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Salesian Cooperators

Discerning the Call


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Initial Formation Program
Salesian Cooperators – Discerning the Call

Lord, thank you for the holy life of St. John Bosco and the saintly family he
inspired. Help me to discern whether I am called to follow in his footsteps,
growing in holiness by opening my heart to Jesus Christ present in the
young and the poor. Amen

Mary Help of Christians: Pray for us.

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Placeholder for Letter (Father Tom)

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Table of Contents

Introduction to the Salesian Cooperators ......................................................................... 6


What Is Formation? The Aim ........................................................................................... 7
Lesson 1 – A Call to Holiness ............................................................................................ 9
Lesson 2 – A True Vocation (Session 1) ......................................................................... 13
Lesson 3 – A True Vocation (Session 2) ......................................................................... 16
Lesson 4 – Mary, Our Help ............................................................................................. 19
Lesson 5 – In Union with God ......................................................................................... 22
Lesson 6 – Salesian Spirit (Session 1) ............................................................................. 26
Lesson 7 – Salesian Spirit (Session2) .............................................................................. 29
Lesson 8 – Communion and Collaboration (Session 1) ................................................. 33
Lesson 9 – Communion and Collaboration (Session 2) ................................................. 37
Lesson 10 – Apostolic Commitment (Session 1) ............................................................. 41
Lesson 11 – Apostolic Commitment (Session 2) ............................................................. 45
Lesson 12 – Cooperator Mission (Session 1) .................................................................. 49
Lesson 13 – Cooperator Mission (Session 2) .................................................................. 52
Lesson 14 – Cooperator Mission (Session 3) .................................................................. 55
Lesson 15 – Cooperator in the Church ........................................................................... 59
Lesson 16 – Cooperator in the World.............................................................................. 63
Lesson 17 – The Preventive System (Session 1).............................................................. 68
Lesson 18 – The Preventive System (Session 2).............................................................. 72
Lesson 19 – Organization of the Association (Session 1) .............................................. 75
Lesson 20 – Organization of the Association (Session 2) .............................................. 79
Lesson 21 – Membership & Formation (Session 1) ....................................................... 84
Lesson 22 – Membership & Formation (Session 2) ....................................................... 89
Lesson 23 – Salesian Saints and Blessed ........................................................................ 93
Lesson 24 – The Promise ................................................................................................. 97
How Did Don Bosco See The Cooperators? ................................................................. 101
The Turning Point: The Special General Chapter ....................................................... 105
Conclusions on the First Century of the Association’s Life ........................................ 107

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Appendix ......................................................................................................................... 109


In the Footsteps of Don Bosco ........................................................................................................... 110
The Dream of Don Bosco................................................................................................................111
Chapter 1 – Father and Teacher ...................................................................................................113
Chapter 2 – Don Bosco’s Madonna ..............................................................................................122
Chapter 3 – Early Fruits of the Salesians: Dominic Savio ........................................................133
Chapter 4 – The Salesian Family Today .......................................................................................147
Chapter 5 – The Salesian Cooperators .........................................................................................149
Project of Apostolic Life – Statutes ................................................................................................... 155
Preface ..............................................................................................................................................156
Chapter 1...........................................................................................................................................157
Chapter 2...........................................................................................................................................159
Chapter 3...........................................................................................................................................161
Chapter 4...........................................................................................................................................163
Chapter 5...........................................................................................................................................165
Chapter 6...........................................................................................................................................167
Conclusion ........................................................................................................................................170
Project of Apostolic Life – Regulations............................................................................................. 171
Introduction ......................................................................................................................................172
Chapter 1...........................................................................................................................................173
Chapter 2...........................................................................................................................................175
Chapter 3...........................................................................................................................................177
Chapter 4...........................................................................................................................................178
Chapter 5...........................................................................................................................................180
Plenary & Partial Indulgences .......................................................................................................... 189
Plenary Indulgences .........................................................................................................................190
Partial Indulgences ............................................................................................................................191
Benefits ................................................................................................................................................. 192
Salesian Calendar ............................................................................................................................... 193
Devotions, Novenas, and Prayers .................................................................................................... 1955
References ...................................................................................................................... 200
Concordance for Project of Apostolic Life – Statutes ..................................................................... 201
Concordance for Project of Apostolic Life – Regulations .............................................................. 204

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Introduction to the Salesian Cooperators


And Jesus said to him, “Follow me.” John 1:43

It is not by coincidence that you have been drawn to this initial formation program. All of us are called to
follow Jesus Christ. Exactly how we should do so is not always clear. Certainly, we must strive to make all
our thoughts and actions resemble those of our Lord: by listening to His Word, partaking of the Eucharist,
and countless other means. But when it comes to choosing particular paths in life, it is not always easy to
know what God wishes us to do.

As a student in the seminary, St. John Bosco faced a similar dilemma. He knew he was called to the
priesthood, but was very uncertain about what type of ministry he should undertake. As it happened, God
helped him out; He presented to John Bosco, in the concrete situations of everyday life, hundreds of boys
who were deprived of countless spiritual and physical needs. His decision was almost made for him: he
would work with youth, and in this way, he would become a saint.

For Don Bosco, working with young people was a means to follow Christ and work for Him in the building
of His Kingdom. For those called to follow in the footsteps of St. John Bosco, working with the young and
the poor is also the way in which we follow Jesus, our Savior, and strive toward the holiness that God
desires for all His people. Perhaps you are one of them.

In the following pages, you will find twenty-four lessons prepared for the purpose of discernment to the
Salesian Cooperators. The initial formation program includes an introduction to the Salesians, its Spirit, its
Mission, its Apostolic Commitment, and it’s Promise. You will come to understand the Organization of the
Association, the Cooperators in the Church and in the World, the Preventive System, and finally,
Membership and Formation.

The Program also includes an Appendix which contains In the Footsteps of Don Bosco, Project of
Apostolic Life (PAL) Statutes and Regulations, Plenary and Partial Indulgences, Benefits, a Salesian
Calendar, Devotions, Novenas and Prayers and finally a Concordance.

With the blessings of our Lord Jesus Christ, Mary Help of Christians, St. John Bosco and the entire
Salesian family congregation, we pray:

God, My Father,
I want to be the best person I can be.
I want to be a saint.
I offer myself totally to you and I ask
for the help of the Holy Spirit.
I pledge to devote myself to the
following plan of holiness and
keep it faithfully.

I will be cheerful.
I will do my duties well.
I will stay close to Jesus in the Eucharist.
I will honor and love Mary as my Mother and Helper.
I will choose to be kind.
I want to serve rather than be served.

Father, May your grace,


the intercession of Mary Help of Christians
and of St. John Bosco,
together with the assistance of my fellow Christians
keep me faithful to this plan
day by day
Amen.

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What Is Formation? The Aim


Introduction to Formation

Formation is not a goal at which a Salesian arrives. Rather, it is the beginning of a life long journey within
the Salesian formation experience: reflection, learning, prayer and action.

Formation is the work of God in our lives. We are continually being formed by God. Thus, when we “do”
formation, we are merely assistants to God in the work of formation.

We participate in this formation and cooperate with it, but it is God who forms us. This formation program
aims to cooperate with the work of God in the formation of Salesian Cooperators.

Ideally, we are all continuously undergoing formation in as much as we are open to the working of the
spirit of God in our lives.

As we go through life, we are involved in “formation”. We gather experiences; these experiences lead us
on our relationships in our families, at work, in society and with God. Formation is a process of guided
reflection which helps us to understand how we meet God in our daily lives. As you progress through a
formation program, your reflections should begin to take on the viewpoint and spirit contained within that
program. For the Salesian Cooperator, that viewpoint is the Salesian Spirit. Father Egidio Vigano SDB,
a Rector Major, stated in his 1984 Strenna communication, “We know that what distinguishes our
spiritual family in the Church from any other is not Christianity but a special way of translating into its
life Christianity’s message and mission. Thus the Salesian Family reads the Gospel through the eyes of
Don Bosco and his Distinctive holiness.” DA MIHI ANIMAS (Give me souls, take away the rest).

The Salesian sees the world as God’s dwelling place and desires to understand the immanence of God in
the world. So the Salesian Spirit is first and foremost a way of looking at life and of integrating the Gospel
into life. From that will flow the Salesian style of action and apostolate.

The Goals of Formation

Formation as a Salesian Cooperator should give you tools to continue this reflective process through the
whole of life. This reflection should lead to a reference to the sources of our faith: Scripture, Tradition, the
Church’s teachings. These sources, as well as reading of the “signs of the times” called for by Vatican II,
support the reflection of the Cooperator. At the same time, reflection helps the Cooperator to integrate
these sources into his/her life; it deepens the Cooperator’s understanding of his/her faith. This increased
understanding is then translated into prayer. Prayer becomes the means whereby all of the things that are
learned are integrated into the relationship with God. Prayer leads to action in that the Cooperator wants to
spread to others the relationship which he/she had established with God. This action leads to further
experiences, reflection, understanding, prayer and then more action in a never-ending cycle of formation.

Salesians have a specific way of reflecting on experience; they reflect on it from the point of view of the
young and the poor. Salesians strive in every situation to answer the questions, “How does this
situation/action effect young people and those who are abandoned? Does this situation/action proclaim the
Kingdom of God? If not, how can I /we make it reflect God’s Kingdom? Formation provides the
Cooperator the tools to ask and answer these questions and should call the Cooperator to “pray always”
as St. Paul admonishes.

This reflective process leads to an integration of life and faith. The Cooperator realizes that there is no split
between what is celebrated at the Eucharist and what is lived throughout the week. Reflection allows the
Cooperator to make the Eucharist alive throughout all of life’s experiences. The fundamental call of all
Christians is to live the challenge of the Beatitudes in daily life. The Cooperator strives to love this call in a

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Salesian context. Formation helps the Cooperator learn to reflect on all of life in light of faith and to do
this within the Salesian Youth Spirituality.

Prayer is an essential part of the lifestyle of the Cooperator. Through prayer, he/she experiences the joy
and optimism which were so characteristic of Don Bosco’s approach to the young. Prayer then strengthens
the Cooperator to carry this joy and optimism into the whole of life.

Salesian prayer has certain characteristics. These must be part of the formation experience.

- First and foremost the prayer is youthful. This means that the Prayer is joyful.

- Salesian prayer is of a simple kind and has its roots in life. It is open to new forms and styles
which help it to meet the needs of daily life.

- Consistent with the experiences of Don Bosco that Mary was always present in Salesian houses
and works, Salesian prayer has a Marian dimension which focuses on Mary as the Immaculate
Mother of God who helps all Christians to meet and know her Son.

Prayer in the case of the Cooperator brings about a desire to proclaim the Gospel to the young and the poor.
While the young face many problems in today’s society, there is, at the same time, a great optimism among
the young; they have a joy within them that looks for fulfillment in society. All Salesians have gifts that
can be used to better the situation of the young and the poor. These gifts are expressed in many ways.
Formation should help the Cooperator discover his/her gifts and how they can be used to proclaim the
Gospel to those who are in most need. Coming to an understanding of this style of action is an integral part
of any Salesian formation program. It involves the active presence of the Salesian in the midst of those
with whom the Salesian works.

This movement to action is characteristic of the Salesian Cooperator. Cooperators are animated to
apostolate in the same way that all others Salesians are: by a keen awareness of the signs of the times,
particularly as they affect the young and the poor. They also go about doing the apostolate in the mode
of the Salesian style of action.

What Formation Is

“A prudent system of training will…develop…human maturity. This will be chiefly attested by a certain
stability of character, the ability to make carefully weighed decisions, a sound judgment of events and
people. (The candidates) should learn self-control, develop strength of character, and in general value those
good qualities which are esteemed by men...such as sincerity, a certain love of justice, fidelity to one’s
promises, courtesy in deed, modesty and charity in speech”

“The gospel image of the vine and the branches reveals to us another fundamental aspect of the lay
faithful’s life and mission: the call to growth and a continual process of maturation, of always bearing
much fruit.”

Vatican II, Christifideles Laici, no 57

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Lesson 1 – A Call to Holiness

Objectives

1. To understand that holiness is for everyone.


2. To understand that this holiness consists in love, in the footsteps of Jesus Christ.
3. To understand that holiness and love are made real in the fulfillment of a mission in line with
God's design.
4. To understand that God is love and he invites us to respond to his love with love in the call to
holiness

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Salesian Cooperators have existed in the Church for a hundred years. To be a Cooperator is a practical and
up-to-date way of living the love of Christ and of participating in the unique mission of his Church.

If we are to set our examination of this vocation on a basis that is solid and clear, it will help to recall the
teaching of the Council, viz., that every baptized Christian has a vocation and that the Holy Spirit invites
each and every one to make this vocation real in a way that is both personal and practical.

Every Baptized Christian Has A Vocation

We can never ponder sufficiently these three fundamental truths of the Gospel; the Council has given them
special prominence.

Holiness is for Everyone – God “calls” us: this is the very meaning of the word “vocation”. We must not
be tempted to think that he calls some to sanctity and allows others to live in mediocrity. What sort of a
father would resign himself to the mediocrity of even one of his children? God our Father is infinite and
has an immense ambition for each of us: “You must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect” (Matt.
V, 48). Our human vocation is to increase our manhood; our Christian vocation is to grow more and more
as sons of God, other Christs. In view of our selfishness and weakness this is a foolish aim; but the task
becomes magnificent when the better part of our nature, hungering for the infinite, refuses to rest in the
toiling ascent to find God at the summit. “In the Church everyone is called to holiness…It is evident that
all the faithful of whatever rank or status are called to the fullness of the Christian life”.

Holiness Consists in Love, in the Footsteps of Christ – God calls us because he is the Absolute Love; he
invites us to respond with love to his love (cf. 1 John, IV, 11, 16, 19).

Nothing is simpler than the definition of Christian sanctity: it is the practice of the one great
commandment: “You shall love the Lord your God…and your neighbour” (Matt. XXII, 36, 40), in the
footsteps of Jesus, who alone is Holy: “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have
loved you. Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John, XV, 12,
13). The way of Christian holiness is clearly traced out, but it never comes to an end, for we must never
cease loving and imitating Jesus. And since there is one commandment, to love, so there is for Christians
one sin, not to love, or not to love more, to halt in the way of filial and fraternal love. In order that the
faithful may reach this perfection of charity, they must use their strength according as they have received it,
as a gift from Christ. In this way they can follow his image, seeking the will of the Father in all things,
devoting themselves with all their being to the glory of God and the service of their neighbour”.

Holiness and Love are Made Real in the Fulfillment of a Mission – This third statement is essential if
we wish to get down to practicalities. How was Christ the “holy One of God” (Mk. 1, 24) and our greatest
example of love for his Father and his brothers? The answer lies in his fidelity to the mission that was

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given him; in fulfilling to perfection his task of Prophet (he revealed to the world God’s true name and his
design for mankind) of King (he laboured to establish his kingdom and to draw all men to his divine will)
and of Priest (his whole life was an oblation of love to his Father, and for his glory he established ‘the holy
nation of the Covenant’). And in these labours for man’s salvation he expects the help of the Church and
all its members, be they ministers.

So when God calls us (our vocation) and asks us to become holy and to ever increase our love, he does not
withdraw us from the world or from the Church. On the contrary, he sends us forth (our mission) to be
more deeply immersed in them; he asks us to enter into their enormous and forceful growth, to be indeed
the “cooperators” of his salvation plan (1 Cor. III, 9). In practical terms, then, to strive towards holiness
and charity we must be builders (each according to his own talents) of a Church and a world where God
will be loved and our neighbour loved for His sake. It is not to be wondered at that the Church should
make this statement:

“By its very nature the Christian vocation is also a vocation to the apostolate…The laity derive the right
and duty with respect to the apostolate from their union with Christ their head. Incorporated into Christ’s
Mystical Body through baptism and strengthened by the power of the Holy Spirit through confirmation,
they are assigned to the apostolate by the Lord himself. They are consecrated into a royal priesthood and a
holy people (cf. I Pet. II, 4-10) in order that they may offer spiritual sacrifices throughout the world…the
law of love, which is the Lord’s greatest commandment, impels all the faithful to promote God’s glory
through the spread of his kingdom and to obtain for all men eternal life”.

All Have a Vocation, Practical and Historical

Everyone has the duty of working out his vocation in a way that is personal and practical at this particular
moment in the history of the Church and the world. “God calls me to holiness: he calls me this very day.
How shall I express my love? What task am I to fulfill? What service can I render God and my brothers?”
This means we have to do some investigation, for the practical ways are infinite in number and all valid in
themselves.

Numerous Ways – We have to consider different methods and our attitude to them. We can attain
holiness, love and service in different forms of life: Religious life, lay-celibate life, lay-conjugal and family
life; and from another point of view, contemplative life, active life and passive life of suffering (at least at
certain times). We are capable of holiness, love and service in various careers and responsibilities: those
of the hierarchical priesthood, those of family, professional, social, political life; and those related to the
more important functions of the Church and to the greater requirements of its mission: such are the tasks of
atonement, bearing witness, preaching, teaching and education, maintaining and increasing unity, helping
those in wretchedness and need…”Lumen Gentium” explains this at length in one of its most beautiful
passages which ends thus: “All of Christ’s faithful, therefore, whatever be the conditions, duties, and
circumstances of their lives, will grow in holiness day by day through these very situations, if they accept
all of them with faith from the hand of their heavenly Father, and if they co-operate with the divine will by
showing every man through their earthly activities the love with which God has loved the world.”

What Choice to Make – How shall I make my choice? In what form of life and in what responsibility will
I find my own vocation? Here again the Council helps us with certain pointers. God gives each of us
various indications through “the signs of the times” i.e., those special situations and the appeals made by
individuals or groups who call urgently for our help. But above all, and most decisively, God gives us his
signs through the natural and supernatural gifts he accords us and through inspirations within the deep
recesses of our hearts; sometimes these inspirations are strong and urgent, at other times they are a mere
whisper. Sometimes they take the form of vivid realizations of Gospel values; a sensitivity to certain needs
here and now or in this or that particular place: a deep desire or enthusiasm; an impulse or an act of
generosity in the direction of a particular form of love and service. Here is a precious excerpt from the
conciliar decree on the apostolate of the laity: “For the exercise of this apostolate, the Holy Spirit gives to
the faithful special gifts as well (cf. 1 Cor. XII, 7) “allotting to everyone according as he will” (1 Cor. XII,
11) . Thus may individuals, “according to the gift that each had received, administer it to one another” and

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become” good stewards of the manifold grace of God” (1 Pet. IV, 10) and build up thereby the whole body
in charity (cf. Eph. IV, 16). From the reception of these charisms or gifts, including those which are less
dramatic, there arise for each believer the right and duty to use them in the Church and in the world for the
good of mankind and for the upbuilding of the Church. In so doing, believers need to enjoy the freedom of
the Holy Spirit who “breathes where he wills” (Jn. 111, 8). At the same time they must act in communion
with their brothers in Christ, especially with their pastors”.

So it comes about that a Christian is inspired by the circumstances of his life, by the signs of the times, and
by the Spirit of Christ and thus discovers the call of God to holiness, to love, to service in the Church: he
becomes an integral part of the great apostolate and spiritual movement set afoot by Don Bosco, and very
much alive today; in this is his vocation: to live as a Salesian who is a Cooperator.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 41

A Way to Sanctity

Salesian Cooperators choose to share the Gospel way traced out by the present Project of Apostolic Life.

They commit themselves in a responsible manner to this way which brings one to sanctity: the Association
of the Cooperators “is designed to shake many Christians from the languor in which they lie, and to spread
the energy of charity.”

The Lord accompanies with the abundance of His grace all those who work in the spirit of the “Da mihi
animas, cetera tolle,” doing good to youth and to ordinary folk.

Rome, December 08, 2006

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Lesson 1: A Way to Sanctity – Questions for Reflection

1. Do you think that sermons and some Christian literature have sometimes given the idea that
holiness was just for priests and religious? Explain.

2. Do you think that in the past it has been sufficiently well understood that the Heavenly Father of
our Christian faith is also engaged in the saving of mankind? - and that we cannot claim to be his
children in holiness and love without participating in his work of saving souls? Explain.

3. In what ways can you cooperate with the divine will in your love of neighbor?

4. When God calls us and asks us to become holy and increase our love he then sends us forth. In
what ways do you see yourself being sent forth as a Salesian Cooperator?

Prayer Experience
Spend time reading the gospel of 1 John 4: 7-21 and reflect on the love of God and neighbor.

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Lesson 2 – A True Vocation (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To understand the vocation of the Salesian who is a Cooperator.


2. To recognize within yourself the calling to be a Salesian Cooperator.
3. To examine how the Cooperator vocation is directly linked to the mission of the Church.
4. To reflect on our own calling to be laborers in the Lord’s Vineyard in the Salesian Cooperator
vocation.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Everyone has the duty of working out his vocation in a way that is personal and practical at this particular
moment in their lives in the history of the Church and the World. “God calls me to holiness: he calls me
this very day. How shall I express my love? What task am I to fulfill? What service can I render God and
my brothers?”

We can attain holiness, love and service in different forms of life: Religious life, lay-celibate life, lay-
conjugal and family life. In what form of life and in what responsibility will I find my own vocation? God
gives us signs to our vocation through natural and supernatural gifts. He speaks through inspirations within
the deep recesses of our heart. They come in the form of a deep desire or enthusiasm.

Don Bosco was inspired by the Holy Spirit to a vocation to the young who were poor, abandoned, in danger
and to save them from their spiritual and material wretchedness and to see to their advancement in every
way. He founded a group of helpers (religious men and women, SDB’s and FMA’s) and a more flexible
group of helpers (diocesan priests and lay apostles, Cooperators) from all walks of life. He chose St.
Francis of Sales, that great model and teacher of charity. All these members are therefore “Salesians”,
dedicated to the same fundamental work. The Salesian vocation, whether practiced with the vows of
religion or without, enjoys the same true authenticity and mission within the Church.

The Salesian Cooperator vocation is none other than a Salesian Vocation lived in the world without a
particular form of consecration.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 1, Article 2

The Salesian Cooperator: A Specific Vocation in the Church

1. To commit oneself to be a Salesian Cooperator means to respond to the apostolic Salesian


Vocation, gift of the Spirit, taking on a specific way of living the Gospel and participating in the
mission of the Church. It is a free choice, defining one’s existence.

2. Catholics of whatever cultural or social circumstance can follow this path. They feel called to live
their faith life fully involved in each day’s concerns, characterized by two attitudes:

a. Knowing God as Father and the Love which saves; encountering in the Only-begotten Son
Jesus Christ the perfect apostle of the Father; living in intimacy with the Holy Spirit, Who
animates the People of God in the world;
b. Feeling called and sent on a concrete mission: to contribute to the salvation of youth,
committing themselves to Don Bosco’s very mission to the young and to ordinary folk.

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Reference: Vatican II, Christifideles Laici, You Go into My Vineyard Too

“And going out about the third hour he saw others standing idle in the marketplace, and to them he said,
‘You go into the vineyard too’ (MT 20:3-4).

“And you go too”. The call is a concern not only of pastors, clergy and men and women religions. The call
is addressed to everyone – lay people as well are personally called by the Lord, from whom they received a
mission on behalf of the Church and the world. In preaching to the people of Saint Gregory the Great
recalls this fact and comments on the parable of the labourers in the vineyard. “Keep watch over your
manner of life, dear people, and make sure that you are indeed the Lords labourers. Each person should
take into account what he does and consider if he is labouring in the vineyard of the Lord.

Reference: John 15: 1-5

I am the vine and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in me that bears no fruit he cuts away and
every branch that does bear fruit he prunes to make it bear even more. You are pruned already by means of
the Word that I have spoken to you. As a branch cannot bear fruit all by itself, but must remain a part of
the vine, neither can you unless you remain in me. I am the wine, you are the branches, whoever remains
in me, with me in him, bears fruit in plenty; for cut off from me you can do nothing.

Reference: Vatican II, Christifideles Laici, The Variety of Vocations

According to the gospel parable, the “householder” calls the labourers for his vineyard at various times
during the day: some at dawn, others about nine in the morning, still others about midday and at three, at
last, around five (cf. Mt 20:1 ff.). In commenting on these words of the gospel, Saint Gregory the Great
makes a comparison between the various times of the call and the different stages in life: “It is possible to
compare the different hours” he writes “to the various stages of a person’s life. According to our analogy
the morning can certainly represent childhood. The third hour, then, can refer to adolescence, the sun has
now moved to the heights, of heaven that is, at this stage a person grows in strength. The sixth hour is
adulthood, the sun is in the middle of the sky, indeed at this age the fullness of vitality is obvious. Old age
represents the ninth hour, because the sun starts its decent from the height of heaven, thus the youthful
vitality begins to decline. The eleventh hour represents those who are most advanced in years… The
labourers, then, are called and sent forth into the vineyard at different hours, that is to say, one is led to a
holy life during childhood, another in adolescence, another in adulthood and another in old age” (167)

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 108-109.

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Lesson 2: A True Vocation (Session 1) – Questions for Reflection

1. What does the term “vocation” mean to you?

2. How do you feel the Salesian Cooperator vocation enriches the mission of the Church?

3. Can you think of some ways in which the vineyard of the Lord is open to the Cooperator?
Explain.

4. How is your vocation, as a Salesian Cooperator within the Church, directly related to the parable
of the vine? Explain.

Prayer Experience
Spend time with the Blessed Mother during the rosary and ask her to show you the vineyard open to your
vocation as a Salesian Cooperator.

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Lesson 3 – A True Vocation (Session 2)

Objectives

1. To reflect on the Salesian vocation of the Cooperator in its Salesian character.


2. To reflect on the Salesian vocation of the Cooperator in its secular character.
3. To understand what vocation means.
4. To know some of the qualities needed to become a Cooperator.
5. To understand the two-ways of living the Cooperator vocation.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Whoever receives a vocation as a Salesian Cooperator can go ahead and follow it with confidence. The
Holy Spirit is logical in his works and abounding in generosity. Whoever is called by him along the
Salesian way of life will be endowed with the necessary qualities to stride confidently along that way; he
will be enriched with helpful gifts, gradually “converted” and sustained in faith and joy. The Cooperator
will lean confidently on the Divine strength and tenderness; he will frequently turn to God in humble and
earnest prayer.

Cooperators are those members of the Church who commit themselves in a special manner to Christian
perfection in their particular state of life, placing themselves at the service of the Church:

- In the apostolate of youth in particular with the Salesian spirit and educative method.
- In union with the entire Salesian family
- Capable of shouldering their own apostolic responsibilities.

The Cooperator as originally envisaged by Don Bosco, is a true Salesian in the world, i.e., a Christian, be
he layman, lay religious or priests, who, even if he has no religious vows:

- Follows a vocation to holiness,


- By offering himself to work for the young and ordinary working people,
- In the spirit of Don Bosco,
- In the service of the local Church,
- And in the communion with the Salesian Congregation.

Reference: PVA Statues, Chapter 1, Article 3

One Vocation: Two Ways of Living It

1. Don Bosco conceived the Association of Salesian Cooperators as being open both to laity and to
the secular clergy.

2. Lay Salesian Cooperators carry out their apostolic commitment and live the Salesian spirit, with
lay characteristics and sensitivities, in the ordinary situations of life and work.

3. Secular bishops, priests, and deacons who are Salesian Cooperators live their ministry taking
inspiration from the pastoral charity of Don Bosco, whose priestly life is a model of one which
gives pride of place to working with commitment in behalf of young people and in places where
ordinary folk work and live.

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Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

For the Salesians who are religious Cooperators and the Salesians who are lay Cooperators there is no
doubt that the finest aspect of such a vocation lies in the fact of living in the bosom of an immense family.

The elements common to all the members of the family are:

- The same founder, Don Bosco, represented today by his successor the Rector Major.
- The same sharing in Don Bosco’s God-given charism.
- The search for holiness (according to ones own state in life).
- By means of a mission.
- The search and the mission both being according to a special spirit.
- And according to a specific form of brotherliness and collaboration.

Qualities needed to become a Cooperator:

- That the Holy Spirit is calling us to find our position in the Church and to carry out our vocation in
its common mission.
- To take the Gospel seriously and live our lives as authentic Christians.
- To be sensitive to the problems of the young and the poor.
- To know Don Bosco and correspond with his spirit, his work and methods in developing our own
supernatural gifts.
- To have a sense of brotherliness in co-responsibility and collaboration as disciples in action.

“It is necessary to see clearly that being a Salesian Cooperator is to answer a true call: it is to accept an
authentic Salesian vocation, to follow a true apostolic vocation.”

Reference Webster’s Dictionary

Vocation – A summons or strong inclination to a particular state or course of action: a divine call.

Reference: Vatican II, Apostolicam Actuositatem – Decree on the Apostolate of the Lay People

The apostolate is lived in faith, hope and charity poured out by the Holy Spirit into the hearts of all the
members of the Church. And the precept of charity, which is the Lord’s greatest commandment, urges all
Christians to work for the glory of God through the coming of his kingdom and for the communication of
eternal life to all men, that they may know the only true God and Jesus Christ whom he has sent (Jn 17:3)

All Christians, accordingly, rest the noble obligation of working to bring all men throughout the whole
world to hear and accept the divine message of salvation.

Reference: James 2: 14-18

My brothers! What good is it for a man to say “I have faith” if his actions do not prove it? Can that faith
save him? Suppose there are brothers or sisters who need clothes and don’t have enough to eat. What good
is there in your saying to them, “God bless you! Keep warm and eat well!” – if you don’t give them the
necessities of life? This is how it is with faith if it is alone and has no actions with it, then it is dead.

But someone will say “You have faith and I have actions”. My answer is, “Show me how you can have
faith without actions; I will show you my faith by my actions”.

Suggested Reading
In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 111-112.

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Lesson 3: A True Vocation (Session 2) – Questions for Refection

1. What is specific to the Cooperator vocation that attracts me? Explain.

2. What are the qualities that are important to be a Salesian Cooperator?

3. What the two ways of living the Cooperator Vocation?

4. How do you see the Salesian vocation as a call to action?

Prayer Experience
All apostolic action depends on prayer in order for it to bear fruit. Ask the Lord Jesus to help you develop
a more personal relationship with him in order to help you sustain a vocation of service and sacrifice.

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Lesson 4 – Mary, Our Help


Objectives

1. To examine the role of Mary in the life and apostolate of Don Bosco.
2. To reflect on the place of Mary in the prayer life of the Cooperator and the Salesian Family.
3. To reflect on the necessity of asking Mary for the strength needed to be a Salesian.
4. To understand the role of Mary as our Mother, guide and teacher.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

“The perfect example of this type of spiritual and apostolic life (in the lay Christian) is the most Blessed
Virgin Mary, Queen of Apostles. While leading a life common to all men, one filled with family concerns
and labours, she was always intimately united with her Son and co-operated in the work of the Saviour in a
manner altogether special. Now that she has been taken up into heaven, “with her maternal charity she
cares for these brothers of her Son who are still on their earthly pilgrimage…”All should devoutly venerate
her and commend their life and apostolate to her motherly concern”.

“Mary most holy is the foundress and will be the sustainer of our works.” The Salesian is convinced of the
special, unquestioned role which Mary – always the hand-maid of God and co-worker with his Son – has
had in the life of Don Bosco and of the Congregation. She is the watchful mother of his boys and their
“interior teacher”. She is, besides, HIS mother; hence he has for her, the immaculate one and his help, a
tender and strong devotion, simple and true, enlightened and dynamically practical…”

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 3, Article 20, #1

In Communion with Mary, Help of Christians, and our Saints

1. Salesian Cooperators, like Don Bosco, nurture a filial love for Mary Help of Christians, the
Mother of the Church and of humanity. She cooperated in the salvific mission of the Savior and
continues to do so also today, as Mother and Helper of the People of God. She is the special guide
of the Salesian Family. Don Bosco entrusted the Salesian Cooperators to Her so that they might
receive protection and inspiration in their mission.

2. They turn with particular affection to Joseph, Patron of the Universal Church. They have trustful
recourse to the intercession of St. John Bosco, “Father and Teacher” of the young and of all the
Salesian Family.

3. Among the models of apostolic life, they venerate, with predilection, St. Francis de Sales, St.
Mary Domenica Mazzarello, Alexandrina da Costa, Mamma Margaret, and all the other Saints,
Blesseds, and Venerables of the Salesian Family. Knowledge of their lives is a font of inspiration
and prayer.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 20, #1

Experience of Committed Faith

In the Immaculate Virgin, Help of Christians they discover the deepest elements of their vocation: Being
true “cooperators of God” in the realization of his salvific plan. They turn to Mary, Help of Christians and
Mother of the Good Shepherd, asking her for the strength needed to be practically involved in the salvation
of the young.

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Reference: Redemptoris Mater – The Mother of the Redeemer

Given Mary’s relationship to the Church as an exemplar, the Church is close to her and seeks to become
like her: “Imitating the Mother of her Lord and by the power of the Holy Spirit, she preserves with virginal
purity and integral faith, a firm hope, and a sincere charity”. Mary is thus present in the mystery of the
Church as model. But the Church’s mystery also consists in generating people to a new and immortal life:
this is her motherhood in the Holy Spirit. And here Mary is not only the model and figure of the Church;
she is much more. For, “with maternal love she cooperates in the birth and development” of the sons and
daughters of Mother Church. The Church’s motherhood is accomplished not only according to the model
and figure of the Mother of God but also with her “cooperation”.
She cooperated, as the Second Vatican Council teaches, with a maternal love. Here we perceive the real
value of the words spoken by Jesus to his Mother at the hour of the Cross: “Woman, behold your son” and
to the disciple: “Behold your mother” (Jn 19: 26-27). They are words which determine Mary’s place in the
life of Christ’s disciples and they express – as I have already said – the new motherhood of Mother of the
Redeemer: a spiritual motherhood, born from the heart of the Paschal Mystery of the Redeemer of the
world. It is a motherhood in the order of grace, for it implores the gift of the Spirit who raises up the new
children of God, redeemed through the sacrifice of Christ: that Spirit whom together with the Church Mary
too received on the day of Pentecost.

Of the essence of motherhood is the fact that it concerns the person. Motherhood always establishes a
unique and unrepeatable relationship between two people: between mother and child and between child and
mother. Even when the same woman is the mother of many children, her personal relationship with each
one of them is of the very essence of motherhood. For each child is generated in a unique and unrepeatable
way, and this is true both for the mother and for the child. Each child is surrounded in the same way by
that maternal love on which are based the child’s development and coming to maturity as a human being.

This filial relationship, this self entrusting of a child to its mother, not only has its beginning in Christ but
can also be said to be definitively directed towards him. Mary can be said to continue to say to each
individual the words which she spoke at Cana in Galilee: “Do whatever he tells you”. For he, Christ, is the
one Mediator between God and mankind; he is “the way, and the truth, and the life” (Jn 14:6); it is he
whom the Father has given to the world, so that man “should not perish but have eternal life” (Jn 3:16).
The Virgin of Nazareth became the first “witness” of this saving love of the Father and she also wishes to
remain its humble handmaid always and everywhere. For every Christian, for every human being, Mary is
the one who first “believed”, and precisely with her faith as Spouse and Mother she wishes to act upon all
those who entrust themselves to her as her children.

Reference: John 19: 25-27

Jesus and his Mother

Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopus, and Mary of
Magdala. Seeing his mother and the disciple he loved standing near her, Jesus said to his mother, “Woman,
this is your son”. Then to the disciple he said, “This is your mother”. And from that moment the disciple
made a place for her in his home.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 113-114.

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Lesson 4: Mary, Our Help – Questions for Reflection

1. In what ways do you think Don Bosco entrusted himself to Mary Help of Christians?

2. Do you feel a sense of Mary’s motherhood in your life? Explain

3. In what ways do you see Mary Help of Christians helping you as you become a Salesian
Cooperator?

4. In what ways can you foster a greater devotion to Mary, Our Help?

Prayer Experience:
Find time to spend in prayer with the Blessed Mother reciting all three mysteries of the rosary

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Lesson 5 – In Union with God

Objectives

1. To explore the dimensions of the Salesian Youth Spirituality.


a. Spirituality of Daily Life
b. Joy and Optimism
c. Friendship with the Lord Jesus
d. Communion in the Church
e. Responsible Service
2. To apply the principles of the Salesian Youth Spirituality to the situation of the Cooperator.
3. To re-examine attitudes toward the Sacraments of the Eucharist and Reconciliation.
4. To focus on the importance of daily growth in the relationship with God.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

The Salesian Cooperator vocation emerges as a rewarding and safe way to sanctity. Its mission, its specific
spirit, the evangelical requirements it implies: there are so many sanctifying values enabling us to live
united with God in the resemblance of Christ. In a particular way the divine aspect of the mission should
not be overlooked. In a burst of faith every Salesian can say: “It is the Lord who beckons me on. I am here
in his name. He is with me and I am with him. And I find Him in those to whom he sends me. May his
grace inspire and direct my activities. It is for him that I work, leading to him those he has entrusted to
me.” It is all a matter of learning with this apostolicity whereby we make ourselves one with the Christ-
Servant of the Gospel.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 3, Article 17

Style of Action

Salesian Cooperators live as “good Christians and honest citizens,” sanctifying their existence in everyday
life and rooting their action in union with God. They believe in the value of life, of giving freely without
seeking return, of fraternity, and of “being neighbor.” They cultivate those attitudes which foster education
to the joys of daily life and they communicate this to others.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 3, Article 19

Style of Prayer

1. The Salesian Cooperators are convinced that they can do nothing if they are not in union with
Jesus Christ. They invoke the Holy Spirit Who enlightens them and gives them strength day by
day. Their prayer, rooted in God’s Word, is simple and trusting, joyous and creative, permeated
with apostolic ardor, holding tight to life and extending into it. So as to nourish their prayer life,
Salesian Cooperators have recourse to the spiritual resources offered by the Church, by the
Association, and by the Salesian Family. They participate actively in the liturgy and value the
forms of popular piety which enrich their spiritual life.

2. They reinvigorate their faith through the Sacraments. They find nourishment in the Eucharist for
their apostolic charity. In the Sacrament of Reconciliation they encounter the Mercy of the Father,
Who impresses upon their life a dynamic and continuous conversion and makes them grow in their
capacity to forgive.

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3. They reinforce their interior and apostolic life with spirituality moments, including those offered
by the Association.

Reference: Vatican II, Apostolicam Actuositatem – Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity

Since Christ, sent by the Father, is the source and origin of the whole apostolate of the Church, the success
of the lay apostolate depends upon the laity’s living union with Christ, in keeping with the Lord’s words,
“He who abides in me and I in him, bears much fruit, for without me you can do nothing”(John 15:5). This
life of intimate union with Christ in the Church is nourished by spiritual aids which are common to all the
faithful, especially active participation in the sacred liturgy. These are to be used by the laity in such a way
that while correctly fulfilling their secular duties in the ordinary conditions of life, they do not separate
union with Christ from their life but rather performing their work according to God’s will they grow in that
union. In this way the laity must make progress in holiness in a happy and ready spirit, trying prudently
and patiently to overcome difficulties. Neither family concerns nor other secular affairs should be
irrelevant to their spiritual life, in keeping with the words of the Apostle, “Whatever you do in word or
work, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, giving thanks to God the Father through Him” (Col.
3:17).

Such a life requires a continual exercise of faith, hope, and charity. Only by the light of faith and by
meditation on the word of God can one always and everywhere recognize God in Whom “we live, and
move, and have our being” (Acts 17:28), seek His will in every event, see Christ in everyone whether he be
a relative or a stranger, and make correct judgments about the true meaning and value of temporal things
both in themselves and in their relation to man’s final goal.

Impelled by divine charity, they do good to all men, especially to those of the household of the faith, laying
aside “all malice and deceit and pretense, and envy, and all slander” (1 Peter 2:1), and thereby they draw
men to Christ. This charity of God, “which is poured forth in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who has been
given to us” (Rom 5:5), enables the laity really to express the spirit of the beatitudes in their lives.
Following Jesus in His poverty, they are neither depressed by the lack of temporal goods nor inflated by
their abundance, imitating Christ in his humility, they have no obsession for empty honors but seek to
please God rather than men, ever ready to leave all things for Christ’s sake and to suffer persecution for
justice sake, as they remember the words of the Lord, ”If anyone wishes to come after me, let him deny
himself and take up his cross and follow me” (Matt 16:24). Promoting Christian friendship among
themselves, they help one another in every need whatsoever.

The perfect example of this type of spiritual and apostolic life is the most Blessed Virgin Mary, Queen of
Apostles, who while leading the life common to all here on earth, one filled with family concerns and
labors, was always intimately united with her Son and in an entirely unique way cooperated in the work of
the Savior. Having now been assumed into heaven, with her maternal charity she cares for these brothers of
her Son who are still on their earthly pilgrimage and remain involved in dangers and difficulties until they
are led into the happy fatherland. All should devoutly venerate her and commend their life and apostolate
to her maternal care.

Reference: Mark 14: 32-42

Gethsemane

They came to a small estate called Gethsemane, and Jesus said to his disciples, “Stay here while I pray”.
Then he took Peter and James and John with him. And a sudden fear came over him, and great distress.
And he said to them, “My soul is sorrowful to the point of death. “Wait here, and keep awake.” And going
on a little further he threw himself on the ground and prayed that, if it were possible, this hour might pass
him by. “Father!” he said “Everything is possible for you. Take this cup away from me. But let it be as
you, not I, would have it. He came back and found them sleeping, and he said to Peter, “Simon, are you
asleep? Had you not the strength to keep awake one hour? You should be awake, and praying not to be put
to the test. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak”. Again he went away and prayed, saying the same

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words. And once more he came back and found them sleeping, their eyes were so heavy; and they could
find no answer for him. He came back a third time and said to them, “You can sleep on now and take your
rest. It is all over. The hour has come. Now the Son of Man is to be betrayed into the hands of sinners.
Get up! Let us go! My betrayer is close at hand already.”

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 114-116.

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Lesson 5: In Union with God – Questions for Reflection

1. What helps are available in my relationship with God?

2. What are the characteristics of a Salesian style of prayer?

3. How can I use these in my prayer life?

4. How can I apply all of this to my everyday life?

Prayer Experience

Reflect on Don Bosco’s union with God and meditate on how Gods spirit within him lead him to the motto
“Give me souls take away the rest”.

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Lesson 6 – Salesian Spirit (Session 1)


Objectives

1. To relate Don Bosco’s words “It is not enough to love the young. They must know they are
loved”.
2. To understand the essence of the Salesian spirit: Joyful, Dynamic, Apostolic charity with its accent
on youth.
3. To know whom is to be served by the Salesian Cooperators.
4. To recognize the Salesian spirit is a spirit of action.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

It is essential that we have in the world friends, benefactors and people who practice the Salesian spirit
living with their families, as the Cooperators do” (Don Bosco; agenda for 1 Gen. Chapter).

Imbued with the Salesian spirit you understand what close rapports you have with the complex of works
sustained and promoted by the Catholic laity” (Pius XII to the Cooperators, 12 Sept. 1952).

“Furthermore, the laity who in pursuit of their vocation have become members of one of the associations or
institutes, approval by the Church, should try faithfully to adapt the special characteristics of the spiritual
life which are proper to these as well.”

The essence of the spirit is dynamic, apostolic charity. “Our life style and the way of doing things taught
us by Don Bosco correspond to our mission: pastoral love, young and alive, is at the very heart of our spirit,
just as it was for Don Bosco as seen in the very beginnings of our Society. It is this ardent apostolic drive
which makes us seek souls and serving God alone”. (New Const. SDB, art 40). At the heart of all Christian
living is charity, i.e., love as existing in God, as explained and lived by Christ.

At the core of this apostolic charity, characterized by its accent on youth, is an enthusiastic drive that is
joyous and generous.

This was truly the tenor of Don Bosco’s life; he was possessed of a magnificent and apostolic urge, and it
was always in evidence. It was expressed in his motto, “Lord, give me souls” (apostolic love for his
neighbor) and in his often repeated “We must work for the greater glory of God”.

The activity of every member of the Salesian family has three characteristics:

1. Unflagging Zeal and Sacrifice – “Work and temperance, and the Congregation will flourish”.
On the other hand seek comfortable surroundings and a life of ease and we shall cease to exist.
The Salesian gives himself to his mission with a ceaseless energy. For these reasons work in the
apostolate for us has a mystic value: it has a divine quality and is urgent: to achieve the end we
should be ready to suffer cold and heat, hunger and thirst, fatigue and rejection whenever the glory
of God and the salvation of souls require it.”

2. Initiative and Flexibility When Faced with Crises – “The Salesian should be a realist and
attentive to the signs of the times and be convinced that God calls through the needs of a particular
time and place.

3. A Lively Understanding of the Church in its Growth and Unity – “We have to see the Church
as the unifying and animating centre of all the forces which work for salvation. For the Pope we
have a special reverence and loyalty, towards bishops charity and obedience and for all other
Religious families deep esteem.

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Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 3, Article 11

Style of Action

1. Don Bosco was a practical and enterprising man, an untiring and creative worker, animated by an
uninterrupted and profound interior life. Faithful to his spirit and attentive to reality, Salesian
Cooperators have a sense of the concrete. They discern the signs of the times and with a spirit of
initiative push themselves to give appropriate responses to the needs of the youth in their territory
and in society. They are constantly ready to verify and to readapt their response.

2. They accompany their action with an attitude of contemplation, which urges them to seek and to
recognize the mystery of God’s presence in everyday life and the face of Christ in their brothers
and sisters. Moreover, sustained by the Spirit, they confront with serenity the difficulties of life
and the joys and the sufferings which accompany their apostolic work.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 3, Article 12

Spiritual Life

1. The Salesian Cooperators nourish their interior life through daily dialogue with the Lord,
participation in the Sacraments, and with Lectio Divina.

2. They celebrate traditional Salesian Feast Days.

3. If they have the possibility, they also participate in the spiritual exercises, retreats, and other
initiatives posed by the Association.

4. They value spiritual guidance as accompaniment, exercised particularly by Salesians (both


Religious – FMA and SDB – and lay).

5. The Association is open to all. In its planning, it will facilitate the participation of its own
members and of those who feel one with the Salesian charism.

Reference: The Jerusalem Bible Mark 12: 28-34

The Greatest Commandment of All

One of the scribes who had listened to them debating and had observed how well Jesus had answered them,
now came up and put a question to him, “Which is the first of all the commandments?” Jesus replied “This
is the first: Listen Israel, the Lord our God is the one Lord, and you must love the Lord your God with all
your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: You must
love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.” The scribe said to him,
“Well spoken, Master what you have said is true: that he is one and there is no other. To love him with all
your heart, with all your understanding and strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself, this is far more
important than any holocaust or sacrifice.” Jesus, seeing how wisely he had spoken, said, “You are not far
from the Kingdom of God”. And after that no one dared to question him anymore.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 117-118.

