Who Am I Assignment Instructions
Who Am I Assignment Instructions
Who Am I Assignment Instructions
” assignment
1. Write short answers to the following question about yourself:
Where do you see yourself ten years from now? (Occupation, civil status,
where you will live etc.)
I see myself having a university degree, hopefully something along the line of social sciences.
I no longer live with my parents and live alone or with someone in an apartment. Hopefully I
have made a name for myself in the magic community and can make a living out of my
creations and performances. I hope to have grown as a person, resulting in me being happy,
comfortable and someone who still follows his moral principles regardless of difficulties.
2. Choose one person from the different social groups you are a member of:
1. Your closest family (parent or sibling)
2. Your closest friends
3. Your extended family (eg a grandparent or cousin)
4. One of your classmates in school
5. A club/team/church you are a member of
3. Ask them the following three questions and record their answers briefly here:
1. How they see you ten years from now? (Occupation, civil status, where you will
live etc)
2. One quality of your they wish they had.
3. One quality of yours they would like to see change.
4. Write short reflections on the following questions, based on the answers you got
from the people you interviewed:
1. Do other people have more knowledge of you than you do about yourself?
Other people may also applaud my actions, but they cannot know why I
performed them in the first place. My parents may congratulate me for being
hard working, but my desire to work hard is based on personal morals and
values which they may not be aware of. The same goes for actions, some may
applaud for having acted kindly in a specific circumstance, but they are
simultaneously unaware to why I performed said action.
All of this goes to show that although actions are viewed and interpreted by all,
morals and principles tend to be more personal resulting in there being a clear
difference between self – knowledge and what others interpret of oneself.
5. Read the information on this website about the different social-self theories
1. Looking-glass self
2. Labeling and labeling bias
3. Social comparison theory
4. Social identity theory
5. Self-evaluation maintenance theory
6. Self presentation
Absolutely - when receiving the answers from my cousin (extended family) it felt
more personal, as he’s known me since I was born, and I’ve always looked up to him.
This can be correlated to the social identity theory, as we are both from the same
social group (our family). I did not interact in the same manner with him as I did with
my friends, especially not with my magic friend from Lund (who I only see a couple
of times per year) conforming to the social identity theory, as I did not present myself
to him in the same manner I would have if he were family.
While speaking to friends and family I was more concerned with personal traits, while
with my magic friend I was additionally curious about how he perceived my magic
abilities, and what he thought my future in the art would look like. This shows an
inclination towards the looking glass self, as I believed that the way someone else
viewed my abilities shaped them.