organization has its own culture. Some are casual, with a focus on
the development of individual expression. Other rms stress regimented
work processes. When change is introduced into either of these models, it
can disrupt the cultural equilibrium.
ere are many di erent organizational structures. Change will have to
acknowledge and accommodate the company’s set structure. Many
organizations resist change because they don’t want to lose their invested
costs. Organizations fear the costs of change, which is why some are averse to
moving quickly.
e resistance to change in some companies rubs against the
organization’s culture. Culture is not climate. e climate of resistance targets
what the company’s core values, beliefs, norms and behaviors are. e
unwillingness to accept change may include the notions (Schwartz and Davis,
1981) that every organization has a culture, with separate cultures in di erent
subgroups. e company culture re ects what has worked in the past.
Another impression is that company strategies can be hidden, but culture can
give insight to it. Well-run organizations have distinctive cultures that allow
them to create, implement and maintain their leadership positions.
When the workforce resists change, is it because the employees feel that
they are being shaped and molded by the change or do they feel they have a
role in shaping the change? We have seen that the concept of change is
extraordinarily complex. Organizational change is centered on the following
propositions: (1) change requires both strong leadership and strong
management; (2) no single type of leadership is best for creating, inducing,
motivating and accomplishing change; and (3) each phase of the change
process requires committed leaders.
e best way to motivate people to help you ful ll your goals is to help them
ful ll their goals—Deepak Chopra
. Transformational Organizations
Why Organizations Fail
In her book Leadership from the New Sciences, author Margaret Wheatley
(2006) states that “the power of an organization is the capacity generated by
relationships and its real energy can only come into existence through
relationships.” She adds that power is energy and it needs to ow through the
organization without being con ned to functions or levels of hierarchy. ose
who relate through coercion or in disregard of others create negative energy
—con ict. Ten reasons why organizations and leaders fail are
Exemplary Leadership
Many of us nd ourselves on predictable paths of how things have been,
how things are, and how they will be. e status quo is forged by the synaptic
associations in our brains, beliefs, and assumptions. Exemplary leaders are
not content with the predictable path; they dare to look beyond the status
quo to imagine di erent outcomes than the one the predictable path leads to;
they blaze new paths (Bielenberg, Burn, Galle, & Dickinson, 2016).
An observable set of leadership skills and abilities can indicate exemplary
leadership in organizations that addresses best practices enabling companies
to grow, progress and move forward unhindered by con ict. Exemplary
leaders continually search for opportunities to change the status quo. ey
search for innovative ways to improve the organization. In doing so, they
experiment and take risks. Leaders know that risk taking involves mistakes
and failures, and they can accept the inevitable disappointments as learning
opportunities.
Leaders establish principles concerning the way all stakeholders should be
treated and the way goals should be pursued. Standards of excellence are
created and set as examples for others to follow. To establish these standards
and model the way e ectively, operational plans must be in place. Excellent
leaders steer projects along a predetermined course, measure performance,
give feedback, meet budgets and schedules, and take corrective action
(Kouzes and Posner, 1995). Because the prospect of complex change can
overwhelm people and sti e action, leaders set interim goals so that people
can achieve small wins as they work toward larger objectives. ey unravel
bureaucracy when it impedes action; they put up signposts when people are
unsure of where to go or how to get there; and they create opportunities for
victory.
Exemplary leadership behaviors will always make a profound positive
di erence in people’s commitment and motivation, their work performance,
and the success of their company. Two major behaviors exhibited by great
leaders are (1) fostering collaboration by building trusting relationships,
knowing that without trust, you can’t lead, and that trust is the key to
productive relationships, and relationships with peers, constituents and
customers are key to great businesses; and (2) strengthening others by
developing their competence. Exemplary leaders spend more time
supporting and mentoring their constituents to develop their competence
and con dence and then delegate e ectively with accountability.
Clearly, some individuals are better than others as leaders. In many
organizations there are tendencies to assign credit or blame for successes and
failures to company leaders. ese favorable or unfavorable outcomes have
been labeled by J. Richard Hackman (2002) as “leader attribution error.”
Many times, the good or bad outcomes have nothing to do with the leader
but are a result of the team members themselves for they are the ones who
worked together to generate the product or service. However, in some cases a
team leader’s actions do really spell the di erence between success and
failure. E ective leaders (Hackman, 2002) make certain they have established
work teams that will have stability over time while providing these teams
with compelling direction. ese leaders ne-tune the structure of teams to
foster, rather than impede, teamwork. ey also strive to tweak
organizational structures, so they provide teams with ample support and
resources. Many will arrange for and provide expert coaching to help teams.
Involving workforce members as participants in the leadership process
moves these employees into a consultative role within a project, department,
division or task-oriented team. By encouraging and supporting employees in
their e orts to share the leadership function, exemplary leaders delegate tasks
and they can be unencumbered and can focus on other issues.
Organizational Measurement
Business executives understand that their organization’s measurement
system strongly a ects the behavior of managers and employees. During a-
year-long research project, Kaplan and Norton (1992) surveyed 12
companies to give managers complex information at a glance. ey put the
ndings into a “balanced scorecard.”
Workplace Communication
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter—
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Communication is the sharing and conveyance of information between
two or more individuals. E ective communication requires all components
interworking perfectly for delivering shared meaning. e workplace is a
context in which all forms of communication take place and all types of
relationships are seen. Organizational communication is the process through
which members develop, maintain, and modify practices through their
communication with all stakeholders. It can be considered as task-oriented
and goal-oriented and is the basis for the development of relationships at
work (Keyton, 2011).
When you are part of an organization, you endeavor to learn the rules and
norms of that company. My colleague Joe DeVito (2019) has broken down
workplace communication into four major types. First, lateral
communication refers to message between equals—for example, worker to
worker, project leader to project leader. ese messages may move within the
same department of the organization or across divisions. Second, upward
communication consists of messages sent from lower levels of an
organizational hierarchy to upper levels—for example, eld workers to
program managers or from faculty member to dean. is type of
communication is o en concerned with work-related activities and
problems, ideas for change and suggestions for innovative improvements.
ird, downward communication consists of messages sent from the highest
levels to the lowest levels of the hierarchy. Common forms of downward
communication include explanations of procedures, goals and changes, and
company orders.
Grapevine messages, the fourth type of workplace communication, do not
follow any of the formal lines of communication established in an
organization. Much like grapevines, they seem to have a life of their own and
wander into all di erent directions. ese types of messages address topics
that you want to discuss in a more interpersonal setting, such as issues that
have not yet been made public or nalized.
As a communications professor for over thirty years, teaching speech and
interpersonal communication, I have o en grappled with three complex
questions: (1) Are there any systematic patterns of human communication
that lead to development of solid relations? (2) Are there strategies and
initiatives that assist in the building and destruction of these relationships?
(3) What can we learn about the answers to the rst two questions that will
help us to manage our interactions at work, deal with successes and failures,
and address common con ict areas?
Clinical professor of nance and psychologist Bruce Tuckman (1965) rst
came up with the memorable phrase “forming, storming, norming, and
performing” in his article “Developmental Sequence in Small Groups.” He
used it to describe the path that most teams follow on their way to high
performance. Later, he added a h stage, “adjourning” (which is sometimes
known as “termination”).
Forming: e work team meets and learns about the opportunities and
challenges, and then agrees on goals and begins to work on tasks. Members
may behave quite independently and be motivated. Members attempt to
become oriented to the tasks as well as to one another. Discussion centers on
de ning the scope of the task and how to approach it. To grow from this
stage to the next, each member must relinquish the comfort of non-
threatening topics and risk the possibility of con ict.
Storming: In this stage of work team development, the members of the
group start to gain each other’s trust. is stage o en starts when they voice
their opinions. Positive and polite atmospheres contribute to di erent
feelings of excitement, eagerness and positiveness, while others may have
feelings of suspicion and anxiety. Disagreements and personality clashes
must be resolved before the team can progress out of this stage, and so some
teams may never emerge from storming or re-enter that phase if new
challenges or disputes arise. is phase can become destructive to the team
and will lower motivation if allowed to get out of control. Questions may
arise about who is going to be responsible for what, what the rules are, what
the reward system is, and what criteria for evaluation are. ese re ect
con icts over leadership, structure, power, and authority.
Norming: Gradually, the team moves into the norming stage. is is when
people start to resolve their di erences, appreciate colleagues’ strengths, and
respect the authority of the team leader. People develop a stronger
commitment to the team goal, and progress can develop and grow. ere is
o en a prolonged overlap between storming and norming, because, as new
tasks come up, the team may lapse back into behavior from the storming
stage. Creativity is high at this stage; data ow and cohesion are attained by
the group members and their interactions are characterized by openness and
sharing of information on both a personal and task level. ey feel good
about being part of an e ective group.
Performing: e team reaches the performing stage when hard work leads
to the achievement of the team’s goal. e structures and processes that have
been set up support this well. Organizational leaders can delegate much of
the work, and then they can concentrate on developing team members. ere
is unity and group identity and the overall goal is productivity through-
problem-solving and work.
Adjourning: Many teams will reach this stage eventually. For example,
project teams exist for only a xed period, and even permanent teams may be
disbanded through organizational restructuring. Concluding a group can
create some apprehension. e most e ective interventions in this stage are
those that facilitate task termination and the disengagement process. is
nal stage was added in 1975 by Bruce Tuckman 10 years a er the initial four
stages. e end of the group, also referred to as the “mourning” or
“adjourning” stage, is seen to be a bittersweet accomplishment by many of the
group’s members. ey may share their experience of the process with one
another and share with each other the insight and hope they have acquired
throughout the experience. Positive accomplishments are celebrated.
In “How I Learned to Let My Workers Lead,” Ralph Stayer (1990)
describes how he learned to let his workers lead at this family business,
Johnsonville Sausage. Stayer observed that despite his company’s nancial
success, the employees were bored with their roles and took no responsibility
for their work. ey appeared in the morning, did their work and went
home. Stayer realized that he had been focused entirely on the nancial side
of the business and return on assets and had seen people only as dutiful tools.
e business had grown adequately, and that very success was the biggest
obstacle to change.
He had made all the decisions about purchasing, scheduling, quality,
pricing, marketing, sales, hiring, and all the rest of it. Now the very things
that had brought success, the centralized control, belligerent behavior, and
authoritarian business practices, were creating the environment that made
the CEO so unhappy.