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Lesson 6: Salesian Spirit (Session 1) – Questions for Reflection

1. The Salesian spirit is characterized by its accent on youth. How would you see the Holy Spirit
continuing to work through the Cooperator Movement?

2. What are the three characteristics of the Salesian Family activity? Do you see any of these
characteristics in your life?

3. At the heart of all Christian charity is love. Don Bosco showed his love by untiring love and
sacrifice. Explain how you might be able to do the same in your life.

4. The Cooperators need to discern the signs of the times. What type of urgent needs could be
available to Cooperators at this time?

Prayer Experience
Ask Mary during your rosary how to love the Lord with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your
mind and with all your strength.

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Lesson 7 – Salesian Spirit (Session2)

Objectives

1. To understand the ways of relating to others in the Salesian spirit.


2. To understand the method of prayer that is to be followed in the Salesian spirit.
3. To understand Mary’s special role in the Salesian spirit.
4. To recognize that the Salesian spirit is a family spirit.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

The Ways of Relating to Others in the Salesian Spirit

In relating to other members of the Salesian family every member should be inspired by the following
virtues:

1. Loving Kindness – The Salesian’s manner of action is to seek to do all things well, with due
measure and simplicity. He is open and cordial, ready to make the first advance and to receive
people with kindness, respect and patience, especially the young. His love is truly personal and
affectionate, showing himself to be a father and friend and arousing friendship in response. This is
the kindliness so much recommended by Don Bosco.

2. Family Spirit – “The community becomes a family when affection is reciprocal and the young
feel at their ease. In this climate of mutual confidence people feel the need and the joy of sharing
everything and relations are governed not so much by recourse to rules as by faith and goodness of
heart”.

3. Optimism and Joy – “Let nothing perturb you” Don Bosco used to say. Because God has sent us
we have complete confidence in his providence and are not discouraged by difficulties. There is
also the optimistic humanism of St. Francis of Sales which helps us to believe in the natural and
supernatural resources of man without however ignoring his weakness. With this background we
know how to make our own what is good in the world and refuse to lament over our times. We
“hold fast to what is good” especially if it is attractive to the young. We make our own St. Paul’s
exhortation, “Rejoice in the Lord always”. This is the witness we must give to youth. “….The
fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace…” and this is where our own hope and our openness to the
spirit is rooted.

The Method of Prayer that is to be Followed in the Salesian Spirit

1. Prayer that is Simple and Vital – “Our style of work and our relationships with others demand
that we must always be renewing the divine element in our apostolic commitment: “….Apart from
me you can do nothing”. We have but few practices of piety, but we pray without ceasing and
after the manner of Don Bosco’s own union with God aspire to become contemplatives in action
by praying in simple heart to heart colloquy with Christ, with the Father conscious of his presence,
with Mary our helper”.

2. Generous Openness to the Sacramental World – “The Eucharist is the centre and the goal of the
life of the Christian, as a binding force and a dynamic nucleus of the brotherly community. It is an
encounter with the fullness of the same mystery of salvation in whose service he spends his life.
The life of a Salesian is especially founded on this truth. The enthusiasm and the richness of all
his activity take their origin from the Eucharistic mystery.

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For this reason the Salesian cultivates the sense of liturgical celebration and caters for its needs,
both in its interior qualities and by its external beauty, well aware that young people are attracted
by the splendor and the truth of these celebrations.
In the sacrament of penance the Salesian meets Christ who pardons him and who pours into him
the meaning of the ever-present necessity of the penitential spirit.

3. Special Confidence in Mary – “Mary most holy is the foundress and will be the sustainer of our
works.” The Salesian is convinced of the special, unquestioned role which Mary – always the
hand-maid of God and co-worker with his Son – has had in the life of Don Bosco and of the
Congregation. She is the watchful mother of his boys and their “interior teacher”. She is,
besides, HIS mother; hence he has for her, the immaculate one and his help, a tender and strong
devotion, simple and true, enlightened and dynamically practical…”

To grasp the originality of the Salesian spirit we must take the total of its characteristics and
examine how each affects the other. The building materials can be found in various places, but the
Salesian building affected is a special kind. The instruments and notes are common property, but
the “Salesian harmony” is unique. In its own fashion it makes music to the glory of God and fills
the Church with joy.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 3, Article 13

A Precious Heritage

Guided by the Holy Spirit, Don Bosco lived and passed down to the members of his Family an original
style of life and action: the Salesian spirit.
The Salesian spirit is a quintessential Gospel experience, whose source is in the very heart of Christ, who
urges those who live it to become gift and to give service. It is nourished by the carrying out of apostolic
charity, the principal interior dynamic which unites passion for God and passion for neighbor. It is
manifested in a Sacramental spirituality, which is made actual by living daily life with joy and optimism
and in responsible service within the ecclesial community and civic society. It requires a demanding
“ascetical method” expressed through a serene and joyous countenance, in keeping with Don Bosco’s
urging: “work and temperance.”

Reference: PAL Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 20

Experience of Committed Faith

1. Salesian Cooperators welcome this spirit as a gift of the Lord to the Church and make it fruitful in
accordance with their particular circumstance, lay or ministerial. Each one participates in Don
Bosco’s spiritual experience, lived with particular intensity by those first Cooperators among the
in the Oratory at Valdocco, and they commit themselves to living out the Sequela Christi, the
following of Christ.

2. In the Immaculate Virgin, Help of Christians they discover the deepest elements of their vocation:
Being true “cooperators of God” in the realization of his salvific plan. They turn to Mary, Help of
Christians and Mother of the Good Shepherd, asking her for the strength needed to be practically
involved in the salvation of the young.

3. They foster an experience in practice of ecclesial communion through the Association, which is a
living part of the Church.

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Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 3, Article 15

Centrality of Apostolic Love

1. The heart of the Salesian spirit is apostolic and pastoral charity. It makes the mercy of the Father,
the salvific love of Christ, and the power of the Holy Spirit present among the young. Don Bosco
expressed this with his motto: “Da mihi animas, catera tolle.” He signified it in the name
“Salesians,” by choosing St. Francis de Sales, model of Christian humanism, of apostolic
dedication, and of amiability, and promoter of lay spirituality, as his patron.
2. This charity is, for Salesian Cooperators, a gift of God, which unites them to Him and to the
young. Further, it takes its inspiration from the maternal solicitude of Mary, who supports and
sustains them in their daily witness.

Reference: 1 Peter 3: 8-12

Christian Conduct

Finally, all of you be of one mind, sympathetic, loving toward one another, compassionate, humble. Do not
return evil for evil, or insult for insult; but, on the contrary, a blessing, because to this you were called, that
you might inherit a blessing. For: “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep the tongue from
evil and the lips from speaking deceit, must turn from evil and do good, seek peace and follow after it. For
the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears turned to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is
against evil-doers.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 118-120.

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Lesson 7: Salesian Spirit (Session 2) – Questions for Reflection

1. What are some of the ways of relating to others in the Salesian spirit? How can you implement
them in your own life?

2. To live the Salesian spirit as a Salesian Cooperator means to live it in the world. What obstacles
do you see could keep you from living it? How would you overcome them?

3. In the Salesian spirit there is a special confidence in Mary the Help of Christians. How would you
help foster this confidence in your own life?

4. To become imbued with the Salesian spirit you have to make it more and more a part of your life.
What means are you going to take to accomplish this?

Prayer Experience
Spend time with the Blessed Mother in your rosary and ask her to help you to develop the spirit of “Union
with God” as Don Bosco had.

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Lesson 8 – Communion and Collaboration (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To see ourselves as brothers and sisters in Christ in mutual exchange and collaboration.
2. To know how to work together in a true Salesian Family fashion.
3. To understand that being part of this unique, immense, brotherly community is one of God’s
greatest gifts our vocation enjoys.
4. To know that to strengthen this unity the Salesian Congregation has a “special responsibility of
preserving unity of spirit”.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

To emphasize the oneness of all who unite themselves about Don Bosco, the SGC has chosen the truly
Salesian term “family”. The fraternal spirit discussed here refers to that practiced among the Cooperators
themselves. But it refers more especially to relations between the Cooperators and the other sections of the
Salesian family. Being part of this unique, immense, brotherly community is one of God’s greatest gifts
our vocation enjoys.

A superficial glance at the history of the Salesians tells us that Don Bosco first founded the Salesian
Congregation (1859); next; the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians (1872); and finally the Union of
Salesian Cooperators (1876). This is not at all correct if we understand it in the sense that he founded three
institutes in parallel and then sought somehow to unite them. The fact was that with full intention he
actually founded one single “association of apostolic forces”, one single family, which comprised different
and complementary groups. The past with its problems has blurred the vision of these groups so that they
have lost sight of the fact that originally they all belonged to this one common Reality. Today’s problems,
however, are drawing them together again, leading them to take stock of their essential oneness, and to be
more aware of the “common Salesian good”. Each group is thus invited to draw practical conclusions for
its own way of life and its mutual relationships with the other groups. The concept of ‘family is applied in a
different way to these various groups according to the nature of their relationship. It excludes no-one who
is involved in the ‘Salesian happening’, but it does clarify just how things stand in practice and exactly
what constitutes the identity of the various members.

Who belongs to the Salesian family in the strict sense? Those who share the Salesian charisma, i.e. those
who make the Salesian reality their vocation; who have the urge of the Holy Spirit to seek holiness by
dedicating themselves to the Salesian mission, according to the Salesian spirit; those, in short who work
together in a spirit of co-responsibility to achieve this mission and practice the Salesian spirit.

The genuine spiritual brotherliness which unites all the members of the Salesian family should express
itself in their various meetings and mutual relationships. This was Don Bosco’s ideal right from the
beginning. “The members of the Salesian Congregation will consider all Cooperators as brothers in Jesus
Christ and will have their recourse to them every time that their work can help to the greater glory of God
and to the advantage of souls. With the same freedom when the need arises the Cooperators will turn to the
Salesian Congregation.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 21

Brothers and Sisters in Don Bosco

Their common apostolic Vocation and membership in the same Association makes Salesian Cooperators
spiritual brothers and sisters. Indeed, “united with one heart and on soul alone” they live their communion
with those bonds characteristic of Don Bosco’s spirit.

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They joyously take part in the “family life” of the Association through getting to know each other, growing
together, exchanging faith experiences, and working on apostolic projects.

They foster the associative by welcoming each other reciprocally.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 23

Participation in and Ties with the Groups of the Salesian Family

1. In fidelity to Don Bosco’s vision that “weak forces, when united, become strong, and if one cord
taken by itself is easily broken, it is rather difficult to break three united,” Salesian Cooperators
care for the communion and the collaboration with the other Groups of the Salesian Family. They
do this by means of reciprocal knowledge and information, reciprocal spiritual and formative help,
and involvement in common apostolic tasks, with respect for the identity and autonomy of each
Group.
2. Participation on the Salesian Family Consulta/ Commission at the different levels and the link with
the pastoral structures of the Church and civic institutions foster the common search for new
initiatives. The Salesian mission promotes and gives witness to the rich spiritual and apostolic
inheritance it has received.
3. Salesian Cooperators feel close to all the Groups belonging to the Salesian Family because they
are all heirs of the Salesian charism and spirit.

They are open to and foster every form of collaboration, especially with lay groups, respecting the
identity and autonomy of each one.

Reference: Acts 2: 42-47

Life Among the Believers

They spent their time in learning from the apostles, taking part in the fellowship, and sharing in the
fellowship meals and the prayers. Many miracles and wonders were done through the apostles, which
caused everyone to be filled with awe. All the believers continued together in close fellowship, and shared
their belongings with one another. They would sell their property and possessions and distribute the money
among all, according to what each one needed. Every day they continued to meet as a group in the Temple,
and they had their meals together in their homes, eating the food with glad and humble hearts, praising
God, and enjoying the good will of all the people. And every day the Lord added to their group those who
were being saved.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 1, Article 5

The Association in the Salesian Family

The Association of Salesian Cooperators is one of the Groups of the Salesian Family. Together with the
Society of St Francis de Sales, the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians, and other
officially recognized Groups, it is a bearer of the common Salesian Vocation and shares responsibility for
the vitality of Don Bosco's project in the Church and in the world.

The Association brings to the Salesian Family those values which are specific to secular reality. Taking
inspiration from Don Bosco’s apostolic project, they have a strong sense of communion with the other
members of the Salesian Family. They commit themselves to the same mission to youth and to ordinary
folk in a fraternal and united way. They work for the good of the Church and of society in a manner
adapted to the educational needs of their territory and to their own concrete possibilities.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 25

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Particular Bonds with the Society of St. Francis de Sales and the Institute of the Daughters
of Mary Help of Christians

The Association of Salesian Cooperators has a “bond of stable and secure union" with the Society of St
Francis de Sales and particular charismatic ties with the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of
Christians.

Every Salesian Community (SDB and FMA), at both the Provincial and Local levels, feels involved, as
Don Bosco wished, in the task of “supporting and increasing” the Association, of contributing to the
formation of its members, and of making known and promoting their Project of Apostolic Life.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 120-121.

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Lesson 8: Communion and Collaboration (S 1) – Questions for Reflection

1. How can I better contribute to the Salesian Family spirit of my center?

2. How can the Family spirit help me to be a better apostle of Christ?

3. What are the bonds that unite the Salesian Family?

4. In what ways do you see a need for improvement within the Salesian Family Congregation?

Prayer Experience
Spend time with the Blessed Mother during the rosary and ask her for greater unity among the children of
God.

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Lesson 9 – Communion and Collaboration (Session 2)


Objectives

1. To reflect on the importance of familial support in the Salesian spirit.


2. To understand how all the groups of the Salesian family work together for one common goal.
3. To understand how meetings and mutual exchange will give a chance for each group to exchange
its riches.
4. To understand how the Cooperators are autonomous and assume their own responsibilities.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

To a certain extent one could apply to the Salesian family the analogy St. Paul uses when speaking of the
church. It is one body made up of different members. St. Paul insists on two things; the care that must be
given to unity in the body, and the importance that each member perform its proper function well for the
good of the other members and the general good of the body as a whole. “If the whole body were an eye,
where would be the hearing….The eye cannot say to the hand “I have no need of you” (1Cor. XII). It is
important for the other Salesian family groups and for the family as a whole that the Cooperators have their
own particular character and that they be responsible for their own proper part in the fulfillment of their
mission.

All this presupposes a true autonomy which allows the Cooperators to govern themselves and to assume
their own responsibilities – always bearing in mind, of course that they work “in common”. They lean on
the Salesian Congregation, and this gives them their stability; and they receive spiritual nourishment from
it. But they should not depend on it either in the field of administration or apostolic activities; their work is
for the total Salesian mission not for the Religious Salesians as such, nor merely for their particular section
of that mission. Don Bosco had already taken into consideration that the Cooperators would have their
own activities, supported by “their own material means or by help received from others, One could sum up
this autonomy, then, as a freedom to decide and act, with and independence that is relative, not total. This
freedom accepts the bonds of unity, and pleasures them.

Regular and occasional contacts, meetings and mutual exchange will give a chance to each group to
communicate its riches “so that they may become the riches of all. (SGC 174) The Religious Salesians
bring to the Cooperators their “witness proper to consecrated Religious at the service of the Salesian
mission. The Cooperators on their part bring to the SDB and FMA the stimulus of their example and
enthusiastic projects, “a more realistic outlook, so that the efficiency of pastoral work may be increased’.

The field of Salesian activity constitutes a vast area for collaboration. At the moment the most immediate
and most common is educational and pastoral work, and the material help given by the Cooperators to the
Religious Salesian men and women in their various enterprises. “You are our first and essential
collaborators: You are our collaborators in whatever is to be done for the glory of God, but especially
where we lack personnel or material means. (1st. Gen Chapter, 1877)”.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 2, Article 6

Family Spirit

1. To make the sense of belonging to the Association grow, Salesian Cooperators support each other
through the sharing of spiritual goods.

2. They show their human and Christian solidarity in a concrete way to those Salesian Cooperators
who are ill and in difficulty, accompanying them also with their affection and their prayer.

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3. In communion with the deceased Salesian Cooperators and benefactors, and grateful for their
witness, they continue their mission with fidelity. They pray for them, in particular, in the
celebration of the Mass in memory of Mamma Margaret.

4. In fidelity to the Magisterium of the Church, and to Her pastoral guidelines concerning family
issues, the Association gives attention to those members who are undergoing the consequences of
separation and/ or divorce. The Association accompanies them along this difficult life and faith
journey which they are traveling. Such an attitude will be met with a similar one on the part of the
member, with the commitment to live one’s present condition trusting in the infinite mercy of the
Father, and maintaining a tenor of life which is coherent with the commitments assumed with the
Promise.

5. In keeping with the Family Spirit, the Association shows itself open to former Religious of the
Salesian Family who have legitimately left their Institute, and who feel themselves forever tied to
the spirit of Don Bosco.

For these persons, official entrance into the Association requires accepting the Project of Apostolic
Life. If the person requests it, he or she agrees with the Delegate on a formative itinerary. He/ she
will also decide as to the manner of the making of the Promise, whether it will be public or
private.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 2, Article 9

Particular Bonds with the Society of St. Francis of Sales and the Institute of the Daughters
of Mary Help of Christians

1. Relations with the SDB confreres and the FMA Sisters develop in a climate of reciprocal trust.
The animation of the Centers which are established at Salesian works involves the Delegates, in
particular, their respective Provincial, and the Local Religious Community. These have the task of
contributing in various ways to the formation of the members so that they might promote and give
witness to the Salesian charism, above all in the lay environment.
2. The SDB and FMA Provincials, with the collaboration of the Animators and Directors, guarantee
unity in communion and in the mission. They commit themselves to promote the spiritual growth
of the Centers and to involve the Religious Communities in witnessing to the values of sanctity
and in the generous service of animation.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 2, Article 10

Ties with the Groups of the Salesian Family

1. The Salesian Cooperators, recognizing the common spirituality and mission which unite them to
the other Groups in the Salesian Family, work in solidarity and in synergy in confronting the
pastoral challenges of the Salesian mission.

The ties with the Groups of the Salesian Family are expressed particularly in apostolic co-
responsibility. This requires, in some cases, the mutual commitment to carry out common
objectives, to share educational concerns, and to make the Preventive System known.

Each and every Salesian Cooperator is personally responsible for animating and promoting the
spiritual inheritance received.

2. In order to realize this communion with the Groups of the Salesian Family in a concrete way, the
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formation and of updating; moments of animation, friendship , and familiarity; and days of prayer,
retreats, and spiritual exercises.

3. They are particularly open to collaboration with the Salesian Lay Associations while respecting
their diverse identities.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 122-123.

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Lesson 9: Communion and Collaboration (S2) – Questions for Reflection

1. The Salesian fraternal spirit is a spirit of brotherly love. In what ways can you show the spirit of
brotherly love in your life?

2. In what ways do you feel as a Salesian Cooperator you can help build the unity of your center?

3. How do you feel knowing that as a Salesian Cooperator that you are a part of the Salesian Family
Congregation?

4. Can you mention some obstacles that you may see that would be a hindrance to family unity?
Explain.

Prayer Experience
Say a novena to Mary Help of Christians for greater unity within your own family and within your Salesian
family.

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Lesson 10 – Apostolic Commitment (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To focus on the importance of daily spiritual growth in the relationship with God.
2. To understand that the apostolate of the Cooperator depends on their own conformity with the
Church’s aim as well as on their own Christian witness.
3. To understand that a vast field of action is open to the Salesian Cooperator apostolate.
4. To see how the Salesian Cooperator vocation strengthens this commitment.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

“Your life must be exemplary in every sense of the word…the “Action Saint” has invited you to practice
the same rule of the spiritual life he gave to his Salesians and the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.
You do not live the Religious Community Life; you live with your families. In the circumstances you have
chosen to apply yourself seriously to that most exalted of all tasks, Christian perfection. This imports a
special interval and external attitude towards God: it is for this that Don Bosco’s rule of life is meant to
train you”.

Pius XII to the Cooperator, 12 Sept 1952

We must now delve deeper and contemplate Christ himself as Don Bosco saw him and imitated him. In his
whole life Don Bosco made it plain that his only desire was to reproduce Christ and emphasize certain
traits in his personality, and to make his whole mission nothing other than the spreading of Christ’s saving
action.

Don Bosco asks of his sons and disciples that they look to Christ and try to resemble him in those things in
his life that most correspond with their God-given mission and the spirit that animates it. In the first edition
of the Constitutions, Article 1, Don Bosco wrote, “The aim of this Congregation is an assembly of men
trying to perfect themselves by imitating the virtues of our divine Savior, especially in charity towards the
young who are poor”.

To follow Christ in a Salesian Way we need to:

1. Imitate Christ in Untiring Work for the Kingdom of God – As a Salesian we must be greatly
concerned about the responsibility as an apostle. The Salesian Cooperator must accept the
responsibility of being one of the workers for the harvest. His whole being should cry out “Father,
hollowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come.”

2. Imitate Christ on Adapting the Way of the Good Shepherd – At the age of nine, John Bosco
dreamed of Christ the Good Shepherd and received from him the secret of success in education.
“Not with blows but with gentleness and charity”. The Good Shepherd knows his sheep, calls
each by name, makes himself loved by them, leads them to good pastures, hastens to seek out
those who have wandered away, defends them and gives his life for his sheep. And so it must be
with every Salesian.

3. Imitate Christ in Ceaseless Effort for Unity – In Don Bosco there was an over riding desire for
unity, for the family, for the brethren in community, for “one heart and one mind”.

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Reference: PVA Statues, Chapter 2, Article 8

Apostolic Commitment

1. Salesian Cooperators carry out their apostolate, first of all, through their daily tasks. They follow
Jesus Christ, the perfect Man, sent by the Father to serve the people of the world. This is why they
are committed to putting into practice the Gospel ideal of love for God and for one’s neighbor in
the ordinary circumstances of life.

2. Animated by the Salesian spirit, they give special attention to young people, especially to those
who are poorest or victims of any kind of marginalization, exploitation, or violence; to these
setting out in the world of work; and to those who show signs of a specific Vocation.

3. They foster and defend the value of family – the foundational nucleus of society and of the Church
– and are committed to construct it as “a domestic Church”. Married Salesian Cooperators live
their mission through their marriage as “cooperators with the love of God the Creator” and as “the
primary and principal educators of their children,” according to the pedagogy of goodness proper
to the Preventive System.

4. They are attentive to the Social Justice Doctrines of the Church and to social communications so
as to foster educational journeys to grow in these areas.

5. They support the Church’s missionary activity and commit themselves to educate to a global
perspective as an opening to dialogue among cultures.

Reference: Mark 9: 50; Luke 14: 34-35

Salt and Light

“You are like salt for all mankind. But if salt loses its taste, there is no way to make it salty again. It has
become worthless; so it is thrown away and people walk on it.

“You are like light for the whole world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. Nobody lights a lamp to put it
under a bowl; instead he puts it on the lamp-stand, where it gives light for everyone in the house. In the
same way your light must shine before people, so that they will see the good things you do and give praise
to your Father in heaven.”

Reference: Vatican II, Apostolicam Actuositatem, 18 November, 1965

Group Apostolate

The faithful are called as individuals to exercise an apostolate in the various conditions of their life. They
must, however, remember that man is social by nature and that it has been God’s pleasure to assemble
those who believe in Christ and make of them the People of God. (cf. 1 Pet. 2:5-10), a single body (cf. 1
Cor. 12:12). The group apostolate is in happy harmony therefore with a fundamental need in the faithful, a
need that is both human and Christian. At the same time it offers a sign of the communion and unity of the
Church in Christ, who said: “Where two or three are gathered together in my name, I am there in the midst
of them”. (Mt 18:20).

For that reason Christians will exercise their apostolate in a spirit of concord. They will be apostles both in
their families and in the parishes and dioceses, which already are themselves expressions of the community
character of the apostolate; apostles too in the free associations they will have decided to form among
themselves.
Various Types of Group Apostolate

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Great variety is to be found in apostolic associations. Some look to the general apostolic end of the
Church; others aim specifically at evangelization and sanctification; others work for the permeation of the
temporal order by the Christian spirit; and others engage in works of mercy and of charity as their special
way of being witness to Christ.

First among these associations to be given consideration should be those which favor and promote a more
intimate unity between the faith of the members and their everyday life. Associations are not ends in
themselves; they are meant to be of service to the Church’s mission to the world. Their apostolic value
depends on their conformity with the Church’s aim, as well as on the Christian witness and evangelical
spirit of each of their members and of the association as a whole.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 2, Article 12

Structures and Ways in Which They Work

1. Salesian Cooperators participate in the mission of the Association in the Church and reinforce it
with their own commitments and by involving other persons.

2. Normally, the activities of Salesian Cooperators take place, in a spirit of collaboration and
cooperation, in structures where secular circumstances offer them greater possibilities of
meaningful involvement: civic, cultural, socio-economic, political, ecclesial, and Salesian.

3. Salesian Cooperators can carry out their apostolic commitment in works run autonomously by the
Association and in initiatives which respond to the most pressing needs of their locality.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 1, Article 5

Works Run Directly by the Association or by Members of the Association

1. Salesian Cooperators can live out their apostolic commitment in works run either directly by the
Association or by its members. Such works must express the Salesian spirit and charism, in both
their characteristics and goals, according to what is defined in the respective statues.

2. The responsibility for running the work will rest directly with the Local Center if it is a work
promoted by the Associations, or with those members who have undertaken its administration,
without involving, in such a case, any responsibility on the part of the higher levels of the same
Association.

The Association can take steps necessary to be recognized as a civic nonprofit organization in
those places in which they consider it opportune.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 124-126.

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Lesson 10: Apostolic Commitment (Session 1) – Questions for Reflection

1. The apostolate is the heart of the Salesian Cooperator vocation. How would you enflame yourself
with an apostolic desire?

2. In every apostolate there needs to be harmony. What ways do you see that you can contribute to
the harmony of an apostolate?

3. Jesus said, “where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there in the mist of them. Give
some examples of communion and unity in group apostolates?

4. What type of apostolates among the young do you see in your local area?

Prayer Experience
Say a novena to Don Bosco asking him to help you in your apostolate as a Salesian Cooperator.

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Lesson 11 – Apostolic Commitment (Session 2)

Objectives

1. To understand how the Salesian lifestyle is marked by the spirit of the Beatitudes.
2. To understand what sort of witness the Cooperator should have.
3. To relate more closely with Christ in his preference for his “little ones” and his poor.
4. To realize the call of the Salesian Cooperator to evangelize the world around him.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

The Following of Christ in a Salesian Way According to His Beatitudes

A second way opens up for the Salesian who is in earnest about his vocation. Being an apostle of Christ
does not mean he is dispensed from being a disciple of Christ: quite the contrary. The Salesian Cooperator
desires to bring the Gospel to others: he himself must be the first to know and live this same Gospel. In
fact he will carry the Gospel to others far more effectively by the way he lives than by the way he speaks.

The Beatitudes

It is the Salesian’s duty to be among those on the mountain-side listening to Jesus preaching his Beatitudes.
Both the spirit and the mission of our family are in deep accord with them and impel us to practice the
evangelical virtues they present:

- Poverty in spirit and heart: to help us be detached from ourselves and our smugness and attached
to the young and poor.
- Meekness and simplicity in our speech, in our way of treating others, in the patience our Salesian
method requires of us.
- Ill-treatment serenely accepted in the face of difficulties; and sympathy for others who are
afflicted in any way; especially the young.
- Hunger and thirst for justice, i.e., for God’s glory and for the just happiness of our neighbour,
especially those who are deprived of justice and happiness.
- Mercy: With our hearts ever open to material and moral misery, and ready to pour thereon the
healing oil of our understanding and brotherly help.
- Purity in thought, word and deed, avoiding all that could scandalize; but especially bringing to our
homes a way of life that is above reproach, welcoming and serene.
- Peace that we energetically strive for in a world agitated by violence and class hatred.
- Determination to stand four-square by those who are persecuted in their efforts to achieve the
Kingdom of God, of Justice, of Brotherhood, that Kingdom where God’s children are not
exploited.

All these virtues make us avoid what is contrary to the Gospel or in any way anti-Salesian: smugness,
pride, harshness, and intrigue. They encourage us to be “meek and lowly in heart” like Jesus (Mt. XI, 29)
and “merciful even as our Father is merciful” (cf. Lk. VI, 36), and to imitate Christ according to the
inspiration given us by our patron, St. Francis of Sales who was so steeped in the Gospels.

Reference: PAL Statues, Chapter 2, Article 7

The Witness of the Beatitudes

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The lifestyle of a Salesian Cooperators, marked by the spirit of the Beatitudes, commits him or her to the
evangelization of culture and of social life. For this reason the Cooperator, being rooted in Christ and aware
that all baptized people are called to the perfection of love, lives and gives witness to:

- A life lived according to the Spirit, as the source of joy, peace, and forgiveness,
- Freedom, in obedience to God's plan, appreciating the value and autonomy proper to secular
realities, committing themselves to direct these, above all, to the service of persons,
- Gospel poverty, administering the goods entrusted to them using the criteria of temperance and of
sharing, in view of the common good,
- A sexuality according to a Gospel vision of chastity, marked by delicacy and a joyful married or
celibate life, lived with integrity and based on love,
- That mercy which opens one’s heart to all material and moral miseries and urges one to work with
pastoral charity,
- Justice to build a more fraternal world that recognizes and promotes the rights of all, especially of
the weakest,
- A firm will to be a builder of peace in a world agitated by violence and class hatred.

This way of love for God and for others is a sure path towards sanctity.

Reference: Matthew 5: 1-12

Seeing the crowds he went up the hill. There he sat down and was joined by his disciples. Then he began
to speak. This is what he taught them:

How happy are the poor in spirit;


theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Happy the gentle;
they shall have the earth for their heritage.
Happy those who mourn;
they shall be comforted.
Happy those who hunger and thirst for what is right;
they shall be satisfied.
Happy the merciful;
they shall have mercy shown them.
Happy the pure in heart;
they shall see God.
Happy are the peacemakers;
they shall be called sons of God.
Happy those who are persecuted in the cause of righteousness;
theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Happy are you when people abuse you and persecute you and speak all kinds of calumny against you on
my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven; this is how they persecuted the
prophets before you.

Reference: Vatican II, Apostolicam Actuositatem, Chapter 11

The mission of the Church pertains to the salvation of men, which is to be achieved by belief in Christ and
by His grace. The apostolate of the Church and of all its members is primarily designed to manifest
Christ’s message by words and deeds and to communicate His grace to the world. This is done mainly
through the ministry of the Word and the sacraments, entrusted in a special way to the clergy, wherein the
laity also have their very important roles to fulfill if they are to be “fellow workers for the truth” (3 Jn 8). It
is especially on this level that the apostolate of the laity and the pastoral ministry are mutually
complementary.

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There are innumerable opportunities open to the laity for the exercise of their apostolate of evangelization
and sanctification. The very testimony of their Christian life and good works done in a supernatural spirit
have the power to draw men to belief and to God; for the Lord says, “Even so let your light shine before
men in order that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Mt.
5.16).

However, an apostolate of this kind does not consist only in the witness of one’s way of life; a true apostle
looks for opportunities to announce Christ by words addressed either to non-believers with a view to
leading them to faith, or to the faithful with a view to instructing, strengthening, and encouraging them to a
more fervent life. “For the charity of Christ impels us” (2 Cor. 5.14). The words of the Apostle should
echo in all hearts, “Woe to me if I do not preach the Gospel” (1 Cor.9.16). (1)

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 126-128.

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Lesson 11: Apostolic Commitment (Session 2) – Questions for Reflection

1) In what ways do you think you can witness to the Beatitudes in your life?

2) What type of characteristics from the Beatitudes would apply to your life as Salesian Cooperator?

3) What helps are available in my relationship with God so I may become more Christ-like?

4) How would you apply the spirit of the Beatitudes to your work with the young?

Prayer Experience
Spend time with Christ in the Gospels and ask him how you may more imitate him.

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Lesson 12 – Cooperator Mission (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To understand how the same field of action is open to the Cooperators as is the other members of
the Congregation.
2. To understand the meaning of the word mission.
3. To understand that the mission of the Cooperator is assigned by God himself.
4. To understand that the lay faithful are called to a kingly mission in furthering the Kingdom of
God.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

“The field of action is the same for the Cooperators as for the Congregation of St. Francis of Sales, with
which they intend to associate” (Don Bosco, Reg. CC, 1876, Ch 4).

“All the members of the Salesian family receive from the Holy Spirit a special grace of enlightenment and
decision in view of the concrete needs of the poor and abandoned youth” (SGC, Doc. 1 no 163).

“Like Don Bosco we must offer tremendous love, esteem and trust to the young, no matter how they come
to us. In human society they rank highest in numbers, dynamism and need. They must have our goodwill
and our dedicated interest and help” (Pope Paul VI to “Angelus” 31-1-71).

The first article of the Salesian Congregation’s Constitution presented for approval (which was granted in
1874) runs thus: “The object of the Salesian Society is that its members, while striving to attain Christian
perfection, shall be engaged in the various works of charity, both spiritual and temporal, on behalf of the
young, especially of the poorer classes; and shall also undertake the education of young candidates for the
priesthood” (MB X, 956).

Within the Church, and within the service of the complete Church mission, the Salesians (both Religious
and Cooperators) have a “specific mission”. The word mission is rich in meaning; above all it implies that
apostolic work is not assigned by man and hence within this autonomy and having his individual tastes; it is
God-given: man is “sent” to work in God’s vineyard. Hence it comprises the following elements:

1. Someone who “sends”: God, the Spirit of God, the source of every charisma.
2. Someone who is “sent”: “the missionary”, always a servant, an instrument.
3. People to whom the servant is sent: the recipient of the mission.
4. A service, fulfilled in the name of God, by the missionary, for the recipient.

Viewed with the eyes of faith the Cooperator is called and sent by the Lord to continue Don Bosco’s work,
as far as the circumstances render this possible, in communion with all his Salesian brothers and in
coordination with other missionary efforts in the Church.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 22

Co-responsibility for the Mission

1. The Salesian Cooperator feels responsible for the common mission and carries it out according to
his or her own conditions in life, competencies, and possibilities, giving it valuable and substantial
support. He or she shares educative and evangelizing co-responsibility in the Association. Each
Cooperator must participate in the meeting for programming and evaluating the various activities
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responsibilities, he or she commits him or herself to carry them out with fidelity and in spirit of
service.

2. With responsibility and a sense of belonging, every Salesian Cooperator supports the economic
autonomy of the Association so that it can carry out its mission.

Reference: Vatican II, Christifideles Laici

Through their participation in the prophetic mission of Christ, “who proclaimed the kingdom of his Father
the testimony of his life and by the power of his world”(24), the lay faithful are given the ability and
responsibility to accept the gospel in faith and to proclaim in it word and deed, without hesitating to
courageously identify and denounce evil. United to Christ, the “great prophet”(Lk 7:16), and in the spirit
are made “witnesses” of the Risen Christ, the lay faithful are made sharers in the appreciation of the
Church’s supernatural faith, that “cannot err in matters of belief”(25) and sharers as well in the grace of the
word (cf. Acts 2:17-18; Rev 19:10). They are also called to allow the newness and the power of the gospel
to shine out everyday in their family and social life, as well as to express patiently and courageously in the
contradictions of the present age their hope of future glory even “through the framework of their secular
life”.(26)

Because the faithful belong to Christ, Lord and King of the Universe, they share in his kingly mission and
are called by him to spread that Kingdom in history. They exercise their kingship as Christians above all in
the spiritual combat in which they seek to overcome in themselves the kingdom of sin (cf. Rom 6:122), and
then to make a gift of themselves so as to serve, in justice and in charity, Jesus who is himself present in all
his brothers and sisters, above all in the very least (cf. Mt 25:40).

Reference: New Jerusalem Bible, Mark 6: 7-13

The Mission of the Twelve

He made a tour round the villages, teaching. Then he summoned the Twelve and began to send them out in
pairs, giving them authority over the unclean spirits. And he instructed them to take nothing for the
journey except a staff – no bread, no haversack, no coppers for their purses. They were to wear sandals
but, He added “Do not take a spare tunic”. And He said to them “If you enter a house anywhere, stay there
until you leave the district. And if any place does not welcome you and people refuse to listen to you, as
you walk away shake off the dust under your feet as a sign to them. So they set off to preach repentance;
and they cast out many devils, and anointed many sick people with oil and cured them.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 128-129.

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Lesson 12: Cooperator Mission (Session 1) – Questions for Reflection

1. Why do you think God has appointed and sent Don Bosco and his followers on a mission?

2. What fields of action do you see is open to the Salesian Congregation as a mission?

3. In what ways do you feel you can further the Kingdom of God in your everyday life? Explain.

4. When someone is called to a mission by God what are some of the best ways to prepare for that
mission? Explain

Prayer Experience
Spend some quiet time before Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament reflecting on your mission as a Salesian
Cooperator.

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Lesson 13 – Cooperator Mission (Session 2)

Objectives

1. To understand that as a Salesian Cooperator you will be sent as a servant and an instrument of
God.
2. To know to whom the Salesian Cooperator is to be sent in the Salesian mission.
3. To come to know how in our modern world how the youth problem is widespread and urgent.
4. To come to know what is the first priority in the Salesian mission.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

God gave Don Bosco a heart” as wide as the sea shore”; no matter whom he met, he always tried to do
them good – men or women, rich or poor, young or old, important or insignificant. Yet all his life shows
clearly that he considered himself sent by God directly to three categories of people. The first of these was
more important than the other two and in a sense gave rise to them: youth, the working classes and pagans.

The first priority to which Don Bosco was sent: Mission to the young – Two points need clarification
regarding the age and social condition of the young. Don Bosco did not exclude children but he considered
his mission to be directed more particularly to the teenagers. Two deep convictions guided his actions:
youth was the age when decisions were made which affected the whole life of the person and the future of
society; hence anything that endangered the harmonious development of the young was a serious matter;
anything that saved it or helped it was important. It was this very urgency and vastness of the matter that
made him insist with his cooperators: “We must be united in these difficult times….to remove or at least
lessen the evils that endanger the good moral of youth, in whose hands lies the future of civil society”. The
Salesian Congregation is the bond that holds the Cooperators united; its primary aim is to work for the
good of the young; the future is in their hands for good or for ill…From all these places (Italy, Europe,
China, America) come daily requests for priests to go and undertake the care of youth in moral danger…It
is for these great needs that we seek the help of the Cooperators.

Today Don Bosco’s reaction would be even greater; he would make his appeal to the Cooperators even
more vigorous and entreating.

And now a further appeal: within the first priority is a super-priority --- “poor and abandoned” youth.
These terms need clarification, since there are various kinds of poverty: economic, social and cultural; and
emotional, religious and moral. The former refers to cases of material poverty, social insecurity and
helplessness and a culture that is very low level. This level of living impedes the development of
individual capacities and the ability of self-expression in accordance with human dignity. The other kind of
poverty has to do with the disintegration of family life. In practice this second kind of poverty takes on
different traits depending on the diverse and changing conditions of times and places.

We arrive now at finding the true priority of Salesian activity. Don Bosco did not exclude youth of affluent
families who were religiously and morally poor; but his preference was always for the victims of economic,
social and cultural poverty.

It should be added that Don Bosco was always interested in the young (and not so young), whether rich or
poor, who showed signs and dispositions of a vocation to the priesthood or Religious life. This too is one
of the explicit aims of the activity of the Salesian family

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Reference: P. Rinaldi – Man with a Dream

Don Bosco’s Dream – A dream I had when I was nine years old left an indelible impression on my mind. I
dreamt I was in a large field, not far from home, with a crowd of boys, most of whom were playing, while
some were at their worst behavior, as was evidenced by their foul language. I went right up to them and
began to rough them up with blows and harsh words, when suddenly a man appeared, clad in a dazzling
white robe, his bearing noble and majestic, his face so bright, I could hardly bear to look at him. He called
me by name and told me to take charge of those boys, adding “You will never make them your friends by
treating them that way. Be kind and gentle with them. Come now, show them how they can mend their
ways and become decent boys.”

I was so awed and frightened that all I could do was stammer something about being a poor ignorant boy,
quite unable to lecture anyone, let alone those boys. I noticed, in the meantime, that they all had left their
games and had quietly gathered around the mysterious man. I then spoke to him again; and, not quite
knowing what I was saying, I ventured to say to him, “Who are you to tell me to do such impossible
things?” “What seems impossible to you now,” he answered, “you will be able to do later through
obedience and study.” “But how can I ever hope to be able to study and learn about those things?” “I will
give you a guide, who can instruct you as no one else can.” “But who are you to speak to me that way?”
“You know my mother. You greet her three times a day… the way your mother taught you.” “ My mother
always tells me not to have anything to do with strangers, unless I ask her permission. Tell me your name.”

Suddenly I saw a stately lady at his side, wearing a beautiful mantle, all studded with gems that shone like
stars. Seeing how hopelessly confused I was, she bade me come close to her, and taking my hand, “Look,”
she said. The boys had all vanished, and in their place were now all sorts of animals: goats, dogs, wild cats,
bears….” This will be your field of action,” the lady continued, “but first you must grow up to be humble,
strong and sturdy. The change you will see in these animals, you will then bring about in my children.”

I looked again, and all those wild beasts were suddenly changing into lambs, bleating and playfully
skipping all around us. It was all too much for me, and I started to cry while I kept begging the lady to tell
me what all this meant. She gently placed her hand on my head, “Someday, in due time,” she said, smiling,
“you will understand everything.” It was at this point that I awoke and realized that it was all a dream.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 1, Article 1

The Founder: A Man Sent by God

To contribute to the salvation of youth, “the most delicate and most precious portion of human society”, the
Holy Spirit, through the maternal intervention of Mary, raised up St. John Bosco who founded the Society
of St. Francis de Sales (1859) and, with Saint Mary Dominica Mazzarello, the Institute of the Daughters of
Mary Help of Christians (1872). He extended the apostolic energy of the Salesian charism by officially
setting up the “Pious Union of Salesian Cooperators”, the third branch of the Family (1876), united to the
Society of St. Francis de Sales (also called the Salesian Society of St. John Bosco or the Salesian
Congregation).

The Holy Spirit formed the heart of a father and teacher in St. John Bosco, one capable of total dedication,
inspiring him with an educational method permeated by the charity of the Good Shepherd.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 129-130.

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Lesson 13: Cooperator Mission (Session 2) – Questions for Reflection

1. Ponder the first priority of the Salesian mission. Do you feel yourself being called? Explain.

2. Do you see in your local area any way in which you can free the young and the poor from any
kind of oppression? Explain

3. What type of virtues do you think are needed to follow in this mission?

4. In Don Bosco’s dream Jesus said “I will give you a guide, who will instruct you as no one else
can.” Do you see the importance of Mary’s role in this mission and in your own personal
life? Explain.

Prayer Experience
Spend time with Mary in the rosary and offer the mission which God has entrusted to you so that she may
guide you as no one else can.

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Lesson 14 – Cooperator Mission (Session 3)

Objectives

1. To know the other priorities of the Salesian mission.


2. To understand the service which the Salesian mission wishes to transmit.
3. To know what kind of apostolic work is to be done in this mission.
4. To understand that the focus needs to be on the development of the whole human being in this
mission.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Other priorities of the Salesian mission – Mission among the adults of the working classes. – The Holy
Spirit also inspired Don Bosco to be directly interested in grown-ups. This mission seemed to be an
obvious integration and development of his youth apostolate; and in this field too his preference was
decidedly towards people of poor and humble circumstances.

Another priority of the Salesian mission is among the non-evangelized. Don Bosco cultivated the
missionary ideal and participated in a practical way in the missionary work of the church of his day. In the
mission fields too the social work, the preaching of the Gospel and the setting up of the church have their
hierarchy of preferences and urgency: poor youth and working classes come first. Today missionary
activity assumes a growing importance because of the close link with the very pressing problems of our
times: peace, development, agreements, positive exchanges between different nations, races and religions.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 2, Article 11

Typical Activities

Salesian Cooperators are open to varied forms of apostolate. Among these they give a privileged place to
family life, besides their own work and their life in the Association:

- Christian catechesis and formation,


- Animation of youth and family groups and movements,
- Collaboration in educational and scholastic institutions,
- Social service among the poor,
- Work in social communications,
- Cooperation in pastoral ministry for vocations,
- Missionary work,
- Collaboration in ecumenical and inter-religious dialogue,
- Witness to their own faith in socio-political service,
- The development of the Association.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

The Service the Salesian Mission wishes to render is development of the whole man. The mission centers
on human and Christian education of the young and pastoral care of the working classes, carried out with
the mental attitude and the working methods characteristic of the education and apostolic activity of Don
Bosco. The purpose of all this is to build a world that is really “human” and influence the local and
universal Church, making youth and the working classes truly a part of each: this to be achieved by the
work done to improve their condition as human beings and Christians.

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Reference: Vatican II, Christifideles Laici

The Human Person: A Dignity Violated and Exalted

We furthermore call to mind the violations to which the human person is subjected. When the individual is
not recognized and loved in the person’s dignity as the living image of God (cf. Gen 1:26), the human
being is exposed to more humiliating and degrading forms of “manipulation”, that most assuredly reduce
the individual to a slavery to those who are stronger. “Those who are stronger” can take a variety of
names: and ideology; economic power, political and inhumane systems, scientific technocracy or the
intrusiveness of the mass-media. Once again we find ourselves before many persons, our sisters and
brothers, whose fundamental rights are being violated, owing to their exceedingly great capacity for
endurance and to the clear injustice of certain civil laws: the right to life and to integrity, the right to a
house and to work, the right to a family and responsible parenthood, the right to participation in public and
political life, the right to freedom of conscience and the practice of religion.

