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    Week 7 Art-of-the-Pull-Notes

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    OVERVIEW

    #1 Way to Pull More:


    Just ASK!

    (1:10)

    Theories of Pulling

    Front Door Rule Pros Cons


    • Association with other guys she’s • Limits chances to pull that
    walked out with night
    • You are her choice for the night • Platonic pulls
    • Psychological effect of crossing
    back into normal life

    (4:08) Todd’s suggestion: Use FDR if nearing the end of the night (7:56)
    Pulling for Food Pros Cons
    • Easy • Takes a long time
    • Good for quick sets • Limited flexibility to leave
    • Unsexy

    Todd’s suggestion: 1. Get food to go (11:15)


    (9:27)
    2. Avoid heavy food
    3. Avoid waiters

    Good Pull Locations (12:00)


    • Another bar for drinks
    • Cool place to hangout/see something

    Numbers that work

    1 on 1 Ideal 15:46

    2 on 2 Pro: Feel safer with friend 15:59


    Con: Separating the girls for isolation
    Tip: Separate as early as possible

    3 on 3 Very rarely goes down as all girls must be on 18:35

    Uneven 1 guy + 2 girls = hard 20:26


    Numbers 2 guys + 3 girls = harder

    More guys than girls=can work if extra guys are on board

    Takeaway: Numbers matter! (22:00)


    Should You Kiss?

    (23:19)

    Depends…
    Arouses her
    Apparent that pulling = sex
    Avoids platonic pulls

    Key Criterion:
    Will kissing increase or decrease the sexual tension?

    (25:00)

    Todd’s go-to: Give a preview→Kiss a little, but pull back (24:34)

    Finding the RIGHT girl


    Screening for:
    1. Hotness
    2. Logistics
    3. On-ness

    (26:15)
    How to Pull
    (30:08)

    Seed -Introduce hints of pull ideas early on 31:38

    Frame -Make the pull a win for her 32:45

    Qualify -Make her earn the pull 33:10

    Lead -Be the man who says, “Let’s go” 31:13

    The goal is to GET pulled (34:57)


    Important Topics
    Avoiding Red • Let’s go have sex
    Flags • Let’s go to my place
    35:38 Goal: Make it look like it just happened

    Layup Situations • Guy with two girls


    (Night Game) • Stealing buying temperature (less flatteringly… picking up
    scraps)
    37:22 • “I Lost My Friends”

    Pulling from Day • Be patient. More time and multiple venues is typically
    Game necessary
    • Her logistics (i.e. lack of firm plans) are EVERYTHING
    42:49

    Advanced • Pulling too quickly


    Sticking Point • Tip: Escalate outside of bedroom (i.e. balcony or living room)
    44:46

    Unusual Problem • When to pull to her place (47:49)


    Solving • Pulling within the venue (50:06)
    • Pulling groups (solo) (51:10)
    47:49

    Home Game • Escalation outside the bedroom is easier than inside


    • Have a plan with activities to do and where
    52:54
    • Artisan Hotel example (53:50)

    Summary of Key Concepts


    (1:17:00)
    Q&A

    • What do you do if the girl starts getting nervous? (1:01:52)


    • How can you seem like you don’t have an agenda and be present in the moment
    while figuring out logistics? (1:03:15)
    • How long do you wait before escalating at home? (1:04:59)
    • If you don’t have a hotel room, does booking one together kill the momentum?
    (1:06:12)
    • Do you number close when pulling a girl? (1:07:31)
    • Is it better to pull with a taxi/Uber than with your own car? (1:08:56)
    • How do you know when she’s ready to leave the bar? (1:10:45)
    • What do you do if you’re at her place and she says you need to go home? (1:12:40)
    • What do you do if getting resistance to seeding? (1:14:41)
    • If you give a silly excuse to go back to your place, how do you become sexual after
    you’re home? (1:15:22)

    EXERCISES

    1. Plan your pull (56:23)

    Pick the top few venues you go to and plan EXACTLY how you’ll get back to your
    place. Come up with several back up plans as well.

    2. Ask obnoxiously (59:32)

    Every time a girl says something positive, interpret it as her trying to pull you.
    Seed the pull repeatedly.

    Tip: Seed the pull in the negative to make it more effective.

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