Stayer had been Johnsonville Sausage, assisted by some hired hands who
lacked commitment. ey had no stake in the company and no power to
make decisions or control their own work. e norming, forming and
performing stages were su ering. To improve results, he had to increase their
involvement in the business. e transformation of Johnsonville Sausage
from a pro table, traditionally-managed company to an innovative and
growing organization came about from the relinquishing of control and
empowering the workforce to be all they wanted to be. Stayer observed that
performance grew because
In uence can be de ned as the ability to have an impact on the beliefs and
actions of an individual. It is the ability to a ect ideas and actions. In uence
evokes respect. Unlike power, in uence contains a mystic charm that those
under the in uence keep working in the desired manner even in the absence
of the in uential person. is charm involves connecting—the ability to
identify with people and relate to them in a way that increases one’s in uence
with them.
In uence is a desirable trait in any leader. Both power and in uence are
attributes that we come across very early in our lives. Power and in uence are
separate entities, contrary to common perception. ough many times it
looks like the person with authority is in uential because of his or her power,
o en the opposite is true. ere are di erences between power and in uence
though their ultimate purpose or objective is the same, and that is to control
others or to get them to do things you want them to do.
In uence and power are never the property of an individual; they belong
to a group and remain in existence only so long as the group keeps together
(Arendt, 1969). In some organizations there are subtle and not-so-subtle
power/in uence plays made by separate divisions. e sales division,
claiming they drive the company’s pro t base, may feel they are more
important than the public relations division. is relational view of power
and in uence causes discontent, jealousy and con ict within the employees
in the divisions and the organization.
In a power process, relational power is the perception of one’s ability to
in uence others in a speci c relationship. Relational power stems from the
relationship between and among coworkers. It is a judgment of the potential
in uence someone may have in relation to another person. Relational power
is generally experienced one of three ways: an individual’s capacity to shape
the relational environment; an individual’s ability to utilize the relationship to
bring a vision to manifestation; and the individual’s capacity to maintain the
relationship over time. e power to control or in uence others resides in the
control over things that individuals value, which may range all the way from
speci c resources to personal support (Emerson, 1962).
Relative power, on the other hand, is not an examination of the power
process but a comparison of two or more such processes or potential
processes. It is a perceived capacity to bring one’s vision to fruition in
comparison to others at a speci c point in a speci c environment.
As an example, in the United States the issue of legalization of marijuana is
presently being debated. Some states have legalized marijuana while others
have not. e federal government has not legalized marijuana. ose states
that have legalized marijuana have done so despite the federal government’s
policies. At present, the states are expressing high relational power and are
limiting the in uence of the federal government. However, if one were to
examine the relative power of the largest state in the country to legalize
marijuana (California), one would nd that the federal government is
relatively more powerful and could use other means to stop marijuana
growth, production, and sales which California would be hard pressed to
counteract. However, the war on drugs has also demonstrated that the federal
government does not have absolute power in this regard, even within the
nation’s borders, regardless of the states legalizing marijuana. In the relations
between the states and the federal government at present the relational power
seems to lie with the states on this issue while the relative power resides with
the federal government.
Types of Leverage
e word “leverage,” borrowed from physics, is frequently used in
nancial management. e term may be used to describe the ability of a rm
to use xed cost assets or funds to increase the return to its equity
shareholders. In other words, leverage is the employment of xed assets or
funds for which a rm must meet xed costs or xed rate of interest
obligations.
Leverage occurs in varying degrees and in basic theory it is the ability to
in ict loss and withhold gain (Voss, 2016). In organizational con icts power
and leverage are matters of perception and usually have an emotional concept
attached to them.
Positive leverage is the ability, as a negotiator, to provide things that your
counterpart wants. For example, if a teammate says, “I want another week to
work on developing the slide presentation for the project,” the other side has
the leverage to make that request come true. Conversely, leverage also exists
in withholding the extra week and thus exacting anguish.
Negative leverage is o en a threat-based form that represents one side’s
ability to make the other side worse o . is type of leverage will get people’s
attention because of the concept of “loss aversion.” In cognitive psychology
loss aversion refers to an individual’s tendency to prefer avoiding losses to
acquiring equivalent gains: No one’s interests are advanced by negative
leverage except for the gain that the individual employing the leverage may
get toward their ultimate desired outcome from a negotiation.
A third type of leverage is normative leverage. All employees have a set of
rules and a moral framework. Normative leverage relies on using social
standards or norms to encourage consensus. is type of leverage is
maximized when the negotiating groups agree on these social standards or
norms and see them as relevant to the discussion at hand. Normative
leverage stems from people’s desire to be reasonable in their decision-
making.
To be successful, one needs to identify the sources of power in
negotiations and use these sources e ectively. Power and leverage in
negotiating means the ability to exercise authority and in uence. e ability
or perceived ability to get things done is also power.
When seeking to gain leverage and conduct successful con ict discussions,
it is most helpful to: (1) identify the facts of the other party; (2) discover what
the other party wants by asking open-ended questions; (3) reduce a sense of
urgency to settle; and (4) be open to saying “no” to the other side’s demands.
Questions:
Assuming that Leslie’s style is the very opposite of yours, answer the
following questions:
What are you going to have to do so that you can work with Leslie?
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How would you work out some form of agreement with Leslie so that
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What would occur during this meeting? What are the areas of
disagreement and how do they t into the four quadrants of the Johari
window? What reasoning would the employee use and how would the
boss counter? What are several of the possible resolutions that might be
agreed to, and which quadrants play a strong role in determining the
agreement?
In the scenario “Show Me the Money” the employee asking for a pay
increase is using his pay-for-performance argument to justify his
request. e organization’s response is to deny the request using the
argument that the corporate culture does not entertain out-of-cycle
increases. Opportunistic employees see opportunities and go for them.
For an employee to grab an opportunity they need to know (1) the
company culture’s model, (2) what the boundaries and limitations are,
and (3) the risks involved.
Another view of opportunistic employees is that they are di cult
people who present problems. Simple signs of these di cult individuals
are easy to recognize: they show up late, leave early, procrastinate, turn
their work in late and make excuses for every shortcoming. Such
individuals o en fail to recognize how their actions contribute to the
circumstances for which they might be corrected, disciplined or red.
From the “open self ” in the Johari window we can see that
opportunistic members of the workforce might create a harmful and
toxic workplace. Some may resent and resist authority and repeatedly
challenge those in charge. Dissension might be created among team
members with blame for circumstances introduced and bandied about.
Of concern to the organization is the possibility that negativity might be
generated with customers, vendors, and other companies. Many
opportunistic members possess zero enthusiasm for the workplace,
colleagues, and projects. ey o en avoid discussion where their
behaviors will be confronted.
Achieving integrative (collaborative) win-win agreements will not
usually work with these individuals. If not addressed quickly, continual
discord and con ict will linger. Strategic actions must be undertaken to
prevent the escalation of con ict to the point it becomes unmanageable.
Before a decision is made to let a problematic worker remain or go, it is
prudent to consider the many ways that coaching or mentoring can
correct and help underperforming or problematic employees. Not every
laggard is a lost cause. A ording rehabilitative services could save the
organization the cost of hiring and/or training a replacement.
One of the very best ways to uncover, cope with, and correct negative
opportunistic employees is to have a company employee handbook that
delineates clear policies that will protect the business from toxic
in uences. It allows the organization to establish crystal clear protocols
for dealing with issues and provides a clear path to removing problem
employees. It also creates an atmosphere of trust, where the workforce
feels secure going to management or the human resources department
with concerns.
Finally, the nancial impact of toxic employees far exceeds most of
our expectations. Over two thousand employees were surveyed (Porath
and Pearson, 2009) and their reactions to being victims of workplace
toxic behavior are outlined below.
. Ethical, Moral and Human Issues in
Organizational Con ict
Guidelines, Principles, Codes
An organization is formed when individuals from di erent backgrounds
and varied interests come together for a common platform and work toward
prede ned goals and objectives. e workforce is the asset of an organization
and it is essential for employees to maintain the decorum and culture of the
workplace. e way an organization should respond to external
environments refers to organizational ethics. Organizational ethics includes
various guidelines, principles, and codes of conduct which decide the way
individuals should behave at the workplace.
“Businesses can’t just say they’re ethical, they need to prove they have
embedded ethical values,” writes Tim Melville-Ross (2013). Businesses have
depended upon trust and goodwill for commerce to ourish. Business must
be conducted in an open and honest manner; otherwise trust is eroded and
businesses fail. However, calls for an increased trust in business miss the
point—trust must be earned.
Corporations have entered a new era, the “prove-to-me” era. Trust me and
show me are no longer considered good enough. ere is a growing demand
for businesses not only to say they are ethical, but to prove they have ethical
values as part of their organization. Companies that aim high know the
bene ts of working ethically, but how can they ensure that an ethical culture
pervades everything they do? Initiatives such as “investing in integrity” can
go some way in measuring a company’s actual ethical standards against its
own code of ethics, helping to identify whether they are truly living up to
their values, from the boardroom down to the sta cafeteria. When trust is
eroded, a host of organizational con icts develop.
From debates over drug testing to analyses of scandals on Wall Street,
attention to ethics in business organizations has never been greater, yet much
of the attention given to ethics in the workplace overlooks some critical
aspects of organizational ethics.
When talking about ethics in organizations, one must be aware that there
are two ways of approaching the subject: the individualistic approach and the
communal approach. Each approach incorporates a di erent view of moral
responsibility and a di erent view of the kinds of ethical principles that
should be used to resolve ethical problems.
e development of ethical theory goes back to Plato and Aristotle and the
word ethics has its roots in the Greek word ethos, which translates to conduct,
character and customs. Ethics is concerned with the kinds of values and
morals an individual or a society nds appropriate. Ethical theory provides a
system of rules that guide us in making decisions about what is right or
wrong in a situation. Regarding organizations and leadership, ethics is
concerned with behaviors, and in any decision-making situation, ethical
issues are either implicitly or explicitly involved.
Any adequate understanding of, and e ective solution to, ethical problems
arising in organizations requires that we take both approaches into account
(Brown, 1989). ese two approaches, individualistic and communal, also
lead to di erent ways of evaluating moral behavior.
e ethical discussion of issues in the workplace usually takes an
individualistic approach, focusing on promoting the good of the individual.
O en it highlights individual rights, such as the right to freedom of
expression or the right to privacy. is approach chronicles that every
individual who is working within the organization is ethically answerable for
his or her behavior. e communal approach focuses on the common good
and considers harm or bene ts to the entire community. It is viewed as a
matter of fact that the people who are working together are equally
responsible for everything whether they are involved in that task or not
because all are considered team members.
When examining ethical and moral issues in an organization, one must
clearly understand an organization’s culture. Organization culture refers to an
organization’s beliefs, values, attitudes, ideologies, practices, customs, and
language. Even when the beliefs of the organization stem from the chief
executive o cer or the board of trustees, managers and the workforce need
to be committed to the organization’s goals for a culture to be shaped.