Reference: New Jerusalem Bible, Luke 10: 29-37

Parable of the Good Samaritan

But the man was anxious to justify himself and said to Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?” Jesus replied, “A
man was once on his way down from Jerusalem to Jericho and fell into the hands of brigands; they took all
he had, beat him and then made off, leaving him half dead. Now a priest happened to be travelling down
the same road, but when he saw the man, he passed on the other side. In the same way a Levite who came
to the place saw him, and passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was
moved with compassion when he saw him. He went up and bandaged his wounds, pouring oil on them. He
then lifted them on to his own mount, carried him to the inn and looked after him. Next day he took out
two denarii and handed them to the innkeeper. “Look after him,” he said and on my way back I will make
good of any extra expense you may have.” Which of these three, do you think, proved himself a neighbor
to the man who fell into the brigands hands? The one who took pity on him’ he replied. Jesus said to him,
“Go and do the same yourself”.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 2, Article 7

Co-Responsibility in Acting

So that co-responsibility in the mission translates into co-responsibility in acting:

1. Those who are entrusted with leadership roles within the Association, at whatever le vel,
carry out said roles in a spirit of service, according to the principles of communion, co -
responsibility, synergy, and cooperation;

2. Given their diverse situations and commitments, Salesian Cooperators offer their witness by
participating in various ways in the life of Associaiton:

- The young, bearers of dynamism, contribute to the common mission with their sensitivity and their
creative capacity,

- The adults and the elderly, with their mature experience and long fidelity, bring with them the
witness of a life rooted in Christ and lived in temporal realities; in the family, through their
commitment in the areas of their own work and of culture, and in their exercise of social,
economic, and political responsibilities,

- Those for whom it is impossible to carry out an active apostolate give strength to the educative
action and to the apostolate of all the others through the offering of their suffering and their prayer,

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- The members of the diocesan clergy who are Salesian Cooperators offer the service of their own
ministry.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 130-132.

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Lesson 14: Cooperator Mission (Session 3) – Questions for Reflection

1. In what ways could you go about evangelizing to the people in your area?

2. In what method of apostleship as a Salesian cooperator do you feel called?

3. Have you ever felt called to imitate the good Samaritan? Give an example

4. In what ways as a Salesian Cooperator could you help restore human dignity to those around you
by practicing the values of the Gospel?

Prayer Experience
In the imitation of Don Bosco offer yourself to your local center in a spirit of sacrifice and service for
others.

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Lesson 15 – Cooperator in the Church

Objectives

1. To understand the many gifts God provides the Church.


2. To see how many different gifts contribute to the building up of the Salesian family.
3. To see the place of the Salesian Cooperator within the Church as expressed in the parish and
diocese.
4. To understand how the Salesian Cooperators participate in the Salesian mission with their
involvement in the Church.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

“The Cooperators main aim, under the general supervision of the Salesians, is to help with their good works
the Church, the bishops and the parish priests”, (Don Bosco, 1884, MB XVII, 25)

“The Salesian Cooperators form a very efficient auxiliary of Catholic Action. You are deeply imbued with
the Salesian spirit. You understand well what close ties you have with the many works which are
supported by the Catholic laity in their close collaboration with the hierarch…and what reliance we are able
to place on your cooperation” (Pius XII to the Cooperators, 12 September, 1952)

“We Salesian Cooperators (we would prefer to say Salesians who are Cooperators’) want this message to
reaffirm our renewed conviction that today’s social needs require our dedicated work in the Church. Not
only our Baptism calls for this, but also our membership of a Union founded by Don Bosco for the very
purpose of serving the local Church and the Pope”. (Message of the Cooperators to the SGC, 2 July, 1971).

The Salesian family was born charismatically of the Holy Spirit. St. Paul teaches very clearly that charisms
or special spiritual talents are always the gift of the Holy Spirit alone to individuals or to groups “for the
common good”, to increase the vitality of the whole body, the Church. This is exactly how Don Bosco,
“man of the Church” par excellence, always understood it.

This awareness or involvement in the Church is one of the characteristic traits of the Salesian spirit. We
take the word “Church” in its full meaning, including the People of God (of whom we are members and
whom we wish to serve) and the hierarchy (to whom we offer our respectful obedience and generous
collaboration).

The new SDB Constitutions say, “We have to see the Church as the unifying and animating centre of all the
forces which work for salvation. For the Pope we have a special reverence and loyalty, towards bishops
charity and obedience and for all other Religious families deep esteem. We desire to collaborate at all
times so that the Body of Christ may grow. “All labour becomes negligible where the Church and the
Papacy are concerned.” (Don Bosco)” (Const. SDB, 44)

This is exactly how Don Bosco conceived and founded his Cooperators. Perhaps the fact that he was
unable to make them canonically one with the Congregation allowed him greater scope and freedom in
planning their direct service to the local Church.

It took the clarion call of Pius XII to open up the “vast horizons” again. “Dear children in Christ, you are
well aware that your Pious Union, engrafted as part of the prolific parent stock of St. John Bosco’s
Religious family, helping in its many activities and sharing its spiritual riches, does not have, however, as
its immediate aim the aid of the Congregation whose name it bears; but rather, as your holy Founder
declared, “ to help, under the general supervision of the Salesians, the Church, the bishops, and the parish
priests”. You are deeply imbued with the Salesian spirit.

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It is obvious then that whatever work the Cooperators are involved in (whatever the field of work of the
Salesian Congregation or outside that area) they are always in the service of the Church.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 1, Article 1

The Salesian Cooperators in the Church

1. The Salesian Cooperators integrate themselves in both the parish and the diocese with availability
and in an attitude of service in the Salesian style. Called to a ministry by the Church, they carry it
out as a means of support and development of the ecclesial pastoral.

They live their Baptismal vocation by taking on Don Bosco’s Preventive System as the specific
modality in which to express God’s love, taking particular care of the young and of families.

2. The Salesian Cooperators promote heartfelt acceptance of and adherence to the Magisterium of the
Church. Their relationships with their parish priests, with other priests, with Religious, and with
other laity are marked by esteem, solidarity, and active participation in pastoral plans, especially in
those which focus on the young, families, and vocations.

Reference: 1 Corinthians 12: 4-11

Gifts from the Holy Spirit

There are different kinds of spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit gives them. There are different ways of
serving, but the same Lord is served. There are different abilities to perform service, but the same God
gives ability to everyone for all services. Each one is given some proof of the Spirit’s presence for the
good of all. The Spirit gives one man a message of wisdom, while to another man the same Spirit gives a
message of knowledge. One and the same Spirit gives faith to one man, while to another man he gives the
power to heal. The spirit gives one man the power to work miracles; to another, the gift of speaking God’s
message; and to yet another, the ability to tell the difference between gifts that come from the Spirit and
those that do not. To one man he gives the ability to speak with strange sounds; to another, he gives the
ability to explain what those sounds mean. But it is one and the same Spirit who does all this; he gives a
different gift to each man, as he wishes.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 1, Article 4

The Association in the Church

1. The Association of Salesian Cooperators is approved by the Apostolic See as a public Association
of the Faithful and shares in the spiritual patrimony of the Society of St. Francis de Sales.

The members actively collaborate in its mission, in the name of the Church, under the authority of
the Rector Major as Don Bosco’s Successor, in a spirit of fidelity to its Pastors and in
collaboration with other ecclesial forces.

2. Salesian Cooperators manifest a filial devotion to the Supreme Pontiff.

3. The Association of Salesian Cooperators is recognized as a public ecclesiastical judicial person. It


has its headquarters in Rome.

Suggested Reading

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In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 133-135.

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Lesson 15: Cooperator in the Church – Questions for Reflection

1. How do I respond to the teaching office of the Church?

2. Am I actively involved in the mission of my parish, or diocese?

3. What different types of gifts, charisms do you see that have been given to the Salesian Family
Congregation.

4. In being of service to a parish or diocese what seems to you the best kind of work the Cooperators
could do?

Prayer Reflection
Pray to the Holy Spirit that he may fill you with all the gifts of the Salesian charism.

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Lesson 16 – Cooperator in the World

Objectives:

1. To realize the call of the laity to evangelize the world.


2. To look at ways this can be done in everyday life.
3. To understand the needs of the worlds youth today.
4. To understand that as a Christian you are in the world but not of it.

Reference: Vatican II, Christifideles Laici

The “world” thus becomes the place and the means for the lay faithful to fulfill their Christian vocation,
because the world itself is destined to glorify God the Father in Christ. The Council is able then to indicate
the proper and special sense of the divine vocation which is directed to the lay faithful. They are not called
to abandon the position that they have in the world. Baptism does not take them from the world at all, as
the apostle Paul points out: “So, brethren, in whatever state each was called, there let him remain with
God”(1Cor 7:24). On the contrary, he entrusts a vocation to them that properly concerns their situation in
the world. The lay faithful, in fact, “are called by God so that they, led by the spirit of the Gospel, might
contribute to the sanctification of the world, as from within like leaven, by fulfilling their own particular
duties. Thus, especially in this way of life, resplendent in faith, hope and charity they manifest Christ to
others”. Thus for the lay faithful, to be present and active in the world is not only an anthropological and
sociological reality, but in a specific way, a theological and ecclesiological reality as well. In fact, in their
situation in the world God manifests his plan and communicates to them their particular vocation of
“seeking the Kingdom of God by engaging in temporal affairs and by ordering them according to the plan
of God”.

The lay faithful’s duty to society primarily begins in marriage and in the family. This duty can only be
fulfilled adequately with the conviction of the unique and irreplaceable value the family has in the
development of society and the Church herself.

Along the same line the Second Vatican Council states: “This lay spirituality should take its particular
character from the circumstances of one’s state in life (married and family life, celibacy, widowhood), from
one’s state of health and from one’s professional and social activity. All should not cease to develop
earnestly the qualities and talents bestowed on them in accord with these conditions of life and should make
use of the gifts which they have received from the Holy Spirit”.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Since the Cooperators do not live “in community”, belong more directly within the structures of the local
church, and are more deeply involved in the ways of thinking and acting of the “outside world”, they are
generally better equipped than the Religious Salesians to sense and understand the problems of the young
and know what possibilities there are of organizing certain kinds of Salesian activity; they are better able to
render “appropriate and flexible service that is more rapid and more effective”, that direct and “efficacious
Christian presence” among the young; more capable, finally of working within the social structures which
condition the lives of the young.

Clearly the Cooperators can be directly responsible for certain works. To quote some remarkable cases:- In
1960 in Guayaquil, Ecuador, the Cooperators set up a whole complex of social work: teaching, vocational
guidance, kindergartens, assistance to the sick, etc. The whole organization is their own responsibility.
Another example is Hong Kong. There they look after the direction and teaching of a night school with an
attendance of 1600 pupils.

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Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 1, Article 6

Salesian Cooperators: Salesians in the World

Salesian Cooperators live out their faith in their own secular reality. Taking inspiration from Don Bosco’s
apostolic project, they have a strong sense of communion with the other members of the Salesian Family.
They commit themselves to the same mission to youth and to ordinary folk in a fraternal and united way.
They work for the good of the Church and of society in a manner adapted to the educational needs of their
territory and to their own concrete possibilities.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 2, Article 16

Salesian Presence in the World

1. Salesian Cooperators feel they are “in intimate solidarity” with the society in which they live and
for which they are called to be light, salt, and leaven. They believe in the interior resources of the
person. They share the values of their own culture and they commit themselves to work so that it
may be guided by Christian humanism. They promote new realities with a critical Christian sense.
They integrate into their life “all that which is good,” adopting a listening stance, especially as
regards the young, in discerning the signs of the times.

2. Faced with socio-cultural challenges and difficulties, they adopt a critical and constructive
attitude. They work with commitment to spread a Christian culture and ethic of welcome and
solidarity in society.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 2, Article 11

Typical Activities

Salesian Cooperators are open to varied forms of apostolate. Among these they give privileged place to
family life, besides their own work and their life in the Association:

- Christian catechesis and formation,


- Animation of youth and family groups and movements,
- Collaboration in educational and scholastic institutions,
- Social service among the poor,
- Work in social communications,
- Cooperation in pastoral ministry for Vocations,
- Missionary work,
- Collaboration in ecumenical and inter-religious dialogue,
- Witness to their own faith in socio-political service,
- The development of the Association.

Reference: Matthew 5: 13-16

Salt of the Earth and Light of the World

“You are the salt of the earth. But if salt becomes tasteless, what can make it salty again? It is good for
nothing, and can only be thrown out to be trampled underfoot by men.
“You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill-top cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp to put it
under a tub; they put it on the lamp-stand where it shines for everyone in the house. In the same way your
light must shine in the sight of men, so that, seeing your good works, they may give the praise to your
Father in heaven.

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Reference: Matthew 28: 16-20

Appearance in Galilee - The Mission to the World

Meanwhile the eleven disciples set out for Galilee, to the mountain where Jesus had arranged to meet them.
When they saw him they fell down before him, though some hesitated. Jesus came up and spoke to them.
He said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, make disciples of all
nations; baptize them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teach them to
observe all the commands I gave you. And know that I am with you always; yes, to the end of time.

Reference: Vatican II, Christifideles Laici

The entire mission of the Church, then, is concentrated and manifested in evangelization. Through the
winding passages of history the Church has made her way under the grace and the command of Jesus
Christ: “Go unto all the world and preach the gospel to the whole creation” (Mk 16:15). “….and lo, I am
with you always, until the close of the age” (Mt 28:20). “To evangelize,” writes Paul VI, “is the grace and
vocation proper to the Church, her most profound identity.”

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 1, Article 2

The Salesian Cooperators in their Social-Cultural Reality

1. Salesian Cooperators make the educational solicitude of the Salesian charism their own in all areas
of life. They are faithful to the Gospel and to the Social Justice Doctrines of the Church. They are
attentive to the signs of the times; they continue God’s creative work and give witness to Christ
with integrity, hard work, and coherence of life; through the educative mission and serious, up-
dated professionalism; through sharing joy and sufferings in faith; and by being available to give
service in every circumstance.

2. Their aim is to form a mature critical conscience so as to participate responsibly in social life in
the areas of culture, economy, and politics. They refuse all that which provokes and feeds
injustice, oppression, marginalization, and violence, and they work courageously to remove their
causes.

3. They give attention to and value the ethical dimension of culture. They keep themselves constantly
updated on the evolution of the means of social communication, above all because of the impact
which these have on the formation of the young, of families, and of ordinary folk.

4. They integrate themselves, according to their own capacities and possibilities, in cultural and
sociopolitical structures and workers’ unions so as to develop and achieve the common good.
They work, in conformity with the Gospel demands of liberty and of justice, for respect for human
rights and, consequently, for the renewal and the healing of mentalities and customs, and of the
laws and the societal structures of the areas in which they live.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 1, Article 3

The Association in Civic and Ecclesial Realities

1. The Association is attentive, with the thrust of the Preventive System, to the cries coming from
society for the integral promotion of the human person and of fundamental human rights.

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2. The Association intervenes courageously, according to the teachings of the Magisterium of the
Church, to promote a sociopolitical culture inspired by the Gospel and to defend human and
Christian values. It illumines and urges its members to assume their own commitments in society
with responsibility.

Salesian Cooperators make themselves present and bring with them the unique characteristics of
the Salesian charism to Associations, Apostolic Movements and groups, educational agencies, and
to organizations which have service to youth and to the family as their objective, and which
promote justice, peace, and solidarity with peoples on the path of development.

3. The Association follows social volunteering with particular attention. It adheres to formative
proposals and participates in the initiatives of organizations of Christian inspiration.

4. The Association commits itself to foster intercultural and interreligious dialogue.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 1, Article 4

The Structures in Which They Work

Salesian Cooperators promote the launching and functioning of works, becoming active in the areas in
which they live; in a particular way:

- In civic, cultural, intercultural, socio-economic, and political arenas: paying attention to the
education of the young, human rights, and the life of the family,

- In ecc1esial environments: offering their personal collaboration, in synergy and with


responsibility, to their bishops and parish priests, especially in the parish communities and in the
animating bodies of the diocese,

- In places animated by the Salesian Society, by the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians, or by
other Groups of the Salesian Family,

- In works run by other Religious Communities and ecclesial movements.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 135-137.

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Lesson 16: Cooperator in the World – Questions for Reflection

1. How do I evangelize my family, co-workers, friends, neighbors, etc.?

2. How can I better evangelize to those who are young and marginalized in society?

3. What are some of the needs of the youth in your local area?

4. In what ways can you illumine the light of Christ within yourself, so as to more effectively bring
Him to others?

Prayer Experience
Compose a litany highlighting the needs of the world. Responding with “Lord Have Mercy”, “Christ Have
Mercy”

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Lesson 17 – The Preventive System (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To understand how Christian charity if the basis for the Preventive System.
2. To understand the techniques used by Don Bosco in the Preventive System.
3. To recognize how the Preventive System (Salesian Spirituality) is the basis for a relationship with
God.
4. To understand how Jesus the Good Shepherd in Don Bosco’s first dream relates to the Preventive
System.

Reference: Reason, Religion and Kindness – The Educational Method of Saint John Bosco – Paul Avallone
S.D.B.

Vision of 1824

It will be profitable to prelude this chapter with a brief narration of a vision (Don Bosco called it a dream)
that occurred when the Saint was nine years of age. His future work was prefigured in the vision, as well as
the spirit that was to permeate the atmosphere of his apostolate. At the command of Pius IX Don Bosco
gave us the following account: “At the age of about nine years I had a dream which remained deeply
impressed upon my mind for the rest of my life. In the dream I seemed to be near a house in a large
courtyard, where a crowd of boys was gathered together. Some were laughing, others playing, and many
among them blaspheming. On hearing these blasphemies, I immediately rushed into their midst, raising my
voice and using my fists to make them keep quite.

“At that moment a dignified looking man, nobly clad, who seemed to be in the prime of life appeared on
the scene. A white mantle covered the whole of his person, but his face was so radiant that I was unable to
look at it for long. He called me by name, and directed me to place myself at the head of these boys,
concluding with these words: “You must win the hearts of these friends of yours, not with your fists, but
with sweetness and charity. Set to work at once to instruct them on the wickedness of sin and on the
excellence of virtue.”

The vision continued. The grand personage was our Lord. Later our Lady appeared on the scene, and it
was she who was to make possible what John was now seeing. Our Lady spoke thus: “This is your field of
labor. This is where you must work. Make yourself humble, determined and strong. You must do for my
sons what you will now see happening to these animals.”

“I looked again, and to my surprise, instead of fierce animals, I saw gentle lambs, all frisking about and
bleating merrily, as if to do honor to the man and the lady.
“At this point of the dream I commenced to cry and begged the lady to speak clearly because I did not
know what all these things meant. She then put her hand on my head and said: “In good time, my son, you
will understand everything.”

The condition for conquering the hearts of the young was to be sweetness and charity, as the vision
pointedly indicated. This spirit was to reign in all Salesian schools if the work of education was to be
successful. Don Bosco’s spirit of kindness, amiability and understanding stemmed from this vision. This
explains why Don Bosco reluctantly touches upon the subject of punishments. In treating this subject he
begins thus: “If possible, never make use of punishments.” Charity must be the mainspring of action; Don
Bosco never tired of repeating this.

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Preventive Techniques

The ancient adage, “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure,” finds its application with Don
Bosco’s system of education. In this system, prevention of wrongdoing is of paramount importance if
punishment is to be ruled out. Some of these preventive techniques presented by Don Bosco will be briefly
indicated:

1. Make known the rules and regulations of the school:

These are to be few and precise. The rules and regulations are to be read to all pupils at the
beginning of the year. Once a week some few articles are to be explained in detail by a member of
the faculty. This procedure also forms part of the general guidance program.

2. Supervise the students constantly:

Supervision is the key word of the system. This is no question of a police-like vigilance, but of a
brotherly and fatherly watchfulness. “Care should be taken that the pupils never remain alone. As
far as possible, the assistants out to go beforehand to the place where the boys are to gather
together; they should remain with them until others come to relieve them, and the pupils should
never be left un-occupied.”

3. Strive to be loved by the pupils:

The teacher must endeavor to have the pupils realize they are loved. “The educator must strive to
make himself loved by his pupils if he wishes to make himself feared by them. Every Salesian
must make himself loved if he wishes to be feared. He will attain this end if he makes it clear by
his words, and still more by his actions, that all his care and solicitude are directed towards the
spiritual and temporal welfare of his pupils.”

4. Withdraw affection and attention:

This negative or psychological punishment is very effective when one had gained the love and
esteem of his pupils. “…The omission of some token of kindness is a punishment which rekindles
emulation, revives courage and never degrades.

5. Correct patiently:

Three points are especially recommended by Don Bosco. An educator should correct: a) with the
patience of a father; b) as far as possible in private-only in cases of preventing or remedying
serious scandal would the Saint permit public correction; c) at the right moment, that is, give the
pupil time to reflect, to enter himself; he will realize he is wrong.

6. Be master of yourself:

Don Bosco says: “First of all, master your own character, and then you will succeed in mastering
those of your pupils. Show them that uncontrolled emotion plays no part in your actions; they will
respect you for that and their respect will prompt obedience.

7. Make use of a third party:

One’s efforts may be unavailing and unsuccessful. There may be a teacher in the house who has
gained the confidence of the lad. This teacher should be invited to attempt to win over the lad and
brought to see his error.

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Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 2, Article 9

The Task of Christian Education

1. Salesian Cooperators, like Don Bosco, bring the task of educating and evangelizing everywhere, in
order to form “honest citizens, good Christians, and blessed inhabitants of Heaven,” who know
that they are always on the journey to a greater human and Christian maturity.

2. They share with the young their enthusiasm for living with authenticity the values of truth,
freedom, justice, the sense of the common good, and of service.

3. They educate the young to encounter the Risen Christ – in our Faith and in the Sacraments – so
they may find Him the meaning of their life so as to grow as “new men and new women.”

4. They are committed to helping the young develop a life plan which will give witness to their
Christian and Salesian presence in the Church and in society.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 137-138.

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Lesson 17: The Preventive System (Session 1) – Questions for Reflection

1. How can I better practice the style of action of the Salesian Preventive System in my daily life?

2. How does the Preventive System inform and direct my relationship with God?

3. How do you think the techniques of the Preventive System show Gods love to the young? Explain

4. In what ways do you show the Christian love of God to others when faced with adversity?

Prayer Experience
Pray and ask Jesus, Mary Help of Christians and St. John Bosco to help you implement the Preventive
System in your life.

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Lesson 18 – The Preventive System (Session 2)


Objectives

1. To see how Don Bosco used Reason, Religion and Kindness with his boys.
2. To reflect on how the Cooperator can put Reason, Religion and Kindness into practice in daily
life, family, work situations and the apostolate.
3. To understand Don Bosco’s adage “It is not enough to love the boys. They must know they are
loved”.
4. To reflect on how the Preventive system can be used with today’s youth.

Reference: Reason, Religion and Kindness – The Educational Method of St. John Bosco – Paul Avallone
S.D.B.

Fundamental Principles of this System

In the words of St. John Bosco himself, “…this system is based entirely on reason, religion and kindness.”
He insisted that reason and religion are to be practiced first by every teacher and then made an integral part
of one’s educational effort if the teacher wishes to be obeyed and to be successful.

The first element in the Salesian educational system is reason: the power to comprehend and understand
the young and at the same time the ability to dialogue and communicate with them. This calls for an active
and constant presence of the educator with the educand; a pleasant unrestrained “being together.” Efforts
are made to supply the legitimate emotional and psychological needs of the young, who seek “to belong,”
“to be secure” and “to be recognized”.

Belongingness, security, and recognition are attained in this system of education by the confidence
generated through interpersonal relationships between pupils and teachers who, in Don Bosco’s words, are
like “loving fathers” encouraging and praising at the proper moment. The needs for attention and
recognition are fulfilled by wholesome outlets; sports, music, dramatics, field trips, and countless number
of school activities.

The second element in the Salesian educational system is religion: The message of the Gospel is an
integral part of Salesian education, since the “good news” is light that will lead individuals safely through
life in this world to the life in the next.

The means of saving the young is and ever will be religion, which will dominate the actions of the young
and effect permanent change for the good of the “individual and that of society.” Salesian education,
drawing always from authentic Catholic tradition, places great importance on the frequent use of the
Sacraments – the ordinary channels of God’s grace and help; indeed, the young need such help in the
period of adolescence, a perplexing and confusing time of life.

The third element in the Salesian educational system is kindness: This basic principle is not a weakness,
but rather a show of strength and self-control. It seeks to create a persuasive atmosphere, where self
expression is fostered. This kindness or charity generates that expansiveness and confidence so much
needed by today’s youth.

The Preventive System stems from the Gospel of Christ, who is meekness, kindness, and love. This
method is based on the golden words of St. Paul when he extols the great virtue of charity: “Charity is
patient, is kind. It bears all things, hopes all things and endures all things.

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Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 2, Article 10

The Pedagogy of Goodness

In their educational task, Salesian Cooperators:

1. Put into practice Don Bosco’s “Preventive System,” a spiritual and educative experience which is
based on reason, religion, andloving-kindness,

2. Foster a family environment in which constant dialogue, an animating presence, personal


accompaniment, and group experience help all perceive God’s presence,

3. Promote the good and educate to a love for life, to responsibility, solidarity, sharing, synergy, and
communion,

4. Appeal to a person’s inner resources and believe in the invisible action of grace. They look at
each young person with realistic optimism, convinced of the educational value of the faith
experience. Their relationship with the young is inspired by a mature and welcoming love.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 3, Article 18

Style of Relationship

Salesian Cooperators live as “good Christians and honest citizens,” sanctifying their existence in everyday
life and rooting their action in union with God. They believe in the value of life, of giving freely without
seeking return, of fraternity, and of “being neighbor.” They cultivate those attitudes which foster education
to the joys of daily life and they communicate this to others.

Reference: 1 Corinthians 13: 1-7

The Order of Importance in Spiritual Gifts, Love

If I have all the eloquence of men or of angels, but speak without love, I am simply a gong booming or a
cymbal clashing. If I have the gift of prophecy, understanding all the mysteries there are, and knowing
everything, and I have faith in all it fullness, to move mountains, but without love, then I am nothing at all.
If I give away all that I possess, piece by piece, and if I even let them take my body to burn it, but am
without love, it will do me no good whatever.

Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous; love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or
selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but
delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 138-140.

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Lesson 18: The Preventive System (Session 2) – Questions for Reflection

1. Don Bosco had said that only a Christian can apply the Preventive System with success. Why do
you believe this to be true?

2. As a Cooperator how can you practice the loving kindness desired by Don Bosco in your
relationships.

3. How do you see love as patient, kind, never jealous, never boastful, never conceited, never rude or
selfish? How would you apply this to your life?

4. How do you see love as not taking offense and not being resentful? How would you apply this to
your life?

Prayer Experience
Practice the spirit of loving kindness with those to whom you find unlovable.

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Lesson 19 – Organization of the Association (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To understand the basic organizational structure (i.e. the local, the provincial and the world levels)
of the Salesian Cooperator Association.
2. To understand how each Council within the Association is appointed.
3. To understand how the Association is open to all according to his or her abilities.
4. To understand how the Organization of the Salesian Cooperators helps strengthen the bonds of
unity.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Don Bosco was a zealous organizer but always a realist; hence his preoccupation with unity and cohesion
in the forces he had gathered together: he aimed at top efficiency. Right from the beginning he wanted the
Association well organized.

“The group apostolate of Christian believers happily corresponds to a human and Christian need and at the
same time signifies the communion and unity of the church in Christ… The associations established to
carry on the apostolate in common sustain their members, form them for the apostolate, and rightly
organize and regulate their apostolic work so that much better results can be expected than if each member
were to act on his own. In the present circumstances it is quite necessary that, in the area of lay activity, the
united and organized form of the apostolate be strengthened. In fact, only the close pooling of resources is
capable of fully achieving all the aims of the modern apostolate in firmly protecting its interests.”

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 33

The Reasons for This Organization

Salesian Cooperators, called to live their apostolic Vocation in society and in the Church, have an
appropriate organizational structure. The Association of which they are part is means to live out mission
and communion according to this Project of Apostolic Life.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 34

Flexible Organizations

Faithful to the will of the Founder, the Association has a flexible and functional structure, established on
three levels of government: Local, Provincial, and World.

The efficacy of the Association’s action in its area, and its openness to the universality of communion and
of mission, are assured through this structure of organization.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 35

Governance and Animation at Local, Provincial and World Levels

With the authority of the Rector Major safeguarded, and represented normally by his Vicar, or by a
delegate named by him, the governance and animation of the Association is entrusted to its own Local,
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respective SDB or FMA Provincial for the Local and Provincial Councils, and by the Rector Major for the
World Council. Legal representation of the Association is entrusted to the Coordinator of the respective
Council.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 36

The Local Level

1. The fundamental nucleus of the Association is the Local Center. Ordinarily, it gathers together
Salesian Cooperators who work within a specific territory. Every Center has a Delegate appointed
by his or her respective Provincial. The Center is preferably established near a Salesian work –
either of the Salesians of Don Bosco or of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.

2. The Local Centers are directed collegially by a Local Council which is elected by all the members
comprising the Assembly of the Local Center. The Council elects from among its members a
Local Coordinator and defines the specific roles of the Councilors. The Delegate is part of the
Council and has an active voice.

3. Men and women of good will, even if of Christian Confession, or of a different religion, and/ or
culture, who feel an affinity with the Salesian charism, can share in the initiatives of the Local
Center and offer their collaboration as “Friends of Don Bosco.”

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 37

The Provincial Level

1. Local Centers are organized into Provinces established by the Rector Major, subject to a proposal
by the World Council.

2. In consideration of the “bond of union” and of the charismatic ties among the Association of
Salesian Cooperators and the Salesians of Don Bosco and the Daughters of Mary Help of
Christians, the Association’s Provinces are related to the reality of the respective SDB or FMA
Provinces.

3. Every Province has a Provincial Council elected by the Local Councils in sede at the Provincial
Congress according to the modalities foreseen in the Regulations of the Congress.

4. The Provincial Council is organized collegially, electing a Provincial Coordinator from among its
members. The council itself defines the specific tasks of each of the Councilors. Every Provincial
Council has an SDB and an FMA Delegate among its Councilors. These have an active voice and
are named by the respective SDB and FMA Provincials.

5. For the animation of the Association, the Provinces, with respect for the autonomy of their
governance, are organized into Regions according to affinity of language, culture, and territory, by
the decision of the Rector Major, with the agreement of the World Council. The SDB and FMA
Provincials concerned, in common accord, name one SDB Regional Delegate and one FMA
Regional Delegate.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 38

The World Level

1. The World Council is composed of:


- The World Coordinator, named directly by the Rector Major,

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- The SDB World Delegate, named by the Rector Major, and the FMA World Delegate, named
by the Rector Major on the proposal of the Mother General of the Institute of the Daughters of
Mary Help of Christians,
- The World Councilors, elected by the respective Regional Congresses,
- The World Treasurer and World Secretary, elected – by secret ballot – by the Councilors
themselves.
2. The World Executive Secretary (SEM) is composed of the World Coordinator, the World
Treasurer, the World Secretary, the SDB World Delegate, and the FMA World Delegate.

The SEM has the function of seeing to the ordinary acts of administration which do not require the
convocation of the World Council. Within the World Council, it assumes the task of “Council for
Economic Affairs” within the Association according to the terms of Canon 1280.
3. The term of office for members of the World Council is six years.
4. The directives of the World Council come into force upon the approval of the Rector Major.

Reference: Acts 15: 22-29

Letter of the Apostles

Then the apostles and presbyters, in agreement with the whole church, decided to choose representatives
and to send them to Antioch with Paul and Barnabas. The ones chosen were Judas, who was called
Barnabas, and Silas, leaders among the brothers. This is the letter delivered by them “The apostles and the
presbyters, your brothers, to the brothers in Antioch, Syria, and Cilicia of Gentile origin: greetings. Since
we have heard that some of our number (who went out) without any mandate from us have upset you with
their teachings and have disturbed their peace of mind, we have with one accord decided to choose
representatives and to send them to you along with our beloved Barnabas and Paul, who have dedicated
their lives to the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. So we are sending Judas and Silas who will also convey
this same message by word of mouth. It is the decision of the Holy Spirit and of us not to place on you any
burden beyond these necessities, namely, to abstain from meat sacrificed to idols, from blood, from meats
of strangled animals, and from unlawful marriage. If you keep free of these, you will be doing what is
right. Farewell.”

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 140-142.

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Lesson 19: Organization of the Association (S1) – Questions for Reflection

1. The Organization is a help for vitality and action. What advantages do you see in it?

2. How do you see the Organization within the Association helps give it strength and effectiveness?

3. How does the service of authority in the Association help me to be a better Cooperator?

4. Do you see yourself becoming part of this world-wide Association? How does it make you feel?

Prayer Experience
Reflect on the communion of the saints and ask some of your favorite Salesian saints to help you better
understand the World Wide Apostolate of the Salesian Cooperators.

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Lesson 20 – Organization of the Association (Session 2)

Objectives

1. To understand that the Union of Cooperators is not a simple lay Association.


2. To understand that the Cooperator Association belongs to the Cooperators organizationally.
3. To understand the Organization is supported by the Cooperators materially and by assuming
positions of leadership.
4. To understand the ways you can help further the Organization of the Association.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Canonically the Association is constituted as a “Pious Union”: this is the lowest rung of the canonical
ladder. It is something like a “Third Order”, since the aim is evangelical perfection (in a Salesian spirit,
and not so much through prayer as through charitable activities, especially with reference to the young and
poor).

He entrusted the general direction of the Association to “the Superior of the Salesian Congregation” i.e. to
himself and his successors. Regional and local direction was in the hands of the Salesian Rectors and lay
promoters; but they were not really directly responsible; rather they were representatives of the major
superior and were to correspond with the Superior who was to enroll every member “in the common
register”. The local superior was to forward the offerings to the Major Superior. All this points to Don
Bosco’s great desire for unity. He wanted his Cooperators to eschew any kind of dispersal of the Salesian
apostolic efforts; he wanted orderly action, imbued with the same spirit and in step with the same
directives. This is the price of efficiency.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 2, Article 8

Economic Solidarity

1. The sense of belonging and of co-responsibility also involves the economic aspect of the
Association. For its functioning and for the actualization of the mission at the Local, Provincial,
and World levels, the Salesian Cooperators support the Association with free and generous
contributions, as Don Bosco wished: “The Cooperators have no monetary obligation whatsoever,
but they will make monthly, or annually, that obligation which the charity of their hearts will tell
them.”

2. The Association participates in economic solidarity also through offerings which it sends to the
Rector Major. With such offerings and the help of benefactors, it supports the worldwide needs of
the Association, missionary initiatives, and other projects tied to the Salesian mission.

3. The Association, through the World Council, elaborates an annual plan of economic solidarity
based on animation needs for the development of the entire Association.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 5, Article 19

The Local Council

1. At the Local level, the Association is directed collegially by a Local Council. It is composed of
both a convenient number of members – ordinarily from three to seven – elected by the Salesian
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Provincial. The Delegate has an active voice with a right to vote on a par with the other members
of the Council.

If the Local Center is set up in one of the Houses which depend directly on a Superior General, the
naming of the Delegate falls to said Superior General.

2. Elected Councilors remain in office for three years and can be re-elected for only one further
triennium.

After having finished their mandate, they may be re-elected following a period of three
intervening years.

For there to be a third consecutive triennium, recourse must be made to the institution of
postulation, according to the norms of the Code of Canon Law, Canons 180-183, along with the
corresponding dispensation from the Rector Major.

Once the Councilors have been elected and have publicly accepted their charge as Councilor, they
gather together to establish what their roles will be. The division of these roles can take place by
secret or public vote.

Within a reasonable amount of time following the date of election, the handing over of the
authority from the exiting Coordinator to the new Coordinator will take place.

3. If the Salesian Cooperators elected by the assembly of the Local Center renounces the position, the
Cooperators with the most votes among those not elected takes his/ her place.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 5, Article 21

Tasks of the Local Council as Pertain to its Apostolic Service

1. In order to assure the functioning of the Association as regards it apostolic and missionary
purposes, the tasks of the Local Council are to:

a. To plan, promote and coordinate the formation and apostolic initiatives of its members,
b. Take care of the bonds of union and of communion with the Provincial Council or the World
Council of the Association where no Provincial Council exists,
c. Strengthen the charismatic ties and bonds of communion with the Provincial Council or the
World Council of the Association exists,
d. Decide on the convocation of Assemblies,
e. See to the administration of the goods of the Association,
f. Approve the Budget and the Balance to present to the members,
g. Accompany the Aspirants in their participation in the Center and give them a quality
formation, taking into account the formation guidelines of the Association, valuing their
differences and directing them constructively towards the gift of unity,
h. Animate initiatives which foster the vocational fidelity of the members and their active
participation in the life of the Center, taking into account the various groups which compose
it, and favoring differentiated paths,
i. Make known and spread Don Bosco’s spirituality (for example, by means of the Mamma
Margaret workshops, the “Bosco Homes”, and other similar initiatives),
j. Propose the Vocation of the Salesian Cooperator, planning possible initiatives to welcome
Aspirants,
k. Adopt other initiatives to foster an optimal functioning of the Center, respecting the directives
of the Project of Apostolic Life.
2. Every Local Council elects from among its lay members:
a. A Coordinator
b. A Treasurer

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c. A Secretary

Every Council, moreover, designates from among its members someone to be in charge of
Formation, who coordinates with the Delegate, as a guarantor of the charism. In the case that the
designation of such a person is lacking, the Coordinator, in dialogue with the Delegate, can
identify a Salesian Cooperator who is not part of the Center to carry out this service.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 5, Article 22

Delegates

1. The SDB and FMA Provincials, through the Delegates, animate the Centers established in
connection with their works or linked to their Provinces.

2. Every Local Council has an SDB or an FMA Delegate. Every Provincial Council and the World
Council have an FMA and an SDB Delegate. They are the spiritual animators, and educative and
pastoral guides, who are responsible, above all, for Salesian apostolic formation. According to the
norms of the Statues, article 26.1, they take part by right on the respective Councils.

3. The Delegates to the Local and Provincial levels are named by each one’s respective Provincial
after having heard the thoughts of the members of the respective Council and keeping in mind, as
much as is possible, the needs of the Centers.

4. If the Local Centre is not established in connection with a Salesian work of the SDB or the FMA,
the Provincial can nominate a Salesian Cooperator as a Local Delegate or another member of the
Salesian Family who is adequately prepared.

5. When necessary and opportune, a Delegate can fulfill this task for more than one Local Center.

6. The Provincial Delegates animate the Delegates of the Local Centers to help foster the assumption
of their responsibilities as regards their task of spiritual animation of the Salesian Cooperators and
of co-responsibility in their Salesian apostolic formation.

7. The Provincial Delegates, in understanding with the Regional and/ or World Delegates, promote,
if it is the case, updating and formation activities for all the Delegates of the Province on the
Salesian charismatic dimension, with specific reference to their role of animation. These activities
are open to the participation of the leadership of the Association.

Reference: Acts 15: 30-35

Delegates at Antioch

And so they were sent on their journey. Upon their arrival in Antioch they called the assembly together
and delivered the letter. When the people read it, they were delighted with the exhortation. Judas and
Silas, who were themselves prophets, exhorted and strengthened the brothers with many words. After they
had spent some time there, they were sent off with greetings of peace from the brothers to those who had
commissioned them. But Paul and Barnabas remained in Antioch, teaching and proclaiming with many
others the word of the Lord.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 24

The Ministry of the Rector Major

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1. The Rector Major of the Society of St. Francis de Sales is Don Bosco's successor. Through the
explicit will of the Founder he is the Superior of the Association and carries out the functions of
Supreme Moderator within it. He guarantees its fidelity to the Founders plan and promotes its
growth.

2. In his ministry, exercised also through his Vicar or the World Coordinator, ,he normally avails
himself of the World Council and the World Executive Secretary (the SEM0), above all, to
animate the entire Association and to coordinate the various formative and apostolic initiatives.

3. The members of the Association nourish sentiments of sincere affection towards the Rector Major
and of fidelity to his guidelines.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 6, Article 39

Administration of the Goods of the Association

1. The Association of Salesian Cooperators, in that it is a public, ecclesiastical, juridical person, has
the ability to acquire, possess, administer, and alienate temporal goods, according to Law. The
good owned by the Association as such are ecclesiastical goods.43

2. The Rector Major with the World Council administers the goods of the Association at the world
level and is the competent authority in granting to Local and Provincial Council's the permissions
nee3ded to establish acts of extraordinary administration and alienation which do not require the
intervention of the Apostolic See. 44

3. The Councils, through a Treasurer chosen from within the Council care for the management of
the goods of the Association. The Treasurer also prepares the “Statement of cash Flow” to present
annually to the Council of the next higher level.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 142-144.

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Lesson 20: Organization of the Association (S2) – Questions for Reflection

1. The main aim of the Organization is always the same: unity among the Cooperators and efficiency
of action. Do you feel the structure of the Organization helps enable the Cooperators to attain this
goal? Explain

2. What are the levels of the Association and at what level of the organization do you think you
would be called to? Explain.

3. The organization is run in a collegial fashion. In what ways do you see this increases its
effectives? Explain.

4. Why do you think Don Bosco entrusted the general direction of the Association to "the Superior of
the Salesian Congregation". Explain

Prayer Experience
Spend time with the Blessed Mother during your rosary and ask her to give you insight as to your role
within the Association.

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Lesson 21 – Membership & Formation (Session 1)

Objectives

1. To understand that every Cooperator is responsible for his own formation by his willing
acceptance of help that is offered him.
2. To understand that as a Salesian Cooperator apostolic formation is necessary.
3. To understand in what this formation consists (i.e. spiritual, doctrinal and practical).
4. To understand that the success of the apostolate depends on our living union with Christ.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

“The Apostolate can attain maximum effectiveness only through a diversified and thorough formation”
(AA 28)

“In keeping with their purpose and according to their measure, lay groups and associations dedicated to the
apostolate or to other supernatural goals should carefully and persistently promote formation for the
apostolate. Frequently these groups are the ordinary vehicle of harmonious formation for the apostolate
since they provide doctrinal, spiritual and practical formation”.

The vocation to be a Salesian Cooperator has a special identity of its own; it is rich in content; it is rugged.
One should not imagine that it is possible to be a ready made Salesian Cooperator all at once, without
preparation and continuous effort. A formation in two stages is required: a) the –“initiation”- for the
acquiring of knowledge and basic capacities; and b) the –“on-going” stage – for acquiring perseverance
(since it helps overcome the insufficiencies, weaknesses, fatigues, and at the same time responds to the
ever-changing needs of persons and places in a world and a Church that are rapidly evolving).

Your Salesian formation whether spiritual or apostolic must be the first of our pastoral tasks. In this way
we feel that we are complying with your desire, namely to make an authoritative invitation to the Salesian
priests so that in their capacity as preachers and spiritual directors, they make themselves available for the
formation and spiritual direction of the Cooperators. (SGC, 735)

Don Bosco himself, in ways that were very flexible, took great care in the training of his young Religious.
As far as the Cooperators were concerned, he first introduced them to a more earnest spiritual life “in order
to persevere in the tasks they had begun according to the aim of the Association”. It is noteworthy that in
the famous chapter on the “extern members” he requests that “the member make at least a simple promise
to the Rector to dedicate himself to those things he judges to be conducive to the greater glory of God”
(MB 885).

Every Cooperator docile to the Holy Spirit is plainly responsible for his own formation. He will achieve
this by the way he elects to live, work and study, and by his willing acceptance of help that is offered him.
It is up to him to choose the kind of work for which he feels he is best suited, taking into account his
personal talents, his social and professional position, his particular tastes.

But as far as Don Bosco was concerned the best training was given by the community. Every Cooperator
should try to be in contact with Salesian communities, to see, to hear, be edified, learn….and to make every
possible effort to become a member of a group that is actively engaged: example attracts, friendship
encourages, experience with others enriches.

The spiritual formation should be deemed the basis and condition for every successful apostolate. It is
evident that “the success of the lay apostolate depends upon the laity’s living union with Christ…in the
ordinary conditions of life. Only an intense love of God our Father and his Kingdom and an intense love
for our “brothers to be saved” can lead us to “a dedication” to co-responsibility in the Salesian mission.

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In addition to spiritual formation there is needed solid doctrinal instruction in theology, ethics and
philosophy, instruction adjusted to differences of age and natural talents.

All must study Don Bosco, his life, his work and his spirit.

All must be well informed regarding the problems of youth today, so as to better understand the young and
come up with the best solutions. It has been said that every Cooperator should become a “youth expert”.

Finally, “since formation for the apostolate cannot consist in merely theoretical instruction, from the very
beginning of formation the laity should gradually and prudently learn how to view, judge and do all things
in the light of faith as well as to develop and improve themselves and others through action”. Don Bosco
was always distrustful of formation that was over theoretical: “Practice makes perfect”: experimentation,
sifting the results, making a fresh start… with the help of others with more experience in the apostolate:
they should “meet in small groups with their associates and friends, examine the methods and results of
their apostolic activity and measure their daily way of life against the Gospel”.

Reference: Vatican II, Apostolicam Actuositatem – Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity

Since Christ, sent by the Father, is the source and origin of the whole apostolate of the Church, the success
of the lay apostolate depends upon the laity’s living union with Christ, in keeping with the Lord’s words,
“He who abides in me, and I in him, bears much fruit, for without me you can do nothing” (Jn 15.5).

This life of intimate union with Christ in the Church is nourished by spiritual aids which are common to all
the faithful, especially active participation in the sacred liturgy. These are to be used by the laity in such a
way that while correctly fulfilling their secular duties in the ordinary conditions of life, they do not separate
union with Christ from their life but rather performing their work according to God’s will they grow in that
union.

Reference: PVA Statutes, Chapter 5, Article 29

Responsibilities and Initiatives as Regards Formation

1. Salesian Cooperators are the first ones responsible for their own human, Christian, Salesian and
professional formation.

2. The Association promotes and supports personal and group formation through the action of
qualified Salesian Cooperators, Delegates, and other members of the Salesian Family.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 4, Article 13

Entrance into the Association

1. The person who desires to enter into the Association matures his own choice freely and
responsibly, by means of some fundamental steps; meeting with the group of Salesian Cooperators
of the Local Center, sharing in their path of formation and participating in the initiatives promoted
by it; sharing its spirit and mission, sustained by a progressive understanding, growth, and
verification of his/her personal motivations.

2. The person who desires to enter into the Association is welcomed by those in charge of the Local
Center. He or She agrees with the one who is responsible for formation (the Delegate and/or the

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Formator) on a program adapted to his/her path of discernment and begins, as an Aspirant, this path of
formation.

3. After completing the process of formation in the Local Center, the Aspirant presents his/her
written request to take part in the Association.

4. The Local Council passes the request of the Aspirant on to the Provincial Council, accompanied
by its own evaluation based upon the Aspirant’s knowledge of the charism of Don Bosco and of
the contents of the PVA, the Project of Apostolic Life. The Provincial Council, on the basis of such
evaluation, proceeds to the approval of the request.

5. Entrance into the Association happens when the personal apostolic Promise is made. This
apostolic Promise is a spiritual and ecclesial commitment which the Aspirant takes on through a
free and knowledgeable choice. By means of it, he/she responds to the gift of the Lord and to his
or her call to live this personal vocation according to the Salesian charism.

