University of Chakwal

UNIVERSITY OF CHAKWAL
Department of Bs English
Submitted by = Iqra Rasheed
Submitted to = mam Asma
Assignment topic = Marriage in Islam
17/11/2022
Marriage in Islam
Marriage is a Sunnah of Rasulullah s.a.w. In a hadith, Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. said, ‫ُحاَ ِّك لن‬
ِّ ِّْ‫ِحتاف عِّي‬
ِْ‫مَ اْحاَف ِِّتِّنِّ ِ ل‬ ‫“ عِّماحاَف لْ ِّك با رٌ ُا لك لْ ِّ ل ِّْ ِّْ اْ مِ ل‬Marriage is part of my sunnah, and
‫ِحتاف عِّ ِّْ مِ ُِّ مْ ِّْ مف ِّْ مت ُا ل‬
whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me.
Importance of Marriage
“And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female
slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is all-
Encompassing and Knowing.” [24:32]
the Quran establishes marriage as a highly recommended act, conveyed as a priority. This verse
endorses marriage to each and every person who is single, specifically mentioning the quality of
being righteous. This refers to not only having the correct attitude and mindset, but also having
the capabilities necessary to fulfil the responsibilities of marriage. This verse teaches that
wealth should not be considered a source of anxiety nor a barrier to marriage. In some cases
one may find that a suitor is rejected on the basis of wealth and that some families prevent
their children from seeking marriage unless a particular income is earned. However, the
character of a potential spouse is more enduring than wealth.
Wealth is never guaranteed and tends to fluctuate as life goes on. This verse provides assurance
that Allah is ever-aware and a reliable helper. Therefore, marrying or seeking marriage with the
correct intention can open doors. However, if one is in the position of being unable to fulfill the
rights of a potential spouse nor afford necessities required for living, then seeking marriage can
be postponed
Cultivating a Shared Bond

“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and
dispersed from both of them many men and women…” [4:1]
The fourth chapter of the Quran, surah an-Nisa, addresses the mutual rights of human beings
as well as lays the foundation for a sound family life. The opening verse urges mankind to
acknowledge that all human beings share the same roots as descendants of Prophet Adam and
his wife Eve (or Hawa), may Allah be pleased with them.This Quran verse about marriage
signifies the bond between man and woman, as spouses, and as beings created for each other.
“It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in
security with her… ” [7:189]
This verse describes the origin of man and once again conveys the notion that all humans stem
from the same source. Apart from promoting a sense of shared humanity, this verse about
marriage highlights the spiritual bond between spouses. Marriage is a gift for spouses to lead a
life of tranquility and compassion together as described in the Quran. Spouses are meant to be
each other’s companions who share a bond that is secure.
Role of Spouses
“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them…” [2:187]
This particular Quranic verse about marriage describes spouses as clothing or garments. In this
respect, both husband and wife are required to play the same role in the relationship. The
function of a garment is to conceal and protect, therefore, spouses serve as each other’s
protection and shelter. If one is lacking in an aspect, it is the duty of the other to ensure that
this is not exposed to the elements i.e. others outside the marriage.
Being like garments to each other means being present, having each other’s back. If one spouse
is feeling vulnerable, the other spouse is at the ready to wrap their partner in comfort and
support. Another point that this verse addresses is the importance of spending quality time and
fulfilling each other’s rights. Spouses should be active in striving to ensure that the marriage is a
place of trust and confidence. The metaphor of spouses as clothing paints a vivid picture of the
bond and intimacy that underscores a healthy relationship.
Marriage, according to the Quran, serves as a sanctuary and a place of warmth.
Kindness and Fairness to Women

“O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not
make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they
commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them – perhaps you
dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good. But if you want to replace one wife with
another and you have given one of them a great amount [in gifts], do not take [back] from it
anything. Would you take it in injustice and manifest sin?” [4:19-20]
Since marriage is a contract in which both parties mutually agree to various terms and
conditions, including the nature of the dowry and its amount, going back on what is agreed
upon is considered unjust. These verses about marriage intend to protect women from
injustices, signifying that women should not be considered property or objects that men or
their relatives have ownership over. Furthermore, whatever is owned by a woman, including
her dowry or any gifts given to her, cannot be taken back by her spouse nor claimed by his
heirs.
Essence of Marriage
“And those who say, ‘Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our
eyes and make us an example for the righteous.’” [25:74]
This Quran verse about marriage is about those who supplicate for their marriage and on behalf
of their family, with the intention that society at large can derive some benefit from them. It is
described that they will be rewarded in the Hereafter for this supplication and their yearning
for a virtuous and impactful household. This conveys the importance of directing prayers to the
Creator, asking for ease and happiness in marriage, as well as for offspring who are righteous.
This verse teaches the value in having concern for one’s family instead of solely focusing on
one’s own self-betterment, in any area of life, including worship. From this we learn the
significance of not only doing the work to develop as individuals, but to also aim to benefit,
inspire, and uplift others in goodness and virtue. There can only be a ripple effect of goodness
that results from a marriage in which care and consideration underpins the interactions and
even the most private supplications of spouses.
This verse in the Quran also reiterates the notion that spouses should live together in harmony.
The essence of marriage is being able to draw solace from the presence of one’s spouse.
Marriage as a Source of Tranquility

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity
in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people
who give thought.” [30:21]
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) sought his wife Khadijah’s calm and reassuring presence after his
sudden and overwhelming experience receiving the first revelation of the Quran. Spouses
support each other in moments of uncertainty or vulnerability. The verse above affirms the
concept that spouses are created for each other, highlighting the importance of spouses being
people one can find comfort and peace with.
One of the objectives of married life is tranquility, and the key to this is having affection and
mercy. This particular verse in the Quran about marriage describes how Allah places affection
and mercy in the hearts of spouses so that they can live a tranquil life together. The affection
described is much like how the hearts of parents towards their children is filled with a strong
and innate attachment. This nature of love is divinely influenced, in that, God makes it easier to
love and continue loving one’s spouse as time goes by. To be forgiving and empathic enhances
affection and builds a stronger and stable relationship that can endure the trials in life.
Upon establishing marriage, affection and mercy are two positive forces that materialize and tie
two individuals so intimately together that they remain each other’s supporters throughout
life’s ups and downs.
Marriage in the Quran

These Quran verses about marriage reveal that marriage is not restricted to a “legal or
religious” relationship. Marriage is layered in human emotion and is a union woven together
through love, companionship, kindness, compassion, and support. The Quran implores spouses
to treat each other kindly. A secure relationship is achieved by mutual commitment, respecting
each other’s rights, and having sincerity in intentions and efforts.
CONCLUSION
In conclusion, marriage according to the Quran entails building a life that facilitates thriving and
contentment in the relationship itself, which as a result influences a good home environment
for the family, which can thereby contribute beneficially to society at large

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UNIVERSITY OF CHAKWAL

Submitted by = Iqra Rasheed

Submitted to = mam Asma

Assignment topic = Marriage in Islam

Cultivating a Shared Bond

Kindness and Fairness to Women

Marriage as a Source of Tranquility

Marriage in the Quran

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