Dimensions that shape an organizational culture (Cartwright & Cooper,
1993) have four de nite characteristics: power, bureaucracy, achievement and
innovation, and support.
Power: is includes implicit rule, as well as control, stability, and loyalty.
Bureaucracy: Hierarchical structure that includes e ciency, predictability,
and control.
Achievement and innovation: Focus on creativity, adaptability, risk taking,
and teamwork.
Support: Characteristics include commitment, consensus, and growth.
One of the ethical challenges that large organizations must face is to have a
positive impact on the communities where they operate and do business.
Walmart’s extensive presence has a ected communities all over the United
States. e rst Walmart store opened in 1962 in Rogers, Arkansas, and by
1970 there were 38 stores with sales of $44.2 million. In 1990, Walmart
became the country’s number one retailer. e organization has faced
criticism that its economic impact limits the ability of local businesses to
survive. On its website, www.walmartstores.com, it states, “We aim to
strengthen local community cohesion and resilience while inspiring our
associates to give back. By designing giving programs that meet speci c
social needs, we work through our stores and associates to enable positive
change in the communities we serve.”
Ethical discussion considerations for this large organization were
developed by Edward C. Brewer (2013).
Ethical Leadership
Whether in group projects or organizational pursuits, leaders and
supervisors engage subordinates and utilize them in their e orts to achieve
common goals. Leaders have the ethical responsibility to treat employees
with dignity and respect and they must be sensitive to their subordinates’
needs and conscientious concerns (Beauchamp & Bowie, 1988).
Ethics is fundamental to leadership and leaders help to establish and
reinforce organizational values. e values promoted by company leaders
have a signi cant impact on the values exhibited by the organization
(Carlson & Perrewe, 1995), such as the Volkswagen emissions scandal and
the controversies surrounding rideshare giant Uber.
ese and other examples show what can happen when people at the top
of an organization make poor ethical choices and end up in the news or in
the courts. ere are, however, many other leaders who “raise the bar” and
inspire their teams to do the same. In short, ethical leadership is a form of
leadership in which individuals demonstrate conduct for the common good
that is acceptable and appropriate in every area of their life. It is composed of
three major elements: be an example; champion the importance of ethics; and
build quality work relationships by communicating.
Ethical leaders de ne and follow these standards:
Intellectual Capital
What is intellectual capital? In e Wealth of Knowledge, omas A.
Stewart (2001) states, “Simply put, knowledge assets are talent, skills, know-
how, know-what and relationships—and the machines and networks that
embody them—that can be used to create wealth.” He further notes, “Because
knowledge has become the single most important factor of production,
managing intellectual assets has become the single most important task of
business.”
For today’s organization an important consideration is the ability to
understand the nature of and realize the value of the assets of their workforce
or intellectual capital. is is the intangible value of a business, covering its
employees and the value inherent in its relationship with them. Business
ethics has a positive impact on the development of intellectual capital.
Knowledge has become the most important asset of modern businesses, and,
clearly, business ethics is associated with the development of intangible
knowledge resources, intellectual capital. Organizations with ethical values at
their core reinforce ethical conduct and successfully build trust with their
stakeholders, leading to the formation of an ethical and trustworthy
corporate culture and a positive corporate environment.
It is becoming accepted by an increasing number of companies that future
success depends upon their ability to utilize their intellectual resources and to
appreciate the inherent value of these. However, many organizations spend
less time and e ort in evaluating and tracking these than they do nancial
and physical assets (Cattell, 2005).
A business guided by ethical values reinforces ethical conduct and gains
the trust of stakeholders such as employees, customers and suppliers.
In uences of ethical values and trust in them form an organizational culture
of ethicality and trustworthiness and generate a positive environment that
encourages employees’ open communication, knowledge sharing,
cooperation and creativity and better organizational problem solving and
learning, leading to enhanced organizational capital (Su, 2014).
Business ethics received worldwide attention from the scandals of globally
renowned corporations such as Enron and Worldcom. Although unethical
behaviors may generate short-term bene ts, ethics can bring to businesses
competition and better performance through attracting talent, strengthening
employee commitment, and enhancing their image in the minds of investors,
customers and suppliers. Current successful and thriving organizations are
those that create intellectual capital and convert it into applicable methods to
improve their activities and performance. In addition, an ethical climate is
the key issue for such organizations gaining success in implementing the
relevant supportive systems.
What would occur during this meeting? What are the areas of
disagreement and how do they t into the ve styles of con ict management?
What con ict styles might be adopted by the PM and the VP and how would
they a ect the discussion? If several of the con ict styles merged together,
what would the impact be? What are several of the possible resolutions that
might be agreed to? How would power and leverage play into this internal
company con ict?
See Kilmann- omas Con ict Mode Instrument for additional styles.
Motivations
Motivation is generally de ned as the force that compels us to action. It
propels us to work hard and induces us to succeed. Motivation in uences our
behavior and our ability to accomplish goals. Are the motivations that move
employees the same as those that move senior management? Do individuals
share an understanding of how ambitions and fears in uence the day-to-day
functioning of the company? Does the organization have transformative
agendas that drive projects, product development, and services forward? Of
the time spent looking forward, is there a distinct and collective view of the
future?
Motivation is the desire to do things. It’s the di erence between waking
early to work on a project and delaying until the last moment to get moving!
It’s the central element in setting and attaining goals.
Di erent needs motivate people di erently. Building healthy and
successful teams, departments and divisions is not easy. ere are several
basic needs and many in the workforce are motivated by (1) a liation, the
need to belong where workers nd the social aspects of the environment
important; (2) power, the ability to gain satisfaction from being in control
and/or having in uence; (3) esteem, gaining praise and recognition; (4)
achievement, self-motivation to derive satisfaction from task
accomplishments; and (5) freedom, the autonomy and independence to
select one’s own options.
Building successful teams is easier when there’s recognition of what keeps
people motivated. Creating a work environment that supports people’s needs
goes a long way toward building a productive workforce. Some researchers
have found that perceived self-interest, meaning the rewards one believes to
be at stake, is the most signi cant factor in predicting dedication and
satisfaction toward work. It can account for about 75 percent of personal
motivation toward accomplishment. For more complex tasks people may be
more motivated by the need for autonomy, mastery and purpose (Pink,
2011).
Motivation is one of the forces that lead to performance. When we refer to
someone as being motivated, we mean that the person is trying hard to
accomplish a certain task. Motivation is clearly important if someone is to
perform well; however, it is not enough. Ability—or having the skills and
knowledge required to perform the job—is also important and is sometimes
the key determinant of e ectiveness. Environmental factors such as having
the resources, information, and support one needs to perform well are
critical to determine performance. At di erent times, one of these three
factors may be the key to high performance. For example, for an employee
sweeping the oor, motivation may be the most important factor that
determines performance. In contrast, even the most motivated individual
would not be able to successfully design a house without the necessary talent
involved in building quality homes. Being motivated is not the same as being
a high performer, and it is not the sole reason why people perform well, but it
is nevertheless a key in uence on our performance level.
Every individual has di erent motivations for working at a job. e
reasons for working are as individual as the person. But all people work
because the workplace provides something that they need from work. What
people get out of work impacts morale and the overall quality of their life.
Some work for the love of the work, others work for personal and
professional ful llment, and others desire to accomplish goals. e bottom
line for almost every employee is that they work for money, bonuses and
bene ts. Additionally, workers desire to be recognized for their good work
and judgment and want to feel what they are doing matters. All workers want
to be listened to, appreciated, and treated nicely.
Performance is a function of the interaction between an individual’s
motivation, ability, and environment (Mitchell, 1982). Performance equals
motivation times ability times environment.
Businesses with unmotivated employees will o en face low productivity
and high turnover rates. Di erent theories can help explain how workers can
be motivated. Understanding which theory best ts the workforce may help
improve the organization by increasing employee retention rates and
improving worker productivity. Unmotivated people can be a serious
concern in the workplace, especially if their attitude spreads to coworkers;
this can be remedied with a work environment that focuses on the
employees. A collaborative, positive workplace will not only motivate
otherwise apathetic people, but the entire sta will be more productive as
well.
Managing Di erences
As the workforce becomes increasingly diverse, organizations will need to
deal e ectively with con icts. Almost all large organizations in the 21st
century are global, interdependent, complex, and rapidly changing. at
means state-of-the-art global leadership skills are required more than ever
today. Individual and organizational success is no longer dependent solely on
business wisdom. Our ability to communicate and manage across countries
and cultures has never been as important as it is now.
Richard Frey (2015) of the Pew Research Center released statistics from
the U.S. labor force showing how Millennials or Generation Y have surpassed
Generation X as the largest generation working in America. It is also true
that for the rst time in history, some workplaces have four generations
working alongside each other, the Mature or Traditional Generation, Baby
Boomers, Generation X and Generation Y.
More than one in three American labor force participants (35 percent) are
Millennials, making them the largest generation in the U.S. labor force,
according to a Pew Research Center analysis of U.S. Census Bureau data, and
as of 2017, 56 million Millennials (those ages 21 to 36 in 2017) were working
or looking for work. at was more than the 53 million Generation Xers,
who accounted for a third of the labor force. And it was well ahead of the 41
million Baby Boomers, who represented a quarter of the total. Millennials
surpassed Gen Xers in 2016.
Meanwhile, the oldest members of the post–Millennial generation (those
born a er 1996) are now of working age. Last year, nine million post–
Millennials (those who have reached working age, 16 to 20) were employed
or looking for work, comprising 5 percent of the labor force.
An organization’s ability to deal e ectively with di erences depends on its
ability to diagnose and understand di erences. e company is capable of
selecting appropriately from a variety of behaviors. e awareness of and
ability to deal with feelings, particularly those which might impact social
sensitivity and action exibility, also impacts the understanding of di erences
(Tannenbaum and Fred Massarik, 1957; Coser, 1956).
Two basic assumptions underlying this problem, as described by Schmidt
and Tannenbaum (1960), are that di erences among people should not be
regarded as inherently “good” or “bad” and that there is no one “right” way to
deal with di erences. ey go on to state that “when a manager’s
subordinates become involved in a heated disagreement, they do not tend to
proceed in a systematic manner to resolve their di erence. e issues o en
remain unclear to them, and they may talk at rather than to one another.”
In analyzing the major issues of the disagreement, the resolution specialist
should look for the following:
Generational Di erences
When we talk about generational di erences, it’s easy to fall into overly
generalized stereotypes. Stereotypes are trivial for many reasons; the key one
is how quickly they can change given history and context. No generation is
one monolithic group of people who all behave the same way. It’s important
to consider what makes each one tick because this is the rst time in history
that di erent distinct generations are in the workplace simultaneously.