6. The apostolic Promise is ordinarily made in the Local Center in the way indicated by the person
himself and in keeping with the diverse contexts.

7. In particular situations, where no juridically-establsihed Local Center exists, one of the World
Delegates will, in understanding with the Rector Major, give directions regarding the path of
formation. This directive is also valid for those persons who, because of logistical difficulties (of
place or of time), are unable to be directed to the Local Center.

8. The apostolic Promise may be received by the Rector Major, by the World Coordinator, or by
someone delegated.

Reference: PVA Regulations, Chapter 4, Article 16

On-going Formation Initiatives

1. Conscious of the importance of on-going formation, the Salesian Cooperators:

- Develop their own human gifts, so that they might ever better their family, professional and
civic responsibilities,
- Mature in their faith and in charity, growing in union with God to render their life more
Gospel-like and more Salesian,
- Dedicate time to reflection and study, to deepen Sacred Scriptures, the Doctrines of the
Church, their knowledge of Don Bosco, and Salesian documents,
- Qualify themselves for the apostolate and service to which they have been called.

2. The following initiatives are:

- periodic meetings, ordinarily held monthly, carried out according to the demands of life and
apostolate of the members of the Centre and other forms of encounters, possibly open to the
territory and to the civic society,
- Intense moments of prayer and discernment,
- Contacts with Groups of the Salesian Family at all levels,
- Deepening of the documents of the Rector Major and the publications of the Salesian Family,
giving preferential attention to the Salesian Bulletin

3. Meetings and planning or verification initiatives which the association promotes at various levels
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Salesian Family are to be favored. Participation in such initiatives must be adequately prepared,
and their fruits are to be shared with all the members of the Center.

Participation in such initiatives, promoted at higher levels in the Association, by those responsible
and/or by representatives of Local Centres, should be properly prepared, and the fruits thereof
shared with members of the Centre.

4. The Association is commits itself to utilize the many means of social communications and new
technologies to collaborate in cultural dialogue, to foster the development of their critical capacity
and to elaborate and spread formative publications accessible in various ways to all..

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 144-146.

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Lesson 21: Membership & Formation (S1) – Questions for Reflection

1. How do you see your life lived in union with Christ as an important aspect in your formation
process as a Salesian Cooperator? Explain

2. Every Cooperator is basically responsible for his/her own growth in the formation process.
Explain in what ways you feel you can help foster your own progress.

3. The Salesian Cooperator needs preparation and continuous effort in his formation process. Why do
you think this is necessary?

4. What are the two-stages of formation and what do they do?

Prayer Experience
To prepare you for a closer union with God seek his mercy in the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

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Lesson 22 – Membership & Formation (Session 2)

Objectives

1. To understand the spiritual sources that should be used in the formation of Salesian Cooperators.
2. To understand the formation process accompanies the Cooperator throughout his lifetime.
3. To understand how participation in the life of the Centre form an integral part of initial formation.
4. To know that Salesian Cooperators may be asked to offer their resources and abilities in the
service of animation and responsibility.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

The last chapter of the 1876 Regulations shows Don Bosco’s concern that the Cooperators receive
moderate, balanced and regular spiritual nourishment. Each day an Our Father and Hail Mary for the Holy
Father’s intentions. Each month the “Exercise for a Happy Death” with the same requirements as the
Religious Salesians: Confession, Communion, “as if it were in reality the last day of their lives”. This
practice was for him a serious and important matter, a kind of key to the spiritual life. Finally, each year he
advised (without obligation) “at least a few days of spiritual Retreat. Apart from these three spiritual
activities, Don Bosco recommended to his Cooperators “to approach the Sacraments of Confession and
Holy Communion more often than is ordinarily prescribed”. This close involvement in the Sacramental life
is one of the characteristics of Salesian piety.

Spiritual sources we should consider:

1. “The two-fold table of Sacred Scripture and the Holy Eucharist”

“Of all spiritual helps, those acts are outstanding by which the faithful receive nourishment from
God’s Word at the two fold table of Sacred Scripture and the Eucharist”. For the Children of the
Church the Word of God is “the support and energy of the Church, the strength of the faith for her
sons, the food of the soul, the pure and perennial source of spiritual life”; hence meditation on the
Word of God is explicitly recommended to lay apostles. A Cooperator must therefore become
familiar with Holy Writ, especially the Gospels; the Sunday Liturgy of Word should be a real
meditation and should colour his whole week following.

Then there is Mass and Communion. “This life of intimate union with Christ in the Church is
nourished particularly by active participation in the Sacred Liturgy”. “The blessed Eucharist
contains the Church’s entire spiritual wealth, that is, Christ himself, our Passover and living bread.
Through his very flesh, made vital and vitalizing by the Holy Spirit, he offers life to men.

2. “Sacrament of Confession”

Sacrament of Confession – the pardon of sins committed, full reconciliation with God and his
Church, and also (perhaps mainly) “the turning of the heart towards the love of the Father of
mercies”, that is, ardent enthusiasm to love more and more.

3. “The two devotions: Mary and Don Bosco

“The perfect example of this type of spiritual and apostolic life (in the lay Christian) is the most
Blessed Virgin Mary, Queen of Apostles. While leading on earth a life common to all men, one
filled with family concerns and labours, she was always intimately united with her Son and co-
operated in the work of the Saviour in a manner altogether special. Now that she has been taken
up into heaven, ‘with her maternal charity she cares for these brothers of her Son who are still on
their earthly pilgrimage….”All should devoutly venerate her and commend their life and

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apostolate to her motherly concern”. Devotion to Mary Immaculate, the Help of Christians, is one
of the characteristics of the Salesian spirit.

Don Bosco also directed the devotion and prayers of his Cooperators to St. Francis of Sales. He
must not be neglected: he is our patron, an appealing character, inspiring his own Salesian joy and
kindness; the teacher of charity. Yet now that he has for his companion in holiness our Founder
himself perhaps it seems natural to address ourselves more directly to Don Bosco as “the father
given us by God and by the Church”. Don Bosco must always be our admiration; and this
admiration should engender in us a desire to imitate him: “Lord, give me souls: all else is naught”.

Reference: PAL Regulations, Chapter 4, Article 15

Initiatives for Initial Formation

1. The formation process accompanies members throughout their lifetime because the Lord always
calls us through the continual development of personal and environmental circumstances.

2. To accompany the process of discernment of an aspirant, the Association offers flexible but
structured courses whether on a personal or community basis. These include the study and
analysis of some formation themes which refer to the human, Christian, ecclesial and Salesian
dimensions:

a. The Word of God


b. Documents of the Church
c. Life and Work of Don Bosco
d. Don Bosco’s Preventive System
e. The Project of Apostolic Life of the Association
f. Documents of the Rector Major
g. Documents of the Association
h. Spirituality and Salesian holiness
i. History and development of the Salesian Family charism.

3. Salesian apostolic commitment and participation in the life of the Centre form and integral part of
initial formation.

Reference: PAL Regulations, Chapter 4, Article 17

Formation to the Service of Responsibility

1. The service of animation and responsibility in the Association is a service of apostolate through
which the Association grows and matures in communion, in spiritual life and in the Salesian
mission. All Salesian Cooperators may be asked to offer their resources and abilities for a
determined period of time in the service of animation and responsibility.

2. The Salesian Cooperator willingly accepts being available for a period of service asked of him or
her, carries it out with discernment, takes on the specific formation needed as preparation for the
task, according to programmes established by the Association.

At the end of their term of service they give witness to their sense of belonging by an attitude of
simple availability to the Association.

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Reference: PAL Statutes, Chapter 5, Article 27

Entry into the Association

1. The commitment to become a Salesian Cooperator demands a free, gradual, motivated and mature
choice at the urging of the Holy Spirit and accompanied by those responsible for formation. The
aspirant, wishing to enter and be a part of the Association, accepts an appropriate preparatory
programme.

2. When the aspirant has achieved sufficient maturity in the Salesian charism, recognized as such by
those responsible in the Centre, he or she presents a request for admission. However, the
individual is required to have reached the age of majority.

3. Belonging to the Association begins with the personal Promise which expresses the will to live out
one's Baptism according to the Project of Apostolic Life.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 147-148.

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Lesson 22: Membership & Formation (S2) – Questions for Reflection

1. What are some of the sources used in formation? How would you apply them to your formation
process?

2. Why do you think the formation process covers your entire lifetime? Explain.

3. Why do you think participation in the life of the center is an integral part of your formation?
Explain.

4. What type of gifts do you feel you would bring to the association?

Prayer Experience
Spend time during your rosary and ask the Blessed Mother to help better form you in your Salesian
Cooperator Vocation.

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Lesson 23 – Salesian Saints and Blesseds


Objectives

1. To understand that the Salesian Cooperator vocation is a way to sanctity.


2. To understand that each individual is created with his own unique gifts.
3. To recognize the distinguishable spiritual traits and features of the Salesian saints.
4. To understand Don Bosco’s own ardent conviction that it is easy to be a saint.

Reference: Sanctity in the Salesian Family – J. Puthenkalam S.D.B., A. Mampra S.D.B.

Among the great spiritual families in the church, the Salesian Family, which has Don Bosco for its
Founder, possesses, distinctive traits and features. Don Bosco lived and transmitted to his followers a
characteristic Gospel path of holiness of life, which we call Salesian spirituality. It shines most
resplendently in the life and work of Don Bosco, and in those immediately connected with him in his
mission towards poor and abandoned youth. In the hundred years since his death, others inspired by him
have lived and expressed the same spirituality in a variety of ways and with different nuances, but with
clearly recognizable affinities. This has given rise to a marvelous sprouting of Salesian sanctity in myriad
forms, authenticated and confirmed by the Church. Among these whom the Church has raised to the
honors of the Altar in recent times, we have men, women and young people; we find bishops, priests,
religious and lay people, martyrs, confessors and virgins. In their number we discover missionaries, who
left their homelands for-faraway places, apostles of the downtrodden and the sick, and men and women
from all walks of life, who braved everything to give their lives to proclaim the Gospel and plant the
Church.

Each one is a masterpiece of His grace. In each one His love triumphing over human frailty and evil, has
come to fulfillment. Each is a unique marvel. There are no two saints who are the same in every respect.
Each is a splendid and extraordinary accomplishment of God’s plan for salvation for him or her. At the
same time, there are certain recognizable spiritual traits and features in a certain number of them, which
group them together as a distinct spiritual family. For, just as there are physical traits and features among
members of a natural family, so too- and with greater reason – there are spiritual traits and features which
group together members of the same spiritual family. Just as on the natural plane each member of a family
is a unique person with his or her own very particular characteristics and also shares with the other
members of the family the features and traits that distinguish his family from every other, so too on the
spiritual plane, each saint shines out with his or her own unique characteristics, and shares with others those
spiritual traits that bind him or her to a spiritual family.

They remind us that Salesian spirituality, which characterizes the Salesian Family, is first and foremost a
project of holiness of life, a sanctity lived out in the ordinary run of one’s duties, a cheerful and joyful
sanctity, which attracts the young, drawing them to virtue, a contagious sanctity, which infects everyone in
its radius with enthusiasm and ardour for the salvation of the young.

Joaquim D’Souza, S.D.B., Regional Councilor, South Asia

The exemplary lives of these members of the Salesian Family provide us with a rich source of spiritual
nourishment. God has created each of us with unique gifts. He has called each of us to fulfill a particular
mission in life. We live and work in differing historic times and contexts. We respond to the Lord’s call
with our own strengths and weaknesses, hopes and fears. We are called to holiness. But we are not called
to blindly imitate all or any one of the saints who have gone before us. The lives of these great men and
women remind us that saints are not molded into some sort of monotonous uniformity. Instead each of
them is unique and, like stars, shed light on our lives.

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Sanctity calls for a creative and dynamic response to the Lord’s call to be “perfect as The Heavenly Father
is perfect”. No one can measure up fully to this challenge, but all of us can take tiny strides by drawing
inspiration and strength, light and love, faith and serenity, optimism and hope from the people who have
walked the path of holiness before us. Together their example makes the path easier for us. The light they
shed makes our journey less arduous.

The saints of the Salesian Family bring sanctity closer to us. Don Bosco’s own ardent conviction that it is
easy to be a saint helped Dominic Savio to become an outstanding model of teenage sanctity. The world
today, more than at any time perhaps, looks for models and icons of sanctity. The galaxy of Salesian
Family members who have been crowned with the grace of sanctity in the Church is a sure sign of the
Spirit’s mark of approval of Don Bosco’s spirit and charism. This rich patrimony he has bequeathed to us
can lead us too, to sanctity.

Thomas Menamparampil S.D.B, Archbishop of Guwahatti

Reference: PAL Statutes, Chapter 4, Article 26, #2 and #3

In Communion with Mary and our Saints

1. They turn to St. Joseph, Patron of the Universal Church, with particular affection. They have
trusting recourse to the intercession of St. John Bosco, “Father and teacher” of the young and of
all the Salesian Family.

2. Amongst the models of apostolic life, they especially venerate Saint Francis of Sales, Saint Mary
Domenica Mazzarello, Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa, Mama Margaret and the other Saints,
Blesseds and Venerables of the Salesian Family.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

The tree has already provided its proofs: it has produced its fruit. Salesian holiness is not just a project or a
hope. It really exists in the Church and has received her official recognition. Among the Saints, the
Blessed, and those whose causes for canonization are being examined there are not only Religious
Salesians but also pupils (Dominic Savio, Ceferino Namuncurá and Laura Vicuña) and Cooperators: three
victims of the Spanish Civil War and Doña Dorotea (1816-1891); in Italy, Joseph Toniolo (1845-1918),
Edvige Carboni (1880-1952); and in Portugal, Alessandrina DaCosta (1904-1955).

Salesian Saints:

St. John Bosco, Father and Founder 1815-1888


Mother Mary Mazzarello, Co-Foundress of FMA 1837-1881
Dominic Savio 1842-1857
Bishop Louis Versiglia, Salesian Protomartyr 1873-1930
Fr. Callistus Caravario, Salesian Protomartyr 1903-1930

Salesian Blesseds:

Fr. Michael Rua 1837-1910


Sr. Madeleine Morano 1847-1908
Fr. Philip Rinaldi 1856-1931
Fr. Joseph Calasanz (and 94 Companions) 1872-1936
Fr. Louis Variara 1875-1923
Bro. Artemides Zatti 1880-1951

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Laura Vicuña 1891-1904


Sr. Maria Romero 1902-1977
Fr. August Czartoryski 1858-1893
Ceferino Namuncurá 1886-1905
Sr. Eusebia Palomino 1899-1935
Alexandrina da Costa, Cooperator 1904-1955
Albert Marvelli 1918-1946
Sr. Maria Troncatti 1883-1969
Bro. Stephen Sandor 1914-1953
Fr. Joseph Kowalski 1912-1942
Five Poznan Oratory Youths:
Franciszek Kesy (23)
Czeslaw Jozwiak (22)
Edward Klinik (23)
Jarogniew Wojciechowski (20)
Edward Kazmierski (22)

Salesian Venerables:

Dorothy Chopitea, Cooperator 1816-1891


Fr. Andrew Beltrami 1870-1897
Bro. Simon Srugi 1877-1943
Sr. Teresa Valse Pantellini 1878-1907
Fr. Vincent Cimatti 1879-1965
Fr. Rudolph Komorek 1890-1949
Bishop Louis Olivares 1873-1943
Margaret Occhiena Bosco 1788-1856
Fr. Joseph Quadrio 1921-1963
Sr. Laura Meozzi 1873-1951
Attilio Giordani, Cooperator 1913-1972
Fr. August Arribat 1879-1963

The Saints

In the words of Don Bosco: Let us therefore be devoted to the saints whose name we bear and have
recourse to them in our spiritual and temporal needs. They will always be ready to help us.

The virtues and the actions of the saints were all oriented toward the same end, which is the greater glory of
God and the salvation of souls.

Suggested Reading

In the Footsteps of Don Bosco; pages 149-150.

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Lesson 23: Salesian Saints and Blessed – Questions for Reflection

1. What does your own devotion to Don Bosco, your father, consist of?

2. What kind of security is there in the fact that so many members of the Salesian family are saints?

3. In what way does the vocation of a Salesian Cooperator appeal to you with the understanding that
this is a means of sanctity?

4. What sort of witness should the Cooperator bear?

Prayer Experience:
Seek the intercession of the Salesian saints in your daily prayer.

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Lesson 24 – The Promise

Objectives

1. To study and understand the words of the Promise.


2. To reflect on how the Promise is lived out daily.
3. To encourage daily renewal of the Promise.
4. To explain the implications of the Promise, both canonical and spiritual.

Reference: The Salesian Cooperator, Joseph Aubry S.D.B.

Official entry into the Association takes place by the making of a personal “Promise”, by which the
Cooperator expresses their will to live their baptismal call in accordance with the present Project of
Apostolic Life. They then receive their certificate of membership of the Association. The commitment to
be a Cooperator lasts all through life.

What was Don Bosco’s mind about the Promise? Before the Regulations of 1876 --- Anyone who
undertakes a serious study of the relationship of Don Bosco with his Cooperators – (and let us remember
that they were the first and even the only ones to help him during the first eighteen years of his apostolate,
given that the Salesian Society was founded only on 18 December 1859) – are surprised at the strictness
with which he always wanted to bind them to himself personally and to his works. He never looked on
them as mere occasional helpers, but as cooperators who shared in his charism, and whom God himself had
sent to form part of his movement for the salvation of the young and for the faith of the common people.

His bold and daring plan to found a single complex Salesian Society is well known. It was to consist of
two kinds of members: those who bound themselves by religious vows, and “aggregate members” who
remained in the world but committed themselves to a way of life as close as possible to that of their
religious brothers and sisters. All were to have the same Rule, because all had the same ideal: their
common sanctification by the working together for the salvation of the young. The famous “Chapter XVI”
of the plan presented to Rome in 1864 ran as follows (cf. MB 7, 885):

1. Any person even living without vows and in his own home and with his own family, can belong to
our Society.

2. He does not take vows, but must practice those Rules which are compatible with his age, state and
condition – teaching or promoting catechetics among poor children, helping to spread good books,
promote triduums, novenas, retreats and other works of charity especially directed to the good of
youth and the working classes.

3. To share in the spiritual benefits of the Society the member must make at least a “Promise” to the
Rector to engage himself in matters that in his judgment will tend to the greater glory of God.

4. This “Promise” however does not oblige under pain of even venial sin.

We may note that the “Promise”, expressed in these terms, is not made before God as is the present
practice. But the important thing is the manifestation of a free and personal commitment in the hands of
the major superior. Salesian religious made vows; Salesian Cooperators made the “Promise”.

Reference: Vatican II, Apostolicam Actuositatem – Decree on the Apostolate of the Lay People

The most holy council, then, earnestly entreats all the laity in the Lord to answer gladly, nobly, and
promptly the more urgent invitation of Christ in this hour and the impulse of the Holy Spirit. Younger
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and generously. Through this holy synod, the Lord renews His invitation to all the laity to come closer to
Him every day, recognizing that what is His is also their own ( Phil. 2.5), to associate themselves with Him
in His saving mission. Once again he sends them into every town and place where he will come (cf . Lk
10.1) so that they may show that they are co-workers in the various forms and modes of the one apostolate
of the Church, which must be constantly adapted to the new needs of our times. Ever productive as they
should be in the work of the Lord, they know that their labor in Him is not in vain (cf. 1 Cor. 15:58).

Reference: Mark 1: 14-20

The First Four Disciples are Called

After John had been arrested, Jesus went into Galilee. There he proclaimed the Good News from God.
“The time has come’ he said ‘and the Kingdom of God is close at hand. Repent and believe in the Good
News.’

As he was walking along by the Sea of Galilee he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net in the
lake – for they were fishermen. And Jesus said to them, Follow me and I will make you into fishers of
men’. And at once they left their nets and followed him.

Going on a little further, he saw James son of Zebedee and his brother John; they too were in their boat,
mending their nets. He called them at once and leaving their father Zebedee in the boat with the men he
employed, they went after him.

Reference: PAL Regulations, Chapter 4, Article 14

Sense of Belonging

1. To help the growth of a sense of belonging to the Association, and to constantly nourish their
vocation, the Council in each Local Centre offers the Salesian Cooperator the possibility of
renewing the Promise annually, preferably on a Salesian feast day.

Reference: PAL Statutes, Chapter 5, Article 32

The Promise and Its Meaning

1. The meaning and scope of the promise is to express the will to live out the baptismal option
according to the Project of Apostolic Life. Don Bosco himself proposed the promise as an
apostolic expression of their Salesian vocation in the world.

2. The Promise

“Father, I adore You because You are so good and because You love each one of us. I thank You
for having created and redeemed me, for having called me to be a part of Your Church and for
having made Don Bosco’s apostolic Family part of it. This Family lives for You in the service of
the young and ordinary people. Drawn by your merciful Love, I want to love you in return by
doing good.

For this reason, after preparing myself,

I PROMISE

To commit myself to living the evangelical Project of the Association of the Salesian
Cooperators, that is:

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- To be Christ’s faithful disciple in the Catholic Church;


- To work in Your Kingdom, especially for the welfare and salvation of the young;
- To deepen and witness to the Salesian spirit;
- To co-operate, in Family communion, in all the apostolic initiatives of the local Church.

Grant me, Father, the strength of Your Spirit, so I may always be faithful to this proposal in my
life, Mary Help of Christians, Mother of the Church, Help me and guide me. Amen”.

Reference: PAL Statutes, Chapter 5, Article 28

Value of Belonging
1. The Sa1esian Cooperators are aware that belonging to the Association is a privileged experience
of faith and ecclesial communion. It also means that it is a vital element in sustaining their own
apostolic vocation.

2. They recognize that this belonging demands concrete signs of presence and active participation in
the life of the Association.

Reference: PAL Statues, Chapter 5, Article 30

Faithfulness to Tasks Assumed


1. To be a Salesian Cooperator is a vocation lasting an entire lifetime. With a profound sense of
belonging, Salesian Cooperators know how to constantly express their witness, apostolate, and
kinds of service. They are called by God to live the Salesian charism in the Association, in
openness and availability also to working in initiatives fostered by other agencies, church or
religious organizations.

Their fidelity is supported by the affection and solidarity of the members of the Association and of
the Salesian Family.

2. To consolidate the value of belonging to the Association - and through this to the Salesian Family
- the commitments of association made by means of the Promise will be confirmed according to
the most appropriate manner established by the Regulations.

Reference: PAL Statutes, Chapter 5, Article 31

Leaving the Association

1. The Salesian Cooperators, who intends, by personal choice, to cease to belong to the Association,
will present the Local Council with a written statement attesting to his/her decision. The Local
Council will give copies of the statement to the Provincial Council.

2. The Association's decision to exclude one of its members for serious reasons is to be taken by the
Provincial Council following the reasoned request of the Local Council. This is done in a spirit of
charity and clarity after judging a life style which is not coherent with the fundamental duties
expressed in the Statutes and Regulations, and the decision is to be communicated in writing to the
one concerned.

Reference: John 15:16

You did not choose me, no, I chose you; and I commission you to go out and to bear fruit and that your
fruit be abundant.

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Lesson 24: The Promise – Questions for Reflection

1. How can I prepare well for my commitment?

2. How do I understand each part of the promise?

3. What are some basic helps to root me in living the Promise?

4. What obligations am I assuming when I take the Promise?

Prayer Experience
Spend a day in prayerful renewal seeking the sacraments of reconciliation and the Eucharistic in
preparation for taking the Promise.

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How Did Don Bosco See The Cooperators?


We find the answer in some texts extracted from Don Bosco’s writings and speeches.

The History of the Salesian Cooperators

“The History of the Salesian Cooperators goes back to 1841 when the work of gathering poor and
abandoned young people started in the city of Turin…”

The Biographical Memoirs Vol. XI, p. 84-86

As soon as the work of the Oratories began in 1841, there were very enthusiastic and keen priests and lay
people who came forward to help – for there was a great harvest which at that moment looked abundant
among the young boys at risk, in danger of losing both faith and morals. These collaborators, or
Cooperators, were at all times throughout our history the support and sustain of the works that the Divine
Providence disposed at our hands. All endeavored to work and fit into our way of life and customs, but
there was a general request for a set of Regulations that would serve as a basis and a bond to help preserve
uniformity and the spirit that prevailed in our institutes. We hope that this will now be satisfied by the
present booklet (“The Regulations for the Cooperators”). These are not rules for the Festive Oratories or
for educational institutes, which can be found elsewhere; they are a bond by which Catholics who so wish
may join the Salesians and work according to a uniform and stable pattern…

May the Lord, so rich in grace and blessings grant many favours to all those who help to win souls for our
Divine Saviour, doing good to young people so much in danger, prepare good Christians for the Church
and honest citizens for society, so that all may one day find themselves eternally happy in heaven. Amen.

Preface to the Regulations published in Albenga, 12 July 1876

A Definition

“Cooperators are called those who wish to carry out works of charity, not in a general sense, but in concrete
ways, according and following the spirit of the Congregation of St. Francis of Sales. One single
Cooperator on his own can do a lot of good, however the fruit is very much limited and at the most of little
duration. On the other hand, when united with others, obtains support, advise, courage, and often with little
effort obtains much, because forces, even it they’re weak, become stronger when they’re united. Hence the
famous say “Union makes us strong…”, therefore our Cooperators, following the purpose of the Salesian
Congregation will take on the mission, according to their abilities, of taking care of young people in danger
and abandoned in streets and parks, of teaching them catechism, entertaining them during holidays or feast
days, placing them with decent jobs and honest bosses, guiding, counseling and helping them as much as
possible to make them good Christians and honest citizens. The norms to follow in the works, which we
will propose to Cooperators, will be part of the content of the Salesian Bulletin.”

Don Bosco, in the first Salesian Bulletin edition, August 1877

“Cooperators are no more than good Christians, who while living in the midst of their own families,
maintain in the midst of the world the spirit of the Congregation of St. Francis of Sales, and help her with
moral and material means to the aim of helping her especially in the Christian education of the youth. They
are a kind of third order, whose purpose is the exercise of works of charity towards their neighbour,
primarily towards the young people in danger”.

1st General Chapter

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The Purpose of this Association

“The purpose of this Association is to unite the laity and priests in undertaking whatever will be considered
conducive to God’s greater glory and welfare of souls. The means will be zeal for God’s glory and
energetic charity to employ whatever may spiritually and materially contribute toward such a purpose
without selfish interests or vainglory. Every good Christian may join this Association as long as he is
determined to work in accordance with its goal and means”.

Reference: The Biographical Memoirs, Volume X, p. 1309

“It is imperative that you thoroughly grasp the aims of the Association of Salesian Cooperators. Its purpose
is not only to support our works, but also for its members to do all they possibly can to join forces for the
salvation of their fellow Christians, especially the young. Let them strive to promote children’s catechism
classes and volunteer to help their parish priests with them. Let them prepare children for Holy
Communion and provide them with proper clothing. Let them spread wholesome literature and forcefully
oppose all irreligious, immoral publications. All these things are part of the Salesian Cooperators
“commitment”.

Reference: The Biographical Memoirs, Volume XV, p. 500

The purpose of this Association is to bring good Christians together so that they may benefit civil society
and foster good moral living, especially among youth in danger…not only is the Association of
Cooperators not in conflict with the tradition of tertiaries, but it complements it. Pope Pious IX himself, in
addressing this question, stated: “The world is material minded and so we must show it something visible”.
In our case, this refers to our Cooperators. The primary aim of the tertiaries of St. Francis of Assisi is to
sanctify themselves through practices of piety, and the basic principle of the Cooperators is the practice of
charity. Both of these aims are directed to God’s glory and the good of souls.

Reference: The Biographical Memoirs, Volume XVI, p. 21

“I have studied very much about the way of founding the Salesian Cooperators. Their true and main
purpose is not that of helping the Salesians, but of helping the Church, the bishops, parish priests, under the
“high” direction of the Salesians in the works of charity, catechism, education of poor children. Helping
Salesians is just one of the many ways of helping the Catholic Church. It’s true that we can appeal to them
in our urgencies, but they are in instrument in the hands of the bishop. The only one who until now has
understood this properly is the bishop of Padova who said clearly that nobody should feel any jealously
towards the Salesian Cooperators, because they belong to the dioceses and that every parish priest and
every parishioner should become a Cooperator.

Reference: The Biographical Memoirs, Volume XVII, p. 25

The Union of Cooperators, the Work of the Pope has been found to shake up Christians from the apathy in
which so many of them live and to spread the driving force of charity…a work that today appears
exceptionally relevant…The Cooperators will extend to every country, it will spread throughout
Christianity. There will come a day when the name of Cooperator will be the same as true Christian. The
hand of God sustains it. The Cooperators will be the ones who foster the Catholic spirit.

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Commitment and Activity

From the Conference of Women Cooperators in Turin

“First, make efforts to kindly to instill love of virtue and horror for sin into your children’s hearts and those
of your neighbours, relatives, friends and acquaintances. If you come to know that some young girl’s
morals are being threatened, promptly strive to save her and put her beyond the reach of rapacious wolves.
Should you know or hear that some family has boys or girls of school or work age, be quick enough to
suggest, advice and exhort their parents or family to place them in schools or shops where, as they learn
knowledge and skills, they may also absorb the holy fear of God in a morally safe environment. Make
every effort to introduce in your homes good Catholic literature, books, magazines, and when you have
read them, pass them on to as many people as you can. Give them as gifts to boys and girls who faithfully
attend catechism classes. But above all when you know that a girl can be saved from moral dangers only
by placing her in a boarding school, make every effort to do so.

I most earnestly recommend to your care well beloved, pious boys who give signs of priestly vocation.
Yes, esteemed ladies, take these hopes of the Church to your heart and so all you can – even the impossible,
I’d say – to cherish and bring the blossom the precious seed of a vocation in their young hearts. Direct
them to a place where they can continue their studies and, if they don’t have the economic resources, help
them with whatever means Divine Providence has put into your own hands, or as your own piety and love
for souls suggest to you. How fortunate you will be if you provide the Church with priests in these times
when they are so scarce that some of our own villages have no Sunday Mass or worship service.

From the Conference of Women Cooperator in Turin, on the vigil of the feast of Mary Help of Christians,
1879. The Biographical Memoirs Vol. XIV, 132-134

From the First Conference in Borgo San Martino

I have stated that a good Cooperator is one who practices a deed of charity as the occasion arises. This is
not difficult a task for any good Christian. See how many great opportunities come up – a word of good
advice to youngsters to guide them in virtue and save them away from vicious things, a suggestion to
parents on how they can give their children a Christian upbringing, a reminder to them to church, to choose
a school or a job where they will have upright teachers and honest employers. You can see to it that
schools hire only reputable teachers. You can help out in teaching catechism in your parish. You can give
or lend good books, spread good literature, and offer a Catholic paper to replace a bad one. You can help
one complete his work, donate clothing, seek jobs for the unemployed, or support a homeless or abandoned
boy or girl by paying for that child’s tuition. You can promote undertakings which will glorify God, honor
the Church and benefit souls. At the very last, you can exhort others to do these things. There is never any
lack of opportunity to do good or prevent evil. Let us not be wanting in good will or courage, in love for
God and neighbour. Without becoming aware of it , as fathers, mothers, teachers, priests, lay people, rich
and poor, we shall be true Cooperators, thwarting evil and accomplishing much good”.

You might remark, “as long as it’s a matter of helping others by speaking, I can do that, but I am poor and
my material means are limited”. Let the poor do just what they can, but regardless of one’s poverty, any
Cooperator who so wishes will always be able to contribute also financially…

From the first conference in Borgo San Martin, The Biographical Memoirs Vol. XIV, 542-547

Identity of the Association in the Salesian Family

“This is for us a very important Association; it is the soul of our Congregation. In doing good, it is our
linkage with good faithful living in the world, as are the Salesian Cooperators…now it is necessary that we
have friends, benefactors, people that, while practicing fully the spirit of the Salesians, live in their families,
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in everything that we should do for the greater glory of God, and for which we lack the material means or
the persons.

These Cooperators should multiply as much as possible”.

1st General Chapter, Arch Chap S 04 (1:1877) 3 – n. 32 page 9.

When Don Bosco summarized his thoughts and vision of his Cooperators in a set of Regulations,
what did he say?

We simply quote two fundamental passages:

“The fundamental scope of the Salesian Cooperators is to do good to themselves by leading a life similar to
that which is observed by religious in the common life, in so far as they are able. Many would be willing to
enter the Cloister but, because of age, health or condition, or through lack of opportunity, they are
absolutely prevented. These people by becoming Salesian Cooperators can continue to remain in the midst
of their ordinary occupations, in the bosom of their own families, and live as if they were in Congregation.
For that reason this Association is considered by the Holy Father as a Third Order with this difference, that
in the older Third Orders, Christian perfection was proposed in the exercise of piety. This has for its main
end an active life in the exercise of charity towards one neighbour and especially towards youth who are in
moral danger”.

The Regulations of Don Bosco, No. 3, 1876

“The same work is proposed for the Salesian Cooperators as is done by the Society of St Frances of Sales,
with which they intend to associate”.

The Regulations of Don Bosco, No. 4, 1876

How many have ignored these texts, and therefore they continue to propagate mistaken ideas about the
Salesian Cooperator.

- Jose Reinoso

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The Turning Point: The Special General Chapter


The long work of this Chapter, that also underwent moments of strained dialogue, was rewarded at the end
with the production of two declarations (one to the Salesians, the other to the Cooperators); these became
the source of the new awareness of the Congregation regarding the Cooperators and they are found in
Document 18 of SGC. Their attentive reading will be a great help to the Salesians as well as to the
Cooperators. They contain the Rediscovery of Don Bosco’s Project on the Cooperators.

We will underscore here only the most significant thoughts.

Definition of the Cooperator

The SGC XX defines the Cooperator as one who, according to Don Bosco’s original idea is:

- A true Salesian-in-the-world,
- Namely a Christian who follows his vocation to holiness by involving himself – even without
religious vows,
- In working for youth or ordinary working people,
- In the spirit of Don Bosco.
- For the service of the local Church and
- In communion with the Salesian Congregation.

Contents of the Definition

We can say that the definition contains the principal features of the renewed Cooperators:

- His/her vocation is “an authentic apostolic Salesian vacation”, specific of the Salesian
Cooperator, of “a true Salesian-in-the-world”, of a secular Salesian, “a layperson or a priest”
called and enlightened by the Holy Spirit;
- It is a call to holiness that is achieved according to the rule of the Salesian spiritual life.
- It is a call to the apostolate that is carried out in the Salesian style but adapted to the secular life,
that is qualified by the following:
o Adeptness and freedom, shown in rapid and convincing interventions, sensitivity to the
needs and intuition regarding the means to be used;
o The presence of the Salesian among the young and among the working class; present
among them in the concrete situation in which they find themselves;
o The apostolate belongs to “a unique family” joined by links of fraternal charity, starting
with the choice of goals on to the means to be used to obtain them.
- It is a service to the local church even when it is carried out in works of the SDB’s because the
Congregation itself is at the service of the local church.
- It is done in communion with the Salesian Congregation and this includes many and profound
elements which are supernatural, spiritual, and human such as baptism, vocation, mission, spirit,
apostolic fraternity; consequently , co-responsibility, dialogue, exchanging and sharing of
experiences, togetherness in pastoral presences, the family style characteristic of Don Bosco.

Even the figure of the Rector Major, while keeping his position as superior, is seen in the light of the one
who fulfills a service of mission and of communion with the Cooperators among themselves and among the
other groups of the Salesian family.

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Principles underlying the invitation to change in mentality

To give a global idea of the change in mentality that the SGC XX called for so as to have a more accurate
idea of what the concept of Cooperator stands for, the document accentuated other important elements,
particularly in the relationship between the Cooperators and the Congregation.

- The socialization and the promotion of the laity were seen in the co-responsibility among priests,
lay people and religious. When this would take place in the Salesian Family, the Cooperators
would feel that they are not just recipients and docile doers of orders that they have received but
that they have an irreplaceable and necessary contribution to make to help the Family in building
up the Church and in carrying out the mission.

Consequently, it is necessary to have a clear idea of their identity as lay persons, of their
complimentarily within the Salesian vocation, their unique presence so that the Salesians might be
really what Don Bosco wanted them to be, that is, bond of unity, a center of the movement, stimuli
to fidelity, witnesses to the spirit of the Council. All these have been necessary so that the
Cooperators might animate the earthly reality with the gospel and Salesian values, as they would
uphold in the world the same values that the Salesians are living in their community life.

- Parting from this, one may understand the expression attributed to the Cooperators as the “first and
necessary collaborators of the Salesians, specifically different from all the other lay collaborators.
The fact of the Cooperators being irreplaceable would explain why without them the Salesians
would not be the Salesians that Don Bosco wanted them to be.

- Regarding the commitments in connection with the mission, the SGC XX recommended those
wanted by Don Bosco, but along the line of dynamic fidelity to “the sign of the times”; it
underscored some new perspectives such as “catechesis in a secularized society, the family within
a pluralistic point of view, the religious and lay vocations, the mission and the lay missionaries,
the collaboration in the educational works of the Congregation.

Other proposed tasks were new: commitment to world justice, assuming works and activities as
Cooperators, Christian influence on means of social communications.

(N.B. We insist on the fact that what is said here does not dispense us from an attentive rereading of the
document, especially for those among us who truly want to be well acquainted with the renewed vision of
the figure of the Cooperator.)

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Conclusions on the First Century of the Association’s Life


The first century of the Association’s life (1876-1976), seen through the SDBs General Chapters, brought
light to the following ideas.

Four Periods

The life of the Association in this first century can be divided into four distinct periods:

1. From the Rules for the Cooperators written by Don Bosco till 1920

The Pious Union spread and saw the Salesian Cooperators in terms of going along and
helping in the Salesian works, especially in their economic aspect; but gradually, because of
the linkage with the hierarchy through the directors and the decurions (leaders), particularly
where there were no Salesians, the apostolic involvement in the Church, specifically at the
local levels, developed.

2. From the Congress of Turin (1920) till the GC XVII (1947)

There prevailed during this period the collaboration with the Congregation, especially at the
economic level, notably do to the extraordinary flourishing of the Salesian works; as a
consequence, a certain aloofness on the part of the Pious Union crept in regarding
involvement in the lay apostolate, which during this period became stronger in the Church.
Because of the war, the Association experienced a certain standstill.

3. From 1947 to the SGC XX

Stimulated by the lay apostolic movements, the new theology and the Conciliar impetus, the
Pious Union renewed itself and took the shape of an international apostolic movement in the
Salesian style. Following some papal interventions and the spirit of pluralism recognized by
the Council, the Pious Union obtained full recognition in the Church. The new vision
encouraged the Cooperators to ask…and they actually obtained…greater autonomy, co-
responsibility, and decentralization in relation with the Congregation, at the level of the
provincial and national councils.

4. From the SGC XX onwards

The on-going relaunching of the Association and the perspectives of the Salesian Family at
the service of the local Church has renewed the rapport between the Pious Union (the
Association) and the Congregation. Though not renouncing the traditional, constitutional, and
juridical bases of their relationship, this relationship has also been seen as rooted in
communion, in the specificity of the common vocation, in the spirit and mission, in view of a
fraternal exchange of spiritual goods and services, aimed at a more incisive spiritual renewal
and at a more fruitful and efficacious common work.

Important Considerations Resulting from a Comparison between the Cooperator of the SGC and
that of Don Bosco

1. One’s commitment to personal holiness stands out and is reinforced not only through the various
practices designed to help attain it (days of recollection, spiritual retreats, revision of life) but
above all through a keen sense of vocation, a reality that should be well-known and closely
followed, a keen sense of a spirit to be deepened and lived, a keen sense of commitment that
should be accepted. Schools for forming candidates applying to make “the promise” have come

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up, which was an evident attempt to return to the idea of Don Bosco. The program for lay
Salesian formation and the literature, requested by the SGC, has further developed this trend
which has already been codified in the New Regulations for Apostolic Life (RAF).

2. “Secularity enriches the one who makes of his life in the world and of his ordinary occupations a
specific commitment and lives his vocation as a true Salesian-in-the-world. Here are also included
the priests Cooperators; this also opens up new avenues for secular Salesian institutes, considering
that the Don Bosco Volunteers were an offshoot of a branch of Cooperators called “zelatrici” at
the time of Don Rinaldi. In short, there has been a transition from the committed secularity to the
consecrated one.

3. Decentralization, pluralism, flexibility, greater autonomy, co-responsibility, the quality of being


representational, beside responding to the demands of socialization and permitting an active
insertion in the Salesian Family, as a bigger “union of good people” and likening the Association
of the Cooperators to the new image of the Church and to the demands for communion…all these
do not go against unity but reinforce it by means of more felt and lasting values, giving birth to the
urgency of searching for the institutional unity of the Family.

4. Union with the Congregation is the result of having the same Founder, of upholding the Founder’s
intention, of the unity of spirit, of having the same mission and of belonging to the same Salesian
Family, of becoming aware that it is impossible to be completely by ourselves if there are no
others with whom to confront ourselves, to dialogue, communicate and to collaborate. In this
perspective, a new emphasis is given to the recognition of the Rector Major as the superior who
represents Don Bosco and is the heart of the Salesian Family. A clear distinction and integration
of roles increases the need to be united so that each one is able to realize himself fully.

5. Don Bosco’s will to serve the Church is reinforced with new theological and Salesian insights.
The Cooperator not only works in the Church; he enriches it with the secular dimension of the
charism which he carries himself, thus contributing to the birth of a Salesian spirituality, a new
possibility offered to souls; he enriches it with a special service…for the youth and the ordinary
people…within the mission of the Church and according to the pastoral style inspired by Don
Bosco.

6. The Cooperators offer themselves to the Church for a specialized mission towards the young and
the poor, who have a special place in the heart of Don Bosco and whom Don Bosco considered as
his “harvest”; the young and the poor are the two sectors in society towards whom the Church
looks with renewed interest: the young because they are the future; the poor because they are the
first to whom the gospel is addressed.

7. Secondly, they carry out their mission with a style that is theirs, the Christian humanism of Don
Bosco that highly respects human values which is a mark of the missionary church of Vatican II.

8. The direct cooperation with the Congregation is realized in different forms: prayer, reciprocal
encouragement aimed at renewal and fidelity, and exchange of spiritual goods…which goes
further than the simple granting of spiritual favors; without underestimating its value, one who has
received the diploma can claim such favors. The distinction between benefactors and Cooperators
does not exclude economic help in the Salesian projects which may become an act of solidarity
between the groups of the same Family; however, co-responsibility in the various activities even
to the point of assuming management of the SDB’s works is added.

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Appendix

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In the Footsteps of Don Bosco

All text contained “In the Footsteps of Don Bosco” are taken from the booklets as published by the Salesian Missions.
In the Footsteps of Don Bosco

The Dream of Don Bosco


From the tender age of nine John Bosco was favored by God with dreams that indicated his future vocation.
God revealed to John Bosco that he had been chosen to be a priest and the founder of a religious order. God
announced that this order would become famous for its work with the young. This order now bears the
name of the Salesians of John Bosco.

In His Own Words

“When I was about nine years old I had a dream that left a profound impression on me for the rest of my
life. I dreamed that I was near my home, in a very large playing field where a crowd of children were
having fun. Some were laughing, others were playing and not a few were cursing. I was so shocked at their
language that I jumped into their midst, swinging wildly and shouting at them to stop. At that moment a
Man appeared, nobly attired, with a manly and imposing bearing. He was clad with a white flowing mantle
and his face radiated such light that I could not look directly at him. He called me by my name and told me
to place myself as leader over those boys, adding the words:

“’You will have to win these friends of yours not with blows, but with gentleness and kindness. So begin
right now to show them that sin is ugly and virtue beautiful.’

“Confused and afraid, I replied that I was only a boy and unable to talk to these youngsters about religion.
At that moment the fighting, shouting and cursing stopped and the crowd of boys gathered about the Man
who was now talking. Almost unconsciously I asked:

“’But how can you order me to so something that looks so impossible?’

“’What seems so impossible you must achieve by being obedient and by acquiring knowledge.’

“’But where, how?’

“’I will give you a Teacher, under whose guidance you will learn and without whose help all knowledge
becomes foolishness.’

“’But who are you?’

“’I am the Son of Her whom your mother has taught you to greet three times a day.’

“’My mother told me not to talk to people I don't know, unless she gives me permission. So, please tell me
your name.’

“’Ask my mother.’

“At that moment I saw beside him a Lady of majestic appearance, wearing a beautiful mantle glowing as if
bedecked with stars. She saw my confusion mount; so she beckoned me to her. Taking my hand with great
kindness she said:

“’Look!’

“I did so. All the children had vanished. In their place I saw many animals: goats, dogs, cats, bears and a
variety of others.

“’This is your field, this is where you must work’, the Lady told me. ‘Make yourself humble, steadfast and
strong. And what you will see happen to these animals you will have to do for my children.’

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“I looked again; the wild animals had turned into as many lambs, gently gamboling lambs, bleating a
welcome for that Man and Lady.

“At this point of my dream I started to cry and begged the Lady to explain what it all meant because I was
so utterly confused. She then placed her hand on me.

“’In due time everything will be clear to you.’

“After she had spoken these words, some noise awoke me; everything had vanished. I was completely
bewildered. Somehow my hands still seemed to ache and my cheeks still stung because of all the fighting.
Moreover, my conversation with that Man and Lady so disturbed my mind that I was unable to sleep any
longer that night.

“In the morning I could barely wait to tell about my dream. When my brothers heard it, they burst out
laughing. I then told my mother and grandmother. Each one who heard it gave it a different interpretation.
My brother Joseph said:

“’You’re going to become a shepherd and take care of goats, sheep and livestock.’

“My mother’s comment was: ‘Who knows? Maybe you will become a priest.’

“Dryly, Anthony muttered: ‘You might become the leader of a gang of robbers.’

“But my very religious, illiterate grandmother had the last word: ‘You mustn’t pay attention to dreams.’

“I felt the same way about it, yet I could never get that dream out of my head. What I am about to relate
may give some new insight to it. I never brought up the matter and my relatives gave no importance to it.
But in 1858, when I went to Rome to confer with the Pope about the Salesian Congregation, Pius IX asked
me to tell him everything that might have even only the slightest bearing on the supernatural. Then for the
first time I told him the dream that I had when I was nine. The Pope ordered me to write it in detail for the
encouragement of the members of the Congregation, for whose sake I had gone to Rome.”

