Share Their Best and Worst Experiences of The Day Family To Work Together
Share Their Best and Worst Experiences of The Day Family To Work Together
Share Their Best and Worst Experiences of The Day Family To Work Together
There are four meals a day in an English home: breakfast, lunch, tea, and dinner.
Breakfast is the first meal of the day. It is at about 8 o'clock in the morning, and consists of
porridge with milk and salt or sugar, eggs – boiled or fried, bread and butter with marmalade or
jam. Some people like to drink tea, but others prefer coffee. Instead of porridge they may have
fruit juice, or they may prefer biscuits.
The usual time for lunch is 1 o'clock. This meal starts with soup or fruit juice. Then follows
some meat or poultry with potatoes – boiled or fried, carrots and beans. Then a pudding comes.
Instead of the pudding they may prefer cheese and biscuits. Last of all coffee – black or white.
Englishmen often drink something at lunch. Water is usually on the table. Some prefer juice or
lemonade.
Tea is the third meal of the day. It is between 4 or 5 o'clock, the so-called 5 o'clock tea. On the
table there is tea, milk or cream, sugar, bread and butter, cakes and jam. Friends and visitors are
often present at tea.
Dinner is the fourth meal of the day. The usual time is about 7 o'clock, and all the members of
the family sit down together. Dinner usually consists of soup, fish or meat with vegetables –
potatoes, green beans, carrot and cabbage, sweet pudding, fruit salad, ice-cream or cheese and
biscuits. Then after a talk they have black or white coffee.
This is the order of meals among English families. But the greater part of the people in the
towns, and nearly all country-people, have dinner in the middle of the day instead of lunch. They
have tea a little later – between 5 and 6 o'clock, and then in the evening, before going to bed,
they have supper.
So the four meals of the day are either breakfast, dinner, tea, supper; or breakfast, lunch, tea,
dinner.
• Bonding and making memories. Eating meals together allows time for family bonding
and may even improve mental health. Eating together seems to contribute to fewer
emotional and behavioral issues and greater feelings of mental well-being, according to a
report published in the April 2012 issue of Journal of Adolescent Health. Children may
not recall what they ate, but the memories of being together, without electronic
interference, become ingrained.
• Sharing experiences. During shared mealtimes, children and parents share their
experiences, observations and ideas, hopes and dreams. Additionally, mealtime
conversations expand children’s language skills, thus enhancing their reading abilities.
• Learning about each other. Being together at a table can be a relaxing time for each
family member to share their best and worst experiences of the day.
• Contributing. The planning and preparation of meals and cleaning up afterward presents
meaningful opportunities for your family to work together. Relationships are enhanced
when siblings or a child and parent work side-by-side to discuss menus, shop, prepare
food, and finally sit down together. Everyone’s contribution is meaningful.
• Establishing routines. The routine of family meals can provide a sense of security and a
feeling of belonging in the family. Furthermore, children thrive on predictability—
knowing what will happen and when.
• Developing healthy eating habits. Typically, home-prepared meals include more
protein, vitamins and fiber, and less saturated fat, sugar and sodium than restaurant or
take-out food. Children learn to eat a variety of healthy foods by being exposed to them
early in life. Families have differing opinions about how to encourage children to eat
nutritious foods, but common to all is that they need to be offered, and enjoyed by other
family members.
But merely understanding the benefits of family meals does not help busy parents get nutritious
food to the table. It is important to be sure you are preparing quality meals for everyone.