Having ve generations side by side in society is nothing new. inking
about what drives each generation with which we interact can provide insight
to how to maintain harmonious relations and how to avoid and/or confront
con ict. Each person in the workforce is a unique individual, but these
generational signi ers may o er some clues into the behavior of people born
in di erent eras.
e West Midland Family Center (2018) developed a “generational
di erences chart” which includes the attributes of each generation.
Organizations that understand how to address generational con icts
successfully and leverage each generation’s strengths will be better able to
keep employees motivated and productive.
e following discussion can take place in small groups that can
demonstrate how di erent generational types can reach decisions about this
downsizing exercise.
a. A 39-year-old divorced woman who has reentered the workplace two years ago, a er raising
three children.
b. A 31-year-old engineer who is known to be a con rmed racist.
c. A former priest who le the church under questionable circumstances, but who is performing
very well on the job.
d. A 19-year-old woman who is putting herself through college.
e. A 57-year-old white male whose wife is dying of cancer.
f. An opinionated woman who has a strong track record and has been lobbying for promotion.
g. A 26-year-old man who is a strident conservative Republican.
h. A woman who works two jobs to support her invalid parents.
i. A man who was formerly a member of the terror group ISIS and now works with the CIA to
destroy them.
j. A talented man with several years of excellent service who is a homosexual.
Using the attributes chart, examine the responses of each generational type as it relates to
the age of the members of the department, gender, family background, marital status,
political a liation, sexual orientation, and social a liations.
A New Mindset
Companies will have to change the way they deal with the next generation
of new employees. Every generation has been exposed to a unique set of
events that de nes their place in history and molds their outlook. is new
generation has grown up with such de ning moments as the school
shootings in Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado, and Stoneman
Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, the Gulf War, the
#MeTooMovement, the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001, devastating
hurricanes, the BP oil disaster, and the Trump presidency. Certainly, the most
signi cant change a ecting the new young workforce lies in the computer,
the Internet and other technologies (Tapscott, 2009).
For the new mindset to function, and succeed in the workforce,
organizations must rethink and adapt to the ways of the new generation’s
culture. Don Tapscott has postulated these guidelines:
e new generation focuses on the activity, not the speci c technology, that
enables them accomplish tasks. It’s not text messaging, instant messaging and
e-mailing. It’s communicating, collaborating and engaging. Organizations
that understand this will revolutionize the workplace of tomorrow. Working
with these recent hires is about developing new opportunities and increasing
pro ts and successes. e new generation is the largest in American history,
over 100 million and counting, and its intuitive use of technology is quickly
changing how workplaces work.
In the years that followed the Deepwater Horizon crisis the fury and outcry
over BP’s role in the spill e ectively erased the progress BP had made on the
corporate responsibility fronts in the previous decade. Long before many of
the world’s largest companies began paying serious attention to their
operations’ social and environmental impacts, BP was a trailblazer on the
corporate reporting scene. Ten years a er the crisis, former CEO Tony
Hayward sounded progressive in the company’s 2008 sustainability report
when he stated that he did not see a distinction between sustainability and
performance. e company had launched some promising investments in
renewable energy, discussed its safety record and o ered substantial
discussion on what it was doing to address the growing risks of climate
change.
e negativity surrounding this oil spill crisis did eventually subside and
BP is still a major player within the global energy sector. e company
continued with business as usual in over 80 countries with approximately
84,000 employees. BP continued to move ahead with its plans in the
conventional and renewable energy industries with investments in its share of
energy projects, including those in wind farms and biofuels. e oil giant
encourages its business units scattered across the globe to publish their own
sustainability reports. BP’s sustainability website serves as a large archive of
case studies, from ensuring labor rights within the sugarcane ethanol
industry in Brazil to encouraging students in its home country to pursue
interests and careers in science (Kaye, 2015).
Another large organization, McDonald’s has had its fair share of crisis
situations in the past. One example involves the release of a Shrek movie cup
that was said to contain the toxic metal cadmium. Issuing a recall on the
Shrek cups had to be taken into consideration. McDonald’s took
responsibility for their actions and they wanted to make certain that their
consumers understood that everything would be taken care of. e way
McDonald’s dealt with a situation, amid media coverage of this crisis, was to
set forth cleaning up and dealing with the situation at hand. e key elements
of the McDonald’s crisis management plan are (1) be prepared, (2) be
available, and (3) be credible.
A second crisis that McDonald’s had to confront was the potential risk to
customers from the allegations of employees tampering with food orders.
With all altered food products, there is the potential that the customer might
become physically ill. McDonald’s appealed to their customer base, letting
them know that they were concerned about their well-being and o ering help
and guidance to those in need of medical attention. e company
investigated each restaurant and terminated the employees who allegedly
tampered with the food. To ensure safety to customers, in the event of alleged
food tampering by an employee, McDonald’s initiated proper health and
safety training exercises to all employees. ese standards are required of all
employees of a fast food chain and McDonald’s took measures to ensure that
employees were working accordingly.
In all cases of crisis at the organizational level, systems must be in place to
manage a great deal of information, interpret its meaning and relevance to
the situation, assess the merits of proposed solutions, and prioritize and
select the best solutions. Companies realize that crisis planning and
preparedness (prevention) can facilitate coordinated responses (intervention)
to boost and heighten a return to safety, normalcy and resolve.
Workplace Violence
Workplace con icts, according to one study (Psychometrics, 2010), center
on such issues as
Group Purpose
All groups share common interests and goals and the members share
interactions and interdependence. Groups tend to have a collective identity
and a de ned structure that de nes roles, responsibility and authority.
e con ict-free group working on projects and assignments may not
really exist. Company teams do not need to exist without a task. ese work
tasks can be de ned as an activity in which a decision or solution cannot be
made without the input of all team members (Fisher, 1971). In some cases,
the team project is objective or factual, and in other cases, the task is
subjective. To facilitate the accomplishment of a team or department task,
group members should do the following (Shaw, 1981):
Traditional Team
Self-Managing Team
Successful Groups
ere are many approaches to formulate de ning characteristics of
successful groups. In addition to the goal of solidifying solid relationships
among group members, Hackman (1987) details ve factors necessary for the
development of successful groups:
Use his or her energy, talents, and e orts to achieve the team’s goals;
ful ll his or her individual roles and responsibilities;
use de ned processes and mechanisms that enable the team to
function at peak performance.
expect con ict and deal with it as a positive sign of growth; and
support each other, follow through on commitments, and take
ownership of the team’s success.
Poor Collaboration
Smart organizations bring people together to work smarter. Collaboration
drives innovation, better decision making, reduced product cycles, faster to-
market success. Delivering collaboration is not always as simple as knowing
you need it. Collaboration is certainly a top priority for many business
leaders; however, knowing what makes organizations successful can be
problematic and complex. Not all companies are alike, and their strategies
and technologies can be di erent. Initiatives involving collaborative e orts
can emanate from di erent departments with di erent budgets. Distinctive
user case scenarios o en require di erent organizational approaches.
1. Too many cooks: With collaborative groups, you can end up with
too many people trying to lead the team, and not enough members
that are willing to take a backseat and do what it takes to get the job
done.
2. Ill will: Tension from above can ow into other areas of the work
environment, causing stress among the rest of the sta , including
those that may not even be involved in the collaborative e ort.
3. Not my style: With collaborate projects there may be a con ict in
the working styles of the individuals within the group. is can hold
up progress on accomplishing the job at hand, while team members
instead get tangled up in con icts caused by the di erent ways team
members approach the work.
4. Meeting mania: Collaboration in the workplace can result in
scheduling many meetings; however, some of the most successful
enterprises in the world have fewer meetings. e priority is to limit
redundancy and foot-dragging. Too many meetings will cloud
objectives and expectations.
5. e road not taken: When working with others to reach decisions,
individuals can become too con dent in the accuracy of collective
thinking and may choose between the quality of the team work and
the quality of workplace relationships and tend to follow majority
views without postulating their own ideas.
6. is is not consensus: e idea that everyone must sign o on
everything is not collaboration, it’s o cialdom. Honest
collaboration is the process of soliciting input and feedback from
people who possess di erent points of view or expertise that can
strengthen the work.
7. Con ict abounds: People don’t always get along and sometimes
personalities just don’t mesh. Collaborative leaders need to identify
situations where team members are in con ict and then develop an
action plan that can help everyone to perform optimally.
8. Inclusion illusion: is pitfall occurs when a leader embraces the
idea of including others in the decision-making process yet does
not really want others to participate. Many times, individuals spot
this immediately. is precludes non-inclusion, when people are
never asked for any input or opinion.
1. Focus on goals.
2. Every project or situation is di erent.
3. Work incrementally.
4. Find standards.
5. Be transparent and constructive, not manipulative.
6. Always communicate, state the obvious and frame the vision.
7. Embrace di erences.
Cohesive team members work with their strengths rather than working
around their weaknesses.
When people on teams are connected through their potencies, each one is
set up for success because they work on tasks that play to those respective
strengths.
e Space Creature (Michalko, 2006)
Have a group imagine a creature living on another planet with a di erent atmosphere in a distant
solar system. Draw a picture of the creature you imagine. en share your drawing with the group. You
may discover that most people drew creatures that resemble life as we understand it, even though we are
free to think up anything. Rather than creating something that is idiosyncratic and unpredictable, most
people create creatures that have a great deal in common with one another and the properties of typical
Earth animals. People drawing space creatures could have tapped into any existing knowledge base to
get an idea for the general shape of their creature, and each person could access something di erent and
novel. But most people do not, and so they wind up drawing creatures that have similar properties to
creatures on Earth.
Virtual Teams
e availability of communication technology has led to the creation of
virtual teams. Virtual teams are any teams whose member interactions are
mediated by time, distance and technology. Such teams can save
organizations the challenges and cost of setting up additional infrastructure
in locations where they want a presence, but a physical space is not needed.
Technology and accessibility to global talent have made it possible to make
this a sustainable phenomenon of having many employees, and it is turning
out to be the optimal way “remote working” can be used by having a
dedicated resource pool. As businesses are hosting most of their
infrastructure online people across the world can simultaneously access the
same project and chat as easily as if they were in the same room together.
Digital workplaces and virtual teams are now popular options for forward-
thinking companies. Typical types of virtual team meetings that are created
by virtual information technology are outlined by Mittleman and Briggs
(1999).
e challenges of virtual teams are both common and manageable.
Communication styles may be di erent: Everyone has di erent preferences
when it comes to communication. Virtual team employees must understand
what the expected level of communication is. Leading a virtual team requires
a strong manager to pull things together and create a productive team.
Virtual teams usually lack the informal, everyday conversations that co-
located employees take for granted. ey may be deprived of nonverbal cues
that indicate whether a colleague is on board or annoyed.