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Chapter 1 – Father and Teacher


Introduction

Throughout history, God has sent prophets and saints to warn, teach and lead His people. Modern times are
no exception. God has sent saints to found religious orders of men and women for particular needs. He has
sent martyrs as witnesses to the Faith, virgins as defenders of chastity, and holy men, such as Don Bosco,
the subject of this brief biography, in order to teach virtue and apostleship to a special portion of God’s
people – namely, youth.

A Troubled City

Political intrigue, assassinations, urban riots, and civil wars wrecked Western Europe as it struggled to
establish democratic governments during the 19th century. The continent's Christians, bitterly divided,
offered feeble opposition to militant atheists.

Turin, a gracious northern Italian city nestled at the foot of the Alps’ snowcapped peaks, had seen better
days than those of the winter of 1846. So skillfully had ancient Roman engineers designed the town's main
streets and squares that for centuries travelers praised Turin as “the loveliest village in the world.” Many
aristocratic families traced their ancestry to the days when Roman legions, garrisoned at Turin, had guarded
Italy's northern reaches and controlled the Alpine passes through which commerce, and occasionally
invading armies, moved into Italy.

With this magnificent scenic setting, cultured population, and commercial importance, the city, very early
in its history, developed a distinct aristocratic style. In the times of which we write, the House of Savoy,
royal rulers of northern Italy, held court there.

But all was not serene. Nineteenth-century Turin, like so many European and American cities, was
changing from a quiet provincial center into a busy industrial city. As more and more factories appeared,
more and more people flowed from northern Italy's farms and out of the Alpine valleys to seek the
employment and excitement offered by Turin.

The recently arrived working class crowded into filthy, airless tenements, sometimes six or eight to a room.
Vice, disease, and crime flourished; for most slum dwellers God was a dim memory associated with the
farms or dairies they had abandoned for the city. Vicious gangs of young toughs formed in the streets and
often invaded Turin's better sections, leaving a trail of robberies, muggings and occasionally murders in
their wake. City fathers increased the police force and administered justice swiftly. “The loveliest village in
the world,” now claiming a population of 150,000 people, boasted no less than four good-sized prisons.
Many inmates were mere boys, some not yet in their teens.

The Piped Piper

A new problem now plagued Turin’s harassed citizenry. At its root was, of all things, a slightly off beat
priest. For the past several years this cleric, known as Don Bosco, had been leading a band of singing,
shouting slum boys through Turin's stylish streets. The priest, clad in battered biretta, patched cassock, and
peasant work shoes, had started with a handful of boys. Now the original pack had swollen into a horde
numbering some 400. Although the boys had not yet committed any crime, citizens worried about Bosco's
ability to control his small army.

Government authorities, newspaper editors, and enemies feared that Father Bosco was laying the
foundations of a future political power base. In Italy’s then unstable political climate such an assumption
was not unreasonable. The Italy of Father Bosco’s time was not the united country we know today. It was

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divided into seven different states. Austrian and French royal houses ruled a good half of the nation. The
papal states, ruled by Pope Pius IX, straddled the nation's central portion. When Pius IX, who had no army,
refused to support a war to throw out the Austrian occupiers, many Italians judged the Pontiff a defender of
foreign rulers and an opponent of national unity. The vast tide of anticlericalism, which had been building
for years, swept over the land.

Enemies of the Church drove bishops from their dioceses, suppressed religious houses, and exiled priests,
Sisters and Brothers. Pope Pius IX and the Italian clergy became the favorite whipping boys of the liberal
revolutionary press.

Hatred reached a boiling point when revolutionary gangs, in November 1848, broke into Pope Pius IX's
Roman palace, stabbed his prime minister, and fatally shot one of the Pope's staff. Slipping out a secret
door, Pope Pius IX fled to the kingdom of Naples, where he remained in exile for six months.

Because of the nature of his work and the success he had already enjoyed with youth, John Bosco became a
favorite target. To all charges he calmly replied: “In politics I side with no one. I am a priest. The only
kingdom I serve is the Kingdom of God.”

From the Age of Nine

John had been yearning to serve that kingdom since he was a small boy. “At the age of nine,” he wrote, “I
knew I wanted to be a priest and to help young people.” He had no easy time in making his dream come
true.

His father, a hardworking farmer, died when John was not yet two years old. His mother, Margaret, held
her family together, running the small Bosco farm, raising three children, and supporting her own elderly
and infirm mother-in-law. Margaret, a woman of sterling character and enormous courage, proved equal to
the relentless and often bitter struggle to survive.

But despite their poverty, Margaret encouraged John to build his dream. Although lacking money and
influence, young John Bosco was not without resources. He possessed an amazing array of talents. His
physical coordination, even as a youngster, was superb. At country fairs he studied the magician’s tricks
and the daredevil's acrobatic stunts. Back home he practiced these feats until he could imitate and often
excel his mentors. Although suffering many a bruise and sprain in the process, John never lost his
enthusiasm for his dangerous recreation.

He knew that “magic” tricks and tightrope balancing would attract young people to him.

His physical prowess, however, pales before his mental acumen. Highly intelligent, John possessed a
formidable memory. This talent came to light one evening when, during the course of a parish mission, the
pastor inquired if John understood the missionary’s sermon. The little boy of only nine years repeated
without mistake every word the missionary had preached. Remember, this was in the day when no
missionary would dare descend the pulpit unless he had spoken for at least an hour!

As John grew to young manhood, he reached medium height. His face, open and frank, was crowned by a
rich crop of curly chestnut hair. He was cheerful, disciplined, and had a tremendous capacity for work.

No Superman

Young Bosco had his faults, too. Even as a young man, his feelings and emotions ran deep and strong. He
could be impetuous; he was not above, on a rare occasion, settling problems with his fists.

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He judged himself so full of self-pride that he deeply feared he would use his future position as a parish
priest to feed his cravings for prestige. So successfully, however, did John keep all these forces within him
under control that calmness and peacefulness characterized his whole life and his relationships with others.

The Road to the Priesthood

John had to work very hard for his seminary education. During the long years of study, he picked up a
variety of jobs and learned a host of trades. Before reaching ordination, John could make candy, repair
shoes, design and mend suits, manage a restaurant, and put on a one-man circus. His showmanship
attracted small youngsters. After he had the little ones suitably awed, he’d slip in a catechism lesson or two.

A Priest Forever

In 1841 Turin's Archbishop Fransoni ordained John, now twenty-five, a priest for his archdiocese. Shortly
after ordination, the Archbishop approved Bosco for an intensive five-year course of postgraduate theology
at Turin’s Ecclesiastical College.

College authorities, aware that many Italian priests refused to mix with the people because of the anti-
clerical hatred, insisted that the young theology scholars mix with the city's population, particularly the
poor. Thus John visited and worked in the hospitals, prisons, orphanages, and slum sections. This firsthand
experience with cultured Turin’s grubby underside shocked his sensitive and gentle heart.

It was, however, the young slum boys’ plight that bothered him most. At nine years of age, John had
dreamed of becoming a priest. He had accomplished this. Now he had to make real the second part of the
dream to serve young people.

Always on Sunday

He started. When still a graduate student, he persuaded a few youngsters to meet with him Sunday
afternoons at the College courtyard.

Patiently he established a relationship with the street kids based on the famous saying of St. Francis de
Sales: “You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.” Catch flies he did. Apprentice brought
apprentice; street kid brought street kid; orphan brought orphan. As John moved through Turin’s slums, he
invited youngsters to his Sunday get-togethers at the College. He called these gatherings his “Oratory.” The
Oratory featured songs, prayers, and catechism as well as horseplay, contests, long walks, and picnics.

A pioneer disciple remembered those pleasant Sundays. “At the end of each Sunday excursion,” he
recalled, “Don Bosco always told us to plan for next Sunday. He gave us advice as to our conduct and
asked us, if we had any friends, to invite them, too. Joy reigned among us. Those happy days are engraved
in our memories and influenced our future lives.

Arriving at some church in the outskirts of town, Don Bosco would ask permission of the parish priest to
play. The permission was always granted, and then at a signal the noisy band gathered together. Catechism
followed breakfast: The grass and rocks supplied the plates and tables. It is true, bread failed now and then,
but cheerfulness, never. “We sang while walking, and at sunset we marched back again into Turin. We
were fatigued, but our hearts were content.”

Not everyone in Turin was content. Indeed, John, having completed his College residency, could find no
place to gather almost 400 boys. Some generous people did try to help. But the noise and sheer presence of
this huge, energetic band overwhelmed them and often brought neighbors’ wrath down on their heads. No
less than ten people within a space of five months had offered John the use of their facilities. Every one of
them, after a few experiences, withdrew his promise. Don Bosco simply had no place to gather his ragged
flock.

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Later, remembering Palm Sunday of 1846, when John felt his work might come to an end, he wrote: “As I
looked at the crowd of children, and thought of the rich harvest they promised, I felt my heart was
breaking. I was alone, without helpers. My health was shattered, and I could not tell where to gather my
poor little ones anymore.”
John urged them to pray, and as so often happened, his youngsters’ prayers were answered. A certain Mr.
Pinardi offered to rent John a piece of property located in Turin’s marshy area, called the Valdocco. John,
still stinging from his recent defeats, was slow to respond. Pinardi pointed out that his property contained a
small hay shed which John could use for a chapel. When John saw the shed, he was bitterly disappointed. It
was simply too low for him to enter. “Oh, good Father, do not worry,” counseled the irrepressible Pinardi.
“We will dig down and lower the shed’s floor”. You will celebrate here on Easter Sunday.”

Pinardi was as good as his word. On Easter Sunday morning John celebrated at a humble altar surrounded
by his urchins, who had jammed into the rickety shack. Pinardi’s shed was no Sistine Chapel, and the
young workers, no Sistine Choir. But that did not stop them from celebrating their Easter with gusto. The
Oratory finally had a home. The priest did not yet know he was to pay a fearful price for his success.

“In My Children’s Name”

For five years, even during his graduate studies, John had dedicated his life to his youngsters. Although he
met with them as a group only on Sundays, every spare moment he had during the week he gave to meeting
their needs. He visited them at their jobs, found work for those laid off, nursed the sick, and assisted those
who had run afoul of the law. Using every possible means, John struggled to keep his little ones out of
Turin’s corrupting reformatories.

But all this caught up with him when, three months after purchasing the Pinardi place, John, near
exhaustion, suffered a severe pneumonia attack. At the hospital where he was taken, doctors feared for his
life. Heartbroken and bewildered boys, on hearing the news, milled about the hospital courtyard, hoping for
further information. Many youngsters straggled into a nearby church and prayed for this man who loved
them so much.

Leadership sprang up from their ranks, and all night vigils were organized. In their youthful enthusiasm the
boys hurled stern promises heavenward. More than one vowed to reform his life, say extra prayers, and do
penance. Some little construction workers, whose jobs demanded they carry bricks and mortar up four or
five stories of scaffolding forty or fifty times a day, fasted from solid foods. Although these children
suffered pain and came near fainting, they were determined to wrestle John Bosco out of death’s grip by
their prayers and penances.

All their efforts, however, seemed doomed to failure. As his condition continued to worsen, John prepared
to die. At his bedside, Father Borel, a close friend, bent over John and whispered: “John, these children
need you. Ask God to let you stay. Please, say this prayer after me, ‘Lord, if it be your good pleasure, cure
me. I say this prayer in the name of my children.’”

John repeated the prayer. When he finished it, his fever broke. The pneumonia crisis had passed.

Welcome Home

Two weeks later, doctors released John from the hospital. In the courtyard outside, his young friends
awaited him. When Don Bosco appeared, they rushed to him, picked him up, and carried him on their
shoulders through Turin’s streets. Filled with joy, they sang, shouted, and cheered. Even the city’s proper
citizens were moved to tears. These street kids and gutter children proved their magnificent loyalty and
devotion to their father.

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Mama Margaret Arrives

Until a short time before his illness, a wealthy noblewoman, the Marchioness of Barolo, provided John’s
living quarters in Turin. When the priest, absorbed in his own work, was unable to direct one of her
charities, a girls’ orphanage, she ordered John out of the apartment. So, when he came from the hospital, he
actually had no place to lay his head.

It was no pressing problem, however, for he had decided to go to his mother’s home in the farm country
some twenty miles outside Turin for a period of recuperation.

When John returned to the city, the indefatigable Mr. Pinardi once more appeared and offered to rent John
four rooms in an apartment of his, bordering the Oratory property. Because this particular house and its
neighboring dwellings had an unsavory reputation, Bosco hesitated.

Finally, reasoning that his mother’s presence would lessen suspicion of his own activities, John asked
Margaret to make the painful sacrifice of leaving the farm life she loved to be a house mother in the narrow
confines of a city apartment.

“Do you think it is God's will?” she asked her son. “Yes, Mother, I do,” responded John. That was all
Margaret needed, and in November of 1846 she gathered her poor possessions and set out with her son for
the city. The two, mother and son, walked the entire twenty miles from farm to city, because they had no
money for transportation.

A World of Young People

Soon after John’s mother arrived at the Oratory, the children dubbed her “Mama Margaret.” Bosco would
often say to her, “Mother, some day this whole place will be a playground, with schoolrooms, workshops;
there will be helpers and a world of children.”

Margaret, aware of John’s natural exuberance, listened skeptically to her son. All the priest had was a piece
of land of dubious value, a half-underground chapel, an apartment in a building that was contributing
significantly to Turin’s urban blight, and a weekend invasion of some 600 boys. But John was determined
to establish a world of children, and he would build that world step by step.

He determined first of all to provide a solid practical education for his boys. Starting at ground zero, he
taught the three R’s. Since religious instruction was essential to his education program, John selected a
simple catechism for his students’ reading primer.

He first held classes in his Pinardi apartment. As more and more students came, they overflowed the tiny
rooms into the chapel and the sacristy. Even this was not enough and John finally persuaded Mr. Pinardi to
rent him the whole house.

The curriculum expanded. To the original three R’s, John soon added geography, grammar, and drawing.
He also added singing, stating that “an Oratory without singing is like a body without a soul.”

To ensure a steady supply of teachers for his ever expanding school, John worked out an agreement with
some of the school’s more gifted students. He trained them in secondary studies, Italian, literature, Latin,
French and mathematics, with the understanding that they would, in turn, teach for a period of time in the
grammar school. The arrangement benefited both John and his teaching staff. Don Bosco had a fine faculty
drawn from the ranks of the pupil-teachers of the Oratory itself.

The new teachers now had sufficient education to enter studies that would lead to professional careers.
Thus they could break the cycle of poverty into which many of them had been born.

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The Hive Swarms

Within a year of settling on the Pinardi property, John had under instruction between six and seven hundred
children, ranging anywhere in age from eight to eighteen. These earnest youngsters jammed every available
inch of space in the Pinardi house and the chapel. John refused to turn anyone away. Yet there was simply
no more room.

Undismayed, John summoned the whole Oratory one night and resolved the crisis. “When a beehive
overflows,” he explained, “it swarms, and its' surplus goes out to fill another hive. And so it is with us. In
playtime we are all upon one another; at chapel we are packed like herrings in a barrel. There is no room to
move. Let us copy the bees and go and seek another Oratory.”

The fact that he had no money did not disturb him at all. He knew God would provide. As usual, he was
right. Not one, but two Oratories soon opened in Turin.

The Boy Who Came to Dinner

One cold, rainy night in May, 1847, Margaret responded to a tap on the Pinardi house door. A youngster,
wet to the bone, stood trembling on the steps. Margaret immediately brought the child in, set him before a
roaring fire, dried him, fed him, and then put him to bed. He turned out to be “the boy who came to dinner.”
He was an orphan and his gentle knock opened a whole new door for Don Bosco. The plight of Turin’s
orphaned and homeless boys weighed heavily on Don Bosco’s heart since his arrival in the city.

A World of Children

Now John felt he could do something about it. It was not long before the new arrival was joined by ten
other lads whom John somehow stuffed into the Pinardi house. After the winter of 1851, when he finally
purchased the Pinardi house, John was able to accept some thirty boarders.

The house lived by a wondrous routine. In the morning, after a prayer together, they would depart for their
workshop or factory, a little snack in their hands. At noon they would return and crowd into the kitchen for
their noonday dinner, which John, the cook, had prepared and, now clad in a white apron, served them. The
boys would depart for afternoon work, return in the evening for supper; then Professor Bosco would
supervise their lessons.

The increased activity, however, took its toll on Mama Margaret, now in her mid 60s. She toiled all day
long cleaning house, washing and mending clothes, and nursing the little boys who were ill. Boys being
boys, their carelessness often caused poor Margaret much extra work. One day, fed up with her clothesline
being knocked down, her vegetable garden trampled, weary from endless washing, mending and cooking,
Mama Margaret announced to her son: “I'm going home.”

Don Bosco felt his mother’s anguish. He said nothing. He simply pointed to a crucifix hanging on the wall.
His mother understood and her eyes filled with tears. “You are right, son; you are right,” she said softly.
Mama Margaret replaced her apron.

Projects and Plans

As quickly as John finished one project, he began another. In rapid succession he built a boarding home for
150 boys, a new chapel to accommodate the Oratory’s increased enrollment, and pioneered evening
education and vocational schools for his future craftsmen. He built shoemaker, tailor, carpenter,
bookbinder, printing and ironwork shops. Again he chose his faculty from boys who had come through the
Oratory. His schools, considered among Turin’s best, took their inspiration and direction from Don Bosco
himself, who ranks among modern Europe’s finest educators.

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A colleague, a distinguished professor, explains why. “His love shone forth from his looks and his words so
clearly, and all felt it and could not doubt it... They experienced an immense joy in his presence.”

John demanded much from his teachers. At a time when schoolmasters considered whipping an
indispensable tool of their trade, Don Bosco forbade any such violence. “Make yourself loved,” he
counseled them. “if you wish to be obeyed, be fathers, not superiors.”

In John’s view, the teacher’s responsibility extended not simply beyond the classroom to personal
conferences with the student, but to the creation of an environment at the Oratory characterized by
Christian love and joy.

Bosco could make no such demands unless he himself led the way. He joined in students’ recreation,
challenged them in conversation, and joked with them. A superb athlete until his middle 50s, he would
often footrace with them. Although plagued with varicose veins at 54, he could still outrun any of them.
Bosco respected the boys’ freedom and carried that respect into every aspect of the Oratory’s program. If
he had to punish, he was careful never to demean or embitter a child.

Don Bosco possessed great educator’s skill: he combined authority with liberty, discipline with
friendliness, and order with room for youthful effervescence.

“Without affection, there is no confidence,” he often counseled his faculty. “Without confidence, no
education.”

Religion for John was no mere adjunct to education. He saw the relationship with God as the very source
and foundation of all human growth and activity.

For him it was essential to present God as a loving Father to his children. He most effectively did this by
being a loving father to his Oratory. He urged his students to be aware that they lived in the presence of the
heavenly Father who loved them.

Beloved Beggar

During the building of this huge, magnificent Shrine, Bosco was always somehow able to pay his bills.
When money did not come from ordinary sources, Don Bosco was quite prepared to beg for it. His begging
excursions were almost always marked by humorous incidents.

Once when Basilica bills piled high, John visited an extremely wealthy man who had been bedridden for
three years. After a few moments of chatting, Don Bosco ordered the man to get his clothes, go to the bank,
and withdraw the money necessary to pay the Basilica’s latest bills. “I can't go to the bank,” complained the
sick man; “I haven't been out of bed for three years.” “Promise to take your money out of the bank,” Don
Bosco said, “and Our Lady will take you out of bed.” The man made the promise, and left his bed. John,
taking no chances, accompanied him to the bank.

Many people thought John, because of his ability to raise money, was a financial wizard. He was anything
but. A wealthy lady, judging him a great financier, asked him where she could best invest her money. Not
saying a word, Bosco simply held out his open hands in front of her.

Although millions of dollars passed through his hands, he never kept a penny for himself. Indeed, he lived
poorly, going so far as to save half sheets of letters, dyeing string black to use for his shoelaces, and saving
wrapping paper and cord. He wore a cast-off military overcoat and used old army blankets on his bed.
Because he considered himself a servant and a working man, he cheerfully waited on his boys at the dining
table, mended their clothing, and cut their hair. Because he was a poor man, he felt hard work was his lot.
He gravely warned his Salesian sons that if they should ever lose their love of poverty, it would be a sure
sign that the Society “had run its course.”

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The Blessed Mother

Bosco made many a demand on the Blessed Mother. Once a pastor requested him to give a three-day
mission to prepare his people for the Feast of the Assumption. The parish, located in a farming area
stricken by a terrible and lengthy drought, was suffering bitterly. The farmers were desperate.

In his opening sermon Bosco remarked “Come for these three days, make a good confession, do your best
to prepare for a fervent Communion on the Feast of the Assumption, and I promise you, in Mary's name,
that rain will come to refresh your parched land.”
After the sermon, the pastor, accusing Bosco of raising false hopes, was furious. He feared that the people
would wreak terrible revenge on both him and John when the promised rain did not materialize.

For the next three days the farm folk jammed the church. On the Feast of the Assumption, the day of the
promised event, Bosco awoke and looked into the sky. It was a cloudless blue. The early morning sun was
already burning the dusty earth. As John made his way to the church for morning Mass, people crowded
around him.

“Will it rain?” they demanded.


Calmly he responded, “Purify your hearts.”

The day wore on; the sky remained like a blue ceramic. As evening came and the people gathered for the
last devotion for the Feast, there was still no sign of rain. As John entered the church for the final evening
devotion, he looked once more to the horizon. It was cloudless - almost. A miniscule gray cloud hung like a
tiny rag on the porcelain sky.

John made his way to the pulpit. Hundreds of faces turned up to him, and all had written on them the same
question, “When is it going to rain?” These wondering, questioning faces could, in a short time, turn hard
and bitter with disappointment.

Suddenly, yellow lightning stabbed the sky, thunder clapped, and the first heavy raindrops splattered on the
roof. The farmers, with a new lease on life, broke into heavy cheers and joyful songs. Although the farmers
did not realize it, the most relieved man in the district was their pastor.

The Last Years

As Don Bosco grew into his 60s, his health became more and more fragile. But he continued his exhausting
pace. His days were filled with teaching, counseling, and supervising his endless projects.

By the early 1880s, his Salesians had spread beyond the borders of Italy, establishing themselves in France
and Spain. He yearned to visit them. Thus, when Pope Leo XIII in 1883, asked him to journey to France to
beg for funds to complete the construction of the Sacred Heart Basilica in Rome, John cheerfully complied.
He could beg for the Pope - and visit his spiritual sons.

Bosco’s heart was deeply moved by the warm, enthusiastic welcome the French people gave him. They
responded generously to his appeal for the Basilica.

“Never had such a crowd gathered in Paris around a priest since the visit of Pius VIII,” one eyewitness
recalled. Don Rua, remembering this visit to France, said, “If we had seven secretaries, many letters every
evening would still have had to be left unanswered.” The journey, however, exacted a terrible toll on John's
already fragile health.

John’s right eye, injured years earlier in a fall, pained constantly. Phlebitis made his walking so unsteady
that two Salesians stood on either side of him. Their presence was necessary since Bosco would often fall
asleep on his feet as he moved through the crowds, greeting and blessing the people.

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Three years later Don Bosco made a similar trip to Spain and was greeted with the same enthusiasm. He
preached in the most famous cathedrals in both France and Spain. Although he could speak both French
and Spanish, he hardly possessed “an orator’s tongue.” The people, however, understood him well, for he
spoke to them with the language of the heart.

The Final Days

“You have burnt away your life by working to excess. Your whole constitution is like a coat worn
threadbare by too much use. There is no remedy except that we hang this coat in a closet for a while.

You must completely rest.” Don Bosco had heard his doctor’s advice before. The reply was always the
same: “Doctor, you know that’s the only remedy I cannot take. There’s too much work yet to be done.”

Right up until his very last days, Don Bosco, held up on either side by two Salesian companions, journeyed
through Turin, visiting the poor, begging from the rich, cheering the hearts of those who were sad. He knew
death was imminent. “I want to go to heaven,” he would say, “for there I shall be able to work much better
for my children. On earth I can do nothing more for them.”

Bosco’s doctor now advised Salesian authorities: “He is not dying of any disease; he is like a lamp dying
from want of oil.”

The famous Bosco humor-like did not fade. He advised the Salesians who carried him from place to place
to “put it on the bill. I’ll settle up everything at the end.” At one time, gasping for breath, he whispered to
a Salesian bending anxiously over him, “Do you know where there is a good bellows maker?” “Why?” the
puzzled Salesian asked.
”Because I need a new pair of lungs, that’s why!”

The illness dragged on. Don Rua took over the government of the Salesian Society. His first command
was to request every Salesian who could possibly do so to come to Turin and bid farewell to their father.
From all over, these sons came. Don Bosco had taken many of these little street boys and farmers and
helped them to grow with a deep love of God. One by one they passed by him to receive his blessing. Next
came all the boys who had gone through the Oratory at Turin. Hundreds of them came and passed by his
bed, two by two. John blessed them all, his face calm, almost young.

On the night of January 31, 1888, he turned to Don Rua and said, “Tell my children that I will be waiting
for them in Paradise.” And with those words one of the nineteenth century’s most magnificent men
breathed forth his strong and valiant spirit.

During his lifetime he often said he wanted to die poor. Die poor he did. On the day of his death, the Turin
Oratory, with 800 mouths to feed was penniless. But that did not stop the baker from delivering his bread
on schedule. The baker, like everyone else, knew that Don Bosco would find money as he always did, in
heaven, to feed his boys on earth.

In 1934, Pope Pius XI canonized St. John Bosco as saint of the Catholic Church. And in 1988 Pope John
Paul II called him “Father and Teacher of Youth.”

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Chapter 2 – Don Bosco’s Madonna


Introduction

In the Salesian world, St. John Bosco’s devotion to Mary Help of Christians is proverbial. During his
lifetime, miracles were performed through the intercession of our Blessed Mother. When people tended to
praise him because of his work, Don Bosco’s reply was always: “Mary Help of Christians did it all. I am
just her unworthy instrument.” Another of his sayings was: “The Madonna does whatever she wills.”
However, Mary Help of Christians was not always the title under which Don Bosco was devoted to Mary.
This brief account is an attempt to trace the growth of Don Bosco’s devotion to the Madonna.

Foundation for the Title “Mary Help of Christians”

In the New Testament, one can find the foundation for the title “Mary Help of Christians.” The Blessed
Virgin’s Fiat at the Annunciation is the first occasion in which Mary offered her help in the work of
redemption and salvation of souls. In the Visitation to her cousin Elizabeth, Mary was a help. At the
marriage feast in Cana, she was there helping. On Calvary, we find Mary faithful to her Son, who was
dying for the world’s salvation. During the days between the Ascension of Our Lord and the coming of the
Holy Spirit at Pentecost, Mary was always there as a help to the frightened apostles.

The finest of those scriptural occasions, when Mary is the Help of Christians, is on Mount Calvary. Jesus is
hanging in agony on the Cross, and Mary supports Him with wonderful spiritual and motherly strength. At
this time it would seem that nothing remained for Jesus to prove how much He loved us. Yet, His love
found one more gift to offer us. From the Cross He turns his dying eyes to His Mother, the last treasure He
had on earth. “Woman,” said Jesus to Mary, “behold your Son.” Turning to the disciple, John, He said:
“Behold your Mother.” From that hour, concludes the evangelist, the disciple took her into his home. In
that gift of Jesus, the holy Fathers of the church recognize three very important truths:

St. John became, in all things, the son of Mary.


On this account, all the motherly care which Mary had given Jesus was now to pass to her new son, John.
In the person of John, Jesus had intended to embrace the entire human race.

“Mary,” says St. Bernadine of Siena, “by her loving participation in the mystery of the Redemption of
Calvary, has truly generated in us the life of grace. In the order of salvation, we are all born of the sorrows
of Mary, in the same way that we are born of the eternal love of the Father and the sufferings of his Son. In
those precious moments, Mary strictly became our Mother.”

In consequence of becoming our Mother on Calvary, Mary not only received the title “Help of Christians,”
but she took upon herself the functions, the authority and the obligations of that title. That Mary had
understood the intention of Jesus on the Cross in this sense, and that He made her the Mother and Help of
all Christians, is well proven by her actions ever since.

How the Title Became Reality

In 1868 Don Bosco wrote: “Although the Virgin Most Holy has shown herself at all times the Help of
Christians in all the necessities of life, nevertheless it seems she desired that her power should be felt
particularly when the Church was attacked on the truths of faith and by hostile armies.” Church history
shows the truth of that statement.

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Outstanding manifestations of Mary’s help on behalf of Christians include the following:

The victory near Lepanto against the Turkish fleet on the first Sunday of the month, October 7, 1571,
during the pontificate of St. Pius V. Don Bosco, following the common tradition, attributes the origin of
this Marian title to that victory.

The Moslems tried again to overrun Europe in the battle of Vienna in 1683, during the Pontificate of
Innocent XI. With John Sobiesky in command of the Christian forces, the Moslems were once again turned
back. After that victory, devotion to the Help of Christians spread, especially through the pious society and
confraternity of that name.

When Napoleon Bonaparte had taken Pope Pius VII prisoner, prayers and supplications were offered to
Mary. Pius VII was released on May 24, 1814, and, by a decree of the Sacred Congregation of Rites on
September 15, 1815, he instituted the Feast of Mary Help of Christians, to be celebrated on May 24 as a
sign of his gratitude to the Mother of God, because he attributed to her his deliverance from captivity by
Napoleon and his return to Rome.

Don Bosco’s Devotion to Mary

In Turin and in most of Piedmont, Our Lady of Consolation was a popular title and devotion. Like other
Piedmontese at the time, Don Bosco followed that devotion. There was the beautiful church of Our Lady of
Consolation in Turin, and, when his mother died, it was to that church that Don Bosco went and prayed to
Our Lady that she would now be mother and helper at the Oratory. He then offered Mass for the repose of
his mother’s soul.

Don Bosco also had a special devotion to Mary as the Immaculate Conception, even before the doctrine
was defined in 1854. He considered December 8, 1841, as the beginning date of his work for abandoned
youth in Turin. At the age of 26 and ordained only six months, Don Bosco welcomed a young laborer of
15, Bartholomew Garelli, to join him at his Mass on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception. After the
Mass, Don Bosco and Bartholomew said a Hail Mary together. This was the beginning of Don Bosco's
“Oratory,” a unique combination of catechism, prayer and play.

In Don Bosco’s famous dream of the two pillars in May of 1862, he said that upon the top of one of the
pillars was a statue of Mary Immaculate, and at her feet he could read a large inscription which read
“Auxilium Christianorum,” that is “Help of Christians.”

On his desk, Don Bosco had a small statue with a card at its feet reading “Immaculate Help of Christians.”

When Don Bosco built the Basilica of Mary Help of Christians in Turin, he placed a statue of Mary
Immaculate atop the central dome. When Pope Pius IX granted a plenary indulgence to all who would visit
that church, he said these words, “We grant a plenary indulgence to all those who shall visit the Church in
Turin dedicated to the Immaculate Virgin Mary under the title Mary Help of Christians.”

From all the foregoing, it appears that Don Bosco could not get himself to give up the title “Immaculate
Conception” because of all it meant to him in respect to his educational method. Therefore, he fused the
two titles Immaculate Conception and Help of Christians and called Our Lady “The Immaculate Help of
Christians.”

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Don Bosco’s Marian Shine

The Basilica of Mary Help of Christians

The Dreams of 1844 and 1845

On the second Sunday of October 1844, Don Bosco had a dream which was a kind of continuation of the
one he had at the age of nine. In the dream, the Blessed Virgin told him to lead a large group of various
kinds of animals. As he walked along at the head of the animals, they gradually turned into lambs. At a
certain point in the dream there was before him a lofty church. Inside the church, a white banner carried the
inscription in large characters: “Hie domus mea; inde gloria mea,” that is: “This is my house; from it my
glory shines forth.” The Blessed Virgin told Don Bosco, “You will understand everything when, with your
material eyes, you will see in actual fact what you now see with the eyes of your mind.”

In another dream, which Don Bosco had in 1845, the Blessed Virgin showed him a large gathering of
children, a field, and then three churches in Valdocco. At the third church, the Blessed Virgin told Don
Bosco, “In this place, where the glorious martyrs of Turin, Adventor, Octavius, and Solutor suffered
martyrdom, and on these clods soaked and sanctified by their blood, I wish that God be honored in a very
special manner.” So saying, she put out her foot and thus indicated the exact spot where the martyrs had
fallen.

The vast and magnificent Basilica of Mary Help of Christians in Turin, built by St. John Bosco, received its
heavenly inspiration and encouragement from those dream visions of 1844 and 1845. For nineteen years,
Don Bosco carried this idea in his mind and, finally, in 1863 he set to work. As a result of the directions
which the Blessed Virgin had given him, he chose for his church in honor of Mary Help of Christians the
actual spot of the martyrdom of Saints Adventor, Solutor, and Octavius. They were Roman soldiers who
were martyred under Maximianus early in the fourth century and whose commemoration used to be on
November 20.

How to Pay for the Church

After the authorities had issued a permit to build the church, Don Bosco decided at once to begin the
excavation. Father Angelo Savio, the financial administrator, objected, saying: “But, Don Bosco, this is no
chapel. It is a huge, costly church. This morning we did not have enough money to buy even postage
stamps.”

“Never mind,” replied Don Bosco. “We'll get started! Did we ever begin anything with money on hand?
Let us leave something to Divine Providence!” Father Savio obeyed.

When the foundations of the church were laid, Don Bosco approached the contractor, Charles Buzzetti. “I
want to pay you for this fine work,” he said. “I don't know if it will be much, but it will be all I have.” He
then took out his little purse and emptied the contents into the hands of the contractor, who thought he was
about to receive a handful of gold coins. The contractor’s jaw dropped in dismay when he saw in his hands
only eight cents. “Do not be alarmed!” Don Bosco quickly added with a smile. “The Madonna will see to
the payment for her church. I am just the instrument, the cashier.” And to those standing by, he concluded,
“You will see!”

Meanwhile Don Bosco had a big problem, because several wealthy townspeople, who had promised
generous donations, were changing their minds, while others were not going to come through until later. A
bill for one thousand lire for the first two weeks of excavation was due within days.

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Extraordinary Cures

Don Bosco said that the cost of building the church was paid for to the last cent, and that it was all the
result of graces and favors received through the intercession of Mary Help of Christians. Space does not
allow an account of all those favors, but two outstanding ones are recounted here:

Don Bosco was suddenly called to the bedside of a woman who had been racked for three months by fever
and a persistent cough. “If I could feel even a little better,” she gasped, '”I’d make any sacrifice. Just to get
out of bed would be a vast relief.”
“What would you do for that?” asked Don Bosco.
“Whatever you say.”
“Make a novena to Mary Help of Christians.” “What prayers must I say?”
“For nine days say three times the Our Father, the Hail Mary, and the Glory Be to the Father in honor of the
Blessed Sacrament, and three times the Hail, Holy Queen to the Blessed Virgin.”
“Fine! And what work of mercy?”
“If you should truly feel better, make a contribution to the Church of Mary Help of Christians now being
built in Valdocco.”
“Most willingly, if during the novena I can leave my bed and walk about my room a little.”

In the evening of the last day of the novena, Don Bosco had to have one thousand lire for wages. He called
on the sick woman. A maid met him at the door and joyfully told him that her mistress had recovered
completely, had taken two walks, and had been to church to thank God.

While the maid told him all this, the woman herself came to meet him. “I am cured,” she exclaimed. “I've
already gone to church. Here is a little something I promised. There will be more.”

Don Bosco took the little package and, back at the Oratory, he found in it fifty gold napoleons worth a
thousand lire.

From then on, Our Lady granted so many and such varied graces to those who contributed to the
construction of her church, that one might well say that she built it herself.

Work on the church then continued, but the day came when the work had to be suspended due to lack of
money. Unexpectedly, Senator Anthony Cotta called on Don Bosco one day and urged him to go ahead
with the work. Some days later, Don Bosco called on the senator and found him nearly dying. “A few more
minutes and I'll be gone,” the senator whispered.

“Not quite,” replied Don Bosco. “Our Lady still needs you here. You must live to help me build her
church.”

“I’d gladly do so, but my time is up. There is no longer any hope.” “What would you do if Mary Help of
Christians were to cure you?”

Struck by the question, the senator replied, “If I am cured, I promise your church two thousand lire monthly
for six months.”

“Good,” Don Bosco continued, “I’m going back to the Oratory and will say so many prayers offered to
Mary Help of Christians that I hope you will be cured. Have trust in her. She is called ‘Virgin Most
Powerful.’” He then prayed for the senator and blessed him.

Three days later, Senator Cotta returned the visit. “Here I am,” he said. “To the amazement of everyone and
contrary to all expectations, Our Lady has cured me. Here are the two thousand lire I promised for this
month.” He paid the same amount regularly for the next five months and lived three more years in fairly
good health, grateful to Our Lady. The senator often brought other donations to Don Bosco remarking,
“The more I support your work, the more my business prospers. God actually gives back to me, even in this
life, a hundredfold for what I give for His sake.”

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On July 3, 1867, Don Bosco declared in the presence of some of his intimate friends: “The whole church
was built by means of graces granted by Mary Help of Christians.” One sixth of the cost, about one million
lire in those days, was borne by the generous contributions of devout persons. The rest came from the small
offerings of those who had been aided by Mary Help of Christians either in health, in business, in family
matters, or in some other way. “Every stone, every ornament represents one of her graces,” insisted Don
Bosco. The building contractor, who had originally received only eight cents for his work, later testified
that “the Church of Mary Help of Christians was paid for to the last cent!”

Opposition to the Title of the Church

Not many are acquainted with the opposition that Don Bosco met in his plan to dedicate the church to Mary
Help of Christians. Some persons, even at his own Oratory in Turin, wanted to dedicate it to our Lady of
Mount Carmel, or to the Holy Rosary, or to the Immaculate Conception. The architect argued against the
title “Help of Christians.” The municipal authorities were against it also, saying that such a title was novel,
vague and unpopular.

Nevertheless, Don Bosco insisted because he knew that the future of his own congregation depended upon
Mary Help of Christians, just as it had needed and obtained that protection at Lepanto on October 7, 1571,
at Vienna on September 12, 1683, and again at Rome on May 24, 1814, when Pope Pius VII returned to the
Vatican after his imprisonment under Napoleon.

The Domes of the Church

Atop the large and beautiful central dome of the church stands a massive gilt bronze statue of Mary
Immaculate with her hand raised in benediction. In the interior, on the ceiling of the cupola, is a vast
painting of the historical events of the emancipation of the slaves, the victory of Lepanto, the liberation of
Vienna, the return of Pope Pius VII to Rome after his captivity under Napoleon Bonaparte, and finally the
works and missions of Don Bosco - all proof of the protection of Mary Help of Christians to her people.

On each side of the large central dome is a smaller one. Regarding these two smaller domes, there is a
curious but significant historical connection. The small dome on the left, as one looks at the church,
supports an angel carrying a bronze banner on which is engraved the word “Lepanto” with the date “1571”.
The dome on the right supports an angel offering a crown of laurel to the Immaculate Virgin enthroned on
the central dome.

Regarding the Angel on the Right

The official biographer of St. John Bosco testified that he personally saw the original plan which the saint
had made for that angel on the right. That original plan had that angel also carrying a bronze banner on
which was inscribed an incomplete date, “19- .” The question immediately arises: “Did St. John Bosco
have a vision of some great victory which Mary Help of Christians would obtain for her people in this
atomic century - a victory which would be comparable to or possibly even greater than that gained over the
Turks on October 7, 1571, at Lepanto?” We will probably never know for sure what Don Bosco had in
mind when he drew up the original plan for the angel on the right.

The Painting Above the Main Altar

The most splendid adornment in the church is the great painting above the main altar. This picture
measures more than 33 square yards and is bordered with gold. Our Blessed Lady, as Help of Christians,
occupies the central position. She is surrounded by symbols of God the Father, the Holy Spirit, and by the
Apostles and Evangelists. This painting of Mary Help of Christians is one used by Don Bosco and the

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Salesians to depict Mary in pictures and sculptures. The central portion appears on the cover of this
booklet.

The Dedication of the Church

June 9, 1868, was the glorious day of the consecration of the great church. It was dedicated and called the
Church of Mary Help of Christians. The dedication festivities lasted nine days, and on each day a Bishop
preached while another took part in the religious ceremonies.

By the turn of the nineteenth century, the Church of Mary Help of Christians in Turin had become famous,
and in 1911 Pope Saint Pius X gave it the crowning glory by raising it to the rank of a basilica - the Basilica
of Mary Help of Christians.

Three Living Monuments

The Daughters of Mary Help of Christians

In the course of time, Don Bosco began what became known as his three living monuments or memorials to
Mary Help of Christians. The first is the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.

Don Bosco always shied away from working with girls, for he believed his calling was for boys only. Then,
he had a dream in which a group of girls begged him to work for them as he was working for boys. Still, he
was very reluctant to do so.

It so happened that in the village of Mornese, there was a group of young women called “The Union of the
Daughters of Mary Immaculate.” They were under the guidance of Father Dominic Pestarino. Don Bosco
became acquainted with the group and was very impressed by them, especially by Mary Mazzarello.

In 1871, before the beginning of the month of Mary Help of Christians, Don Bosco called together the
members of his Council and related the following:

“Many people are continually urging me to do something for girls in the same way that we are trying, by
God’s grace, to do a little good for boys. If I heed my own feelings, I am not inclined to undertake this sort
of apostolate. But, as these appeals have been made to me so many times by persons worthy of every
consideration, I fear I may be going against the designs of Providence if I do not give the matter serious
consideration. Therefore, I put the question to you, and I invite you to reflect upon it before the Lord, and
to weigh the pros and cons, so that we shall be able to come to that decision which will be for the greater
glory of God and the greater advantage to souls. Therefore, during this month, our prayers in common and
in private shall be directed to this end: to obtain from our Lord the necessary light in this important matter.”

At the end of the month of Mary Help of Christians, Don Bosco again called together his Council and
asked the members one by one their opinion, beginning with Father Rua. All were unanimous that the time
was most opportune to make provisions for the Christian education of girls, as was already being done for
boys.

“Well,” concluded Don Bosco, “now we can be sure that it is the will of God that we concern ourselves
with girls.

And so to come to something concrete, I propose that the house which Father Pestarino is about to finish at
Mornese be destined for this work.”

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Don Bosco then went to Rome and asked Pope Pius IX about the idea of founding a society of Sisters. The
Pope said he would think about it. A few days later, Don Bosco returned to the Pope and was told the
following:

“I have thought about your idea for the foundation of a religious society of women. I am persuaded that it is
for the greater glory of God and the salvation of souls. My advice is then that they have as their principal
scope the instruction and education of girls, just as the members of the Society of St. Francis of Sales do for
the good of boys. They will depend on you and your successors in the same way the Sisters of Charity of
St. Vincent de Paul depend upon the Vincentians. Draw up the constitutions on these lines and try them out.
The rest will follow.”

Don Bosco informed Father Pestarino of the Pope’s approval, and he then gave him a rough outline of the
rules for the aspirants of the new congregation.
On August 5, 1872, Don Bosco was present for the reception of the habit and the religious profession of the
first Salesian Sisters. He then left it on record that, from that day forward, they would be called Daughters
of Mary Help of Christians.

As a result of Don Bosco’s work in consolidating the new congregation, Sr. Mary Mazzarello told the
Sisters, “Let us bear this well in mind: after God, we owe all to Don Bosco and his worthy and saintly sons
whom He has given us for our guidance and support.”

The Sons of Mary

St. John Bosco set up a second living monument in honor of Mary Help of Christians by means of a work
which was, as he himself wrote, “directed to the general welfare of the Church.” Within his schools and
among his boys, Don Bosco’s principal thought was always to find ecclesiastical vocations and to develop
them.

For a number of years, from 1848 onward, it was difficult for boys to follow their religious vocation
because either seminaries were being closed or religious orders were being suppressed; but, worst of all,
compulsory military service was ruining many vocations.

One day, Don Bosco told Father Julius Barberis, “It is all very well to say times are bad, but let us hope that
before long they will change for the better. Then we shall have a greater number of vocations ... Let us have
courage; the harvest is great, and we have a little something with which to build up a great victorious
monument.” That “little something” to which the saint referred was the Work of Mary Help of Christians
for late vocations to the clerical state.

In 1875, while hearing confessions, Don Bosco found himself as though in a dream. He was presented with
the register of all those who were in the house. He heard a voice say, “Do you want to know how to
increase immediately the number of good priests? Have a look at that register and you will find out what is
to be done.” He thought it over and went through the old admission registers. He discovered that, out of the
many boys who were studying in our schools for the priesthood, not even two out of ten received the
cassock. The rest had all left for various reasons. Instead, nearly all of those who came as adults - that is,
eight out of ten - received the cassock and finished the seminary course in less time and with less fatigue.
Don Bosco then decided to seek ways and means of cultivating these vocations.

Having petitioned Pope Pius IX about his plan for late vocations, the Pope praised and recommended this
work in a brief dated May 9, 1876, and enriched it with many indulgences. Don Bosco recommended this
work to the piety of the faithful even before he founded the Pious Union of Salesian Cooperators. He also
made good use of the words of Pope Leo XIII: “If you come across individuals who are willingly interested
in this work, tell them that they are not helping you or me, but the Church.”

The following advice was left by Don Bosco to the Salesians: “Cultivate the Work of Mary Help of
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signs of a good vocation merely because you lack means. Spend all you have, even go and beg and, if after
that you still find yourself without means, don't hesitate, for the Most Holy Virgin will, in some way or
other, even miraculously, come to your assistance.”

So clear was Our Lady’s help that young men with late vocations soon became known as the Sons of Mary.
In a memorandum to the Cardinal Prefect of Propaganda, Don Bosco wrote: “Upwards of two hundred
young men are in residence in the one House of San Pierdarena, under the title of the Work of Mary Help
of Christians. All these young men give us hope, that, with God’s help, each year we may be able to send
forth an expedition to the foreign missions, comprising skilled tradesmen, catechists and priests.”

In 1885, concluding the narration of a dream he had regarding the extraordinary growth the Congregation
had in the missions, Don Bosco said: “The Salesian Society will prosper materially, if we endeavor to
support and extend the Salesian Bulletin and the Work of the Sons of Mary Help of Christians. We shall
extend them. These young men are doing excellently. This work is producing splendid confreres, sound in
their vocations.”

“The Sons of Mary,” wrote Father P. Grisar, S.J., in 1915, “are of inestimable worth in all the Salesian
Mission fields because usually they are men of robust health, accustomed to hard work who, in order to
follow their vocation, have, for the most part, already had to make heavy sacrifices.”

