C H E ATS H E E T

Where to mee t
the Elite
This list gathers the most common places where you can meet affluent society.
(Some places even have a higher ratio of affluent men than others!)
Remember not to neglect places with lower rates because you can meet anyone,
anywhere...especially when you least expect it!

$ The goal as a high-caliber woman is to

strategically place yourself as much as possible
in elite areas. Live your life as you would
normally, just add a little thought to what you do
and where. Good luck!

“Wealthy people are rarely seen doing ordinary

Myth things. Meaning, you would never bump into them

anywhere. All their errands are taken care of their
staff, so they never do things regular people do."
THE FACTS:
A small percentage of wealthy people live secluded lifestyles where they
rarely blend with the rest of society. Often it’s due to personal preference,
safety or because they are high-profile people. However, the majority of
UHNWI (ultra high net-worth individuals) live normal lives with normal
habits regardless of whether they have staff or not.

Affluent
areas
If you can live in an affluent area, you will have an advantage. If it’s yet out
of your budget, try to visit these areas as much as possible and go to
these places with your errands on weekends or after work hours.

Dry cleaner Church or another Post office

place of worship

Supermarket Waiting room area

(Organic grocery, high-end Park (dentist, lawyer, accountant,
grocery store, charcuteries, doctor, financial planner,
fishmongers, butchers) private hospital)

Healthy stores Dog park Local hangouts

(Juice bar, salad place) (bars, restaurants, cafe, pub)

Shoe repair Nail and Hair Salons

Shopping
You don’t have to go shopping in these stores; browsing is fine too!
Visit stores that are popular with men. You can pretend you’re
buying a gift for your father or something for yourself.

High-end Car dealers Electronics shops

department stores (i.e. Porsche, Ferrari, Land
(i.e. Harrods in London, Rover, Rolls Royce, Bentley,
Barney’s in New York) Maserati, Aston Martin,
Mercedes)
Bike centers
Men’s designer
boutiques Watch shops
(i.e. Berluti, Loro Piana, Tom (i.e. Patek Philippe, Rolex,
Ford, Brunello Cucinelli, Audemars Piguet, Hublot, SHOP

Franck Namani) Richard Mille) Antique shops

Wine shops
(i.e. Hedonism wines in
London) Hardware shops
Cigar shops
(i.e. Davidoff, Cohiba)

Culture
Expanding your knowledge in culture is a must when you do an elite
transformation! Kill two birds in one stone by being a frequent flyer in anything
cultural in your city. If you also become active in their clubs or on their board,
you might get access to wealthy donors/supporters of the arts

Galleries Operas Exhibitions

Museums JAZZ
BAR
Jazz bars Theatres

Concerts

Events

The list of elite events worldwide is long! Here is a taster of where

the affluent usually gather. Research your town to see what’s
happening and where the wealthy crowd hang out.

Art shows, Design Political party

Motor shows
Expo (i.e. Art Basel, London events
Frieze, European fine art fair, FIAC,
Venice Biennale)
Conferences
Yacht shows (i.e. World economic
Film festivals forum in Davos)
(i.e. Cannes, Venice)

Antique Fairs
Fundraisers,
Formula 1 race Charity events
(i.e. Monaco, Abu Dhabi,
Singapore)
Auctions
Any black-tie
Music Festivals (i.e. events, Ball,
Coachella, Burning man, Miami
Winter Music Conference) Galas
Private parties

After parties Movie

Entertainment premieres
industry parties

Promotional
events/private parties

Places

Don’t miss the usual places where the affluent circulate! Be regular in
these places, and you have a high chance of meeting somebody!

5-star hotels Clubs of specific Wine bars

interests

SPA at
5-star hotels Private Whiskey bars
Private

members clubs

Restaurants Exclusive Casino

(medium-high priced) social clubs

Country clubs
High-end bars Exclusive
& lounges Networking Club networking clubs

Auction Houses
(i.e. Sotheby's
High-end Millionaire Christie's)
night-clubs clubs/Theatres
Theatres

Cigar bars

Sports

Most in elite society are interested in sports, and either do sports or

watch games. If you become active and genuinely interested in an elite
sport, you will have a high chance of meeting someone interesting.

Expensive Running Marathon

Tennis
gyms

Lacrosse clubs
Crossfit Ski resorts

Fencing clubs
Yoga Sailing clubs

Pilates Rowing clubs Polo & Equestrian

Golf (If you can visit the golf course at a country club, go after lunch on weekdays or before lunch on
weekends)

Sporting
events
All sporting events always have some amount of the affluent in the
audience, regardless of if the sport is elite or not. They are usually to be
found in the VIP section of the stadium/area (most events have this),
try to get these type of tickets.

Polo games Basketball games

FINAL
Big finals and
prestige games
of any sports

Sailing races, High-end sports

MMA’s
Regattas bars

Golf Post-victory
Horse racing parties
tournaments

VIP area in
Tennis Motor races,
stadiums at
tournaments Formula 1
matches

Soccer games

Travel
The easiest way to meet people is usually through travel
(people let their guard down more) and especially during air
travel (start talking to the person sitting next to you).

VIP service in 5-star resorts

Airports (i.e. One & Only, Aman, Four
airports
Seasons, Ritz-Carlton, The
Chedi, Cheval Blanc)
Business / First Private jet
class airport airports/services
lounges Jet-set destinations
(i.e. Gstaad, St Tropez, Ibiza,
Helicopter Mykonos, St Moritz, St Barths)
Business / First services
class in airplanes

Jet-set cities (i.e. London, New York, Paris, LA, Hong Kong)

Online
dating
If you want to meet high status men, online dating can work very well.
Dating can be a “numbers game” so make sure you have a strong profile
with good pictures and you speak to as many men as possible.

Raya The League Luxy

Inner Circle MillionaireMatch

Other
A few additional places that can be worth checking out!

Shooting range High-end Top tier schools

matchmaking (if you’re a student
services yourself)

Driving range
Volunteering,
sitting at the
board of a charity
Winery

Top children’s
Wine tasting clubs schools

Bonus
Networking

This is not a location, but talking with others is the easiest way to meet
someone! Don’t underestimate all social gatherings because you never
know who might happen to be there that day!

Weddings House parties Religious Events

Birthday parties Dinners Your neighbors

School reunions A setup date

Like attracts like!

You don’t need to look like a supermodel to enter affluent circles, but
you do need to always be on top of your game. If you want to learn
how to network with the elite like a high-caliber woman, enroll in one of
my School of Affluence finishing school programs or masterclasses to
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