Deindividuation: Working within the virtual team structure may result in
the loss of self-awareness and evaluation apprehension caused by employees
feeling anonymous. One of the impacts of deindividuation is that employees
may be more willing to say things they would not say in face-to-face
interactions and that could precipitate a rise in a host of negative emotions
and eventually in con ict scenarios.
Distracting technology environments: Virtual teams o en struggle with
distracting environments. Each distraction diminishes the e ciency of
usually well-performing employees.
Lack of trust: Individuals can’t see what others are doing, and responses
may not be immediate. Trust can be a problem when only some team
members are virtual. Awareness of each other’s contributions helps to build
trust. As well as setting clear goals and expectations, leaders should make
sure that individual roles and responsibilities are publicized within the team.
Missing an o ce culture: It is di cult to create an e ective o ce culture
when there is no o ce. Colleagues may go days without “speaking” to each
other and it’s likely that they’ll never meet in person.
Loss of team spirit: Cohesiveness builds gradually in face-to-face teams,
while virtual teams o en feel like no more than globally dispersed
individuals working on the same project. Virtual leaders are responsible for
creating a clear and compelling direction for the team and making sure each
individual is connected to the team vision. Team members’ individual goals
should be linked to the team’s overall goal and to each other.
Meeting schedules: Since many virtual teams nd themselves working from
di erent places in the world, setting up meetings can be di cult. When
teams work on di erent schedules, everyone must compromise.
e White Hat
e White Hat calls for information known or needed. O ers
objective facts and gures and can be used near the beginning of a
meeting to establish relevant data.
e Red Hat
e Red Hat signi es feelings, hunches, instincts and intuition. e
emotions are used to get people’s reactions to ideas.
e Black Hat
e Black Hat is judgment, the devil’s advocate or why something
may not work. Used when critical viewpoints or ideas are needed to
decrease the chances of making poor decisions.
e Yellow Hat
e Yellow Hat symbolizes brightness and optimism. Used to help
identify the values of ideas and plans. Helps to counterbalance the
judgmental thinking of the Black Hat.
e Green Hat
e Green Hat focuses on creativity: the possibilities, alternatives and
new ideas. Used to generate and produce fresh ideas and new directions.
e Blue Hat
e Blue Hat is used to manage the thinking process. Sets objectives,
outlines the issues, summarizes and draws conclusions at the end.
By having collaborative group members wearing and changing these
hats, the work team will bene t by maximizing productive collaboration
and minimizing counterproductive interactions and behaviors. Con ict
issues, problems, decisions and opportunities are worked on
systematically using parallel thinking as a group or team tends to
generate more and better ideas and solutions. Work meetings can be
much shorter and more productive and stimulate innovation by
generating many ideas. is type of collaborative and lateral thinking
can assist with (1) spotting opportunities where others see only
problems; (2) thinking clearly and objectively; (3) viewing problems
from new and unusual angles; (4) making thorough evaluations; and (5)
achieving signi cant and meaningful results in a shorter period of time.
One of the major purposes of the Six inking Hats is the utilization
of parallel thinking. Parallel thinking can be viewed as a thinking
process where focus is split in speci c directions. When done in a group
it e ectively avoids the consequences of the adversarial and divisive
approach. In adversarial debate, the objective is to prove or disprove
statements put forward by disputants. With parallel thinking,
practitioners put forward as many statements as possible in several
(preferably more than two) parallel tracks. is leads to greater
exploration of a subject where all participants can contribute, in parallel,
with knowledge, facts, and feelings.
Using parallel thinking and the Six inking Hats, individuals in
groups can change their thinking. If a member of a group has been
persistently negative, de Bono suggests that the person be asked to take
o the Black inking Hat. is is a signal to the person that he or she is
being negative. e person may be also asked to put on the Yellow
inking Hat. at would be a direct request to be positive. It is in this
way the six hats provide an idiom that is de nite without being
o ensive. What is most important is that the idiom doesn’t threaten a
person’s ego or personality. As role-play, the concept of the hats makes it
possible to request certain types of thinking.
ings do go wrong at work. Hopefully, executives, managers,
workers, teams, departments and divisions have a structure in place to
deal with problems. How organizations deal with problems sets the tone
for how the entire workforce behaves. Dealing e ectively with problems
in collaboration with each other will improve morale and promote
accountability and calculated risk-taking.
Dr. de Bono’s Six inking Hats is a powerful technique for looking
at decision making from di erent points of view for it allows emotion
and skepticism to be brought into what might normally be a purely
rational process, and it opens up the opportunity for creativity within
decision making.
Decisions made using the Six inking Hats technique can be
sounder and more resilient than would otherwise be the case. e
technique can also help avoid possible pitfalls before commitments to a
decision are made.
Negotiation
Negotiation is the ability to settle a dispute with another person without
engaging a mediator, attorney or arbitrator. Recently, I brought in four shirts to
my dry cleaner, and when I picked them up, took them home, and removed the
plastic, I discovered that one of my favorite shirts, which I have had dry-cleaned
before, had shrunk. I returned with my shirt to the store and informed them of the
problem. ey denied that they were responsible and said that I must have
brought the shirt in that way. Our conversation became heated and neither of us
got anywhere until I mentioned that I would no longer be a customer and I would
le a complaint with the consumer a airs division that licenses this enterprise.
e owner then asked me what I wanted. I mentioned that the shirt cost $49 and I
wanted that in repayment. e response was that the shirt was no longer new, and
the store o ered me $20. We continued to talk and we eventually agreed on $35
for the shrunken garment and a $15 voucher for my next dry-cleaning bill. Our
verbal exchange to reach a win-win agreement is called negotiation.
Negotiation is a communication interaction that involves individuals that have
con icting goals or interests and the object is to reach an agreement. An
important part of negotiating is to understand what is and what is not negotiable.
A former Washington Post editor, Robert Estabrook, once said, “He who has
learned to disagree without being disagreeable has discovered the most valuable
secret of a diplomat.” Integrative or collaborative negotiation is an interest-based
strategy that allows for the “pie” to be enlarged through communication and
usually results in win-win settlements. Dividing the xed “pie” is distributive
negotiation and usually ends up in a win-lose settlement. Some researchers believe
that people will not negotiate with you unless they believe you can help them or
hurt them. In his book You Can Negotiate Anything, author Herb Cohen (1980)
states that anything that was negotiated is negotiated. In most organizations the
following are negotiable.
Members of a workforce that face con ict can use integrative negotiation
techniques to reach satisfactory agreements and resolutions. ese are internal
negotiations and can be worked out in a neutral place in the organization like a
small conference or meeting room. ese types of negotiations provide the parties
time to explore their mutual interests in achieving win-win closure, so they can
return to work with realized mutual gains. e major bene t of integrative
negotiation is that it combines formal bargaining techniques with basic and
concrete interpersonal communication skills. e parties explore their interests to
see what is compatible or incompatible and can discuss and explore many possible
options that will satisfy their interests. is clear communication can preserve and
improve the relationship between the individuals and that, in turn, is a huge
bene t to the organization.
Interrupt the tactic by taking a break, which should give everyone time to
gain control of their emotions, in addition to halting any momentum that
is going against you.
Call them out for this ploy!
Sidestep the tactic by shi ing the focus back to the issue at hand.
A little girl goes with her dad to a shopping center, and she asks, “Hey,
Daddy, can I have an ice-cream cone?” He replies, “You want one now?”
“Yes!” she urges him. “I won’t tell Mom.”
A man’s boss calls him into the o ce and out of the blue says, “Joe, I’d like
to o er you a raise.” “You want to o er me a raise?” he asks skeptically.
A prisoner in jail calls out to his jailer, “Hey! Give me a cigarette!” e
jailer shakes his head. “You know the rules. No cigarettes.” “Aw, come on,”
says the prisoner.
1. Learn to inch.
e inch is one of the oldest negotiation tactics but one of the least used.
A inch is a visible reaction to an o er or price. e objective of this
negotiation tactic is to make the other people feel uncomfortable about the
o er they presented. Here is an example of how it works.
A supplier quotes a price for a speci c service. Flinching means you
respond by exclaiming, “You want how much?” You must appear shocked and
surprised that they could be bold enough to request that gure.
2. e person with the most information usually does better.
You need to learn as much as you can about the other person’s situation.
is is a particularly important negotiation tactic for salespeople. Ask your
prospect more questions about their purchase. Learn what is important to
them as well as what they need and want.
3. Maintain your walk away power.
It is better to walk away from a negotiation than make too large a
concession or give too deep a discount your product or service. Negotiating
is a way of life in some cultures. And most people negotiate in some way
almost every day. Apply these negotiation strategies and you will notice a
di erence in your negotiation skills almost immediately.
Sometimes no deal might be the best deal. All negotiations in organizations
need not conclude in deals. Errors can lie in wait to make negotiations toxic:
cultural ga es, irritating styles, inadvertent signs of disrespect or
untrustworthiness, bad timing, or a poorly designed agenda.
In business negotiations one needs to understand the company’s or
department’s needs and interests, but it is equally important to understand
the other side’s perspectives. is can be worked on in the planning stage. As
important as price is in many negotiations, focusing exclusively on price can
turn potentially cooperative deals into adversarial ones. Skilled negotiators
concentrate on the following nonprice factors: (1) a good working
relationship; (2) fairness to the spirit of the deal; (3) a personal, respectful
and straightforward negotiating process; and (4) keeping all potential
stakeholders in the loop.
e three vital elements in negotiation are the issues, the positions, and
the interests. Issues are aboveboard for explicit agreement. Positions are one
party’s stances on those issues. Interests are the underlying concerns that
would be impacted by any resolution. Positions on issues re ect underlying
interests, but they need not be identical.
In the end, successful negotiations and negotiators seek common ground.
Common ground usually can overcome the di erences that divide parties in
negotiation and seeking common ground is generally a good thing. Gottlieb
and Healy (1998) have outlined some principles of negotiation.
e greatest failure in negotiation is failing to negotiate.
e most important person to know in negotiation is yourself.
Everyone has power in negotiation.
Single-issue bargaining leaves both parties unsatis ed.
Urgency drives decisions.
Agreement is the end; trading o is the means.
Even in a collaborative environment, best results are obtained by
keeping the other party on a “need to know” basis.
Success in negotiation is directly related to the amount and kind of
preparation preceding the negotiation.
e ability to walk away puts a negotiator in a strong position.
Even when two sides are far apart on major issues, there are always
things they can agree upon.
When negotiating to reach and close a deal, it is important to remember
that a deal is merely a promise; a relationship ensures the desired outcome.