The Archconfraternity

The Archconfraternity of the Devout Clients of Mary Help of Christians may be regarded as the third living
monument raised up by St. John Bosco in her honor and for the good of souls.

Don Bosco informed Pope Pius IX that he had in mind, “in order to foster and increase the devotion of the
faithful to the Mother of God and to the Holy Eucharist, to institute in the Church of Mary Help of
Christians at Turin, a pious society to be known as the Association of the Devout Clients of Mary Help of
Christians. The members would have as their principal object the promotion of devotion to the Immaculate
Mother of God and to the Blessed Sacrament.” The Pope, in a brief dated March 16, 1869, granted rich
indulgences for a period of ten years, and in the following year these were confirmed in perpetuity.

On April 18, 1869, the Archbishop of Turin approved the rules presented by Don Bosco, and declared the
Association of Devout Clients of Mary Help of Christians canonically established in the Sanctuary of
Valdocco.

On April 5, 1870, Pope Pius IX raised the Association of the Devout Clients of Mary Help of Christians to
the dignity of an Archconfraternity.

On January 18, 1894, Pope Leo XIII granted to Father Michael Rua, the Rector Major of the Salesian
Society, and to his successors, the faculty to establish in all Salesian churches and public oratories the
Association of the Devout Clients of Mary Help of Christians, and to affiliate it to the Archconfraternity
established in the Basilica of Mary Help of Christians in Turin.

On February 25, 1896, Pope Leo XIII granted to the Rectors Major of the Salesians the faculty to affiliate
other associations of any Church or Diocese throughout the world with the same Archconfraternity of Mary
Help of Christians already established in the Basilica of Turin, under the same title and scope.

Blessings of Mary Help of Christians

“Never shall I forget,” wrote Father Albera, Don Bosco’s second successor as Rector Major, “the
impression I experienced whenever I saw our good Father give the Blessing of Mary Help of Christians to
the sick. While he recited the Hail Mary and the words of the Blessing, it would seem that his face became
transfigured; his eyes filled with tears and his voice trembled on his lips. It seemed to me that 'virtue went

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out from him.' I marveled, not so much at the miraculous effects which followed, but rather, at the
consolation to the afflicted and the healing of the sick.”

The principal place where these wonders were worked by Don Bosco’s blessing in the name of Mary Help
of Christians was Valdocco, especially during the month of Mary and on the occasion of the Novena and
Feast of Our Lady. Also Rome, Paris, Barcelona, and other cities and towns of Italy, France and Spain
witnessed the extraordinary effects of the Blessing of Mary Help of Christians given by Don Bosco.

When Pope Leo XIII’s own nephew, Count Pecci, and his family were presented to him for his blessing,
the Pope told them to go instead to Don Bosco and ask for his blessing. In 1867, a distinguished and
wealthy gentleman from Marseilles and his wife brought their only child, who was deaf and dumb, to Pius
IX in the hope that the Pope’s blessing would cure the child. The Pope advised them to take the invalid to
Don Bosco in Turin. So it happened that, after the blessing of Don Bosco, the child walked, heard, and
spoke clearly.

When about to give the blessing, Don Bosco tried to awaken the fullest confidence in the power and
goodness of the Help of Christians. He would say to boys, adults and even to church dignitaries such things
as:

“Have you faith in the Help of Christians?” “Do you love Mary Help of Christians?”

“Have confidence and then leave all to the Madonna.” “Have faith, a lively faith in the Help of Christians,
and she will cure you.”

“Faith can do all things.”

“Provided it is not contrary to God's greater glory, we shall most certainly obtain this grace.”

“Don't imagine you get the blessing from me, but from God, through the powerful aid of Mary Help of
Christians.”

“I am but a poor instrument in the hands of God.”

In 1881, Father Daimazzo, after the unexpected cure of a cripple, remarked to Don Bosco: “Well, he is
completely cured after your blessing!”
“It was the Blessing of Mary Help of Christians that cured him,” corrected Don Bosco.
“But I have given the Blessing of Mary Help of Christians many times with the same formula, and I have
never been able to do anything like this.”
Don Bosco replied: “It is because you haven’t faith.”
The Rector Major, Father Philip Rinaldi, in his first letter to all the Salesians, wrote: “Let it be the special
aim of every good son of Don Bosco to have a most tender and filial devotion to Mary Help of Christians.”
In his last letter to all the Salesians, Father Philip Rinaldi wrote: “How Mary loves us! How good the
Madonna is to us! It is easy to see that the Madonna is always our Mother! It is she who protects our
works! It is through her that our Congregation exists and prospers!”

Mary in the Life of Don Bosco

Like every saint and every apostle, Don Bosco was given to the Church and to mankind by God and by Our
Lady. In fact, in the life of St. John Bosco one finds the marvelous characteristic not found in the lives of
many saints, devoted as they were to Mary. That characteristic is the special guidance exercised by the
Mother of God in directing Don Bosco to fulfill the difficult task given to him for the salvation of souls,
particularly the souls of the young.

“The Madonna does whatever she wants,” said Don Bosco to the members of his Council. “For that matter,
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to the first of many dreams in which he received special light from Heaven and plentiful help in spiritual
matters for himself and his works.

“Mary was always my guide,” Don Bosco always repeated.

Sure of this, Father Michael Rua once told Father Vespignani, a newcomer to the Oratory: “Don't you know
that Don Bosco works hand in glove with the Madonna?”

Sr. Mary Mazzarello stated on a certain occasion: “If Don Bosco says so, it is the Madonna who has spoken
to him.”
For that matter, it was Don Bosco himself who confided to Bishop Costamagna: “Of all the congregations
and religious orders, ours is perhaps the one that has been most favored with the word of God.”

Father Julius Barberis once spoke to Don Bosco about his dreams, mentioning those which had reference to
the progress of the Congregation, and to the spreading over it of the Madonna’s mantle. Don Bosco referred
to several dreams of that nature. Then, he suddenly became grave and almost troubled, saying: “When I
think of my responsibility, of the position I hold, it makes me tremble all over ... What an account I shall
have to render to God for all the graces He confers on us for the good or our Congregation!”

In 1885, after the official communication of the appointment of Father Rua as Vicar General of the Salesian
Congregation, Don Bosco spoke. He said that the Salesians owe everything to Mary, and that all our
greatest events began and were fulfilled on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception. He described the state
of the Oratory forty-four years before, comparing it with that of the present day. He reminded the Salesians
that all the blessings bestowed on us from Heaven carne by means of Our Lady, and were the fruit of that
first Hail Mary recited with fervor and sincerity with the boy, Bartholomew Garelli, in the church of St.
Francis of Assisi on December 8, 1841. Don Bosco finished his talk by saying that our Congregation was
destined for great things, and was to spread throughout the world, if the Salesians were faithful to the Rule
given them by Mary Most Holy.

On December 8, 1887, the last Feast of the Immaculate Conception which Don Bosco celebrated on earth,
he called Father Viglietti and told him:

“Take pen and paper and write what I dictate.” This is what he dictated: “The exact words the Immaculate
Virgin said to me last night when she appeared to me: ‘It is pleasing to God and to the Blessed Virgin Mary
that the sons of St. Francis de Sales go to open a house in Liege in honor of the Blessed Sacrament. Here
began the glories of Jesus publicly, and here they must spread these glories to all their families, and
especially among the many young people who, in the various parts of the world, are and will be entrusted to
their care. The day of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, 1887.’”

Here Don Bosco stopped. He cried and sobbed as he dictated. Emotion moved him even afterward. Bishop
John Cagliero entered, and Don Bosco told Father Viglietti to read him the heavenly message. At the end of
their conversation, Don Bosco uttered the well-known words: “Up to now we have walked on sure ground.
We cannot make a mistake; it is Mary who guides us.”

Even on his deathbed, Don Bosco insisted: “The help of God and of Mary will not fail you ... I recommend
devotion to Mary Help of Christians and frequent Holy Communion ... If only you knew how many souls
Mary Help of Christians wishes to save through the Salesians!”

Spread Devotion to Mary Help of Christians

Among Don Bosco’s recommendations to the missionaries is: “Constantly promote devotion to Mary Help
of Christians and to the Blessed Sacrament.” Whenever there was a danger or a special need in the Church,
Don Bosco recommended to his Salesians and boys to pray to Mary Help of Christians. For example, when
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Pope regarding the dogmatic definition of the Immaculate Conception, prayers were immediately begun in
the Oratory, for Don Bosco himself had a most ardent desire to see Mary honored with this new crown.

In the Swiss Canton of Ticino, Catholicism experienced anxious moments during the elections in 1877 and
in 1886. When Don Bosco heard about it, he ordered special prayers to Mary Help of Christians.

When carnival time carne, Don Bosco told the boys, “Whatever you do during this time, let it all be
directed to the honor and glory of Mary. What you do for her, offer it up also in suffrage for the souls in
Purgatory.” On some special feast he would tell the boys, “Tomorrow you must offer a splendid present to
Our Lady. Give her a soul from Purgatory. Go to Holy Communion and gain a plenary indulgence and ask
Mary to have released from Purgatory the soul most pleasing to her." Whenever the boys went home for the
holidays, Don Bosco would recommend devotion to Mary and complete trust in her for their spiritual and
temporal needs.

During novenas, triduums, feast days and on the 24 of each month, Don Bosco always recommended that
the Salesians and boys offer some special prayers to Mary, and often under the title of Help of Christians.
On more than one occasion, by various expressions, Don Bosco would say: “Make Mary known, and you
will see what miracles are.”

Whoever reads the biography of Don Bosco cannot help but be impressed by the influence Our Lady had
on his life and work. His devotion to her, the seed of which was sown by his own mother, grew apace with
his age and experience. Dreams and visions and voices were always the way Our Lady directed Don Bosco.

On May 16, 1887, two days after the Church of the Sacred Heart in Rome was consecrated, Don Bosco
offered Mass. During it he broke down in tears several times with great emotion as it vividly came home to
him how Our Lady had directed his life. Don Bosco declared, “We owe all our success to Mary... If the
Salesians and Daughters of Mary Help of Christians correspond faithfully to their vocations, you will be
able to see for yourselves the wonders that the Mother of God will perform by their means.”

As Father Peter Ricaldone, Don Bosco’s fourth successor as Rector Major, wrote, “We Salesians must seek
the secret of all our success in constant and filial devotion to her, whom our holy founder proclaimed to be
‘The Foundress and support of our work.’”

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Chapter 3 – Early Fruits of the Salesians: Dominic Savio


An Exceptional Meeting

Early on the morning of the first Monday of October in 1854, a young boy is walking with his father
toward Don Bosco, who was in the town of Murialdo on an excursion with some of his students from
Turin. The boy’s bright smile and respectful tone immediately impressed the priest.

“Who are you?” asked Don Bosco. “Where are you from?”

“'I'm Dominic Savio. I come from Mondonio. This is my father. My teacher, Father Cugliero, told you
about me.”

Taking Dominic aside, Don Bosco asked about his school work and his life at home. As Don Bosco was
about to call the boy’s father, Dominic asked, “What do you say, Father? Will you take me to Turin with
you to study?”

“Well, you look like good material to me!” “Good material, Father? Good for what?”

“To make a beautiful garment for the Lord, son.”

“Then take me with you, Father. You be the tailor, and I'll be the cloth. Make of me a beautiful garment for
Our Lord.”

'”I’m a bit afraid that your health may not hold up under the strain of study.”

“Don't worry about that, Father. God has given me health and strength so far, and He won’t fail me in the
future.”

“What do you want to do when you finish your studies?” “If God gives me grace, I very much want to be a
priest.”

“Fine! Now let’s see how quick you are at learning. Take this book [an issue of the Catholic Readings] and
see if you can learn this page by heart. Come back tomorrow and recite it to me.”

Don Bosco sent Dominic off to join the other boys who were playing, and then he turned to have a word
with his father. To Don Bosco’s surprise, Dominic returned in eight minutes. Smiling, he said, “I can recite
it now if you want me to, Father!”

To the amazement of Don Bosco, Dominic learned the passage by heart and also understood its meaning
quite well.

“Very good,” said Don Bosco. “Since you have anticipated my wishes, I will anticipate the answer. You
may come to Turin with me. From now on you are one of my boys. Pray for both of us that we may do
God’s will.

Overjoyed and grateful beyond words, Dominic took Don Bosco’s hand and said, “I hope to behave so well
that you will never regret my conduct!”

Off, then, to Don Bosco’s school in Turin went Dominic Savio. It was early October 1854. He was twelve-
and-a-half years old.

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Who was Dominic Savio

On a beautiful spring day, April 2, 1842, in the hamlet of Riva, two miles from the town of Chieri, in
Piedmont, northern Italy, Dominic Savio was born. He was the second of eleven children born to Charles
and Brigid Savio, who were poor, hard-working, pious people. The father was a blacksmith.

Dominic was a remarkable boy, a real boy among boys, and in a true sense an apostle among his
companions and friends. He felt the surge of anger and the attraction of the good things in life, but he knew
how to control the rebellion of nature against its Maker.
Young Dominic was unusually bright and good for his age. Therefore, the pastor, Father John Zucca, of the
town of Murialdo, decided to admit him to first Holy Communion when he was only seven years old. This
was very remarkable in an age when it was the norm to put off first Communion until the child was eleven
or twelve.

Death but Not Sin

It was a fervent Communion the boy made. At that time he formed the program of his whole life. It
comprised four resolutions:

I will go to Confession and Communion as often as my confessor will allow.


1 will sanctify Sundays and holy days in a special way.
Jesus and Mary will be my friends.
Death but not sin.

This last resolution was ever before him, and he kept it faithful.

Toughening Up

Imagine a boy of ten trudging a total of twelve miles to and from school every day for a whole school year.
That’s what Dominic Savio did, because the school he attended was three miles away from home, and he
had to go and come twice a day. On one very hot day an elderly man met the boy and asked, “Aren't you
afraid to walk so far alone on this country road?”

'”I’m not alone,” replied Dominic. “I have my guardian angel with me at every step.” “But surely you find
the journey long and tiresome in this very hot weather!”

“Nothing seems tiresome or painful when you are working for a Master who pays well.” “And who is your
master?”
“He is God, our Creator, who rewards even a cup of cold water given for love of Him.”

This long walk every day, however, took its toll on young Dominic’s health. Therefore, the next year his
parents decided to move from Murialdo to another village called Mondonio.

In the school at Mondonio an incident occurred which nearly cost Dominic his good reputation. One day a
serious offense was committed by a certain pupil who, if discovered, would be expelled. The culprit’s
scheme threw all the blame on eleven-year-old Dominic Savio. Next day the class received a scolding.
Dominic was singled out as a culprit who deserved to be expelled, but since it was his first offense he was
to be pardoned, but never again.

The boy made no reply but stood hanging his head. However, the real guilty boy was soon discovered.
Regretting his previous harsh words, the teacher asked Dominic why he had not defended himself.

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His answer came slowly but simply: “I knew that the guilty fellow was already under threat of expulsion
for other things, but I hoped to be forgiven since it would be my first offense. I also remembered how Our
Lord had been unjustly accused.”

Some months afterward, in October of 1854, the parish priest arranged the meeting between Dominic Savio
and Don Bosco, and that famous conversation took place.

Dominic Starts at Don Bosco’s School

When he entered Don Bosco’s office for the first time, Dominic noticed an ornamented placard hanging on
the wall. It read, DA MIHI ANIMAS; CAETERA TOLLE.

“What’s the meaning of those words, Father?”

The priest’s heart leaped with joy. It was exactly what he wished. “And I longed that he would understand
the meaning,” wrote Don Bosco.

“That's my motto, Dominic. It means: GIVE ME SOULS; TAKE AWAY ALL ELSE.”
“Ah! I understand, Father. Here the aim is not money but souls. That’s what I want to do, save my soul.
Help me, won’t you, Father?”

At that moment the seed of a new type of holiness was sown in Dominic’s soul. His would no longer
remain a merely personal holiness, but it would begin to be active and communicative. The boy had begun
to understand, and he would understand more and more as time went on. Meanwhile, Don Bosco patiently
and prudently awaited occasions for forming his young pupil more and more.

Goodness, by its nature, is communicative. God is infinitely good, and He has communicated some of His
goodness to all created things and people. In the history of humanity nothing appears so communicative as
sanctity. Henri Bergson, an outstanding philosopher, studied this phenomenon and was so impressed that he
asserted there is no argument which more conclusively proves the presence of God in the world than the
beneficent dynamism of the saints of the Church. St. John Bosco, the teacher and guide of Dominic Savio,
illustrates this truth admirably. Don Bosco was so engrafted in Christ, the Vine, that Pope Pius XI
characterized him as “Union with God.” Don Bosco imbibed his goodness and apostolic spirit directly from
Christ, and young Dominic imbibed the same spirit through his master, Don Bosco.

December 8, 1854

At the time Dominic entered the Salesian school in Turin, the whole Catholic world was awaiting the
proclamation of the dogma of Our Lady’s Immaculate Conception. Under Don Bosco’s saintly direction the
boys were keenly aware of the coming event. The atmosphere in the school was vibrating with an
enthusiasm that only a very devout son of Mary, such as Don Bosco was, could arouse.

Upon Don Bosco’s suggestion, in the evening of that memorable December 8, 1854, Dominic went to Our
Lady’s altar in the school chapel. There he offered himself, body and soul, to the Immaculate Mother of
God, and he renewed the four resolutions of his first Holy Communion, especially the last, DEATH BUT
NOT SIN!

“From that day onward,” wrote Don Bosco, “Dominic made such evident progress in virtue that I began to
write down everything I noticed about him.”

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Dominic’s Great Desire

The next forward step in Dominic Savio’s ascent to holiness was taken on the second Sunday of Lent,
1855. Don Bosco gave the boys a talk in chapel on how necessary and easy it is to become a saint. Dominic
was profoundly impressed and began to think most seriously about it. He even seemed to be worrying
himself sick. In a few days Don Bosco asked him if something was bothering him, if he was suffering some
illness.

“On the contrary, Don Bosco! I am suffering something good. I have an intense longing to become a saint.
Your sermon last Sunday..."

The master seized the occasion. “Dominic, begin by saying all your prayers devoutly. Perform all your
duties exactly, and always be cheerful. The Lord loves a cheerful giver.” Dominic obeyed.

But, in his eagerness to advance in holiness, Dominic began to put pieces of wood or small stones in his
bed and would use insufficient blankets. When Don Bosco found that out, he quickly stopped him and
advised his pupil again that he could become a saint by always being cheerful and by fulfilling perfectly all
his duties.

The wise touch of Don Bosco was molding his pupil with the same delicacy that the hand of the sculptor
forms his masterpiece. Before sending Dominic into the apostolate of action, Don Bosco points out to him
the apostolate of good example, the exact fulfillment of duties, and a happy, serene disposition. Don Bosco
knew that a boy of edifying conduct is already an apostle, but he also knew that among youth, an apostolate
without serenity and cheerfulness cannot be effective.

Sometime later Dominic again went to Don Bosco and unburdened is continued intense longing to become
a saint. At this point the master revealed to him, without beating about the bush, the great secret, that of his
own sanctity: “Dominic, you must dedicate yourself to gain souls for God.”

That did it.

Dominic’s Work at Apostleship

During the next two years Dominic climbed from virtue to virtue. He became a heroic apostle of charity,
meekness, and purity among his companions. St. John Bosco, his confessor, spiritual director and master,
recorded numerous examples and anecdotes which reveal young Dominic’s virtues.

Does an argument arise among his companions? Dominic calms the boys and settles the dispute. Does a
smutty paper or magazine get into the school? Dominic destroys it in front of his offending companions.

“What's the idea, Savio? That's mine, “says one of the boys. “You should be ashamed, Carlo!”

“Well, what have you got eyes for anyway?”

“To see the beautiful face of God and of His Blessed Mother, should I get to heaven.”

Does some boy remain away from Confession and Communion too long? Dominic sidles over to him
during a game and extracts a promise to go with him to Confession come Saturday. Saturday comes, but the
fellow doesn't show up. When they meet again Dominic says, “Ah, you disappointed me. You didn't keep
your promise.” An excuse follows.

“That's one of the devil’s tricks,” answers Savio. The boy goes to Confession and later tells Savio how glad
he is for following his advice, and that he will go frequently in the future.

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One day Dominic offered a friendly correction to a companion. The boy forgot that this was an act of
kindness and answered with insults and struck and kicked Dominic. Being older and bigger than his
offender, Dominic could easily have retaliated with interest. “But,” wrote Don Bosco, “he sought no
revenge save that of Christian charity.” At first Dominic became red in the face, and then stifling all feeling
of resentment, he replied, ‘I forgive you, if you have done wrong. But don’t try that sort of behavior on
others.’”

“Examples such as these of Dominic’s mortification, charity, self-forgetfulness, humility, can easily be
multiplied, for they were part of Dominic’s very life,” wrote St. John Bosco of his heroic pupil-apostle. So
active and effective was Dominic’s apostolate among his companions that Don Bosco remarked, “Dominic
catches more fish with his little stratagems than many preachers do with their sermons.”

The Peacemaker

Dominic often broke up fights and hatreds that were becoming dangerous. On one occasion two boys had
decided to have a stone battle to the finish. The reason was that one boy had insulted the family of the
other.

The two boys became so enraged that the only way they could think of settling the affair was to fight to the
end with stones. They were to meet in the lot about a ten minute walk from the school.

Dominic Savio learned about the coming fight and spoke to the boys, both of whom were older and bigger
than he. In spite of all his entreaties and advice, they would not change their minds.

After school Dominic met them again and said, “Since you persist in this insane and sinful quarrel, I ask
you to accept one condition.”

“All right, as long as you don't try to stop the fight.”

“He is a good-for-nothing bum!” shouted one boy, and the other spit back. “I won’t be quiet till I split his
skull!”

Dominic shuddered at the threats, but to check a greater evil, he continued, “What I ask won't stop the
fight.”

“Well, what is it?”

“I’ll tell you when we get there.”

“You’re trying to trick us!”

“No, I’m not! I’ll be with you all the time.” “Then you're going to call somebody.”

“I should, but I won’t. Let’s go! I’m coming along. But you must give me your word!”

They did so, and off they went to the open lot. Dominic had all he could do to keep them from fighting on
the way. When they arrived, Dominic did something the other two had not bargained for. He waited till
they paced off their positions, each picking five stones. Then he spoke.

“Before you start,” he said, “you must keep your promise!” Taking out a small crucifix which he used to
wear around his neck, Dominic held it up.

“You have to look at this crucifix,” he said, “and you have to throw the first stone at me and say, ‘Jesus was
innocent and died forgiving his murderers but I am a sinner, and I’m going to offend him by bloody
revenge!’”

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He strode up to the angrier boy, knelt before him and said, “You start! Throw the first stone at me! Aim for
my head!”

Taken by surprise, the boy began to tremble. “No!” he protested. “Never! I have no grudge against you. I'll
even defend you if anyone hits you!”

Dominic ran up to the other boy. He too was astonished and assured Dominic he was his friend and meant
him no harm. Then Dominic stood up. Looking at them sternly, he said with great emotion:

“You are both ready to face danger to save me, and I mean nothing to you! Yet, to save your own souls, for
which Christ died, you can’t even overlook a stupid remark made at school! You will lose your souls by
this sin!”

“At that moment,” one of them later admitted, “all my determination broke down and a cold chill ran
through me. I hated myself for having forced a good friend like Dominic to go to such lengths to keep us
from sin. To show my regret, I forgave the boy who had insulted me and asked Dominic to tell me of some
good priest who would hear my confession.”

Love for Our Lady

Dominic had a special love for the Immaculate Heart of Mary. When in church he always knelt before her
altar, begging her for the grace of keeping his heart free from every impure desire. “Mary,” he would pray,
“I always want to be your son. Let me die rather than commit a single sin against chastity.”

Every Friday he found a few minutes during recreation to go to the chapel with some friends and recite the
Seven Sorrows of Mary or the Litany of the Sorrowful Virgin. Not content with his own devotion to Our
Lady, he was only too happy to get some schoolmate to offer her a prayer. One Saturday, for example, he
invited a companion to recite Our Lady’s Vespers with him, but the lad tried to get out of it by pleading
that his hands were cold. Dominic took off his own gloves and gave them to him. Another time he lent his
coat to a boy to have him go to church with him for a few moments.

Dominic drew up an interesting set of stories about our Lady to tell his schoolmates and kindle their
devotion. He often dropped a good hint now and then to get someone to go to confession and Communion
in her honor, and he was the first to set the example.

A pleasant episode bears out his tender love for Mary. The boys of his dormitory had decided to set up a
little shrine to Our Lady at their own expense so as to keep the month of May. Dominic was very excited
about it, but when he found out how much it would cost, he exclaimed, “What can I do? I haven’t a cent!”
Then he had an idea. He got a book he once received as a prize and, giving it to the boys, said, “Now I can
do my share for Mary! Take this book and sell it!” The others were so impressed that they too got books
and things and had a little raffle to pay for their project.

After they bought the decorations they began setting up the shrine, but by the eve of Mary’s feast they had
not yet finished. “I’ll stay up all night to get things ready,” volunteered Dominic. But his friends knew that
he was still recovering from a recent illness and made him go to bed. “All right,” he agreed, “but when you
finish, wake me up. I want to be among the first to see our shrine to Mary!”

Dominic’s Lasting Tribute

About ten months before his death, with a strange but sure presentiment of that approaching end, he
confided to Don Bosco: “Father, I desire to do something for Mary. But I must do it at once, for I fear that
should I wait, it will be too late.”

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Therefore, to achieve his great desire of gaining his companions for God and of his desire to do something
for Our Lady, what did he do? He created, with Don Bosco’s approval, a sodality which had as its object to
promote devotion to Mary, in order to obtain her protection in life and especially at death, and also to
promote frequent Confession and Communion. Dominic called it the Sodality of the Immaculate
Conception. On June 8, 1856, nine months before his death, Dominic had all the rules approved by Don
Bosco, and the first members were enrolled. The Sodality still exists in some Salesian schools and produces
great good among the students.

If we put the founding of the Immaculate Conception Sodality by Dominic Savio together with the
apostolic direction that his holiness received from Don Bosco, it becomes clear that devotion to Mary, in
the minds of both saints, was to be translated into the active apostolate of that motto: GIVE ME SOULS;
TAKE AWAY ALL ELSE. Truly, this is real Marian devotion, for the mission of Our Blessed Mother is to
bring Jesus to the world and the world to Jesus. Consequently the Church invokes Mary as Queen of
Apostles.

Eucharistic Devotion

Before going to Don Bosco’s Oratory, Dominic used to go to confession and Communion once a month, as
was the practice in the schools. But when he heard Don Bosco tell the boys, “If you want to keep on the
path to Heaven, do three things: go to Confession regularly, receive Communion often, and choose a steady
confessor to whom you can unburden your heart and whom you will not change without necessity.”

Dominic observed that advice diligently. But his great love was for the Eucharist. At first he went to
Confession and Communion every two weeks, then every week. Observing his spiritual progress, his
confessor (Don Bosco) advised him to go to Communion three times a week and by year’s end every day.
Dominic placed unlimited confidence in his confessor, sometimes speaking to him of his spiritual problems
even outside of Confession. No one could induce him to change confessors. But when his regular confessor
advised him to go to another priest, especially during a retreat, Dominic promptly obeyed.

Dominic was a happy student. “When I am at all worried,” he would say, “I go to my confessor, and he
tells me what God wants me to do, because our Lord tells us that the confessor speaks as God's own voice.

Then if I want something important, I go to Communion. What else do I need to be happy?” This accounts
for his deep contentment and the joy that shone through his behavior.

His preparation for Communion was thorough and devout. The night before, on going to bed, he offered a
special prayer with the aspiration, “Blessed and praised every moment be the most holy and divine
Sacrament!” In the morning he gave himself enough time for preparation. But his thanksgiving knew no
bounds. Very often, unless he were reminded, he would forget all about breakfast and recreation and
school, so intent was he in his prayer and in contemplating God’s goodness.

To spend time in adoration before the Blessed Sacrament was his delight, and he made at least one visit a
day, taking other boys with him. No act of devotion and respect with regard to the Blessed Sacrament was
too much for Dominic Savio. If he met a priest carrying Viaticum to the sick, he at once knelt in the street,
and if he had time he went with the priest to the house. Once, while it was raining and the streets were
muddy, finding no dry spot, Dominic promptly knelt in a puddle. A boy who was with him objected, “You
didn’t have to dirty your clothes! Our Lord does not ask that much!”

“My knees and clothes belong to God and should do Him service,” was the reply. “When he passes by I
will gladly kneel in the mud to pay Him homage! I would even throw myself into a furnace to share in the
infinite love that made Him institute this Sacrament!”

On a similar occasion, he noticed a soldier who, not wishing to dirty his trousers merely stood at attention
as the Blessed Sacrament passed by. Dominic hesitated to correct him, and so he spread his handkerchief

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over the dirty cobblestones and motioned to the soldier to kneel on it. Taken aback, the soldier hastily knelt
on the bare street.

On the feast of Corpus Christi, Dominic was told he could dress as an altar boy and join in the parish
Eucharistic procession. He went gladly, saying it was the best favor anyone could do him.

Favors from Heaven

Don Bosco himself was an eyewitness to extraordinary events concerning Dominic Savio. Don Bosco
wrote, “I am recording things I have seen with my own eyes. I assure you I am adhering strictly to truth.
The reader is free to form his own considered opinion.”

Several times, particularly on days when Dominic received Communion or when the Blessed Sacrament
was exposed, he appeared to be rapt in ecstasy, so much so that he would remain in church indefinitely,
unless someone called him for his regular duties.

One day Dominic was missing from breakfast, from class, and from lunch. No one knew where he was. On
being informed, Don Bosco guessed that he was in church as he had been at other times. His guess was
right. He went into the sanctuary behind the main altar. There was Dominic, standing as immovable as a
rock. One foot was over the other; one hand rested on a bookstand, the other was pressed against his heart.
His face was fixed toward the tabernacle. He did not flutter an eyelash. Don Bosco called him. No answer.
He shook him. Dominic looked at Don Bosco and asked, “Is Mass over already?”

Dominic apologized for breaking a school rule. Don Bosco then sent him for something to eat, adding, “If
anyone asks where you were, say you were carrying out an order of mine.” Thus he would not be
embarrassed by questions from classmates.

Another day, Don Bosco just finished his thanksgiving after Mass and was about to leave the sacristy when
he heard someone talking in the sanctuary. Upon investigating, he found Dominic alternately speaking and
then listening, as in conversation. Among other things, Don Bosco heard Dominic say, “Yes, my God, I
have said it before, and I will keep on saying it-I love You and I want to love You till death. If you see that
I am about to commit a sin, make me die first! Yes, death first, but not sin!”

At times Don Bosco asked Dominic what happened to him on such occasions. “I don’t know,” was his
answer. “I get distracted and lose track of my prayer, and then I see such wonderful things that the hours fly
by like seconds!”

One day Dominic dashed into Don Bosco’s room saying, “Hurry, Father, come with me! You have
important work to do!”

“Where?” asked Don Bosco.

“Don’t waste time!” he urged.

With Dominic’s insistence, Don Bosco agreed to go with him. They left the house, hurried down one street,
into another, and up a third, without saying a word, and then into another street. They hurried along a line
of tenements, and finally Dominic stopped before one. He ran up the stairs to the third floor with Don
Bosco following. Dominic stopped at one door, rang the bell, and told Don Bosco, “Here!” He then dashed
back down into the street.

The door of the apartment opened, and a woman stood before Don Bosco. “Hurry!” cried the woman.
“There’s little time. My husband is dying. He left the Church, but now he wants to die a good Catholic!”
The man made his peace with God and died.

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Days later, Don Bosco asked Dominic how he knew about that dying man. His face clouded over with a
look of distress, and tears came to his eyes. Don Bosco did not insist.

“Innocence of life,” wrote Don Bosco, “love of God, and the desire of Heaven had so elevated his soul that
he could be said to be living always absorbed in God.”

Sometimes he would stop playing, gaze off into the distance, and begin walking alone. On being asked why
he had left the game, he would say, “Those distractions come over me, and Heaven seems to open up above
me, and I have to walk away so as not to say things the boys will laugh at.”

Dominic often spoke of the Pope and expressed the wish to see him before dying, hinting that he had
something important to tell him. Since he kept repeating this, Don Bosco asked him what was this
important thing he had to tell the Holy Father.

“If I could talk to the Pope,” he replied, “I would tell him that in the midst of all his troubles he must not
cease to take special care of England. God is preparing a great triumph for the Catholic Church there!”

“How do you know?” Don Bosco asked.


“I’ll tell you,” he answered, “but don't repeat it to others because they may tease me. If you go to Rome, tell
it to Pius IX.

“One morning, as I was making my thanksgiving after Communion, a strong distraction came over me. I
seemed to be on a very vast plain, full of people blanketed in a heavy fog. They were moving about,
floundering in the dark. ‘This is England,’ someone nearby told me. I was just about to ask questions when
I saw Pope Pius IX, majestically dressed, as I have seen him in pictures. Bearing a bright torch in his hands,
he strode through that immense throng of people. As he walked, the fog cleared in the light of his torch, and
people could be seen in clear daylight. ‘This torch,’ I was told, is the Catholic faith which must bring light
to the English people.’”

When Don Bosco went to Rome in 1858, he gave Dominic’s message to Pope Pius IX. He listened with
kindly interest. “This encourages me,” said the Pope, “to continue working energetically for England, in
which I have already shown greatest interest. If nothing more, it is the advice of a good soul.”

Favors from Our Lady

Dominic’s sister, Theresa, testified that on the morning of September 12, 1856, Dominic rushed to Don
Bosco’s room.

“My mother is very sick, and Our Lady wants to cure her.”

“How do you know?”

“I just know, that's all.”

“Has someone written to you?”

“No, but I know just the same.”

Don Bosco gave him permission because, as he later told Mr. Savio, “When your son insists on anything, I
do well to agree with him.”

Don Bosco gave Dominic fare for the coach to Chieri and then a carriage to Mondonio. On his way the boy
met his father, who was hastening for a doctor.

“What are you doing here?” he asked his son.

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'”I’m going to see mother. She’s very sick.”

“Go to grandma’s!” insisted Mr. Savio and rushed on. Dominic ran home.

Mrs. Savio was in labor. The neighboring women were doing what they could for her but were fast losing
hope. Dominic suddenly rushed into the house. Disregarding the objections of the women he ran upstairs to
his mother, saying, “I know she’s sick. That’s why I came!” His mother was alone.

“What are you doing here?” she asked.

“I found out that you were sick, and I came to see you.”

Forcing herself to sit up, she replied, “Oh, it’s nothing. Go downstairs, or go next door. I’ll call you later.”

“I’ll go, Mom, but first I want to hug you!”

He quickly embraced his mother and kissed her. Then he left the house and returned immediately to Turin.
A few minutes later Mrs. Savio’s labor pains reached their climax and subsided. It was at five that evening
that Dominic’s baby sister, Catherine, was born. By the time Mr. Savio returned with a doctor the birth was
over.

The women who assisted Mrs. Savio noticed she was wearing a green scapular. Not having seen it before
while they were nursing her, they inquired where she obtained it. She too was surprised but then replied,
“Now I know why Dominic wanted to hug me before leaving, and why I have been safely delivered and
cured. He must have put this scapular on me as he embraced me, because I've never had one like this
before.”

On his return to the Oratory, the only answer Dominic gave Don Bosco was, “My mother is cured. Our
Lady, whom I put about her neck, has cured her.”

That same scapular later saved the life of Theresa herself in similar condition, as well as the lives of several
women. While Dominic was at home, during his last illness, he one day told his mother as he embraced her,
“Do you remember the time I came to see you when you were very sick and I left a scapular about your
neck? That’s what cured you. Take good care of it and lend it to other women in the same condition. As it
saved you, it will save them. Only, please don’t ever ask for anything in return.”

The scapular, however, was lost. “I had very many requests for this miraculous scapular,” testified Theresa.
“It was lent to many women in labor who were in danger of death. To my regret, it was never returned to
me.”

Time is Running Out

In the school of Don Bosco, and in all Salesian schools, a monthly Exercise For A Good Death was held.
Pius IX had enriched the practice with indulgences. Dominic always carried it out with great devotion. At
the end of the prayers an Our Father and Hail Mary were recited “for the one among us who shall be the
first to die.” One time Dominic playfully remarked, “Don’t say ‘for the one among us’. Just say for
Dominic Savio, who will be the first among us to die.’”

At the end of April 1856, Dominic went to Don Bosco and asked how he should spend the month of May in
honor of Our Lady.

“Do your duties carefully,” said Don Bosco. “Speak of Mary to your companions every day, and behave so
well that you can receive Communion every day.”

“I will, Father - very carefully. Now, what favor shall I ask for?”

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“Ask Our Lady for health and the favor of becoming a saint.”
“Yes, to become a saint and to die a happy death and have her help in my last moments and be taken by her
to Heaven!”

Dominic showed great fervor that month. He wrote about Mary, he spoke of her, everything he did was for
her-studying, singing, going to school. Every day he made sure he had some little incident about Our Lady
to tell his friends.

One day a boy asked him, “What are you going to do next year if you do all this now?”

“Let me worry about that,” Dominic answered. “I’ll do all I can now. Next year, if I’m alive, I’ll tell you
what I’ll do.”

Since Dominic began showing signs of failing health, Don Bosco called in several doctors. All admired his
lightheartedness, bright wit and quick responses. Doctor Vallauri examined him and remarked to Don
Bosco, “What a fine treasure you have in this boy!”

“But what is causing him to fail so quickly day by day?” asked Don Bosco.

“His bodily frame is weak, and his mind is developed beyond his age. He is under constant spiritual
pressure. All this just eats away his strength.”

“What remedy can we use?”

“The best thing would be to let him go to Heaven because he seems so well-prepared. However, the only
remedy that can prolong his life is to relieve him of his studies completely for some time and just give him
little odd jobs that will not tire him.”

Last Days at the Oratory

Dominic’s weakness was not such as to keep him always in bed. Some days he went to school or to the
study hall, or he would do some little chores. Though his health kept becoming worse, Dominic did not
want to go home, because it meant breaking off his studies and regular practices of piety.

Some months before, Don Bosco had sent him home, but he returned to the Oratory after a few days. Don
Bosco admitted that he was just as sorry as Dominic that he had to go home. But the doctors had advised
that he go home, and Don Bosco was determined to obey them, all the more so because he noticed of late
that Dominic had contracted a persistent cough.
The boy’s father was notified, and it was arranged that Dominic should leave the Oratory on March 1,
1857. Dominic bowed to the decision, but only at a sacrifice.

“Why are you so sorry to go home?” asked Don Bosco. “You should be glad to be with your parents
again.”

“I want to end my days at the Oratory,” he replied.

“You will go home for a while, and, when you are better, you can come back.” “No, Father, no! I’ll go, but
I’ll never come back!”

The night before he left, he refused to budge from Don Bosco’s side, looking for all sorts of questions to
ask. “What can a sick boy do to gain merit before God?”

“Offer God your sufferings.”

“Will I be able to see my parents and friends from Heaven?”

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“Yes, you will be able to see everything at the Oratory and your parents. You will know everything that
concerns them, and so many other wonderful things besides.”

“Can I visit them sometimes?”

“If such visits are for God’s glory, yes.”

Dominic kept asking many, many other questions like these. On the morning of his departure from the
Oratory, Dominic made the Exercise For A Good Death with his companions. With great devotion he went
to Confession and Communion.

He spent the rest of the morning packing and said goodbye to his friends, to one of whom he paid back two
cents he owed the boy, saying, “Let's get this fixed, so I won’t have to worry about it when I present my
accounts to God.” He spoke to the boys of the Immaculate Conception Sodality, insisting that they be
faithful to their promises to Mary and to place the utmost confidence in her.

Before leaving, he told Don Bosco, “Since you don’t want this poor body of mine, I’ll have to take it back
to Mondonio. But it would have burdened you only a few days, and all would soon be over. But God’s will
be done! If you go to Rome remember what I asked you to tell the Pope about England. Pray that I may die
well. Goodbye till we meet in Heaven.”

As they approached the gate to the main road, Dominic was holding on to Don Bosco’s hand. He turned to
his companions.

“Goodbye. Pray for me. We'll see each other where we will always be with God.” Upon reaching the gate,
Dominic turned back and asked Don Bosco, “Will you give me a present to remember you?”

“How about a book?”

“No, I want something better.”

“Do you want money for your trip?”

“Yes, that’s it – money for my trip to eternity. You told me once that the Pope had granted you plenary
indulgences for the hour of death. Put my name among those who can gain that indulgence.”

“Gladly, my boy. You can consider yourself in that number now. I’ll put your name on the list right away.”

Dominic then walked out of the Oratory. It was two o’ clock in the afternoon of March first. He had lived
there almost three years to his great joy, and to the edification of both schoolmates and superiors. He was
never to return.

Dominic’s Final Days

For the first four days at home Dominic was doing well and did not remain in bed. Then he became weaker,
his appetite failed, and his cough became worse. Upon examination by the doctor, it was found that the
boy’s illness was much worse than it seemed. Thinking that Dominic had an infection, the doctor used the
accepted remedy of the time bleeding. Dominic was bled several times. He seemed to rally.

However, Dominic asked to have the priest hear his Confession and to give him Communion. This request
pained his parents, but to please him they called in the pastor who confessed him and gave him Viaticum.
Dominic then recalled the resolutions at his first Communion. Several times he repeated, “Jesus, Mary!
Yes, you will always be my friends! I say it again and again – death but not sin!”
After four days, the doctor had good news for the parents. “Thank God,” he said. “We are past danger. The
sickness is beaten. All he needs now is rest.”

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They were overjoyed at the news. Dominic smiled and said, “The world is beaten. All I need now is a
careful appearance before God!”

After the doctor left, without being misled by the good news, Dominic asked for the Anointing of the Sick.
To please him, his parents agreed. On being anointed he prayed: “My God, forgive me my sins. I love You
and I want to love You forever. May this Sacrament, which You are letting me receive in your infinite
mercy, cancel all the sins I have committed by sight and hearing, by my mouth, hands, and feet. May my
body and soul be sanctified by the merits of Your holy passion! Amen.” Dominic's mind was so clear and
his voice so loud, that one would think he was just fine.

Well Done, Good and Faithful Servant

It was the night of March 9th, the last day of Dominic’s life. He had been bled ten times and other remedies
had been tried. He was so very weak, and the Papal Blessing was given to him. He was deeply consoled on
realizing that he was receiving the Pope’s blessing and a plenary indulgence. He kept repeating, “Thanks be
to God!”

No one but Dominic himself could have suspected he was so close to death. An hour and a half before he
died, the pastor came to see him, and, noting how calmly he rested, was surprised to hear him recommend
his soul to God. The boy kept praying in long, drawn out sighs, showing how anxious he was to go swiftly
to eternity. After reciting a few prayers with Dominic, the pastor turned to leave.

“Please, Father,” called Dominic, “give me a little remembrance before you go.”

“What remembrance can I leave you?”

“A word of comfort!”

“I know of nothing better than to recall the Passion of Christ.”

“Thanks be to God!” Dominic answered.

He then opened his eyes, looked at his parents, and gasped, “Dad, it’s time! Take my prayer book and read
for me the prayers for a good death!”

For a while he seemed to be resting. Then slowly he awoke. Smiling, he said clearly, “Goodbye, dad,
goodbye! The pastor wanted to tell me something else, but I can't remember… Oh, what a beautiful sight I
see!”

This detailed account of Dominic’s last days and his edifying death is not pious embellishment. The one
who kept the Oratory informed, wrote Father Michael Rua, was Dominic’s pastor.

Visions Beautiful

Soon after his death, Dominic appeared to his distraught father. After verifying it was his son, Charles
Savio said, “Oh, my dear boy! How wonderful you look! Why, I scarcely know what to say! Are you in
Heaven?”

“Yes, dad, I am in Heaven.”

“Will you pray for us, for mother and me?”

“Yes, I will pray for you!”

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With that the vision faded.

But the most breathtaking apparition of Dominic was granted to Don Bosco on the night of December 6,
1876, nineteen years after Dominic’s death. The youth appeared radiant in glory to encourage and to advise
Don Bosco about the future of his work for boys. In that vision Don Bosco asked his pupil, “Dominic, what
gave you the most comfort at the hour of death?”

Back came the answer: “What comforted me most at the point of death was the assistance of the powerful
and loving Mother of God.” Very likely that is what caused the joyful outburst, “Oh, what a beautiful sight
I see.”

March 5th of the Holy Year 1950 saw the glorious Beatification of Dominic Savio by Pope Pius XII. It is a
curious coincidence that March 5, 1950, was the second Sunday of Lent, and it was the second Sunday of
Lent, 1855, that St. John Bosco gave the boys at the Oratory where Dominic Savio was a pupil, the sermon
on how easy it was to become a saint. Full recognition of Dominic Savio’s holiness came on June 12, 1954.
On that day, in ceremonies held at St. Peter's Basilica in Rome, Dominic was canonized a saint of the
Church.

Popes have said that Dominic Savio is a providential patron for our youth, particularly during the
dangerous years of pre-adolescence and early adolescence. If our boys and girls can be preserved and
strengthened during these difficult and important years, they will more surely be preserved during their
later teens. This is Dominic’s unique and God-given mission for youth.

DEATH BUT NOT SIN! That was Dominic’s lifelong motto. It can become the battle cry of our youth
today!

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Chapter 4 – The Salesian Family Today


The Missionary Thrust

As a young priest, Don Bosco had applied to be a missionary; but his seminary professor told him gently:
“Don Bosco, you can’t even take a coach ride without getting an upset stomach. How will you ever be a
missionary? No, you will not go; but you will send out many to preach and teach the word of God.”

In 1875, sixteen years after he founded the Salesian Society, he sent his first band of ten to begin mission
work in Argentina.

The last quarter of the nineteenth century saw a mighty wave of migration from Europe to Latin America.
Immigrants arrived in such great numbers that there were not enough churches and schools to attend to
their needs.

It was also a time of Indian wars as the land-hungry newcomers plunged into the interior of the continent,
pushing the native Indians off the land, not without bloody warfare.

The first ten Salesian missionaries left on the 11th of November, 1875, and reached Buenos Aires, where
they established their headquarters. They began to work immediately among the immigrants in the
impoverished quarter at the port known as “La Boca” (The Devil's Mouth).

Half the group headed south for Indian territory and were instrumental in helping bring about peace in the
war with the Indians.

