Bullying (Makalah B.ing)
Bullying (Makalah B.ing)
Bullying (Makalah B.ing)
CHAPTER 1
INTRODUCTION
1. Backround
EXPLANATION
Bullying Can Happen Because :
Lack of attention. The abuser will choose to demonstrate his ability to get
attention. However, with negative treatment of someone who he thinks is not
attractive.
Powerful. Bullies usually want to show that they are powerful and strong so that
their existence is recognized. Thus, he oppresses someone who is weaker than
himself.
Exposure to violence. Sometimes bullies imitate the media they see, or
someone's actions against weak people.
Revenge. Usually the perpetrator has also been a victim of bullying. He did this to
repay what he had felt while being a victim of bullying.
Types Of Bullying
Generally there are several types of bullying that occur in a social environment.
Here's the explanation:
Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is a type of bullying that occurs in cyberspace through social
media. Victims of this cyberbullying sometimes get bullying from someone they
don't know for using fake usernames, as well as the nature of the virtual world
that is free to access. Cyberbullying can be in the form of insults or gossip about
the victim. Victims of cyberbullying will look sad and depressed after accessing
their social media and withdrawing from their social groups.
Physical bullying
One of the most easily recognizable bullying is physical bullying. Usually, victims
of this physical bullying will be willing to accept harsh physical treatment, such
as hitting, pushing, or being pelted by objects. Victims of this bullying will not tell
and admit that he is a victim. If you find someone whose characteristics are like
they've been bullied, don't force them to tell you when they're still under
pressure.
Exclusion
This action is more painful than physical and verbal bullying. The reason is, the
victim will be shunned and antagonized from his social environment so that he
becomes isolated. So the victim will find it difficult to make friends. Usually the
victims of this ostracism are more introverted.
Sexual bullying
Perpetrators will carry out sexual oppression such as teasing, peeking, and even
touching the victim sexually. In addition, sexual harassment includes sharing
photos of victims that are sensual and private, and taking photos secretly for
sexual gratification. This sexual oppression includes sexual harassment or
violence against women. Victims of this sexual oppression will have trauma
when meeting the opposite sex, withdraw from social circles and look depressed.
Verbal bullying
Oppression carried out by words or nicknames can make the victim
psychologically depressed. Usually, the perpetrator will perform this action on
people who have a different physique from their surroundings. So that the victim
will feel insecure, easily offended and become silent.
The practice of bullying does not mean that it cannot be overcome or prevented,
gangs. There are several ways to deal with it. And, you can do this as an effort to
overcome violence in the social environment:
Oppose. Counter the abuser with a brief explanation that what they are doing is
not going to make them good and people are afraid.
Share a story. It's better if you share stories with your friends about bullying
Tell parents. Don't hide anything from your parents, especially those related to
bullying.
Report to the authorities. Immediately report to the authorities about acts of
violence committed by the perpetrators.
Self-confident. Don't feel inferior because the abuser keeps mentioning your
flaws. Believe that you have strengths that they don't see and do physical
exercise to increase your confidence.
Do not be quiet!
Try to reconcile!
Support the victims of bullying so that they can restore their self-confidence and
accompany them to continue to act positively
Talk to the person closest to the bully so they can give attention and input to the
bully!
Report to parties who can be law enforcers in an environment where bullying
occurs, such as school principals & teachers, if teachers or school principals are
the perpetrators, such as community leaders, or law enforcement officers!.
Children who tend to be difficult to socialize, so they are considered lazy children
or more often we hear as "geeky".
Children who have different physical conditions from others, such as being
overweight, too thin, having a different physical shape, such as fink ears, or thick
lips.
Children who tend to be different from other children (coming from affluent
families, very successful but spoiled, less independent or often left behind in
certain fields).
School is a place to gain knowledge, educate the nation's life and hone noble
character for students. So, educators should be able to play an active role in
preventing bullying in ways such as the following.