Contracts can’t replace communication, and negotiating relationships is a
process, not a transaction. You will have greater success in your negotiations
if you give your counterpart (1) admiration—treating them with respect, (2)
a liation—approaching them as business partners with whom you want to
work cooperatively, and (3) acknowledgment—appreciating the merit of their
thoughts, feelings and actions (Billing-Yun, 2010).
e most durable agreements depend on open communication among
cooperative parties who can explore opportunities for mutual gains while
preserving or improving upon their relationships.
Team Negotiation
When conducting business negotiations there are very few instances
where it is better to work individually rather than as a team. e key
advantages include having a broad base of knowledge at hand, more concrete
planning, and team members reinforcing each other. Teams may be capable
of nding common ground more quickly and isolating and prioritizing the
issues and sub-issues. Devising a complex negotiation team requires selecting
a great team leader that can manage the diversities of the group. It is not
uncommon for negotiating teams to grapple with con icting interests and
priorities. Team leaders can confront diverging interests, and this will assist
in clarifying goals, uncovering possible personality con icts, and eventually
building unity of purpose. Vital to successful team negotiating is dividing the
labor within to construct coordination among all the parts and developing a
negotiation plan that makes full use of each team member’s input.
Unity within a negotiating team is another important attribute. e team
should understand the subject and come to an agreement on the basic
negotiation substance. In the planning stages, they will need to decide which
information will be revealed during the negotiation (and which information
should not be revealed in the process). Another important attribute is
knowing the other side very well. is involves the collection of as much
information about the other side as possible. is will be easier because there
is more than a single negotiator to engage in the discovery aspect.
Negotiation team members should be chosen for the knowledge they
possess, related to the current negotiation, and the cohesiveness they will
bring to the team. ey should not be chosen based on their position, title, or
skills they brought to prior negotiations, if such attributes do not add value to
the negotiation in which you’re about to enter. Nor should anyone who is too
independent be placed on the team. Someone who is too independent could
prove to be an issue.
An integrative or collaborative team negotiation begins with the premise
that developing and preserving relationships is a key value of the process.
Negotiation teams using an integrative model educate each other about their
needs and engage in problem-solving to reach a resolution that will integrate
their needs. When the negotiators explore their interests, they will nd that
they share interests and that solutions beyond xed pie choices are possible
(Gri th & Goodwin, 2016).
Since negotiation team solutions can be complicated, it might be prudent
to keep the teams relatively small. Identifying the various roles that need to
be represented will help to determine which and how many people should be
on the team. With a large team, the hardest negotiation is o en before you
get to the table. Assigning roles on the team is essential.
It may not always be clear when an organization should assemble a
negotiation team. According to Cornell University professor Elizabeth
Mannix (2004), negotiating as a team can be preferable to going it alone in
the following situations:
complex negotiations that require diverse knowledge;
negotiations with great potential for creativity and value creation;
negotiations with multiple constituents who all have a stake in the
outcome;
international contexts in which team negotiations are the norm; and
negotiations in which there is enough time to coordinate a team
approach.
Working as part of a negotiation team has its positives. In negotiation, two
or more heads can be better than one. Some researchers have found that
teams are better at e ective negotiation strategies such as developing
tradeo s among issues as compared to solo negotiators. Teams tend to be
better than solo negotiators at exchanging information with counterparts and
making accurate judgments, and they tend to reach better outcomes. Teams
also tend to feel more powerful, less competitive, and less pressured than
individual negotiators. e tendency of teams to outperform solo negotiators
has been attributed to several factors, including the high economic goals that
teams set for themselves, their heightened sense of competition, and
members’ tendency to challenge one another’s views. It may also be
important that those participating in a team negotiation monitor one
another’s behavior, while individuals o en negotiate unobserved by others in
their organizations. Monitoring tends to amplify the social norms, or
behavioral expectations, that are so important in a negotiation ( ompson,
Peterson & Brodt, 1996).
Framing in Negotiation
One of the most important issues in negotiation is framing. A frame is the
subjective mechanism through which negotiators evaluate and make sense of
situations, leading them to pursue or avoid subsequent action. A frame o ers
perspective by managing the alignment of the observer in relation to an issue.
Framing is about focusing, shaping, and organizing the world around us, and
because people have di erent backgrounds, experiences, expectations, and
needs, they o en frame people, events and processes di erently. It directs the
observer to focus on a feature of an issue within the frame and to disregard
other features of the same issue that fall outside this frame.
Negotiation framing is the process of highlighting what will be discussed
during the negotiation, and preemptive framing is the process incurred to
better position oneself to frame the negotiation—attempting to frame the
points of discussion that you’d like to be addressed prior to the opposing
negotiator doing so. Just as a point of reference, preemptive framing can also
occur any time prior to a negotiation. Preemptive framing is so important in
the negotiation process, and if done right, it can position you and your
agenda to be viewed in a more favorable light than what otherwise might
have been the case.
How parties frame and de ne a negotiating issue or problem is a clear
re ection of what they de ne as critical to negotiating objectives, what their
expectations and preferences are for certain possible outcomes, what
information they seek and use to argue their case, the procedures they use to
present their case, and the way they evaluate the outcomes and resolutions
achieved (Lewicki, Barry and Saunders, 2007).
Types of Frames
Substantive: what the negotiation is about.
Outcome: a party’s predisposition to achieving a speci c result or
outcome.
Aspiration: a predisposition toward satisfying a broader set of
interests or needs.
Process: how the parties will go about resolving the issues (concern
about how the deliberations will proceed and be managed).
Identity: how the parties de ne who they are.
Characterization: how the parties de ne the other side (shaped by
information, experience, reputation, perception).
Loss-gain: how the parties de ne the risk or reward associated with
outcomes.
How Frames Work in Negotiation
Negotiators can use more than one frame.
Mismatches in frames between parties are sources of con ict.
Certain types of frames may lead to particular types of agreements.
Speci c frames may be likely used with certain types of issues.
Parties are likely to assume a particular frame because of various
factors.
Making sense of complex realities and de ning them in ways that are
meaningful in a negotiation is what framing is all about. Some prescriptive
advice about problem framing for the negotiator include the below:
Frames shape what the parties de ne as the key issues and how they
talk about them.
Both parties have frames.
Frames are controllable, at least to some degree.
Conversations change and transform frames in ways negotiators
may not be able to predict but may be able to control.
For example, if a negotiator raises his voice and exhibits heated anger, instead
of responding angrily to that tirade, a negotiator can reframe the issue by
calmly asking how the other person would choose to improve the situation,
thus moving the focus back to the issue at hand. Framing that takes another
person’s viewpoint into account and o ers solutions that give everyone
something of value is the best example of a win-win negotiation technique.
Questioning in Negotiation
Since information is the lifeblood of negotiation, asking questions the
right way is both an art and a science in providing information to discern
problems, concerns and needs. Ask the question the wrong way and your
counterpart might become defensive and withdrawn, and you face stalls,
objections and needless complications (Bednarz, 2011). e following are
smart, e ective and useful questions to pose.
Open-ended questions
ese are the kinds of questions that require a detailed answer and cannot
be simply answered with a “Yes” or “No” response. ey consist of asking
who, what, where, when, why, and how. e respondent has no alternative
but to provide some detail.
Example: “How did you arrive at that particular price regarding the stocking
fees?”
Open opportunity questions
is form of question invites the person to participate and o er their
views.
Example: “Help me understand how you came up with that solution.”
Probing deeper questions
Ask these questions when you need to gain a better insight into a person’s
thought process to further illuminate their rationale or position.
Example: “Could you provide us with more detail in how you analyzed the
data?”
Sequential questions
Sometimes, it can be very good strategy to ask a series of questions to lead
up to and achieve a particular result conclusion. Generally, it might be a good
idea to plan these in advance.
Example: “When will the second shipment be ready to be sent to us?”
Outcome questions
is type of question is used at the settlement or resolution stage to plan to
achieve something.
Example: “What bene t are you expecting out of this?”
Alternative questions
Ask these questions when you give your counterpart a choice of two or
more alternative answers to obtain speci c information on what they want.
Example: “Is less input or greater productivity more important to you?”
To obtain information from the other side, it could be helpful to map out
several general questions.
It appears that _____________________ is very valuable to you.
I get the feeling you don’t like _______________________.
It seems that you value ________________________________.
It seems like ____________________________ makes it easier.
It appears you are reluctant to _______________________.
As an example, if one is trying to negotiate the addition of some new
nancial so ware to the company accounting division and you know that the
assistant director of nance is opposed to this move, the prepared questions
may include “It appears that you are reluctant to abandon the current
spreadsheet so ware for this nance suite” or “It appears that the stability of
the current so ware is very valuable to you.”
With adequate questioning preparation, negotiators can look beyond the
other side’s rmly stated positions and explore their underlying motivations.
Listening in Negotiation
Mahatma Gandhi said, “ ree-fourths of the miseries and
misunderstandings in the world will disappear if we step into the shoes of
our adversaries and understand their viewpoint” (Fischer, 1962). When we
can listen to others and comprehend the other point of view we o en nd
our own point of view changed.
Excellent listening skills help in improved communication, professional
growth, career satisfaction and successful negotiations. Listening is the
process of receiving, understanding, remembering, evaluating and
responding to verbal (spoken or written) and/or nonverbal messages
(DeVito, 2019). Negotiators must recognize that listening is not a passive
activity. When con icts arise in a business and they need to be resolved,
active listening will play a vital role in reaching compromise. Active listening
serves the major function of being able to check for understanding. e
simplest way to check for understanding is to paraphrase the speaker’s
meaning. Stating in your own words what you think the speaker means
assists in understanding and shows interest in the speaker. A good way to
start this process is to state, “So what I hear you saying is…”
E ective active listening involves not only tuning into others but tuning
into ourselves (Burley-Allen, 1995). Increasing our self-awareness makes us
more empathetic people, team workers, and negotiators. Listening within the
work context is the main process by which we gain an understanding of the
needs, demands, and preferences of the stakeholders through direct
interaction.
Active listening is all about building rapport, understanding, and trust,
and by utilizing these skills, one will become a better listener and hear what
the other person is saying, not just what one thinks the other person is
saying.
Examples of E ective Listening
A negotiator repeats a patron’s problem or complaint back to her to
reassure her that she has been heard.
A meeting facilitator encourages a reticent group member to share
her views about a proposal.
An interviewer asks a follow-up question to gain further clari cation
on the ways in which a candidate has applied a critical skill in the
past.
A supervisor summarizes what her team has said during a sta
meeting and asks if she has heard things correctly.
At a client meeting, a salesperson asks an open-ended question like
“What can I do to serve you better?” and encourages his counterpart
to express any concerns fully.
A negotiator pays careful attention to his counterpart and asks
clarifying questions on the information he is receiving.