Plunging southward across the vast Pampas, they finally reached the southern tip of the continent, the
“Tierra del Fuego” (The Land of Fire), at that time the haven of escaped convicts, smugglers and
international adventurers. A museum in Punta Arenas today houses memories of those early trials and
triumphs.

In the space of twenty years, they explored the country, established agricultural schools, cultivated vast
tracts of land, and spread the word of God. The missionaries’ advance was a succession of conquests,
sometimes paid for in their own blood.

They traveled across Patagonia and the Amazon basin. By the turn of the century, the Salesians were
working in almost every country in Latin America.

Salesians Serving the Youth Around the World Today

There are almost 40,000 Salesian Fathers, Brothers and Sisters working around the world in 120 countries.
From Sodertaije in Sweden, just below the Arctic Circle, to Ushuaia, just above the Antarctic Circle, from
New York to San Francisco, to Hong Kong and Bangkok, and on to Rangoon, Calcutta, Cairo and around
the world, they bring the care and concern of the many Salesian friends and supporters to over two million
boys and girls.

Salesians, “Signs and Bearers of God’s love for young people.”

St. John Bosco was a genius with young people, especially with those who were poor or in trouble. His one
great desire was to spend his whole life working with the young, and he achieved this with amazing
generosity, great daring, and inventiveness.

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Today’s Salesians try to continue his work – in schools, youth clubs, parishes, homes for young people in
need, and a great variety of activities, all geared towards helping the young to achieve happiness in this life
and the next.

Salesian lifestyle is both practical and academic, with great emphasis on experience of living in community
and working with young people.

The Salesian Family Today

It was Don Bosco himself who conceived the idea of the Salesian Family. Today it comprises over 30
groups, working in virtually every country in the world. To name but a few…

The Salesians of Don Bosco (SDB), Brothers and Priests, one of the largest religious institutes in the
Church, today work in more than 120 countries.

The Daughters of Mary Help of Christians (FMA), founded by Don Bosco in collaboration with St. Mary
Mazzarello, one of the largest women’s institutes in the Church, are a dynamic and qualified presence in
the challenging world of youth ministry.

The Don Bosco Volunteers (VDB), founded by Bl. Philip Rinaldi, is a secular institute of consecrated laity,
men and women, working in the spirit of Don Bosco.

The Salesian Cooperators are lay people and priests who live the Gospel in the world according to the spirit
of Don Bosco, at the service of youth and the local Church.

The Salesian Family can be found present each month in the pages of The Salesian Bulletin, a magazine
founded by Don Bosco in 1877, published today in more than 40 worldwide editions.

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Chapter 5 – The Salesian Cooperators


The Lay Apostolate

Saint John Bosco was ordained to the priesthood in 1841, and went to work in Turin, Italy. There, in the
midst of the city’s burgeoning prosperity, Don Bosco encountered the temporal and spiritual poverty of
thousands of forgotten young people; an ugly byproduct of the industrial revolution.

Don Bosco first gathered homeless boys together for honest recreation and Sunday Mass. Then he fed and
clothed them, offered them shelter, gave them job training, and deepened their knowledge and experience
of The Faith. Finally, he invited the best of them to follow him as religious in order to offer opportunities to
ever greater numbers of needy young people whom the world had abused and cast away. He called his
followers “Salesians” after the gentle St. Francis de Sales.

From the beginning of his efforts, Don Bosco regularly utilized committed lay helpers he called Salesian
Cooperators.

The special Salesian spirit taught by Don Bosco is made visible by its charity, youthful dynamism, service
to the Church, familial cordiality, joy and optimism.

The educational philosophy of Don Bosco can be condensed into three words: reason, religion, and
kindness. His system is planted firmly on Prayer, the Eucharist, and Reconciliation. In addition it has
considered Mary its model and inspiration, and has regarded youthful joyfulness and celebration as its
touchstone and finest flowering. In his system, it is not enough to love young people; they must know they
are loved.

Most importantly, it is a system based upon Jesus’ way of being and doing. Saint Paul urged his followers
to, “Be imitators of me as I am of Christ.” In the same manner, Don Bosco bids his Cooperators to live the
Salesian spirit which brings one ever closer to Mary, Help of Christians and her Son, Jesus Christ.

Salesian Cooperators are lay members of the Salesian Family. After a period of formation, Cooperators
promise to live Don Bosco's motto, “GIVE ME SOULS ...” which echoes the words of Christ on the cross,
“I Thirst”.

Sharing fully in Don Bosco’s mission, Cooperators, as their life’s circumstances allow, serve the young and
others in need. Any Roman Catholic at least 18 years of age may become a Cooperator.

Salesian Cooperators in the spirit of Saint John Bosco, live a rich, spiritual life, sharing Christ’s Love in
their daily activities, especially in the education and salvation of the young and the needy.

You are invited to be a part of this loving mission. Don Bosco’s rich legacy to his Salesian Family and to
the entire Church includes an apostolic mission, grounded in the Gospels, which leads those in need,
especially the young. In Pope John Paul II words “to see their daily activities as an occasion to join
themselves to God, fulfill His will, serve other people and lead them to communion with God in Christ.”

What follows is an abridgement of Saint John Bosco’s Rule for cooperators. The full text can be found at
page 85 of the “Salesian Cooperators’ Regulations of Apostolic Life” which is the present Rule (updated in
1986) and approved by Rome. Here I present what I consider essential for understanding the Spiritual
Mission that Don Bosco has bequeathed to us.

There are many Pious Associations in the Church which are doing much good work according to the spirit
of their founders. But Don Bosco wants his followers to be both holy and apostolic, Contemplatives in
Action, working closely with his Salesian Priests, Brothers and Sisters, from whom they can receive
spiritual nourishment and guidance for their work for the Church and society, especially for the young.

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Remember Don Bosco is looking for Cooperators so that the Priests can spend more time doing their
primary work; evangelizing and administering the Sacraments, especially Confession and the Eucharist.
One hundred years ago the “Church” initiated a program involving the laity in evangelizing and works of
charity. It was called “Catholic Action." The Salesian Cooperators were called to take leadership in the
movement.

St. John Bosco’s Practical Way of Leading a Life of Virtue

St. John Bosco to the Reader

Turin, 12 July 1876

“From the very beginning of the work at the Oratory in 1841, there were enthusiastic and capable priests
and laymen who came forward to help – for there was a great harvest to be reaped among boys in danger of
losing both faith and morals. These co-helpers, or Cooperators, were to be found throughout our history to
support and sustain the works God gave us to do. All endeavored to work and fit into our way of life and
customs , but there was a general request for a set of Regulations that would serve as a basis and a bond to
help preserve uniformity and the spirit that prevailed in our institutes. We hope that this desire will now be
satisfied by the present booklet. These rules are a bond by which Catholics who so wish may join the
Salesians and work according to a uniform pattern”.

Those who wish to practice charity in working for the salvation of souls will have the great reward
promised by St Augustine, “By saving a soul you have predestined your own”; they are also assured of a
great spiritual treasure. May God, so rich in grace and blessings grant many favors to all those who help to
win souls for our Divine Saviour, doing good to young people so much in danger, preparing good Catholics
for his Church and good citizens for society, so that all may one day rind themselves eternally happy in
heaven. Amen.”

Bond of Union

This Salesian Society being definitively approved by the Church can serve as a pure and firm bond for
Salesian Cooperators. In fact it has as its primary purpose to work for the benefit of youth upon whom for
better or worse depends the future of society. By presenting the proposal of Salesian Cooperators, we do
not mean that this is the only means of providing for such a need, since there are thousands of other
associations which we highly recommend for they are doing good work.

We on our part propose the Salesian Cooperators asking good Catholics, who live in the world to come to
the help of the members of this Salesian Society. It is true that its membership has made a noteworthy
increase but the number is far from being able to cope with the daily requests which come from various
places.

In all these places, requests are made for Salesian Priests to take care of neglected youth; to open Houses or
Schools, begin missions or at least support the missions that long for the coming of evangelical laborers. It
is to help fill so great a need that we are looking for Cooperators.

Manner of Cooperation

The same work is proposed for Salesian Cooperators as is done by the Society of St. Francis of Sales
(Salesians of Don Bosco, S.D.B. and Salesians Sisters, F.M.A.) with whom they intend to associate.

To promote novenas, triduums, retreats, pilgrimages, Catechetical Instruction, especially in those places
where there is poverty both moral and material.

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Since in these days there is a serious lack of vocations to the priesthood, therefore those who are in a
position to help boys and young men who have the necessary moral qualities, an aptitude for study and who
give some sign of being called by God, should assist them with advice and direct them to those schools and
seminaries where their vocations can be guarded and receive Spiritual Direction.

To oppose bad literature by distributing good publications, books, pamphlets, papers and magazines of all
kinds to families and places where it appears prudent to do so.

To initiate or support works of charity on behalf of needy children gathering them together, teaching them
their religion, keeping them in touch with the Church, seeing they go to Mass and to other services, finding
ways of instructing them in the Faith. These are some of the activities open to the Salesian Cooperators.

Whoever is unable to do any of these things by himself, can often do them through others, as for example,
by encouraging another member of the family or a friend to volunteer.

One can cooperate by prayer or by helping with material means, when there is need, after the example of
the first Christians who brought their gifts to the Apostles to be used for the benefit of widows and orphans
or for other grave needs.

By this Is meant to live the Beatitudes, the life of the good Christian.
Blessed are the Poor In Spirit: by thrift and sharing with the Poor.
live a chaste life in thought, word and deed.
Obedience: to the Laws of God, the Church, and the nation.
some Cooperators, because of age or some other good reason could not give financial support. These were
expected to pray for God's Blessing on the Cooperator's Projects.

The Scope

The fundamental scope of the Salesian Cooperators is to be of benefit to themselves by leading a life
similar to that which is observed by Religious in Common Life in so far as they are able. For this reason the
Association is considered in the Church as a Third Order, with this difference, that in the older Third
Orders, Christian Perfection was proposed as an Exercise of Piety, while, this association however, has for
its principal purpose an active life in the practice of charity toward one’s neighbor and especially toward
youth who are in danger of losing faith and morals.

Constitutions and Government

Anyone who has completed sixteen years of age can become a Cooperator.

The association humbly requests the benevolence and protection of the Pope, the Bishops, and the Parish
Priests on whom they will absolutely; depend in all things that pertain to Religion. (Canon Law)

The Superior of the Salesian Congregation is also the Superior of this Association. (Rector Major)

The Rules of the Association

Don Bosco wanted the Salesians to teach the boys that Mary Help of Christians would not be pleased with
us if she did not see her Divine Son come frequently into our hearts and reign over us by His grace. The
first seven rules of the Association show us how St. John Bosco desired that devotion to Our Lady should
lead us to Jesus. “To Jesus through Mary.”

The Association of Devout Clients of Mary seeks to promote the glory of the Most Holy Mother of Our
Savior, in order to merit her protection in life and particularly at the hour of death.

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Spread devotion to the Blessed Virgin and love for Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.

For this purpose, members shall endeavor by word and counsel to foster a reverent and devout celebration
of the novenas, feasts and solemnities in honor of the Blessed Virgin and of the Most Holy Sacrament
which take place during the year.

The members shall seek to promote to the best of their ability the following practices of piety: the
distribution of good books, holy pictures, medals, diplomas; taking part in processions in honor or Mary
Most Holy and the Most Holy Sacrament, and encouraging others to do the same; the practice of frequent
Communion, assisting at Holy Mass, accompanying the Blessed Sacrament to the sick.

The associates shall use every means in their power to prevent blasphemy or any words harmful to religion,
and to try, as far as possible, to remove any obstacle in the way of the sanctification of Sundays and the
great feasts of the Church.

On the recommendation of the spiritual directors, every associate is earnestly exhorted to approach the
Sacraments of Reconciliation and Holy Communion every two weeks or at least once a month, and to
attend daily Mass as far as their state of life permits them to do so.

In honor of the Blessed Sacrament, after their usual morning and evening prayers, they shall recite the
following brief prayers: Blessed and praised every moment be the Most Holy and Divine Sacrament, and in
honor of Our Lady: Mary Help of Christians, pray for us. For priests, it will be sufficient if they have the
intention, when celebrating Mass, to pray for all the members of the pious association. These prayers shall
serve as a link to unite all the associates with one heart and soul, to render due honor to Jesus in the Holy
Eucharist and to his Holy Mother, and to share in all the good works performed by the associates.

The next eight articles deal with the spiritual advantages of the associates, followed by three articles on
joining the Association.

Particular Obligations

The members of the Salesian Congregation will consider all Cooperators as other brothers and sisters in
Jesus Christ and will consult them whenever their assistance can help to the greater glory of God and to the
advantage of Souls. With the same liberty, when the need arises, the Cooperators will turn to the members
of the Salesian Congregation.

Therefore all the members, as children of our heavenly Father, and brothers in Jesus Christ, will do as much
as they can to promote and sustain the works of the Association with their own material means or with
donations collected from charitable people.

The members have no monetary obligation, but will monthly or annually make that donation which the
charity of their hearts will direct. These offerings will be used to support the works of the Association.
In places where Cooperators can not constitute a Circle or Unit, and when some can not be present
offerings should be sent privately in the way they find best.

Benefits

The Salesian Cooperators share in all the spiritual graces and indulgences granted to the Salesian Religious
except those referring to the Common Life.

They will likewise share in all Masses, prayers, novenas, triduums, retreats, sermons and catechetical
instructions and all the works of charity of the Salesian Religious in any place and any part or the world

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They will likewise share in all the Masses and prayers offered every day in the Sanctuary of Mary Help of
Christians in Turin, imploring blessing from heaven upon their benefactors, their families and especially
upon those who make some moral or material offering to support the Salesian works.

The day after the feast of St. Francis of Sales all Salesian Priests shall celebrate Holy Mass for deceased
members. (This Mass is now celebrated on November 5th, on the anniversary of Mama Margaret's death.)
Those who are not Priests will receive Holy Communion and pray five decades of the Rosary.

When a member falls sick let the superior be told about it promptly. He will immediately order special
prayers to be said for him or her. The same will be done, at the death of any Cooperator.

Religious Practices

No specific devotions are prescribed, however so that the life of the Salesian Cooperator can in some way
be like that of the Salesian Religious, it is recommended:

They be modest in dress, chaste in speech, exact in the duties of their state, taking care that their
dependents observe and keep holy Sundays and Days of Obligation.

Every year, they are advised to make at least a few days of Spiritual Retreat. A plenary indulgence can be
gained.

The last day of the month or some other suitable day will be the occasion of making the exercise as
preparing for a Happy Death, by going to Confession and Communion as if it were in reality the last of our
lives.

They will try to go to Mass and Communion as often as possible and go to Confession more often than
prescribed.

Care for Poor and Needy Children

Today there are more than 40,000 Salesian Priests, Brothers and Sisters working in 115 countries,
continuing the work of their founder. They work in 3,104 Schools, 220 Orphanages, 864 Nurseries, and 219
Hospitals or Clinics.

There are more than 615 Salesians working in the U.S.A. and Canada, in 43 Schools, 28 Youth Centers and
31 Parishes; numbering 248 Priests, 106 Brothers and 272 Sisters.

Salesians have been taught by Saint John Bosco to lead a life of Prayer, Teaching and Work, in support of
the needs of the Church especially of the Young.

How can You assist them? By Prayer, by sharing your time, your skills, and your finances.

Your Bishop and Pastor have need of Volunteers!

Prayer of Blessed Phillip Rinaldi on the occasion of the Beatification ceremony of St. John Bosco in St.
Peter’s Basilica

That we may be devout, to the Blessed Sacrament and to Mary Help of Christians,
O, St. John Bosco, pray for us.

That we may love the young as you have loved them,


O, St. John Bosco, pray for us.
That we may constantly work for Souls as you did,

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O, St. John Bosco, pray for us.

That we May be like you ever united with God,


O, St. John Bosco, pray for us.

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Preface
Christians have different paths offered them for living out their Baptismal faith. Some, urged by the Holy
Spirit and attracted by Don Bosco, carry out the ideal of "working with him" by remaining in the world,
and are called to live out the same charism as the Salesian Congregation in secular circumstances.

Right from the outset, Don Bosco thought about organizing co-helpers for his work: He invited lay people,
men and women, and members of the diocesan clergy, to "cooperate" in his mission of salvation of the
young, especially those who were poor and abandoned. In 1876 he clearly set out the project of life by
means of the "Regulations for the Salesian Cooperators" which he himself wrote and which were then
approved by the Church. Today the Salesian Cooperators are spread and work throughout the world.

The current text describes their project of apostolic life. It offers an authentic way to holiness, according to
the needs of the Church and the world today. To make this a reality, the Salesian Cooperators trust in the
faithfulness of God the Father who has called them.

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Chapter 1

The Salesian Cooperator in the Church and in the World

Article 1 – The Founder: A Man Sent by God

To contribute to the salvation of youth, "the most delicate and precious portion of human society", the Holy
Spirit, through the motherly intervention of Mary, raised up St. John Bosco who founded the Society of St.
Francis de Sales (1859) and, with Saint Mary Domenica Mazzarello, the Institute of the Daughters of Mary
Help of Christians (1872). He extended the apostolic energy of the Salesian charism by officially setting up
the "Pious Union of the Salesian Cooperators", the third branch of the Family (1876), united with the
Society of St. Francis de Sales also called the Salesian Society of St John Bosco or the Salesian
Congregation.

The Holy Spirit formed the heart of a father and teacher in St. John Bosco, one capable of total dedication,
and through him inspired an educational method permeated by the charity of the Good Shepherd.

Article 2 – The Salesian Cooperators: A Specific Vocation in the Church

1. To be committed as Salesian Cooperators is to respond to the Salesian vocation, taking on a


specific way of living the Gospel and taking part in the mission of the Church. It is a freely chosen
gift which qualifies one's existence.

2. Catholics of whatever cultural or social circumstance may choose this path. They feel called to a
special kind of life of faith fully involved in each day's concerns. It is marked by two attitudes:

a. knowing God as Father and saving Love; encountering, in Jesus Christ, the Only-begotten
Son, perfect apostle of the Father; living intimately with the Holy Spirit, who gives life to the
People of God in the world;
b. Feeling themselves called and sent on a concrete mission, that of contributing to the salvation
of youth; committing themselves in the same youthful and popular mission of Don Bosco.

Article 3 – The Salesian Cooperators: Salesians in the World

The Salesian Cooperators live out their faith in their own secular reality. Inspired by Don Bosco's apostolic
project they feel themselves to be in living communion with other members of the Salesian Family. They
are committed to the same youthful and popular mission as associates, brothers and sisters. They work for
the good of the Church and society, in a manner adapted to their circumstances and actual possibilities.

Article 4 – A Unique Vocation: Two Ways of Living It

1. Don Bosco conceived the Association of Salesian Cooperators as being open to laity and to
the secular clergy.

2. Lay Salesian Cooperators live out the commitment and the Salesian spirit in their ordinary
circumstances of life and work. With lay sensitivity and characteristics they diffuse values in their
own setting.

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3. The Salesian Cooperator bishop, secular priest or deacon lives out his own ministry as one
inspired by Don Bosco, a pre-eminent model of priestly life. Young people and ordinary settings
are privileged amongst his pastoral choices.

Article 5 – The Association in the Salesian Family

The Association of Salesian Cooperators is one of the groups of the Salesian Family. Together with the
Society of St Francis de Sales, the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians and other officially
recognized groups, the Cooperator is a bearer of the common Salesian vocation and shares responsibility
for the vitality of Don Bosco's project in the Church and in the world.

The Association brings to the Salesian Family the values specific to secular circumstances, and respects the
identity and autonomy belonging to each group. The Cooperator lives in a particular relationship of
communion with the Society of 8t Francis of Sales which, by the will of the Founder, has a specific role of
responsibility within the Family.

Article 6 – The Association in the Salesian Family

4. In the Church, The Association of Salesian Cooperators is approved by the Apostolic See as a
Public Association of the Faithful and shares in the spiritual patrimony of the Society of St.
Francis of Sales.
The members actively cooperate in its mission in the Church's name, under the authority of the
Rector Major as Don Bosco's Successor, in a spirit of fidelity to their Pastors and in collaboration
with other ecc1esial forces.

5. The Salesian Cooperators manifest a childlike devotion to the Supreme Pontiff.

6. The Association of Salesian Cooperators is recognized as a juridical and ecclesiastical public


entity. It has its headquarters in Rome.

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The Salesian Cooperators’ Apostolic Commitment

Article 7 – The Witness of the Beatitudes

The personal lifestyle of the Salesian Cooperators, marked by the spirit of the Beatitudes, commits them to
an evangelization of culture and social life.
For this reason they live and witness to:

- The primacy of the spirit, the fruitfulness of suffering and non-violence as a leaven of peace
and pardon;
- Freedom in obedience to God's plan, by appreciating the value and proper autonomy of the
secular reality, and by involving and directing themselves especially to the service of the people;
- Evangelical poverty, administering goods entrusted to them with criteria of simplicity and
sharing, in view of the common good;
- Sexuality, according to an evangelical view of chastity, marked by delicacy and a married or
single celibate life of integrity and joy, based on love;

Article 8 – Apostolic Commitment

1. Salesian Cooperators carry out their apostolate through their daily tasks in the first instance. They
follow Jesus Christ, the perfect Man, sent by the Father to serve all people in the world. This is
why they are committed to putting into practice, in the ordinary circumstances of life, the
evangelical ideal of love for God and for one's neighbour.

2. Enlivened by the Salesian spirit, they bring a privileged attention to young people wherever they
are, especially to those who are poorest or victims of any kind of marginalization, exploitation and
violence, to those setting out in the world of work and to those who show signs of a specific
vocation.

3. They foster and defend the value of family as the basic nucleus of society and Church and are
committed to building it up as "a domestic Church". Married Cooperators live their mission as
spouses and parents through their marriage: "cooperators in the love of God the creator", "first and
chief educators of their children", according to the pedagogy of kindness proper to the Preventive
System.

4. They put the Church's Social Teachings into practice and are attentive to social communications
media, promoting its correct use as a means of education.

5. They support the Church’s missionary activity and foster education to a global perspective by an
openness to dialogue amongst cultures.

Article 9 – The Task of Christian Education

1. The Salesian Cooperators take up the task everywhere of educating and evangelizing as Don
Bosco did, in order to form "honest citizens and good Christians to be the fortunate inhabitants of
heaven some day", convinced that they are always on the way to greater human and Christian
maturity.

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2. They share with the young the taste of the authentic values of truth, freedom, justice, the sense of
the common good and of service.
3. They educate the young to encounter the Risen Christ through faith and the sacraments, so they
may find their meaning of life in Him and grow as men and women renewed.

4. They are committed to helping the young develop life projects, able to encourage them to witness
to their Christian and Salesian presence in the Church and society.

Article 10 – The Pedagogy of Kindness

In their educational task the Salesian Cooperators:

1. Adopt Don Bosco's "Preventive System” which "is based especially on reason, religion and
loving-kindness", seeks to persuade and not to impose, prevent rather than to punish.

2. Create a family environment where animating presence, personal accompaniment and group
experience help in perceiving God's presence.

3. Foster what is good and educate to love for life, to responsibility, solidarity, sharing and
communion.

4. Appeal to a person's inner resources and believe in the invisible action of grace. They look upon
each young person with realistic optimism, convinced of the value of education and the experience
of faith. Their relationship with the young is inspired by a mature and accepting love.

Article 11 – Typical Activities

Salesian Cooperators are open to many kinds of apostolate. Among these they give privileged place, along
with their own work and professional involvement, to:

- Christian catechesis and formation,


- Animation of youth and family groups and movements,
- Collaboration in educational and scholastic institutions,
- Social service for the poor,
- Working in social communications,
- Cooperating in pastoral ministry for vocations,
- Missionary work in general,
- Collaborating in ecumenical and religious dialogue,
- Charitable commitment to social and political service
- Developing the Association.

Article 12 – Structures and Ways of Working

4. Salesian Cooperators support their own apostolate with prayer, by involving others and through
material means.

5. A good part of the activities of the Salesian Cooperators takes place, in a spirit of cooperation and
collaboration, in structures where secular circumstances offer them the greatest hope of
meaningful involvement: civil, cultural, socia-economic, political, ecclesial, Salesian.

6. The Salesian Cooperators can also carry out their apostolic commitment in works run
autonomously by the Association and in initiatives which respond to the needs of the locality.

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The Salesian Cooperators in Communion and Collaboration

Article 13 – Brothers and Sisters in Don Bosco

Their common vocation and belonging to the same Association make Salesian Cooperators spiritual
brothers and sisters. "One in heart and soul”, they live out fraternal communion with the characteristic
bonds of Don Bosco's spirit.

They take part joyfully in the “family life” of the Association in order to know one another, exchange
experiences, apostolic plans and grow together.

Article 14 – Co-responsibility for the Mission

1. Salesian Cooperators feel responsible for the common mission and carry it out according to their
possibilities and abilities. Each is bound to take part in a spirit of initiative in planning, carrying
out and evaluating the different activities and in choosing those responsible for fulfilling special
roles in the Association.

If asked to take on positions of responsibility, they commit themselves to carrying out the
tasks entrusted to them faithfully and in a spirit of service.

2. Each Salesian Cooperator supports the Association's financial autonomy responsibly and with a
sense of belonging, so it can realize its mission.

Article 15 – Participation in the Life of the Salesian Family

Salesian Cooperators cultivate fraternal communion and cooperation with the other groups and members of
the Salesian Family through mutual awareness and information, mutual spiritual assistance and help in
formation and involvement in common apostolic tasks.

Through the Salesian Family's Advisory Councils at various levels, and other groups, they foster common
research into initiatives which can enable the Salesian mission to offer a richer service to the Church.

Article 16 – The Ministry of the Rector Major

4. The Rector Major of the Society of St. Francis de Sales is Don Bosco's successor. Through the
explicit will of the Founder he is the Superior of the Association and carries out the functions of
Supreme Moderator within it. He is the guarantor of its fidelity to the Founders project and fosters
its growth.

5. His ministry, also exercised through his Vicar or other representative, ordinarily makes use of the
World Council especially in animating the entire Association and coordinating formation and
apostolic initiatives.

6. The members of the Association nurture feelings of sincere affection towards the Rector Major
and are faithful to his directions.

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Article 17 – Particular bonds with the Society of St. Francis de Sales and the Institute of the
Daughters of Mary Help of Christians

The Association of Salesian Cooperators has "a stable and secure bond" with the Society of St Francis de
Sales and special charismatic ties with the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.

Salesian communities (SDB and FMA), provincial and local, feel themselves involved in the task desired
by Don Bosco of "supporting and giving growth to" the Association, contributing to the formation of its
members, making it known and promoting its Project of Apostolic Life.

Article 18 – Links with Other Groups of the Salesian Family

The Salesian Cooperators sense their closeness to all other groups of the Salesian Family. They are open to
and foster all kinds of cooperation, especially with lay groups, respecting each one's identity and autonomy.

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The Salesian Cooperators’ Salesian Spirit

Article 19 – A Precious Heritage

Led by the Holy Spirit, Don Bosco perceived an original style of life and action, and handed it on to the
members of his Family: the Salesian spirit.

The Salesian spirit is a typical evangelical experience which has its source in the heart of Christ himself.
This animates the presence and action in the Church and world of the one who lives it. It is nourished by
apostolic commitment and prayer, and characterizes his or her entire life, making it a witness to love.

It requires a demanding "ascetical method" lit up by a cheerful smiling face in accordance with Don
Bosco's saying: "work and temperance".

Article 20 – Experience of Committed Faith

1. Salesian Cooperators welcome this spirit as a gift of the Lord to the Church and make it fruitful in
accordance with their particular circumstance, lay or ministerial. Each one participates in Don
Bosco's spiritual experience, lived with particular intensity by those first Cooperators among the
young in the Oratory at Valdocco, and they commit themselves to living out the Sequela Christi,
the following of Christ.

2. In the Immaculate Virgin, Help of Christians they discover the deepest elements of their vocation:
Being true "cooperators of God" in the realization of his salvific plan. They turn to Mary, Help of
Christians and Mother of the Good Shepherd, asking her for the strength needed to be practically
involved in the salvation of the young.

3. They foster an experience in practice of ecclesial communion through the Association, which is a
living part of Church.

Article 21 – Apostolic Love Takes Centre Place

1. The heart of the Salesian spirit is apostolic and pastoral charity. It makes the Father's mercy,
Christ's salvific love and the power of the Holy Spirit present amongst the young. Don Bosco
expressed this in his motto: "Give me souls, take away the rest". He signified this by the name
“Salesians", choosing Saint Francis of Sales as patron, model of Christian humanism, apostolic
dedication and kindness.

2. For Salesian Cooperators this charity is a gift of God that unites them to Him and to young people.
It is inspired by Mary's motherly solicitude, which helps them in their daily witness.

Article 22 – Salesian Presence in the World

1. Salesian Cooperators feel they are "intimately linked" with the world in which they live and
wherein they are called to be its light and leaven. They believe in an individual’s inner resources.
They share the values of their culture. They accept what is new with a Christian critical sense.
They integrate “all that is good” in their life, especially if it pleases the young.

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2. They adopt a constructive attitude in the face of the many challenges and difficulties amidst which
they are called to work. They are committed to spreading a Christian culture of solidarity and
acceptance in society.

Article 23 – Style of Action

Salesian Cooperators sanctify their existence through work and daily life. They live as "good Christians and
honest citizens”. They are available, altruistic and generous and believe in the value of acting without
selfish interests. Their activity is rooted in union with God.

Article 24 – Style of Relationship

Salesian Cooperators practice the loving-kindness desired by Don Bosco in their relationships. They
express themselves openly, warmly and joyfully, always ready to take the first step, and to accept the other
with kindness, respect and patience. They give rise to relationships of trust and friendship creating a family
atmosphere around them consisting of simplicity and affection. They work for peace and seek clarification
and agreement in dialogue.

Article 25 – Style of Prayer

1. The Salesian Cooperators are convinced that without union with Jesus Christ, they can do
nothing. They call on the Spirit who enlightens and strengthens them day by day. Their prayer
is simple trusting, joyful and creative, permeated by apostolic zeal and faithful to life.

To nourish their life of prayer Salesian Cooperators have recourse to spiritual helps offered by the
Church, the Association and the Salesian Family. They take an active part in liturgy, seeing value
in forms of popular piety that can enrich their spiritual life.

2. They reinvigorate their faith in sacramental experience. The Eucharist nourishes their apostolic
charity. In Reconciliation they encounter the mercy of the Father who impresses a dynamic and
constant conversion on their life and helps them grow in their ability to forgive.

3. They similarly strengthen their interior and apostolic life with moments of spirituality which are
planned by the Association.

Article 26 – In Communion with Mary and our Saints

1. Salesian Cooperators, like Don Bosco, nurture a childlike love for Mary Help of Christians,
Mother of the Church and humankind. She cooperated in the salvific mission of the Saviour and
today, too, she continues to be Mother and Helper of the Christian People. She is a special guide
for the Salesian Family. Don Bosco entrusted the Salesian Cooperators to her so that they may
receive protection and inspiration from her in their mission.

2. They turn to Saint Joseph, Patron of the Universal Church, with particular affection. They have
trusting recourse to the intercession of St. John Bosco, “Father and teacher” of the young and of
all the Salesian Family.

3. Amongst the models of apostolic life, they especially venerate Saint Francis of Sales, Saint Mary
Domenica Mazzarello, Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa, Mamma Margaret and the other
Saints, Blesseds and Venerables of the Salesian Family.

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Chapter 5

Belonging and Formation of the Salesian Cooperator

Article 27 – Entry into the Association

4. The commitment to become a Salesian Cooperator demands a free, gradual, motivated and mature
choice at the urging of the Holy Spirit and accompanied by those responsible for formation. The
aspirant, wishing to enter and be a part of the Association, accepts an appropriate preparatory
programme.

5. When the aspirant has achieved sufficient maturity in the Salesian charism, recognized as such by
those responsible in the Centre, he or she presents a request for admission. However, the
individual is required to have reached the age of majority.

6. Belonging to the Association begins with the personal Promise which expresses the will to live out
one's Baptism according to the Project of Apostolic Life.

Article 28 – Value of Belonging

3. The Sa1esian Cooperators are aware that belonging to the Association is a privileged experience
of faith and ecclesial communion. It also means that it is a vital element in sustaining their own
apostolic vocation.

4. They recognize that this belonging demands concrete signs of presence and active participation in
the life of the Association.

Article 29 – Responsibility and Initiatives on Behalf of Formation

1. Salesian Cooperators are the first ones responsible for their own human, Christian, Salesian and
professional formation.

2. The Association fosters and sustains personal and group formation through the instrumentality of
qualified Salesian Cooperators, Delegates, and other members of the Salesian Family.

Article 30 – Faithfulness to Tasks Assumed

3. To be a Salesian Cooperator is a vocation lasting an entire lifetime. With a profound sense of


belonging, Salesian Cooperators know how to constantly express their witness, apostolate, and
kinds of service. They are called by God to live the Salesian charism in the Association, in
openness and availability also to working in initiatives fostered by other agencies, church or
religious organizations.

Their fidelity is supported by the affection and solidarity of the members of the Association and of
the Salesian Family.

4. To consolidate the value of belonging to the Association - and through this to the Salesian Family
- the commitments of association made by means of the Promise will be confirmed according to
the most appropriate manner established by the Regulations.

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Article 31 – Leaving the Association

3. The Salesian Cooperators who intends, by personal choice, to cease to belong to the Association,
will present the Local Council with a written statement attesting to his/her decision. The Local
Council will give copies of the statement to the Provincial Council.

4. The Association's decision to exclude one of its members for serious reasons is to be taken by the
Provincial Council following the reasoned request of the Local Council. This is done in a spirit of
charity and clarity after judging a life style which is not coherent with the fundamental duties
expressed in the Statutes and Regulations, and the decision is to be communicated in writing to the
one concerned.

Article 32 – The Promise and its Meaning

1. The meaning and scope of the promise is to express the will to live out the baptismal option
according to the Project of Apostolic Life. Don Bosco himself proposed the promise as an
apostolic expression of their Salesian vocation in the world.

2. The Promise

"Father, 1 adore you because you are so good and because you love each one of us.
I thank You for having created and redeemed me,
for having called me to be a part of Your Church
and for having made Don Bosco's apostolic Family part of it.
This Family lives for You In the service of the young
and of ordinary people.
Drawn by Your merciful Love,
I want to love You in return by doing good.

For this reason, after preparing myself,

I PROMISE

To commit myself to living the evangelical Project of the Association of the Salesian Cooperators,
that is:
To be Christ's faithful disciple in the Catholic Church;
To work in Your Kingdom, especially for the welfare and salvation of the young;
To deepen and witness to the Salesian spirit;
To cooperate, in Family communion, in all the apostolic initiatives of the local Church.

Grant me, Father, the strength of Your Spirit,


so I may always be faithful
to this proposal in my life,
Mary Help of Christians, Mother of the Church,
Help me and guide me. Amen".

The current formula may be adapted according to various circumstances, so long as its contents are
respected. When the promise is renewed, instead of "after preparing myself I promise", say: "l renew the
promise of ..."

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Chapter 6

Organization of the Association of the Salesian Cooperators

Article 33 – The Organization’s Motivations

The Salesian Cooperators are called to live their vocation by being aware of the need for an appropriate
organizational structure. They are organized in an Association understood as a means to help them live
their project of apostolic life in a spirit of unity, according to Don Bosco's invitation.

Article 34 – Flexible Organizations

The Association, faithful to the will of its Founder, has a functional and flexible structure based on three
levels: local, provincial and world.

Through such organization it aims at placing value on the efficiency of its action in a locality and its
openness to the universality of communion and mission.

Article 35 – Government and Animation at Local, Provincial and World Level

For its government and animation the Association, reserved to the authority of the Rector Major normally
represented by his Vicar, or by his delegate, is entrusted to Councilors who also include Religious
appointed by the SDB and FMA Provincials. Legal representation of the Association is entrusted to the
Coordinator of the respective Council.

Article 36 – The Local Level

1. The basic nucleus of the Association's reality is the local Centre. Ordinarily it brings together
Salesian Cooperators working in a determined locality. The centre is preferably erected at an
Institution of the Salesians of Don Bosco or the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.

2. The Local Centres are directed collegially by a Local Council which elects a Local Coordinator
from amongst its members. Each Centre has a Delegate SDB or FMA appointed by their
respective provincials.

3. Men and women of good will, of other confessions, religion and culture, who sympathize with the
Salesian charism, can share in the initiatives of the Local Centre and offer their collaboration as
friends of Don Bosco.

Article 37 – The Provincial Level

1. The Local Centres are organized into provinces erected by the Rector Major on the
recommendation of the World Council.

2. In consideration of the special bonds which link the Association to the Salesians of Don Bosco and
the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians, the provinces correspond to the respective SDB or
FMA Provinces.

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3. Each province has a Provincial Council elected by the Local Councils according to procedures laid
down in the Regulations.

4. The Provincial Council is organized collegially, electing a Provincial Coordinator from among its
members. Each Provincial Council has an SDB and FMA Delegate appointed by their respective
Provincials.

5. For the animation of the Association, provinces, respecting their autonomy to govern, are
organized into regions on the basis of language, culture or locality, by decision of the Rector
Major in understanding with the World Council. They elect their World Councilor for the Region.
The SDB and FMA Provincials concerned come to agreement over the appointment of a Regional
SDB and FMA Delegate.

Article 38 – The World Level

1. The World Council is made up of World Councilors elected by the Regions and the Wor1d
Executive Secretariat (WES). The WES is made up of the World Coordinator, directly appointed
by the Rector Major, the World Administrator and the World Secretary elected, by secret ballot,
by the World Councilors, the SDB World Delegate appointed the Rector Major and the FMA
World Delegate appointed by the Rector Major at the proposal of the FMA Mother General.

2. The members of the World Council remain in office for six years.

3. The directives of the World Council come into effect only after their approval by the Rector
Major.

Article 39 – Administration of the Goods of the Association

4. The Association of Salesian Cooperators, inasmuch as it is a public, ecclesiastical, juridical, entity,


has the ability to acquire, posses, administer and alienate temporal goods, according to law. The
good possessed by the Association as such are ecclesiastical goods.

5. The Rector Major with the World Council administers the goods of the Association at the world
level and is the competent authority for granting local and provincial council's permission to carry
out acts of extraordinary administration and alienation which do not require the intervention of the
Apostolic See.

6. The Councils, through the administrators chosen from among them, see to the management of the
goods of the Association. The administrator also prepares the financial report to give to the council
at a higher level.

Article 40 – Final Dispositions

1. The Association of Salesian Cooperators is governed by the current Statutes. Other norms are
contained in the Regulations at world level or in Directories at various levels.

The Statutes set out the vocational identity of the Salesian Cooperator, the spirit, mission and
principles for the organizational structures of the Association of Salesian Cooperators.

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The Regulations contain the practical points which specify and regulate activity, methodology,
structure and organization. The Regulations allow the Statutes, to which the document is
subordinated, to be applied in practical form in the daily life of the Association.
The Directories are particular dispositions of the Association for adapting the Statutes and the
Regulations to function concretely in the various territorial realities or specific activities. They are
approved by their respective Councils and ratified by the Superior Councils in the immediate area,
who have to guarantee that the Directories conform to what is set out in the Statutes and the
Regulations.

2. The current Statutes may be modified at the proposal of the Supreme Moderator, the World
Council or the Provincial Councils. In whichever case it is up to the Supreme Moderator of the
Association to approve the proposals for modification which will be then duly published.

Proposals for modification should establish: a clear and detailed presentation of the reasons
justifying the modification, the concrete aims which justify it, the principles it articulates.

The process for making the modification will be defined by the World Council under the
supervision of the Rector Major.

The modification must then be approved by an absolute majority of those taking part in the World
Congress, by the Supreme Moderator of the Association and by the Apostolic See.

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Conclusion

Article 41 – A Way to Holiness

The Salesian Cooperators choose to share the evangelical way traced out by these current Statutes and
Regulations.

They shape a responsible commitment on the way that leads to holiness.

With his abundant grace, may the Lord accompany all those who work in the spirit of the "da mihi animas",
doing good to the young and to ordinary people.

Rome, December 08, 2006

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Introduction
The current Regulations complete the Project of Apostolic life as laid out in the Statutes of the Association.
They offer guidelines and norms for putting the principles expressed by the Statutes into practice.

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Chapter 1

The Salesian Cooperators' Apostolic Commitment in the Church and in


the World

Article 1 – The Salesian Cooperators in the Church

1. The Salesian Cooperators become part of the local Church placing themselves at the service of the
parish and the diocese. Called by the Church to a ministry, they exercise it with responsibility and
with an attitude of service in a Salesian style.

2. The Salesian Cooperators foster adherence to the Church's magisterium. Relationships with parish
priests, priests and religious in general and other lay people, are marked by esteem, solidarity and
active participation in pastoral planning, especially plans concerning youth, family and vocations.

Article 2 – The Salesian Cooperators in their Socio-Cultural Reality

1. In all walks of life Salesian Cooperators are faithful to the Gospel and to the Church's social
teachings. Attentive to the signs of the times, they continue God's creative work and give witness
to Christ through honesty, hard work, their consistency of life, educational mission, their serious
and up-to-date professionalism, sharing of joys, sorrows and ideals, and their availability for
service of their neighbour in every circumstance.

2. They aim to form a mature critical awareness in themselves in order to responsibly participate in
social life in areas of culture, economy and politics. They reject everything that provokes and
feeds injustice, oppression, marginalization and violence, and they work courageously to remove
the causes of these.

3. They pay attention to and value the ethical dimension of culture. They keep themselves constantly
up to date on developments in the communications media especially because of their impact on the
formation of the young and of ordinary people.

4. According to their own capacity and possibilities, they enter into cultural and sociopolitical
structures and trade unions in order to achieve the development of the common good. In
conformity with the evangelical demands of freedom and justice, they work for the respecting of
human rights and, as a consequence, work to heal and renew ways of thinking and acting, the laws
and structures of the environments they are part of.

Article 3 – The Association in Civil and Ecclesial Reality

5. The Association is attentive to appeals from civil society for the promotion of individual integrity
and basic human rights.

6. The Association courageously intervenes, following directions of the Church's magisterium, to


foster a socio-political culture inspired by the Gospel, and defends human and Christian values. It
inspires and stimulates its members to responsibly take up their particular tasks in society.

It makes its presence felt in apostolic associations, movements and groups, educational agencies,
especially those which serve youth and family, solidarity with developing peoples and the
promotion of justice and peace.

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7. The Association gives particular attention to social volunteer work. It accepts formation proposals
and takes part in initiatives of entities inspired by Christian principles.

8. The Association is committed to working on behalf of inter-cultural and interreligious dialogue.

Article 4 – The Structures in Which it Operates

The Salesian Cooperators promote the setting up and functioning of associations, becoming active in
contexts where they find themselves; particularly:

- Civil, cultural, socio-economic and political contexts: being attentive to the education of youth and
family life.
- Ecc1esial contexts: offering responsible cooperation to bishops and parish priests, especially in
parish communities.
- In settings animated by the Salesian Congregation, the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of
Christians or other Groups of the Salesian Family.
- In works run by other religious and ecclesial movements.

Article 5 – Works Run Directly by the Association or by Members of the Association

3. The Salesian Cooperators may express their apostolic commitment in works directly managed by
the Association or by members of the Association. In their characteristics and purposes such
works should express the spirit and charism of the Association, as will be defined in the respective
Statutes.

4. The responsibility for management will always be directly tied to the local Association which
promotes the activity or to the members who directly take up its management, without being a
burden to higher levels of the same Association. In those situations where it is thought opportune,
a process may be initiated for civil recognition in view of wider development of the work in the
civil field.

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Salesian Cooperators in Communion and Collaboration

Article 6 – The Family Spirit

1. For the growth of a sense of belonging to the Association, the Salesian Cooperators support one
another by an exchange of spiritual goods.

2. They show a human and Christian solidarity in practical ways with Salesian Cooperators who are
sick or in difficulties, accompanying them also with their affection and prayer.

3. In communion with Salesian Cooperators who have died and in gratitude for their life of witness ,
they pray for them and faithfully carryon their mission.

4. In fidelity to the Church's magisterium and its pastoral guidelines on themes such as the family,
and in a spirit of Christian charity, the Association pays attention to members who suffer the
consequences of separation and/or divorce. The Association accompanies them in the difficulties
they encounter in their life and faith. The attitude is one of support for them in living through their
situation by trusting in the infinite mercy of the Father and maintaining a tenor of life that is
consistent with the fundamental duties they have accepted in the Promise.

5. In a spirit of family, the Association is open to religious of the Salesian Family who for valid
reasons have left their institute and feel that they are still linked to the Spirit of Don Bosco. Their
official entry into the Association requires a formation process appropriate to their new reality.

Article 7 – Co-Responsibility in Action

So that co-responsibility for the mission can translate into co-responsibility in action:

3. Within the Association, tasks at any level are carried out in a spirit of service accord ing
to the principles of communion, co-responsibility and cooperation.

4. In the diversity of circumstances and tasks, Salesian Cooperators bring their own specific
contribution to the Association.

Each one is called to participate, in different ways, in the life of the Association:

- Young people, full of energy, come to the common mission with their sensitivity and creative
capacity,
- Adults and older individuals, with their mature experience and long-standing fidelity, bring the
witness of a life rooted in Christ and experienced over time: family, commitment to one's
environment through one's work and culture, the exercising of social, economic and political
responsibility,
- Those who are unable to carry out any activity can support the educative and apostolic activity of
others by offering up their suffering and though prayer,
- Members of the diocesan clergy who are Salesian Cooperators, offer the service of their particular
ministry.

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Article 8 – Economic Solidarity

1. The sense of belonging and shared responsibility also involves the financial aspects of the
Association. The Salesian Cooperators support the Association in its functioning and in exercising
its mission at local, provincial, regional and world level, with financial contributions.

2. They live solidarity also by way of offerings sent to the Rector Major to support, according to the
various possibilities, the world requirements of the Association, missionary initiatives and other
projects linked with the Salesian mission.

Article 9 – Particular Links with the Society of St Francis of Sales and the Institute of
the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians

1. Relationships with SDB confreres and FMA Sisters are developed in an atmosphere of mutual
trust. The animation of the Centres attached to Salesian works involves the SDB and FMA
Delegates, and provincial and local religious communities in the formation of the members; this
helps members to foster and give witness to the Salesian charism, especially in their lay context.

2. SDB and FMA Provincials, in cooperation with Rectors and Superiors, guarantee unity in
communion and mission. They commit themselves to fostering the spiritual growth of the Centres
and involve the religious communities in witnessing to values of holiness and generous service of
animation.