A negotiator asks for help in understanding why the new price is 12
percent higher and frames it as an open opportunity question.
Examples of Non-Listening Behaviors
Pseudo listeners are those individuals who pretend to listen and
accompany this fake listening by nodding their head.
Selective listeners key into what interests them and what they wish to
hear. ey use invisible ear mu s to close o listening.
Monopolizing listeners talk a great deal and don’t give others time to
speak. ey are ear hogs.
Defensive listeners wait to hear something they can attack and
criticize. ey cherry-pick what is o ered and then zing imaginary
darts at the speaker.
Negotiators who engage in active listening practice completely focusing on
listening designed to keep their mind from dri ing o . Re ective listening
shows that the con ict resolver understands what has been said and they can
exhibit emotional intelligence by deep thinking about the emotions behind
the words. For example, an administrative assistant may be complaining
about the boss because he feels unappreciated. Poor listening leads to
assumptions and misunderstandings which lead to errors, ine ective
decisions, and/or costly mistakes. On an interpersonal level, poor listening
leads to hurt feelings and a loss of team cohesion. is deteriorates trust and
weakens communication even further.
When negotiators, con ict resolvers, peer review panels, or human
resources people use active listening skills to gather information, remember,
understand and make decisions, they should be aware that the meaning in
the message is not only in the words; it’s also in the speaker’s nonverbal
behavior, and that is why it is always preferable to meet face to face. Listening
with empathy and an open mind is di cult. Sometimes it is di cult to listen
to the other side when their messages and arguments are viewed as attacking
or demeaning yours. Open-minded and fair listening requires the following:
Negotiation requires hard and focused listening, the simplest way to discern
needs and discover facts. In con ict situations, even those involving a company
mediator or third-party negotiation facilitator, disputants o en do not listen to
one another. Here are some self-in icted impediments to active listening (Karrass,
1993):
Nonverbal Listening
Nonverbal communication includes facial expressions, the tone and pitch of the
voice, gestures displayed through body language (kinesics) and the physical
distance between the communicators (proxemics). ese nonverbal signals can
give clues and additional information and meaning over and above spoken
(verbal) communication. While the key to success in professional relationships lies
in one’s ability to communicate well, it’s not the words that we use but our
nonverbal cues or “body language” that speak the loudest.
Professor emeritus of psychology Albert Mehrabian (1971) conducted a series
of studies on communication, through which he developed what is now referred
to as the “7–38–55 Rule.” We focus mainly on words when we listen, however, on
topics where we have invested emotional energy, like in con ict situations, most of
our communication might be related nonverbally.
Around 55 percent of human communication is relayed nonverbally. Nonverbal
communication, which can include body messages, facial communication,
and spatial communication can alter or a ect what the other side thinks about
what is being uttered.
Some 38 percent of communication is conveyed in a person’s tone of voice (the
quality and resonance of the voice, the volume and pacing).
A mere 7 percent of what we communicate on matters of emotional concern is
contained in the words of the message themselves.
e nonverbal elements in communication indicate a person’s feelings and
opinions. When someone says something, their body language and intonation
could be dominant, and there is no agreement between what they say and what
they radiate. Apart from interaction, communication is also about the fact that the
verbal and nonverbal elements support one another and that these are congruent.
What someone says will then be more powerful and convincing because of their
gestures and intonation. e message will absolutely be more unconvincing when
there is no congruence and the receiver could be set on the wrong track. He will
unconsciously focus more on the nonverbal elements that will always dominate
collectively.
Smart Negotiators
How you behave during negotiation can have a dramatic impact on the
outcome. Certain principles are always at play in the negotiation process and
will help achieve your goals. Several key strategies are as follows: (1) Get the
other side to commit rst. Skilled negotiators realize that you’re usually better
o if you can get the other side to commit to a position rst; (2) Act dumb,
not smart. Sometimes, when you are negotiating, you’re better o pretending
you know less than everybody else does, not more than they do; (3)
Concentrate on the issues. Negotiators know that they should always focus
on the issues and not be distracted by the actions of the other negotiators;
and (4) Validate and congratulate the other side. When you’re nished
negotiating, you should always validate and congratulate the other side
(Lewicki, Barry, and Saunders, 2007).
ere are many pitfalls, ploys, and tactics used during negotiation. Some
of the most common, and most reported on, are (1) good cop, bad cop, (2)
nibbles, (3) cherry-picking, and (4) take it or leave it. When negotiators
employ these, they are attempting to undercut good intentions and o en use
sympathy or power tactics to get what they want. Knowing how to cope with
these ploys are what makes smart negotiators smart. Two of the failures that
smart negotiators never embrace are being inadequately prepared and failing
to properly frame the issues.
e pitfalls and sneaky tactics mentioned above are used by individuals
who try to gain an advantage over their counterparts. In place of outright
lying and half-truths, smart negotiators, managers and team leaders can try
the following solid alternatives.
ird-Party Assistance/Arbitration
When e orts at mediation, with a neutral third party, fail despite the best
e orts of a mediator, an organization may call in a trained arbitrator to settle
the dispute. Arbitration is a form of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) and
is one way to resolve disputes outside the courts when litigation is not always
the answer. Companies are o en intimidated by and reluctant to take on the
nancial burden that can come with the legal process of trials, not to mention
the apprehension of not knowing for certain how a jury will decide until the
very end.
Arbitration is di erent from mediation because the neutral arbitrator has
the authority to decide about the dispute. e arbitration process is like a trial
in that the parties make opening statements and present evidence to the
arbitrator. Compared to traditional trials, arbitration usually takes less time
and is less formal. In most cases third-party assistance is used in
organizations with a unionized work force and the disputes concern labor-
management issues.
A third-party arbitrator might be called in if the situation between the
parties is volatile. Another reason is the breakdown of communication to the
extent that individuals exhibit negative behaviors that may be manifested in
intense anger, name-calling, bullying and verbal threats. O en di erences in
interests appear to be irreconcilable and the disputants believe that there are
no established procedures for resolving the con ict or that procedures have
not been followed. Arbitrators will be needed if the negotiations have
completely broken down and there is an impasse (Moore, 1996).
Lewicki, Hiam and Olander (1996) have outlined some advantages and
disadvantages of using arbitration to settle disputes.
1a. A clear solution is made available to the parties.
1b. e parties relinquish control over shaping the proposed solution or
outcome.
2a. e solution may be mandated.
2b. e parties may not like the outcome and it may impose additional
burdens on them.
3a. Arbitrators are selected because they are fair and impartial.
3b. If the arbitration is voluntary, the parties may lose face if they decide
not to follow the arbitrator’s recommendation.
4a. e costs of prolonging the dispute are avoided.
4b. ere is a decision-acceptance e ect: there is less commitment to an
arbitrated resolution because the parties didn’t participate in shaping the
outcome, and the recommended settlement may be inferior to what they
preferred.
Types of Arbitration Used by Organizations
In a report on the widespread use of arbitration among American
companies, Professor Szalai and Judge Wessel (2018) of the Loyola University
New Orleans College of Law have listed several arbitration cases and the
nature of the con icts:
Types of Dissent
Expressing dissent is usually a sign that employees begin to disagree or
have contradictory opinions about the company, its policies and practices.
is expression of dissent may be an important practice because it provides
workers with a way to deal with organizational constraints, draw attention to
an overlooked issue, expose unethical behavior or illegal wrongdoing and
provide corrective feedback (Waldron & Kassing, 2011). is dissenting
confrontation may be triggered by an event that workers nd disturbing or
unsettling, such as the ways in which employees are treated, the way
performance appraisals are conducted, or the implementation of changes to
the working environment.
e ways employees express their dissent can be catalogued as upward,
latent or displaced (Kassing, 1998).
Di cult Conversations
Having uncomfortable conversations at work is never easy, whether it’s
with subordinates or coworkers. is is especially true for people who are
afraid of con ict and would do anything possible to avoid it. Sidestepping
di cult conversations can lead to dysfunction and lack of performance,
which can ultimately have a negative impact on a team and the business.
Workplace con ict a ects not only morale and productivity, but also
turnover.
Confrontation suggests meeting someone face to face that may have some
hostile intent. How can this di cult conversation create value for the parties
involved and for the organization? Fit is important to get clear on the
intention/desired outcome. e conversation must be focused objectively and
include both insights and opportunities to improve.
ere are several types of di cult workplace conversations you might nd
yourself having at some point during your career. Here are some examples:
Behavior issues
Interpersonal con ict issues
Policy violations
External partner complaints
Excessive absences
Insubordination
Customer/client complaints
Coworker complaints
Is the basic issue one that relies on trust, promise and/or workplace
commitments?
Is the issue focused on authoritarian procedures?
Does open communication exist? And if not, why not?
Is the confrontation about an ignored con ict?
Does feedback or lack of feedback contribute to the confrontation?
Are the company’s e orts at collaboration and independence part of
the issue?
Is the main problem a lack of support and cooperation from
workmates?
Is the issue couched in vague or unknown problems and actions?
1. Personal insults.
2. Invading one’s “personal territory.”
3. Uninvited physical contact.
4. reat and intimidation, both verbal and nonverbal.
5. Sarcastic jokes and teasing.
6. Withering e-mail ames.
7. Status slaps intended to humiliate.
8. Public shaming or degradation rituals.
9. Rude interruptions.
10. Two-faced attacks.
11. Dirty looks.
12. Treating people as if they are invisible.
What Hartman and LeGrande have learned is that “ruthless execution means
that business leaders take the time and opportunity to study the issues—and
then act on them. During tough times, leaders do not have to rush into
making decisions, but just the opposite. ey have prede ned strategic and
operational methodologies that allow them to uncover issues early and react
prudently, focusing the company’s e orts to drive through the wall.”
Google will need to exhibit patience for making decisions in uncertain
times, because the last thing organizations aspire to do is to suggest that it is
easy to revitalize the company.
Management of Opportunities
Building an organization culture to e ectively deal with confrontation and
con ict is the goal of proactive, performance-driven, and relationship-
oriented companies. is is a most challenging time where employees, team,
department and division collaborations must permeate all transactions and
business opportunities. Managing business ventures and opportunities cuts
to the core of high-performance levels that helps create and sustain an
organization’s vision and mission.
e new business models are much di erent than a short decade ago.
Changes have resulted from terrorism, the presence or survival of dot-com
mania, downsizing or rightsizing, reengineering, self-managed organizations,
technology, employment litigation, and virtual organizations (Levine, 2002).
Add to these changes golden parachutes, sexual harassment issues, and
project orientation, and companies must develop signi cant changes in the
ways they deal with con ict and dissonance. e very costs of con ict are
staggering. Successful organizations understand that productivity, pro ts,
and collaborations are functions of e ective, explicit agreements.