Article 10 – Links with Other Groups of the Salesian Family

1. Salesian Cooperators, recognizing the common spirituality and mission which unites them
with the other groups in the Salesian Family, are united with them in facing up to the pastoral
challenges of the Salesian mission in the world.

2. In order to bring about communion in concrete terms with the other groups of the Salesian Family,
Salesian Cooperators are called to encourage meetings, celebrations, days for formation, updating,
animation, friendship and familiarity, days of prayer, retreats and days of recollection.

3. They are particularly open to cooperating with Salesian lay associations while respecting the
specific identities of the latter.

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The Salesian Cooperators’ Salesian Spirit

Article 11 – Style of Action

1. Don Bosco was a practical and enterprising person, a tireless and creative worker, animated by an
uninterrupted and deep interior life. The Salesian Cooperators, faithful to his spirit, and attentive
to reality, are also practical. They discern the signs of the times and try to offer appropriate
responses to the chief needs of young people arising out of their locality and in civil society. They
do this in a spirit of initiative. They are ready to evaluate and constantly adapt their activity.

2. They accompany their action with an attitude of contemplation that urges them to seek and
recognize the mystery of God's presence in daily existence and the face of Christ in their brothers
and sisters. Therefore they calmly face up to the difficulties of life, its joys and sorrows, and
accept the cross that is part of apostolic work.

Article 12 – Spiritual Life

1. The Salesian Cooperators nourish their interior life through participation in the sacraments, daily
dialogue with the Lord and by lectio divina.

2. They celebrate traditional Salesian feast days.

3. They take part in the annual retreat and days of recollection made available by the Association.

4. They place value on spiritual direction, as accompaniment carried out, in particular by Salesians
(religious and lay people).

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Chapter 4

Membership and Formation Of The Salesian Cooperator

Article 13 – Entry into the Association

1. Once the process of formation is over, the aspirant presents a written request to the Local Council
for membership of the Association.

2. The Local Council then passes the aspirant's request, along with its evaluation, to the Provincial
Council which arrives at a final approval on the basis of this evaluation.

3. Entry into the Association takes effect with the acceptance of the personal Promise in the name of
the Association, by the Provincial Coordinator or by another member delegated by him.

Article 14 – Sense of Belonging

1. To help the growth of a sense of belonging to the Association, and to constantly nourish their
vocation, the Council in each Local Centre offers the Salesian Cooperators the possibility of
renewing the Promise annually, preferably on a Salesian feast day.

2. When a member fails to renew the promise over a period of three years, without valid cause, and
distances himself/herself from the life of the Association, it is the Local Council's responsibility to
evaluate the circumstances that have brought about this change of attitude.

3. The local Council has the fraternal responsibility of contacting and accompanying the Salesian
Cooperator who is thus alienated, inviting him or her to a process of discernment concerning the
present circumstances of his or her membership in the Association.

4. Salesian Cooperators, especially those committed to other apostolic activities or to volunteer work,
bring their specific charism, spread the work of the Association and enrich the Centre through
sharing their experience.

Article 15 – Initiatives for Initial Formation

1. The formation process accompanies members throughout their lifetime because the Lord always
calls us through the continual development of personal and environmental circumstances.

2. To accompany the process of discernment of an aspirant, the Association offers flexible but
structured formation courses whether on a personal or community basis. These include the study
and analysis of some formation themes which refer to the human, Christian, ecc1esial and Salesian
dimensions:

- The Word of God,


- Documents of the Church,
- Life and work of Don Bosco,
- Don Bosco's Preventive System,
- The Project of Apostolic Life of the Association,
- Documents of the Rector Major,
- Documents of the Association,

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- Spirituality and Salesian holiness,


- History and development of the Salesian Family charism.

3. Salesian apostolic commitment and participation in the life of the Centre form an integral part of
initial formation.

Article 16 – Initiatives for Ongoing Formation

5. Aware of the need for ongoing formation, Salesian Cooperators:

- Develop their own human gifts in order to better carry out their family, professional and civil
responsibilities,
- Mature in their own faith and charity, growing in union with God to make their life more
evangelical and more Salesian,
- Give time to reflection and study, to deepen their understanding of the Holy Scriptures, the
teachings of the Church, their knowledge of Don Bosco, and Salesian documents,
- Qualify themselves for the apostolate and service to which they have been called.

6. The following initiatives are particularly formative:

- Regular meetings, at least monthly, according to the demands of life and apostolate of the
members of the Centre and other kinds of meetings possibly open to the locality and to civil
society,
- Intense occasions for prayer and discernment,
- Contacts with Groups of the Salesian Family at all levels,
- Better understanding of formation materials from the Salesian Family, with preferential
attention given to the Salesian Bulletin.

7. The Association's planning and review meetings at local, provincial, regional and world levels, are
initiatives with special relevance for formation, as well as those on specific themes with and by
other branches of the Salesian Family.

Participation in such initiatives, promoted at higher levels in the Association, by those responsible
and/or by representatives of Local Centres, should be properly prepared, and the fruits thereof
shared with members of the Centre.

8. The Association is committed to using the many social communications media and new
technologies for collaborating in cultural dialogue, for fostering the development of critical sense
and for developing formation programmes that can be made accessible in many ways.

Article 17 – Formation to the Services of Responsibility

1. The service of animation and responsibility in the Association is a service of apostolate through
which the Association grows and matures in communion, in spiritual life and in the Salesian
mission. All Salesian Cooperators may be asked to offer their resources and abilities for a
determined period of time in the service of animation and responsibility.

2. The Salesian Cooperator willingly accepts being available for a period of service asked of him or
her, carries it out with discernment, takes on the specific formation needed as preparation for the
task, according to programmes established by the Association.

At the end of their term of service they give witness to their sense of belonging by an attitude of simple
availability to the Association.

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Organization Of The Association

Article 18 – Local Centres and their Coordination at Provincial Level

1. Local Centres are ordinarily formed with a minimum group of six members living and working in
a determined locality. They are organized at provincial level as soon as possible and with an
appropriate number, at least three Centres.

2. Local Centres may also form into groups of specific interests and roles, always followed up and
animated by the local Council. It is appropriate that one of their members be a part of the Council.

3. Members living in an area where there is no Local Centre are joined to the nearest one. This
Centre keeps contact with them and helps them to be involved in activities.

4. The Association is open to the possibility of setting up Centres of Salesian Cooperators wherever
the Salesian mission requests it, in ways defined by the Provincial Council.

5. Members committed to a Salesian apostolic and educational work or centre can start a Salesian
Cooperators Centre in relation to that work.

These Centres will make sure that the lay people in that work will come in contact with the
Association.

6. Salesian Cooperators in extraordinary circumstances, who do not have the possibility of having
reference to a Local Centre, will be in direct contact with the Provincial Council; the mode of this
contact will be decided by the Council, which could include modern communications technology.

7. At provincia1level and in the locality of reference, the Provincial is recognized as the one who
represents the Rector Major through services of animation, charismatic guidance and promotion of
the Salesian Family.

8. The Rector Major, with the consent of the Superior General of the FMA, delegates the service of
animation, guidance and promotion of Centres, erected as part of communities of the FMA, to the
FMA Provincial of reference.

9. When an SDB or FMA Institution which was the point of reference for a Local Centre of the
Association is suppressed, the Local Centre is bound to guarantee the Salesian presence in the
locality, working in strict understanding with the local Church and with the consent of the
Diocesan Bishop.

The SDB and FMA Provincials will agree on those responsible in the Local Centre for solutions to
possible animation and organizational problems as a result of suppression of the work, and they
will make sure of the necessary spiritual animation by appointing an SDB or FMA delegate.

10. When the Local Centres are erected as part of a nearby SDB and FMA Institution, it is only
right that relationships of understanding and cooperation be established which are
appropriate for those who recognize themselves as sharing the same mission and common
spirit, and which, at the same time, will respect the autonomy of each Centre.

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Article 19 – The Local Council

1. The Association at the local level is governed by a Council in the collegial fashion.

2. The Local Council is made up of members elected by the Salesian Cooperators of the Local
Centre. It is made up of an appropriate number of Councilors - ordinarily from three to seven but
not beyond a third of the total members of the Centre - and of an SDB or FMA delegate with
active voice.

3. The elected Councilors remain in office for three years and can be re-elected for only one further
three-year term.

Article 20 – Main Duties and Roles of the Local Council

1. To ensure the functioning of the association with respect to its apostolic commitments, in
communion with the Provincial Council, the principle tasks are:

- To plan, promote and coordinate the formation and apostolic initiatives of the members,
- To ensure links of union with the Salesian Congregation, the Institute of the Daughters of
Mary Help of Christians and the other Groups of the Salesian Family,
- To decide on calling an Assembly,
- To see to the administration of the goods of the Association,
- To accompany the aspirants in finding their place in the Centre and prepare their formation
journey, in understanding with the Provincial Council,
- To make the professional abilities and spiritual riches of all the members fruitful for the good
of the Association, valuing their differences and constructively directing them to the gift of
unity,
- Animating initiatives which support the vocational faithfulness of the members and their
active participation in the life of the Centre.

The annual renewal of the Promise will be an appropriate occasion for the celebration of this journey
to fidelity.

2. Each Local Council will elect from amongst elected members:

- A Coordinator who may choose a vice coordinator from amongst the Councilors.
- An Administrator,
- A Secretary.

Each Council designates a person in charge of Formation from amongst the members of the Council: in
case such a person is lacking, the Coordinator takes on the role.

3. It is also the role of the Local Council:

- To determine the areas of coordination pertaining to formation and mission in the


Association,
- To spread and make known the spirituality of Don Bosco,
- To propose the vocation of the Salesian Cooperators by planning and putting into effect any
initiatives for receiving aspirants,
- To make a decision with regard to the acceptance of the aspirant, which is then passed on to
the Provincial Council,
- To evaluate collegially all initiatives proposed and carried out by members,
- To adopt other initiatives which promote the best functioning of the Centre with regard to
what is laid down in the Project of Apostolic Life of the Association.

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Article 21 – Tasks and Roles within the Local Council

There are various roles entrusted to the Councilors who take on responsibility for government within the
Council.

1. It is up to the local Coordinator to:

- Call meetings, preside over them, coordinate the work, see that resolutions are carried out, etc.
- Inform higher bodies on the life and activities of the Association,
- Represent the Association and maintain relationships, in the name of the Council, with lay
and ecclesiastical organizations and with the other Groups of the Salesian Family,
- Take part in the Provincial Salesian Family Advisory Council,
- Take decisions in urgent cases, provided they are within the competence of the Council,
making appropriate note of these afterwards,
- Call elections for the renewal of the Council, preparing evaluation reports at the end of each
triennium, and carefully attend to the handing on of matters between the outgoing and
incoming Councils,
- Maintain and develop programmes and initiatives in the Centre proposed by the Provincial
Council,
- Presenting the Provincial Council with requests for admission to the Association,
accompanied by the opinion of the local Council and other necessary information.

2. It is up to the local Administrator to:

- Safeguard the goods belonging to the Association,


- Stimulate financial solidarity amongst members,
- Promote initiatives for financing the various planned initiatives,
- Suggest possibilities for financial resources and financial assistance,
- Promote solidarity funds to subsidize the more precarious activities of the Association,
- Keep the accounts and ledgers up to date,
- Present the budget and final balance to the Local Council,
- Present the financial accounts to the Provincial Council.

3. It is up to the Secretary to:

- Keep the written minutes of meetings,


- Support the Coordinator in the management of juridical acts with the Church and civil society,
- See that archival documentation belonging to the Council is kept up to date,
- From time to time update necessary data for the Provincial Council.

4. It is up to the one in charge of Formation, in understanding with the Provincial Council, to:

- Prepare the formation programme for the aspirants,


- Prepare the annual programme for ongoing formation,
- See to and follow up all specific aspects of formation.

Article 22 – Delegates

1. The SDB and FMA Provincials, through their Delegates, animate the Centres set up as part of their
Institutions or linked to their Provinces.

2. Each local Council has its local Delegate. Each Provincial Council has its Provincial Delegate and
each World Council has its World Delegate. These are spiritual animators responsible above all
for Salesian apostolic formation. According to the norms of the current Regulations, they are
members of the respective Councils by right.

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3. SDB and FMA Delegates at local and provincial leve1s are appointed by their respective
Provincials, after hearing the opinion of the members of the respective Council and bearing in
mind as much as possible the needs of the Centres.

4. If the Local Centre is not erected as part of an SDB or FMA Institution, the Provincial can appoint
a suitably prepared Salesian Cooperator or another member of the Salesian Family as Local
Delegate.

5. A Delegate, where necessary or opportune, can be in charge of more than one Local Centre.

Article 23 – Specific Tasks of Delegates

1. They stimulate Councils' responsibility and cooperation in experiencing organizational autonomy,


in charismatic communion with the Society of St. Francis de Sales and the Institute of the
Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.

2. They offer their service as spiritual, educational and pastoral guides in order to support a more
effective apostolate on behalf of young people.

3. Provincial Delegates animate Local Delegates to help them take responsibility for their tasks of
spiritual animation of the Salesian Cooperators and co-responsibility in their Salesian apostolic
formation.

4. Provincial Delegates, in understanding with the regional and world Delegates, foster updating and
f0lJ11ation activities for all the Delegates of the Province; these \viIi be open to aU those
responsible for the Association, as well as activities on the Salesian charismatic dimension with
specific reference to their role of spiritual animation.

Article 24 – Organization Of The Province And The Provincial Councils

1. The Local Centres of a determined locality - established by the Rector Major with the World
Council - constitute a Province.

2. At provincial level the Association is governed in a collegial fashion by a Provincial Council.

3. The Provincial Council is made up of members elected by the Councilors of the Local Centres. It
comprises an appropriate number of Councilors - from four to twelve - as well as the Provincial
SDB Delegate and the Provincial FMA Delegate with active voice.

4. Each Provincial Council elects from amongst its lay members:

- A Coordinator who can choose a vice-coordinator from amongst the Councilors,


- An Administrator,
- A Secretary,
- One who will be in charge of Formation.

The elected Provincial Councilors remain in office for three years and may be re-elected, without
interruption, for a further three-year period.

Article 25 – Principal Roles and Tasks of the Provincial Council

1. To ensure the functioning of the Association with respect to its apostolic commitments, in
communion with the World Council, the principal tasks are to:

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- Plan, promote and coordinate the formation and apostolic initiatives of the members,
- Promote cooperation amongst Local Centres meeting with them and supporting the
commitments of the Local Councils themselves,
- Establish courses for initial and ongoing formation with the Local Councils, according to
guidelines indicated by the Association,
- Accept an Aspirant after hearing the proposal and opinion of the Local Council and
requesting the documents from the WES (World Executive Secretariat),
- Pronounce the collegial act of a dismissal,
- Ensure particular bonds with the Society of St. Francis de Sales and the Institute of the
Daughters of Mary Help of Christians,
- Give an opinion on the appointment of the Provincial Delegate,
- Promote important occasions for spiritual growth and retreats,
- See to and animate initiatives which encourage vocational fidelity of the members and an
active participation in the life of the Association,
- Receive and examine the financial accounts of economic management of the Local Centres,
- Approve the financial accounts of its own economic management,
- Convoke and organize Provincial Congresses,
- Take part in the initiatives of the Regional Advisory Council,
- See to the administration of the goods of the Association.

Article 26 – Tasks and Roles within the Provincial Council

There are many tasks entrusted to the Councilors who take on responsibilities of government within
the Council.

1. It is up to the Provincial Coordinator to:

- Represent the Association and maintain relationships, in the name of the Council, with lay
and ecclesiastical organizations and with the other Groups of the Salesian Family,
- Take decisions in urgent cases, provided they are within the competence of the Provincial
Council, making subsequent note of them,
- Call meetings, preside over them, coordinate the work, and see that resolutions are
implemented,
- Call the elections for the renewal of the Council, prepare evaluation reports at the end of each
triennium, and take care to hand on matters from the outgoing Council to the incoming one.
- Accompany Cooperators who are prevented from having regular contact with them, in
agreement with those responsible for the Local Centre,
- Cooperate with the World Councilor of the Region by fostering initiatives and informing him
or her on the life and activities of the Association,
- Take an active part in the Provincial Advisory Council of the Salesian Family.

2. It is up to the Administrator to:

- Safeguard the goods belonging to the Association,


- Animate the financial solidarity of the Local Centres,
- Suggest likely financial resources and assistance,
- Promote solidarity funds to subsidize the more precarious activities of the Association,
- Keep the accounts and ledgers up to date,
- Present the budget and final balance to the Provincial Council,
- Present the annual financial accounts to the World Council.
3. It is up to the Provincial Secretary to:

- Keep the written minutes of meetings,


- Support the Coordinator in the management of juridical acts with the Church and civil society,
- See to the updating of archival documentation belonging to the Council,

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- From time to time pass on updated data to the World Council.

4. It is up to the one in charge of Formation to:

- Draw up a formation plan for the aspirants with the agreement of those responsible at local
level for formation,
- Draw up programmes for ongoing formation at provincial leve1,
- See to and follow up all specific aspects of formation in the province.

Article 27 – Specific Tasks of the Provincial Council

1. It is the task of the Provincial Council to erect and suppress local centres by means of a
Decree signed by the Provincial Coordinator, with the consent of the SDB or FMA
Provincial.

To erect or suppress a Local Centre away from SDB or FMA institution the written consent of the
diocesan bishop is required.

2. The fusion of a Local Centre at an FMA institution with a Local Centre at an SDB institution, or
vice versa, comes about through the collegial act of the Provincial Council, after hearing the
respective Local Councils, with the consent of the competent SDB/FMA Provincials, by means of
Decree from the Coordinator of the same Provincial Council. The new Local Centre takes over the
financial situation of the two previous Local Centres, unless otherwise indicated in the Decree of
fusion.

3. The Provincial Council decides on the modality for setting up Centres of Salesian Cooperators
wherever the Salesian mission requires it.

4. The Provincial Congress comprises the Provincial Councilors and the Councils of the Local
Centres. Its principal tasks are as follows:

- To establish guidelines and concrete indications for the Provincial Council in the fields of
formation, mission and organization at provincial level,
- To evaluate the progress of the Association in the province,
- To elect the Provincial Council.

The Provincial Congress is convoked by the Provincial Coordinator at least every three years on the
occasion of the renewal of the Provincial Councilors.

Article 28 – The Regional Advisory Council

1. Nations or geographical areas with more than one province of the same language and culture can,
with the consent of the Rector Major, constitute a Regional Advisory Council.

2. The Regional Advisory Councils, as bodies for coordination and animation, have as their purpose
a more effective cooperation between Provincial Councils and the World Council. Each Advisory
Council is a place to address issues and communicate them, to share plans for apostolate and
formation for the benefit of the entire Region.

3. The Regional Advisory Council is made up of: the World Councilor for the Region, who presides;
the provincial coordinators; the SDB and FMA delegates and others responsible for various
sectors (formation, administration, secretariat), according to what has been established by the
Directory of the Same Advisory Council.

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4. The SDB and FMA Delegates for the Advisory Council are appointed by the respective
Provincials.

5. The procedures for meetings, organization and coordination of the Regional Advisory Council and
for the Regional Congress are laid down in the Directory.

Article 29 – The Regional Congress

1. The Regional Congress is composed of all the members of the Provincial Councils of a Region
and of the members of the Regional Consulta, if one is established.

2. The Regional Congress is convoked by the World Council by mandate to the World Councilor of
the Region.

3. The Regional Congress can be an elective one or one that deepens particular topics for the
development of the Salesian charism and of the Association.

The tasks of the Regional Congress are to:

- Draw up the Regulations of the Congress and present them for the approval of the World
Council,
- Elect the new World Councilor for the Region according to the modalities approved by the
Rector Major, taking into consideration that the Religious members who are voting do not
supersede one-third of the total Assembly of those who have the right to vote,
- Verify periodically that state of the Association in the Region and its operational directives,

Article 30 – The Ministry of the Rector Major

In exercising his ministry, personally or through his Vicar or other representative, the Rector Major
ordinarily avails himself of the World Council of Salesian Cooperators, especially in animating the entire
Association and coordinating its formation and apostolic initiatives.

Article 31 – The World Council

1. To achieve the essential aims of the Project of Apostolic Life, and for a more effective vitality and
internal cooperation, the Rector Major makes use of a Council at world level.

2. The World Council collaborates with the Rector Major and his Vicar in the government and
animation of the Association: It provides general guidelines with respect to formation, apostolic,
organizational and administrative initiatives entrusted to the animation of World Councilors.

3. The World Council is made up of :

- The World Coordinator,


- The World Administrator,
- The World Secretary,
- The World SDB Delegate,
- The World FMA Delegate, representing the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of
Christians for the Salesian Cooperators in their institutions,
- The World Regional Councilors for each region elected by their respective regional
congresses.

4. The tasks of the World Council are:

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- To foster links between the Regions and the Rector Major,


- To know the actual situations of the different Regions and present them to the Rector Major,
- To provide the Rector Major with opportune and useful information for the adopting of
decisions and guidelines,
- To guide and promote the practical application of decisions and guidelines for the Association
that comes from the Rector Major.

5. The specific roles of the World Councilors are defined by the Council in sede at its first meeting
where the Coordinator is appointed, in respect to and according to the directives of the Project of
Apostolic Life and by adopting a specific Directory.

The modes of participation of Councilors at meetings of the World Council are also laid down in
this Directory.

6. The World Council approves the Directories drawn up by the competent bodies at Regional and
Provincial levels.

7. The World Council presents the Rector Major with the procedures by which each Region elects its
World Councilor. These procedures can also be conducted by correspondence.

8. The World Council guarantees animation at the world level by appropriate communication tools in
the Association's main languages.

Article 32 – The Functioning of the World Council

1. So that its activity is smooth and functional, the World Council makes use of a World Executive
Secretariat (WES), made up of the World Coordinator, the World Council Secretary, the World
Council Administrator, the World SDB and FMA Delegates.

2. For the appointment of the World Coordinator, the World Regional Councilors, the World SDB
and FMA Delegates, the World Council offers the Rector Major a list of three names which may
also come from outside the Council.

A secret ballot elects the World Administrator and World Secretary, who may also be chosen from
outside the Council. In the case of members of the Council being elected, the second of those
elected from the Regions they belong to will take up the role of World Councilor.

3. All elected members of the World Council remain in office for six years, and ordinarily will not be
elected for a second consecutive period of six years.

4. The directives of the World Council come into force after their approval by the Rector Major.

5. World Councilors and Delegates emeriti may be invited to work with the Council but without the
right to vote.

Article 33 – The World Congress

1. The World Congress is the highest expression of representation in the Association. It gathers
Salesian Cooperators from all Regions, in unity and communion with the Rector Major, according
to already criteria of participation and modality already defined, from time to time, on the basis of
the specific reasons for the Congress.

The World Congress exists mainly to:

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- Approve modifications to the Project of Apostolic Life,


- Deal with themes of specific interest at world level,
- Establish working guidelines on the themes proposed for the day's agenda,
- Celebrate especially important moments in the life and history of the Association and the
Church.

2. It is up to the Rector Major, following a proposal from the World Council, to determine the theme,
the place and the participants for ordinary and extraordinary World Congresses, entrusting their
organization to the World Executive Secretariat (WES).

Article 34 – Administration of the Goods of the Association

The Rector Major with the World Council administers the goods of the Association at the world level.

He is the competent authority for granting permission to local and provincial councils to carry out acts of
extraordinary administration and alienation, which do not require the intervention of the Apostolic See,
taking into account the dispositions of Article 39 of the Statutes.

Article 35 – Final Dispositions

1. The Salesian Cooperators are bound to respect and implement the current Regulations.

2. So that the principles and prescriptions contained herein may be made flexible and adaptable to
local situations of the Association, the structures of animation and government set out in the
current Regulations can have appropriate Directories, which integrate and/or apply specific aspects
of the Regulations regarding the government and animation of the Centres.

Each Directory is subject to the judgment of the competent Council (local/provincial) which
accepts it by absolute majority of those with the right to vote, and presents it to the immediately
superior Council for definitive approval.

In the case of the Regional Advisory Councils, the Directories will be set out by the Regional
Congress and presented to the World Council for definitive approval. The same process is applied
for approval of modifications to the various Directories

3. The current Regulations may be modified at the initiative of the Supreme Moderator (Rector
Major) of the Association, the World Councilor the Provincial Councils. In whichever case, it is
up to the Supreme Moderator of the Association to approve the initiatives for modification, which
will be then duly published.

4. Proposals for a modification should:

- Offer a clear and detailed presentation of the reasons justifying the modification,
- Define the concrete aims of such modification,
- Indicate the principles it articulates.

The process for making the modification is determined by the World Council under the supervision of the
Rector Major. The proposal for modification must then be approved by an absolute majority of those taking
part in the World Congress, and by the Supreme Moderator of the Association.

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Plenary& Partial Indulgences

Plenary & Partial Indulgences


Plenary& Partial Indulgences

Plenary Indulgences

The Plenary Indulgences granted to the Association of Salesian Cooperators, after the revision made by the
Holy See by the decree of 31 January 1968, are the following:

1. On the day of becoming a member

2. Feast of St. Francis de Sales: 24 January

3. Feast of St. John Bosco: 31 January

4. Feast of St. Joseph: 19 March

5. Feast of St. Dominic Savio: 6 May

6. Feast of St. Mary Domenica Mazzarello: 13 May

7. Feast of St. Mary Help of Christians: 24 May

8. Feast of the Immaculate Conception : 8 December

Condition for gaining the Plenary Indulgences:

1. Confession, Communion an prayers for the Pope’s intentions.

2. Renewal, at least privately, of the promise to observe faithfully the Regulations.

N.B. If the above feasts are celebrated externally on some other day, the Cooperators may gain the
Indulgence either on the day of the liturgical feast or on the day of the external solemnity.

Cooperators can naturally gain other Plenary Indulgences granted to all the faithful by fulfilling only the
first of the two conditions, i.e. without renewing the promise to observe the Regulations.
Plenary & Partial Indulgences

Partial Indulgences

The numerous partial indulgences expressly granted in the past to the Pious Union have not been renewed;
but Cooperators should try to gain those which are extended to all the faithful. It should be remembered in
this connection that partial indulgences are no longer specified as so many days, months or years as in the
past. When it is stated that to some action a partial indulgence is attached, this means:

“Properly disposed faithful who perform an action to which a partial indulgence is attached obtain, in
addition to the remission of temporal punishment acquired by the action itself, an equal remission of
punishment through the intervention of the Church.”

In addition to the partial indulgences attached to pious practices, three general concessions should be
mentioned which relate to acts of piety, charity, and penance,

1. A partial indulgence is granted to the faithful who with some kind of prayer raise their minds to
God with humble confidence, while carrying out their duties and bearing the difficulties of
everyday life.

2. A partial indulgence is granted to the faithful who, motivated by the spirit of faith and compassion,
give of themselves or their goods for the service of persons in need.

3. A partial indulgence is granted to the faithful who, in a spirit of penance, spontaneously refrain
from the enjoyment of things which are lawful and pleasing to them.

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Benefits

Benefits

The Salesian Cooperators share in all the spiritual graces and indulgences granted to the Salesian Religious
except those referring to the Common Life.

They will likewise share in all Masses, prayers, novenas, triduums, retreats, sermons and catechetical
instructions and all the works of charity of the Salesian Religious in any place and any part or the world

They will likewise share in all the Masses and prayers offered every day in the Sanctuary of Mary Help of
Christians in Turin, imploring blessing from heaven upon their benefactors, their families and especially
upon those who make some moral or material offering to support the Salesian works.

The day after the feast of St. Francis of Sales all Salesian Priests shall celebrate Holy Mass for deceased
members. (This Mass is now celebrated on November 5th, on the anniversary of Mama Margaret's death.)
Those who are not Priests will receive Holy Communion and pray five decades of the Rosary.

When a member falls sick let the superior be told about it promptly. He will immediately order special
prayers to be said for him or her. The same will be done, at the death of any Cooperator.
Salesian Calendar

Salesian Calendar
January 15 Blessed Louis Variara, Priest, missionary among the lepers of Colombia

January 23 Blessed Laura Vicuña, Youth, pupil of the Salesian Sisters


[in Canada, January 22]

January 24 St. Francis de Sales, Bishop and Doctor, titular saint of the Salesian Society (Society
of St. Francis de Sales)

January 30 Blessed Bronislaus Markiewicz, Priest, founder of the Michaelite congregations

January 31 St. John Bosco, Priest, founder of the Salesian Society, the Institute of the Daughters
of Mary Help of Christians, and the Salesian Cooperators.

February 1 Commemoration of all deceased Salesians (SDBs)

February 7 Blessed Pius IX, Pope, supporter of St. John Bosco in the founding of the Salesians

February 9 Blessed Eusebia Palomino Yenes, Virgin

February 25 Sts. Louis Versiglia (Bishop) and Callistus Caravario (Priest), martyred in China

March 19 St. Joseph, Patron of the Universal Church

May 6 St. Dominic Savio, Youth

May 13 St. Mary Domenica Mazzarello, Virgin, co-foundress of the Institute of the
Daughters of Mary Help of Christians

May 16 St. Louis Orione, Priest, founder of the Sons of Divine Providence

May 18 St. Leonard Murialdo, Priest, collaborator with Don Bosco in the work of the
oratories, founder of the Josephites

May 24 Mary Help of Christians, principal patroness of the Salesian Society and of the
Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians

May 29 Blessed Joseph Kowalski, Priest and Martyr

June 8 Blessed Stephen Sandor, Religious and Martyr

June 12 Blessed Francis Kesy and Companions, Martyrs

June 23 St. Joseph Cafasso, Priest, Don Bosco’s spiritual director

July 7 Blessed Maria Romero Meneses, Virgin

August 2 Blessed August Czartoryski, Priest and Religious

August 25 Blessed Maria Troncatti, Virgin, missionary in Ecuador

August 26 Blessed Ceferino Namuncurá, Youth, pupil of the Salesians


Plenary & Partial Indulgences

September 22 Blessed Joseph Calasanz (Priest), Henry Saiz (Priests), and Companions (Religious),
Martyrs

October 5 Blessed Albert Marvelli, Salesian past pupil

October 13 Blessed Alexandrina Maria da Costa, Virgin, Salesian Cooperator

October 24 St. Louis Guanella, Priest, founder of the Servants of Charity

October 29 Blessed Michael Rua, Priest, Don Bosco’s first successor

November 5 Mass is celebrated in each Salesian House for all deceased benefactors and members
of the Salesian Family

November 14 Blessed Artemides Zatti, Religious, missionary in Patagonia


[in Canada, November 13]

November 15 Blessed Madeleine Morano, Virgin

November 25 Anniversary of the death of Mama Margaret, Don Bosco’s mother. Mass is
celebrated in each Salesian House for the deceased parents of Salesians.

December 5 Blessed Philip Rinaldi, Priest, Don Bosco’s third successor, founder of the Don
Bosco Volunteers

December 8 Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Birthday of the Salesian work
(1841).

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Devotions, Novenas, and Prayers

Blessings of Mary Help of Christians

Don Bosco himself composed the formula. He requested its approval from Pope Leo XIII. Among the
reasons he gave in his letter to the Pope, Don Bosco wrote: “At all hours of the day the faithful flock to
request this blessing, thus bringing about a great increase of piety, frequently with perceptible advantages
to their spiritual and temporal necessities. The formula of which we speak is made up of prayers already in
use and approved by the liturgy of the Church and benefits the greater glory of God and the Blessed Virgin
Mary.”

Here is the formula of the blessing:

Priest: Our help is in the name of the Lord.

All: Who made heaven and earth.

All: Hail Mary, etc.

Priest: We fly to your patronage, O holy Mother of God despise not our petitions in our necessities, but
deliver us always from all dangers, O glorious and Blessed Virgin.

Priest: Mary Help of Christians.

All: Pray for us.

Priest: O, Lord, hear my prayer.

All: And let my cry come unto You.

Priest: The Lord be with you.

All: And with your spirit.

Priest: Let us pray. Almighty and everlasting God who, by the cooperation of the Holy Spirit, did prepare
the body and soul of the glorious Virgin Mother Mary to become a fit dwelling place for Your Son, grant
that, as we rejoice in her commemoration, we may, by her loving intercession, be delivered from present
evils and from everlasting death.

(The person blessed is sprinkled with holy water by the priest while he says the blessing.)

Priest: May the blessing of Almighty God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit descend upon you and remain with
you forever.

All: Amen.

Every Salesian priest has the privilege of giving this blessing. It should be stressed that, among the
conditions always requisite to obtain graces, the grace we desire is for the good of our soul. Don Bosco
advised the boys: “All the graces you seek from Mary Most Holy will be granted, provided you do not ask
for powers, and must be convinced above all that we owe all to the Virgin Help of Christians.”
Devotions, Novenas, and Prayers

Novena to Mary, Help of Christians

Most Holy and Immaculate Virgin, Help of Christians, Mother of the Church, we place ourselves under
your motherly protection. We promise to be faithful to our Christian vocation and to work for the greater
glory of God and the salvation of our souls, and those entrusted to us.

With faith in your intersession, we pray for the Church, for our family and friends, for youth, especially
those most in need.

You were St. John Bosco’s teacher. Show us how to imitate his virtues: especially his union with God,
his chastity, humility, and poverty, his love for work and for temperance, his goodness and total giving of
self to others, his loyalty to the Holy Father and to the Church.

Grant, O Mary, Help of Christians, the graces of which we stand in need. (Here mention your intentions).
May we serve God with fidelity and generosity until death. Help us and our dear ones to attain the
boundless joy of being forever with our Father in heaven. Amen.

Devotions to Saint John Bosco

St. John Bosco, who wrote the book for youth and who in so many of its pages by his advice and constant
encouragement shows how much he loves all boys, was born on August 16, 1815, and died on January 31,
1888.

From the age of nine, Our Lady began to show him what his life work was to be; but even as a boy Don
Bosco was always helping his companions, getting games going, making things for them, and above all,
keeping them out of mischief and evil. All his life was spent in the same way, working for boys; building
schools, churches, and clubs for them; writing books that would help them to learn more easily and more
willingly, not only their Faith, but also their ordinary lessons.

He loves you very much; have great confidence in him; pray to him often, and he will, help you in all your
temptations and worries. Above all he will help you to save your soul and get safely to heaven.

Prayer to Saint John Bosco

O St. John Bosco, Father and Teacher of Youth, who has worked so much for the salvation of Souls, be
thou are guide in seeking the good of our soul and the salvation of our neighbor. Help us to conquer our
passions and all human respect; teach us to love Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament, Mary, Help of Christians
and our Holy Father the Pope, and obtain for us from God the grace of a happy death, so that we may all be
gathered together with thee in Heaven. Amen.

Invocations and Prayers to Saint John Bosco

That we may be devout to Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament and to Mary, Help of Christians,

St. John Bosco, pray for us.

That we may love youth as you loved them,

St. John Bosco, pray for us.

That we may be constant in our work as you were,

St. John Bosco, pray for us.

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That, following your example, we may ever live united with God.

St. John Bosco, pray for us.

Let us pray.

O God, Who through St. John, the Father and Guide of youth, who placed his trust in the wonderful help of
the Blessed Virgin, dist gather together new communities in Thy Church: we beseech thee, that inflamed
by his charity, we may seek souls and serve Thee alone. Through Jesus Christ, Our Lord. Amen.

Prayers to Saint John Bosco to Obtain Favors

O St. John Bosco, full of confidence I have recourse to thine aid. Be thou my intercessor before the Throne
of God; obtain for me the grace of never falling into mortal sin and of persevering in good works even until
death: furthermore, I beseech thee to obtain for me from God the grace…of which I so greatly stand in
need; but if this would redound to the hurt of my soul, beg for me perfect resignation to the Divine Will.

Our Father. Hail Mary. Glory Be, etc.

Novena to Saint John Bosco

Incline onto mine aid, O God.

O Lord, make haste to help me.

Glory Be to the Father.

1. O glorious St. John Bosco, by the love which thou didst bear to Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament,
and by the zeal with which thou didst spread this devotion, especially by encouraging assistance at
Holy Mass, frequent Communion, and daily visits, obtain for us that we may grow ever more in
the love and practice of devotions so holy, and that we may end our days strengthened and
comforted by the Heavenly Food of the Most Holy Eucharist.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

2. O glorious St. John Bosco, by that most tender love which thou didst bear to the Blessed Virgin
Mary, Help of Christians, who was ever thy Mother and Guide, obtain for us a true and enduring
love towards this sweetest of mothers, whence we may inherit her most powerful protection in life
and especially at the hour of our death.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

3. O glorious St. John Bosco, by that filial love which thou didst bear towards the Church and to the
Pope, whom thou dist constantly defend, obtain for us that we may ever be worthy children of the
Catholic Church, and that we may love and venerate, in the Supreme Pontiff, the infallible Vicar
of Jesus Christ.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

4. O glorious St. John Bosco, by that great love which thou didst bear towards Youth, of which thou
dist make thyself Father and Teacher, and by the heroic sacrifices thou didst bear for its salvation,
obtain for us, that we may love with a holy and generous love this chosen portion of the Heart of
Jesus and that in every child we may see the adorable person of our Divine Savior.

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Glory Be to the Father, etc.

5. O glorious St John Bosco, who for the continuation and wider extension of the apostolate, didst
found the Salesian Society and the institute of the Daughters of Mary, Help of Christians, obtain
for the members of these two religious families that they always be filled with thy spirit, and be
faithful imitators of thy heroic virtues.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

6. O glorious St. John Bosco, who, to obtain in the world more abundant fruits of an active faith and
a most tender charity, didst institute the Union of the Salesian Cooperators, pray that its members
may be ever be models of Christian virtue and providential helpers of they works.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

7. O glorious St. John Bosco, who didst love all souls with an ineffable love, and who, to save them,
didst send thy sons to the ends of the earth, obtain that we may think continually of the salvation
of our own soul, and cooperate in every way in the salvation of the souls of our brethren.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

8. O glorious St. John Bosco, who didst love the Virtue of purity with a love of predilection, and who
didst inculcate it by word, writing, and example, obtain that we too, enamored of so indispensable
virtue, may practice it constantly and diffuse it by every means in our power.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

9. O glorious St. John Bosco, who wert ever so compassionate towards human miseries, look down
upon us, so greatly in need of thy aid; pray that the maternal blessings of Mary, Help of Christians,
may descend upon our families; obtain for us all the spiritual and temporal favors of which we
stand in need; intercede for us in life and in death, so that we, too, eternally may sing the Divine
Mercies in Paradise.

Glory Be to the Father, etc.

The most constant piece of advice that St. John Bosco gave was to make love of Jesus in the Blessed
Sacrament and Our Lady, Help of Christians, the center of Catholic life. These are the two poles on which
the whole world moves, he said. You must try to make them the center of your life. In his dreams, Don
Bosco saw many boys of future who would try to carry out what he has suggested in this little book. Make
sure you are one of them.

To Mary Help of Christians

Most Holy and Immaculate Virgin Help of Christians, we share Don Bosco’s belief that you are the
foundress and guide of the Salesian Family and so we place ourselves with complete trust under your
protection.

Faithful to our Founder’s ideal we promise always to work for the glory of God, for young people
especially those neglected and at risk and for the whole Salesian Family.

You were Don Bosco’s teacher, help us to follow in his footsteps and imitate his humility, his fatherly
kindness and his untiring zeal as a shepherd of souls. Teach us also his good respect for the Holy Faith and
the bishops. Instill in all Cooperators his love for purity, his simplicity of heart and his cheerfulness of
outlook.

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Bless all Cooperators throughout the world. Grant that they may remain faithful to their Promise until
death, may we be given the joy of coming to know you in Heaven, where we shall see you as you are and
join in an unending hymn of praise and thanksgiving to your Son, Jesus and to our Heavenly Rather.
Amen.

Jesus Prayer

Lord Jesus,
You have looked on me and loved me.
You have made me a member of your body, the Church,
And in the Church you have guided me into the family of your disciple St. John Bosco:
Send the Holy Spirit as you promised so that I may truly respond to your love and your calling.

In the light of your Spirit, O Lord,


Free me from doubts;
Show me your face;
Reveal to me the splendour of your kingdom;
Open my eyes to your Presence hidden in the heart of the world.

By the living waters of your Spirit of Grace and Peace, O Lord,


Take away from me sadness and discouragement, the false allurements of riches and deceptive pleasures;
Open my lips in your praise;
Let me share in the joy of your Resurrection, and help me spread that joy wherever I go.

Through the breath of your enthusiasm and strength-giving Spirit, O Lord,


Free me from the fear of putting my life at stake;
Open up the flowing springs of my energy;
Make me ever share my happiness with others;
Help my heart to sympathize with the woes of my brothers;
Help me give my all for the young and poor.

In the ardour of your Spirit of Love, O Lord,


gather to yourself all the members of the Salesian Family in perfect unity,
and grant them increase;
Open up our hands so that we may work in friendship tirelessly and with humility,
that your Church may grow and that we may bring joy to your people;
Help us to form a great uniting bond that will cry aloud the praises of brotherliness.

All for the glory of God our Father.


Immaculate Virgin May, enlighten our minds.

Mary Help of Christians, make us zealous for the Kingdom.

St. John Bosco, pray for us


And help us to say in all truth to the Lord,
“Give me souls: all else is naught.” Amen.

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References

References
Concordance for PAL Statutes

Concordance for Project of Apostolic Life – Statutes

Article 1: The Founder: A Man Sent by God


Page: 52, 154

Article 2: The Salesian Cooperators: A Specific Vocation in the Church


Page: 13, 154

Article 3: The Salesian Cooperators: Salesians in the World


Page: 62, 154

Article 4: A Unique Vocation: Two Ways of Living It


Page: 16, 154

Article 5: The Association in the Salesian Family


Page: 34, 155

Article 6: The Association in the Salesian Family


Page: 59, 155

Article 7: The Witness of the Beatitudes


Page: 44, 156

Article 8: Apostolic Commitment


Page: 41, 156

Article 9: The Task of Christian Education


Page: 68, 156

Article 10: The Pedagogy of Kindness


Page: 71, 157

Article 11: Typical Activities


Page: 54, 62, 157

Article 12: Structures and Ways of Working


Page: 42, 157

Article 13: Brothers and Sisters in Don Bosco


Page: 33, 158
Concordance for PAL Statutes

Article 14: Co-responsibility for the Mission


Page: 48, 158

Article 15: Participation in the Life of the Salesian Family


Page: 34, 158

Article 16: The Ministry of the Rector Major


Page: 79, 158

Article 17: Particular bonds with the Society of St. Francis de Sales and the Institute of the
Daughters of Mary Help of Christians
Page: 34, 159

Article 18: Links with Other Groups of the Salesian Family


Page: 34, 159

Article 19: A Precious Heritage


Page: 30, 160

Article 20: Experience of Committed Faith


Page: 19, 30, 160

Article 21: Apostolic Love Takes Centre Place


Page: 31, 160

Article 22: Salesian Presence in the World


Page: 62, 160

Article 23: Style of Action


Page: 22, 161

Article 24: Style of Relationship


Page: 71, 161

Article 25: Style of Prayer


Page: 22, 161

Article 26: In Communion with Mary and our Saints


Page: 91, 161

Article 27: Entry into the Association


Page: 88, 162

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Concordance for PAL Statutes

Article 28: Value of Belonging


Page: 96, 162

Article 29: Responsibility and Initiatives on Behalf of Formation


Page: 83, 162

Article 30: Faithfulness to Tasks Assumed


Page: 96, 162

Article 31: Leaving the Association


Page: 96, 163

Article 32: The Promise and its Meaning


Page: 95, 163

Article 33: The Organization’s Motivations


Page: 73, 164

Article 34: Flexible Organizations


Page: 73, 164

Article 35: Government and Animation at Local, Provincial and World Level
Page: 73, 164

Article 36: The Local Level


Page: 74, 164

Article 37: The Provincial Level


Page: 74, 164

Article 38: The World Level


Page: 74, 165

Article 39: Administration of the Goods of the Association


Page: 79, 165

Article 40: Final Dispositions


Page: 165

Article 41: A Way to Holiness


Page: 11, 167

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Concordance for PAL Regulations

Concordance for Project of Apostolic Life – Regulations

Article 1: The Salesian Cooperators in the Church


Page: 59, 170

Article 2: The Salesian Cooperators in their Socio-Cultural Reality


Page: 63, 170

Article 3: The Association in Civil and Ecclesial Reality


Page: 63, 170

Article 4: The Structures in Which it Operates


Page: 64, 171

Article 5: Works Run Directly by the Association or by Members of the Association


Page: 42, 171

Article 6: The Family Spirit


Page: 37, 172

Article 7: Co-Responsibility in Action


Page: 55, 172

Article 8: Economic Solidarity


Page: 77, 173

Article 9: Particular Links with the Society of St Francis of Sales and the Institute of the
Daughters of Mary Help of Christians
Page: 38, 173

Article 10: Links with Other Groups of the Salesian Family


Page: 38, 173

Article 11: Style of Action


Page: 27, 174

Article 12: Spiritual Life


Page: 27, 174

Article 13: Entry into the Association


Page: 83, 175
Concordance for PAL Regulations

Article 14: Sense of Belonging


Page: 95, 175

Article 15: Initiatives for Initial Formation


Page: 87, 175

Article 16: Initiatives for Ongoing Formation


Page: 84, 176

Article 17: Formation to the Services of Responsibility


Page: 87, 176

Article 18: Local Centres and their Coordination at Provincial Level


Page: 177

Article 19: The Local Council


Page: 77, 178

Article 20: Main Duties and Roles of the Local Council


Page: 78, 178

Article 21: Tasks and Roles within the Local Council


Page: 179

Article 22: Delegates


Page: 78, 179

Article 23: Specific Tasks of Delegates


Page: 180

Article 24: Organization Of The Province And The Provincial Councils


Page: 180

Article 25: Principal Roles and Tasks of the Provincial Council


Page: 180

Article 26: Tasks and Roles within the Provincial Council


Page: 181

Article 27: Specific Tasks of the Provincial Council


Page: 182

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Concordance for PAL Regulations

Article 28: The Regional Advisory Council


Page: 182

Article 29: The Regional Congress


Page: 183

Article 30: The Ministry of the Rector Major


Page: 183

Article 31: The World Council


Page: 183

Article 32: The Functioning of the World Council


Page: 184

Article 33: The World Congress


Page: 184

Article 34: Administration of the Goods of the Association


Page: 185

Article 35: Final Dispositions


Page: 185

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