Cataloging con icts in organizations, identifying the root causes of
con icts, and understanding the adversarial process that can grow out of
con icts speak to the importance of taking every opportunity to manage
these issues. A positive approach to the resolution of con icts in the
workplace impacts every aspect of organization life. e science and art of
seeking peace, harmony, and a work environment free of con ict a ects the
ability to establish and reach goals. is can impact the creation and
development of quality work. Harmony and accord at the workplace allows
for the enhancement of workplace relationships and the strengthening of
team and project groupings. e ability to develop and utilize strong leaders
is a hidden advantage of peaceful work environments. Each workplace
con ict must eventually be resolved. Each party gains and loses a little, but
they are obliged to work together to reach a settlement, and when
organizational approaches to con ict resolution result from managing them
fairly and openly, everyone wins.
Assertive Confrontation
Addressing con icts in organizations means confronting employees in
numerous situations. We have seen how di cult it can be to confront
individuals to present them with opportunities to recognize their
inappropriate behaviors and develop scenarios to reach resolution and/or
agreement. In these confrontations, it is central to realize that the strategies
employed to work out issues may be met with acceptance or with some
aggression. Recognizing that no speci c formula exists for dealing with these
confrontations; it is necessary to see that di erent situations and di erent
personalities will di erentiate one incident from another.
Assertive confrontational behavior is behavior where one individual can
communicate their needs, desires and expectations while still respecting
another individual’s rights. Assertive individuals give and get respect from
others. Assertive communication allows for compromise when the needs of
two individuals are in con ict. It communicates respect for another person,
although not necessarily support for another person’s behavior.
Confronting employees in confrontational settings are best suited if
everyone understands the practices and policies of the organization.
Assertive confrontational communication ows through seven steps (Gri th
and Goodwin, 2016).
Organizational life will present employee resistance. When resistance
appears, there may be several aspects in play. is resistance, in any form, is
intended to protect the employee from the perceived or real e ects of change.
Understanding the di erent types of resistance will help managers in
preparing employees for change. Resistance to change is best viewed as a
normal reaction for even the most cooperative, supportive employees may
experience resistance. Workforce resistance is a multifaceted issue facing
management. Although leaders cannot always make people comfortable with
change, they can, many times, minimize discomfort.
. Con ict Management
Approaching Employee Con ict
E ective con ict management is an essential skill for every leader and
aspiring leader. When harnessed productively, con ict can be a force to build
both company culture and competitive advantage. Successful organizations
learn to identify issues within the workplace and navigate challenging
conversations with direct reports, peers, or supervisors where emotions can
run high and positive outcomes are critical. Con ict management skills are
needed to assess and diagnose issues from all sides, understand di erent
personal styles, and implement a proven problem-solving approach to nd
workable resolutions that strengthen relationships and results.
Each member of an organization contributes to culture, engagement, and
overall performance. Many serious problems can arise when workplace
con icts go unresolved. Proactive communication is the key to resolving and
preventing con ict. In a diverse work force, the ability to resolve con ict in a
timely and e ective manner can prevent escalation and increase productivity.
Training managers and supervisors can aid employees in identifying the most
common causes of con ict in the organization, provide techniques for
managing workplace con ict, and identify the negative e ects of unresolved
con ict so employees understand the importance of immediately resolving
their problems with coworkers and management.
Con ict management is the process of limiting the negative aspects of
con ict in an organization while increasing the positive aspects of con ict.
e pivotal aim of con ict management is to enhance learning and group
outcomes, including e ectiveness or performance in a company setting.
Con ict managers at the workplace should model four broad categories.
Management Productivity
When managers can achieve e ective and explicit agreements, all those
involved in resolving con ict should feel satis ed in their professional and
personal relationships. Con ict managers who formulate collaborative
agreements are those who can set and reach goals. ese managers improve
the quality of work and work relationships and that increases the level of
trust at the workplace. Companies want to improve productivity and reduce
and resolve con icts. Many organizations exhibit a natural tendency to
provide feedback to the workforce, and that is a grand thing.
Providing meaningful feedback in a constructive manner on a regular
basis is a part of every con ict manager’s approach to con ict resolution
sessions. Feedback is a foundational management skill. Valued feedback and
support can take many forms. Employee goodwill and loyalty are built by
management support in times of con ict resolution sessions.
Key to organizational productivity is the capability of company managers
to articulate expectations and ensure that the employees commit to them.
Clarity in these expectations means they are behaviorally speci c.
Productivity/e ciency: Uses work time e ectively.
Time management: Manages workload; demonstrates ability to prioritize
assignments by meeting routine and unexpected deadlines; handles
multiple tasks and deadlines.
Meeting deadlines: Overcomes obstacles and roadblocks; commits fully to
the job and deadlines; concentrates on outcomes.
Flexibility and adaptability: Adapts to changes quickly; can modify plans to
meet changing organizational needs.
Decision making: Recognizes when to make independent decisions and
when to consult supervisors.
Innovation/future oriented: Actively applies new knowledge skills; seeks
additional training.
Critical thinking: Capitalizes on, contributes to and identi es opportunities
to increase work productivity.
Managerial behavior frequently is determined by situational factors, such
as the organization in which a person operates. When organizational
practices are so xed and rigid as to permit only small variations in
individual behavior, the management style exhibited may re ect little of a
person’s own thinking. Various management styles and assumptions may
depend upon the situation, values, personality and chance (Natemeyer &
Hersey, 2011).
Two Messages
When individuals communicate, verbally or nonverbally, there are almost
always two messages sent—the relationship message and the content
message. Con ict resolvers understand that the content message contains
information about the job, speci c details and facts. e way a message is
delivered contains elements that can include what you think about that
individual.
An interesting factor is that many individuals receive the relationship
message rst. Its impact will determine how they receive the content of the
message. When people overemphasize the content message, they may be
viewed as a straight-to-the-point person but may also be viewed as abrupt or
confrontational. If there is an overemphasis on the relationship message, they
may be seen an approachable and easy-going people person, but may also be
perceived as so .
Naturally, con icts and con ict messages and styles have consequences.
Managers can work on how to recognize how a resolution will a ect the
working relationship as well as the personal relationship.
Manager’s Toolbox
Because every workplace has con ict that we can see and feel, a con ict
manager will need to possess a toolbox of essential skills to address and
resolve con icts. e rst skill that is critical to an organization con ict
manager is the ability to diagnose workplace con ict. Having a deep
understanding of the many issues involved in a workplace con ict will
prevent the manager from attempting to jump right into “solution-mode.” A
second skill is to harness a problem-solving approach. Determine issues and
prioritize them to a ect a strategic method of using practical problem-
solving analysis. Another issue is to dedicate oneself to leading challenging
and direct conversations. Moving fears and emotions aside, these open
conversations can assist in developing a plan and strategy to develop
reasonable solutions.
In addition, the toolbox could contain the following management
essentials:
Playing Fair
Some managers may witness a con ict resolution session that can be lled
with jealousy and boastfulness. Some disputants may not play fair. If a
con ict manager discovers that fair play is not being demonstrated, for
whatever reason, here are ve things that can be done to level the playing
eld for all concerned.
Taking Charge
Leaders or managers of a con ict intervention and resolution program at
the workplace demonstrate that they can take charge. Once one has clari ed
their role to the disputants, it’s time to move on to outlining and explaining
the parties’ vision and goals.
Successful con ict managers demonstrate a clear sense of where they are
going and can picture what success will look like for the disputants. ey can
lead the group even more e ectively by focusing on the key issues for
everyone to focus on that will bring them closer to achieving their vision.
Taking charge of a con ict resolution session means that the manager will
embrace and possess outstanding facilitation skills. To lead these sessions and
provide order and coherence to the statements and contributions the
disputants make, Silberman (2006) prescribes the following:
Paraphrase what someone has said so they know they have been
understood.
Check your understanding against the words of the participant or ask them
to clarify what they said.
Compliment an insightful comment.
Energize the discussion by prodding the parties for more elaboration on
their contributions.
Mediate di erences and insist on limiting interruptions.
Collate and pull together items of common ground that can become parts
of an agreement.
Summarize frequently what has transpired to keep the individuals on
track.
E ective leader facilitation creates an inclusive environment where everyone
is clear about the expectations and intentions among all parties. Everyone
must understand that enough time will be provided for disputants to gather
their thoughts and plan their positions and viewpoints. Managers understand
that not all of the parties will have the same expectations for how the session
will proceed.
Ellen is the COO of a collaborative so ware company and has an employee that is top-notch at remote
installation. However, he can be arrogant and brusque to everyone around him. He has, on many
occasions, mentioned that he is not really a team player and prefers to perform the work he was hired
for by himself. Members of the installation team are met with sarcastic comments when they attempt to
correct him. He is intimidating and has no sense of humor.
E ective managers need not rely on any single strategy for promoting
work team e ectiveness or build the level of e ort that employees apply to
their work. ey increase the task appropriateness of the performance
strategies and help employees avoid disputes and con icts by directing them
to utilize their pool of knowledge and skills. Supportive organizational
context levels the path to group excellence (Hackman, 2002).
When managers take the time to get to know employees better, they can
nd out what their key motivators are and what they really value in their job.
For the sake of overall performance and productivity, it is imperative to
resolve such con ict situations quickly and e ectively before they spiral out
of control.
Finally, without a doubt, running an organization is serious business.
Products and services must be sold and delivered, and money must be made.
Despite the gravity of these responsibilities, successful managers make their
organizations exciting places to work. Having employees who enjoy coming
to work, work hard, and can resolve con ict issues end up being a more loyal
and energized workforce.
Case Studies
e following case studies present opportunities for individuals or small
groups to practice the skills of con ict resolution, negotiation, mediation,
and problem-solving. ese communicative situations allow the participants
to share their views and opinions with other participants. It is a systematic
exchange of information, views and opinions about a topic, problem, issue
or situation. ese case studies can be worked on in any order and the
exchange of information will present participants with new ideas. Adapting
the materials in the book to these discussions is helpful; however, they can
open additional avenues about many aspects of the topics covered. ese
case study discussions o er opportunities to improve yourself and to help
identify shortcomings, weaknesses and strengths.
One technique for adapting these case studies is the sh bowl activity. e
basic idea is that rather than a large group having an open discussion about
some of these cases, which can be di cult to handle and o en only bene ts
a few active participants, a smaller group (ideally two to four people) is
isolated to discuss while the rest of the participants (maximum of 12 people)
sit around the outside and observe without interrupting. Facilitation is
focused on the core group discussion.
Although largely self-organizing once the discussion gets underway, the
shbowl process usually has a facilitator or moderator.